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    Be A Leader: Be Who You Want to Be
    Be A Leader: Be Who You Want to Be
    Be A Leader: Be Who You Want to Be
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    Be A Leader: Be Who You Want to Be

    By Nezha Alaoui

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    At 7 years old, Nezha Alaoui knew exactly who she wanted to be: an independent businesswoman whose work would have a positive global impact. As a teenager, her determination to march to her own rhythm was often at odds with her French private school education. So she learned to trust in her own instincts and channeled her dynamic energy into achieving her dream. By her mid 20s, she had a husband, two daughters, and twelve stores. Her life checked all the right boxes for success, except one: the fulfillment that comes from having a positive impact on the world.

    At the age of 27 she made the fearless decision to completely deconstruct her life and rebuild it on her own terms. She created the Mayshad Foundation, a non-profit organization that seeks to improve the lives of those in marginalized communities, and Mayshad Mag, an online advocacy platform that gave voice to her vision and sparked the global #BWYWB Leadership Movement.

    In Be A Leader, Nezha Alaoui shares with readers her core philosophy of empowerment and provides practical steps for how to build leadership in today’s competitive world.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherPost Hill Press
    Release dateOct 2, 2018
    ISBN9781642930290
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      Be A Leader - Nezha Alaoui

      A POST HILL PRESS BOOK

      ISBN: 978-1-64293-028-3

      ISBN (eBook): 978-1-64293-029-0

      Be A Leader

      © 2018 by Nezha Alaoui

      All Rights Reserved

      Cover design by Cody Corcoran

      Cover illustration by Ya Chin Chang

      No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without the written permission of the author and publisher.

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      Post Hill Press, LLC

      New York • Nashville

      posthillpress.com

      Published in the United States of America

      To my inspiring daughters and my powerful Mayshad team.

      CONTENTS

      Introduction: Be Who You Want to Be

      Chapter 1: Leadership: A Concept or a Reality?

      Chapter 2: Build Your Own Ecosystem

      Chapter 3: Projection: A 5-Year Plan to Your Destiny

      Chapter 4: Emotional Intelligence: An Asset to Invest In

      Chapter 5: Where Does Spirituality Stand on Leadership?

      Chapter 6: Confidence: Nurture a Seed into a Powerful Tree

      Chapter 7: Leading a Winning Team

      Chapter 8: To Be or Not to Be Single

      Chapter 9: The Healthy Lifestyle

      Chapter 10: Choose Your Battles

      Chapter 11: Communicate for Greater Impact

      Chapter 12: Successful Entrepreneurship 101

      About the Author

      INTRODUCTION

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      BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE

      One of the hardest choices you will have to make in life is choosing to be yourself. To let go of the person you think you need to be, or what others expect you to achieve, and simply be who you want to be. Completely. Freely. Fearlessly. Ultimately, your destiny should be decided by you. Will you choose to stand for what you believe in, pursue what you love, and give yourself completely to what truly matters? You are the leader of your own life. The choice is yours and yours alone.

      When I was a little girl, whenever anyone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I would always answer with absolute certainty: I want to be a businesswoman. My parents would challenge me and ask what I thought that meant. I want to run many businesses, I’d answer, and I want to always be in airplanes. At seven years old, I may not have had the sophistication or vocabulary to articulate the vision I had for my future, but I knew that what I was going to build was going to be so fulfilling that it would be a lifestyle. As children, we are very intuitive, but as we are influenced by the expectations of our parents, school, and society, life reshapes our dreams, and we often end up settling for a lesser version of what we once instinctively knew we wanted.

      I was born and raised in Morocco in an aristocratic family. My parents divorced when I was six years old. At the time, this was unheard of in our conservative society, but they bravely chose to pursue separate (but parallel) paths, rather than remain in an unhappy marriage and continue to live a lie for the sake of what was expected of them. When they sat me down with my older brother to announce their decision, I remember evaluating the situation and coming to the conclusion that our parents had the right to be happy.

      Instead of feeling angry or sad, I made a choice to embrace the change. They still loved us and would always be there to care for us, so why be miserable and make them feel guilty for wanting to be true to themselves? My parents made sure to never express negative feelings for one another to us. When they both went on to remarry, we became a blended family with the addition of two beautiful sisters from my mom’s side and two great brothers from my dad’s side. By leading their lives with a balance of respect for both our and their individual happiness, they inspired me to always be true to myself.

      School was never a great fit for me. I was bored and restless, which often got me into trouble (and eventually got me kicked out) because I was too creative and too dynamic for their rhythm. By my mid-twenties, I had learned to channel my innate drive and ambition into building a successful business in Morocco. I had a husband, two beautiful baby girls, twelve stores, and a life that was much more conformist than I wanted it to be. There’s a fine line between being free and being lost. At some point, I realized that true freedom is giving direction to your life.

      By society’s standards, my life was successful. But, deep down, I knew I needed more than that. I was following a comfortable and safe path, but the vision of my life that I had had at seven years old was so much bigger than the life I was living. I knew that I had a larger purpose. I wanted my work and my mission to have a positive global impact. When I started traveling more for work, I began meeting people from all over the world who opened up to me about the struggles in their lives. I was always able to analyze what they were going through, simplify the issues, and find solutions. People would tell me all the time that I should become a therapist or a life coach. I realized then that I had a mission to help people, but I knew that as long as I stayed in my comfort zone, I would never really spread my message on a global level. So I decided to deconstruct my entire life and keep only what was essential: my daughters, who were a year and a half and three years old at the time.

      I decided to embrace who I was and began building the life I had envisioned for myself as a young girl. I took my life apart and put it back together on my own terms. At the age of twenty-seven, I opened my first bank account on my own and became financially and emotionally independent. You can’t imagine the freedom that comes with liberating yourself from other people’s expectations. I started creating rules for my life and removing negativity from my relationships and my lifestyle.

      For a long time, I was pleasing everyone in my life but myself. Then I finally arrived at a point where I decided that my daughters would be the only judges in my life. The only limit to my freedom: their wellbeing and happiness. My only duty: to be a happy and healthy mother. As long as they were smiling, I knew I was doing fine.

      There were moments in this process of shaking things up in my life that were truly a struggle. I kept a pair of sneakers in the trunk of my car, and whenever my thoughts were charged with fear, guilt, doubt, frustration, or anger, I would go for a run to get my head straight before returning home to my daughters. With my heartbeat pounding to the rhythm of my playlist, I’d run as long as I needed to run, cry as long as I needed to cry, and scream as loud as I needed to scream. Then I went home to my children, unburdened by negativity.

      In 2014, I started the Mayshad Foundation (named for my daughters, Maysoon and Shadeen), a nonprofit organization that develops and implements grassroots projects that focus on achieving sustainable development goals throughout marginalized African communities. As my vision began to crystallize into a philosophy of Be Who You Want to Be, I founded MayshadMag.com, a global advocacy platform that brings together aspiring entrepreneurs and visionaries who can share inspiration and ideas through the empowering leadership movement: #BWYWB.

      It is possible to live in harmonious balance between our wishes and our duties, without giving up on our dreams. I am an international entrepreneur

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