Competability: Solving Behavior Problems in Your Cat-Dog Household
By Amy Shojai
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HALT THE HISSES!
Whether you share your home with a single cat or multiple felines, this new guide by a seasoned cat behaviorist and cat trainer teaches you about cats aggression, cat clawing, litter box problems and more. You'll find detailed prescriptive how-to advice focused in the most common cat behavior problems found in the multi-cat household from fearful felines and bully cats, to cat food challenges, loud mouth meowing and counter top cruising, and how to introduce cats to other pets and kids. This book addresses every cat behavior question you have.
CAT WRITERS ASSOCIATION MUSE MEDALLION AWARD: 2013 BEST CAT BEHAVIOR BOOK OF THE YEAR!
Cat behavior puzzles the most savvy cat lovers, and cat behavior problems lose cats their homes. Cat behavioral problems arise out of owners not understanding cat language and normal animal behavior. Training a cat helps stop cat biting, for instance, and this book explains the behavior of cats whether you have a single feline or multiple cats.
The United States is home to 86.4 million owned cats, and 52 percent of owners own more than one cat. That means more furry love for owners, but also can put your cats' tails in a twist over that (HISSS!) new feline friend. From conflicts over favorite sleep spots to sharing potty facilities, adding new pets rubs fur the wrong way and creates hairy situations for everyone--including you.
Use these fun techniques to calm fears, explain cat body language, and strengthen the bond you share with your cats. Step by step tips from this award-winning author and certified animal behavior consultant explain how to:
*Recognize and diffuse cat aggression
*Stop cat bites
*Settle disputes cat territory squabbles
*Solve hit and miss litter box problems
*Cure cat scratching with scratching post training
*Manage cat nutrition and meals
*Soothe cat stress and cat fear
*Reduce bullying behavior
*How to choose pet friends to reduce cat fights
*Learn proper cat introduction techniques
*Introduce cats and a new baby or kids
*Solve common pet peeves: meowing, cat clawing, kitty countertop cruising, feline door dashing and more!
*Understand weird cat behaviors and cat facts: feline phone attraction, kitty mirror fear, "elevator butt" and cat toilet pests
Fun, practical, and eminently informative, ComPETability helps owners devise strategies to prevent, reduce or eliminate cat behavior problems. This also enables multiple cats to live in harmony within the same household. Written by one of America's premier pet experts, the book explains everything the loving cat owner needs to know. Most important, ComPETability provides crucial tips on how to evaluate and match your pets' personalities, improve their relationships, and make your home a sanctuary for cat fun and peace.
For more pet behavior advice refer to:
ComPETability: Solving Behavior Problems In Your CAT/DOG Household
ComPETability: Solving Behavior Problems In Your Multi-DOG Household
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Competability - Amy Shojai
ComPET ability
Solving Behavior Problems
In Your
Cat-Dog Household
AMY SHOJAI
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Second Print Edition, February 2017
Furry Muse Publishing
Print ISBN: 1-944423-25-7
ISBN-13: 978-1-944423-25-4
Cover image © lifeonwhite via DepositPhotos.com
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First Published by Cool Gus Publishing
First Printing, March 2013
COPYRIGHT © Amy Shojai, 2012
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AUTHOR NOTE
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The author has made every effort to provide the most current information; however, the understanding of veterinary medicine, pet behavior, and training is constantly improving. Provide optimum health care for your pets by regularly consulting a veterinarian. Ongoing behavior problems are best addressed by a professional pet therapist, behavior consultant, or trainer.
Neither the publisher nor the author is engaged in rendering professional advice or services to the individual reader. The ideas, procedures, and suggestions contained in this book are not intended as a substitute for consulting with your pet’s physician and/or qualify trainer/behaviorist. All matters regarding your pet’s health require medical supervision. Neither the author nor the publisher shall be liable or responsible for any loss or damage allegedly arising from any information or suggestion in this book. While the author has made every effort to provide accurate product names, telephone numbers and/or Internet addresses at the time of publication, neither the publisher nor the author assumes any responsibility for errors, or for changes that occur after publications.
FURTHER READING
Books by Amy Shojai
CAT BOOKS
DOG BOOKS
Contents
Chapter 1. In The Beginning: The evolution of America's pets of choice
Chapter 2. A Match Made in Heaven: How domestication impacted pets
Chapter 3. Pet Considerations: Choosing wisely
Chapter 4. Seeing Eye To Eye: How pet senses impact how they act
Chapter 5. To Chase Or Ambush: Pet philosophy in terms of function
Chapter 6. Gulp Versus Nibble: Cat and dog nutrition differences
Chapter 7. Dogs Mope, Cats Hide: How illness affects pet behavior
Chapter 8. Leader Versus Despot: Comparing pet social structures
Chapter 9. Understanding Felinese and Dog-gerel: The language barrier
Chapter 10. Cats Lead, Dogs Follow: Training fundamentals
Chapter 11. Fighting Like Cats and Dogs: How to stop aggression
Chapter 12. Potty Concerns: House soiling, toilet training, litter box snacks and more
Chapter 13. Stressed For Success: Fearful critters and bully pets
Chapter 14. Ringing the Dinner Bell: Overcoming feeding problems
Chapter 15. Pleased To Meet You: Step-by-step introductions
Chapter 16. Pet Peeves: Solve barking, chewing, clawing, countertop cruising, digging, jumping up, meowing and more!
AFTERWORD
Author Biography
PART ONE
IN THE BEGINNING...
Chapter 1.
In The Beginning:
The Evolution Of America's Pets Of Choice
In prehistoric times, people honored and revered all living things, for they understood that humans were but one part of a whole. An unspoken, unwritten covenant was made between people and the other furred, feathered and finned children of the earth—to remember and respect their common beginnings, and keep the memory sacred.
Dogs and cats are our reminder of that ancient covenant. They reflect some of the best features of the human soul, offering us childlike honesty, unreserved devotion, and a love that has no parallel in human experience.
More than any other creature, cats and dogs have been accepted, even welcomed into the human family. It's remarkable that such very different creatures should hold the same intimate relationship with people. These special companion animals continue to honor their beginnings, and it is our responsibility to honor them by becoming sensitive to their needs.
Much of what our pets are has been influenced by human intervention—in particular, the domestication process. We have accepted these once-wild creatures into our hearts and homes, changed their destiny, and in many cases altered their function and form. As a result, the vast majority of modern pets have lost the ability to care for themselves. Pet cats and dogs are dependent upon us for shelter, food, and their life purpose. How can we complain about pet idiosyncrasies when we have played a major role in creating them?
Although a mountain of information is available about cats or dogs, there is little guidance for pet owners who live with both. Yet mixing the two can mean trouble in paradise if you treat Kitty like Fido or vice versa. Cats and dogs are two very different animals with distinctive needs. They cannot—and must not—be treated the same way. Their structure, the way their bodies work, what they eat, how they behave and what they want out of life are very different.
According to the American Pet Products Association National Pet Owners Survey, Americans spend nearly $109.6 billion annually on their pets in 2021.
Approximately 89.7 million owned dogs are in the United States
Approximately 82 million owned cats are in the United States
70 percent of American families (about 90.5 million) own at least one pet., with a majority of pet families having two or more.
More than 25 percent of pet families share their homes with both dogs and cats.
Competability: Solving Behavior Problems in Your Cat-Dog Household explains all the ins and outs of living with and caring for cats and dogs together. You’ll find step-by-step how-to advice for solving the most common behavior problems that can arise, from aggression and potty problems, to fearful pets, bullies and proper introduction techniques. You’ll also find cat-specific and dog-specific behavior problem advice in the Pet Peeves chapter, plus pertinent cat-dog comparisons to help explain WHY cats and dogs act the way they do.
You may also be interested in the other series books that focus on multiple dog or multiple cats issues. Look for Competability: Solving Behavior Problems in Your Multi-DOG Household, or Competability: Solving Behavior Problems in Your Multi-CAT Household.
Feel free to page ahead to the sections that specifically address your pet behavior complaints, and later when you have time check out the other fun sections. Because to understand why dogs and cats act the way they do—and drive us CRAZY in the process!—we must look to their earliest beginnings. In fact, cats and dogs arose from a common ancestor, but (shhhhh!) don’t tell the pets. That would just give them something else to argue about.
CATS AND DOGS DIVERGE
About 35 million years ago during the Oligocene era, miacids underwent a burst of evolution that created a wide array of creatures. The miacid is considered the common ancestor of all modern carnivores, from fin-footed meat eaters like seals and walruses to split-footed predators with toes, like the weasel and bear. And the miacid is the many times great grandfather of both cats and dogs.
Dog and cat creatures developed their own styles of hunting, and the changes in their bodies reflected these needs. Meat eaters in the wild never got a free lunch but had to work hard to capture prey that was mobile and intent on surviving and protecting itself. While the grazing vegetarian's diet was literally there for the picking, the carnivore's food fought back. Food animals were evolving as fast as the predators, each creature's advances pressing changes in the other.
There were two methods to bring food to the figurative table: chase it down or ambush it. The structure of modern cats and dogs reflects each creature’s preferred technique, but ancient cat and dog forms probably used combinations of both.
MODERN RACES
The differences between the wildcats and wolves that replaced prehistoric critters grew more distinct. The dog family developed into endurance specialists with slashing teeth and powerful jaws used to capture and hold prey. The cat family became stalkers that relied on stealth coupled with bursts of speed, stabbing teeth, and specialized retractable claws to grapple prey.
Further, felids developed into the two feline divisions we recognize today. Those referred to as Panthera include the big cats: lions, tigers, panthers and jaguars. All the smaller cats, including the one that's currently teasing your dog, are referred to as Felis. Canids diversified into fox, jackal, coyote, wild dogs (like Cape Hunting Dogs and Dingoes) and wolves.
The skeletal structure between these related but distinct animals remains uniquely canine or feline—nearly all felids (except the cheetah, which runs down prey like a dog) rely on stalk and pounce, and nearly all canids (except the fox, which stalks and pounces like a cat) run down prey. The most obvious differences within the cat or dog races are relative to size. Where the game was larger, the cat and dog species grew bigger to prey on antelope, zebra and elk. Smaller felines and canines hunted smaller animals like rabbits, squirrels and mice.
The social structure of both types of animals is directly related to the size of the prey. Smaller carnivores like bobcats and foxes usually hunt alone and feed on small prey that an individual is able to kill. Because most of these small cat species come together rarely, perhaps only during breeding seasons, there isn't a need for highly developed social behavior.
Larger carnivores like wolves and lions have a much more developed social system. In order to survive, they require much greater quantities of food. Big prey fits the bill, but often is difficult for a solitary predator to bring down. For that reason, social hunting that is dependent upon the cooperation of the group to bring down prey larger than the individual animal evolved in lions, cheetahs and wolves.
THE ADAPTABLE CAT
Although there was some behavioral and social crossover between the wildcat and wolf races, most cats survived primarily as solitary animals that hunted alone. Females raised their young without help from the males. It's a feature of cats that the young mature and become independent very early in life. Because group living was not important, there was no need for a sophisticated pecking order
to keep the peace. Instead, cats more often interacted one-on-one in sexual and territorial matters, and in these cases simply determining who of the two is the top cat was sufficient.
Cat paws developed almost hand-like dexterity, with razor-sharp retractable claws used for clinging to struggling prey or as grappling hooks to scramble up trees. Most cats stalked or ambushed their swift prey, then killed with a bite to the back of the neck. And cats, particularly the smaller varieties, preferred night-stalking. Consequently, their eyes evolved to better capture and make use of low light, and hearing became fine-tuned to detect the most subtle rustle or squeak. Cats haunted the grassy fields and scrubby woods and forests which provided them with the cover they needed to stalk their favorite foods.
But cats painted themselves into a corner by relying so heavily on meat. Though they relished eating the vegetable contents of a victim's stomach, cats became obligate carnivores that needed to eat meat, and lots of it, to survive.
CANINE CONTRASTS
Wolves evolved into social creatures that hunted and lived in family groups or packs. Members of the group, both males and females, helped feed, protect and rear the young. Since communal life required optimal communication between pack members, wolves developed sophisticated body language and vocalizations. A hierarchy evolved as well in which dominant animals ruled subordinates, a survival mechanism that reflected their need to get along well together with a minimum of disputes.
Physically, wolf claws became heavier, blunter, and more protective. Paws became less able to grasp, and the wolf muzzle lengthened to better hold and capture prey. The toe-walking canine foot (digitigrade) was well suited to hunting swift antelope of the open grasslands, but was equally adaptable to open woods, and the resulting longer stride promoted the swiftness and stamina that enabled the wolf to run down speedy animals.
DOMESTICATION
How did cats and dogs make that final leap away from the forest and fields and into the human ring of firelight? While the answer remains shrouded in mystery, archeological evidence supports a number of theories. Canine and feline bones found adjacent to ancient human settlements have placed dog domestication at about 15,000 years ago and cat domestication nearly 5000 years ago. But because it can be difficult to tell a wild dog or cat skeleton from a domesticated animal, even the experts argue about dates, and no definitive answer has been determined. Furthermore, recent genetic analysis of fossil remains indicates dogs may have been domesticated 100,000 years ago, much earlier than the archeological record indicates.
The domestication process didn't happen overnight. In fact, it is likely that wolves and wildcats domesticated themselves to a great extent. Although the canine potential caught human attention much earlier than cats, in the end both creatures became equally beloved.
WHEN WORLDS COLLIDE
In the best of all possible worlds, the puppy and kitten grow up together, and accept each other as part of one big happy family. Bringing these species together during their prime socialization period best prepares them for living together in peace and harmony as adults. In the real world, however, that rarely happens.
Before you choose a new fur-kid for your household, keep the following considerations in mind and you may very well avoid the worst cat-dog behavior challenges. The information will also help you understand some of the potential reasons behind your existing cat-dog peeves. You’ll find detailed how-to advice and expanded information in the following chapters for solving cat/dog problems and building your own peaceable kingdom.
THE TEN COMMANDMENTS OF PET DYNAMICS
Introductions are much simpler when your resident pet already knows the rules of the house and is familiar with basic obedience. At a minimum the resident Poochie or Kitty should understand NO!
and Poochie should be leash trained.
It's easier to introduce a newcomer cat to a resident dog than the other way around. The more socially oriented dog tends to be more accepting of newcomers than cats. Dogs also become easily bored and enjoy change, and a new playmate often is just the ticket. However, cats prefer status quo, and any kind of change may be perceived as a threat.
Resident adult pets, whether cat or dog, tend to accept youngsters more readily than a newcomer adult. A baby is less likely to challenge the resident pet's social status than an adult.
The more space that's available, the less trouble you will have. Dogs and cats are both territorial creatures. When there's enough room to go around, there's less reason to squabble. Living on top of each other increases the likelihood that pets will quarrel over territory. A good rule of paw is to have no more pets than there are rooms available in your home. When space is at a premium, the environment must be enriched appropriately, i.e., offer more hiding places, toys, lookout posts, etc. to keep pets occupied. Privacy is important to pets. Dogs and cats each need a place they can call their own, an inviolable sanctuary where they can retreat from the world and not be bothered by the other pets.
Both pets should be familiar with the territory before introductions are made. Often suggestions are made that stranger pets be introduced on neutral
ground, and with two dogs you can take them to the park. But this isn't practical with cat/dog introductions which must take place in the house. To even the playing field, the new pet should be allowed to explore the home without interference from the resident pet prior to introductions.
Choosing complementary pet personalities promotes good relationships.