30 Days to Victory Through Forgiveness
By Tony Evans
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From bestselling author Dr. Tony Evans, author of Victory in Spiritual Warfare comes a month-long journey to overcoming unforgiveness.
It happened so long ago....and yet here you are, still harboring unforgiveness for that devastating offense. Maybe it was a loved one who betrayed you...or someone you barely knew. Perhaps it's even God you're still blaming for your bitterness.
The good news is that you no longer need to hold on to that festering wound. In just 30 days, you can be free from that heavy weight of offense you've carried so long.
Allow Dr. Evans to come alongside and gently lead you through some specific steps to victory over unforgiveness. All you have to lose is your pain.
Tony Evans
Tony Evans is the founder and senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, Texas, founder and president of the Urban Alternative, former chaplain of the NFL’s Dallas Cowboys, and present chaplain of the NBA’s Dallas Mavericks. His radio broadcast, The Alternative with Dr. Tony Evans, can be heard on nearly 1,000 US radio outlets daily and in more than 130 countries. For more information, visit TonyEvans.org.
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30 Days to Victory Through Forgiveness - Tony Evans
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INTRODUCTION
A few years ago, I came down with the flu. I rarely get sick, but this lasted for a week. On Sunday morning, I stumbled to my closet, threw on some clothes, and made it as far as the garage.
My wife, Lois, saw me sitting in the car looking flushed and weak, and she said, Tony, please stay home just this once.
In nearly four decades of being a pastor, I had never missed a Sunday because of illness. But this time, she was right. I was in no position to drive to the church, let alone deliver two hour-long sermons.
The flu that gripped my body that week and knocked me to my knees illustrates what unforgiveness can do in your life. It can control your choices and actions.
Carrying the burden of yesterday can drain you of your energy until you can’t live out the life God has in store for you. It’s like lugging around your belongings in several backpacks and bags when traveling instead of pulling them easily in a suitcase on wheels. The number of items you are carrying may be the same, but how you choose to carry them determines how tired you feel, how fast you walk, and how easily you can go up or down stairs. If you accumulate too many of these overstuffed backpacks, you become immobilized.
If this sounds like your life, be encouraged because God sees you worn-out and stumbling where you should be running. He sees you throwing stuff together instead of fully expressing your gifts and skills. He sees you lugging around more than you were ever designed to. If you will only rest in Him, He will show you the way to move through life more effortlessly.
I didn’t preach that Sunday I was sick. Instead, I listened to my wife’s advice. I got out of the car, went back to bed, and immediately fell asleep. The next week, I ate the healthy food she prepared for me and did what my doctor said to do. As a result, I got better. By the next Sunday, I was back in the pulpit again.
God has a plan for your life and energy too. It may take time and will surely require discipline. You need to rest in Him. You also need to eat the healthy food He has prepared for you, such as wisdom from His Word and times of intimacy with Him. If you will listen to Him and do what He says, He will restore you and give you strength to live the way He designed you to.
In 40 years of counseling people living in defeat, I’ve found that unforgiveness has been the most common problem. We all need to forgive at some point. Unforgiveness affects everyone, often keeping people from fulfilling God’s plan for their lives. That’s why I’m so passionate about sharing these principles with you over the course of the next month. It’s time to be free.
WEEK ONE
RESULTS OF UNFORGIVENESS
DAY ONE
The story is told about two monks who were traveling together and had to cross a river. An elderly, heavyset woman was seated at the bank of the river, waiting for someone to help her across.
The river was wide, so the monks decided to take turns carrying the woman across. One monk hoisted her onto his back and carried her halfway across, and the other monk carried her the rest of the way. The woman thanked them for their generous help, and they bid her farewell.
As the monks continued their walk, the first monk began to complain of pain in his back. The second monk assured him it was nothing. But before long the first monk began to complain again and had to stop to rest.
The second monk asked, Why are we stopping?
It’s my back,
the first monk said. It hurts from carrying that woman. Doesn’t yours?
No,
the second monk replied, I set her down two miles ago.
The first monk was still weighed down by the woman even though she was long gone. He was still feeling the effects of having her on his back. By continuing to think about what he had carried, he was unable to continue on his way and reach his destination.
Unforgiveness sits like a burden on your back. Even though the offense may be long gone, it can continue to weigh you down, keeping you from your destination. You can become immobilized by being caught up in the pain of the past. Yesterday’s burdens can weigh you down today and prevent you from reaching a brighter tomorrow.
I’m sure this comes as no surprise. Painful experiences in your past can easily burden your heart, mind, soul, and body today. These hurts could be from your distant childhood or from last week.
Having counseled hundreds of people, I’ve