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( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 386) dk;Z djs rks mlds vanj Hkh vgadkj iSnk ugah gksxkA
vFkkZr~ euq"; dks fdlh dk cqjk ugha lkspuk pkfg,] D;ksafd tSls geus mijksDr vkbZ D;w dks le>k] Bhd oSls gh èkeZ
;fn euq"; fdlh dk cqjk lksprk gS rks mls vusd izdkj ds 'kkjhfjd esa bZ D;w gksrk gSA bZ D;w ls vfHkizk; beks'kuy dks'kaV (Emotional
o ekufld jksx gks tkrs gSaA Quotient) gSA okLro esa èkeZ esa bUlku Hkkoqd (emotional ) gksrk
gS vkSj Hkkoqdrk ds dkj.k euq"; dsoy Hkkoukvksa rd gh lhfer
dqN yksx vKkurko'k ;k vaèkfo'okl ds dkj.k ;g le>rs
jg tkrk gSA ijUrq dchj lkfgc dgrs gSa%
gSa fd 'kk;n èkeZ vkSj foKku dk vkil esa esy ugha gS vkSj ;g
nksuksa nks vyx&vyx fo"k; gSa ijarq ;fn ge foKku vkSj èkeZ nksuksa dchjk tgk fxvkuq rg èkjeq gSAA
dh vksj ns[ksa rks nksuksa ds dkj.k gh fodkl gksrk gS] mUufr gksrh ( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 1372)
gS vkSj nksuksa ds }kjk gh euq"; viuh thou ;k=kk djrk gSA vFkkZr~ ;fn euq"; ds ikl Kku ugha gS rks ftls og Hkkoqdrk
tks euq"; foKku dh lgk;rk ls [kkst djrk gS] mldk esa èkeZ le>dj fuHkk jgk gS og dsoy mldk vaèkfo'okl gksxkA
vè;;u djrk gS] ml euq"; dk vkbZ D;w&buVSfytSaV dks'kaV dsoy Hkkoqdrk ds lkFk tqM+s yksx] foKku dks ugha ekurs o mldks
(IQ - Intelligence Quotient) mruk gh fodflr gksrk tkrk gSA bl v;ksX; (invalid) fl¼ djus dk iz;Ru djrs gSaA os R;kxh gksdj]
vkbZ D;w (cqf¼ Lrj) dks vke euq"; dh vis{kk oSKkfud vfèkd taxy vkfn tSls LFkkuksa ij pys tkrs gSaA (;gka ge dsoy Hkkjr
iz;ksx djrs gSaA ijUrq ;fn euq"; vkbZ D;w (IQ) dks gh lc dqN ds èkeks± dh gh ckr ugha dj jgs cfYd fo'o esa ftrus Hkh èkeZ
le> ys] rc mldks ,d fodkj lrkus yxrk gS vkSj og gS vgadkjA gSa mu lcdks lkFk ysdj py jgs gSaA) os gj izdkj dk gB;ksx djrs
tSls fd ;fn euq"; lksps fd veqd [kkst eSus dh] bl dk;Z dks gSa] tSls fd ,d Vkax ij ?kaVksa [kM+s jguk] dbZ&dbZ fnuksa rd uk
dqN [kkuk uk cksyuk] eSys dqpSys diM+s iguuk] 'kjhj ij jk[k eyuk]
losjk 33 foKku vkSj /eZ losjk 34 foKku vkSj /eZ
bR;kfnA ,sls euq"; beks'kuy dks'kaV (Emotional Quotient) ds lkFk D;ksafd mldks le> vk tk,xh %
tqM+s gq, gksrs gSaA bl rjg dk O;ogkj djrs gq,] og Lo;a dks
tiq riq lateq èkjeq u dekbvkAA
mnklhurk dh fn'kk esa ys tkrs gSaA tgka mUgsa èkeZ ds lkFk tqM+dj
lsok lkèk u tkfuvk gfj jkbvkAA
eu dks fLFkj djuk Fkk] ogha mudk eu gj le; HkVdrk jgrk
dgq ukud ge uhp djEekAA
gSA og ,dne ls rks vkRegR;k ugha djrs cfYd èkhjs&èkhjs Lo;a
ljf.k ijs dh jk[kgq ljekAA
dks d"V nsus yxrs gSa] tSls fd galrs ugha gSa] lksrs ugah gSaA xq#
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 12)
lkfgc dk dFku gS %
vkSj
ikBq ifM+vks v# csnq chpkfjvks fuofy Hkqvaxe lkèksAA
tks rqèkq HkkoS lkbZ Hkyh dkjAA
iat tuk flmq laxq u NqVfdvks vfèkd vgacqfèk ckèksAA
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 3)
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 641)
vFkkZr~ bZ'oj ds fu;ekuqlkj pyus esa gh HkykbZ gS D;ksafd
vFkkZr~ ;fn euq"; deZdk.M vkSj vaèkfo'okl djrk gqvk]
lc txg gh bZ'oj dk fu;e py jgk gSA
Lo;a dks èkehZ le> jgk gS] rc mlds vUnj vgadkj vkuk LokHkkfod
gS vkSj blls euq"; esa tks fodkj gSa] og nwj ugha gksaxs cfYd vkSj xq# lkfgc fHkUu fHkUu izdkj dh okd~'kSyh viukdj] gesa
iziQqfYyr gksaxsA ;g ckr ckj ckj n`<+ djokrs gSa fd fdlh Hkh inkFkZ dks rqPN le>dj
ges mldk R;kx ugha djuk pkfg,A tgka dbZ èkeZ ;g ekurs gSa fd
gkfj ifjvks lqvkeh dS nqvkjS nhtS cqfèk fccsdkAA
lHkh lkalkfjd oLrqvksa dk R;kx dj] taxy esa pys tkvks] ogha dbZ
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 641)
èkeZ ;g Hkh ekurs gSa fd lkalkfjd inkFkks± dks Hkksx dj tc Fkd
vFkkZr~ euq"; bZ'oj ls ;g izkFkZuk djs fd eq>s og cqf¼
tkvks] rc bu oLrqvksa dk R;kx dj] èkeZ dk ekxZ viukuk pkfg,A
feys] ftlls esjs eu esa fLFkjrk vk tk,A
ijUrq ;g rks ?kM+h ds iSUMqye (pendulum) ds leku gks x;k] ftlds
xq# lkfgc euq"; dks ;gh le>kuk pkgrs gSa fd euq"; vius ,d rjiQ lkalkfjd inkFkks± dk R;kx gS vkSj nwljh vksj lkalkfjd
eu dks fLFkj voLFkk esa ys vk, vkSj rc mls le> vk tk,xh inkFkks± dk Hkksx foyklA
fd èkeZ ds uke ij tks deZdk.M fd, tkrs gSa] foKku ds fo:¼
xq# ukud lkfgc nksuksa fopkj/kjkvksa dks u ekudj ,slh
tks dk;Z fd, tkrs gSa ;k fiQj izd`fr ds fu;eksa ds mYV tks ekax
fopkj/kjk dks egRo nsrs gSa ftlds vuqlkj euq"; vius thou esa
dh tkrh gS] og lc O;FkZ gSA
fLFkjrk vkSj larqf"V yk ldsA bl voLFkk dks xq# lkfgc ^jkt ;ksx*
xq# lkfgc dgrs gSa fd ;fn euq"; lp dk Kku izkIr dj dgrs gSa vFkkZr~ jkt dk Hkh vkuUn ysuk vkSj vanj ls Kku ds lkFk
ys rks og xzgLFkh dk R;kx djus dh Hkkouk ls Åij mB tk,xk tqM+ dj ;ksxh Hkh cuukA
losjk 35 foKku vkSj /eZ losjk 36 foKku vkSj /eZ
xq# lkfgc mijksDr ckr dks bl izdkj Hkh le>krs gSa% dks u viuk,a rks ;g Bhd ugha gksxk D;ksafd geus bl ys[k ds vkjEHk
esa gh Li"V fd;k gS fd foKku fdlh u, inkFkZ dk fuekZ.k ugha
eksrh r eanj vljfg jruh r gksfg tM+kmqAA
djrk cfYd tks inkFkZ bl l`f"V esa fo|eku gSa] mudh [kkst djrk
dlrwfj dqaxw vxfj panfu yhfi vkoS pkmqAA
gS vkSj euq"; ds fnyks&fnekx ls mu inkFkks± ds izfr tks vaèk fo'okl
erq nsf[k Hkwyk ohljS rsjk fpfr u vkoS ukmqAA
gSa mls gVkus esa lgk;d gksrk gSA ;gh dke èkeZ dk Hkh gSA vr%
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 14)
foKku ds fcuk èkeZ vèkwjk gS vkSj èkeZ ds fcuk foKkuA ;g nksuksa
vFkkZr~ ;fn esjk ?kj eksrh vkSj jRu Tokgj ls cuk gks vkSj
gh ,d nwljs ds iwjd gSaA xqjefr] gesa foKku vkSj /eZ dk ijLij
ml ij dLrwjh dk ysi fd;k gks] esjs iyax ij ghjs&jRu tM+s gksa]
laca/ lw>krh gS] ftlesa gesa ,e D;w (MQ) vkSj ,l D;w (SQ)
esjk thoulkFkh (spouse) Hkh cgqr lqUnj gks] ijUrq bu lc dk
nksuksa feyrs gSaA ,e D;w ls vfHkizk; uSfrdrk (Moral Quotient)
vkuUn ysrs ysrs ;fn eSa bZ'oj dks Hkwy tkÅa] rc esjk thou O;FkZ
ls gS vkSj ,l D;w ls vfHkizk; :gkfu;r (Spiritual Quotient)
gS] D;ksafd ^^gfj fcljr lnk [kqvkjh** (xq# xzaFk lkfgc]
ls gSA ;fn ge nksuksa dks lkFk esa j[ksa rHkh ge thou ds f'k[kj
iUuk 711) esjs ikl vkbZ D;w gksxh] èku nkSyr dh 'kfDr Hkh gksxh]
rd igqap ldrs gSaA
ij fiQj Hkh eSa vgadkj o'k tyrk jgwaxkA
xq# lkfgc viuh ok.kh esa tgka foKku dks lkFk ysdj pyrs
ijarq gka ! ;fn eSa bu lc inkFkks± dks Hkksxrs gq, bZ'oj ds
gSa] ogha muds fopkj iw.kZr% rdZiw.kZ (full of logic) Hkh gksrs gSaA vkt
lkFk tqM+k jgwa] lPps Kku ds ekxZ ij pywa] bZ'oj dh cukbZ gqbZ bl
foKku yksxksa dks isM+ksa ds izfr tkx:d dj jgk gS vkSj ;g lans'k
l`f"V ds vkxs uReLrd gw¡] mls Lohdkj dj jgk gw¡ rks ekuks fd
ns jgk gS fd yksx isM+ u dkVk djsa cfYd fnu izfrfnu vius vkl
eSa bZ'oj dh d`ik&n`f"V dk ik=k cu tkrk gw¡A
ikl vkSj isM+ yxk;k djsaA bl èkjrh ij fiNys dqN o"kks± esa ftrus
dbZ yksx ;g ekurs gSa fd ;g l`f"V >wB gS] ;g lalkj >wB isM+ dVs gS] mlls vkst+ksu ysvj (ozone layer) iryh iM+ xbZ gS
gS] ;gka ftrus Hkh inkFkZ gSa] ;g lc eksg&ek;k gSA ijUrq ;fn ge vkSj iznw"k.k c<+k gSA xq# lkfgc Hkh ;gh dg jgs gSa fd%
;g lkspsa fd bu lc inkFkks± dks fdlus cuk;k\ rc mÙkj feysxk
xxu eS Fkkyq jfo panq nhid cus
bZ'oj us vkSj tc ge bl lalkj dks >wB dg jgs gSa] rc ge vizR;{k
rkfjdk eaMy tud eksrhAA
:i ls bZ'oj dks Hkh >wBk dg jgs gSaA tSls ;fn ge fdlh ds u`R;
èkwiq eyvkuyks io.kq pojks djs
dks >wBk dgsa rks bldk vFkZ ;g gqvk fd u`R;d >wBk gS ;k fiQj
lxy cujkfb iQwyar tksrhAA
;fn fdlh dh dfork >wBh gS] rks bldk vfHkizk; Hkh ;gh gqvk
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 13)
fd dfork fy[kus okyk dfo >wBk gSA Bhd blh izdkj ;fn ge
vFkkZr~ lEiw.kZ ouLifr] taxy] gfj;kyh (greenery) esa tks
bl l`f"V dks >wB dgrs gSa] rks bldks cukus okyk bZ'oj Hkh rks >wBk
iQwy&iÙks f[kys gSa vkSj ftuls okrkoj.k lqxafèkr gks jgk gS] ;g bZ'oj
gqvkA vr% ;fn ge bl l`f"V esa fo|eku fdlh inkFkZ dks ;k foKku
losjk 37 foKku vkSj /eZ losjk 38 foKku vkSj /eZ
dh vkjrh gh rks gSA dkVus dh bPNk gh ugha gksrhA mls ;g vPNh rjg ls le> vk
pqdk gksrk gS fd izd`fr ds fu;eksa dk ikyu gh] izd`fr ds utnhd]
ikrh rksjS ekfyuh ikrh ikrh thmAA
izd`fr ds lkFk jgus dk <ax gSA
( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 479)
euq"; dks iwtk&vpZuk djus ds fy, iQwy&iÙkksa dks ugha ;fn gesa ;g le> vk tk,] rc ge vius Hkhrj dh vksj
rksM+uk pkfg, D;ksafd Qwy&iÙks o`{kksa ij yxs gh bZ'oj dh vkjrh Hkh ;k=kk (travel) djuh 'kq: dj nsaxsA ftl euq"; ds ikl lPpk
djus ds fy, gSaA budh lqxaèk ls bZ'oj dh vkjrh Lo;a gks jgh Kku gS vkSj og bZ'ojh; fu;eksa ds vuqdwy viuk thou O;rhr
gSA djrk gSA okLro esa ogh euq"; vehj gSA
vDlj ge fdlh ds tUefnol ij] fdlh dk Lokxr djus xq# lkfgc dk dFku gS%
ds fy,] fdlh dks izlUu djus ds fy, Qwyksa dk xqynLrk nsrs gSa ftg izlkfn Nrhg ve`r [kkfgAA
;k vkl ikl dk okrkoj.k Qwyksa ls ltkrs gSa] blds foijhr xq# frlq Bkdqj dmq j[kq eu ekfgAA
lkfgc vkSj foKku dk ;gh fopkj gS fd Qwy&iÙkksa dks muds ( xq # xz a F k lkfgc] iUuk 269)
izkd`frd :i esa gh jgus nsuk pkfg,A
bl dFku esa euq"; dks bZ'oj ds izfr d`rKrk (gratitude)
xqjer fopkj/kkjk euq"; dks u'khys inkFkZ vkfn dk lsou dh Hkkouk fl[kkbZ xbZ gS fd euq"; bl l`f"V esa bZ'oj }kjk fn,
djus ls jksdrh gS] vkt foKku Hkh u'khys inkFkks± ds lsou dks 'kjhj x, inkFkks± dk Kku ds lkFk iz;ksx djsA ;gh ^jkt ;ksx* dk vkuUn
ds fy, gkfudkjd dgrk gSA gSA ;gh lPpk èkeZ gSA
blh fopkj/kjk ds vuqlkj euq"; dks vius 'kjhj ds jkseksa
(hair) dks dkVuk ugha pkfg,A vkt tSls foKku us ;g fu"d"kZ
fudky fy;k gS fd isM+ksa dks dkVus ls iznw"k.k c<+k gS] vkst+ksu ysvj
dks gkfu gqbZ gS bR;kfn] oSls gh Hkfo"; esa foKku ;g Hkh fu"d"kZ
fudky ldrk gS fd ekuo 'kjhj ij tks jkse gSa] mUgsa dkVus ls
D;k gkfu;ka gks ldrh gSaA
dqN yksx ;g le>rs gSa fd ds'k (cky) j[kus ls 'kk;n
bZ'oj fey tkrk gSA okLro esa] tks euq"; bZ'oj ls ,d gks tkrk
gS] og èkeZ o foKku nksuks ds vuqlkj] viuk thou O;rhr djrk
gS vFkkZr~ :gkfu;r (vkRek Kku) rd igqap tkrk gS] rc mls cky