Sharing the Gift of Encouragement
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It takes feeling encouraged in spirit to share that encouragement with others.
Our world is experiencing a drought of encouraging words, uplifting examples, and genuine expressions of appreciation. Why is it that each of us has such a deep need for encouragement, and yet can find so little of it? Part of the problem is that so few people feel encouraged in their own spirits, and it’s difficult to share something we don’t feel ourselves.
In Sharing the Gift of Encouragement, Dr. Charles Stanley focuses on several key aspects of encouragement, including giving and receiving it and encountering it in the Scriptures. He also teaches on the three things in which encouragement is rooted: God’s love, dignity, and respect.
Each study draws on Dr. Stanley’s many years of teaching the guiding principles found in God’s Word, showing how we can apply them in practical ways to every situation we face.
Each of the ten lessons includes:
- A brief look at what is covered in the lesson.
- A teaching from Dr. Stanley that unpacks the topic of the lesson.
- Application and Bible study questions based on the key points.
- Key takeaways to put into practice today and tomorrow.
Charles F. Stanley
Dr. Charles F. Stanley was the founder of In Touch Ministries and pastor emeritus of First Baptist Church Atlanta, Georgia, where he served more than fifty years. He was also a New York Times bestselling author of more than seventy books. Until his death in 2023, Dr. Stanley’s mission was to get the gospel to “as many people as possible, as quickly as possible, as clearly as possible, as irresistibly as possible, through the power of the Holy Spirit to the glory of God.” This is a calling that In Touch Ministries continues to pursue by transmitting his teachings as widely and effectively as possible. Dr. Stanley’s messages can be heard daily on In Touch with Dr. Charles Stanley broadcasts on television, radio, and satellite networks and stations around the world; on the internet at intouch.org and through In Touch+; and via the In Touch Messenger Lab. Excerpts from Dr. Stanley’s inspiring messages are also published in the award-winning In Touch devotional magazine.
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Sharing the Gift of Encouragement - Charles F. Stanley
INTRODUCTION
Sharing the Gift of Encouragement
This is not an inspirational book; it is a study manual linked to the Bible. While reading, you will refer to your Bible again and again, and I hope that you will freely mark phrases and words that have special meaning to you, or write in the margins what God is speaking to you in your spirit.
Many good inspirational and devotional books are on the market today. I certainly recommend that you read daily from those authors who love God’s Word and help apply it to daily living in an encouraging, inspirational way. The Bible, however, will always remain the most encouraging book ever written. It is the source from which we draw our hope and faith. It is the reference to which we must return again and again to make certain that the words we speak to others are not just idle words that flow from our human desire, but are words that are in line with God’s hopes and desires.
In this study we will be focusing on several key aspects of encouragement. As you read and study the Scriptures as a whole, you will encounter encouragement in action
time and time again. The whole of God’s message on encouragement cannot be contained in a Bible study book or course. It is far too great for that. It is to be found only in a full understanding of all of God’s Word. I trust that you are reading and studying the Bible on a daily basis.
This book can be used by you alone or by several people in a small-group study. At various times, you will be asked to relate to the material in one of these four ways:
1. What new insights have you gained? Make notes about the insights that you have. You may want to record them in your Bible or in a separate journal. As you reflect back over your insights, you are likely to see how God has moved in your life.
2. Have you ever had a similar experience? Each of us approaches the Bible from a unique background—our own particular set of relationships and experiences. Our experiences do not make the Bible true—the Word of God is truth regardless of our opinion about it. It is important, however, to share our experiences in order to see how God’s truth can be applied to human lives.
3. How do you feel about the material presented? Emotional responses do not give validity to the Scriptures, nor should we trust our emotions as a gauge for our faith. In small-group Bible study, however, it is good for participants to express their emotions. The Holy Spirit often communicates with us through this unspoken language.
4. In what way do you feel challenged to respond or to act? God’s Word may cause you to feel inspired or challenged to change something in your life. Take the challenge seriously and find ways of acting upon it. If God reveals to you a particular need that He wants you to address, take that as marching orders
from God. God is expecting you to do something with the challenge that He has just given you.
Start and conclude your Bible study sessions in prayer. Ask God to give you spiritual eyes to see and spiritual ears to hear. As you conclude your study, ask the Lord to seal what you have learned so that you will never forget it. Ask Him to help you grow into the fullness of the stature of Christ Jesus.
Again, I caution you to keep the Bible at the center of your study. A genuine Bible study stays focused on God’s Word and promotes a growing faith and a closer walk with the Holy Spirit in each person who participates.
LESSON 1
Our Need for Encouragement
In This Lesson
LEARNING: WHAT’S SO IMPORTANT ABOUT ENCOURAGEMENT?
GROWING: HOW CAN I FIND ENCOURAGEMENT MYSELF?
Every person I know could use more encouragement—and not just a little more encouragement, but a lot more encouragement. For the most part, our world is experiencing a drought of encouraging words, uplifting examples, genuine heroes, good news
stories, and genuine expressions of appreciation. We hear far more negative words of criticism, blame, and ridicule on a daily basis than we hear positive words of praise, recognition, and thankfulness.
Why is it that each of us has a deep need for encouragement, and yet so little encouragement is to be found? I believe the foremost reason is that so few people feel encouraged in their own spirits. It is very difficult to share with others something that you do not feel yourself. Encouragement is rooted in the following:
God’s love: understanding and believing that God loves you and has forgiven you—completely
Dignity: feeling as if one has a position
in Christ
Respect: feeling as if one has a right to be treated as one of God’s beloved children
Above all, encouragement is grounded in unconditional love. A person needs to feel truly loved for who he is as a unique and valued creation of God; otherwise, he is not going to feel encouraged. Such love must be received regardless of the person’s actions, traits, or accomplishments. It must not be love that is granted for manipulative purposes. It must be love that is both perceived and actively received without any strings or conditions attached.
The prerequisite to encouraging others is to feel encouraged yourself.
The Message of Encouragement
Encouragement has a very basic message: Your past and present do not need to continue into your future. What is a reality today does not need to be what will be the reality of tomorrow. If you are feeling unloved, you can feel love. If you are weighed down under a load of guilt, you can receive forgiveness. If you are wallowing in a cloud of confusion, you can experience God’s wisdom and guidance. If your life is in turmoil, you can have peace in your heart. If you are alone and rejected, you can be accepted and surrounded by genuine Christian friends.
Encouragement is speaking a word of hope. It is expressing to another person the sure certainty that God created you with a great potential for good and that God desires to help you fulfill your potential. Your future can be better than your past or present. You can grow and develop and be ever more transformed into the likeness of Jesus Christ. You can experience greater fulfillment and wholeness than you are presently. You can have an even more abundant life than the one that you presently have.
Those who are discouraged tend to feel that they are locked into their present position—emotionally, spiritually, physically, materially. Encouragement is saying to that imprisoned person, God has the keys to your prison! He can make a way out of your present circumstances and situation where you do not see a way. He can sovereignly change hearts and remove roadblocks.
The message of encouragement is that we can survive the assaults of the devil against our lives, we can endure the persecution that comes our way, we can be victorious over the circumstances that assail us, and in the midst of any kind of trial, trouble, or tribulation, we can know God’s peace and joy. The message of encouragement is a triple-packed message of God’s goodness, the hope that we have in Christ Jesus, and the omnipotent power of the Holy Spirit at work in us, through