Why You Gossip About Others
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Gossip – Why You Gossip About Others is an eye-opening book that reveals new research about why you gossip about others. The author presents the normal view that mental practitioners understand about gossiping and bullying but then presents new research that is simply mindboggling. This book studies gossip in general, the hit program called the gossip girls, analyzes gossip girl gossip, talks about the latest gossip on this trends, identifies gossip sites, talks about new gossip, and studies gossiping in general. Written by one of the nation’s leading behavioral scientists, Dr. Leland Benton is the author of over two dozen self-help books and nonfiction behavioral science texts. He is a best-selling Amazon author with over 200-books published on Amazon alone. You need to read this book. It is the ninth book of Dr. Benton’s “Why” series of books.
Dr. Leland Benton
Dr. Leland Benton is Director of Applied Web Info, a holding company for ePubWealth.com, a leading ePublisher company based in Utah. With over 21,000 resellers in over 22-countries, ePubWealth.com is a leader in ePublishing, book promotion, and ebook marketing. As the creator and author of "The ePubWealth Program," Leland teaches up-and-coming authors the ins-and-outs of today's ePublishing world. He has assisted hundreds of authors make it big in the ePublishing world. Leland also created a series of external book promotion programs and teaches authors how to promote their books using external marketing sources. Leland is also the Managing Director of Applied Mind Sciences, the company's mind research unit and Chief Forensics Investigator for the company's ForensicsNation unit. He is active in privacy rights through the company's PrivacyNations unit and is an expert in survival planning and disaster relief through the company's SurvivalNations unit. Leland resides in Southern Utah.
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Why You Gossip About Others - Dr. Leland Benton
Introduction – In a War of Words There Are never Any Victors Only Losers
Gossip is a cruel form of bullying and I will discuss in detail in this book why people gossip and how to overcome the gossip when it is about you.
Beginning in Chapter 2 thru 5 I will present to you a series of articles that represent how the mental practitioners today view gossiping. In other words this is the norm or what we call in science the placebo
of today’s views on gossiping.
Chapter 2 – Gossip & Rumors: Why People Do It
Chapter 3 – Gossip & Rumors: Why It Hurts & Why It’s Wrong
Chapter 4 – Gossip & Rumors: Breaking the Chain
Chapter 5 – Gossip & Rumors: When the Rumor’s About You
Then, beginning in Chapter 6, I will present our current research conducted by my Applied Mind Science research facility. For over a year, we conducted a series of studies to determine the true causes of gossiping and bullying and what we found is truly amazing. But in order to really understand our findings, I need you to study closely Chapter 1, which is the foundation chapter that appears in all of my Why
series of books.
Our studies were triggered by the recent spate of bullying and the resulting violence of mass murders. Our children today are under assault and it is mandatory that we get to the bottom and root causes of these problems.
In my book, Bully America,
I address the act of bullying in detail so in this book I will be directing the focus on gossiping.
Bully America
\The question of why
has been a part of the conscience of man since the dawn of time. It has caused us to seek answers, better solutions, invention, progress, increased knowledge and more.
But more often than not, most of our questions of why
now centers on personal behavioral traits and habits that perplex us and cause us consternation and regret.
Candidly, most people have no idea why they do the things they do so in this book – the ninth book in the Why
series of books – I am going to explain in detail why you gossip and bully and how to stop it.
The subsequent books in this series will deal with specific behavioral traits and target certain conditions that really are bothersome. To wit:
Why You Are Greedy
Why You Are Immoral
Why You Are In Debt Up To Your Eyeballs
Why You Are Lonely
Why You Are Unhappy
Why You Fail In Relationships
Why You Get Angry
Why You Gossip About Others
Why You Have Bad Habits
Why You Lie, Cheat & Deceive
Why You Overeat
Why You Procrastinate
Why You Smoke
In all of the books of this Why
series, Chapter 1 always begins with Laying a Proper Foundation
and deals with the mechanism of the human mind and how the mind functions both conscious mind and subconscious mind. This is a very important chapter and as I said previously, please study this chapter closely.
I will then teach you how to change the subconscious mind’s belief systems. In other words, the Introduction and Chapter 1 will appear in the entire Why
series of books as the foundation. From Chapter 2 on, I will then discuss each book’s specific topic in detail.
It is important to note that there is no such thing as personal
versus commercial
behavioral science.
The human mind uses the same mechanism in both personal situations as well as commercial.
The way each individual employs their respective psyches is what is different.
For example; we all have cars but we all have different driving habits and drive cars differently.
Hence, in a personal situation, i. e. relationships or a commercial situation, i.e. addicted to shopping, the human mind employs the same mechanism and the corrective protocols used to correct any of the situations described in the Why
series of books will be similar.
So let’s get to it…
Chapter 1 - Laying A Proper Foundation
In all of my Why
series of books, I will provide the following discourse on the Human Mind in order to lay a proper foundation to what I am about to teach.
The Mechanism of the Human Mind
Prior to the fall of man into sin as described in the Garden of Eden, man’s spirit was hooked to God’s infinite spirit. There was no death because God’s spirit is infinite. Man is the only animal on earth that shares the eternality nature of God. The subject of eternal life has been a heated topic of man from the beginning of our existence.
In Greek mythology, there’s a story about a mortal youth named Tithonus. Aurora, the goddess of dawn, fell in love with the boy and when Zeus, the king of the gods, promised to grant Aurora any gift she chose for her lover, she asked that Tithonus might live forever. But, in her haste she forgot to ask for eternal youth, so when Zeus granted her request, Tithonus was doomed to an eternity of perpetual aging as a grouchy old man… forever.
In the movie Highlander,
Angus McLeod was born in 1518 as an immortal being. He could not die and to me, the best part of the movie was the depiction of this immortal's agony here on earth as he watched everything he loved die forcing him to begin his life over and over again. He saw all of the ugliness, which man had caused over four centuries. He witnessed the Spanish Inquisition, Waterloo, the atrocities of the Third Reich, and more. He saw the slavery and bigotry of the eighteenth century, the slaughter of the Native American tribes after the Civil War. This man's life was a living Hell!
There is a very big difference between the ways our feeble minds picture eternal life versus God’s idea of eternal life. Our understanding comes from Quantum