Time Bring About a Change
By Tony Carr
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Since that time, society has made strides toward integration and coexistence. Programs were created to give minorities equal access to education and jobs. African-Americans began playing major roles in national politics, sports, and entertainment; television programs began to show interracial dating and black people in powerful positions.
Much has changed since 1969.
But, as Carr has experienced firsthand, many things have not changed, and our national journey toward equality and acceptance is far from over. Carr has lived to witness his father respond submissively to a verbally abusive young white man in front of his family--and he lived to learn his father's reasons for doing so when he was in a similar situation with his family, understanding then that the safety of his loved ones was worth any price.
Through his black memorabilia collections, classes, and community involvement, Carr has discovered that what goes around comes around. Time Bring About A Change brings us the story of how one man has dedicated his life to raising awareness that color is, truly, just a color, and that the true worth of a person is found in the respect, love, and caring that person shows to all around.
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Time Bring About a Change - Tony Carr
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Chapter One
Coming of Age
It was a very hot July day in 1969 when my mother said she had something important to tell me. What she shared with me on that day would change my life.
I grew up in Beloit, Wisconsin, a small industrial city in the southern part of the state. My neighborhood was predominantly African American, but there were whites that lived in our community, too. I can remember looking out my bedroom window at the nearby railroad tracks and waving at hoboes who caught a ride on the back of a slow-moving train car. It may not have been the greatest neighborhood, but for me, it was a fascinating place to grow up. My family was loving and compassionate. I was fortunate and blessed to have both my mom and dad at home, along with my older brother. My grandparents and aunt lived just three blocks away on the other side of the railroad tracks.
The late 1960s were a time of turmoil and change in America, and I remember that during my childhood, the television news was full of protests and riots, civil rights demonstrations and reports of the Vietnam War. That was a lot for a young boy to take in. But none of it had really touched me personally—until that day in July of 1969, when I was nine years old.
My mother told me she had received a letter from the school district notifying her that in August I would have to attend a new elementary school. I didn’t understand. I loved my school, Burdge Elementary. It was only two blocks from our house, and all my friends were there. The new school that I was to attend, Royce Elementary, was at least a mile away. I wouldn’t know anyone there. There was something else about the new school that would be different: Royce was an all-white school. All my friends at Burdge looked like me—black.
I thought my mom was joking.
Are we moving?
I asked.
She replied no.
Why do I have to go to a new school?
My mother tried to explain that it was due to re-zoning of the school district. The re-zoning did not affect my older brother because he was at the junior high where all students from the school district went. I didn’t understand that at the time, but when I look back now, I believe that I was a part of an integration mandate. President Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Civil Rights Act in 1964, which made racial discrimination in public places illegal. Supreme Court rulings between 1965—1971 made it clear that schools must desegregate. In many cities the desegregation was being accomplished through court-ordered re-zoning and forced busing.
So many emotions went through me. I was sad, angry, and scared of the unknown. I couldn’t imagine having to leave all my friends. I told my mother that I was going to take a knife and kill myself if I had to go to Royce. That was when my mother and grandparents sat me down and gave me a serious lesson about life. They explained how throughout American history, black people had been treated unfairly because of the color of our skin. In the South, all aspects of life were segregated by law. Blacks and whites were not allowed to eat in the same restaurants, attend the same schools, or even drink out of the same water fountains. The recent events of the civil rights movement had brought about change, but it was a slow and painful struggle. My mother and grandparents, who were from small towns in Mississippi, had experienced this racism firsthand.
My mother went to a colored-only school in Mississippi, and although she learned the basics, the education standards and school supplies were far inferior to those of the white schools. In her small one-room school there were children of different ages. My grandparents’ educational opportunities were even bleaker. Like many black people in the South at that time, they were sharecroppers—poor farmers who grew their crops on someone else’s land. Sharecroppers had to give part of their crop every year to pay their rent, which meant they were rarely able to save any money, and had to work hard to survive. The children in sharecropping families rarely got any education. They were needed to work on the farm, and had no time for school. As a result my grandmother went to school up to the seventh grade, but my grandfather never mentioned attending any school.
My mother and grandparents verbally painted a picture of how going to this new school was going to take my way of thinking and learning to a new level. They encouraged me to take advantage of this opportunity that they were never afforded. Eventually, I realized I did not have a choice.
The First Day
The rest of that summer of 1969 went too quickly, and before I knew it, I was walking through the doors at Royce Elementary. Gathering my courage, I glanced around at the other children. My heart leapt into my throat: No one looked like me.
I was welcomed into the classroom by my fourth-grade teacher, Mrs. Higgins, a very tall white lady with jet-black hair. Mrs. Higgins introduced me to my class and explained that I came from another school. After the introduction there was a dead silence—everyone was staring at me as though I were a zoo animal. Then the whispering started. I tried to block out the whispers and remember what my grandfather had told me: You put your pants on the same way everyone else does, and there is no one that is any better than you. You get what you came there for, an education.
My grandfather was great at phrasing words that kept me focused and motivated.
I initially dreaded going to recess and lunch. I just wanted to get through my classes and go home, never to return again. However, I knew that was not going to happen. Like it or not, I would have to mingle and try to assimilate into this new school environment. I also understood that it was just a matter of time before racial names would come to the surface. Well, it didn’t take long enough. I was called names like nigger lips, spear chucker, spook, and a host of other degrading descriptors. My parents had taught me that if someone punched me, I could punch them back—but I should never start a fight over someone’s words. So, I took the name-calling and just let the anger build up inside of me.
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