Dead Bedroom Resurrection (The Sexless Marriage Solution)
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Are you tired of being in a relationship where sex no longer exists? Are you tired of resentful, passive-aggressive behavior, sexual rejection, and circular arguments? Do you want to repair your relationship and resurrect your dead bedroom?
Whether the sex in your relationship has merely declined or has stopped completely, Dead Bedroom Resurrection is the ultimate guide to fix the problem whether you are a man or a woman.
In this book you will learn:
- How to turn your sexless marriage/relationship around and create a more fulfilling physical and emotional connection with your partner.
- Tips to reignite and rekindle sexual desire.
- How to effectively deal with passive aggressive behavior, resentment, and toxic emotions.
- Communication strategies to improve those difficult, heart wrenching conversations that seem to go nowhere fast.
- All that and so much more!
At its heart this is a book about relationships; their maturation, their evolution, their dysfunction, and curing what ails them. Anyone whose been in, or is currently in a relationship will benefit from this book.
A dead bedroom will only get worse as time goes on which is why you must take action.
Time is of the essence. Take control, download "Dead Bedroom Resurrection" now!
Quinn Covington
I'm Quinn. I love to delve into interpersonal issues and provide solutions to the most vexing of problems. I enjoy helping others succeed. A great deal of my inspiration comes from my past experiences (successes and failures). I believe that every problem is like a Rubik's cube; no matter how difficult the situation that presents itself is, there is always an optimal solution. I hope my books help you and I wish you the best! Thank you for your support!
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Reviews for Dead Bedroom Resurrection (The Sexless Marriage Solution)
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A really great read. Intimacy everyday or regular intimacy is a MUST for relationships.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Overall a decent book. I have a feeling though that there is a huge judgmental aspect by the author. His tone toward some aspects is almost confrontational. It made it difficult to read at parts.
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Dead Bedroom Resurrection (The Sexless Marriage Solution) - Quinn Covington
Dead Bedroom Resurrection
By
Quinn Covington
Copyright 2013
Contact: MrQuinnCovington@gmail.com
This is dedicated to the men and women of the world struggling with a lack of sexual activity in their relationships. I know personally this struggle. It is my sincerest hope that you find success within these pages. I am confident that you will.
Quinn Covington
Thank you for downloading Dead Bedroom Resurrection.
You have made a significant, positive investment toward turning your relationship around. In this book you will learn the causes of a sexless marriage, how to determine them and how to fix them. We will first go over the topics that lead to the issue so that you will be aware of and understand the core psychology behind them; we will then go about solving the problem in a methodical way.
This book has been divided into multiple segments for ease of navigation as there is a lot of material to cover, some extends beyond the bedroom but are important tangents for individuals dealing with this difficult issue. All of it is important in the grand scheme. Take notes if you have to, just like anything in life, it will be a learning process.
Included deeper in the book is a flow chart that will lead you along the path toward resurrection starting with the cause you will diagnose. I have included images in this document, but also links to a web repository that will make sure the picture will be viewable for your reference. Let’s get started!
The Segments are listed here:
Introduction & My History With Dead Bedroom
My Libido Doesn’t Like Your Libido
The Gradual Death of Desire
Resentment: There Is No Greater Poison
Passive Aggressive Personalities
Damn Your Cheatin’ Heart
The Hope of Counseling
Divorce Your Thoughts on Divorce
Trust, Communication & Compromise
Dead Bedroom Solution Flowchart
Caused By Other Factors
Mismatched Libido
Psychological Stress
Medical Issues
Side Effects of Medicine
Sexual Shame & Fear
Secret Desires
Alcohol & Drug Abuse
Caused By Priority Shift
Re-establish Romance & Sex
Have The Talk
Work Towards a Solution
Caused By Resentment
Prioritize Emotional Connection
Re-evaluation of Sexual Needs
Help Your Partner With Resentment
Caused By Infidelity
Conclusion
Weblink to flowchart
Introduction & My History With Dead Bedroom
Dead Bedroom. Two simple words equating to one of the most complicated and painful emotional situations a relationship can devolve into. It is the point in time in a relationship where a couple has sex 10 or fewer times a year. Some stop having sex completely, their libidos being vacuumed out by the negativity and pain that exists within the relationship.
It is the antithesis of a functional relationship. Its pain and misery bring out the worst in human nature as its causes are rooted in deeply negative and poisonous emotions like resentment, anger, jealousy and shame. Worse yet, these emotions seem to have no resolution.
Men and women across the world suffer from dead bedrooms, their causes varied. It is a sad fact but it’s true. It isn’t readily talked about. Who wants to talk about their sexless, emotionally vapid marriage? It’s not quite the hot dinner topic these days. In fact this topic causes shame and embarrassment for sufferers. Most have no idea how to solve the issue.
They confront their partners about the lack of sex only to worsen the situation. They seek therapists only to be disappointed, the root cause of the sexless marriage never being fully uncovered. Sexual gratification is replaced with rejection, sorrow and low self-esteem. Past transgressions dominate the present never allowing the couple to construct a future. They feel unworthy, unlucky, angry and frustrated.
I am Quinn Covington; a onetime sufferer of a dead bedroom. I understand the pain of it because I went through it. It is a devil of a problem to get a hold of. But I believe it is possible to prevent and solve this painful situation with the approach I have developed. Through my pain and the emotional destruction I endured came a positive approach to this dilemma that has helped many people, myself included. I practice what I preach in my relationships with women and I reap the rewards. It is a universal approach to solving a sexless relationship that starts at the core issue and works from the bottom up creating a lasting cure rather than a temporary band-aid.
Together we will take a path through the pain and come to a solution by following these simple steps:
Determine the true cause of the sexless relationship.
Is it unrelated to the status of the relationship and caused by something obvious and easy to fix (side effects of medicine, stress, depression, etc)?
Has sex been lowered in priority compared to work, family, and other responsibilities?
Are resentment and painful emotions to blame?
Once the cause is determined you can follow the flow chart within the book to determine the course of action to solve the problem.
First and foremost you must recognize that a true and lasting solution to this problem will come from the bottom up. You must rebuild the foundation of the relationship and reconnect emotionally before anything else.
Once the emotional connection is repaired, only then can the sexual connection be mended. It is not a quick fix, but it is a lasting solution that will solve your sexless relationship for good.
Like many of you I was bewildered and frustrated, unable to think clearly during this period of my life. Thinking clearly and maintaining composure without reigniting the circular arguments is a critical step towards recovery. A sexless marriage works on a negative feedback loop, that once started must be recognized to stop.
I feel fortunate enough to realize that although my situation was painful it wasn’t my fault. It wasn’t her fault. It was our fault. We let our relationship slip away, we were too stubborn to admit when we were wrong, and too stubborn to let the other have their way every once in a while. Together we created a climate of sadness, and let me tell you, it rained tears. We let pride block happiness. We chose to argue and build an ocean of resentment rather than accepting each other for who we were and sailing through the stormy, white tipped seas together.
It is critical to take ownership of your own shortcomings and to have a clear picture of how you contribute to the problem. It may be easy to blame our partners without shouldering any of the responsibility but it’s not realistic. Self realization is important to this process. Without it, no matter how much your partner tries, if you aren’t willing to take the same steps a true solution won’t be found.
It was about two years after I was married that I was face to face with the following axiom, The sex life you have before you are married is the one have after you married.
I realized that any attempt by my ex wife to convince me otherwise was a lie, as nothing changed. She claimed she was uncomfortable
with pre-marital sex and that the frequency of it would increase once we were married. It never became more frequent as she suggested it would for one simple fact: she was uncomfortable with sex, period.
At about 3 years in the levee broke. Her mental hall of records now overflowing with resentment, she was unable to shred the past to make room. It all started with this phrase, Babe, I’m not in the mood tonight. Tomorrow, I promise.
Tomorrow came, and tomorrow went. I followed up and in response, Sorry babe, I am on my period.
A week later I followed