From Shame to Beauty (Women of the Word Bible Study Series)
By Marie Powers and Jane Hoyt
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From Shame to Beauty (Women of the Word Bible Study Series) - Marie Powers
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Chosen edition published 2014
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Previously published by Regal Books
Originally published in 1998 in the Aglow Bible Study series as Shame: Thief of Intimacy.
Ebook edition originally created 2013
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To my husband, Jim,
whose courage in breaking through his
own walls of shame in order to walk in
relationship has been an example to many,
especially our children.
CONTENTS
Foreword
Introduction
How to Start and Lead a Small Group
1. Contributors to Shame
2. Characteristics of Shame
3. Cause and Covers for Shame
4. Contagion of Shame (Part One)
5. Contagion of Shame (Part Two)
6. Cure for Shame (Part One)
7. Cure for Shame (Part Two)
8. Cure for Shame (Part Three)
From Shame to Beauty Leader’s Guide
FOREWORD
One day as Peter and John were about to enter the temple to pray, they came upon a man lame from his mother’s womb. He was carried to the temple gate called Beautiful and there asked alms of those who were entering. Seeing Peter and John, of course the man asked for alms. Little did he realize that what he was about to receive was far beyond a few shekels to help sustain his weak, weary body just to get it through one more day.
Silver and gold I do not have,
Peter responded, but I have something greater, something that will go to the core (source) of your lameness and bring wholeness to your life. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise up and walk.
Immediately the lame man received strength (see Acts 3:1-10).
The man wasn’t lame because of a recent illness, such as a degenerative disease. Nor was he lame due to an accident that caused him to stumble. He came into the world lame. He was lame from his mother’s womb! He entered the world without strength, without the ability to live life in a healthy way. In a sense, he came into the world a beggar. And this is how we have all come into the world.
Because of the fall of man, we all know a certain crippledness
that hinders us from living life and from walking in the true joy of healthy relationships with God and with others. In this study, Marie identifies a profound form of our crippledness, and brings us through to a place of healing.
Through the pages of this study, you will see yourself again and again. As you read, you will hear the truth of God’s Word spoken clearly to your heart, saying, In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise up and walk
(Acts 3:6).
I pray that as surely as the lame man at the Beautiful Gate received strength and wholeness, you, too, will find yourself leaping and praising God for your newfound health and vitality.
Jane Hansen-Hoyt
International President
Aglow International
INTRODUCTION
Two Kinds of Shame
LEGITIMATE SHAME
A major principle in God’s master plan is that His people would walk in the light, a foundational condition for true fellowship (see 1 John 1:7). He intends that His people be open, honest, transparent, and free of masks and other self-protective strategies that keep us hidden from one another. Such was the figurative description of Adam and Eve before sin entered the world. They were naked and were not ashamed (see Genesis 2:25).
Then came the Fall.
God’s first two humans disobeyed God’s specific command. They sinned and knew they were naked. In fear and shame they scrambled to hide themselves. Frantically they sewed fig leaves together to cover themselves from each other. Then they hid from God (see Genesis 3:8).
Thus, the terrible consciousness of shame entered the human soul. As traumatic and awful as it was to experience, their sense of shame caused a good thing. Good because it alerted them to the guilt of their sin and caused them to admit their failure. Good because it opened the door for God to provide a covering for their nakedness—a foreshadowing of Jesus’ death for us on the cross—that would be an eternal solution instead of the pitiful efforts of their own hands (see Genesis 3:21).¹