Over 200 Proven Ways and Places to Pick up Girls by an Average-Looking Guy: Over 100 Women Interviewed Tell How They Can Be Picked Up

OVER 200 PROVEN WAYS AND PLACES TO PICK UP GIRLS BY AN AVERAGE-LOOKING GUY

Over 100 Women Interviewed Tell How They Can Be Picked Up

BY AVERAGE—LOOKING

STEVE PELL

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DEDICATION

This book is dedicated to the over 2000 women I have slept with. I hope I have enriched your lives as much as you have mine.

SPECIAL THANKS

I sincerely want to thank Vivian Lee for all she has contributed to this book and to my life.

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Table of Contents

DEDICATION

STEVE PELL by Steve Pell

INTRODUCTION

PART ONE

PART TWO

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

STEVE PELL by Steve Pell

Most people, by just looking at me, find it hard to believe that I have slept with over 2000 women in my 39 years. The reason they find it so difficult to believe is that all they see is an average-looking guy that most girls would not take a second look at. It’s only after they hear me talk about my lifestyle and how I place being successful with women above all else, that they begin to think it just might be possible.

The origin of my lifestyle began my senior year in high school. My best friend and I had made a pact during the summer that we would not go steady with any girl during our entire senior year. In addition, we agreed to try to date as many different girls as we possibly could. By doing this, we thought it would be hard to get serious with any one particular girl and therefore easier to keep our pact. During our senior year, we must have dated well over 100 girls between us. Every Monday we would get together to map out the week’s social activities. Monday and Tuesday were usually devoted to seeing how many girls we could line up to either drive home after school or take to the local hangout. Wednesday was the night our high school youth group met, which meant we spent most of the school day urging people (mostly girls) to come out. Since my friend and I were the leaders of this organization, we were in a perfect position to pick up girls there. Thursday was usually dedicated to firming up our plans for the weekend, which usually included a different girl for both Friday and Saturday nights. What happened Friday and Saturday nights would determine our plans for Sunday. I can remember many Sundays when we would have dates with two girls in the afternoon and two more in the evening.

My friend and I worked very well together as a team, and we were all we ever needed when it came to being successful with girls. Although neither one of us was considered really good-looking, we were without a doubt the two most popular guys in our school. At least with the girls we were. We found out that year, at the age of 18, the secret of what it takes to be highly successful with women. All that is needed is a great personality, or at least a good one, and the imagination to use it, along with giving each girl the feeling she is an individual and therefore something special.

I will always regard my senior year and the summer that followed as one of the happiest periods of my life. I didn’t know it at the time, but the lifestyle I led in my senior year was to be the basis of my happiness throughout my life. My only regret was that soon after the summer of our senior year, my best friend and I went our separate ways. I often wonder what we might have accomplished had we stayed together.

At 19 I decided to join the Air Force. Two weeks after I started training, I knew I had made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. There were many reasons why I hated the service, but the biggest one was the fact that I was losing my confidence with women, because I was coming in contact with very few of them. Even when I did have a chance to pick up a girl, I would usually talk myself out of it. I had convinced myself that my life was going nowhere; therefore, why would any girl be interested in me? This attitude, along with the fact that I didn’t have much money, gave to me the only prolonged period of loneliness in my life.

Not knowing what else to do at the time to end this loneliness, I decided to ask a girl, that I had known quite well in high school, to marry me. She agreed to become engaged but felt we should wait awhile before getting married. Even though I wanted to get married right away, she kept putting it off for one reason or another. She must have known all along that as soon as I got out of the service that I would change my mind about marriage, and she was right. Because as soon as I found out that I was going to get out of the service on a hardship discharge, due to my father’s prolonged illness, I started to dream about going back to the lifestyle I had known in my senior year. It wasn’t easy to give up this girl as I loved her very much at the time, but something told me that I would never be able to limit myself to just one woman in my life and be totally happy.

After getting out of the service at the age of 21, I got my first taste of mixing business with pleasure, and I loved it. I needed a job in a hurry, so I took the first thing that came along, and that was a job selling women’s shoes. For the next year I tried to sleep with as many women as I could to make up for the lean years when I was in the service. With nothing but female customers to wait on each day, the opportunities to pick up girls were endless. (See chapter on the Shoe Salesman Pick Up.) The only problem was that I wasn’t making much money, so after a year of this, I decided to try another type of work where I could make some money and still have a lot of contact with women.

For the next two years, I made the rounds of office buildings, selling ribbons and carbon paper. For awhile I was all business, but little by little, I found myself spending more and more time with the girls I would meet in those office buildings.

Although I was extremely happy with my lifestyle, I was still bothered that I did not have a good income. At this point I almost decided to give up my lifestyle in order to obtain a better income.

While trying to decide what to do, I hit upon the idea of keeping a diary on all my social activities. I decided that I would do this for the next six months and then look back on it to try and decide just how important it was for me to have a lifestyle that centered mostly around being with women. So at the age of 23, I decided to start keeping a diary on every girl I went out with. Not only did I list her name and the date we went out, I also included such things as: how we met, where we met, where we went on each date, what we did or what happened, what I thought and how I felt about her, the type of sexual experience we had, how the relationship was progressing, etc. Long before the six months were up, it became evident to me that there was no way I could ever give up this lifestyle, so I decided to look for another job where I could mix business with pleasure. Along with looking for another job, I continued to keep a diary of all my social activities, which I still do to this day. Not only have I derived great pleasure from reading these diaries, but they have also given me an easy and accurate way to account for the over 2000 women that I have slept with in my 39 years.

At the age of 24, I went to work at a radio station, selling advertising. This time my luck changed. Not only was I still coming in contact with a lot of women, I was also making a good income while doing so. Most of the credit goes to the man who was the station manager. He taught me how to successfully mix business with pleasure by letting one complement the other. He also showed me how to become a successful salesman by utilizing some of the same talents that had made me successful with women. He was quite a ladies’ man himself, and I learned a lot from him, both about women and life in general. Although it took me awhile to realize it, I truly owe this man a lot, especially for having faith in me in the beginning.

The next two years of my life were extremely enjoyable and rewarding. For the first time I had been able to successfully mix business with pleasure.

At the age of 26, after working at this radio station for 2 years, I started to think of what it would be like to not only have a business of my own, but to have one in which there would be little or no work involved. I also wanted it to include a lot of contact with women. In addition, since I was out practically every night, it had to be the type of business in which I could sleep in until noon before having to go to work. I found all of this when I started a business called Swinging Singles.

For the next year-and-a-half, I did nothing but throw parties for singles. With party operations going on in six different cities, it made it very easy to keep many women in my life without running into trouble. During this period in my life, I became obsessed with sex.

Most of the parties were held in banquet rooms of some first class hotel or motel complex. The fact that I would always have a room there made it quite convenient for sexual activities before, during, and after the parties. Many of the girls who came to these parties had this thing about sleeping with the host. Being nobody’s fool, I accommodated as many as I could. In that year-and-a-half, I had sex with over 200 women.

Being so preoccupied with women at the time, I slowly but surely let the business go downhill. Even though it was losing money, I continued to keep it going, mainly because I was having the time of my life. Finally, when my savings ran out, I gave it up and went back to selling advertising at another radio station.

Even though at the time it didn’t seem so, it was a good thing that this lifestyle ended. During that year-and-a-half, I had hurt and used a lot of women, and it was time for me to develop a deeper sense of appreciation for them.

After working at the radio station for about a year, it became evident to me that I could never really be happy working for someone else. With this in mind, I started to look for another business that would proved me with all the benefits that Swinging Singles had. Only this time I promised myself that I would devote more time and energy to the business end of it.

Once I started to look, it didn’t take long. A few months later, at the age of 29, I left the radio station and opened a dating service called Compute-A-Date.

During the next two years, I opened Compute-A-Date operations in 8 different cities throughout Ohio, Pennsylvania, and West Virginia. The lifestyle that I led in those two years would have to be seen to be believed. Not only did I have unbelievable access to women, I now knew everything about them in advance, through the application they had filled out on themselves to join Compute-A-Date.

During those two years, I operated Compute-A-Date strictly through the mail, with a P.O. Box in each city for people to send their applications. I would promote each city for about 2 months and then move on to the next one. In addition, I would revisit each city about every 2 weeks to pick up the mail. This gave me ample opportunity to follow up some of those interesting applications that women had sent in to Compute-A-Date.

It was extremely interesting and exciting to read all the women’s applications and then decide which ones I was going to follow up. The night before I was going to visit all the Compute-A-Date cities, I would pick out and take with me about 5 to 10 interesting applications from each city. Around 6 P.M. I would start calling them from my motel room. By being honest and telling them I was the owner of Compute-A-Date, it made it very easy for me to make dates with them. I was amazed at how many women would drive right over to my motel room to meet me. At this point I found out just how forward some women could become with a total stranger.

After two years of operating Compute-A-Date in 8 different cities, the pace became too much for me. I was both mentally and physically exhausted. I knew there was no way I could give up Compute-A-Date, as it had given me a lifestyle that most men only dream about. So I decided that the only other thing to do was to give up all this traveling.

At the age of 31 I let go of all my Compute-A-Date cities, except the one which was the most successful. That city was Dayton, Ohio. Not only did I open up an office in that city, I made the decision to interview everyone in person. The fact that most of these interviews were held at their home or apartment opened up another whole new lifestyle for me.

The decision to interview each person joining Compute-A-Date was one of the best things I’ve ever decided to do, both from a personal as well as a business standpoint. For awhile, I interviewed both men and women until it became too much to handle alone. At that time I took on a female partner—Vivian Lee. With her now interviewing all the men, I had more time to interview all the women.

Most of the interviews I had with women took place in their apartment or home, usually during the evening hours. The interview would start off with a discussion about Compute-A-Date and how it worked. From there, the conversation usually developed into a personal discussion, and on many occasions, a very personal one. I learned a lot from those discussions, both about women and men.

At the age of 34, after 3 years of interviewing women, I started to get a little bored with it all. Although I had met some really fine women and had some beautiful relationships with them, the excitement and challenge of how I went about it was starting to fade. It was all coming to me too easily. At times it seemed that I was sleeping with one out of every two women I interviewed. It got to the point where halfway through the interview, I could tell if we were going to end up in bed together, based on which direction the conversation was heading. I can remember many mornings when I would wake up, and for awhile, not know where I was or who that was lying next to me. In some cases, I had to get out my appointment book to check who my appointments had been with the night before.

After looking over my diaries for the last 3 years, it became apparent why the excitement of picking up girls had left me. Over 90 percent of the women I had slept with in the last 3 years derived from a Compute-A-Date interview. I now knew it was not being with women that I was becoming bored with. Rather it was the fact that I was always meeting them in the same way. I then came to the conclusion that half the excitement of being with women was in the way and/or place I picked them up. With this in mind, I set out to look for more exciting ways and places to pick up women. Little did I know at the time just how far I would go with this.

The first thing I did was make a list of all the ways and places I had picked up girls in the past. Then I added all the ones I had heard about, especially from the girls I had interviewed in Compute-A-Date. They were always telling me stories about how guys tried to pick them up. After reading them over a few times, I used my imagination to add a few more ideas to the list. I then decided it was time to get out there and put some of these ideas to work.

For the next 5 years, I led a lifestyle that most guys would give anything to lead. With my partner, Vivian Lee, running Compute-A-Date pretty much by herself now, all I was left with was the interviewing of between 5 and 10 women each week. I now had all the time I needed to pursue my new career, that of picking up girls.

At first I tried picking up girls at different places such as: airports, zoos, art museums, shopping malls, restaurants, etc. From there I moved on to more difficult pick up approaches which I describe in PART TWO of this book. With each way and place I succeeded in picking up a girl, my confidence grew. In time I had myself convinced that there wasn’t a way or a place that I couldn’t pick up a girl if I put