Overcoming the Bench: A Baseball Guide to Players, Coaches & Parents
By Bobby Brown
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Bobby Brown
Bobby Brown is a singer, songwriter, dancer, producer, and actor. He lives in Los Angeles, California, with his wife and children.
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Overcoming the Bench - Bobby Brown
Overcoming the Bench
A Baseball Guide to Players, Coaches & Parentss
Bobby Brown
ISBN (Print Edition): 978-1-09831-828-4
ISBN (eBook Edition): 978-1-09831-829-1
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Table of Contents
Foreword
Introduction
1 Freshman Year
2 Redshirt Freshman Year
3 Redshirt Sophomore Year
4 Redshirt Junior Year
5 Redshirt Senior Year
6 College World Series 2012
7 Kansas City Royals
8 What I Learned
9 Overcoming the Bench
10 Being A Student Athlete
11 Dealing With Failure
12 The Game
13 Coaching
14 Mechanics of the swing
15 Being a Pure Hitter
16 Coach Lopez
Foreword
I dedicate this foreword to Bruce, Bobby, Bradley and Britts. Thank you for giving me, The time of my life.
My son asked me to write the foreword for his book. Where do you start? I could start when he was 4 years old and I took him to the park and we were playing catch. I beaned him right in the nose and he said he never wanted to play baseball again. Ironically, what he said a few months later while we were watching a Padre game in San Diego, he said, I will be there someday.
I thought nothing of it until….14 years later.
I would tell parents that have a child with a special talent to get ready for a wild ride. I’m not talking about a child that does well at something. I’m talking about a child that you already know that he/she is a freak.
You will spend more money than you have to help them achieve whatever that greatness will be. You will refinance your house, put 350 thousand miles on your SUV so you can hang on to the journey. There is nothing to prepare you for this. Starting at the age of 11 or earlier, every other weekend you will be in some other town for a tournament while your child balances little league and school. If you are good enough you will be asked to play on a pro Scout team. We did that for 2 years during the week and on weekends. Bobby doing his homework in the car for the 2 hour ride each way from San Diego to LA and back was common.
And if that is not enough, he played International baseball for 2 summers. If your child ever gets the opportunity to play International ball, do it. You meet players, parents and coaches from all over the world. Even though we mostly could not communicate, we did so with baseball. The pin trading and jersey trades were so much fun. I actually think the parents enjoyed the pin trading more than the kids. The jerseys that we have from other countries are priceless.
If your child is a freak,
you will have coaches fight over your child. There is the potential for the parents to be jealous. Don’t be a part of their drama. This is why we always sat beyond the outfield fence and almost never in the stands. It likely fueled them, but we did not want to be a part of that. We were fortunate to be a part of this team that had no such drama and jealousy when Bobby was around 12. With this team we played a tournament in Colorado with 64 teams and we placed 9th. We only had 9 players for this particular tournament. No one could get hurt and everyone had to pitch. Pretty amazing and I have to say it was really fun to run rule the other teams by the 4th inning.
Don’t forget about those hitting instructors to tweak this or that to prevent the, dare say it, ‘slump.’ I tried never to mention the ‘S’ word. Too much pressure. I felt my role was to keep everything organized, supportive and be the ‘safe island’ in the middle of this madness. Be aware some head coaches will try to change your kids swing causing contradictory information to the hitting instructors’ philosophy.
We figured that Bobby played around 1,500 games before he set off on his journey at the University of Arizona.
My thoughts on college are this, if you’re lucky to get a scholarship it likely won’t be much. Do not expect a big one. There are only 11.7 scholarships available for each DI Team. So do the math. 35 players and 11.7 scholarships. If you can get an academic scholarship to help great, but do not count on this. When Bobby’s team went to the College World Series and won, we financially could not attend. Just not a dime left in the coffers. Watching on TV from home was not the same, but still an amazing thing to see your kid hit a home run in the Series and become,1st Team All-Tournament DH.
You will have many ups and downs. Anyone that knows baseball at all knows that there is lot of failure. Try not to ever get to high or too low. It’s impossible though. After a rough tournament or game, my husband would go over and over and over what went wrong. Blah blah blah….Sometimes it was just too much and I would cry. Then I would think to myself, why am I getting so upset over a game? There is no crying in baseball…..right?
One thing I know is that quite a number of coaches and scouts get hooked on some kid and that kid gets drafted. Many of those kids are generally oozing with talent, but lazy. I guess they are hoping for the so called upside.
The whole thing is really just a big guess. And boy do they get it wrong when they get it wrong. It seems that some do not do their homework on a kid. When you are around baseball all the time you know all the players. Some kids have a ton of talent but are miserable to be around. Bad attitudes can ruin a team. Try not to get too pissed off about this. Life is not fair. Bobby did not get drafted, but you will read in this book that Bobby did have the opportunity and was signed as a free agent by the Kansas City Royals. The key is just having the opportunity.
The journey is more than just baseball. It teaches the players and their parents about life. Make this a family journey. I always tried to have our other 2 children feel special too and all the traveling together makes for so many family memories. The long drives, double headers in 120-degree heat, the spectacular wins, making sandwiches at 80 MPH in the car and the family time at the hotels is priceless. We turned many of the trips into mini vacations, sightseeing; and visiting family along the way. Who doesn’t want to see the world’s biggest thermometer, pan for gold, visit the oldest water tower in some city or play I Spy in the desert?
I am thankful for Bruce’s (Bobby’s father) extensive knowledge about baseball. Having played the game through college and semi pro, he was able to navigate, ‘the ropes’ of the game where I could not. When it’s all over you