Work Freely: Love Your Job, Love Your Life
()
About this ebook
Are you choosing your career and the life you want to live, or are circumstances choosing for you? In this smart, savvy book, marketing maven Nancy Richardson and executive coach Rochelle Davidson embolden you to create a career—and a life—that you love.In short, powerful stories, Nancy describes problems she has encountered in the workplace and her discovery of solutions—from consciously defining a personal leadership style to choosing bosses to determining core values as a means of clarity and resilience—that confer more agency, strength, and inspiration. In personal coaching sessions, Rochelle’s incisive commentary and questions reveal how these universal lessons can be applied to your life. Together, the authors illuminate the challenges—the good and the bad—faced by so many leaders of the 21st-century workforce, and a pathway for a new kind of professional.Work Freely shows you how to flip the script that says circumstances are beyond your control. By taking the time to lay out your goals, dreams, and aspirations, you can design a career to suit you—then choose the companies, bosses, friends, and other conditions that meet the criteria you’ve set, to live and work with ultimate freedom.
Nancy Richardson
Wife, mom, and dedicated student of Muay Thai kickboxing and Brazilian jiujitsu, Nancy Richardson began her career with a BA from the University of Washington and an MBA from Ohio State University. After more than twenty years of working in large, corporate environments, including Starbucks and lululemon—where she put in insane hours, had little time with her family, and felt others determined her worth—she decided to design her own life by tapping into the era of start-ups and passion projects, building meaningful brands, and working from home to spend more time with her family. Nancy is the Co-Founder and Principal Strategist of Dragon Lady and Mom ’n’ Pop Shop, two women-led, Vancouver-based marketing start-ups that embody the concept of working freely. Her mission is to embolden the workforce of the future. Nancy was born and raised in Honolulu, Hawaii, and currently lives in Vancouver, Canada.
Related to Work Freely
Related ebooks
Put Yourself Out there: 10 Mind-Hacks to Elevate Your Presence and Increase Your Influence Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDiscover Your WHO: Ignite the Answers Within and Reinvent Your Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPassion, Purpose, and Principles: A Beautiful Life Is the One with a Purpose Find Yours Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWho Makes A Leader, Not What Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChief Everything Officer: A field guide for small organisation leaders Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBe A Leader: Be Who You Want to Be Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFutureproof Your Career: How to Lead and Succeed in a Changing World Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMake Waves: Be the One to Start Change at Work and in Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBreathe to Succeed: Increase Workplace Productivity, Creativity, and Clarity through the Power of Mindfulness Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSix Steps Six Figures - A Power-Packed Guide for Your Career Goals & Life God's Way: Master Your Move - Mind Your Own Business Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGet the Edge! Networking 1-on-1 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLeaping Forward: Finding Your Purpose and Journey as an Entrepreneur Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Brilliant Leader ModelTM: for the Executive Evolution Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Art of Holistic Living Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsUnlock Your Creative Genius: Unlock Your Unlimited Potential! Self-Help Secrets Revealed, #1 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsOutside Influences: The Missing Piece to Success: Catalytic Concepts for Understanding How Life Really Works Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Coach's Journey: Discussing Essential Aspects and Lessons of Professional Coaching Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsIronman Mindset for Entrepreneurs Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSharing Your Story: Marketing Your Book Without The Hard Sell Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsJourney to Joy: Unleashing Your Full Potential and Achieving Your Dreams Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Psychology with a Sparkle Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFrom Chaos to Bliss: Creating Clarity, Confidence, Control and a Life You Love Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Growth Mindset Advantage: Thriving Through Lifelong Learning Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCreate Your Dream Job: Change Your Mindset, Change Your Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsActive Transformation: Authentic Leadership in Business and Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAdviser Secrets How to Become a Top Performer: A Guide to the 13 Most Important Communication Skills Used by Top Performers Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Naked Coach: Business Coaching Made Simple Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStop Networking, Start Needworking: The Intersection of Maslow's Needs and Networking Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Personal Growth For You
The Big Book of 30-Day Challenges: 60 Habit-Forming Programs to Live an Infinitely Better Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Self-Care for People with ADHD: 100+ Ways to Recharge, De-Stress, and Prioritize You! Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Think and Grow Rich (Illustrated Edition): With linked Table of Contents Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Personal Workbook Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unfuck Your Brain: Using Science to Get Over Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Freak-outs, and Triggers Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life. Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Healing the Shame That Binds You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Mastery of Self: A Toltec Guide to Personal Freedom Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose. Rediscover Your Joy. Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Source: The Secrets of the Universe, the Science of the Brain Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for Work Freely
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
Work Freely - Nancy Richardson
Work Freely
Love your job, love your life. Nancy Richardson and Rochelle DavidsonWork Freely. AsianDragonLady ProductionsCopyright © 2019 by Nancy Richardson and Rochelle Davidson
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted, in any form or by any means, without the prior written consent of the publisher or a licence from The Canadian Copyright Licensing Agency (Access Copyright). For a copyright licence, visit www.accesscopyright.ca or call toll free to 1-800-893-5777.
ISBN 978-1-9991879-0-3 (paperback)
ISBN 978-1-9991879-1-0 (ebook)
Published by AsianDragonLady Productions
Produced by Page Two
www.pagetwo.com
Cover design by Kristine Arth
Interior design by Taysia Louie and Fiona Lee
Interior illustrations by Fiona Lee
Ebook by Bright Wing Books (brightwing.ca)
www.workfreely.co
It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.
e.e. cummings
Contents
This Book Is for You
Part I Choose Your Life
01 Dragon Lady
02 The Boss Effect
03 Breadwinner
04 The New Normal
Part II Define Your Leadership
05 One Million Likes
06 Daily Mantra
07 A Decent Proposal
Part III Find Your Power
08 The Value Proposition
09 A Fancy Title
10 Super Self
What’s Next?
Thanks
Landmarks
Cover
Copyright Page
Table of Contents
Body Matter
This Book
Is for You
The concept of this book is choosing your life instead of letting it choose you. All too often, we are consumed by trying to fit into someone else’s box, going from one job to the next, one manager to the next, one project to the next, only to realize that years, and maybe even decades, have gone by in the pursuit of achieving a life we hoped
would someday become a reality. Work Freely is about flipping the script and taking the time to lay out your goals, dreams, and aspirations—designing your career to suit you—then choosing the companies, bosses, friends, and other circumstances that meet the criteria you’ve set, to live and work with ultimate freedom. This book is about choosing your path, defining your leadership, and finding your power to make a life you love not just a possibility but a sure thing.
In the pages ahead, you’ll find a series of stories, each followed by personal coaching by my very own longtime executive coach, Rochelle Davidson. My stories reflect the career challenges I have faced that have kept me from feeling free in the workplace. Coaching is what helped me overcome these obstacles. As you read Rochelle’s coaching sections (Get Coached to Work Freely
), envision that you’re in a session with her, having an intimate discussion that involves all of your senses, in a time just for you. The lessons I share in my stories, combined with Rochelle’s coaching commentary, are designed to equip you with the tools to manage adversity, accelerate your career, and access your Super Self. (See chapter 10.)
This book is meant to be read right before bed, on vacation, or whenever you need to calm a busy mind. It is a tool to help you relax, take back control of your life circumstances, and embrace the fact that you cannot fail, you can only learn.
I hope that you can relate to the stories, personally benefit from the coaching, and know that you are never alone. Read the chapters in any order you like, feeling free to jump around and choose those that are most relevant to you, at the times in your life when you need them the most.
NANCY RICHARDSON
Get Coached
Working beside Nancy in an executive coaching capacity, I am constantly inspired by her courage to look herself in the mirror in service of becoming the leader, mother, wife, and friend she knows she is. That Nancy is willing to so openly share her journey and her lessons is a gift to all of us.
As your coach throughout these pages, I will be your thought partner, cheerleader, ass kicker, and collaborator. You are the expert in your life and I am a fierce stand for what you want, holding that vision even when you are not able to. I don’t tell you what you need to do. That’s up to you. As a coach, I ask you questions—sometimes inspiring, sometimes really frustrating—with the goal of deepening your learning and activating those areas that are most important for you.
In today’s complex and uncertain times, the world needs leaders like Nancy and like you. You are conscious leaders who want to be your best, design your path, learn from experience, lean into challenges, and ultimately have big impacts. It’s not about taking the easy road; it is about doing what’s right—for yourself, your team, your family, your community—and in that there is a sense of freedom. The ripple effect is significant. The world becomes a better place.
Rochelle Davidson
Part 1: Choose Your Life01
Dragon Lady
Declare Who You Are Not, Discover Who You Are
There are almost as many definitions of what it means to be a leader as there are people working on leadership. How must you show up so that you inspire others to follow, regardless of your position or title? Trying to fit into one of the established definitions of leadership competency rarely works! When you figure out who you are at your core, have the humility to accept who you are not, and act from this place of authenticity, people will follow—and you will leave your mark on the world.
It was May 2010. I was beginning my new job at lululemon as the director of digital guest experience. In my first few weeks on the job, it was apparent that I was not at Starbucks anymore. I’d like to say I’m someone who makes decisions and never looks back. But boy did I spend a lot of time wondering if I had made the right decision. Had I been crazy to leave? Where would I be if I had stayed? I knew that looking backward would not help me move forward, but I was struggling with the choice I had made.
The Starbucks Support Center in Seattle, Washington, employed four thousand employees and more than 200,000 partners worldwide. The Support Center