Peace and Comfort During Difficult Times
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Let’s face it, we are all living at a very stressful time! Just listening to the evening news at night is discouraging. We hear about wars and rumors of war, as well as weird weather conditions, such as famines and earthquakes. The Lord Jesus Christ prophesied all of these would occur (Matthew 24:6-7) in the years preceding His return to earth. But upsetting events are not limited to media headlines. Each of us has our own private collection of miseries as well. And suddenly your normal routine of life takes on a depressing slippery slide into an emotional abyss. Life is hard! How do you pick up the pieces when your home is destroyed by a tornado? Or when your baby gets sick or injured? Or your loved one is missing and you don’t know whether they are alive or dead? Such events not only cause emotional turmoil, they can also result in physical pain as well. We all know what stress does to the human body. And have you noticed how many new sleeping drugs there are on the market? Worry filled sleepless nights can result in a domino effect that affects work productivity, our relationships with others, and even our financial stability.
So, where do you go when the crisis becomes more than you can bear? Some people will take their troubles to the bottle and become drunk. Others will pig out on food. And, unfortunately, we have too many people who think they can bury their troubles in illegal drugs. But is there any other alternative? This book says there is! It is filled with true life anecdotes about real people who suffered conflicts of immeasurable grief and rose above them with a peace and inner joy that seems unfathomable to the normal human mind. The chapter entitled “When Death Strikes The One You Love” deals with subjects such as the death of an only child, a mother, and a spouse. “Why Do Christians Have To Suffer” talks about unyielding physical and emotional pain. Chapter Three is “Dealing With Discouragement.” It answers the question “If God is love, why is He allowing so much sadness in this world?” The chapter entitled “The Fear Of Death” discusses a diagnosis of terminal cancer. And “Protection In Christ” is about fear for personal safety.
Yet this book is not limited to the big disasters of life. It also deals with the little problems that can ruin your day. They may seem unimportant to others compared to the more serious group, but even a number of small events sometimes seem to blow up out of all proportion. For example, finding a doctor with dedication and compassion, instead of one who blames you for your troubles. Or dealing with an irritating “know it all” who thinks he or she has the answers to all your problems. These subjects are covered in the “Job’s Comforters” chapter. And the last two chapters, “The Mattress Etc.” and “The Joy of Trusting Jesus Christ” provide real life examples from the author’s personal experiences of how, when we put out trust in the Lord, He will turn even the annoyances of life into blessings that bring great joy. For, “...we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28 KJV).
Anne Kaestner
Anne Kaestner is co-founder of Bible Believers Fellowship, Inc. with her husband Eric. She is the Vice President and Executive Director. Anne also functions as Secretary of the Corporation, and is involved in all major Executive decisions. She attends all Board of Directors meetings, as well as any initial and/or important meetings with professionals hired by the Corporation, including legal, banking, and accounting services. Anne runs the office and is also in charge of personnel. Aside from all of this, she has pioneered our efforts to purchase, at a drastically reduced price, the numerous Christian role model books that we distribute free of charge in correctional facilities nationwide. Anne is in charge of spiritual and doctrinal matters, as well as most written communication. Except for an occasional inmate testimony, she does all of the writing for our publication “The Good News Letter,” most of our mass produced literature, and most of our ebooks. She is in charge of all counseling, the majority of which she handles personally. She is actively involved in researching information that will assist us with our newsletter articles and similar literature, including our “Answers To Your Questions” series. Besides this, she personally reads any and all books and screens all videos that we purchase for distribution. And she was the original liaison between the video suppliers and this ministry. She arranged for the BBFI imprint in our role model books and worked to ensure that we receive copyright clearance on all the Christian videos that we distribute to prisons and jails.
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Peace and Comfort During Difficult Times - Anne Kaestner
By Anne Kaestner
Co-Founder of Bible Believers Fellowship, Inc.
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Table of Contents
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Introduction
1 - When Death Strikes The One You Love
2 - Why Do Christians Have To Suffer?
3 - Dealing With Discouragement
4 - The Fear Of Death
5 - Protection in Christ
6 - Job’s Comforters
7 - The Mattress, Etc.
8 - The Joy of Trusting Jesus Christ
About Anne Kaestner
Other ebooks by Anne Kaestner
Connect with Anne Kaestner
Dedication
All books are dedicated to the Lord Jesus Christ who has blessed us in so many ways.
Introduction
Let’s face it, we are all living at a very stressful time! Just listening to the evening news at night is discouraging. We hear about wars and rumors of war, as well as weird weather conditions, such as famines and earthquakes. The Lord Jesus Christ prophesied all of these would occur (Matthew 24:6-7) in the years preceding His return to earth. But upsetting events are not limited to media headlines. Each of us has our own private collection of miseries as well. And suddenly your normal routine of life takes on a depressing slippery slide into an emotional abyss. Life is hard! How do you pick up the pieces when your home is destroyed by a tornado? Or when your baby gets sick or injured? Or your loved one is missing and you don’t know whether they are alive or dead? Such events not only cause emotional turmoil, they can also result in physical pain as well. We all know what stress does to the human body. And have you noticed how many new sleeping drugs there are on the market? Worry filled sleepless nights can result in a domino effect that affects work productivity, our relationships with others, and even our financial stability.
So, where do you go when the crisis becomes more than you can bear? Some people will take their troubles to the bottle and become drunk. Others will pig out on food. And, unfortunately, we have too many people who think they can bury their troubles in illegal drugs. But is there any other alternative? This book says there is! It is filled with true life anecdotes about real people who suffered conflicts of immeasurable grief and rose above them with a peace and inner joy that seems unfathomable to the normal human mind. The chapter entitled When Death Strikes The One You Love
deals with subjects such as the death of an only child, a mother, and a spouse. Why Do Christians Have To Suffer
talks about unyielding physical and emotional pain. Chapter Three is Dealing With Discouragement.
It answers the question If God is love, why is He allowing so much sadness in this world?
The chapter entitled The Fear Of Death
discusses a diagnosis of terminal cancer. And Protection In Christ
is about fear for personal safety.
Yet this book is not limited to the big disasters of life. It also deals with the little problems that can ruin your day. They may seem unimportant to others compared to the more serious group, but even a number of small events sometimes seem to blow up out of all proportion. For example, finding a doctor with dedication and compassion, instead of one who blames you for your troubles. Or dealing with an irritating know it all
who thinks he or she has the answers to all your problems. These subjects are covered in the Job’s Comforters
chapter. And the last two chapters, The Mattress, Etc.
and The Joy of Trusting Jesus Christ
provide real life examples from the author’s personal experiences of how, when we put out trust in the Lord, He will turn even the annoyances of life into blessings that bring great joy. For, ...we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose
(Romans 8:28 KJV).
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Chapter One
When Death Strikes The One You Love
The Girl Who Hated God
In October of 1988, my husband and I were on vacation in Massachusetts and had gone to Salem for the day. That evening, we decided to eat dinner at a nice restaurant in the heart of the city. It was in the ladies room of the restaurant that I saw another customer, a woman in her early thirties. She had spoken to me first, complimenting me on a sweater I was wearing. Nevertheless, I realized that there was something desperate about her. I hadn’t intended to witness to her because she seemed unstable, but I offered her a little tract and instantly she became annoyed. Just tell me what that says,
she replied, belligerently. I don’t want to read it.
I began to relay the message of salvation but before I got any further than the love of God, she became even angrier. Don’t tell me that God loves me,
she replied, her eyes blazing. I loved my mother so much and I prayed so hard that God would let her live and yet she died when I was twelve years old. If God loves me why would He let my mother die?
Obviously this wasn’t a good time to answer such a complex question, so all I got out before being interrupted was, Because of eternity...
The anger flashed in her eyes as I tried once again to tell her that God loves her, and when I tried to touch her hand in a comforting way, she became downright hostile. Don’t touch me,
she screamed. I don’t want your filthy hands on me. Who wants your cooties?
She looked like she was thinking about hitting me. But the more she grew angry at God and at me, the more hurt I could see in her. It was the pain talking. And the love of God welled up in me and I had the most incredible feeling of concern and compassion toward her that I knew was coming from the Holy Spirit inside of me. So, I stood my ground, and I decided that even if she had hit me, I would have just kept loving her, and telling her how much Jesus loves her. Eventually something broke, and she was nearly in tears. She stopped for a second and said, Give me a hug.
I hugged her for only a couple of seconds when she pulled away again and reverted back to her anger. She ran out of the bathroom on the verge of tears. She’d been hating God so much that she couldn’t bear to hear how much He loves her.
Many people fall into this category. God allowed someone they loved to die, and it made them bitter toward Him. They can’t comprehend how a God of love would take away the person who means so much to them, (Genesis 22:1-18). The problem is that most folk don’t understand God or eternity. For we humans only see the past and present, but we cannot see into the future. God sees the past, present, and future! He not only sees what we will become in Him, He also knows how our life, and our death, will affect others. Missionaries have been killed many times for this reason. I’ve been reading a book entitled John and Betty Stam.
It is about a young missionary couple who were led by God to China. They were only 27 and 28 years old, and Betty had just given birth to a baby girl. Many times, when someone is strong in their relationship with God, the Lord prepares that person for death, by letting them know that He is planning on bringing them home to Heaven.
Simon Peter knew that his departure was short to arrive (2 Peter 1:10-15), as did Paul (2 Timothy 4:6-8). Likewise, John Stam knew that God was about to call him home, and his young wife with him. It was certainly on his mind because he wrote an Easter article for a student magazine on the theme of ...unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds
(John 12:24 NIV). En route to their place of execution, the Communist leaders who held the Stams, stopped off at a small post office with their captives. The clerk asked John where they were heading, and John responded, looking at the Communist soldiers, I don’t know where they’re going, but we’re going to Heaven.
They went to their violent and bloody death with ...the peace of God, which transcends all understanding...
(Philippians 4:7 NIV).
Grandma’s Faith
My paternal grandmother had that type of peace when she died. She was only twenty-four years old when she became widowed with two small boys and a third, my father, was on the way. She had been left nearly destitute during the Great Depression. In those days there were no government programs to provide money or food stamps for her. Her name was Anna Riccio. Her parents were immigrants to America from Italy, but she and her sons were born in the United States. Anna’s husband, Angelo, had left his farm in Calabria, Italy, and had traveled to the United States in search of a better life. He and Anna had married when she was only nineteen. Angelo learned English well enough to get a good paying job as a machinist, and things looked good for the family, especially when they discovered that their third child would be born close to Christmas. Then disaster struck and Angelo caught Spanish Influenza. But he worried about supporting his family, and continued to go to work even when he was desperately ill. Then he caught Pneumonia and died while still in his thirties. Anna had no one to turn to. Her mother had passed on several years earlier and her father and other relatives were as poor as she was. She tried to find solace in her religion, but that didn’t work either. The church soon discovered that Anna no longer had any money to pay tithes, and that she was so busy trying to support her family that she couldn’t get involved in fundraising activities. The final insult came when one of the nuns told Anna’s oldest son one day, Tell your mother that if she can’t afford to support the church, she can’t afford to be Catholic.
No mother, no husband, no financial resources, no job, no government help, no relatives to turn to, no church. All doors seemed to be closing to Anna, but that did