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    When Love Becomes Blind (A Lady's Handbook for Living a Happy Love-Life)
    When Love Becomes Blind (A Lady's Handbook for Living a Happy Love-Life)
    When Love Becomes Blind (A Lady's Handbook for Living a Happy Love-Life)
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    When Love Becomes Blind (A Lady's Handbook for Living a Happy Love-Life)

    By Kayla Jackson

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    It is said that love is blind but I think a lady’s love is not only blind but also one of a dumb type. It can hardly see the substance of reality nor hear the voice of reason even when it comes knocking hard on the doors of our heart.
    We ladies are often ingenious in observing the conventional rules of letters and symbols that traces out the path to academic excellence but oftentimes we remain unschooled in the ‘a-b-c of love’. We just do not know how to stay smart and healthy in a relationship
    This little handbook will practically school you on how to love and live the right way

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherKayla Jackson
    Release dateSep 11, 2017
    ISBN9781370881925
    When Love Becomes Blind (A Lady's Handbook for Living a Happy Love-Life)
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    Kayla Jackson

    Kayla Jackson is a freelance author, a relationship coach and a counselor. She lives with her family in Pittsburgh, PA, publishes articles, and devotes her life to mentoring young and upcoming girls. She is a proud mother of a wonderful boy, KYAIR

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      When Love Becomes Blind (A Lady's Handbook for Living a Happy Love-Life) - Kayla Jackson

      WHEN LOVE BECOMES BLIND

      a lady’s handbook for living a happy love-life

      Kayla Jackson

      Jeffery Opoku Publications

      P.O.Box NT 611, New-town, Accra

      Tel: +233 24 00 82589

      Accra, Ghana.

      West Africa.

      Copyright © 2017 Kayla Jackson

      All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.

      When Love Becomes Blind

      (A lady’s handbook for living a happy love-life)

      Published by

      Jeffery Opoku Publications

      P. O. Box NT 611

      New-town, Accra

      Ghana, West Africa

      Tel. +233 24 0082589

      Typeset & Cover design by

      Jeffery Opoku Publications

      E-mail Kayla Jackson

      kaylajackson777@gmail.com

      Write to: Kayla Jackson

      7021, Bennett street, Apt 2

      Pittsburgh, PA 15208

      USA

      Dedication

      To my beloved son and little Champion, KYAIR.

      You mean the whole world to me. You brought much happiness and joy into my life.

      CONTENTS

      Appreciation

      1. Why ladies love bad boys

      2. The bad-rich guys and the bad-broke guys: removing the veil that synchronizes the two

      3. The dangers and frustrations of being with a bad boy.

      4. Economizing the heart: a radical way of dealing with the issues of ‘broken hearts’ and betrayals in relationships.

      5. How love becomes blind: dealing with the issue of prepossession.

      6. Would you be my girl?: a call to setting right boundaries

      7. Preserving the big meat: a hard but positive way of staying smart.

      8. Is it love or just an attraction: drawing productive lines.

      APPRECIATION

      I express my sincere gratitude to my brother and friend, Evangelist Jeffery Opoku, also known as St. Jeffery the Evangelist, for committing his time and resources in making this book a success. And also to the entire team and of the Jeffery Opoku Publication, I say thank you.

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      Chapter 1

      Why ladies love bad boys

      There have been many controversies and brouhahas over the past decades as to why a greater part of women prefer to be with bad boys over the noble gentlemen. Frankly speaking, many societies and families have grown distraught over this very issue – they can hardly reason as to why their daughters keep turning down the proposals of fine gentlemen but then keep falling for the bad boys

      Right from the days of Adam, there has being an overwhelming curiosity in great minds to find tangible reasons or should we say causes to this very effect. Many upon research have chanced upon some amazing reasons and answers but they are mostly scientific and academic in nature. My purpose in this very chapter is to bring the whole issue down from the uplands of academic theory and settle it down in the social lowlands where the average man can appreciate and relate to.

      Ladies actually love bad boys and it is a fact. You know that and I know that as well. Personally, I know of many good to do ladies who in turning down the proposals of fine gentlemen ended up in bed with bad boys and were eventually left shattered and ruined. I speak for myself and for a million women out there.

      In fact, it will intrigue you to know that a greater part of women, who are no longer virgins, did actually lose their virginity by riding on the manhood of a bad boy or a nigga. I’m pretty sure

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