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    Unfemininism
    Unfemininism
    Unfemininism
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    Unfemininism

    By R. R. Rosen

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    Are you wondering why you cannot find a happy relationship?

    Are you divorced?

    Did you work and your husband work and then one day, he said he is not in love with you anymore?

    Or did you leave him because he was not sharing in domestic duties?

    Are you a go-getter and find that men are afraid of you?

    Do you want a traditional relationship but cannot find a man who does too?

    Do you want children?

    Unfemininism is the first book in a series by R. Rosen on why modern relationships are breaking down, and why divorce rates are higher than in the past.

    The original purpose of marriage was for a man to secure a woman to bear children, and do domestic work. In return, the woman would have a home, children, and a secure environment to raise them.

    Nowadays, with the implementation of Femininism into our first world society, women can now work and men can now be house-husbands.

    That is all good, except how come divorce rates are so high?

    Feminism did some good things but also undid some good things. For example, nowadays women who want to just be mothers and not work, are now regarded as “lazy” and “dependent”. What was normal 100 years ago, has changed. In the meantime, men feel under appreciated and unloved and not needed, and so, more than ever, they're reluctant to settle down.

    Women on the other hand have become aggressive, and now do not need men to raise children, more than ever.

    Inside Unfemininism you will learn how feminism has effected our society through my philosophical lenses; why you should understand the new circumstances; and what you can do to ensure you too find your niche, and a happy relationship.

    The next book is called Commitmentphobia and Ambigudating, and it will continue where Unfemininism leaves.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherBookBaby
    Release dateSep 30, 2014
    ISBN9781483537566
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      Unfemininism - R. R. Rosen

      Unfemininism

      TOC \o 1-3

      Preamble       PAGEREF _Toc \h 4

      An Introduction       PAGEREF _Toc1 \h 7

      Where is my knight on a white horse?       PAGEREF _Toc2 \h 10

      The glorious 90s       PAGEREF _Toc3 \h 14

      The undercover Tomboy       PAGEREF _Toc4 \h 17

      What Feminism did for men       PAGEREF _Toc5 \h 20

      What is my role in life?       PAGEREF _Toc6 \h 22

      Sticking to stereotypes (and how it still backfired): How my daughter happened       PAGEREF _Toc7 \h 28

      How Feminism only did half the job and undid the other half       PAGEREF _Toc8 \h 35

      Gender Roles        PAGEREF _Toc9 \h 37

      The Biological Imperative       PAGEREF _Toc10 \h 38

      How Feminism emancipated men more than women        PAGEREF _Toc11 \h 43

      The problem men have with women that have a successful career       PAGEREF _Toc12 \h 47

      The problem women have being sexually liberated women (the male benefit)       PAGEREF _Toc13 \h 49

      Now, just as a woman can decide to work and earn her keep, and not have children, so too can men choose not to be pressured to choose a wife and raise a family.       PAGEREF _Toc14 \h 53

      Women’s careers either flourish, or perish - still.       PAGEREF _Toc15 \h 55

      If Feminism did not give women the true freedom to be women, then what happens to these women who choose to have children?        PAGEREF _Toc16 \h 57

      Feminism. What happened?        PAGEREF _Toc17 \h 58

      Final Conclusion? Feminism - nice try, but you missed a few things!        PAGEREF _Toc18 \h 59

      Why this affects your ability to date now       PAGEREF _Toc19 \h 59

      The EBAY of shopping for Romance       PAGEREF _Toc20 \h 60

      What to remember when you are looking for a relationship       PAGEREF _Toc21 \h 62

      Men can have sex without attachment or commitment, even more so now that women have been sexually liberated.       PAGEREF _Toc22 \h 62

      Men no longer need (or feel the need) to Pick up the tab for women because women can earn their own money (even though women still technically earn less overall).       PAGEREF _Toc23 \h 65

      The stricter enforcement of laws around child support has caused men to fear commitment more than ever before, leaving many women childless as a result.       PAGEREF _Toc24 \h 66

      When women act like men, men feel futile and useless; they can also find it unattractive       PAGEREF _Toc25 \h 68

      The Final Conclusion:       PAGEREF _Toc26 \h 70

      Want the Cheat Notes? Here you go.       PAGEREF _Toc27 \h 74

      Preamble

      After circulating my first few drafts of this book among friends, I received some criticisms. These criticisms were that the more emotional and male perspectives were not included; that I should have been more descriptive; and that this book was confusing because it seemed to be both an examination of a social phenomenon and an autobiography. As I was going through yet another edit and revision of the original draft, I decided to write this preamble to address these criticisms.

      My original intention was to gather all of my ideas on relationships into one book but now I intend to write a series of books. The thesis in the original draft was confused because I did not have a logical progression between ideas. The original book was called, Commitmentphobia and Ambigudating but I found that trying to connect the idea of Feminism with the anxieties of Commitmentphobia and Ambigudating", too wide a reach. I soon realized that I had to start with why I have found the ideology of Feminism, and its integration into our society, problematic for those of us who are looking to have relationships now, and then explain the modern anxieties that this has been creating which prevents us from having happy relationships. Because my original thesis was confused that is why I decided a series would be useful: in the first book, I discuss the foundations of the problems that I see in relationships and where they stem from, and then discuss in more detail how these create anxieties that further keep us from relationships or that keep us from having fulfilling and happy relationships. In this book, I am using my own story as a case study of a larger phenomenon.  Thanks to this preamble, I now have responded to one of the criticisms: this is not an autobiography; but by reflecting on my own experiences I hope to explain a larger phenomenon (the effects of Feminist Ideology on my generation).  After this book, I plan to discuss two issues or phenomena and how they are new for our era. These two issues phenomena are Commitmentphobia and Ambigudating, and I will then explain how they are directly tied into Feminist Ideology and the breakdown of modern relationships.

      These next books (or one book) that I plan to write will get into relationships and the anxieties that destroy them. By the end of the next book I will hopefully address the criticism that this particular book does not include emotionality or much of the male perspective.

      In redrafting the new version of Unfemininism before publication, I have been trying to clarify these criticisms by expanding more, wherever possible, and to add more details from the male perspective. I think however that since I am a woman, writing from the female perspective, I cannot fairly discuss the male perspective in great detail.

      For my next books, I wish to invest more time in discussions with men to combat my own subjectivity. For now, I am moving forward with what I have written.

      I hope my preamble helps prepare you for what you are about to read, and any further criticisms that you may have as well.

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