Heal Your Sacred Sexual Self: Emotional & Spiritual Healing for Sexual Dis-Ease
By Adam Loya and Dawnee Loya
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Are you - afraid of sexual pleasure?
- suffering from low libido?
- sexually abused?
- addicted to porn?
- emotionally oppressed?
- a rape survivor?
- recovering from being prostituted?
Are you ready to dynamically transform your Sacred Sexual Self ?
Are you motivated to learn communication skills which honor and respect your intimate self?
Are you willing to balance your yin with your yang to maximize your sexual health and well-being?
Your Sacred Sexual Self deserves and desires your loving approval, acceptance, attention, and creative expression.
Here is the antidote spiritually for sexual dis-ease, enhancing your true self, your love, and your wholeness.
Adam and Dawnee Loya offer affirmations, prayers, creative visualizations, meditations, sexercises, and blissful food to heal your Sacred Sexual Self. These teachings come from Tantric, Taoist, and Toltec traditions for the most part, as well as Tibetan Buddhism. We are inspired by all spiritual teachings which teach love and honoring of Goddess with God, creating balance.
Adam Loya
Adam and Dawnee Loya have been miraculously guided from deep within to heal our Sacred Sexual Selves. Although we are unable to express our love physically, we do experience profound orgasmic bliss. We are truly grateful for our abilities to communicate empathically. Guided by spirit, we offer you affirmations, prayers, and creative visualizations to change past patterns. With clarity and truth, we encourage and support each and every one to accept, allow, and surrender to creative joyful ways of being. We challenge you to forgive. It is our pleasure to share with you our favourite meditations and simple “sexercises”. We are inspired to promote living foods to heal all disease. Adam is a Toltec Shaman practicing diligently while unjustly confined in a California state prison as a youth offender for the past 2 decades. He offers Turtle medicine from the depths of his compassionate soul. Adam is a Mestizo artisto—his work may be viewed at www.adamloya.wordpress.com. Dawnee is a mystic living on the Gulf Islands of BC, Canada. She has practiced Healing Arts for 33 years to reclaim her Sacred Sexual Self. She is a passionate Tantric devotee and an aspiring Raw Food Chef. She offers the playful wisdom of the Dolphin Goddess. Together, they create abundantly in spite of all obstacles. Transforming the darkness of their pain and suffering, they humbly offer you their Divine Love light.
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Heal Your Sacred Sexual Self - Adam Loya
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ISBN: 978-1-4525-8491-1 (sc)
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Balboa Press rev. date: 11/11/2013
Contents
Introduction
Our Sacred Sexual Self—All That We Are
What is Sexual Well-being?
What is Sexual Dis-ease?
Affirmations, Prayers, and Creative Visualizations
Sexual Healing Meditations
Creating Safe Sacred Space
Self-Cultivation
Sexercises
Cupping Genitalia
The Divine Mother
Inner Child
Journal Writing/Art/Dance
Orgasmic Envisioning
Erotic Massage
Rebirthing
Right Mindfulness
Triangle of Bliss
Yab Yum
Blissful Food
"Sex is a meditation.
Learn the art of it.
Savour it.
Prepare for it.
Become sensitive, silent, open.
When you are going into lovemaking,
you are entering the Temple.
Enter only when you are prayerful—
then you know
the secret of sex . . .
laughter belongs to life.
Let sex be playful, fun."
Osho
Dedication
We pledged February 14, 2013 to rise up
with 1 Billion Rising
offering Divine Love light
to all sexual dis-ease.
May all benefit
without one exception.
We offer our gratitude
to all who guide us, especially: Margot Anand, Mantak Chia, Eve Eisler, Shakti Gawain, Louise L. Hay, Kutira & Raphael, Don Miguel Ruiz, and Ananda Sarita.
to our parents: Betty & Bill Matejka and Gardenia & Arthur Loya.
to our Ancestors. Bless and praise Tibetan Yoginis: Yeshe Tsogyal and Machig Lapdron.
to Osho and sannyasins worldwide.
to Amma, for introducing us.
to our plant teachers. Thank you Mayantuyacu and Temple of the Way of Light in Peru.
to Hrana Janto for her inspiring images of the Goddess in all her guises.
to Anandamayi Ma, Grandmother Elda, Pam Gordon, Lynn Grabhorn, Catherine Ponder, Swami Radha, Luisah Teish, Viramo, and Susun S. Weed.
to our supportive family . . . Hannah Aurora & Raul, Danita, Jamara & Jonah, Lisa, Charis & Jeremy, Mimi & Roman, Casey & Dan, Rosalea & David, Grandmother Barbara, Mama C., Moga, Elizabeth, Mazie, Parnell, Paul, Kimmie, Sarat, and Yamaya.
to Elizabeth Calvin, and all who support her, at Human Rights Watch for introducing Fair Sentencing for Youth to California.
to our patient wise loving guides at Balboa Press.
Introduction
"May you be joyful
May your good fortune
and happiness increase."
Buddhist prayer
This book is an offering of healing for all those who courageously choose to take responsibility for their sexual dis-ease. Here is spiritual guidance regarding our Sacred Sexual Self. We intend to expand your sexual awareness.
We wrote this book to create peace, after years of grieving the lack of sexual joy here on our abundant Earth Mother. We offer all the opportunity to heal the tragic imbalance, which deeply affects us all, that oppressing the Universal Divine Mother has resulted in. We are guided by the Divine Feminine to share these teachings for the greatest good, for all those who are sexually exploited. Our intention is to empower you. When we treat our dis-ease with loving kindness and compassion, when we are willing to change old patterns, when we are willing to forgive; we heal our whole being.
We love sex: sex connected with love and spirit.
This is a magnificent gift.
". . . It is impossible
for us to learn elsewhere
what we are incapable
of learning within our own bodies."
Mantak Chia
We are an unique couple who have been connecting spiritually, emotionally, and sexually for eight years. During this transforming time, we have courageously opened to each other to heal our Sacred Sexual Selves. We have spent our lives contemplating our own sexual dis-eases and the global crisis.
Our spiritual journey began when Adam received the address to write to Circle of Love Inside for guidance. This is a compassionate seva created by the great Saint, Amritanandamayi Ma. Adam was surviving his life in the dire circumstances of a youth unjustly imprisoned, year number 12. He was sentenced to life locked in cage after cement steel cage, for a crime he did not commit. He was a victim of human rights violations in California. He was ready for love.
"I love how you have given me
the power to heal,
to take back my Sacred Sexual Self
and reclaim what is mine."
Turtle
This is the shaman’s path: experiencing the depths. Adam is a miraculous survivor, with a very strong spirit, who is now willing to help others to heal. Adam has always had a devoted spiritual practice. He is an impassioned Mestizo artisto. He has had time to write, meditate, and cultivate. He is willing to change and eager to learn new ways of being. He values his inner child and has faced his pain to heal his wounded little boy. He also has the nurturing ability and heart-felt compassion to heal Dawnee’s wounded little girl. This is of great benefit for healing our Sacred Sexual Self. Our wounded inner child can cause havoc in intimate relationships.
Adam introduced Dawnee to Toltec Wisdom. We both have ample opportunity to practice the agreement to not take things personally.