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The
Matrix
is
omnipresent.
It
is
ubiquitous,
it
is
all-encompassing,
it
is
all-seeing,
it
is
all- knowing.
From
billboards
to
magazines
to
TV
shows
to
high
school
clubs
to
advertisements
to
movies
to
father-son
conversations
to
novels
to
fairy
tales
to
news
paper
articles
to
proverbs
to
jokes;
it
is
literally
fucking
everywhere.
It
starts
with
Disney
movies.
From
a
young
age
all
men
are
exposed
to
a
stream-line
of
normalization
that
teaches
them
that
all
girls
are
princesses
and
all
women
are
led
to
believe
that
they
are
entitled
to
their
own
fairy
tales.
By
their
pre-teen
years,
boys
have
been
thoroughly
conditioned
to
believe
that
all
women
need
to
be
placed
on
pedestals,
that
insecurities
are
a
parasitic
yet
beneficial
aspect
of
relationships,
and
that
one
day,
it
will
be
honorable
for
them
to
willingly
sacrifice
their
minds
to
a
media-fueled
pop
sensation
soul-mate
mythology
whose
sole
function
is
to
systemically
sterilize
them
and
all
of
their
kin.
Other
girls
give
them
shitty
advice,
leading
them
to
think
that
girls
actually
like
desperate
behavior
and
that
the
appropriate
way
to
win
a
woman's
heart
involves
a
prostrating
desire
for
exclusivity,
a
willingness
to
spend
a
suicidal
amount
of
money
on
flowers,
and
an
over-protective
standard
of
commitment.
The
few
men
who
are
able
to
escape
the
jaws
of
a
greater
feminized
imperative
adopt
a
perverted
form
of
masculinity,
becoming
the
famously
labeled
"jerks"
of
society,
extroverting
their
insecurities
in
the
form
of
cocky,
arrogant,
or
obnoxious
behavior.
Afraid
of
commitment
and
themselves,
they
are
the
future
janitors
of
our
race.
Of
the
saved
souls,
only
a
few
become
real
"men"
-
and
even
they
have
trouble
articulating
their
leadership
into
useful
forms.
From
video
games
to
materialism,
the
hyper-addictive
personality
embodied
by
contemporary
society
successfully
transfigures
them
into
a
corrupted
version
of
themselves.
Nice
guys
are
praised
for
their
willingness
to
bend
over
and
take
it
up
the
ass.
Jerks
are
demonized
for
jizzing
on
other
peoples
faces.
"Real"
men
waste
all
their
time
playing
video
games,
masturbating,
and
engaging
in
other
useless
activities.
In
short,
men
are
taught
to
be
pussies
and
no
one
realizes
that
they're
being
lied
to
until
it's
too
late.
The
ending
isn't
from
a
Disney
movie.
The
symptoms
of
a
decaying
post-modern
society
leak
out
in
the
form
of
divorce
rates
and
psycho-social
pathologies.
Approach
anxiety
seizes
its
victims
by
the
throat
and
turns
good
natured
men
into
lifeless
herbs
who
innocuously
orbit
the
dark
corners
of
clubs
and
bars.
Jealousy
etches
itself
into
the
foundation
of
every
relationship
as
men
opt
for
lackluster
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Chapter The First: Internal Game THE MATRIX Why do my eyes hurt? Youve never used them before
attempts at controlling their emotions. The defiant subculture of game turns into a tool used to oppress women rather than liberate men - it's original purpose. Husbands and boyfriends world-wide contemplate suicide or murder everyday because they can't stand the idea of "the one" leaving them to get raw-dogged by fresh cock in some dark alleyway. Girls who refuse to acknowledge the true, biologically determined, nature of men are left in the dark and fed acreages of shit in their own abusive or pathetically isolated half-relationships. The swath of supplicatory comments offered as tribute to them on facebook via decadent bitchboys galvanizes even the most repulsive of marsh monsters to join the league of extraordinary cunts an exclusive priori dedicated to burning an embroidery of feminism unto their world. The sexual market is merciless in its judgment. Men begin to seek solace in World of Warcraft and porn magazines. The mass production of lube makes it possible to find comfort in jerking off to lesbian literature while avoiding the horrifying experience of being rejected by a real girl. Social skills, like common sense, become a rare commodity. The purifying acid wash of reality begins to settle in as the painful dissolution of humanity begins its tragic descent to chaos. This is the degenerated acropolis of refined culture you begin your journey for self-improvement in.
Men
werent
really
the
enemy
they
were
fellow
victims
suffering
from
an
outmoded
masculine
mystique
that
made
them
feel
unnecessarily
inadequate
when
there
were
no
bears
to
kill.
-Betty
Friedan
National
Geographic
News
reports
that
after
sequencing
the
genome
of
the
chimpanzee,
scientists
have
found
humans
to
be
96%
similar
in
genetic
makeup
to
the
great
ape
species.
The
4%
difference
has
amounted
to
a
significant
change
in
appearance,
the
ability
to
use
our
thumbs,
and
a
few
other
idiosyncrasies,
which
by
a
mad
stroke
of
luck,
has
allowed
an
utterly
insignificant
ape-descended
life
form
to
become
the
only
self-labeled
sentient
beings
on
earth.
Ecclesiastical
law,
Hollywood
ethos,
and
the
strained
sciences
are
all
elocutions
of
that
small
4%;
but
the
truth
remains,
the
4%
we
pay
such
an
insurmountable
attention
to
pales
in
comparison
to
our
anatomically
pre-determined
nature
with
regards
to
our
overall
behavioral
schema.
But
no
statistics
are
required
to
prove
that
our
atavistically
driven
instincts
are
the
real
motivators
behind
our
complex
social
interplays
only
a
brief
glance
at
the
male
sex
drive.
Year
round,
weak
men
are
dazzled
by
ostentatious
shows
of
skin
and
the
numbing
power
of
beauty.
From
cleavage
to
legs,
the
propensity
of
lesser
men
to
allow
themselves
to
be
consumed
by
aesthetic
delight
is
somewhat
awe-inspiring.
For
a
period
of
time
before
they
hit
the
wall,
women
hold
within
their
hands
God-like
power.
But
why
the
obsession
with
beauty?
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Men, on average, tend to place a higher value on physical appearance in a partner than women do. This may be explained by evolutionary psychology as a possible consequence of ancestral humans who selected partners based on secondary sexual characteristics, as well as general indicators of fitness (for example, symmetrical features) enjoying greater reproductive success as a result of higher fertility in those partners. A feature of beautiful women that has been explored by researches is a waist-to-hip ratio of approximately 0.70. Physiologists have shown that women with hourglass figures are more fertile than other women due to higher levels of certain female hormones, a fact that may subconsciously condition males choosing mates.1 Modern science has stripped beauty of its grandeur and turned it into a calculable phenomenon. There is no arcane magic behind it, no Delphic fascination, no preternatural meaning. Beauty is simply indicative of a womans ability to reproduce. Bloated vaginas and warts make women less attractive because men are predisposed to noticing such things as caveats for infertility. So what determines what women are attracted to? A males ability to provide resources for offspring was likely signaled less by physical features. This is considered to be due to the most prominent indicator of fertility in women being youth, while the traits in a man that enhance reproductive success are proxies for his ability to accrue resources and protect.2 The age old mystery of female sexuality dissected by rudimentary logic and text-book science. This is where the seed of confidence lies. The world has evolved from an age where physical adaptivity determined the most dominant males. Social adaptivity has taken control of the reins of productive utility and in return, the mental filters that women use to select mates have shifted to recognize more abstract qualities, less quantifiable than brute strength.
1 Stephen J. Dubner (July 9, 2007). "The Science of Large Breasts, and Other Evolutionary Verities". The New York Times
2
Abigail Trafford, Andrew Cherlin (Mar. 6, 2001). "Second Opinion: Men's Health & Marriage". Washington Post.
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Women
are
attracted
to
confident
men
because
they
have
evolved
to
recognize
them
as
the
ones
most
capable
of
providing
for
them
and
their
off
springs.
A
decisive
man
who
could
lead
his
troops
to
victory,
who
could
keep
his
family
from
falling
into
desolate
poverty,
and
who
could
pass
on
his
lady-killer
genes
to
his
son
is
the
contemporary
equivalent
of
a
caveman
who
could
strangle
a
pterodactyl
with
his
pubes.
From
a
psychological
perspective,
it
makes
sense
for
a
girl
to
assume
that
confident
men
have
substance
behind
their
game
because
power
and
authority
have
consistently
correlated
with
the
natural
cultivation
of
a
confident
aura.
The
dizzying
rate
of
aggregating
complexities
in
modern
society
continues
to
create
ways
to
circumvent
this
law.
Insecure
men
well
versed
in
IT
vernacular
can
easily
accumulate
massive
amounts
of
wealth,
and
theoretically,
very
high
provider
capabilities;
but
ultimately
this
remains
irrelevant.
Confidence
does
not
delineate
an
absolute
amount
of
Power
nor
does
it
work
the
other
way
around.
The
entire
premise
of
game
was
originally
based
on
manipulating
this
dynamic
by
mimicking
traits
that
dominant
men
naturally
possessed
to
elicit
the
same
responses
they
would
get
from
women.
But
assessing
the
exact
percentage
of
accuracy
this
theory
has
historically
held
does
us
no
good.
For
our
purposes,
it
is
clear
enough
that
confidence
and
masculinity
are
generally
the
most
attractive
traits
a
man
can
possess
because
in
the
250,000+
years
of
our
existence,
they
were
indicative
of
a
male
with
high
reproductive
value.
Any
method
focused
on
developing
inner
game
would
have
to
revolve
around
these
traits.
But
do
these
methods
even
exist?
It
would
seem
as
though
life
has
played
a
cruel
trick
on
mankind,
that
only
a
handful
would
be
born
with
confidence
and
inner
game
while
the
rest
of
us
were
doomed
to
suffer
from
calloused
hands
or
be
forced
into
settling
for
stretched
out
labials
at
a
later
age.
Some
men
just
seem
to
have
life
made
out
easier
for
them,
imbued
with
a
natural
ability
to
charm
women
into
agreeing
to
threesomes.
The
genesis
of
game
has
given
birth
to
a
strict
process
of
segregating
men
into
naturals
and
unnaturals
or
men
who
are
innately
capable
of
seduction
versus
men
who
have
to
consciously
maroon
their
targets
based
on
sound
principles.
The
truth
is,
the
entire
dichotomy
between
natural
and
unnatural
is
false
and
stems
from
a
misunderstanding
of
social
development.
The
term
natural
itself
is
a
misnomer
certain
men
only
seem
to
be
organically
saturated
with
charisma
because
they
were
placed
in
favorable
positions
when
they
were
young.
The
shocking
thing
about
a
natural
is
not
his
intrinsic
ability
to
emanate
confidence,
but
the
age
at
which
he
picked
up
through
experience
what
you
are
now
meticulously
learning
through
study.
Men
who
have
had
Alpha
fathers
or
father
figures
to
model
themselves
after
have
a
higher
chance
of
becoming
Alpha
than
men
who
grew
up
in
pampered
households
surrounded
by
AFCs.
Boys
who
were
captain
of
their
little
league
teams
will
develop
more
leadership
qualities
than
their
friends
who
actively
bleach
their
faces
from
staring
at
computer
screens.
And
most
importantly,
men
who
have
enjoyed
success
with
women
at
an
early
age
are
able
to
build
on
their
success
by
capitalizing
on
a
marginal
boost
in
confidence
while
their
soon-to-be-beta
counterparts
will
dwell
endlessly
in
a
cesspool
of
failures.
Confidence
is
not
a
visceral
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characteristic; it is the result of proper conditioning. While certain road blocks, like getting sorted into Hufflepuff, can severely hamper ones self-esteem, we can intentionally place our selves in favorable positions at a later age to make up for lost times.
I see now that the circumstances of ones birth are irrelevant; it is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are -Mewtwo If the attractiveness of a man can be reduced to his proxies for accruing resources, committing to protecting his offspring, and other vigilant qualities, then the operational purpose of qualities like confidence can be reduced to a single term survivability. On a more comprehensive spectrum of evolution, survivability is determined almost exclusively by an animals ability to adapt to its environment. Decorum is the evolved form of this type of physical acclimation, superior etiquette the refined version of superior physical presence, and suave propriety the modern reconstruction of external displays of fertility. Activities that bolster the aptitude of a man to survive in a socio-economically driven world like any activity that harbors a competitive mentality- would likely correlate with a development in inner game. The new study, published in The Journal of Strength & Conditioning Research, was led by Andrew C. Fry, PhD, CSCS, of University of Kansas. He and his team collected blood samples from collegiate wrestlers before and after matches to measure levels of testosterone and other hormones. When hormone levels of the winners and losers of the matches were compared, testosterone levels rose in both groups of athletes. However, average testosterone levels increased more among wrestlers who won their matches compared with those who did not. Elevated testosterone levels have been studied in other athletes as well, ranging from high resistance weight trainers to basketball players. However, an increase in testosterone levels is not limited to physically competitive activities. In a study conducted in Japan, saliva samples were collected from 90 healthy male university students who were members of a competitive Japanese chess club (shogi) immediately before and after playing chess, and again 30 minutes later. The researchers found an increase in testosterone and cortisol in the saliva of players, regardless of whether they had won or lost.
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Increases
were
more
pronounced
the
more
competitive
the
game.3
Studies
concur;
men
who
are
competitive
are
more
alpha
than
their
vagina
bequeathed
brethren.
If
youre
young,
you
have
time
to
pick
up
a
sport.
If
youre
older,
your
career
is
the
way
to
go.
Become
uncannily
good
at
anything
you
do
approach
it
with
an
untapped
competitive
potential
and
your
flaccid
personality
will
follow
in
suit.
It
is
no
coincidence
that
men
who
stand
out
in
their
respective
fields
generally
display
Alpha
characteristics.
The
study
indirectly
makes
note
of
two
additional
points.
First,
the
intensity
of
a
mans
competitive
fervor
directly
affects
his
level
of
confidence.
Star
Centers
will
be
more
alpha
than
3rd
string
point
guards;
nationally
acclaimed
chess
players
will
be
more
alpha
than
local
chess
enthusiasts.
If
you
want
to
be
confident,
have
something
to
be
confident
about.
If
you
spend
your
weekends
touring
dildo
factories
and
your
weekdays
logging
billions
of
hours
on
Xbox
Live,
you
have
little
hope
of
drawing
women
to
their
boudoirs.
Second,
the
key
ingredient
is
competition,
not
sports.
It
would
be
unfair
to
quickly
draw
a
super-nerd
AFC
stereotype
based
on
the
presumption
that
a
guy
plays
video
games.
The
recent
influx
of
hyper-competitive
e-sports
has
given
birth
to
a
new
milieu
of
gamers,
ones
who
pursue
their
hobbies
with
the
same
gusto
seen
in
men
who
have
reserved
their
tenacity
for
physical
sports
and
the
world
of
business.
Predictably,
pro-gamers
are
all
alpha,
rake
in
glorious
amounts
of
coquettish
pussy,
and
achieve
celebrity
status
in
return
for
their
talents.
Their
friends
who
prefer
playing
uncompetitive
games
get
shafted
by
Darwinism
and
eventually
tossed
aside
like
sperm
receptacle.
Compete.
Dominate.
Repeat.
A
competitive
mentality
is
not
the
only
ground
upon
which
a
progressively
confident
persona
can
be
developed.
If
the
functional
purpose
of
confidence
can
be
reduced
to
survivability
then
increasing
the
number
of
social
adaptations
a
man
is
capable
of
would
have
an
equal
effect.
Physically,
this
would
translate
to
cleansing
oneself
of
bodily
weaknesses
like
allergies.
In
our
case,
this
refers
to
getting
rid
of
social
phobias.
From
spiders
to
public
speaking,
the
fears
we
casually
brush
off
as
insouciant
manifestations
of
youth
and
inexperience
are
metaphysical
maladies
that
hold
us
back
from
functioning
at
the
acme
of
our
potentials.
While
shortcuts
can
be
taken
to
minimize
the
amount
of
mental
trauma
caused
by
having
to
confront
these
problems,
I
suggest
avoiding
them.
The
trauma
caused
from
facing
your
bte- noir
is
necessary,
you
need
to
associate
extreme
pain
with
the
overly
vagrant
personality
you
have
now.
Afraid
of
germs?
Throw
yourself
into
a
vat
of
infectious
miasma
and
absorb
your
enemies.
Afraid
of
talking
to
a
girl?
Do
100
approaches
every
night
using
lines
from
Seinfeld.
3
Mitchell, Deborah (January 26, 2011) Higher Testosterone Found in Winning Wrestlers, Chess Players. EmaxHealth
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Afraid of spiders? Hire a prostitute to dress in a Xeno-arachnid costume and hatefuck her till you develop a bizarre fetish for harvestmen. Afraid of physical confrontation? Compete in naked staring contests at the kremlin while wearing a foaming vibrator on your forehead. What youre doing right now is not enough. By the time most people realize that the fears shackling them to a mediocre existence are creations of their own diseased minds its already too late. You have a choice of either overcoming the belching whirlpool of phobias gorging on your freedom right now or ignoring them and passing through life with a blanched face, smiling like a retard being tickled by his own hands. To challenge oneself in all aspects of life is to force oneself to grow in ways never thought possible. Evolution is the cornerstone to survivability and thus alphaness personal evolution is only a myopic version of that same process. It is not enough to approach our fears in life with a passive aggressiveness; we need to approach them with an aggressive aggressiveness. The issue of adaptivity also explains why rich, famous, or powerful men are able to make vaginas oscillate at extreme frequencies without any out of pocket effort. We live in a socio- economically driven society hence men who excel at accumulating capital in either form are technically the best at adapting to their environments; thus are perceived to have the most value and desirability. This is implicitly understood by women; who subconsciously expect men with money and power to possess the traits that beat rhythmically with female desire. Women dont masturbate to images of large unmarked bills; but the idea of a man with a suitcase full of those bills carries the telltale signs of ambition, leadership, mystery, and other simian qualities. Women are not attracted to power and money as disassociated concepts.
The
tendency
for
an
irritated
vagina
to
seek
recourse
in
chauvinistic
criminal
cock
seems
to
make
little
sense
in
terms
of
evolutionary
psychology
but
a
closer
examination
of
the
science
behind
why
women
are
attracted
to
BAMFs
might
reveal
otherwise.
I
refuse
to
use
the
term
bad
boy
in
our
discussion
because
it
sounds
homosexual
(no
offense).
When
people
have
power,
they
act
the
part.
Powerful
people
smile
less,
interrupt
others,
and
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There will come a time when you have a chance to do the right thing. I love those moments. I like to wave at them as they pass by
speak
in
a
louder
voice.
When
people
do
not
respect
the
basic
rules
of
social
behavior,
they
lead
others
to
believe
that
they
have
power,
according
to
a
study
in
the
current
Social
Psychological
and
Personality
Science
People
with
power
have
a
very
different
experience
of
the
world
than
people
without
it.
The
powerful
have
fewer
rules
to
follow,
and
they
live
in
environments
of
money,
knowledge
and
support.
People
without
power
live
with
threats
of
punishment
and
firm
limits
according
to
the
research
team
lead
by
Gerben
Van
Kleef
of
the
University
of
Amsterdam.
Because
the
powerful
are
freer
to
break
the
rules
--
does
breaking
the
rules
seem
more
powerful?
People
read
about
a
visitor
to
an
office
who
took
a
cup
of
employee
coffee
without
asking
or
about
a
bookkeeper
that
bent
accounting
rules.
The
rule
breakers
were
seen
as
more
in
control,
and
powerful
compared
to
people
who
didn't
steal
the
coffee,
or
didn't
break
bookkeeping
rules.
Acting
rudely
also
leads
people
to
see
power.
People
who
saw
a
video
of
a
man
at
a
sidewalk
caf
put
his
feet
on
another
chair,
drop
cigarette
ashes
on
the
ground
and
order
a
meal
brusquely
thought
the
man
was
more
likely
to
"get
to
make
decisions"
and
able
to
"get
people
to
listen
to
what
he
says"
than
the
people
who
saw
a
video
of
the
same
man
behaving
politely.
What
happens
when
people
interact
with
a
rule
breaker?
Van
Kleef
and
colleagues
had
people
come
to
the
lab,
and
interact
with
a
rule
follower
and
a
rule
breaker.
The
rule
follower
was
polite
and
acted
normally,
while
the
rule
breaker
arrived
late,
threw
down
his
bag
on
a
table
and
put
up
his
feet.
After
the
interaction,
people
thought
the
rule
breaker
had
more
power
and
was
more
likely
to
"get
others
to
do
what
he
wants."
Norm
violators
are
perceived
as
having
the
capacity
to
act
as
they
please"
write
the
researchers.
Power
may
be
corrupting,
but
showing
the
outward
signs
of
corruption
makes
people
think
you're
powerful.
As
luck
would
have
it,
it
isnt
by
accident
that
assholes
and
ethical
renegades
have
a
far
lower
statistical
probability
of
dying
from
seminal
backlash.
Girls
arent
stupid,
theyre
just
aware
that
men
who
have
a
taste
for
debauchery
are
likely
to
have
bigger
testicles
than
ones
who
prefer
living
by
every
letter
of
the
law.
Ignoring
rules
and
authority
will
help
your
inner
game.
At
this
point
half
of
you
will
go
waitwtf?
and
re-read
that
last
line.
Discourse
shapes
reality,
not
the
other
way
around.
People
who
break
rules
are
perceived
to
be
more
powerful
which
leads
them
to
act
more
powerful.
The
circular
nature
of
behavioral
modification
is
often
ignored
for
a
more
linear
model;
people
assume
that
you
need
to
be
powerful
first
to
act
the
part
when
the
truth
works
in
reverse.
If
competition
and
social
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adaptivity
can
successfully
breed
confidence,
then
our
thoughts
and
actions
must
be
dynamically
interrelated.
Our
actions
are
not
only
a
manifestation
of
our
thoughts;
our
thoughts
are
also
a
manifestation
of
our
actions.
Break
rules,
think
youre
Alpha
because
you
just
broke
rules,
Become
Alpha.
The
only
problem
with
men
who
enjoy
making
a
mockery
of
societal
norms
is
that
they
subvert
the
rapport
clause
of
all
pleasantly
feminine
women.
They
have
no
problem
submerging
themselves
in
vaginal
discharge
but
their
drive
for
destruction
becomes
all-consuming
all
to
often.
A
disdain
for
imposed
control
has
an
eerie
habit
of
turning
into
a
disdain
for
self-control.
The
key
to
avoidance
takes
far
more
self-discipline
than
most
people
expect.
Power
is
intoxicating,
as
are
the
various
perks
that
come
with
it,
including
a
caustic
savoir-faire.
But
one
cannot
expect
to
break
every
rule
while
avoiding
every
consequence.
Questionable
acts
must
be
deployed
with
plausible
deniability
and
only
semi-dubious
pretexts.
To
illustrate,
we
observe
an
unchangeable
law
of
the
universe
The
ideal
man
is
one
who
could
cheat
easily,
but
would
never
do
so.
FemiNazis
leave
the
first
part
out.
Players
leave
the
second
part
out.
We
are
conditioned
to
believe
that
forsaking
all
other
options
is
a
necessary
preface
for
a
successful
relationship
but
any
veteran
in
love
will
tell
you
that
misplaced
loyalty
is
the
kiss
of
death
in
romantic
attraction.
Likewise,
other
men
will
disregard
the
entire
notion
of
monogamy
and
happily
fuck
a
girls
best
friend
to
soothe
a
momentary
genital
itch.
But
the
perfect
man
is
one
who
is
willing
to
break
the
feminized
norm
of
being
a
cyclopean
beta
while
still
refusing
to
go
all
the
way
and
cheat
because
it
violates
his
own
principles.
He
will
shamelessly
flirt
with
another
girl
with
no
regard
for
moral
conventions
but
when
her
vulva
hangs
loose
right
in
front
of
his
pubic
bone
he
retorts
with
Oh
Im
sorry,
Im
already
in
love.
A
man
who
can
break
enough
rules
to
stand
at
the
brink
of
moral
chaos
but
have
enough
discipline
to
keep
himself
from
falling
over
is
both
a
master
of
himself
and
his
inner
demons.
A
man
who
follows
all
the
norms
he
was
groomed
to
follow
has
no
credibility,
he
never
saw
what
life
was
like
over
the
edge.
A
man
who
follows
disaster
to
no
controlled
end
can
only
take
pride
in
his
own
coup
de
grace,
not
societys.
This
is
why
Alphas
who
dont
cheat
are
more
valuable
than
Betas
who
dont
cheat.
There
is
a
great
amount
of
difference
between
men
who
abide
to
rules
out
of
fear
and
men
who
abide
to
rules
out
of
respect.
A
man
with
no
options
who
says
I
would
never
cheat
is
a
lampoon
of
moral
integrity.
A
man
who
has
women
pouring
all
over
him
like
manna
from
the
heavens
who
says
I
would
never
cheat
is
a
symbol
of
masculine
perfection.
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Murder
suspect
Joran
van
der
Sloot
says
women
are
begging
to
bed
him.
He
bragged
to
reporters
this
week
about
receiving
love
letters
and
marriage
proposals
since
confessing
to
the
murder
of
Stephany
Flores,
whose
battered
corpse
was
found
in
the
young
Dutchman's
Lima
hotel
room
on
June
2.
Not
everyone
thinks
murderers
make
bad
company.
To
some
women
--
and
a
smaller
share
of
men
--
extinguish
a
life
and
you
become
a
fetish
object.
What
drives
women
to
cruise
Web
sites
such
as
PrisonPenPals.com,
WriteaPrisoner.com,
ConvictMailbag.com,
and
Meet-an- Inmate.com,
where
prisoners
(granted,
only
some
are
killers)
post
pictures
and
pleas?4
Theres
no
doubt
about
it
breaking
rules
fosters
inner
game;
otherwise
women
wouldnt
have
hind
brains
trained
to
regard
caddishness
as
a
vestige
of
Power.
And
before
I
accidently
breed
an
army
of
serial
killers;
[Disclaimer:
not
all
rules
should
be
broken.]
You
wont
be
making
vaginas
marinate
from
a
jail
cell,
so
the
legal
ramifications
of
any
action
should
be
considered.
Breaking
petty
laws
probably
wont
do
much
for
your
game
either.
Robbing
a
bank
might
get
you
as
much
money
as
lying
on
your
corporate
income
statement
but
I
robbed
a
bank
is
invariably
a
better
pick
up
line
than
I
lied
on
our
annual
income
statement.
Follow
conventions
irregularly
and
always
harbor
a
disdain
for
puerile
norms.
Set
goals
for
yourself
and
stay
focused
on
results.
Rules
that
can
be
circumvented
to
advance
your
interests
while
avoiding
a
calamity
should
be
callously
ignored.
You
have
no
interest
in
letting
the
Amoebic
reach
of
etiquette
hold
you
back
from
success.
People
will
always
embody
the
internal
image
they
have
of
themselves.
Personalities
are
self- fulfilling
constitutions
contingent
upon
outside
variables.
When
someone
breaks
a
rule,
they
perceive
their
own
character
as
above
the
law
and
they
act
the
part.
Any
action
that
forces
you
to
rationalize
yourself
as
superior
has
the
same
extolling
quality.
Butch
lesbians
have
unstoppable
confidence
because
they
see
themselves
as
above
the
scabbed
filth
of
society,
although
one
could
argue
no
one
is
more
responsible
for
our
extended
emotional
gutters
than
they
are.
4
Rufus, Anneli (June 26, 2010). Why Do Murderers Get Mailbags Full of Love Letters and Marriage Proposals? Alter Net.
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Page 13 of 139
(c)
Sacrificing
your
own
concerns
for
the
sake
of
a
girl
Im
repulsed
by
the
number
of
young
kids
I
see
making
a
decision
over
their
college
or
their
jobs
depending
on
where
their
girlfriends
are
going
to
live.
The
sacrifice
is
too
large
to
maintain
equal
footing
in
a
relationship.
There
are
thousands
of
girls
that
can
make
you
happy
in
this
world,
only
one
dream.
When
a
girl
sees
this
type
of
trade-off,
she
does
NOT
think
let
me
reciprocate
the
affection,
she
thinks
wow
he
must
be
really
desperate.
What
her
conscience
mind
thinks
and
the
words
that
come
out
of
her
lips
are
infinitely
irrelevant
compared
to
the
assumptions
made
by
her
Id.
(d)
Entertaining
a
Long
Distance
Relationship
(LDR)
LDRs
are
by
definition
bad
trade
offs
for
men.
Women
use
sex
to
get
relationships,
men
use
relationships
to
get
sex;
this
was
how
our
species
was
meant
to
coexist.
We
are
complimentary
rivals
in
the
sexual
market.
In
an
LDR,
the
girl
is
using
a
relationship
to
get
a
relationship
and
the
man
is
using
his
subscription
to
Brazzers
to
get
sex.
The
tradeoff
on
the
mans
part
is
too
macabre
to
maintain
a
stable
relationship
unless
youre
going
out
with
a
gipsy
who
can
astrally
project
her
vagina
to
your
penis
across
thousands
of
miles.
(e)
Jacking
off
Mad
Timez
Your
body
assumes
you
are
sexually
sated.
The
drive
to
deploy
draconian
tactics
to
route
vagina
towards
your
shaft
is
replaced
by
a
drive
to
stay
at
home
and
surf
YouTube
for
sappy
entertainment.
The
practice
of
total
abstinence
to
maintain
focus
has
been
famous
among
several
Super
Alphas
throughout
history
(Manny
Pacquiao,
Ghandi,
Nikola
Tesla,
and
many
others).
The
premise
of
fasting
lies
in
the
idea
of
sex
diffusing
human
energy
through
orgasms.
A
mans
will-to-power
is
based
on
his
psycho-sexual
energy.
When
that
energy
becomes
repressed,
it
comes
out
in
other
forms.
The
need
to
succeed,
to
dominate
others,
to
be
competitive;
all
become
magnified
through
parched
desire.
Small
habits
like
these
are
venomous
to
the
aspiring
lothario.
As
time
progresses,
you
can
lose
all
of
your
inner
game
by
allowing
your
bad
habits
to
corrode
the
frame
youve
taken
so
strongly
to.
We
are
so
utterly
conditioned
by
the
matrix
to
seeing
these
habits
as
a
regular
part
of
our
lives
that
their
subsequent
consequences
go
relatively
unnoticed.
Every
other
movie
involves
a
guy
giving
flowers
on
the
first
date;
every
other
song
is
about
a
nice
guy
waiting
in
brutal
isolation
for
his
true
love
with
a
bag
full
of
chocolates
and
hand
cream.
The
smallest
of
habits
have
far- reaching
consequences.
Heckling
for
money
makes
your
mind
assume
you
are
desperate,
cleaning
dishes
makes
your
mind
assume
you
need
more
estrogen
in
your
blood,
and
waiting
for
the
right
moment
to
say
hi
to
a
girl
makes
your
mind
assume
that
women
need
to
be
pedestalized.
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If
you
are
truly
invested
in
liberating
yourself
from
militant
feminism,
then
a
full
renaissance
of
not
only
your
thoughts
but
also
your
habits
is
necessary.
Spending
weeks
regaling
women
with
your
new
found
charm
after
reading
this
book
will
do
no
good
if
after
being
in
a
relationship
for
3
weeks,
you
get
lazy
and
allow
the
impending
dilapidation
of
your
game
to
proceed
without
any
resistance.
No
matter
how
much
you
work
on
changing
your
attitude
from
beta
to
alpha,
beta
behavior
will
reverse
engineer
your
old
iconic
AFC.
Too
many
people
are
the
victims
of
assuming
that
once
you
achieve
a
certain
level
of
stoic
alphaness
and
get
a
girlfriend;
you
come
to
a
point
of
no
return.
Nothing
is
unconditional
in
this
world.
Not
an
Alpha
mentality,
not
life,
not
good
health,
and
most
definitely
not
love.
Dissonance
is
a
germ
to
our
thoughts
our
bodies
react
by
eliminating
certain
ideals
to
restore
mental
equilibrium.
If
you
happen
to
be
homophobic,
start
attending
gay
porn
conventions
where
everyone
comes
together
to
enjoy
a
mass
erection
and
watch
your
loathing
of
gay
people
sublime
into
an
appreciation
for
their
differences.
A
technique
like
this
can
be
a
powerful
tool
for
relinquishing
thoughts
that
incapacitate
inner
game.
Approach
anxiety
capitalizes
on
our
need
to
avoid
social
mastication.
Rejection
is
a
naturally
aversive
stimulus
so
it
would
make
sense
for
people
to
avoid
it
at
all
costs.
But
you
dont
need
to
jump
into
approaching
sets
at
a
club
right
away
to
supplant
your
lapses
in
confidence.
Think
about
the
subconscious
repository
for
approach
anxiety
a
fear
of
being
rejected
by
strangers.
Talking
to
any
stranger
warps
anthrophobic
thoughts
into
confidence.
Homeless
people
dont
mind
conversation,
start
by
talking
to
them.
Old
people
at
laundry
mats,
other
guys,
any
person
you
dont
know.
Your
body
cant
harbor
approach
anxiety
while
youre
aggressively
cold
approaching
people.
Body
language
connected
to
a
specific
mode
of
thought
would
create
the
same
type
of
antagonism
if
our
instinctual
thoughts
are
geared
in
a
different
direction.
Acting
calm
when
were
nervous
makes
us
less
nervous.
The
dissonance
created
by
forcing
yourself
to
maintain
a
calm
exterior
actively
degenerates
the
nervousness
created
by
your
internal
fears.
Taking
up
more
space
in
a
place
we
feel
uncomfortable
in
makes
us
more
comfortable.
Talking
slowly
even
when
we
feel
urged
to
rush
ourselves
makes
us
feel
more
confident.
All
these
examples
could
be
used
not
only
in
day-to-day
conversations
but
in
interviews
and
other
tense
situations.
Retaining
controlled
body
language
when
its
most
difficult
to
do
so
sublimates
our
instinct
to
withdraw
ourselves
and
forces
our
minds
to
generate
more
assertive
thoughts
to
reflect
how
were
projecting
ourselves.
Take
it
a
step
further;
intentionally
place
yourself
in
highly
tense
situations
to
push
yourself
to
maintain
proper
body
language.
Feeling
stupid?
Do
smart
looking
things
that
even
dumb
people
like
you
can
learn
and
your
thoughts
will
imitate
your
actions.
Ive
never
thought
of
myself
as
a
genius
but
Ive
been
so
adeptly
trained
at
bullshitting
my
ass
off
and
pretending
to
be
smarter
than
everyone
else,
I
can
convince
anyone
that
I
am.
It
would
take
about
two
weeks
for
anyone
to
learn
a
song
on
the
piano
but
our
minds
are
so
conditioned
to
believe
that
musical
talent
reflects
intelligence
that
when
you
hear
yourself
play
a
song
youll
convince
yourself
that
youre
not
stupid.
The
self- doubts
you
have
about
your
intelligence
will
be
replaced
by
a
beautiful
self-stroking
vanity.
It
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doesnt end at playing music, go to the library and read a book with a complicated name like Thus Spoke Zarathustra by Friedrich Nietzsche. Despite how stupid you actually are, your brain will convince yourself that youre smart because you go to the library and read books with bouygues names. The next time youre in a room full of people, watch the magic unfold as your almost poetic ability to bullshit baffles the audience. Do intelligent looking things think youre intelligent become intelligent. (Being intelligent and tricking other people into thinking youre intelligent are synonymous). If you want the world around you to change, change yourself first. If you want to change yourself, change your habits first.
THE T EFFECT
Lennox
Lewis,
Im
coming
for
you
man.
My
style
is
impetuous.
My
defense
is
impregnable,
and
Im
just
ferocious.
I
want
your
heart.
I
want
to
eat
his
children.
-Tyson
Testosterone
is
the
lifeblood
of
game.
Any
outside
references
to
support
this
fact
would
be
superfluous
(but
will
be
added
anyways),
the
amount
of
studies
conducted
that
have
reiterated
the
positive
effects
of
testosterone
allow
for
little
latitude
in
interpretation.
Every
single
influential
man
on
earth,
bar
none,
had
a
Big-T
personality;
comparative
psychology
has
already
observed
the
highest
amount
of
circulating
testosterone
in
the
Alpha
Male
of
any
group,
and
several
psychosocial
temperaments
emblematic
of
seductive
prowess
are
naturally
induced
by
testosterone.
Testosterone
is
the
vitality
of
life,
the
cure
to
middle
class
vacuity,
the
savior
of
western
civilization.
Below
Ive
listed
the
most
prominent
ways
to
prevent
your
figure
and
mental
sharpness
from
turning
svelte.
I
would
suggest
pursuing
all
of
them,
as
they
not
only
indirectly
improve
internal
game,
they
also
have
a
myriad
of
health
benefits.
Look
up
other
ways
to
boost
testosterone
besides
these,
adopt
as
many
of
them
as
you
can.
Estrogen
=
MetaDeath.
(1) Dont
be
a
Fatass
The
estrogen
catalyzing
enzyme
aromatase
resides
in
fat
cells.
Excess
fat
inhibits
the
production
of
testosterone
and
increases
the
production
of
estrogen
allowing
for
things
like
man-boobs,
big
man-boobs,
feelings
of
fatigue,
depression,
and
insomnia.
The
consequences
of
obesity
have
a
cyclic
effect;
people
who
are
obese
are
more
likely
to
be
lazy
which
further
feeds
into
their
obesity.
(2) Slaughter
animals
and
then
eat
them
without
mercy
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Men on vegetarian diets have lower testosterone levels than their carnivorous friends. Men who hunt their own prey generally have higher testosterone levels than those who prefer buying their meats at supermarkets. Hunters > Gatherers (3) Foods with the right nutrients Peanuts, almonds, and other foods high in monounsaturated fat have a positive effect on the testeez. Fish, vegetables and all that good stuff help to. If youre like me and you think vegetables are an abomination to edible cuisine, consider shortcuts (compressed vegetable drinks). (4) Moderate your intakes of alcohol, caffeine, & cigarettes All 3 have an extraordinarily negative effect on testosterone production. Caffeine can be harmless if consumed in reasonable amounts. Dossiers of pseudo-science have contended that bodily toxins like alcohol and nicotine fuck your internal chi up. While I dont have a crippling fear of spiritual damnation, I do think living a healthy lifestyle should be looked into. (5) Try and avoid anorexia Going for long stretches without food or not eating enough shoots down hormone production. Consume a healthy amount of fat a day, your body needs carbs and fats to produce testosterone. (6) Work out Terminator style Heavy weights + Compound Exercises = More T. Rigorous training sessions must be followed by long periods of rest, over-exerting yourself has a negative effect on not only muscle growth but also T production. Maintain a healthy circadian rhythm and avoid fucking up your sleep cycle. (7) Supplements Daily vitamins, zinc, and certain herbs like tribulus terrestris, ginseng, muncuna pruriens, and horny goat weed all increase T-production. I would suggest avoiding steroids or other extreme methods unless you are advised to do otherwise by a professional. I dont have a moral vendetta against steroids or shortcuts, but I do think they can be misused easily. I had a friend who took roids and his dependency on them went from casual to more persistent than woodlice within a matter of weeks. The imperators of science have confirmed our hypothesis that testosterone positively affects game:
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The
study
engaged
pairs
of
men
in
a
seven-minute
videotaped
competition
for
the
attention
of
an
attractive
female
undergraduate.
Pre-competition
testosterone
levels
were
positively
associated
with
men's
dominance
behaviors
in
the
mate
competition-including
how
assertive
they
were
and
how
much
they
"took
control"
of
the
conversation-and
with
how
much
the
woman
indicated
that
she
"clicked"
with
each
of
the
men.
According
to
Richard
Slatcher,
Ph.D.,
assistant
professor
of
psychology
in
WSU's
College
of
Liberal
Arts
and
Sciences
and
a
resident
of
Birmingham,
Mich.,
the
effects
of
testosterone
on
dominance
behaviors
were
especially
pronounced
among
men
who
reported
having
a
high
need
for
social
dominance.
In
his
study,
"Testosterone
and
Self-Reported
Dominance
Interact
to
Influence
Human
Mating
Behavior,"
published
online
Feb.
28
in
the
journal,
Social
Psychological
and
Personality
Science,
these
men
showed
a
strong
positive
association
between
their
own
testosterone
and
their
own
dominance
behaviors
and,
most
surprisingly,
a
strong
negative
association
between
their
own
testosterone
and
their
opponents'
dominance
behaviors.
In
other
words,
men
both
high
in
testosterone
and
who
reported
a
high
need
for
social
dominance
appeared
to
be
able
somehow
suppress
their
competitors'
ability
to
attract
potential
mates.
However,
when
men
reported
low
need
for
dominance,
there
was
no
association
between
testosterone
and
dominance
behaviors-either
their
own
or
their
competitors'.
"We
found
that
testosterone
levels
influenced
men's
dominance
behaviors
during
the
competitions,
how
much
they
derogated
(or
'bashed')
their
competitors
afterward,
and
how
much
the
woman
said
she
'clicked'
with
them,"
said
Slatcher.
"Books,
film
and
television
often
portray
men
who
are
bold
and
self-assured
with
women
as
being
high
in
testosterone.
Our
results
suggest
that
there
is
a
kernel
of
truth
to
this
stereotype,
that
naturally
circulating
testosterone
indeed
is
associated
with
men's
behaviors
when
they
try
to
woo
women."5
Apparently
not
only
does
increased
testosterone
help
you
overcome
things
like
approach
anxiety
and
erectile
dysfunction,
it
also
cleaves
your
inability
to
deal
with
other
men.
If
youre
constantly
being
badgered
by
jerk-off
betas
trying
to
AMOG
you
in
a
set,
start
chugging
steroids,
put
on
150
pounds
of
muscle,
and
watch
as
other
men
redact
into
noodle
dick
mode
within
your
presence.
The
appearance
of
higher
levels
of
testosterone
in
serial
killers,
rock
stars,
and
other
men
who
enjoy
tanning
their
groins
in
massive
veldts
of
pussy
suggest
that
women
may
be
able
to
intuitively
screen
men
based
on
their
level
of
radiating
testosterone.
The
fact
that
women
with
big
T
personalities
often
prefer
to
fist
rape
marry
betas
indicates
that
testosterone
levels
in
partners
are
inversely
related.
This
goes
back
to
the
game
principle
that
a
woman
in
the
presence
of
a
man
incapable
of
assuming
his
natural
role
of
leader
will
usurp
that
position
5
OConnor, Julie (March 10, 2011) Wayne State study links testosterone with mens ability to woo potential mates Wayne State University Division of Research http://research.wayne.edu/communications/news-release.php?id=196
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herself. Naturally, women with Big-T personalities would prefer squishy cotton twats that can be easily displaced as long-term partners (they will still ride the alpha carousel on short term flings).
CAREER OPTIONS
There
has
been
a
significant
amount
of
speculation
on
the
connection
between
inner
game
and
ones
profession.
Stereotypes
contend
that
careers
in
the
sciences
or
liberal
arts
attract
a
grossly
beta
population
while
more
high-risk
or
competitive
ventures
attract
alphas.
Our
previous
discussions
over
experiences
that
naturally
cultivate
inner
game
may
give
these
stereotypes
some
credence.
Men
enticed
to
enter
a
field
like
business
or
a
professional
sport
are
exposed
to
a
hyper- competitive
mentality
from
day
one.
Every
basketball
game
is
an
exercise
of
will;
every
failure
in
business
requires
unabated
persistence
to
overcome.
Assuming
these
men
have
chosen
these
activities
because
they
are
somewhat
talented
in
then,
it
is
likely
that
they
never
had
to
vie
for
attention
since
childhood
or
suffer
from
a
lack
of
confidence.
Entrepreneurs
who
may
not
have
enjoyed
early
success
will
develop
inner
game
later
on
(granted
they
are
successful)
in
life
because
a
position
of
leadership
will
force
their
bodies
to
adapt
to
a
dominant
position.
Exceptions
exist,
but
they
do
not
make
the
rule.
More
domesticated
men
who
have
been
raised
to
search
for
job
security
are
significantly
less
exposed
to
hyper
competition.
While
a
field
like
medicine
may
be
competitive
on
a
macro-scale
(med
school
is
highly
selective),
that
combative
need
to
be
the
best
at
every
moment
is
never
consistently
reinforced
(besides
for
people
who
internally
create
that
drive).
Furthermore,
these
careers
are
only
competitive
up
to
the
point
that
you
need
to
prove
yourself
to
be
granted
a
chance
to
learn
the
technical
skills
required
to
accomplish
them.
A
career
in
law
or
business
becomes
progressively
more
competitive,
while
a
career
in
teaching
becomes
progressively
less
competitive.
This
is
not
to
say
that
you
need
to
choose
a
supra-cutthroat
profession
to
develop
inner
game.
There
is
no
substitute
for
pursuing
ones
true
passion
in
life,
and
nothing
more
fulfilling
than
blurring
the
line
between
work
and
play.
If
you
are
pursuing
a
career
not
hyper-competitive,
you
must
create
that
desire
to
succeed
within
yourself.
One
can
only
snatch
their
dreams
if
they
have
an
indomitable
desire
to
chase
them.
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Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat -Theodore Roosevelt
Certain
careers
uproot
beta
tendencies
more
efficiently
than
others.
These
include
-
Careers
that
force
people
skills
on
you
(salesmen
and
lawyers)
-
Careers
that
force
you
to
be
more
competitive
(sports
or
e-games)
-
more
aloof
and
calculative
(poker)
-
more
dominant
and
confident
(manager
or
CEO)
-
more
authoritative
(police
officer
or
neo-liberal
tyrant)
-
fuck
a
lot
(rock
star,
porn
artist)
-
more
famous
(celebrity)
All
of
these
careers
externally
impose
a
standard
of
Alphaness
on
you.
You
need
to
be
charismatic
to
be
a
good
salesman
or
dominant
to
be
a
good
dictator.
If
your
job
does
not
serve
a
greater
purpose,
you
must
give
it
one.
An
investment
banker
who
spends
his
day
mindlessly
memorizing
financial
patois
and
adjusting
numbers
will
turn
himself
into
a
blind
and
purposeless
vessel
while
an
investment
banker
who
loves
being
surrounded
by
catacombs
of
cocaine
and
financial
reports
gives
himself
reason
to
stay
alive.
Your
ambition
can
be
internally
manufactured
or
externally
implicated
although
the
former
has
a
more
permanent
effect.
If
youre
a
teacher,
have
passion
in
spreading
knowledge;
dont
sell
out
as
a
tard
regurgitating
information
to
collect
a
weekly
paycheck.
If
you
find
yourself
constantly
thinking
Im
gonna
burn
this
whole
fucking
operation
to
the
ground,
chances
are
youll
find
it
hard
to
maintain
that
teasing
charm
necessary
to
beguile
women.
Hating
your
job
has
a
soul
killing
affect
paramount
to
surgically
draining
yourself
of
all
creativity
and
will
power.
Learn
to
love
your
job
even
if
you
need
to
force
yourself
into
it.
If
you
cant
love
your
job,
think
of
it
as
a
stepping
stone
to
other
things
(either
career
oriented
goals
or
just
providing
your
family
with
a
comfortable
living),
and
learn
to
love
those
things
instead.
Your
career
should
make
you
sacrifice
yourself
to
an
ideal
(power
for
most
men,
selflessness
for
doctors,
technological
innovation
for
engineers,
etc).
Leaders
with
lycanthropic
hearts
have
become
like
that
because
their
greater
purpose
in
life
allows
them
to
let
everything
else
slide
with
brutal
indifference.
Live
for
something
more,
become
greater
than
just
a
man.
The
world
is
ductile;
make
it
bend
to
your
will.
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Just Be Yourself
false
persona,
they
want
to
be
genuine,
but
simply
dont
have
the
confidence
to
be
their
real
selves
around
women.
For
them,
game
isnt
about
crafting
some
frivolous
technique
to
get
laid;
it
allows
them
to
get
a
chance
to
show
other
people
who
they
really
are.
Developing
inner
game
requires
a
certain
degree
of
open
mindedness.
Actually
who
am
I
kidding,
it
requires
you
to
be
complicit
with
getting
repeatedly
mind
fucked
until
your
older
personality
shrivels
up
and
dies.
If
after
a
significant
portion
of
your
life,
you
still
feel
like
you
arent
living
up
to
your
potential,
then
change
should
be
embraced.
If
youre
getting
chronically
LJBFed,
if
every
time
you
approach
a
girl
she
throws
up,
or
if
all
of
your
ex-girlfriends
are
frumpy
fat
women,
then
being
yourself
clearly
isnt
working.
Thats
what
got
you
here.
Any
time
a
girl
gives
you
advice
like
just
be
yourself
or
some
other
non-sensical
bullshit,
its
because
she
is
assuming
attraction.
Women
are
caught
in
the
same
paradox
as
men
but
to
a
larger
degree.
The
most
attractive
man
to
a
woman
is
likely
to
be
attractive
to
several
other
woman
thus
more
likely
to
cheat
and
subvert
the
rapport
clause
of
a
relationship.
A
guy
who
no
other
woman
on
earth
would
sleep
with
would
never
cheat
on
his
girlfriend,
but
wouldnt
be
attractive.
This
is
why
all
woman
have
a
demonic
compulsion
to
emasculate
their
boyfriends
following
a
relationship.
Whenever
you
ask
a
girl
for
advice,
unless
she
is
in-tune
with
her
more
feminine
desires,
she
will
tell
you
everything
to
increase
rapport
in
a
relationship,
never
attraction.
Shell
tell
you
to
be
yourself,
to
communicate,
to
understand
her
better,
but
never
make
her
jealous
or
act
aloof.
Rejection
is
catharsis
for
the
body
and
after
a
mans
4th
or
5th
lets
just
be
friends
speech,
he
usually
realizes
that
women
give
shitty
advice.
Just
be
yourself
has
the
added
affect
of
parrying
incoming
scrutiny
though
circular
logic.
If
I
tell
you
ignore
your
ex
for
5
days
and
in
the
end
of
your
sabbatical
nothing
happens,
theoretically
I
am
to
blame
for
the
failure
in
results.
But
if
I
tell
you
just
be
yourself
and
you
turn
your
break
up
into
an
all-out
shit
storm,
I
can
come
back
and
tell
you
you
werent
being
yourself.
This
is
how
women
proactively
defend
against
drop-kicks
from
men
theyve
fucked
over
through
bad
advice.
Rejecting
the
JBY
verbiage
should
not
be
confused
with
not
being
who
you
are.
This
is
only
an
avocation
for
positive
change,
not
a
justification
for
lying
to
yourself
in
superficial
ways.
JBY
has
served
as
an
excuse
for
failure
rather
than
as
a
pylon
for
success
for
too
long.
Your
personality
is
malleable;
you
can
change
it
to
fit
the
template
of
who
you
want
to
be.
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THOUGHT
CRIME
War
is
Peace.
Freedom
is
Slavery.
Ignorance
is
Strength.
Time
management
and
energy
management
are
heavily
covered
in
success
books
but
not
thought
management.
If
our
actions
and
the
reality
around
us
are
reflections
of
our
inner
self
then
daydreaming
about
the
ugly
trifles
in
life
is
intellectual
genocide.
Think
about
all
the
hours
you
spend
daydreaming,
what
do
you
think
about?
A
TV
show
with
characters
that
dont
really
exist?
A
girl
whos
out
right
now
blowing
more
people
than
a
tropical
storm?
What
to
write
as
your
next
Facebook
status?
You
should
be
thinking
about
your
goals,
ways
to
achieve
them,
places
you
can
bury
your
enemies,
or
shit
you
can
invent
to
help
mankind.
Cognition
is
an
ambivalent
force;
it
can
be
destructive
or
constructive
depending
on
the
edicts
of
your
faith.
Serially
monogamous
men
are
especially
vulnerable
to
thought
crime.
They
jump
from
Oneitis
to
Oneitis,
spending
their
days
thinking
about
their
ex
girlfriends,
their
current
girlfriends,
or
their
future
girlfriends.
Drug
addicts
and
alcoholics
cant
escape
compulsory
thoughts
of
substance
abuse.
Men
with
multiple
social
phobias
spend
hours
of
their
day
thinking
about
how
to
avoid
public
humiliation
when
its
quite
unnecessary
because
their
mere
existence
is
publically
humiliating.
There
is
no
active
method
for
controlling
your
thoughts
the
way
you
can
methodically
develop
a
way
to
open
girls
at
bars.
I
know
its
hard
to
keep
your
thoughts
from
lingering
on
heartbreak,
on
failure,
and
on
fear,
Ive
been
there
myself,
but
remaining
docile
in
your
own
malediction
is
a
waste
of
youth.
The
following
is
a
list
of
more
common
debilitating
thoughts
that
damage
inner
game,
infamous
for
bringing
legions
of
men
to
their
knees.
Notice
that
all
of
these
thoughts
are
predicated
on
a
negation
of
logic
and
courage.
(1)
Oneitis:
An
unhealthy
psychological
dependency
that
expresses
itself
via
an
obsessive
desire
to
be
with
ONE
PERSON.
The
emphasis
our
current
society
places
on
finding
our
chimerical
soul-mate
preconditions
men
to
internalize
Oneitis.
Unlike
other
negative
thought
paradigms,
it
is
not
unique
to
the
beta
condition.
Even
men
with
densely
stoic
internal
belief
systems
have
been
hollowed
out
into
tortured
shells
after
falling
in
love
with
a
succubus.
Our
only
defense
is
to
consistently
reinforce
an
abundance
mentality
along
with
holding
women
as
only
secondary
objectives.
Both
points
sound
inherently
misogynistic
but
are
in
fact,
the
opposite.
An
abundance
mentality
means
truly
coming
to
terms
with
the
fact
that
there
are
other
women
out
there
who
can
make
you
just
as
happy,
if
not
happier,
than
the
girl
in
question.
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Self-effacing
thoughts
like
I
dont
deserve
her
or
She
is
the
only
girl
that
will
ever
make
me
happy
do
the
opposite
of
what
they
are
intended
to
do.
Rather
than
reciprocating
your
misplaced
loyalty,
a
girl
will
lose
respect
for
you
eroding
the
sexual
tension
and
challenge
aspects
critical
to
developing
a
healthy
relationship.
Why
do
all
get
your
ex
girlfriend
back
programs
rely
on
counter-intuitive
methods?
Like
all
things
in
this
world,
women
only
chase
the
things
that
run
away
from
them.
If
you
are
not
in
a
relationship
with
the
girl
you
are
currently
pedestalizing,
adopt
an
abundance
mentality
by
pursuing
other
women
just
as
hot
or
hotter
than
her.
This
solution
has
become
such
a
clich
in
the
seduction
community
that
the
acronym
GFTOW
(Go
Fuck
Ten
Other
Women)
was
coined
in
its
name.
If
you
are
in
a
relationship
with
the
girl
in
question,
the
solution
becomes
somewhat
trickier
as
your
Oneitis
will
constantly
feed
off
of
the
highs
and
lows
of
your
relationship.
It
would
help
for
us
to
discern
a
point
of
interest
about
female
psychology.
When
a
girlfriend
sees
her
boyfriend
travel
to
unknown
lengths
to
prove
his
loyalty
to
her,
including
sabotaging
his
relationship
with
every
other
female
in
his
life,
she
does
not
think
wow
true
love,
this
really
makes
me
want
to
act
the
same
way,
instead
she
thinks
on
the
lines
of
this
guy
must
be
really
desperate.
A
girls
Id
and
her
ego
are
constantly
in
flux,
which
is
why
what
comes
out
of
her
mouth
is
not
always
what
she
means.
Long
term
relationships
that
end
in
an
LJBF
typically
fail
because
a
guy
catered
to
a
girls
verbal
demands
while
ignoring
her
instinctual
needs.
Engaging
in
barefaced
flirtations
with
other
women
has
a
retarding
effect
on
the
mundaneness
of
a
relationship.
A
girl
will
love
you
deeply
if
she
feels
challenged
in
her
effort
to
keep
you
from
the
grasps
of
other
women
and
resent
you
if
that
challenge
is
absent.
Women
want
men
that
other
women
want.
Understanding
this
concept
is
more
powerful
than
any
direct
technique
to
cultivate
abundance
because
most
men
in
relationships
are
affected
by
Oneitis
only
after
willingly
choosing
to
be
affected.
Honing
your
energy
onto
one
girl
is
the
wrong
way
to
approach
the
relationship
conundrum.
Not
only
are
women
averse
to
men
who
are
psychologically
attached
them,
they
would
prefer
men
who
make
it
possible
to
cheat,
but
willingly
choose
not
to
exercise
their
potential.
In
the
pre-relationship
phase,
attraction
can
quickly
die
out
even
after
intercourse
due
to
a
lack
of
emotional
torque.
Exercising
your
options
with
other
girls,
or
making
it
known
that
you
are
both
capable
and
willing
to
date
another
girl
and
walk
away
from
a
relationship
creates
the
anxiety
and
jealousy
needed
to
push
two
people
together.
Ejaculating
into
a
girl
hotter
than
your
past
Oneitis
has
a
Nirvana
inducing
effect
on
your
Super
Ego.
Theres
something
massively
enlightening
about
instantly
realizing
beauty
isnt
hypodermic.
The
veil
comes
off
of
our
eyes
and
you
realize
how
many
pleasures
are
available
in
this
world
for
your
plundering,
and
the
only
thought
going
through
your
head
is,
how
could
I
have
been
so
blind?
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The second solution involves recognizing women as only compliments to your life rather than goals. Neophytes of game falsely perceive this as a method to commodify women and their relationships. The goal of this maxim is not to objectivity a relationship only to keep men from relinquishing the rest of their lives for a girl. In any successful relationship, both partners must reserve a certain degree of mutual respect for each others interests and independence. By maintaining other passions within your life, you can keep your Oneitis in check by satisfying your will to power with other goals and related creeds. The selfish interest that jerks are infamous for is important not only for a successful relationship but also for a successful life. If a girl comes up to you and asks you for a drink, your self-interest should be focused towards your selfish desire for her, not the selfless desire to satisfy her wants. You would refuse, only to keep her interested, to fuel your own self-interests. In terms of oneitis, this effacing self-concern is needed to keep a woman in the position she wants to be in. A girl wants to be your partner in life, watching and supporting you in your ambitions and goals. She does not want to be the focus of those ambitions. I stated earlier that both of these mentalities obstruct misogynistic thoughts although they seem to do the opposite. A man devoid of parasitic love can control emotions like jealousy and do a better job of understanding his girlfriend through communicative effort. The positive loving effect of Oneitis is transitory it will soon be replaced by a deep-seated hatred for women after the subject realizes that the girl will never be his. Love is paradoxical; the only men who are truly misogynistic are those who hate women because they love them. Enlightened men embody the opposite; they love women because they hate them. Men with Oneitis live off of their insecurities and are more likely to engage in domestic abuse or over protective behavior. Men who arent desperate have the confidence to let go of a failing relationship without attempting to fix it through repugnant means. Like all goals aimed at perfection, the quest for an idealized relationship ends up being more harmful than helpful. Avoid any proclivity to create space between you and your Oneitis using a Shaman or black magic. I know the idea can sound extremely promising, but it does more bad than good by subconsciously reinforcing her significance through painful mental bondage. Dont block her on facebook or go out of your away to avoid her. Your goal is to not give a shit. Carelessly toss aside her memories like a used condom. A cool-as-fuck, absolutely untouchable attitude. (2) My Peniz iz too small: It probably is, but thats ok. Self-doubt is the bane of confidence. Less intelligent men are more likely to be intuitively good with women because they arent smart enough to intellectualize game and give substance to their fears. The majority of other men over-analyze their shortcomings with
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thoughts
like
Im
too
short,
Im
not
attractive
enough,
I
cant
change,
and
a
plethora
of
other
debasing
sutras.
We
have
three
options
to
remedy
this.
First,
we
can
directly
affect
our
thoughts
by
inhibiting
negative
ones
and
proactively
supporting
positive
ones.
You
can
adopt
a
series
of
superficial
tactics
(snapping
a
rubber
band
at
yourself)
to
condition
your
mind
the
way
insane
people
do
or
learn
to
control
your
thoughts
through
mental
duress
(meditation,
yoga,
self-hypnosis,
etc).
Second,
we
can
influence
our
thoughts
indirectly
through
actions
that
repress
beta
thoughts
(covered
previously).
The
third
method
is
somewhat
more
abstract.
We
can
promote
positive
ideals
into
higher
strata
of
thought
by
replicating
them
in
different
forms.
You
unconsciously
do
it
everyday.
Depressed
painters
paint
with
depressing
colors,
bold
writers
have
a
more
flamboyant
style
of
writing,
and
power
brokers
always
go
straight
to
the
lion
cage
when
they
visit
zoos.
If
the
depressed
painter
were
to
use
more
audacious
colors,
his
mind
would
abject
to
the
duplicity
and
force
itself
to
rationalize
his
decision.
If
the
bold
writer
were
to
suddenly
write
depressing
poetry,
his
mind
would
follow
in
suit.
If
either
character
were
to
take
further
steps
in
solidifying
their
thought
patterns
say
the
painter
surrounded
himself
with
blissful
company
and
the
writer
made
friends
with
a
bunch
of
visibly
depressed
Goths
they
would
travel
further
down
their
respectable
paths.
Thinking
a
thought
is
only
one
way
of
executing
that
thought.
The
more
ways
you
can
think
of
to
embed
a
single
thought
within
your
consciousness,
the
stronger
you
can
make
it.
Negative
thoughts
are
Oracular
by
nature.
They
become
true
because
you
think
them
so.
If
you
think
youre
going
to
be
terrible
in
bed,
the
thought
will
manifest
itself
as
a
lack
of
immersion
and
dominance
during
sex,
making
you
terrible.
If
you
think
yourself
to
be
too
short
to
bed
women,
the
hit
in
confidence
will
flood
into
your
game,
making
it
much
more
difficult
to
talk
away
your
stature
with
charm.
If
you
find
it
necessary
to
take
extra
measures
to
control
your
thoughts,
consider
journalizing
your
ideas
as
they
flow.
If
you
refuse
to
write
down
negative
ones
and
force
yourself
to
write
positive
ones
even
when
they
dont
exist,
you
make
it
easier
for
your
mind
to
change
the
filters
that
screen
your
thoughts.
A
rather
illuminating
experiment
I
tell
everyone
to
conduct
is
to
pretend
to
be
confident
in
themselves
even
if
they
arent.
For
thirty
days
straight,
dont
audibly
say
a
single
negative
thing
about
yourself.
(3) Feminine
Social
Conventions:
Collectively
referring
to
the
various
operative
conventions
that
teach
men
to
embrace
passive
pussy
behavior.
These
include:
Its
bad
to
like
women
only
for
their
looks
Dating
a
single
mother
or
a
woman
in
need
makes
you
a
savior
Women
like
sensitive
men
who
share
their
own
feminine
interests
Women
need
to
be
pedestalized
beauty
is
to
be
worshipped
at
the
altar
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Marriage
is
essentially
a
monogamous
arrangement
and
there
is
debate
over
the
point
in
our
evolutionary
history
at
which
we
developed
monogamy
as
a
primary
form
of
male-female
bonding.
Based
upon
fossil
evidence
and
comparative
biology,
it
is
likely
that
mating
behavior
in
our
earliest
hominid
ancestors
involved
the
most
powerful
and
dominant
males
securing
open
sexual
access
to
multiple
female
partners,
who
being
significantly
smaller
than
the
males
were
generally
compliant
and
submissive
to
the
dominant
males
wishes.
But
as
sexual
dimorphism
decreased
in
later
hominids,
relative
equality
and
shared
responsibilities
between
the
sexes
emerged,
along
with
serial
monogamy;
we
also
saw
the
beginnings
of
romantic
love.
There
is
debate
though
over
the
primary
factors
that
originally
brought
our
human
ancestors
together
into
relatively
monogamous
and
committed
relationships.
Shlain
argues
that
it
was
a
fundamental
negotiation
the
female
exchanging
sex
and
progeny
for
meat
and
protection
provided
by
the
male
that
was
the
foundation
of
marriage
among
early
humans.
In
fact,
this
pivotal
social
negotiation
brought
with
it
an
enhanced
level
of
future
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Every person is destined to be with only one girl All lonely men will die a miserable death Marriage gives you security Masculine behavior is unethical And a host of other ones. I could analyze each of these and minutely reveal their logical incongruences and latent functions with a host of arguments based on evolutionary psychology and experience, but that shit would take way to long. And anyways, that ground has already been covered. Any AFC so deeply invested into the matrix that he requires a superlative explanation on why any of these tautologies are false is doomed to masturbate for eternity regardless of how much help he is given. Game is triage; leave lesser men to the circling sharks. I will say, however, that although these canons are nothing but horse shit they do serve a functional purpose. Culture doesnt develop in an impartial or ethical way it just develops in whatever way it can to function most efficiently, much like evolution. Why on a sinking boat are women and children sent forth to save themselves while men left to die? Because women and children are more biologically valuable. Why are men considered alpha if they can fuck multiple girls but women considered sluts? Because a man can increase his biological pay-off by having sex with multiple partners a women cannot. Why are men so obsessed with status and power? Because both are auxiliaries for attraction. Similarly, our race requires not only sex for successful reproduction but also nourishment. To subdue men and mechanize their utility, humans have established cultural norms like monogamy and the nuclear family. Acolytes of game will often complain, marriage is an insane proposal from an evolutionary perspective. But is it really? Marriage allows woman to permanently and continuously extract resources from men, effectively monopolizing their purpose. This is a landmark achievement for our species as a whole.
consciousness
(making
a
long
term
commitment);
social-cognitive
evolution
(assessing
the
deep
intentions
and
character
of
another
human
being);
and
self-consciousness
and
self-control
(the
female
no
longer
being
automatically
compliant
to
the
males
overtures).
An
alternative
explanation,
provided
by
Stephanie
Coontz,
is
that
the
earliest
marriages
were
arranged
by
the
families,
perhaps
even
the
tribe,
to
cement
social
bonds
and
contribute
to
the
economic
viability
of
the
group;
different
tribes
may
have
arranged
for
marriages
between
its
members
to
create
social
alliances.
The
original
purpose
of
marriage
was
to
produce
reciprocal
obligations
and
the
interlocking
of
families.
Hence,
bonding
was
not
a
conscious
and
thoughtful
choice,
as
in
Shlains
interpretation,
but
a
social
arrangement
forced
upon
the
participants.
It
is
this
social
model
and
practice
that
would
indeed
become
the
traditional
marriage
in
the
millennia
to
follow.6
Like
marriage
and
monogamy,
all
of
these
social
conventions
serve
a
functional
purpose.
Our
allegiance
to
them
is
the
means
through
which
we
express
our
fidelity
to
the
social
matrix.
Nonetheless,
they
must
be
belied
to
taste
success.
The
difference
between
female
and
male
mating
patterns
is
the
force
behind
our
operative
norms.
Males
seek
variety
while
women
seek
the
best.
Men
prefer
polygamy
and
beauty
while
women
prefer
hypergamy
(NOT
monogamy)
and
commitment.
The
functional
purpose
of
our
feminine
code
of
conduct
is
to
strip
alpha
males
of
their
propensity
to
cheat
by
increasing
their
attachment
to
singular
relationships.
Alimony,
shame,
and
chivalry
are
all
conventions
aimed
at
moving
us
toward
a
hypergamous
dystopia.
This
battle
between
masculine
conventions
and
feminine
conventions
is
nothing
new.
While
the
concept
of
Game
and
its
efficient
application
is
somewhat
avant-garde,
its
just
another
development
in
the
timeless
struggle
between
men
and
women
for
dominance
over
the
sexual
market.
Men
start
patriarchy
Women
call
it
oppressive
Women
start
feminism
Men
call
it
stupid
Men
start
Game
Women
call
it
manipulative
Women
start
operative
conventions
(sexual
revolution)
Men
call
it
bullshit
The
only
major
difference
in
our
era
is
that
the
war
has
tipped
majorly
in
favor
of
women,
although
it
seems
like
it
hasnt.
The
overtly
executed
practice
of
patriarchy
is
constantly
being
subtly
exploited
by
feminism.
Half
of
our
troops
have
converted
to
their
side
with
the
hope
that
acting
more
feminine
will
grant
them
access
to
intimacy.
Of
course
all
theyll
end
up
getting
is
a
platonic
show
of
appreciation
and
maybe
a
titty
fuck
from
a
fat
girl
with
an
obsession
for
pre- pubescent
men
because
this
whole
thing
is
actually
just
a
comically
terrible
tragedy.
Men
6
Lombardo, Tom & Jeanne Lombardo. Seeing the Future Through New Eyes (Ed. Cynthia Wagner). Bethesda, Maryland: World Future Society, 2008
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prefer women who are feminine and women prefer men who are masculine. Why then, are both sides trying to destroy what they love while desperately clinging to the tortured and twisted remnants of their collateral leftovers? Because God Loves Irony.
If
I
were
you,
I
would
not
attempt
to
cross
the
Granicus
river
And
if
I
were
you,
I
would
also
not
attempt
to
cross
the
Granicus.
But
luckily,
I
am
Alexander.
Some
men
are
in
another
class
of
being,
bleeding
confidence
after
every
blow
and
commanding
poon
with
rapacious
charm.
Their
deluded
senses
of
self
are
not
their
weaknesses;
they
are
the
sources
of
their
charisma.
The
term
ego
is
always
subjected
to
a
significant
amount
of
criticism
because
the
line
separating
men
with
fragile
egos
and
men
with
big
egos
has
been
turned
opaque
through
the
endless
paroquets
of
vengeful
idiots.
Having
a
larger-than-life
self
image
isnt
necessarily
bad;
the
real
problem
is
that
men
have
been
taught
that
having
a
big
ego
is
synonymous
to
having
a
weak
ego.
A
guy
with
a
big
ego
finds
it
cute
when
someone
insults
him;
a
guy
with
a
fragile
ego
finds
it
threatening.
Youll
know
the
difference
when
you
see
that
galloping
jock
suddenly
backlash
at
his
girlfriend
for
the
tiniest
of
infractions
or
when
the
CEO
of
a
fortune
500
company
cant
take
criticism
from
someone
ranked
below
him.
The
lords
of
cunt
throughout
history
have
displayed
their
larger
than
life
vanities
in
proper
ambrosiac
fashion.
Observe
not
only
how
fucking
obnoxious
each
of
these
men
are,
but
also
how
insanely
large
their
foundation
for
self-confidence
must
be.
Its
one
thing
to
be
valiant
and
another
to
be
irrationally
self-affirming
to
the
point
of
titanic
caricature.
He
would
have
made,
said
Jef
Raskin,
the
brain
behind
the
first
Mac,
an
excellent
king
of
FranceGeniuses
tend
to
see
their
own
lives
as
universally
significant,
embodying
the
great
currents
of
their
age.
They
may
not
know
they
are
doing
this,
but
it
is
evident
in
their
work.
Everything
about
Jobs
tells
me
this
is
how
he
sees
his
life,
as
the
distillation
of
the
high-tech
revolution
and
of
affluent,
aspirational
consumerism.
He
is,
as
Dan
Lyons
says,
the
ultimate
end-user,
both
consumer
and
maker.7
Napoleon
saw
himself
as
invincible
and
infallible,
deserving
of
any
and
all
power
he
could
acquire.
He
began
to
see
himself
as
Christ,
Buddha,
and
Mohammed,
and
said,
I
saw
myself
7
Appleyard, Bryan (August 16, 2009). "Steve Jobs: The man who polished Apple". The Sunday Times (UK)
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founding
a
religion.
Everything
became
I
or
me
and
glory
was
aimed
at
his
own
deification.
During
an
uprising
in
Paris
he
ran
through
the
streets
with
a
small
command
of
troops,
shouting,
Follow
me.
If
they
resist,
kill
kill,
kill!
I
am
the
god
of
the
day!
Frank
Lloyd
Wright
even
referred
to
himself
as
a
creative
genius
in
one
of
his
many
court
battles.
When
a
reporter
asked
him
about
making
such
a
self
serving
statement
Wright
responded
without
hesitation,
I
was
under
oath,
wasnt
I?
Pablo
Picassos
mother
had
been
his
supporter
through
all
of
his
travails.
When
he
was
young,
she
had
told
him,
If
you
become
a
soldier,
youll
be
a
general.
If
you
become
a
monk,
youll
end
up
pope.
This
idolatry
was
imprinted
on
the
young
Picasso
and
armed
him
with
resilient
self- esteem.
Dona
Maria
had
created
a
self-absorbed
individual
who
believed
himself
to
be
outside
the
bounds
of
ordinary
behavior.
From
childhood
on,
Picasso
deprecated
teachers,
administrators,
and
other
authoritarian
figures
who
dared
grade
his
performance
or
criticize
his
work.
Nikola
Tesla
had
such
a
powerful
internal
belief
system
that
his
biographer
Margaret
Cheney
concluded
that
he
was
his
greatest
invention:
a
self-made
Superman
and
producer
of
marvels.
A
reporter
described
Teslas
accomplishments
as
being
like
the
dream
of
an
intoxicated
god.
Teslas
college
professor
wrote
to
his
father
asking
that
young
Nikola
be
removed
from
school
because
he
was
in
danger
of
killing
himself
from
overwork.
The
professor
had
seen
the
signs
of
the
megalomania
in
this
teenager.8
During
his
final
years,
and
especially
after
the
death
of
Hephaestion,
Alexander
began
to
exhibit
signs
of
megalomania
and
paranoia.
His
extraordinary
achievements,
coupled
with
his
own
ineffable
sense
of
destiny
and
the
flattery
of
his
companions,
may
have
combined
to
produce
this
effect
He
seems
to
have
come
to
believe
himself
a
deity,
or
at
least
sought
to
deify
himself.
I
find
it
somewhat
amusing
whenever
I
see
an
article
about
how
arrogance
impedes
success.
Self-serenity
is
symptomatic
of
divinity.
Our
conditioned
desire
to
avoid
being
cocky
has
been
artificially
inflated
to
emasculate
us.
How
many
times
have
you
heard
about
a
guy
intentionally
revealing
his
insecurities
as
a
way
to
prove
to
a
girl
how
hes
different
and
not
cocky
like
all
the
other
guys
out
there?
These
men
are
not
conspiring
together
in
an
assembly
of
encumbered
8
Landrum, N. Gene. Profiles of Power and Success. Amherst, NY: Prometheus Books, 1996.
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idiots to figure out ways to actively repel women. They genuinely believe that acting insecure will grant them love through sympathy because that is what they were taught to believe by a system diametrically opposed to their natural sexuality. Yes all of the examples I gave you are a bit larger-than life, but that was the point. Only people who see themselves as deserving of great confidence can emulate great confidence. None of these people were born with an elated self-esteem. They either cultivated it early because their parents or peers worshiped them, or they built it later on after tasting success. They were victims of a god-syndrome; promethean sprits with inner hydras that swept away any mental cellulite draped with insecurity.
NIRVANA
Man,
I
see
in
fight
club
the
strongest
and
smartest
men
whove
ever
lived.
I
see
all
this
potential,
and
I
see
squandering.
God
damn
it,
an
entire
generation
pumping
gas,
waiting
tables;
slaves
with
white
collars.
Advertising
has
us
chasing
cars
and
clothes;
working
jobs
we
hate
so
we
can
buy
shit
we
dont
need.
Were
the
middle
children
of
history,
man.
No
purpose
or
place.
We
have
no
Great
War.
No
Great
Depression.
Our
Great
Wars
a
spiritual
warour
Great
Depression
is
our
lives.
Dear
Shark,
How
do
you
not
give
a
shit
about
anything?
In
Buddhism
they
call
it
Nirvana,
Schopenhauer
called
it
the
embrace
of
asceticism,
even
in
an
overly
passionate
religion
like
Islam,
the
greatest
crusade
is
referred
to
as
the
one
within
yourself.
The
abstinence
of
worldly
desires
has
long
been
considered
the
crux
of
self- actualization
whether
through
religion,
philosophy,
or
personal
doctrine.
The
search
for
security
in
a
blind
world
is
a
cancer
birthed
from
our
fears.
Arcadia
is
a
sisyphean
dream
that
always
ends
up
in
self-inflicted
slavery.
As
long
as
your
life
revolves
around
your
hallucinated
purposes,
the
world
will
own
you.
You
cannot
reason
appropriately
in
any
situation
as
long
as
you
are
emotionally
attached
to
the
outcome.
In
any
pick
up,
you
must
desensitize
yourself
to
the
end
result.
In
any
relationship,
you
must
ignore
the
possibility
of
loss.
In
any
work-related
decision,
you
must
cut
off
the
screaming
tide
of
your
ego.
Your
emotions
are
not
negative
in
the
sense
that
they
exist,
but
their
existence
must
be
limited
to
their
chemically
induced
reflexes.
They
must
never
be
allowed
to
rule
you,
or
sway
the
progress
of
your
decisions.
Controlling
your
emotions
and
desires
is
a
conduit
to
freedom.
The
aspiring
Casanova
whose
life
revolves
around
the
girl
of
his
dreams
cant
make
a
decision
without
taking
her
needs
into
consideration.
The
nauseatingly
rich
businessman
whose
life
revolves
around
money
cant
make
a
decision
without
thinking
about
the
needs
of
his
shareholders.
And
the
blue
collar
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worker
constantly
striving
to
buy
a
new
set
of
furniture
to
make
his
life
complete
can
never
escape
the
chilling
ether
of
a
neurotic
lifestyle
obsession.
Sometimes
I
wonder,
why
is
it
so
hard
for
people
to
grasp
the
idea
of
letting
go?
The
answer
always
comes
as
quick
as
the
question.
We
live
in
the
epoch
of
nihilism,
desperately
clinging
to
anything
that
gives
us
purpose.
Too
afraid
to
generate
our
principles
intrinsically,
we
gather
around
anything
that
can
save
us
from
anomie.
We
have
soul
mates
to
save
us
from
loneliness,
hair
gel
to
save
us
from
esthetic
failure,
and
matching
furniture
to
save
us
from
the
sepulchral
reality
right
outside
of
our
houses.
All
of
this
is
unnecessary,
but
who
cares?
The
abyss
is
too
deep
to
contemplate
and
if
you
stare
into
the
darkness
for
long
enough,
it
stares
back
at
you.
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Every
adventure
to
be
had
in
this
room
is
on
the
dark
side.
The
people
on
the
light
side
are
asleep
right
now.
They
are
dreaming
about
the
dark
side.
The
more
you
try
and
repress
the
dark
side,
the
stronger
it
gets,
until
it
finds
its
own
way
to
the
surface.
I
sleep
well.
I
dream
of
angels
and
sponge
cake
and
panda
bears.
I
dont
see
the
dark
side
until
I
open
my
eyes.
-Neil
Strauss
Since
its
inception
in
the
early
90s
by
Ross
Jeffries,
the
seduction
community
has
matured
into
a
full
fledged
revolution.
Men
who
previously
had
no
chance
of
bedding
women
with
their
grotesquely
homogenous
personalities
are
using
preordained
techniques
to
breed
their
sexually
repugnant
genes
into
future
generations.
The
effort
needed
to
satisfy
a
womans
internal
compulsion
to
mate
with
Alphas
has
been
reduced
to
triviality
as
practiced
openings,
calculated
body
language,
and
hypnotic
routines
are
replacing
the
age
old
tradition
of
accumulating
crass
power
to
appease
hedonistic
desires.
For
a
few
dollars,
any
impassioned
seducer
can
learn
how
to
imitate
Voltaires
wit
or
Mysterys
magick.
Like
divorce
and
privacy,
chastity
has
been
reduced
to
a
statistic
and
the
dramatic
mythos
of
sexual
congress
replaced
with
the
term
F- Close.
External
game
pays
its
dividends
faster,
but
exacts
a
price
for
that
speed.
Relationships
couched
on
fabricated
routines
have
a
likelihood
of
collapsing
on
their
digital
foundations.
No
man
can
keep
his
beta
core
hidden
forever
regardless
of
how
methodically
he
can
execute
game.
This
isnt
meant
to
scare
you
into
avoiding
the
external
game
section,
only
to
make
you
aware
that
adopting
a
few
shortcuts
to
beguiling
vagina
can
never
serve
as
a
full
substitute
for
a
strong
frame.
It
is
a
complaint
heard
too
often
in
the
PUA
community
when
an
AFC
comes
running
onto
a
forum
asking
for
advice
on
how
to
get
his
ex-girlfriend
back
because
his
repertoire
of
lines
was
exhausted
in
a
continuing
relationship.
The
problem
with
purely
focusing
on
external
game
is
that
men
often
come
out
of
the
rabbit
hole
with
a
perverted
take
on
Masculinity
and
Game.
Take
the
average
beta
for
example.
After
putting
down
the
vagina
monologues
and
reading
a
couple
of
books
on
seduction,
he
quickly
becomes
acclimated
to
the
field.
But
the
bazaar
of
pleasure
offered
by
loveless
sex
rapidly
dissipates
as
he
longs
for
true
companionship.
After
every
time
he
ejaculates
into
a
boorish
dyke,
he
finds
himself
staring
at
his
deflating
penis
and
wondering
if
all
this
trouble
is
really
worth
it.
External
game
and
internal
game
are
but
two
sides
of
the
same
coin.
The
holy
grail
of
both
journeys
is
identical.
Internal
game
focuses
on
developing
an
inner
belief
system
to
reinforce
a
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personality based on freedom, power, and masculinity whereas external game focuses on mimicking the end product of that system with the purpose of eventually becoming that product, effectively annexing the mimicked personality into ones core character. There is no difference between relationship game and club game or internal game and external game, they are all the same. Seduction does not change in definition, only in form. It can be heterosexual, homosexual, political, economic, religious, and so forth. Fake it until you make it is a cheap substitute for what External Game really stands for. Its not about the categorization of different NLP techniques or compressing emotional rapport into the shortest amount of time possible; its about being self-aware over the natural forces that drive social dynamics and controlling those forces rather than letting them control you. Like money, it is only a tool that gives you more options. Dont look into it anymore or any less. Remember that game is a means to an end, not an end in and of itself. External game only illustrates the path to glory, it does not define it. You are not suddenly the master of your universe because you dress better and can get a girlfriend by covering your ugly face with naked humor.
KINESICS
You
see,
but
you
do
not
observe.
The
distinction
is
clear
Researchers
estimate
that
the
impact
of
any
message
is
only
about
7%
verbal.
38%
of
what
you
say
depends
on
vocal
aesthetics
(tone
of
voice,
rhythm)
and
the
other
55%
is
allotted
to
body
language
(posture,
presence,
physical
movements)9.
In
the
same
tragic
fashion
governing
most
of
our
ironic
debacles,
men
in
game
focus
all
their
attention
on
mastering
that
scanty
7%.
What
you
say
to
a
girl
is
comparatively
insignificant
to
how
you
say
it.
Our
discussion
over
body
language
will
be
split
into
two
parts;
understanding
body
language
and
displaying
proper
body
language,
in
that
order.
More
emphasis
should
be
placed
on
understanding
body
language
because
humans
are
self-obsessed
creatures;
you
will
have
less
trouble
with
the
latter
segment.
A
persons
body
language
will
perfectly
mirror
their
emotional
state.
People
who
use
their
hands
to
express
themselves
will
use
gestures
to
signify
how
important
they
think
a
topic
is
or
betray
emotional
subtleties.
Wider
hand
movements
correlate
with
issues
of
higher
significance.
If
someone
is
consistently
using
hand
movements
throughout
an
entire
conversation,
you
can
gauge
how
important
each
topic
is
to
the
person
relative
to
each
other.
If
a
girl
uses
conservative
gestures
while
talking
about
her
interest
in
sports
and
then
bursts
into
a
masterful
display
of
metacarpus
fluidity
while
talking
about
the
latest
celebrity
gossip,
you
know
youve
got
yourself
a
swindler.
You
can
tell
which
of
her
past
relationships
she
was
most
9
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invested in, the things that make her tick, what motivates her, and whether she actually cares about politics and the environment or if shes just pretending to do so to seem impressive. Whether a girls hands are in an open or closed position will tell you how interested she is in you or the topic of conversation. If her palms are open and facing you, she insists on kino, or her arms are in in an open position, shes likely interested. If her arms are crossed, folded, slapping you across the face, or in a closed position, youre probably going to be masturbating tonight. I say maybe in both scenarios because body language must be read holistically (if she has closed body language during winter while youre outside, shes probably just cold). If a girl just has one hand crossed in front of her, shes feeling either slightly insecure or uncomfortable. The same applies for a guy but men generally tend to cover their groin area or put their hands in front of themselves (fixing cuff links, adjusting watches). Self-touching has been infamous for being one of the more obvious IOIs. It is the subconscious way a girl projects her need to be groomed / nurtured. The face platter (resting her face on both her hands with her palms facing down, as if her face was on a platter) is a sign of interest. It means youve built enough attraction to start backing off as the dynamic between you two has reversed. Once youve fostered enough attraction with a girl, you need to start playing more aloof non-sequitur game to let it grow. The face platter, or any sign that shes now trying to qualify herself to you rather than the other way around, is about the time when your game should shift from aggressive to passive. When a persons lying, they are likely to cover some part of their face with their hands. The process is unconscious and only noticeable by those who know what to look for. The gesture will seem completely natural. It can be a nose itch, an ear grab, an eye rub, or anything of that sort. If they put something in their mouth during the course of making a decision or while theyre evaluating you, it means they are unsure and require more confidence. Girls will do this with their glasses, biting their lips, or the drink in their hand. Genuine smiles pull the eyes and the mouth back, you can differentiate them with fake smiles after a bit of practice. Fake smiles dont cause wrinkle formations around the cheeks or eyes. A closed slip smile means she isnt interested. Voluptuous licking of the lips means shes very interested Legs crossed away from you means shes not interested, crossed towards you means she is. Steepling (holding your hands in a prayer like position) is a sign of confidence. If a person gets into a steeple position while making a decision, it means they are somewhat sure about their
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decision
(whether
its
positive
or
negative
is
irrelevant).
Other
hand
to
face
gestures,
like
twitches
or
itches
indicate
nervousness.
Observing
pupil
dilation
is
an
easy
way
to
measure
interest.
Dilated
pupils
are
indicative
of
a
high
level
of
attraction.
Contracted
pupils
correlate
with
a
negative
or
bored
mood.
Pupil
dilation
/
contraction
is
much
easier
to
catch
than
you
think;
our
subconscious
minds
are
already
trained
to
notice
it.
Every
time
youre
on
a
date
or
around
a
girl,
your
brain
registers
pupil
dilation
as
a
signal
to
increase
feelings
of
attraction
/
rapport.
You
just
need
to
begin
training
your
conscious
mind
to
catch
it
too.
It
took
me
about
2
weeks.
Facing
down
while
looking
up,
excessive
smiling,
or
glancing
down
are
all
signs
of
submission.
A
girl
will
display
signs
of
submissively
coy
body
language
whenever
she
is
around
a
male
she
considers
a
prospective
mate.
Eye
contact
is
a
sign
of
rapport,
if
a
girl
holds
eye
contact
with
you
and
glances
down
sporadically;
its
a
sign
of
both
rapport
and
submission.
Men
do
it
all
the
time
with
guys
they
consider
more
Alpha
than
them.
In
a
group
of
people,
whoevers
talking
will
constantly
glance
at
whoever
they
consider
to
be
most
alpha
for
approval.
Regardless
of
how
hard
you
try
to
withhold
signs
of
submission,
your
gestures
will
follow
through.
If
you
recognize
a
guy
as
more
alpha
than
you
(your
body
will
do
it
subconsciously),
you
will
glance
down
while
speaking
to
him
or
at
him
for
approval.
This
is
the
power
of
the
subconscious,
the
way
you
portray
yourself
even
by
sitting
or
standing
has
an
expansive
effect
on
women
that
even
they
are
unaware
of.
If
a
girl
wants
to
get
your
attention,
she
will
hold
eye
contact
for
2
or
3
seconds
and
follow
up
with
a
hand
gesture,
smile,
eye-brow
raise,
mouthing
the
word
hi,
or
laugh.
She
will
generate
some
sort
of
signal
to
indicate
coy
submissiveness.
Never
believe
people
when
they
say
women
are
stupid
and
oblivious
to
their
surroundings.
When
it
comes
to
romance,
women
plan
things
out
with
surgical
precision
whether
consciously
or
subconsciously.
Tight
lipped
smiles,
darting
eyes,
and
extended
blinking
are
all
signals
of
disinterest.
Lymphatic
movements
indicate
shes
playing
hard
to
get
or
shes
not
interested.
Youll
know
the
difference
because
in
the
former,
she
will
still
respond
to
negs
or
be
slightly
jumpy.
If
shes
not
interested
at
all,
her
impassiveness
will
continue
undisturbed.
Social
proximity
can
be
broken
up
into
2
important
zones.
6-18
inches
is
the
intimate
zone,
anything
above
that
is
either
a
social
or
public
zone.
When
a
person
enters
your
intimate
zone,
your
body
reacts
with
a
flight
or
fight
response.
Kino,
or
any
form
of
physical
touch,
is
always
recommended
in
pick
ups
because
it
greatly
increases
rapport
by
making
a
person
feel
comfortable
to
physical
advances.
Getting
within
6-18
inches
of
a
girl
will
have
one
of
three
affects.
If
shes
unsure
about
you,
shell
feel
insecure
or
uncomfortable.
If
shes
already
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attracted
to
you,
it
will
make
her
more
attracted
to
you.
If
she
doesnt
like
you,
shell
like
you
even
less.
The
same
applies
for
all
forms
of
spatial
situations.
If
a
girl
already
likes
you,
she
will
like
you
more
if
you
get
close
to
her.
If
she
already
dislikes
you,
she
will
like
you
less
if
you
come
close
to
her.
If
a
persons
feet
are
in
a
relaxed
position,
they
will
point
in
the
direction
they
want
to
go.
This
is
why
a
girl
who
crosses
her
feet
away
from
you
is
void
of
interest.
The
feet
play
an
important
role
in
reading
body
language
because
our
brains
have
the
least
amount
of
conscious
control
over
our
legs.
The
feet
are
a
window
to
the
subconscious.
If
a
girl
crosses
both
her
legs
and
her
arms,
communicating
an
idea
to
her
will
become
substantially
harder
(including
the
idea
that
she
should
sleep
with
you).
Ankle
locking
indicates
uncertainty
or
fear.
If
a
girl
is
into
a
conversation
with
you,
she
will
extend
her
feet
towards
you
or
point
them
at
you
if
shes
in
a
standing
position.
If
one
of
her
feet
is
pointing
away,
she
would
rather
be
somewhere
else.
Quick,
jerky
movements
like
fast
head
nods
or
excessive
blinking
means
she
wants
you
to
finish
talking
and
go
away.
Slow,
deliberate
movements
indicate
that
shes
into
the
conversation.
Tilting
her
head
to
one
side
is
an
IOI.
All
of
these
signals
must
be
read
appropriately
in
context
and
holistically.
A
person
may
be
sitting
or
standing
in
a
certain
way
because
of
their
attire
or
the
temperature
rather
than
because
they
are
interested
/
disinterested
in
you.
If
a
girl
shows
disinterest
through
her
body
language,
you
must
reciprocate
with
a
greater
show
of
disinterest.
If
you
engage
further
when
a
girl
pulls
away
from
you,
its
a
sign
of
lower
status
and
will
further
reduce
the
amount
of
interest
she
has
in
you.
If
youre
able
to
pull
away
and
talk
to
someone
else,
you
are
displaying
higher
status
and
utilizing
female
hypergamy
the
right
way.
If
she
points
her
body
towards
you,
do
the
same
to
condition
her
mind
to
wanting
to
give
you
IOIs.
Even
if
you
catch
an
IOI
from
a
girl,
act
oblivious
to
it.
Women
are
used
to
men
not
catching
their
subtle
advances
and
thus
will
repeat
them
several
times
for
him
to
finally
get
it.
Each
time
a
girl
is
forced
to
repeat
an
IOI,
her
brain
rationalizes
by
assuming
she
must
like
you
that
much
more
(cognitive
dissonance).
I
condensed
the
information
in
about
3-4
books
for
you
within
the
last
2
pages.
The
books
use
several
studies
and
experiments
to
prove
their
points
but
the
useful
information
can
be
compressed
efficiently.
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Memorizing
all
of
these
nuances
is
unnecessary;
just
pay
more
attention
to
whether
the
girl
is
displaying
open
or
closed
body
language
on
a
general
scale.
AFCs
are
so
invested
in
their
own
failures
they
never
pay
attention
to
the
physical
subtleties
of
a
girls
body
language;
theyre
too
busy
thinking
about
her
boobs,
whether
theyre
fucking
up
the
routine,
or
what
to
say
next.
Attention
to
detail
is
the
hallmark
of
a
veteran
in
love.
Remembering
the
small
seemingly
irrelevant
things
about
a
girl
is
the
key
to
her
heart.
Occasionally
throw
in
glib
remarks
about
a
random
topic
to
see
how
her
body
language
reacts.
You
can
test
the
waters
in
this
way.
Randomly
mention
how
you
hate
cheating
whores
and
would
rather
see
them
shot
off
into
space
and
she
if
she
reacts.
Watch
her
body
language
as
shes
talking
about
things
like
her
father,
her
ex,
children,
partying,
feminism,
things
that
you
can
determine
her
character
from.
Its
not
difficult
to
read
body
language;
you
just
need
to
start
doing
it.
Its
just
like
reading
books;
knowing
how
to
do
it
doesnt
mean
you
can
benefit
from
it
without
actually
doing
it.
Stop
shutting
your
brain
off
during
social
interactions.
In
this
past
year,
look
at
all
the
movies
that
came
out
in
the
box
office.
Almost
every
single
one
from
transformers
to
Thor
couldve
been
watched
and
fully
comprehended
while
half-passed
out
on
peyote
with
only
one
eye
open
to
take
in
the
visual
effects.
No
one
cares
about
the
plot
or
the
acting
skills
of
the
lead
girl,
its
all
about
visuals.
Clubs
have
become
the
same
way.
The
music
will
make
your
ears
bleed,
the
flashes
of
skin
will
make
your
eyes
dart,
how
is
a
guy
supposed
to
get
a
girl
in
an
environment
like
this?
Technically
its
easier
now.
Remember
all
of
these
handicaps
apply
to
your
competition
too.
By
being
the
only
guy
who
actually
uses
his
brain
while
talking
to
a
girl,
you
can
offer
the
crimson
paradise
so
many
women
seek
to
find
in
the
wrong
places.
Pay
attention
to
detail,
take
in
everything,
immerse
yourself
in
an
interaction,
and
understand
how
she
feels
not
just
what
she
says.
Displaying
proper
body
language
has
explosive
ramifications
for
a
pick
up
far
more
than
how
smooth
your
opening
is.
For
direct
game,
body
language
is
the
opening.
The
unadultered
power
that
your
physical
frame
displays
must
tell
her
that
you
are
the
mortal
god
she
has
been
searching
for.
A
girls
first
impression
of
you
will
define
the
context
of
all
of
your
later
interactions.
Initial
encounters
are
emotionally
concentrated
events
that
can
overwhelm
useven
convince
us
that
the
room
is
spinning.
We
walk
away
from
them
with
a
first
impression
that
is
like
a
Polaroid
picturea
head-to-toe
image
that
develops
instantly
and
never
entirely
fades.
Often,
that
snapshot
captures
important
elements
of
the
truth.
Consider
one
study
in
which
untrained
subjects
were
shown
20-
to
32-second
video-taped
segments
of
job
applicants
greeting
interviewers.
The
subjects
then
rated
the
applicants
on
attributes
such
as
self-assurance
and
likability.
Surprisingly,
their
assessments
were
very
close
to
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those of trained interviewers who spent at least 20 minutes with each applicant. What semblance of a personone with a distinct appearance, history and complex personalitycould have been captured in such a fleeting moment? The answer lies in part in how the brain takes first-impression Polaroidscreating a composite of all the signals given off by a new experience. Psychologists agree that snap judgments are a holistic phenomenon in which clues (mellifluous voice, Rolex watch, soggy handshake, hunched shoulders) hit us all at once and form an impression larger than their sum. We do search for one particular sign on a new face: a smile. "We can pick up a smile from 30 meters away," says Paul Ekman, professor of psychology at the University of California Medical School in San Francisco, and a pioneer of research on facial expressions. "A smile lets us know that we're likely to get a positive reception, and it's hard not to reciprocate." By the time we flash that return grin, our Polaroid shutter will have already closed. Just three seconds are sufficient to make a conclusion about fresh acquaintances. Nalini Ambady, professor of psychology at Tufts University in Medford, Massachusetts, studies first impressions carved from brief exposure to another person's behavior, what she calls "thin slices" of experience. She says humans have developed the ability to quickly decide whether a new person will hurt or enrich usjudgments that had lifesaving ramifications in an earlier era.10 Notice that smiling is necessary to build initial rapport in your first impression, but then becomes frivolous. Excessive smiling only makes you a try-hard beta no woman would deign to love. Start with a relaxed core. Dominant animals move slower and at a more relaxed pace because they feel less threatened. Our minds are hardwired to interpret slow movement as a sign of confidence and strength. Because were generally conditioned to live our lives at a specific pace, it will take a while before your deliberately slowed movements come about without any conscious effort. The period of transition where the physical body resists change by inflicting pain on itself is a sacred rite for all long-term transformations. Get rid of the sense of urgency in all of your actions. Dont walk or talk like youre at the barrel end of rejection. You cannot win a girls heart without focusing on her winning you. Move like a craving sea lion gliding through a school of circling salema. Betas move faster to thwart danger, a conditioned response built into a fearful creature.
10
Flora, Carlin (May 14, 2004). The First Impression Psychology Today http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200405/the-first-impression
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The
dominant
position
is
always
the
upper
position.
When
you
go
in
for
a
handshake,
thrust
your
hand
with
your
palm
facing
forward
so
as
to
force
the
other
person
to
shake
your
hand
from
the
bottom,
the
submissive
position.
When
youre
saying
hi
to
someone,
nod
your
head
upwards
rather
than
downwards.
Nodding
upwards
take
advantage
of
the
feminine
desire
to
look
up
towards
men
they
consider
dominant.
When
youre
smoking,
blow
smoke
upwards.
If
you
need
to
gaze
distractedly
somewhere,
gaze
at
your
level,
avoid
looking
down.
Looking
up
might
make
you
look
retarded.
Apply
this
concept
to
every
micro-social
interaction.
When
youre
holding
hands
with
a
girl,
make
sure
your
hand
is
the
one
on
top.
Always
prefer
wide,
deliberate
movements
that
have
a
purpose.
Fast
or
twitchy
movements
are
for
subordinates.
Stride
confidently,
never
creep
or
walk
nervously.
Maintain
good
posture
while
you
walk.
If
this
is
difficult,
do
squats,
dead
lifts,
and
other
workouts
that
improve
posture.
Inner
game
indirectly
improves
posture;
a
strong
frame
of
mind
manifests
itself
as
a
confident
exterior.
Smile,
but
not
excessively.
Smiling
serves
two
purposes,
alphas
and
betas
always
smile
for
different
reasons.
A
smile
can
either
be
a
sign
of
happiness,
or
a
sign
of
submission.
Betas
will
smile
excessively,
say
lol,
lmao
or
rofl
unnecessarily,
or
laugh
during
un-funny
moments
to
display
compliance;
it
is
their
way
of
minimizing
threat
projection
to
build
rapport.
Alphas
smile
less
often
because
their
internal
desire
is
to
maximize
threat
projection
rather
than
to
minimize
it.
The
opposite
occurs
at
uncomfortable
places
like
new
social
venues
where
youll
see
an
alpha
sporting
a
shit
eating
grin
and
a
beta
just
eating
shit.
The
beta
is
withdrawn
because
he
feels
threatened;
the
alpha
takes
it
as
an
opportunity
to
extend
his
dominance.
The
same
behavior
patterns
are
seen
in
chimps
and
other
mammals
close
to
our
species.
Always
hold
eye
contact,
but
not
for
awkwardly
long
periods
of
time.
Never,
ever
look
down
when
talking
to
a
girl.
Her
mind
will
register
it
as
an
immediate
DLV
(display
of
lower
value).
Sometimes
you
wont
be
able
to
help
looking
down
when
talking
to
another
guy,
but
try
and
control
your
eyes
as
much
as
possible.
The
more
you
let
yourself
glance
downwards,
the
more
your
body
assumes
you
are
in
the
submissive
position
of
a
relationship.
If
youre
holding
eye
contact
with
a
girl,
make
sure
she
breaks
it
first
unless
shes
obsessed
with
cats
and
has
a
bizarre
need
to
establish
mental
dominance
through
soul
gazing.
Several
experiments
in
dating
have
proven
that
couples
that
hold
eye
contact
build
much
stronger
rapport.
Looking
above
the
eyes
or
around
the
eyes
doesnt
count
either,
you
must
stare
right
into
her
pupil.
When
are
talking
to
someone,
hold
strong
eye
contact.
When
someone
is
talking
to
you,
gaze
away
absent-mindedly.
In
the
initial
stages
of
attraction,
youll
want
to
hold
eye
contact
at
both
stages.
The
power
position
is
always
the
vantage
point
with
maximized
vision.
In
a
rectangular
table,
this
means
the
seat
at
either
head.
At
a
circular
table
propped
against
a
wall,
it
is
the
seat
on
the
table
tangent
to
the
wall.
In
a
circular
or
square
table
in
the
middle
of
a
room,
you
must
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independently
measure
the
situation
to
determine
the
power
position.
At
a
bar,
it
is
the
standing
position
against
the
bar.
When
youre
standing,
never
stand
with
your
hands
covering
the
front
of
your
body.
This
is
an
instinctual
defense
mechanism
for
humans;
other
people
subconsciously
notice
your
action
as
a
sign
of
insecurity.
Keeping
your
hands
behind
your
back
or
in
an
open
position
makes
you
seem
more
powerful.
It
makes
you
more
vulnerable,
which
our
mind
interprets
as
a
sign
of
power
because
only
animals
that
are
fearless
of
their
surroundings
could
afford
to
be
vulnerable.
Be
conscious
of
your
twitches.
If
you
have
a
medical
condition,
I
cant
help
you.
Otherwise,
start
exercising
&
working
on
your
internal
issues.
Body
or
facial
twitches,
uncontrolled
movements,
and
awkward
mobility
result
from
internal
imbalances
that
leak
out
in
corporeal
form.
Besides
being
fidgety,
watch
for
twitches
like
a
need
to
fix
your
cufflinks,
adjust
your
watch,
or
anything
in
the
front
of
your
body.
This
is
your
way
of
subconsciously
keeping
your
arms
in
front
of
you
to
thwart
psychological
blows.
Men
do
it
at
parties
when
they
hold
their
drinks
too
high
or
fold
their
arms.
Keep
your
chest,
body,
and
legs
open.
Talk
slow.
People
who
talk
fast
feel
the
need
to
rush
themselves
because
they
dont
think
theyll
get
to
finish
what
they
have
to
say.
Betas
in
the
presence
of
alphas
will
always
talk
faster.
Talking
slower
helps
you
maintain
a
hypnotic
tone.
During
the
initial
attraction
phase,
your
tone
must
be
charismatic
but
not
desperate.
If
your
voice
cracks,
save
yourself
the
embarrassment
and
eject
immediately.
In
the
later
stages
of
seduction,
especially
during
a
relationship,
your
tone
can
jump
from
sarcastic,
prosaic,
charming,
to
passionate.
Never
hold
a
vexed,
annoying,
or
baby-sounding
tone.
A
sarcastic
tone
will
help
disarm
shit
tests
and
neutralize
possible
fem
fiascos.
A
prosaic
tone
helps
you
maintain
that
grudging
reluctance
needed
to
win
over
a
girls
real
heart.
A
women
wants
to
know
that
only
a
champion
of
her
type
can
win
over
your
heart
and
that
no
other
girl
has
a
chance
with
you.
If
you
make
it
too
easy
for
a
girl
to
get
you
excited,
desperate,
loving,
or
needy,
she
will
resent
you
for
eternity.
A
passionate
tone
helps
in
bed,
when
you
want
to
tell
her
that
you
love
her,
or
when
exchanging
romantic
whisperings
to
embellish
your
relationship
with
amatory
phenomena.
Never
let
your
passionate
tone
resonate
with
neediness.
If
you
find
this
happening,
withdraw
it.
A
charming
tone
is
like
a
combination
between
a
passionate
and
sarcastic
tone.
It
helps
to
extrovert
your
charm
unto
different
topics
of
conversation,
crazy
stories,
or
your
surroundings
(situational
humor).
Never
talk
with
your
hands
over
your
mouth
or
constantly
drifting
to
your
face.
It
gives
off
the
impression
that
you
are
hiding
something.
If
you
tilt
your
head
to
one
side
and
show
a
bit
of
your
ear
while
maintaining
open
body
language,
she
feels
that
you
are
being
open
and
listening
to
her
(your
ear
is
visible).
This
can
be
manipulated
in
1
on
1
persuasive
arguments
when
youre
the
only
one
talking
but
your
opponent
feels
more
inclined
to
listen
because
youre
giving
off
the
subtle
impression
that
youre
listening
to
them,
even
though
youre
not.
Slouching
can
be
either
beta
or
Alpha
depending
on
the
context.
If
youre
already
perceived
as
Alpha,
slouching
makes
you
look
relaxed
and
uncaring.
If
you
are
already
perceived
as
a
beta,
slouching
makes
you
look
like
you
dont
have
enough
bodily
strength
to
stand
erect.
No
girl
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wants to date a fat sack with a gut and bitch tits who cant stand up straight. Women want an Alpha who can stand with the posture of a general but who slouches occasionally during war to show he is unperturbed by stress. Never lean forward when talking to a girl, especially if shes leaning back. Her words are not so precious that they stipulate a swath of laser focus. You must listen to her words with the interest of a man with options one who considers their application but is constantly on the prowl for more lubricated genetilia. Your body language should always display dominance and control, but never interest, unless it is shown first by the girl. The only time you show interest is when you use it as a reward to reciprocate her advances. Otherwise, remain tepid. Once youve built attraction with a girl, she will begin to mirror your internal state. If you are standing awkwardly, she will feel and be awkward. If youre standing comfortably like a king surveying his underlings, she will feel and be comfortable. Use hand gestures when youre exciting her with short vignettes to make her reflect your excitement. Be animated as youre talking about something that excites you. Be aware that she will reflect whatever state she perceives you to be in.
STYLE
Everything in the world of mens fashion revolves around female hypergamy the poignant need for all women to trade up the social ladder. Men commonly misunderstand Hypergamy, immediately interpreting it in terms of popularity or monetary resources when it has a much looser definition. A girl whos attracted to her boyfriend because hes a talented musician, because he can write good poetry, or because of his lurid detachment in life is still exercising her need to trade up the social ladder the same way gold diggers do when they stake out rich guys. Hypergamy vaguely refers to the desire of women to mate with men they view as alpha and their willingness to leave men less alpha if they view the tradeoff as reproductively beneficial (a girl will not leave a mid-alpha husband for a one night fling with a super alpha rock star due to a superseding emotional bond).
In the world I see you are stalking elk through the damp canyon forests around the ruins of Rockefeller center. Youll wear leather clothes that will last you the rest of your life. Youll climb the wrist-thick kudzu vines that wrap the Sears Tower. And when you look down, youll see tiny figures pounding corn, laying strips of venison on the empty car pool lane of some abandoned super highway.
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All styles of fashion and what they stand for stem from this demonic compulsion for women to date alpha males. Suits and ties display money and status. White shirts with ripped jeans display a nihilistic I dont give a shit attitude. Tight graphic t- shirts emphasize strong physiques. All of these styles, regardless of how different they are, are geared towards displaying power in different forms (titular, indifference, or sexuality). Its a refined form of neo-prostitution. Women want to see power displays from their boyfriends through clothes, raw indifference, psychological dominance, or dauntless feats of courage. There is no right way to dress, any style can attract women. Some guys look like closeted gays when they wear earrings, other guys can pull them off. Scottish men even wear dresses, although that might be pushing it. Rather than a universal formula for dressing well, there are fundamental concepts based on hypergamy that one should use as guidelines. A style will attract women with similar taste. Ghetto guys will attract ghetto girls; preppy guys will attract preppy girls. Again we see that the predominance of capitalism in our society will automatically mark suits, ties, tuxedos, shiny shoes, and other clothing that represent financial or political influence as the pinnacle of male fashion. Suits dont look any more visually appealing than Ed Hardy shirts, but our social conditioning makes them out to be more a la mode. Within the beginning stages of a relationship, you can guess what kind of style a girl is most attracted to based on where she lives and her friends (especially the ones from her childhood). If you find out she recently moved into an area where everyone dresses in preppy golf attire, but she spent most of her childhood at the slums skateboarding, dunks & robots will out game Lacoste and polo. Catching this type of social imprinting with a girl is important. It extends beyond clothing and we will return to it again in the dating segment. For now, remember that every girl has been imprinted with a specific dress code she will prefer above all others. It is most likely the style of the dominant male figures she encountered in her youth. Imitation is suicide; you must always be the exception. Peacocking was a term coined by Mystery to refer to wearing interesting objects, clothes, or accessories to grab attention. They have the added benefit of giving a girl a way to start a conversation if she so desires. If she can say something like nice hat or ask a question about something youre wearing (is that a thong?) she has an excuse to talk to you while retaining plausible deniability. This is crucial for women as they are even more self-conscious than men about rejection or a bad approach. Items I recently used for peacocking: - Necklace made out of lucky charms, the cereal. When a girl asked me what kind of necklace is that? I told her theyre lucky charms and when she asked, wow, from where I followed up with a cereal box and explained my genius to her.
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-
At
a
wine
and
cheese
party
with
a
bunch
of
semi-rich
people
I
took
a
marker
and
drew
a
watch
on
my
wrist
and
wrote
Rolex
in
the
middle.
Most
people
found
it
really
funny
although
I
think
some
guys
with
actual
Rolexes
felt
a
bit
uncomfortable.
-
A
bracelet
I
got
from
a
real
Shaman
in
Malaysia.
I
dont
wear
it
much
anymore
because
I
think
it
may
have
real
necromantic
powers.
I
kid
you
not,
every
time
I
fell
asleep
while
wearing
it,
Ive
suffered
from
vivid
night
terrors.
-
A
fake
wedding
band.
Works
like
the
One
Ring
of
Power.
Any
time
you
pretend
to
be
married,
expect
your
chances
with
a
girl
to
shoot
up
by
50%
or
more.
If
she
asks
about
it
in
the
middle
of
sex
later
on
that
night,
say
youre
divorced
but
you
wear
it
for
sentimental
value.
Or
say
what
wedding
ring?
and
shell
rationalize
it
away
by
assuming
she
was
hallucinating.
If
youre
really
badass,
you
can
be
like
Napoleon
and
tell
her
Power
is
my
Mistress
and
wear
the
actual
One
Ring
of
Power,
although
I
expect
such
an
antic
would
take
a
surreal
level
of
Jedi
Game
to
properly
pull
off.
Never
wear
more
than
one
or
two
things
that
stand
out
simultaneously.
Attention
grabbing
objects
have
a
marginal
rate
of
return;
the
more
of
them
you
wear,
the
less
impact
each
of
them
have
individually.
Be
weary
of
visually
stellar
clothing.
Graphic
t-shirts
and
colorful
ties
stood
out
at
one
point
in
time,
now
they
simply
blend
in
to
the
crowd.
If
everyone
plays
the
role
of
a
rebel,
no
ones
a
rebel.
Wear
what
no
one
else
wears,
do
what
no
one
else
does.
Dont
overdo
peacocking;
always
measure
how
much
effort
it
looks
like
you
put
into
an
outfit.
Looking
like
youre
trying
too
hard
to
peacock
gives
off
the
impression
that
youre
masking
a
deficit
in
other
areas.
An
item
should
barely
whisper
your
disdain
for
convention.
A
slight
disturbance
in
your
appearance
that
makes
a
girl
notice
you
without
her
noticing
why
she
noticed
you.
Seeming
try-hard
immediately
brands
you
as
a
try-hard.
Peacocking
is
positively
related
with
your
level
of
Alpha
or
pre-conceived
eccentricity.
If
youre
a
famous
celebrity
for
example,
you
can
walk
into
a
club
with
a
shiny
silver
cape
and
no
ones
going
to
accuse
you
of
suffering
from
psychic
distress.
Lady
Gaga
can
look
like
a
Martian
Sapphic
gang
banger
and
no
ones
going
to
think
shes
trying
to
get
attention;
shes
just
expressing
her
individuality.
Never
dress
the
same
way
consistently.
If
you
always
have
to
wear
suits
to
work,
have
a
more
versatile
wardrobe
back
at
home.
Evolving
the
way
you
look
from
suddenly
wearing
glasses
to
colored
contacts
can
help
you
avoid
the
trap
of
over-comfort
in
relationships.
Both
men
and
women
(especially
men)
get
sexually
bored
with
their
partners
after
a
while
because
people
have
evolved
to
prefer
physical
variety.
Changing
your
appearance
marginalizes
this
effect
in
relationships.
Remain
formless;
dont
let
your
style
be
definable.
Half
of
your
gender
smells
like
cooked
dick.
Take
advantage
of
this
by
wearing
cologne.
Some
of
my
personal
favorites
are
Bulgari
Black,
Armani
Code,
Coolwater,
Chanel
Allure,
and
Egoiste.
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There are plenty more out there, get a girls opinion if you need to. Never, ever wear axe or cheap body spray. Making it blatantly obvious that youre wearing something cheap is a DLV (display of lower value) even in the presence of women who dont care about money. It signals to her that you care about money, but dont have enough to support your swanky taste. If a guy who always wears sweats and slippers wore fake jewelry, it would take away the I dont care about money effect and replace it with I do care about money, but I dont have any. You can take two approaches to cologne. You can have multiple ones to stay unpredictable, or use only one and brand your presence to it. Even in the latter example, you must eventually change colognes to avoid the dregs of familiarity. I recommend rotating between 3 or 5 different smells and applying certain ones more liberally, depending on how many compliments you get and from whom. Avoid desensitizing your girlfriend to a smell she says she really likes. Abstain from the pitfalls of repetition. Apply cologne liberally. I know guides will often tell you to use only a minimal amount, but I promise you from in-field experience, thats bullshit. Its almost a conspiracy, I expect most of these guys who tell you dont put on too much cologne do it themselves and hope their advice will keep you from becoming a competitor. While you dont want to smell so piquant that you give your date an asthma attack, do edge more towards putting on too much rather than too little. If youre poor, take advantage of it by preferring not to wear $5,000 suits. If youre poor but insist on wearing priced down clothing, you are intentionally entering a losing battlefield. Take advantage of your passions and what you do have. A broke single-father who plays amazing pool will outclass the millionaire entrepreneur in a billiards hall if he plays his cards right. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses. If youre a broke stand-up comedian, make your own funny t-shirts instead of wearing fake Armani suits. Play to your advantage. Do not follow the get a womans advice tip universally. If you read game literature, it should be obvious by now that women have absolutely no fucking idea about what they want in a guy. If your taste in clothing is insulting to humanity, you have three options. Find a girl who overtly admits that she likes assholes or is somewhat consciously aware of female psychology (they are rare, but they exist), has a strong self-esteem, and dresses well herself. She will give you good advice. Find an alpha known to dress well and copy his style. Or, look at manikins, celebrities, and blogs. As a rule of thumb, never spend too much time trying to correct your sense of fashion. Its better to be productive in other ways while wearing a white t-shirt and converses than to spend your time obsessively observing the latest fashion trends. Not all gay people know how to dress well. This is a universal misconception with dangerous repercussions. Sometimes a gay guy will just teach you how to look gay. Your style must be daring, bold, and give off the aura of power while looking like youre not trying to do any of the above. Genius and creativity must always come off as effortless, even if
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extra
effort
is
needed
to
make
them
seem
so.
You
must
never
seek
attention
through
your
clothing
attention
must
seek
you.
Because
first
impressions
have
a
filtering
effect,
its
important
to
always
stay
at
your
best.
Slacking
at
the
gym
or
dressing
lazy
immediately
diminishes
your
value.
Its
fun
and
quixotic
to
believe
that
people
arent
shallow
but
alas
the
moment
we
reject
reality
is
the
moment
it
works
against
us.
If
youre
constantly
running
into
your
exes,
look
like
youre
about
to
try
out
for
a
part
in
the
next
James
Bond
movie
every
time
you
go
out.
A
girl
will
not
forgive
you
if
your
first
impression
on
her
reeks
of
failure
even
if
your
next
five
say
otherwise.
First
impressions
can
be
reversed,
but
its
much
easier
to
get
it
right
from
the
start.
Burn
an
image
of
a
Super
Alpha
God
Father
into
her
mind
within
the
first
three
seconds
she
notices
you.
If
previously
youve
been
dressing
or
looking
more
proletariat
than
GQ,
make
your
changes
in
outward
appearance
come
about
gradually.
A
sudden
shift
in
the
way
you
look
overtly
communicates
your
desire
to
change
to
be
someone
youre
not.
Your
mind
doesnt
have
enough
time
to
readjust
to
the
status
quo
and
you
risk
going
back
to
your
old
ways,
but
under
a
different
skin.
Make
your
change
gradual,
an
unintentional
reflex
from
a
change
in
your
thoughts
and
perception.
If
those
around
you
notice
a
progressive
difference
rather
than
an
impulsive
one,
they
will
assume
it
to
be
more
genuine.
The
women
around
you
will
assume
you
are
oblivious
to
the
changes
and
will
make
their
own
assumptions
about
you
which
is
exactly
what
you
want.
The
more
a
girl
has
to
draw
her
own
inferences
about
you,
the
more
she
will
feel
both
connected
to
you
and
accomplished
through
her
sense
of
intuition.
Fit
is
everything.
Oversized
or
undersized
clothing
will
either
make
you
look
gay
or
unappealing,
regardless
of
how
trendy
what
youre
wearing
is.
In
some
cases
youll
look
even
more
homosexual
if
your
clothing
is
both
trendy
and
tight.
Ive
spent
a
while
thinking
about
why
fit
is
so
important
in
accordance
with
biomechanics
and
I
could
only
come
up
with
one
reasonable
explanation.
Beauty,
if
mathematically
reduced
to
its
rawest
form,
comes
down
a
perfect
set
of
proportions
and
asymmetry.
Whenever
you
see
a
guy
in
an
oversized
jacket
or
sagging
pants,
this
rule
immediately
becomes
violated.
The
only
exception
to
the
above
rule
is
when
you
are
intentionally
exaggerating
the
size
of
your
clothing.
You
might
have
noticed
before
that
clothing
for
men
is
much
more
expensive
than
for
women.
At
this
point,
you
should
be
educated
enough
to
realize
why.
The
somber
eye
of
visual
appeal
is
all
thats
needed
for
men.
A
$5
dress
can
be
just
as
attractive
as
a
$500
dress.
The
same
doesnt
apply
for
a
man.
If
you
wear
a
shirt
with
a
small
drawing
of
a
guy
playing
polo
on
your
left
tit,
you
suddenly
become
seamlessly
entwined
with
the
aura
of
a
powerful
being.
Womans
fashion
is
the
result
of
an
internal
crisis
over
their
lack
of
control
over
physical
beauty.
The
importance
of
the
genetic
lottery
is
unproportional
for
women
and
time
is
exceptionally
cruel
to
them.
Its
the
same
thing
when
men
adopt
frivolous
pursuits
while
theyre
searching
for
their
own
identities
in
an
increasingly
anarchic
world.
We
are
all
victims
to
our
own
vanity.
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Mix in contrary game with your sense of dress. A man who walks in with a fedora and starts talking about 19th century music is too predictable. But if he were to tell you he listens to hip hop and plays Pokmon suddenly he becomes interesting. What doesnt make logical sense is enticing; it makes us want to question, to learn more. Im going to list a couple of fashion blogs on my site, but I should add that Im doing so with a bit of reluctance so I find it necessary to also tell you how to use them. Never spend more than 45 seconds looking through a fashion blog. Go to the site, quickly scroll up and down, and if you find anything that you like, remember the look for later. Do not spend time you could be using to plot against your enemies reading through articles about sartorial trends. Do not spend more than 5 seconds looking at a piece of clothing and deciding if you want it. The only time you should patiently shop is when you need to try things on to make sure they fit right. Otherwise, shopping is purely a womans activity; do not enjoy it even for a second. The only reason you shop is to look better so you can fuck more women. You do not ever, ever shop because you enjoy shopping. You hate shopping. You loathe spending your time at a mall. But you find it a necessary evil to avoid obtuse vajayjays and bang only the best. Men are stylish, not fashionable. Look Good. Smell Good. Fuck Good.
LIFESTYLE
Warning:
If
you
are
reading
this
then
this
warning
is
for
you.
Every
word
you
read
of
this
useless
fine
print
is
another
second
off
your
life.
Dont
you
have
other
things
to
do?
Is
your
life
so
empty
that
you
honestly
cant
think
of
a
better
way
to
spend
these
moments?
Or
are
you
so
impressed
with
authority
that
you
give
respect
and
credence
to
all
that
claim
it?
Do
you
read
everything
youre
supposed
to
read?
Do
you
think
every
thing
youre
supposed
to
think?
Buy
what
youre
told
to
want?
Get
out
of
your
apartment.
Meet
a
member
of
the
opposite
sex.
Stop
the
excessive
shopping
and
masturbation.
Quit
your
job.
Start
a
fight.
Prove
youre
alive.
If
you
dont
claim
your
humanity
you
will
become
a
statistic.
You
have
been
warned.
A
large
portion
of
external
game
depends
on
being
able
to
trick
women
into
thinking
youre
a
billionaire
and
then
sleeping
with
them
before
they
realize
youre
not.
A
few
cheap
parlor
tricks
can
go
a
long
way
into
massacring
vagina
or
tricking
your
wife
into
giving
you
morning
blowjobs.
Displaying
an
attractive
lifestyle
can
be
tricky
because
you
still
have
to
keep
gold
diggers
at
bay,
prevent
a
girl
from
thinking
youre
intentionally
trying
to
impress
her,
and
keep
all
of
your
externalities
congruent
with
the
rest
of
your
game.
If
youre
all
Bondesque
while
at
a
bar
and
then
you
take
a
girl
back
to
a
shithole
house
with
piss
leaking
from
the
bathroom
upstairs,
shell
feel
duped
and
possibly
repulsed
(if
you
live
in
said
house,
dont
act
like
James
Bond,
act
like
Tyler
Durden.
Being
poor
can
be
used
as
a
weapon
if
spun
the
right
way).
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Your bachelors pad must contain all the functional necessities for a girl to stay over. Tissues, extra tooth brushes, clean fluffy towels, even tampons if you have women over for consecutive days (or if your AFC friends have vaginas). Entertainment should include a television at the bare minimum. Board games, magazines (cosmopolitan), and a stereo system are also recommended. Fish, plants, or stuffed animals are good to liven up the atmosphere and display your provider capabilities. Women subconsciously take note of things like pets to measure your potential as a long-term suitor. If you have a mangy puppy that looks like hes been beat a couple of times, dont expect a second date. Candles, massage oil, and condoms should always be available. Never keep new condoms visible, or even worse, used condoms visible. Peacocking doesnt only apply to your clothing; it applies to anything associated with you. Peacock with items in your house by keeping interesting objects that can serve as topics of conversation. Exotic plants, lava lamps, or vintage items all work well. Your sofa and bed should resemble royalty as close as possible. If you cant afford 1,000 thread count Egyptian Sateen sheets with pillows made out of Ostrich feathers, buy covers and wrappings as a substitute (find a couch on the streets and drape it with a suede couch cover). Keep everything spotless. No shit stains on the ceiling, no crusty dried piss on the toilet seat, and no phlegm in the sink. Dirty Guys are popularized because their carelessness exudes confidence and power, they arent actually unhygienic. And if they are, its because their frame control is powerful enough to subvert a womans normal human standards. Vast wealth will counteract hygienic shortcomings any day. Any man who thinks otherwise should take a look at Howard Hughess track record. Even female luminaries who have an elevated standard will make exceptions for sadistically powerful men. To end the Dirty Alpha misconception once an for all, dirtiness is only attractive because it displays power through indifference. A repugnant odor is never attractive. Bad breath will never turn a girl on. If you can smell good while still looking carelessly dirty, you can achieve both ends. The reason Id recommend straying towards the immaculately groomed side is because attraction comes down to a numbers game. Proportionally, a larger number of women will prefer cleanliness over tribal dirtiness. Yes, some women are turned on by bacteria and gross habits, but the exceptions do not make the rule. Alcohol and a mini bar is a must. Make it look like your apartment could belong to Don Draper. Keep a variety of drinks in your fridge, from Snapple to bottled water and soft drinks. For some reason it makes a big difference in rapport when you have a stocked fridge. I imagine this has something to do with a womans nesting instinct. If you find yourself fucking fat girls a lot, youll need a lot of ice cream bars and popsicles. Candy helps to disarm little kids if you find yourself dating a single mom. I hate little cock blocking fuckers so I keep truckloads of skittles in stock to distract the shit out of them. When fat women start breathing heavy, they are getting hungry. Feed them adequately before you continue boffing them. Have something for women of all tastes to appreciate, keep all of your bases covered.
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Be
a
good
drink
mixer.
You
dont
have
to
be
a
professional
bar
tender,
just
have
a
basic
knowledge
over
alcohol
and
learn
how
to
pour
juice
with
an
allusively
smooth
aura.
Women
are
much
better
at
catching
clues
to
a
persons
character;
a
girl
will
be
judging
you
based
on
all
of
her
minute
observations.
Use
this
to
your
advantage.
Keep
a
romance
novel
barely
hidden,
a
picture
of
you
and
your
best
looking
ex
girlfriend
lying
around
somewhere,
or
anything
that
hints
towards
what
you
want
to
convey
to
her.
If
you
want
a
girl
to
know
something
about,
you
cannot
tell
her
directly.
Leave
breadcrumbs
that
will
lead
her
to
the
same
conclusion.
Let
her
feel
like
she
has
intuitively
discovered
a
lot
about
you
by
looking
through
your
home.
Romance
novels
give
off
the
impression
that
you
have
a
romantic
side
hidden
deep
down
inside
that
requires
vigorous
work
to
uncover.
A
challenge
every
girl
secretly
fantasizes
about
undertaking.
Besides
romance
novels,
keep
a
collection
of
books
somewhere
in
stock,
preferably
classics.
A
mans
favorite
says
a
lot
about
his
personality.
If
a
girl
comes
from
a
religious
household,
keep
a
bible
(or
your
respective
religious
book)
out
in
the
open.
Dont
act
religious,
just
keep
it
there.
The
gesture
will
make
her
connect
with
you
better
(struggling
to
hold
onto
roots
in
an
increasingly
chaotic
world).
As
we
delve
further
into
the
information
age,
cars
are
becoming
less
and
less
important
in
terms
of
pick
up.
A
few
years
ago
it
was
almost
essential
to
have
a
car
if
you
were
over
21,
otherwise
youd
look
like
a
loser.
Nowadays,
especially
if
you
live
in
the
city,
it
barely
makes
a
difference.
If
you
do
have
a
car,
or
are
considering
to
buy
one,
keep
it
in
good
visible
condition.
Again,
a
girl
will
measure
your
ability
as
a
long
term
provider
based
on
how
well
you
take
care
of
the
things
around
you.
For
the
size
range
of
your
car,
stay
away
from
the
extremes.
Yappy
cars
that
are
too
small
look
weird
and
cars
that
are
way
too
big
make
you
look
like
youre
insecure
about
your
penis
size.
Stick
to
basic
colors
unless
youre
driving
a
Lamborghini.
Until
youre
in
the
extreme
ranges
of
wealth,
your
car
model
wont
matter.
As
long
as
theres
no
dried
up
cum
stains
in
the
backseat
or
dead
body
in
the
drunk,
a
girl
wont
care
what
type
of
car
you
have
(granted
its
a
decent
looking
car).
If
you
have
to
drive
a
car
that
looks
like
it
came
out
of
an
episode
of
the
Flintstones,
donate
it
to
the
museum
and
get
a
bike
instead.
Better
to
pretend
to
be
eco- friendly
and
ditch
cars
than
drive
a
broken
one
and
say
you
cant
afford
a
better
one.
Theres
no
shame
in
not
having
a
car,
but
if
you
act
embarrassed
over
it,
it
will
reflect
in
her.
And
lets
face
it;
electric
cars
are
for
pussies.
If
you
have
the
money,
buy
useless
gadgets
like
night
vision
goggles
and
nerf
guns.
Most
people
remember
their
childhood
as
a
perpetual
state
of
bliss.
If
you
can
tap
into
this
inner
sanctum
of
happiness
through
established
anchors,
you
will
make
your
presence
a
breath
of
nostalgic
fresh
air.
Nintendo
made
the
lives
of
a
million
players
around
the
world
significantly
easier
by
releasing
the
Wii.
Never
before
has
a
video
game
system
been
built
for
the
sole
purpose
of
tearing
down
last
minute
resistance
like
a
crack
team
of
philanderers.
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The
belly
rules
the
mind.
If
you
eat
like
shit,
expect
to
function
like
shit.
Treat
your
body
with
care;
I
cant
over-emphasize
this
point.
Go
to
the
gym
and
eat
healthy
religiously.
Living
on
a
clean
diet
keeps
your
head
clear
and
your
cock
from
going
dysfunctional.
Ever
heard
horror
stories
of
guys
whose
penises
failed
them
last
minute?
That
comes
from
a
lifestyle
of
binge
drinking
and
taking
distilled
morphine
through
a
glass
funnel.
You
will
end
up
echoing
your
diet
more
than
you
think.
Consider
this
as
a
warning
more
than
a
piece
of
advice.
Use
caffeine
and
supplements.
Performance
enhancing
drugs
often
get
a
bad
rep
because
stupid
people
abuse
them
and
give
the
entire
industry
a
bad
name.
Caffeine
is
addictive,
but
youll
be
fine
if
you
drink
a
cup
a
day
or
less.
Dont
let
it
snowball
from
1
cup
to
2
cups
to
a
pot
a
day.
Dont
wait
to
take
supplements
until
youre
80
and
cant
live
without
them.
Take
them
now;
preventative
health
care
is
always
the
best
type.
Getting
a
torn
physique
is
the
easiest
way
to
gain
social
proof.
It
boosts
your
confidence
and
makes
you
more
attractive.
Not
just
a
medially
ok
looking
body,
make
it
look
like
you
eat
metal
for
breakfast.
Of
course
this
has
its
limits,
dont
overdo
the
weight
gaining
aspect.
Women
prefer
men
who
are
built
extremely
well
and
bigger
than
average,
but
not
juice
heads
who
look
like
the
hulk
on
steroids.
Theres
a
growing
breed
of
women
now
looking
for
skinny
guys
with
a
more
feminine
build;
like
Rudolph
Valentino.
If
youre
a
natural
ectomorph,
use
this
to
your
advantage
instead
of
constantly
trying
to
put
on
weight.
Now
since
were
all
realists
here,
lets
be
honest,
abs
are
the
most
important
muscle
for
attracting
women
(unless
they
look
disproportionate,
like
skinny
packs).
My
social
circle
game
went
from
banging
2
girls
to
35+
including
4
lesbian
mermaids
the
first
time
I
got
abs.
This
being
said,
abs
do
NOT
make
up
for
a
weak
overall
physique.
Focus
on
everything
from
calves
to
triceps.
A
good
overall
anatomy
will
get
you
pussy
at
wholesale
prices.
It
grazes
the
ancestral
need
for
women
to
search
for
protectors
much
more
than
glossy
eyes
or
a
cool
hair
cut.
There
are
too
many
resources
online
for
me
to
try
and
offer
workout
tips
without
turning
this
into
a
rote
discussion.
But
I
will
say
this,
always
be
changing
your
work
out
routine.
Both
your
mind
and
your
physical
body
need
to
be
constantly
challenged
in
different
ways.
Avoid
receding
into
repetitive
routines.
Always
look
to
be
innovative
in
your
work
outs.
Get
out
of
your
comfort
zone.
Google
things
every
man
should
know
how
to
do.
There
are
certain
questions
that
should
be
made
unlawful
for
men
to
ask.
For
example,
you
should
never
have
to
ask,
how
do
you
tie
a
tie?
or
how
do
you
jumpstart
a
car?
Learn
these
things
yourself
if
your
father
hasnt
taught
you.
Luckily
you
live
in
the
age
of
YouTube
and
Wikipedia
so
everything
you
want
to
learn
will
be
within
your
reach.
In
Roger
Dodger,
Campbell
Scott
states
the
uncomfortable
truth
often
left
unsaid;
men
are
only
useful
as
per
their
utility
to
society
and
certain
men
are
more
useful
than
others.
We
can
read
maps,
we
can
lift
heavy
objects,
we
can
direct
troops
in
battle.
If
we
cant
do
any
of
these
things,
we
are
not
being
productive
members
of
a
society
that
recently
gained
the
ability
to
moot
our
existence
through
artificial
insemination.
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In
our
generation,
status
whoring
is
the
religion
of
the
day.
Resource
displays,
no
matter
how
shameful,
work.
Cufflinks,
expensive
watches,
an
AMEX
black
card,
all
of
these
things
create
a
subtext
of
wealth
and
power
that
serves
as
a
catalyst
for
seduction.
Same
thing
with
fame.
If
your
lifestyle
consists
of
dodging
TMZ
and
Googling
your
own
name,
vaginas
will
march
in
unison
towards
your
all-mighty
blessed-be
cock.
Take
part
in
activities
that
let
you
peg
multiple
goals
at
once.
Yoga
will
let
you
meet
flexible
girls
and
help
you
disseminate
stress
simultaneously.
Hanging
out
at
cafes
gives
you
a
place
to
meet
people
and
get
work
done
at
the
same
time.
Book
stores
let
you
read
and
meet
girls
with
similar
interests.
Incorporate
highly
productive
habits
in
your
day
to
day
routine.
Surround
yourself
with
eccentricity.
What
is
bold
and
different
is
seductive.
Drink
black
coffee,
read
philosophy,
learn
how
to
pick
a
door
lock,
take
salsa
lessons,
learn
how
to
hunt,
write
poetry,
watch
the
discovery
channel,
be
a
fan
of
ballet
over
sports,
be
different,
be
unique.
Keep
a
musical
instrument
in
your
bedroom,
a
copy
of
the
Kama-Sutra,
and
a
millennia
old
relic
you
dug
up
yourself.
Be
quick
on
your
feet,
learn
to
play
poker,
and
improve
your
wit.
Imagine
your
life
as
a
movie
at
all
points
and
yourself
as
the
omniscient
Alpha
commanding
the
world.
AVOID
COMPLICATIONS.
Wear
a
condom
when
youre
having
sex
with
a
prostitute
(coated
with
penicillin
if
need
be),
dont
deal
drugs,
dont
aid
or
abet
a
fugitive,
dont
sit
in
a
car
without
a
seatbelt
on,
dont
get
a
girl
pregnant
by
accident,
dont
be
stupid.
One
of
the
biggest
misconceptions
about
being
Alpha
is
that
it
turns
you
into
a
risk
taker.
I
never
take
risks,
ever.
I
manage
them.
I
dont
take
risks
with
uncontrollable
variables.
I
dont
drink
and
drive,
I
dont
play
the
lotto,
I
dont
delegate
jobs
to
other
people
without
knowing
that
they
can
do
it.
I
take
risks
on
myself,
because
I
am
supremely
confident
in
my
own
ability;
but
my
tenacity
and
ambition
is
a
variable
I
control.
The
avoiding
stupidity
lesson
will
save
you
a
lot
of
time
and
wasted
effort
if
you
learn
it
early.
Embrace
common
sense,
humanitys
weakness.
Dont
do
things
without
thinking.
Be
capable,
be
a
problem
solver.
Associate
your
identity
with
symbols
of
power.
For
long-term
relationships
and
political
seduction,
this
is
the
most
important
form
of
peacocking.
Buy
a
gun
and
let
your
wife
massage
the
barrel,
buy
a
timepiece
and
blind
your
girlfriend
with
the
embezzled
diamonds,
get
a
tattoo
of
something
with
symbolic
importance
that
makes
other
people
cringe
with
fear.
Poeticize
your
appearance;
make
it
greater
than
just
a
man.
Create
spectacles
around
your
life.
No
one
cares
about
what
the
guy
with
the
9-5
job
is
doing.
Everyone
is
too
busy
watching
the
bold.
Their
own
lives
are
boring
as
fuck;
they
live
vicariously
through
the
adventurous
people
around
them.
They
are
driven
by
an
evolutionarily
mediated
response
aimed
at
searching
for
leaders
who
arent
afraid
to
push
the
boundaries
in
life.
The
audacious
capture
the
hearts
of
their
fans
because
their
impudence
gives
birth
to
the
seductive
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surreality
everyone
desperately
craves.
People
will
follow
men
with
visions
to
no
controlled
end.
Women
want
to
find
someone
they
can
obsess
over
with
cult
fixation.
No
fear,
no
distractions.
The
ability
to
let
that
which
does
not
matter,
truly
slide.
Get
things
done
at
a
maniacal
pace.
Good
things
do
not
happen
to
those
who
wait.
They
happen
to
those
who
cant
wait,
those
who
chase
good
things
with
fucking
fangs
and
pitchforks.
Time
management
is
for
the
desperate
loser
who
doesnt
know
how
to
be
productive.
You
dont
need
time
management
skills,
you
are
already
a
machine.
Find
your
goals,
pursue
them.
Behind
the
faade
of
an
unperturbed
man,
you
must
be
calculative
and
fiercely
determined.
Triage
ruthlessly.
Get
rid
of
habits
that
are
unproductive,
stop
talking
to
girls
on
facebook
unless
youre
fucking
them.
Keep
your
goals
and
dreams
in
mind,
nothing
else
matters.
Dont
waste
your
time
making
schedules
and
to-do
lists.
Those
are
for
people
who
cant
manage
time
but
like
to
write
shit
down
to
make
themselves
feel
like
theyre
getting
things
done.
Dont
deal
with
life
the
way
dead
people
do.
SOCIAL
PROOF
To
compensate
for
the
difficulties
in
their
lives,
people
spend
a
lot
of
their
time
daydreaming,
imagining
a
future
full
of
adventure,
success,
and
romance.
If
you
can
create
the
illusion
that
through
you
they
can
live
out
their
dreams,
you
will
have
them
at
your
mercyThe
perfect
illusion
is
one
that
does
not
depart
too
much
from
reality,
but
has
a
touch
of
the
unreal
to
it.
-Robert
Greene
The
emotional
response
of
attraction
in
the
presence
of
a
man
displaying
the
right
value
cues
is
the
ensuing
rationalization
a
girl
uses
for
being
attracted
to
a
Man
she
perceives
to
have
high
reproductive
value.
Social
proof
is
evidence
of
a
mans
worth,
or
couthed
in
modern
terminology,
proof
that
other
women
like
him,
and
other
men
follow
him.
Dressing
good
and
mastering
kinesics
are
good
ways
to
establish
preliminary
social
proof,
but
they
quickly
metabolize
in
the
world
of
menstrual
judgment.
A
man
dressed
like
Mystery
but
standing
by
himself
at
the
corner
of
a
club
texting
his
guy
friends
isnt
a
Venusian
virtuoso,
hes
just
a
loser
saddled
into
a
funny
looking
costume
begging
for
attention.
Social
proof
is
the
last
and
most
important
piece
of
the
external
game
puzzle.
You
can
stand
next
to
a
girl
with
your
hand
in
your
pocket,
designer
shades
on
your
face,
and
wreaking
of
pheromones,
but
if
a
girl
walks
by
and
says
arent
you
that
loser
who
tried
to
pick
me
up
last
week?
and
you
have
no
response,
all
of
your
targets
lacteal
veins
will
focus
their
energies
on
her
rejection
ganglia
(in
the
above
scenario,
respond
with
no,
youre
not
my
type).
Say
you
approach
a
mixed
set
of
2
guys
and
4
girls.
The
opening
works
out
well
but
their
other
friends
from
outside
enter
the
fray.
You
dont
know
the
set
well
enough
to
get
an
immediate
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introduction
and
they
begin
laughing
at
inside
jokes.
Immediately
you
are
frozen
out
into
a
non- reactive
state;
every
moment
you
spend
in
the
set
diminishes
your
social
proof.
A
male
with
high
reproductive
value
wouldnt
spend
his
time
qualifying
himself
for
entrance
to
a
circle
of
people;
he
would
leave
and
look
to
socialize
with
other
sets.
Women
are
preprogrammed
to
subconsciously
notice
desperate
behavior
like
this
and
to
use
it
to
assess
a
mans
potential
as
a
suitor,
or
lack
thereof.
Nothing
says
low
value
like
a
hardcore
rejection.
As
soon
as
a
girl
blows
you
off
with
jagged
indifference,
your
value
in
the
eyes
of
other
women
within
her
proximity
shrivels
up.
Approaching
without
appearing
too
eager
and
ejecting
in
time
is
crucial
to
maintaining
a
sense
of
dignity
in
the
eyes
of
other
women.
Rejection
is
nothing,
its
a
simulated
emotional
response
trained
to
keep
men
in
line,
but
if
not
properly
alloyed,
it
can
quickly
poison
an
entire
night.
Persistence
is
only
a
good
trait
in
the
dating
market
if
it
comes
out
of
confidence.
Otherwise,
you
risk
giving
off
a
rapist
vibe.
Rejection
for
women
is
an
ego-feeding
art.
Dont
approach
a
girl
twice
in
the
same
night
after
shes
rejected
you
once.
Women
are
Templars
of
the
dark
arts,
they
relish
in
crushing
egos
for
the
sake
of
careening
lesser
men
out
of
the
gene
pool.
Do
not
stay
in
a
set
after
you
get
blown
out.
I
cant
grasp
the
reasoning
behind
this,
but
I
imagine
guys
do
it
because
they
get
paralyzed
when
an
approach
dive
bombs
too
quickly.
Dont
worry
about
your
pride
while
youre
talking
to
a
girl,
if
you
need
to
eject,
eject.
The
presence
of
another
Alpha
sets
off
a
compete
mentality
in
men
brazen
enough
to
collide
with
other
juggernauts.
If
you
ever
lose
a
verbal
wordplay
to
another
aspiring
seducer
and
let
him
neutralize
you,
the
shift
in
dominance
will
cause
your
game
to
rapidly
death
spiral.
Men
have
a
propensity
to
get
defensive
around
other
guys
who
subvert
their
dominance,
which
lowers
their
social
proof
even
further.
If
you
dont
have
enough
preceding
value
to
implicitly
out
game
a
natural
alpha
who
just
took
over
your
set,
politely
excuse
yourself
from
the
oncoming
slaughter.
Counter
AMOGing
>
Avoidance
>
Losing
and
standing
there
as
the
new
beta.
Disarm
a
douchebag
that
walks
into
your
circle
by
putting
him
in
a
qualifying
mentality.
Either
charm
him,
or
subtly
neg
him.
If
you
have
an
initial
amount
of
superseding
social
status,
you
can
compliment
him
and
make
him
want
to
earn
more
of
your
affections,
just
like
a
girl.
If
he
comes
into
your
set
with
gunz
blazing,
tell
him
he
looks
metro.
If
youre
on
the
offense,
use
the
nicer
method,
dont
be
a
dickwad
unless
its
called
for.
Any
uncomfortable
physical
position
maintained
for
the
purpose
of
talking
to
someone
else
reduces
social
proof.
Standing
while
talking
to
someone
seated
reduces
social
proof.
Sitting
down
uncomfortably
to
talk
to
a
girl
reduces
social
proof.
Squeezing
yourself
into
a
table
reduces
your
social
proof.
An
alpha
with
options
would
forgo
any
type
of
discomfort
no
matter
how
minute
because
the
tradeoff
for
vagina
is
never
worth
it
for
him.
Watch
betas
while
theyre
in
the
company
of
their
girlfriends;
they
will
suffer
the
worse
indignities
womankind
has
to
offer
for
a
pussy-handout.
Even
if
youre
not
a
high
value
male
and
you
havent
had
had
a
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date
for
15
years,
pretend
like
you
have
options.
Standing
outside
a
social
circle
while
talking
makes
your
dialogue
look
like
its
being
propelled
by
an
unspoken
need
to
qualify
yourself.
Standing
against
a
wall
while
outlaying
the
rest
of
your
minions
helps
maintain
a
cyborgian
alpha
tenure.
Use
the
above
rule
to
increase
your
relative
value
to
someone
when
you
can.
Place
yourself
in
the
power
position
and
your
target
in
social
sloth.
Use
your
hands
or
your
physical
positioning
to
preclude
someone
from
a
conversation.
Create
that
split
second
of
subconscious
rejection
needed
to
contrast
with
the
whirl
of
pleasure
soon
to
come.
Artificially
create
an
awkward
faux
pas
to
achieve
a
desired
outcome.
Game
is
establishing
a
New
World
Order,
be
at
the
apex
of
the
pyramid.
Anytime
you
turn
your
back
to
something
or
someone,
you
are
indicating
higher
value.
Casually
reject
people
in
this
way
if
you
sense
failure.
A
monotonic
conversation
will
always
be
blamed
on
the
guy,
even
if
its
the
girl
whos
been
talking.
Swing
the
pendulum
back
at
women
by
being
the
one
to
proactively
reject
them.
Any
position
that
gives
off
a
semblance
of
eagerness
reduces
social
proof.
Looking
like
youre
following
a
girl,
approaching
a
set
with
too
much
zeal,
or
burning
through
routines
so
quickly
that
it
becomes
madly
obvious
youve
practiced
this
a
thousand
times
in
front
of
a
mirror
reduces
social
proof.
When
youre
walking
towards
a
girl
youre
about
to
approach,
remember
that
she
already
notices
you
and
is
sizing
you
up
before
you
say
your
first
word.
If
you
walk
over
too
fast,
your
eagerness
will
betray
a
sense
of
nervousness.
The
far
extreme
holds
true
too;
looking
hesitant
reduces
social
proof.
A
girl
within
your
target
reach
who
has
clearly
telegraphed
her
interest
in
you
will
assume
you
dont
have
balls
to
approach
if
you
keep
glancing
at
her
from
the
side
but
refuse
to
go
up
to
her.
Audacity
is
an
art.
If
executed
poorly,
it
comes
off
as
desperation.
If
not
executed
at
all,
it
comes
off
as
a
missed
opportunity.
Rejection
is
always
better
than
regret.
Detecting
failed
positioning
is
simpler
than
it
seems;
humans
have
evolved
the
emotion
of
awkwardness
for
a
reason.
Pay
attention
to
your
gut
instincts,
the
flood
of
endorphins
that
follows
a
successfully
executed
power
play
is
a
time-honored
tradition
our
bodies
hold
sacred.
The
prevailing
theme
in
curing
social
maladies
is
simple:
avoid
them.
If
you
think
you
can
overcome
the
obstacle
by
charming
your
way
out
of
poor
positioning,
go
for
it
(not
recommended
for
ex-betas
who
are
new
to
the
game).
Otherwise,
its
best
to
strategically
maneuver
around
awkward
situations
than
jumping
into
them
with
half-ass
game.
If
youre
ever
in
field
or
in
a
group
and
you
see
another
guy
disarm
a
massively
awkward
situation
with
sociopathic
genius,
take
your
hat
off
to
him.
It
is
the
sign
of
a
master.
Super
Alphas
are
exempted
from
normal
dynamics.
Some
men
are
able
accumulate
so
much
social
capital;
awkward
moments
reverse
their
gender
scripts.
If
Tom
Cruise
approaches
a
girl,
an
awkward
moment
will
make
her
nervous
because
his
cock
has
already
tasted
rainbow
flavored
vagina.
Her
gaping
tendrils
need
to
qualify
themselves
to
him
before
he
wants
to
seduce
her.
If
a
girl
really
likes
a
guy
(more
prevalent
in
social
circles),
she
will
experience
a
similar
reversed
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role-play. Use this to your advantage. In the midst of a girl being taxed with the dread of your disapproval, break out in a beta-like show of love and approval. Counter the low of an awkward moment you intentionally created with the zenith of sudden euphoria later on. Displaying social proof is a simple matter in venues. At weddings, always seduce grandmas first. Take them to the dance floor, tell them gossip, remind them of the glories of youth. Getting the blessings of a matriarch will instantly make younger women perceive you as an Alpha. At a bar, buy the bartender a shot. At places where you regularly visit like restaurants and cafs, befriend the people working there. Any display of social savy comes off as manly propriety in the eyes of a woman. The prevailing theme for increasing social proof at venues is to game men and women you are not competing with. Everyone desires approval from their elders and little kids. Be someone that older people can be proud of and younger people can aspire to be like. When youre at a party with younger people, use those magic tricks you learned for 99 cents or pay off the kids to flock around you so women falsely perceive you to have fatherly attributes. When youre hanging out with a bunch of your friends, be the one to initiate a conversation with another group. Social acumen is the sign of a man who can lead. Be someone who can unite groups using the most gossamer of excuses. Betas fold in the face of liberal contact, always preferring to mingle within their comfort zone of 2 friends. Always be expanding your social circle. Meeting new people is the best way to prevent cocooning away in the same behavior patterns. Take advantage of power vacuums. These come in two forms, a lack of leadership or a lack of strength. In the former, a group becomes indecisive when no know wants to take the responsibility of making a choice. These are your opportunities to shine. Steal the thunder, make decisions quick, avoid hesitating. Make your decisions with confidence and speed, as if you were delegating to your generals. In the latter, everyone will be striving for a high rank in some sort of mindless competitive activity. School, a facebook game, a masturbating contest, something stupid aimed at leeching the productivity of our generation. Cheat if you have to, no point in working hard when the same result can be achieved in another way. Be sure to always make your efforts seem effortless. The less mindless the activity (School over dodgeball, football over facebook tetris), the more social proof that can be generated. Talking negatively about others always reduces social proof. This is not the same as making fun of people to get a laugh out of it or cynically analyzing the society around you. I am referring specifically to crossing the line and becoming a beat and battered soul who puts down others to blaze the embers of misery. Gossip is a natural part of humanity, it stems from our evolved desire to establish concrete social hierarchies. Men partake in it just like women do. But there comes a time when that need to gossip becomes embarrassingly deluded with bitter purposes. Avoid tarnishing your own reputation with bitterness, be a person of good character. When you hear of other people talking about you, be amused; not offended. Dont concern yourself with
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things like who broke up with who and how many facebook likes did they get? Leave the public sphere of popularity debating to women. In regards to the above statement, some of you will see an obvious contradiction with the idea of chasing fame. Isnt being famous and wealthy just the adult version of becoming popular? Isnt studying social dynamics just learning how to be popular in more tasteful fashion? No, there is a world of difference. Why does the nice guy cater to his girlfriends every desire? Why does the Jerk work night and day to have sex with as many women as possible? Why does the lawyer surround himself with McMansions and Rolexes when hed rather be a poet? They are not living out their own dreams; they are living someone elses. The nice guy seeks feminine praise, the jerk wants as many bed notches as he can get in one lifetime to feed his infinitely growing ego, and the lawyer has commoditized his own self image to serve his synthetically woven materialism. None of these people are doing things for themselves. I have three friends who are lawyers who hate their jobs because they did it for the sole purpose of wearing suits and signing their names in Parker Pens. I have another friend who loves being a lawyer because it is what he wanted to do all his life. He has a true passion for it. Are all four winners just because they have good occupations? No, only one of them has succeeded in life. Chase fame and glory for your own purposes, not someone elses. The end result between the two scenarios may look identical, but there is a profound difference in them. Learn social dynamics so you can attract someone you are willing to love, not to attract anyone willing to love you.
Very
few
men
are
wise
by
their
own
counsel,
or
learned
by
their
own
teaching.
For
he
that
was
only
taught
by
himself
had
a
fool
for
his
master.
-Ben
Johnson
External
game
is
best
learned
by
entering
the
tutelage
of
a
seasoned
maestro
who
knows
what
hes
doing.
While
books
and
articles
can
help
you
identify
the
unknowing
variables
that
have
previously
dictated
your
failures,
they
cannot
demonstrate
the
proper
way
to
execute
game
in
a
way
for
you
to
fully
comprehend
the
principles
they
are
based
on.
Nor
can
they
forcefully
illustrate
how
effective
Game
is.
You
need
a
real
life
Alpha
to
do
a
takeaway
on
his
girlfriend
to
understand
how
tactlessly
youve
misinterpreted
female
psychology.
You
need
to
witness
a
broke-as
shit
foul
mouthed
Alpha
hook
up
with
a
perfect
10
to
understand
how
concave
womens
standards
are.
You
need
to
see
a
guy
with
zero
game
but
who
has
a
bank
account
deep
in
eight
figures
terrorize
a
bar
to
understand
how
the
traditionalist
mentality
of
women
in
a
post-feminist
world
crumbles
in
the
face
of
unbridled
hypergamy.
Observing
someone
using
an
NLP
routine
to
pick
up
a
girl
within
minutes
has
a
much
more
enduring
effect
than
reading
about
some
guy
doing
it
in
a
field
report.
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You
cannot
choose
your
role
models
per
say
your
subconscious
does
it
for
you.
What
you
can
do
is
shun
the
losers
around
you
and
surround
yourself
with
people
who
have
a
positive
influence
on
you.
Youre
not
going
to
learn
how
to
make
women
moist
by
hanging
out
with
tofu
enthusiasts.
The
age
of
forced
loyalty
is
over,
run
away
from
your
social
circle
if
they
are
telling
you
to
just
be
yourself
and
complaining
about
your
changes.
The
world
is
teetering
with
AFCs.
They
are
like
crabs
in
a
barrel;
they
hate
to
watch
their
friends
climb
out
of
inevitable
doom.
If
your
friends
are
not
truly
happy
over
your
accomplishments,
if
they
resent
you
for
your
success,
leave
them
with
abandon.
Learning
from
an
alpha
you
personally
know
prevents
you
from
your
natural
tendency
to
gather
information
through
third
party
sources.
A
guy
might
tell
you
just
tell
her
shes
beautiful
and
you
want
to
get
to
know
her
and
a
girl
might
tell
you
just
say
hi,
you
dont
need
to
have
anything
else
ready,
but
if
you
were
to
statistically
observe
the
results
of
different
openings
in
field,
your
conclusions
may
come
out
differently.
By
watching
an
alpha,
youll
know
what
works.
By
listening
to
an
alpha,
you
might
get
all
the
wrong
inferences.
He
might
tell
you
just
be
nice
because
hes
oblivious
to
the
way
his
negs
naturally
diffuse
protective
shields.
When
you
watch
him,
youll
see
how
his
inflexible
stream
of
teasing
is
what
makes
his
initial
act
of
being
nice
super
effective.
Having
role
models
allows
you
to
better
conceptualize
the
intangible
traits
that
define
the
Alpha.
For
the
longest
time
I
couldnt
understand
why
some
Alphas
could
be
nerds,
some
could
be
jocks,
and
yet
others
could
be
musicians.
It
wasnt
until
I
started
paying
more
attention
to
them
that
I
realized
the
underlying
virtue
of
leadership
was
the
real
common
denominator.
If
you
ask
a
natural,
how
do
you
get
girls?
he
will
tell
you,
just
be
yourself
because
it
has
worked
for
him.
But
if
you
havent
been
conditioned
to
court
female
attention
the
same
way
he
has,
being
suicidally
up
front
wont
work
for
you.
You
need
to
put
his
game
on
a
vivisection
table
and
analyze
it
with
focused
peruse
to
understand
what
really
makes
his
game
effective.
Most
men
dont
watch
their
role
models
they
only
listen
to
them.
This
isnt
enough.
Like
the
above
example,
you
will
misunderstand
all
the
mechanics
behind
someones
actions.
An
alpha
who
is
genuinely
nice
will
tell
you
you
have
to
treat
women
kindly
to
win
their
hearts
without
being
aware
that
his
preconceived
status
and
demeanor
is
what
makes
his
kindness
so
valuable.
If
a
beta
were
to
apply
that
same
advice,
he
would
instantly
be
targeted
for
an
LJBF.
Direct
observation
applies
not
only
for
technical
analysis,
but
also
for
behavioral
studies.
There
are
no
fundamental
alpha
tendencies.
The
trait
dominant
can
be
expressed
in
behaviors
contradictory
to
each
other.
One
guy
might
be
dominant
because
everyones
afraid
of
his
short
fuse,
another
might
have
no
respect
at
the
work
place
for
the
same
reason.
If
you
observe
both
of
them,
you
can
deconstruct
their
differences
to
find
out
the
exact
cause
of
someones
halo
effect.
A
third
party
source
that
contends
alphas
always
keep
their
cool
will
be
debunked
as
soon
as
you
see
an
Alpha
who
keeps
others
down
with
his
anger.
Be
aware
that
orbiting
an
Alpha
will
decay
your
own
leadership
abilities
if
you
always
play
the
role
of
the
subordinate.
If
your
position
relative
to
him
is
beta,
his
presence
will
reinforce
your
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doormat
conditioning
by
making
you
want
to
act
submissive.
Alphas
are
not
always
loners,
but
there
is
a
higher
likelihood
of
them
being
unconnected
with
the
people
around
them
because
they
have
a
difficult
time
dealing
with
authority
or
having
their
autonomy
compromised.
They
will
generally
not
get
along
with
other
alphas
due
to
a
recurring
compete
mentality.
A
beta
loner
probably
just
cant
find
any
friends.
As
a
result
of
the
above
assumption,
alphas
often
have
positive
role
models
outside
of
their
immediate
social
circle.
Ideally,
this
should
be
their
father,
a
teacher,
a
mentor,
or
someone
older
who
wont
run
the
risk
of
imposing
a
beta
mentality
on
them.
An
older
brother
who
beats
out
his
younger
brother
by
only
a
couple
of
years
has
a
high
chance
of
subliminally
reinforcing
a
subordinate
attitude
in
his
younger
sibling.
This
is
the
same
reason
why
Alphas
have
a
tendency
of
being
the
only
child,
first
born,
or
with
the
mentality
of
either
scenario
(if
you
are
second
born
but
your
older
sibling
is
far
older
than
you,
you
will
still
grow
up
with
the
mentality
of
being
first
born).
Fantasy
role
models
are
considerably
famous
among
Super
Alphas.
It
is
likely
that
they
associated
themselves
with
an
alpha
character
from
fiction
or
the
highest
echelons
of
society
and
perceived
themselves
as
a
reflection
of
such
power.
Identifying
oneself
with
a
being
of
super
natural
capabilities
or
someone
greater
than
a
simple
man
creates
the
type
of
god-like
self
image
needed
to
tear
apart
hearts
and
boardrooms.
Sever
your
ties
with
losers
unless
they
are
your
minions.
A
timid
band
of
betas
that
actively
hang
on
to
every
word
you
say
can
stimulate
your
confidence,
but
a
group
of
betas
who
think
theyre
on
equivalent
standing
with
you
will
bring
out
your
worst
personality
traits.
You
will
begin
to
pick
up
on
their
habits
and
weaknesses
and
placate
to
their
stigma.
If
youre
the
AMOG,
this
wont
occur
because
they
wont
be
able
to
force
their
own
projections
on
you.
You
can
only
be
strongly
influenced
by
those
you
consider
above
yourself.
Note:
when
I
use
the
term
loser,
I
am
referring
to
people
who
bring
you
down,
not
necessarily
your
close
friends
who
may
be
socially
inept.
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THE
OPENING
What
is
the
object
of
playing
a
gambit
opening?...To
acquire
the
reputation
of
being
a
dashing
player
at
the
cost
of
losing
a
game.
The
purpose
of
an
opening
is
single-minded;
to
create
desire
within
the
target.
You
are
a
gift
sent
by
god
to
alleviate
women
of
their
ennui
by
serving
as
an
outlet
for
repressed
desires.
Every
word
that
comes
out
of
your
mouth
is
a
small
piece
in
an
engine
of
extortion.
The
goal
is
not
to
communicate
to
her
that
you
want
her
but
to
make
her
think
that
she
wants
you.
Seduction
always
revolves
around
the
target,
never
the
predator.
While
hi,
hello,
or
whats
up,
can
serve
as
an
opener,
saying
something
funny
and
casual
always
has
the
added
benefit
of
expressing
rapport,
charm,
and
creativity.
Situational
humor
gives
off
the
impression
that
your
line
is
spontaneous,
even
if
its
your
15th
time
using
it
that
night.
What
is
extemporaneous,
improvised,
sudden,
is
bold
and
enticing.
I
have
used
all
of
the
following
openings
before
over
the
course
of
my
life.
About
25-50%
of
these
ended
up
in
a
close
of
some
sort.
They
serve
as
a
testament
to
the
fact
that
you
can
say
the
stupidest
shit
ever
and
still
get
away
with
it.
Situational
Openings:
- Youre
at
a
Halloween
party
and
theres
a
girl
not
dressed
up.
What
are
you
supposed
to
be?
Cool?
- Youre
at
Footlocker,
sit
next
to
the
target.
Ask
for
a
size
12.
You:
Big
Feet
You
know
what
that
means
Her:
[Slight
Chuckle]
You:
Makes
your
penis
look
small
- Wear
headphones
at
a
club.
Whenever
a
girl
looks
at
you
say,
yah,
this
music
sucks
(credit
goes
to
Mystery)
- If
youre
at
a
bookstore
and
a
girl
is
browsing
through
a
shelf
next
to
you,
ask,
wtf
where
are
all
the
pictures?
- You
just
ordered
food,
ask
the
waiter
youre
not
going
to
join
us?
- Youre
at
church,
start
saying
the
wrong
prayer,
like
an
Islamic
mantra
or
an
African
voodoo
Spell.
Wait
for
her
to
turn
then
say
hi;
follow
up
later.
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Youre
in
history
class
and
the
teacher
asks
what
the
most
important
invention
of
Victorian
England
was,
reply
with
Spaceships.
After
she
ignores
you
and
everyone
laughs,
ask
the
girl
next
to
you
so
it
wasnt
spaceships?
Youre
at
a
restaurant.
Ask
if
they
have
a
dollar
menu.
Youre
at
a
cell
phone
store,
I
think
I
need
a
new
phone.
The
one
Im
using
right
now
is
really
old,
I
still
need
to
pull
out
the
antenna
and
stuff
Youre
at
a
hookah
lounge.
Take
out
an
asthma
inhaler
and
then
ask
the
girl
next
to
you
if
she
wants
some
Youre
at
Wal-Mart.
Go
check
the
womens
deodorant
section
for
a
target.
If
you
find
one,
I
dont
understand
why
men
dont
wear
womens
deodorant,
wouldnt
it
attract
more
women?
Youre
at
CVS
pharmacy.
Take
a
bottle
of
axe
and
walk
next
to
a
girl,
about
6
feet
away.
Start
spraying
axe
madly
on
yourself.
After
she
just
looks
at
you
weirdly,
look
at
the
bottle
and
say
wow
fuckin
false
advertising.
Youre
at
an
anime
convention
and
one
of
the
screens
is
playing
a
real
movie.
Just
comment
to
the
girl
next
to
you,
Jesus
Christ,
the
art
is
really
good
in
this
anime
The
bouncer
at
a
club
wrote
the
word
ok
on
your
wrist
to
show
that
youre
over
21.
Ask
a
girl
so
does
this
just
mean
youre
a
good
person?
Youre
at
Home
depot.
Find
a
good-looking
employee.
Hi
can
you
take
me
to
the
air
freshener
section.
Start
looking
vigorously
at
the
pet
odor-controlling
items,
ask
her
for
a
recommendation.
Then
say,
I
was
actually
just
looking
for
something
as
a
stronger
deodorant.
At
a
parking
lot.
Look
around
for
a
bit
and
then
give
out
a
sigh
of
frustration.
Tell
her
I
cant
find
my
car,
this
sucks.
Shell
reply
with
something
along
the
lines
of
What
kind
of
car
is
it?
Say
Honda,
but
the
thing
is,
I
think
I
might
have
walked
her,
I
cant
remember.
Youre
at
a
camping
trip
and
notice
another
group
with
an
attractive
girl.
Join
up
with
them
and
start
walking
alongside
the
target.
Scream
out
holy
shit.
Shell
say
what?!
start
observing
a
tree
and
say
oh
never
mind,
I
thought
this
was
a
bear.
Youre
at
the
beach
walking
around
looking
for
a
girl
tanning
and
not
going
into
the
water.
You:
Youre
afraid
of
going
into
the
water
too?
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Her: Haha, no I was gonna go later. Why? Are you afraid of the water? You: Yah sea monsters Youre at bed bath and beyond. Start smelling the same lotion as the girl. Wowis this edible? Youre at a religious convention and a guy with a beard comes out. Holy shitits Dumbledore. At hooters, ask if guys are allowed to apply. At a car shop, walk by target and say, Dam, these are pretty expensive. I might just buy a bicycle instead. At a flower shop, the florist is kinda cute. I really wanna show this girl Im crushing on that Im unique, do you guys have like a Venus Flytrap or something? Youre at biology class, teacher asks what the largest animal in the world is. Without raising your hand, in a non-chalant completely believable tone, say Godzilla. Follow up the same as the space-ship line. Youre at a museum, theres a girl looking at the skeleton of a dinosaur. Walk up next to her and pretend to be observing it too. Wow is this built to actual size? Youre watching transformers; you conveniently pick a seat next to a girl you dont know while your friends are sitting next to you. After about 15 minutes into the movie, Waitis this not Harry Potter? Youre at the Apple store, scout out the most attractive employee and ask for a tour of the headphones. Im looking to buy a really good set of noise cancelling headphones for when I get married. Youre at the gym. You: Dam I havent been in here in 3 years Her: Yah Ive been pretty lazy too You: No no, its just that the bench press fell on me 3 years ago and Ive been too embarrassed to come back since then. Youre at Mcdonalds. Stake out the most attractive cashier. Order 5 big macs then a diet coke and say, Im watching my weight. Youre at a July 4th barbeque at a park. The group in front of you has a couple of attractive girls. While everyones staring at fireworks, place yourself behind a chosen
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target. Start singing God save the Queen quietly. Laugh with her when she turns around and follow up with light convo. Youre at a thanksgiving parade. Point to a homeless guy and say, hey look, its a Native American. Youre at the airport. You: Planes are so overrated Her: why? You: Boats are way more comfortable and teleporting is so much faster Youre on your morning run and a girl runs by faster. Whoa slow down, you deserve a chance to check me out. In an elevator with everyone cramped up together. Position yourself next to the target. Just look up and say So awkwardso so awkward Hopefully shell smile and you can follow up with, you dont think so? * When I did this, I also had to pretend I needed to get off at the same floor as the girl, otherwise I wouldnt have closed. However, you normally dont want to engage in try- hard conduct. At a casino, you and her are both playing Black Jack. After busting; Wowthis is Americas way of keeping [insert ethnic group youre apart of] down. Might as well call it White Jack. Youre at a kids party with a clown. Sit next to a target, probably a chaperone for one the kids, hopefully not a married mother. You: I hate clowns Her: Yah, they can be kind of scary You: Nah, I just hate things that are so happy all the time.
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Personal
Openings
(focused
on
her
or
her
actions,
can
be
used
more
generically):
- Make
it
visibly
clear
that
youre
checking
her
out
for
a
second
then
scream
out
GOD
DAMnice
shoes
- After
she
just
rejected
a
guy:
You:
Hah.
Do
you
enjoy
breaking
hearts?
Her:
I
didnt
break
his
heart!
You:
I
dunoId
be
pretty
traumatized
after
that
- After
she
finished
talking
to
one
of
her
nice
guy
beta
bitch
male
friends
who
secretly
jerks
off
to
her
facebook
profile
picture
while
crying
ever
night:
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You: You guys make a nice couple Her: Hes not my boyfriend! You: Oh ok, I figured looks like he could do better Stake out a target and a random short guy in the crowd You: Haha that short guy keeps looking at you Her: What? Who? You: That guy over there, the one in the Midget Mafia uniform If she just spilled a drink on herself or did something stupid You: UghhMuggles You: Hi, Do you go to [insert name of nearby university]? Her: Yah, do you? You: No, I got kicked out 2 years ago for smuggling immigrants into my dorm Seeing a two-set Are you guys twins? (credit to Strauss) You: I have the best pick up line ever Her: What? You: [pick up napkin] Excuse me, can you tell me if this smells like chloroform? You: Hey is that just apple juice? Her: haha no its Youre a Herd, a hot nerd
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Be
innovative,
if
you
turn
opening
into
an
enjoyable
process
the
endless
grinding
of
a
dry
spell
becomes
fun.
You
must
take
pleasure
in
the
work,
not
just
the
product.
If
you
hate
opening,
youll
find
yourself
giving
up
too
easily
in
a
slump.
Humor
isnt
a
necessary
component
for
a
successful
opening;
but
it
helps
by
immediately
establishing
rapport
and
social
proof.
The
content
of
an
opening
is
barely
significant.
As
long
as
you
dont
throw
up
over
a
girl
or
start
telling
her
about
how
you
sucked
off
a
tranny
at
a
bus
stop
last
night,
youll
be
ok.
The
opening
is
only
an
introduction,
a
split
second
of
rapport
and
attraction
that
you
can
use
to
build
on.
Cold
approaching
with
a
straight
Hi
isnt
as
impressive
as
it
seems
anymore.
9s
and
10s
get
guys
to
catcall
at
them
all
day.
Unless
you
somehow
set
yourself
apart
or
calibrate
to
a
more
interesting
conversation
quickly,
youll
be
dumped
with
the
rest
of
the
deadbeats.
Cold
approaching
a
6
or
7
will
get
you
better
results;
they
are
much
less
desensitized
to
seductive
forays.
Cold
approaching
a
cougar
can
lead
to
sex
within
minutes,
possibly
seconds
if
done
properly.
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If
you
have
a
massive
amount
of
social
proof,
usually
in
the
form
of
fame
and
power,
or
you
can
give
off
the
aura
that
you
possess
such
qualities;
approaching
with
humor
will
be
counter- productive.
10s
and
9s
will
swoon
at
your
advances,
no
matter
how
banal.
A
simple
Hi,
Id
like
to
take
you
out
to
dinner
repeated
with
Godlike
confidence
will
distort
their
faculties
enough
to
proceed
to
higher
stages
of
game.
In
such
a
scenario,
comedy
might
make
her
blush
or
laugh,
but
erodes
the
aura
of
a
fiendishly
powerful
man.
On
the
other
hand,
if
you
find
yourself
outclassing
a
girl
to
the
point
where
she
feels
too
intimidated
to
let
you
close,
self-effacing
humor
can
do
wonders.
The
opening
must
be
delivered
with
disinterested
body
language.
Not
facing
her,
almost
careless,
your
only
goal
is
to
make
her
laugh
or
socialize
lightly.
The
hook
will
allow
you
to
segue
into
deeper
conversational
threads.
Never
wait
for
the
opportunity
to
open;
there
is
no
magical
moment
to
open
a
set.
He
who
waits,
masturbates.
Never
approach
like
a
rapist.
That
means
dont
stalk
a
girl
before
approaching
her
or
approach
her
from
behind.
The
front
can
work
but
a
casual
side
approach
with
perhaps
a
head
turn
if
necessary
works
best
for
me.
Rather
than
having
an
open
or
closed
body
language
towards
the
set
youre
opening,
have
an
open
body
language
pointing
in
another
direction.
It
will
accomplish
both
goals
(social
body
language
+
disqualifying
the
set).
There
is
no
correct
way
to
approach,
experiment.
Occasionally
you
might
come
across
a
9
or
a
10
at
a
party
where
the
ratio
of
cocks
to
vaginas
is
spasmodically
lopsided.
In
such
a
scenario,
cut
straight
to
negs.
A
neg
is
an
insult
thats
not
insulting,
the
female
equivalent
of
giving
blue
balls.
It
establishes
your
higher
value
relative
to
a
girl
by
showing
her
the
impotent
power
beauty
holds
over
you.
Women
are
mesmerized
by
cavalier
attitudes
that
live
for
more
than
external
approval
from
the
opposite
sex
because
it
hints
to
them
that
you
are
a
preselected
male.
In
her
mind,
only
a
guy
with
a
high
amount
of
social
proof
and
a
de
facto
harem
could
be
bold
enough
to
yank
her
chain
like
that.
Ive
used
all
of
these
negs
multiple
times:
- Theres
something
stuck
between
your
teeth.
- Wow
are
those
real?
(Point
to
anything,
nails,
hair,
boobs)
- Hey...
can
you
introduce
me
to
your
friend?
- Are
you
wearing
a
wig?
- Have
some
gumplease.
- If
you
were
a
little
bit
taller
I
wouldve
had
a
crush
on
you
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Haha do you have an accent? You look a lot like one of my friends His name is David Walk by casually and then sporadically say Sorry Im taken (credit to Neil Strauss). You make it seem as if you thought she made a pass on you. Theres something attractive about you Im not really sure what it is though. Are you the girl everyones making fun of? Excuse me, please dont touch me You remind me of my crazy ex girlfriend You dress just like my mom does Was that you? [look of slightly anguished disinterest] Can you talk a little less loudly?
Any
girl
8
or
above
can
be
negged
with
a
positive
result.
If
shes
below
an
8,
youll
have
to
analyze
the
specifics
of
the
situation.
If
shes
a
4
or
below,
a
neg
will
blow
her
out.
Unless
youre
also
butt
ass
ugly,
then
you
should
neg
no
matter
what.
Desperate
times
call
for
desperate
measures.
Dont
be
afraid
to
activate
a
nuke
if
you
have
to.
Ive
used
some
of
these
more
extreme
negs
before;
they
usually
didnt
end
very
well.
I
did
it
more
for
the
pleasure
of
refusing
to
be
an
ego
assuaging
male
servant
than
to
actually
run
proper
game:
- You
know
youre
the
ugliest
girl
in
here
right?
- Jinkies!
Is
that
an
Adams
apple?
- The
wheels
are
clearly
spinning..
the
hamster
seems
dead
though
- WTFFFF.
BYTCH
YOU
JUST
FART
IN
HERE?
SMELLZ
LIKE
A
FUCKIN
REFUGEE
CAMP.
ZOMG
ZOMG
ZOMG
Negs
will
be
touched
on
again
later
as
they
are
a
critical
aspect
of
precoital
conversation.
They
are
usually
not
meant
to
be
insulting
(unless
theyre
hard
negs).
If
you
insult
a
girl,
there
will
be
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no
increase
in
attraction.
Her
ego
will
lash
out
in
a
fury
of
verbal
blows,
or
shell
ignore
you
because
youre
just
another
socially
maladroit
chump
taking
out
his
sexual
frustration
on
her.
Negs
should
be
delivered
in
a
playful
jive
rather
than
the
dull
mechanistic
tone
most
players
trained
in
technical
game
adopt.
The
exception
to
the
above
rule
is
when
a
girl
needs
a
dose
of
assholeness
to
lighten
up
her
cunt.
In
very
rare
scenarios
women
will
display
the
opposite
of
preening
behavior,
in
which
case
a
simple
hi
will
do.
You
may
even
follow
up
with
a
genuine
compliment
(never
about
something
superficial,
always
tailor
compliments
to
the
target).
The
rarity
of
the
above
situation
cannot
be
blamed
on
just
one
gender.
There
are
so
many
fetid
fucking
losers
out
there
trying
to
get
girls
to
like
them
by
making
animal
noises,
women
have
been
forced
to
adopt
bitch
shields
capable
of
withstanding
a
soviet
air
strike.
And
in
turn,
women
keep
encouraging
this
form
of
sycophantic
behavior
by
insisting
that
men
should
stick
to
their
beta
instincts
while
defecating
on
concepts
like
Game.
Dont
just
break
the
ice
with
your
opening,
crush
it.
THE
REVERSE
OPENING
For
with
the
music
of
their
song
the
Sirens
cast
their
spell
upon
him,
as
they
sit
there
in
a
meadow
piled
high
with
the
moldering
skeletons
of
men,
whose
withered
skin
still
hangs
upon
their
bones
Occasionally
youll
find
yourself
at
the
mercy
of
a
girl
who
chooses
to
forgo
the
accepted
tradition
of
guy-approaches-girl.
There
are
4
possibilities
for
the
motivation
behind
this
transgendered
maneuver.
Either
this
is
her
only
way
to
successfully
reproduce
because
men
dont
approach
her
out
of
free
will,
she
got
too
tired
of
waiting
for
your
balls
to
descend,
she
enjoys
the
thrill
of
psychologically
dominating
a
conversation,
or
shes
very
attracted
to
you
and
doesnt
want
to
pass
up
the
opportunity
of
getting
penetrated
by
your
ginormous
Shlong.
Three
out
of
the
four
reasons
put
you
in
an
unfavorable
position.
If
a
girl
approaches
you
first,
the
conversation
will
distinguish
itself
in
two
important
ways.
First,
her
act
of
approaching
makes
her
more
invested
into
the
conversation.
Even
women
have
to
overcome
approach
anxiety
to
execute
an
opening;
their
brains
rationalize
the
effort
by
assuming
they
are
attracted
to
you
(more
so
than
if
they
just
admired
you
from
afar).
This
does
not
apply
if
shes
picking
on
you
or
approaching
you
to
exercise
her
ability
to
tool
herby
looking
men.
Second,
she
retains
the
power
position
until
you
take
it
back
with
languid
doses
of
emotional
scarcity
and
raw
ball-busting
dominance.
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Because women still get to enjoy the luxury of being the more valuable gender, a failure on her side even after she approaches, can still be blamed on you. She will approach you with plausible deniability a manufactured reason that gives her an excuse to eject or justify talking to you without attraction as a requisite. If she gets blown out the way guys do, shell claim youre gay or asexual. If she approaches you aggressively, prepare for an immediate transition into back and forth teasing. Do not, ever, supplant your aloof game for beta eagerness because a girl chose to talk to you first. Women use their approaches to ruthlessly weed out lesser men. Dont take the bait. The first two seconds of your reaction will tell her if youre a desperate chump who slavishly worships vagina or an Alpha that bleeds confidence. At bars and clubs, women will open with this line 99% of the time: Hi, want to buy me a drink? The average nancy boy who nurtures a fierce desperation to taste vagina would pull out his wallet with the speed of a professional gunslinger. The wanna-be player would respond too abrasively with a simple no. Both of these answers are wrong. The first subverts a womans need for attraction; the second subverts her need for rapport. A better response would be, Why? Are you broke? or No, but you can buy me one (more generally accepted response and easier to execute). A no can work too, if you can pull it off with a playful jive. Otherwise, the girl will feel too dejected. Remember to give off a diabolically sly grin when a girl approaches you, to foreshadow the phallic torture shes about to go through. A smirk tells her shes about to witness a forceful exhibition of the darkside from a disciplined master. A freakishly enthusiastic grin tells her shes the first girl who approached you within the last 5 years. In a more social setting where a girl knows you through a mutual friend, she will approach you with a simple exchange of introductions. If she follows straight into an aggressive routine, skip to the same aloof game as seen above. You want to let her know that youre interested in her, but not desperate for her. The most common reason why guys fuck up when girls approach them is because they assume eagerness will lead to a quicker close. If a girl approaches you with more bashful reservation, you can skip to a real human-to-human conversation. Be more conservative with your negs and instead enthrall her with your tactile charm. If shes really hunting you for long term potential, fill your interactions with a lot of dreaming and where do you want to be in 5 years? Keep your answers vague, but not as allusive as you would with a loose harlot. Womens advances are notoriously misleading because men have a parochial view of sexuality. If you approach a girl, theres a 99% chance youre willing to have sex with her right there on the spot. If you assume women work in this same manner, prepare for many lonely nights and greasy palms. A women being interested is not enough to entail intercourse, thats why a girl
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can play off approaching a guy with, I just wanted to socialize with him. How do you react when you hear a guy make that same excuse? If you have the agonizing pleasure of being opened by a girl less than a 2 or a gay guy, I have no advice for you. Fat women before have persecuted me and their persistence is somewhat divine. Normally I would advise you to give them a hard rejection (cooing away only enhances their longing for da dick) but even this has backfired on me before (she tried raping me to regain state control). If youre being approached by behemoths and gay men on the regular, take it as a compliment and make a mental note to carry pepper spray with you at all times.
It
is
a
stroke
of
good
fortune
to
find
one
who
is
worth
seducing
Most
people
rush
ahead,
become
engaged
or
do
other
stupid
things,
and
in
a
turn
of
the
hand
everything
is
over,
and
they
know
neither
what
they
have
won
nor
what
they
have
lost.
-Soren
Kierkegaard
I
cant
possibly
cover
every
scenario,
but
these
few
should
give
you
a
general
idea
of
how
to
adapt
game
principles
to
different
environments.
(a) Opening
a
Group:
Address
your
comments
to
everyone
in
the
group.
Be
meticulously
calculative
in
the
amount
of
attention
you
give
to
the
target.
If
youre
approaching
a
group
with
a
female
ring
leader
(usually
the
fattest
one,
able
to
dominate
the
others
through
sheer
physical
power),
befriend
her
first
to
neutralize
the
possibility
of
an
early
cockblock.
(b) Opening
a
girl
within
your
extended
social
circle:
Seduce
everyone
around
you
first.
Intrigue
everyone
with
a
story
of
how
a
UFO
abducted
you
during
its
search
for
the
strongest
sperm
on
earth.
Charm
everyone
with
stories
of
how
your
friend
saved
a
drowning
woman
and
you
just
stood
back
and
cheered
him
on.
When
you
finally
get
your
chance
to
talk
to
her,
build
rapport
and
then
make
your
vulnerabilities
visible.
Make
her
feel
like
shes
the
only
woman
who
can
satiate
your
beastly
appetite
for
sex
and
domesticate
your
commanding
personality.
(c) Opening
a
girl
with
a
boyfriend:
Doesnt
make
a
difference.
Ask
them
a
question
about
their
relationship
and
decipher
the
emotional
flash
back
that
follows.
If
hes
the
one
balking
on
and
on
about
how
great
their
relationship
is
while
her
eyes
are
darting
all
around
the
room,
be
sure
to
slip
her
your
number.
Read
a
girls
body
language
to
see
if
its
more
open
or
closed
when
shes
talking
about
her
boyfriend.
Is
she
taking
her
engagement
ring
on
and
off?
Does
she
sneer
when
she
sees
a
text
from
her
boyfriend?
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(d) Opening a girl with her family: Open the parents first. They will be friendlier and help you gain social proof quickly. Retreating to the judgment of our elders is a built in reflex in all people. (e) Opening a girl who just got out of a break up: Less Negs are required. Your consolatory remarks must only serve as a logistical tool for moving into asshole game. If shes upset over an asshole, chances are, shes attracted to them. If you continue acting like a fluffy washed up emotional tampon willing to drink bile for a pencil sketch of a vagina, you will become one. The more a girl tells you how she hates assholes, the more she loves them. If shes talking about how much she hates her ex boyfriend, whos an asshole, and how she chased him for four years, should you assume she actually likes or dislikes assholes? This is a good example of learning to judge a girl by her actions rather than her words. (f) Opening a Girl around multiple other guys: Introduce yourself to the guys first. Introduce the guys to other girls if you can, showing dominance over guys instantly triggers social proof. Sometimes youll run into a martyr who wants to prevent his girl- friends from getting defiled by other men. Socialize with them then start teasing them about how stiff they are. Ask him to come pick up a girl with you in front of your target. After he deliberately displays his utter lack of social skill, youll find it much easier to sway your target from his radioactive influence. (g) Opening a girl while shes walking: Dont open until you walk past her. If you guys are walking towards each other, you need to open with more direct game or a slapstick opener (nice shoes one has worked for me before). Allow yourself to diverge if she starts walking slower or faster; its hard to build rapport when she thinks you could be a sexual predator.
THE
CONVERSATION
I
am
a
woman.
Every
artist
is
a
woman
and
should
have
a
taste
for
other
women.
Artists
who
are
homosexual
cannot
be
true
artists
because
they
like
men,
and
since
they
themselves
are
women
they
are
reverting
to
normality
-Picasso
Every
conversation,
whether
awkward,
bubbly,
charming,
or
passionate,
can
be
admired
by
its
own
standards.
Whenever
I
see
a
guy
let
a
girl
slip
between
his
fingers
or
a
neophyte
crash
and
burn
in
a
set,
I
imagine
how
tedious
it
mustve
been
for
god
to
create
such
a
flawless
system.
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To
be
the
perfect
conversationalist,
you
must
be
a
woman
while
being
a
man.
Think
the
way
a
girl
does,
but
act
the
way
a
guy
should.
Beauty
is
the
overriding
barometer
a
man
uses
to
measure
attraction.
For
a
conversation
to
entice
him,
he
only
needs
the
girl
to
spew
a
couple
of
lines
about
an
interest
they
have
in
common.
If
the
penis
fits
in
the
vagina,
youve
found
your
soul
mate.
But
the
same
doesnt
apply
for
a
girl.
You
cant
expect
to
build
rapport
just
by
touching
on
a
subject
that
shes
interested
in.
You
need
to
touch
on
the
emotions
that
turn
her
on.
Jealousy,
joy,
fear,
dread,
anger;
own
her
mind.
Dont
think
like
a
man
and
play
the
courtier.
Think
like
a
woman
and
play
the
courted.
Be
transparently
invested
in
a
conversation.
Dont
hang
on
to
every
word
that
comes
out
of
her
mouth.
Mirror
the
female
caprice
you
are
a
victim
to
so
often,
have
the
same
fickle
attention
span
a
girl
does
before
a
worthy
suitor
engages
her.
Invert
your
inner
eye;
dont
look
for
mistakes
in
your
own
game.
Look
for
mistakes
in
her,
what
is
she
doing
wrong?
Dont
play
the
role
of
the
typical
guy
and
question
whether
shes
attracted
to
you.
Be
the
perfect
10
woman
who
knows
everyone
around
her
is
easy
prey.
Treat
women
the
way
women
treat
betas.
Assume
attraction
at
every
moment
of
your
conversation.
Everything
a
girl
says
or
does
must
be
taken
as
an
indicator
of
interest.
Self-doubt
will
lead
to
awkward
moments
and
obscure
pauses.
Women,
who
have
an
implicit
understanding
of
their
own
role
as
sexual
gatekeepers,
will
always
blame
men
for
vapid
chemistry.
If
you
assume
a
girl
is
attracted
to
you
at
all
times
during
a
conversation,
it
allows
you
to
focus
on
the
conversation
itself
rather
than
the
state
of
your
progress.
The
chase
is
ecstatically
thrilling
from
the
vantage
point
of
the
pursued.
Dont
flirt;
only
women
flirt.
Men
act.
Ask
her
for
her
number.
Tell
her
to
go
some
place
quieter
with
you.
Touch
her.
Always
be
escalating.
Push
her.
Control
her.
Let
it
ebb
from
your
loins
with
utmost
ease.
Always
flirt;
you
must
be
a
homosexual
woman.
Tease
her.
Charm
her.
Refuse
to
touch
her
out
of
no
where.
Push
her
away
quaintly.
Make
her
eyes
light
up.
As
long
as
you
maintain
positive
body
language
and
dominant
state
control,
your
content
is
relatively
insignificant.
Topics
like
politics
and
religion
are
not
avoided
because
of
their
subject
matter;
they
are
avoided
because
they
lead
to
logically
drenched
discussions.
Attraction
is
an
emotional
response,
not
a
rational
choice
made
by
women.
The
man
who
dreams
is
more
attractive
than
the
man
who
intellectualizes.
If
a
girl
asks
you
Are
you
a
liberal?
or
tries
to
force
a
political
conjecture
on
you,
evade
the
question.
No,
Im
a
romantic
is
a
good
answer.
Sometimes
masochist
depending
on
the
context
and
the
deviancy
of
the
girl.
Focus
on
the
emotive
phonetics
behind
a
conversation,
not
the
germane
details.
The
heart
is
never
ruled
by
logic;
logic
is
ruled
by
the
heart.
After
a
girl
has
decided
she
likes
talking
to
you,
she
will
logically
justify
it
with
hes
interesting
or
hes
nice.
The
rationalization
is
just
a
lexical
pulpit;
the
key
emotion
is
attraction.
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While your engaging peasants with your stories of heroism and gallantry, remember to never look like youre deliberately showing off your heroism and gallantry. Bragging or trying to qualify yourself through a story comes off as a need to hide deeper insecurities. If you really need the boost, have a wing come in to discuss your manly achievements or hire a personal escort to drool over you wherever you go. Never. Brag. Never. Try. Hard. Never. Show. Off. To be a good talker, you must be a good listener. A girl will give you multiple threads during a conversation to go off on. If you just asked her where shes from and she says Utah, tell her about how you and your grandfather once spent 3 weeks hunting for Yeti near the forests of Great Salt Lake. If she starts talking about her ex boyfriend, leave right away if you have other options or tell her how you went through a similarly tough break up with your ex girlfriend (covertly communicating pre-selection). Avoid droning on with interview questions. Women dont want to be interrogated; they want to be swept off their feet with masculine pizzazz. Do a quick cold reading of her body language every time a new topic comes into play. Did she suddenly blush? Did she sneer for a split second? Did her pupils dilate? Did her palms just shift positioning? The best seducers in history paid an inhumane amount of attention to detail while flaunting their carelessness. They were observant, yet made it seem like they were anything but. If a conversational thread is dying out, cut it loose. Jump straight into another topic or throw in a qualifier during the ensuing pause. Dont attempt to extract every last bit of utility from a topic, a subject has fulfilled its duty right after its come out of your mouth. A girl wants to flush out your social acumen as well as your insecurities through the chaotic ramble of an expansive conversation. She wants to skim through a thousand different topics so she has a variety of options when deciding which hurdles to throw at you. She wants to know all of your insecurities, not so that she can connect with you, but so that she can be sure to warn all of her friends that youre a pussy and to save their eggs for a stronger man. Focus on the emotional tangents of a conversation rather than its material roots. If a girl tells you how she feels free at her grandparents chateau because it reminds her of her childhood, dont follow up with a joke on French architecture; take it as a hint to expand on the topics of childhood and freedom. A renaissance man is multi-talented. He can be cocky, sensitive, funny, rude, and caring all at the same time. He can seduce a woman, write about it when he gets home, then paint a portrait of the entire situation a week later. Be a totem of emotions, not a single face. Have multiple facets to your personality. Your initial conversation should not only be geared towards manufacturing emotions, but also to serve as filters to find girls youll have natural rapport with. Some people are simply more compatible with you than others use your first few conversations to gauge your level of innate chemistry with a girl. If I opened a girl with a funny line and she responds by vehemently
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staring
at
me,
I
assume
we
arent
compatible.
I
need
girls
with
a
sense
of
humor,
not
ones
who
could
get
hired
for
a
job
on
CNNs
crossfire.
If
youre
not
cliquing
with
a
girl,
leave.
There
are
too
many
other
opportunities
out
there
and
too
little
time
to
waste
your
efforts
on
weaving
complicated
spells
of
persuasion.
The
enemy
is
not
the
blow
out,
the
enemy
is
the
LJBF.
Its
ok
to
fail
in
a
set
and
get
rejected
by
a
woman
who
hates
your
guts
for
no
apparent
reason.
Its
not
ok
to
spend
3
weeks
talking
to
a
girl
and
then
have
her
tell
you
lets
just
be
friends
at
the
end
of
it.
Cut
your
losses
early;
learn
this
lesson
now.
If
you
are
interrupted
during
your
initial
conversation,
immediately
adjust
your
game.
If
youre
talking
to
a
girl
and
her
friend
just
entered
the
set,
introduce
yourself
to
her
and
shift
your
attention
to
the
obstacle.
If
you
become
overeager
to
close
and
neglect
a
girls
fat
best
friend,
its
likely
that
her
plump
friend
will
retaliate
by
pulling
her
away.
Fat
women
will
cock
block
anything
from
an
endangered
species
to
inanimate
objects
to
satisfy
their
cruel
thirst
for
pucelage.
Tease
Mercilessly.
Let
negs
flow
from
your
tongue
like
cottage
cheese
from
the
tits
of
a
Bulimic
cow.
Pay
close
attention
to
how
much
asshole
game
a
girl
needs.
Sometimes
a
lady
will
need
a
guy
to
shoot
her
in
the
face
with
a
laser-guided
jizz
bomb
hailed
from
outer
space
to
get
her
back
to
a
proportional
reality.
Other
times,
a
simple
poke
on
facebook
will
do.
The
formula
to
measure
this
is:
E
=
MC^2
Where
E
is
Emancipated
Asshole
Dick
Craving
M
is
Measure
of
how
hot
she
is
C
is
Constant
level
of
exposure
to
ego
inflation
Notice
that
C
gets
squared
because
preening
has
an
exponential
effect
on
asshole
craving.
The
higher
a
girl
gets
elevated
by
beta
magnetism,
the
more
asshole
game
she
requires
to
knock
her
ass
off
of
the
golden
pyramid
whose
summit
shes
occupying.
Nuclear
game
works
better
than
you
can
possibly
imagine.
I
always
had
a
knack
for
teasing
girls
but
after
I
learned
about
its
technical
necessity
in
pick
up,
I
applied
it
systematically
to
pillage
and
plunder
virgin
hearts
without
sympathy.
When
you
neg
a
girl,
deliver
it
without
any
hesitancy.
If
you
pause
for
even
a
moment
to
look
at
her
with
discomfort,
her
spider
senses
will
detect
beta
blood.
Never
look
at
a
girl
for
approval
after
delivering
a
neg.
If
she
thrusts
forward
with
too
much
disapproval
after
your
humbling
remark,
assume
youre
dealing
with
a
crazy
bitch.
Otherwise,
plow
on.
80%
of
the
time
when
a
girl
acts
offended
from
a
neg;
it
means
youre
doing
it
right.
If
youre
conversing
with
a
group,
wait
till
you
neg
the
target
a
couple
of
times
and
ignore
her
for
a
bit
before
you
begin
your
conversation
with
her.
Create
a
fissure
in
the
amount
of
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attention
she
expects
to
get
from
you
and
shell
try
to
fix
it
by
qualifying
herself
for
more
attention.
Pain
is
the
necessary
prelude
for
satisfaction.
Pleasure
cannot
exist
without
suffering.
Right
after
you
give
her
that
fleeting
moment
of
rapt
concentration,
withdraw
it
and
focus
your
attention
elsewhere.
Show
her
only
glimpses
of
the
reality
that
enthralls
her.
The
premise
of
push
and
pull
is
to
remain
inconsistent
with
the
amount
of
emotional
attention
you
give
a
girl.
What
is
unattainable
but
by
only
a
slight
margin
is
most
compelling
to
us.
Keep
yourself
as
the
prize
dangling
oh
so
closely
yet
so
far.
The
best
negs
both
compliment
a
girl
and
disqualify
her
at
the
same
time.
For
example,
If
you
knew
how
to
cook,
Id
marry
you
works
wonders
in
a
relationship.
A
neg
should
combine
both
aspects
of
push
and
pull,
intriguing
a
girl
with
your
apparent
insensitivity
to
her
dazzling
beauty
yet
showing
her
a
part
of
you
that
might
secretly
feel
differently.
Melt
her
heart
with
your
acid
wit
then
just
when
shes
sure
that
you
arent
interested
in
her
show
her
a
sign
that
youre
accidently
falling
for
her
alkaline
demure.
If
you
disqualify
her
and
then
make
her
think
she
won
you
over,
youve
executed
a
perfect
pick
up.
The
greatest
seductions
are
the
ones
where
the
seduced
get
tricked
into
thinking
they
are
the
seducer.
Compliment,
and
then
follow
with
mild
criticism.
You
have
beautiful
eyes,
oh
youre
wearing
contacts?
Wow
youre
rooms
really
well
decoratedexcept
for
this
funky
looking
vase
You
look
so
beautifulwhen
the
lights
are
dimmed
Ive
been
told
before
that
the
prettiest
girls
are
always
the
craziest
I
love
youwhile
youre
sleeping.
The
point
of
a
conversation
is
to
converse.
Attraction
and
rapport
are
ancillaries
to
this
prevailing
theme.
I
hate
watching
guys
vaporize
in
sets
because
they
started
doing
some
weird
shit
to
build
attraction.
Just
last
week
I
saw
a
guy
walk
up
to
a
girl
and
ask
her
to
hold
her
palms
out
(without
even
saying
he
was
going
to
read
them).
I
could
tell
the
girl
felt
his
kino
was
unnatural
and
invasive.
He
torpedoed
his
own
chances
at
getting
a
close.
My
date
and
me
cackled
in
unison.
Secretly
I
felt
a
chord
of
sympathy.
I
planned
to
slip
him
the
address
to
my
blog
later
on.
Another
soul
to
save.
Give
off
a
sexual
vibe
while
youre
talking.
The
easiest
way
to
dodge
the
friend
zone
is
through
preventative
sexual
tension
between
you
and
the
target.
If
you
want
to
know
if
youre
heading
for
the
friend
zone
with
a
girl,
try
and
have
sex
with
her.
If
she
says
no,
youre
going
to
the
friend
zone.
Why
do
jerks
and
obnoxiously
cocky
men
get
laid?
Because
giving
off
an
unhygienic
sexual
vibe
is
still
better
than
giving
off
a
clean
celibacy
vibe.
Be
seen
checking
out
other
women
while
youre
talking
to
her.
Use
innuendos,
suggestive
takes,
and
open
up
your
legs
to
constantly
advertise
your
exalted
package.
The
only
opposing
corollary
to
this
rule
is
to
avoid
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talking about sex directly. While it seems like a good idea, men who regularly get sex tend to be discreet about it. Virgins are more likely to banter on about their sexual conquests to gain approval. Focus on sex to give off a sexual vibe. The eye always needs a horizon; your end goal must always be within your visual scope. Kiss her before your lips touch, undress her before your bodies touch; penetrate before you mouth your first word. The rake is never thinking did I say the right thing? or did I just mess up? his mind is to busy absolving itself in the theatres of future possibility. He is thinking of love, of lust, of pleasure. The nuances of failure dont concern him. Other men and women are insects under his feet; he is concerned only with indulging himself in a velvet prison of luxury. He cares not what his opening is or if he has a good follow up. He is a born predator; this is what 6 million years of evolution has perfected his species to do. Never fall for the trap of jumping onto the venereal bandwagon. Sex is a girls trump card. She will use it to dominate a conversation. A guy who knows nothing about it fails because he cant maintain grace under pressure. A guy who talks too much when the topic comes up fails because he overtly communicates his intentions. If a girl brings up sex, you respond in the same way youve been responding to everything else: Evade. We dont talk like that here Youll have to wine and dine me first Its over rated unless youre in love The length and complexity of a story directly correlates with how much interest the group or target already has in you. If you just entered a set, it would be unwise to shoot off on some convoluted story without a climax. Woman are aware that not all men can be as smooth as James Bond, but they are also aware that men who are more socially cognizant are less likely to produce retarded kids. The less you talk, the better. The goal of a conversation is not for you to talk, or for her to talk. Its for you to make her want to talk and for her to want you to talk, even though you wont. If she tells you I wish I knew more about you, youre on the right track. Never liquidate your life story to a girl. She wants to know as little about you as possible while wanting to know a lot about you. The driving force is the desire to know more, not the satisfaction of knowing more. They cannot mutually co-exist. Always add false time constraints to your conversations. I have to go in a minute or My friends are waiting for me outside. They give you a reason to eject in case a set isnt going well, add social proof because your time is limited, and pushes a girl to reciprocate your advances more quickly. Dont be thinking I need to close before time runs out, flip the time constraint
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on
her.
If
you
ask
a
girl
for
her
number,
but
you
dont
have
a
pen,
dont
frantically
search
for
one.
If
shes
actually
interested,
shell
find
one
herself.
After
the
initial
opening
where
youre
the
one
generating
attraction
force
her
to
play
the
position
of
the
pursuer.
Make
her
qualify
herself
for
your
attention.
The
judging
eyes
of
a
high
value
male
make
women
feel
feminine.
Girls
WANT
to
scry
for
the
approval
of
a
guy
with
standards,
its
just
hard
for
them
to
find
men
who
wouldnt
fuck
anything
with
a
heartbeat
(and
even
those
standards
are
too
high
for
some
guys).
A
qualifier
flips
the
script
on
women
and
turns
them
into
the
ones
being
pigeonholed
for
sub- par
responses.
Qualifiers:
- Are
these
your
friends
or
did
you
pay
them
to
hang
out
with
you?
- Tell
me
something
interesting
- So
do
you
always
drink
on
weekdays?
- Can
you
only
cook
scrambled
eggs
like
all
other
American
girls?
- Who
bought
their
little
sister
here?
- Do
you
have
a
good
sense
of
humor?
- Is
there
just
a
typical
nerd
behind
those
glasses?
- Tell
me
a
joke
Questions
like
tell
me
something
interesting
capsizes
a
womans
routine.
Shes
not
used
to
being
the
one
having
to
keep
a
conversation
going.
Lower
value
straight
guys
are
always
desperately
clinging
to
conversational
straws;
they
never
throw
hurdles
at
woman.
Make
yourself
willing
to
walk
away
if
a
girl
bores
you.
Ricochet
from
topic
to
topic
with
salient
ease.
A
woman
does
not
want
you
to
discuss
a
single
topic
with
her
until
every
one
of
its
conversational
crevices
has
been
infiltrated
by
your
logical
mind.
She
wants
to
skirt
the
periphery
of
different
topics
while
you
taunt
and
tease
her
with
ambiguous
interest.
She
wants
you
to
lead
the
conversation
while
she
adds
her
feminine
glamour
to
it.
Dont
revisit
topics
or
try
and
revive
an
older
conversation.
Be
unpredictable;
make
it
impossible
for
a
girl
to
label
you
as
a
certain
type
of
guy.
Present
contradictory
views
on
a
topic
with
disinterested
interest.
If
you
are
talking
to
a
girl
youve
just
met,
the
deeper
you
go
into
the
conversation,
the
more
important
rapport
becomes
in
relation
to
attraction.
Attraction
is
usually
built
within
minutes
of
talking
to
her,
slowly
transition
into
letting
her
feel
comfortable
with
you.
If
you
continue
with
the
cocky
indifference
routine
for
too
long,
your
conversation
will
lack
depth.
For
a
girl
to
want
to
meet
you
in
the
future,
she
needs
to
feel
like
theres
something
special
between
you
two.
Take
note,
the
word
special
stands
on
extremely
flimsy
ground
for
most
women.
Always
allude
towards
your
pre-selection
during
a
conversation.
Create
the
illusion
of
popularity;
make
your
victim
think
you
are
a
commodity
to
be
pried
away
from
the
hands
of
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other
crazed
women.
Build
a
reputation
that
precedes
you.
Tip
bartenders
well
at
bars
you
regularly
hit
up
so
they
speak
well
of
your
charm.
Always
be
creating
love
triangles
around
you
(not
with
other
guys).
Never
overtly
communicate
being
wanted
by
other
women
with
statements
like
yah
Ive
had
a
lot
of
girlfriends,
they
make
you
come
off
as
pretentious
and
trying
too
hard.
This
is
the
type
of
candid
masculine
behavior
women
are
ready
to
exploit.
All
women
are
averse
to
communicating
in
overt
ways.
Mildly
hint
towards
what
you
want
them
to
know.
Dont
elaborate
on
anything.
Let
them
think
they
have
discovered
your
secrets
through
their
own
intuition.
If
youre
running
asshole
game
on
your
date,
make
it
a
point
to
be
nice
to
everyone
else.
Throughout
all
of
your
interactions,
your
date
will
be
viciously
judging
your
conversations
with
other
people.
Neg
her
adequately
then
let
her
see
the
emotional
philanthropist
within
you
as
youre
talking
to
your
mother
on
the
phone.
Tell
her
about
your
tendency
to
be
emotionally
withdrawn
and
then
accidently
leave
a
love
poem
you
wrote
back
in
high
school
lying
around.
Make
her
want
to
earn
a
spot
in
your
harem
for
that
brief
moment
of
attention
you
sparingly
invest
in
the
few
women
who
earn
your
approval.
Be
talkative
but
not
too
talkative.
Find
a
point
of
balance
where
you
can
pacify
all
awkward
moments
with
a
burst
of
random
rhapsody,
but
still
leave
a
few
pauses
for
her
to
end
herself.
Pausing
early
is
a
sign
youre
running
out
of
things
to
say;
later
on
its
a
sign
of
comfort.
If
theres
no
chemistry
between
you
two
and
the
constant
pausing
is
making
you
nauseous,
eject,
you
fucked
up.
If
a
girl
already
likes
you,
pauses
may
be
more
common
because
of
a
discrepancy
between
rapport
and
attraction
(she
always
had
a
crush
on
you
but
never
talked
to
you).
End
this
with
why
are
you
so
quite?
and
light
comfort
touching.
Its
always
the
mans
job
to
build
rapport
except
for
the
few
rare
scenarios
where
youll
see
a
gorilla
in
a
dress
over- exerting
herself
on
other
guys.
Women
run
beta
game
too,
but
it
comes
off
differently
because
theyre
given
more
leeway.
If
youve
ever
been
in
a
conversation
and
a
girl
asks
you
a
question
it
would
be
inappropriate
for
you
to
ask
her
with
a
nervous
poise,
take
it
as
an
IOI
(indicator
of
interest).
She
may
ask
you
where
you
live,
or
how
whether
you
prefer
doggy
to
missionary.
In
the
presence
of
pressure,
women
crumble
like
betas.
Dont
stare
at
her
chest
while
speaking.
Women
wear
low
cut
shirts
to
antagonize
desperate
men.
Pre-selected
men
are
immune
to
beauty
and
its
brainwashing
effects.
For
women,
a
conquest
of
the
mind
is
more
important
than
a
conquest
of
the
body.
As
soon
as
she
has
you
ogling
over
he
body,
she
has
your
balls
in
an
abattoir.
Maintaining
eye
contact
consistently
can
make
all
the
difference
in
a
pick
up.
In
his
study
on
the
Measurement
of
Romanic
Love,
Zick
Rubin
found
that
people
who
were
deeply
in
love
gaze
at
each
other
much
more
when
talking
and
are
slower
to
look
away
when
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somebody
intrudes
in
their
world.
He
confirmed
this
through
a
trick
experiment.
He
asked
dating
couples
a
long
series
of
questions
so
he
could
first
rate
the
pairs
on
how
much
they
loved
each
other.
The
couples,
unaware
of
their
rating,
were
then
put
in
a
waiting
room
and
told,
The
experimenter
will
be
with
you
shortly
to
start
the
experiment.
Unbeknownst
to
them,
that
was
the
experiment.
Hidden
cameras
recorded
how
much
time
the
couple
staring
into
each
others
eyes.
The
higher
the
couple
had
scored
on
the
first
test,
the
more
time
they
spent
looking
at
each
other.
The
less
love
they
felt
for
each
other,
the
less
time
they
made
eye
contact.
To
give
your
Quarry
the
subliminal
sense
that
the
two
of
you
are
already
in
love
(a
self- fulfilling
prophecy),
dramatically
increase
your
eye
contact
while
the
two
of
you
are
chatting.
Push
it
up
to
75
percent
of
the
time
or
more.11
Youve
heard
that
women
are
attracted
to
males
that
display
traits
like
their
fathers
and
vice
versa.
Thats
because
all
humans
are
sexually
imprinted
with
certain
blueprints
for
what
they
would
want
in
an
ideal
lover.
These
traits
can
range
from
personality
attributes
to
more
cursory
idiosyncrasies
like
a
specific
smell
(women
are
attracted
to
men
who
wear
the
same
cologne
as
their
fathers
or
brothers),
an
article
of
clothing,
or
even
a
movie.
If
I
find
out
a
girl
likes
Fightclub
for
instance,
I
immediately
consider
proposing
to
her
on
the
spot.
While
youre
jumping
from
topic
to
topic
in
a
conversation,
pay
exceptional
attention
to
your
partners
pupil
dilation
or
any
sudden
movement
that
indicates
interest.
Find
out
what
makes
her
tick,
what
topics
grab
her
attention
faster.
Likewise,
play
out
different
personas
and
find
out
what
shes
least
attracted
to.
If
I
say
a
cocky
line
and
a
girl
closes
off
her
body
language
even
slightly,
Ill
adjust
my
game
for
less
arrogance
and
more
subtle
DHVs.
Cherry-pick
words
during
a
conversation.
Neither
you
nor
your
target
will
be
metabolizing
the
bulk
of
your
conversation,
however,
both
of
you
will
be
giving
off
subtle
clues
as
to
what
youd
rather
talk
about.
Being
the
man,
no
one
gives
a
shit
about
what
you
want
to
talk
about.
Instead,
focus
on
her.
Every
other
line
she
uses
will
have
an
unsual
word
or
topic
suggestion,
use
these
as
threads.
For
example:
You:
Jeez
its
so
hot
outside
Her:
Yah,
I
cant
wait
to
go
back
home
and
under
an
air
conditioner
You:
My
air
conditioner
is
broken,
Ive
been
paying
this
little
kid
to
fan
me
all
day
(dont
say
blow
melol)
Her:
haha
thats
cruel.
I
once
worked
for
a
company
that
used
child
laborers,
I
quit
because
of
it
Improper
response:
Theyre
not
that
bad,
you
can
get
them
for
cheap.
(Funny,
but
too
generic,
doesnt
move
the
conversation
forward).
Proper
Response:
Oh
wow
what
company
and
then
follow
the
conversation
and
neg
later.
11
Lowndes, Leil. How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You. McGraw-Hill 1996
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The
above
is
an
example
of
a
mistake
newer
PUAs
make
often.
Theyll
continue
being
funny
but
will
never
opt
for
more
depth
in
a
conversation.
The
only
time
comfort
is
more
important
than
attraction
is
right
before
the
closing
phase
when
youve
already
built
enough
attraction
to
close;
and
in
a
relationship
lacking
rapport.
Use
her
name
when
addressing
her
or
include
it
in
full
sentences.
The
use
of
a
persons
name
instantly
creates
a
feeling
of
more
intimacy.
This
should
be
used
not
only
in
verbal
countenances
but
also
in
texts,
e-mails,
phone
conversations,
and
facebook.
While
sarcasm
and
humor
should
be
properly
deployed,
never
overdo
it
in
a
way
that
might
make
her
believe
youre
actually
overcompensating
or
hiding
something.
For
example,
if
she
asks
you
what
your
job
is
and
you
respond
Im
a
vigilante
and
she
persists,
answer
her
question
but
in
a
vague
way
(if
youre
a
financial
analyst,
just
say
Im
in
finance
dont
give
an
elaborate
report
on
your
career).
If
you
continue
dodging
a
question
with
sarcastic
responses,
she
will
assume
the
truth
is
something
she
doesnt
want
to
hear.
When
I
was
8
years
old
I
remember
spending
weeks
wondering
what
I
could
talk
about
with
a
girl
(I
had
a
crush
on
my
baby
sitter).
I
paid
close
attention
to
her
conversations
with
her
boyfriend
and
I
realized
most
of
the
time,
she
was
saying
nothing.
Just
random
babble.
I
learned
early
that
a
conversation
is
just
an
excuse
a
girl
uses
to
talk
to
someone
she
likes.
If
a
girl
wants
to
talk
to
you,
she
will
find
things
to
talk
about.
When
I
saw
my
baby
sitter
again
in
high
school,
she
had
gotten
fat
and
ugly
after
marriage.
It
was
here
that
I
began
to
cultivate
a
morbid
fear
of
my
wife
ballooning
after
exchanging
vows.
Ive
developed
a
system
of
solutions
I
think
may
help.
#4
and
beyond
should
only
be
used
if
the
condition
is
severe.
(1)
Competitive
anxiety
(2)
Exercise
together
(3)
Buy
only
healthy
food
(4)
Threaten
to
have
sex
with
someone
else
(5)
Have
sex
with
someone
else
(6)
Sow
her
asshole
shut
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SHIT
TESTS
Were
a
generation
of
men
raised
by
women.
Im
wondering
if
another
is
really
the
answer
we
need.
A
shit-test
is
a
subconsciously
guided
hurdle
a
girl
throws
at
a
guy
to
test
his
capacity
as
a
provider.
In
more
feral
societies
women
could
count
on
polar
bears
and
famines
to
accomplish
their
need
to
screen
out
feeble
men,
but
in
our
more
virtual
apparatus,
they
have
adapted
by
developing
indefinite
ways
to
pigeonhole
their
partners.
The
first
shit
test
a
girl
throws
at
you
will
likely
determine
how
she
categorizes
you
in
her
mind
(tool
vs.
potential
mate).
More
common
shit
tests
women
throw
at
men
upon
initial
encounters:
(a) She
will
ask
you
to
do
her
a
favor:
Will
you
buy
me
a
drink?
Can
you
wait
here
for
me?
Can
you
polish
my
nipples?
A
solid
refusal
doesnt
work
because
it
tells
her
that
her
shit
test
fazed
you.
If
you
break
in
front
of
a
girl,
whether
by
succumbing
to
her
diminutive
feminine
power
or
getting
pissed
off,
youve
failed.
If
youre
too
drunk
to
think
of
a
creative
way
to
say
no,
smile
widely
and
say,
no,
that
sounds
too
hard.
Refuse
but
with
a
blithe
tone,
let
her
know
that
you
find
her
shit
amusing.
(b) A
Jealousy
Test:
In
the
middle
of
your
perfect
pick
up,
another
guy
will
approach
and
shell
warmly
accept
his
incursion.
Dont
sit
around
and
get
defensive,
walk
away
to
another
set.
The
effect
of
spontaneously
leaving
a
sure-thing
immediately
causes
plate
shifting
and
massive
vagina
tingles.
Never
let
a
girl
think
youre
afraid
to
lose
her,
especially
in
the
beginning
stages
of
a
pick
up.
**Theres
also
the
possibility
that
shes
not
shit-testing
you
and
you
just
missed
a
dozen
other
not
interested
signals.
(c) She
insults
herself
and
wants
you
to
placate
her
ego:
A
more
subtle
technique
of
soul
sucking.
Women
will
use
this
if
they
already
sense
a
spark
of
attraction
or
their
value
has
been
somewhat
truncated.
Refuse
her
comment
but
in
a
sarcastic
tone.
If
she
says
Im
fat
reply
with
nah,
youre
not
THAT
fat
and
then
pat
her
back
while
distractedly
looking
away
as
if
you
were
surveying
the
scene
for
skinnier
victims.
Other
responses
can
include,
I
wouldnt
say
FAT,
youre
just
pleasantly
plump
or
Yah,
lay
off
the
beer
if
shes
really
begging
for
the
dominating
cock.
Never
feed
her
conceit
with
reconcilement.
(d) I
dont
like
playing
games:
Theres
a
risk
of
this
occurring
if
you
make
a
sarcastic
remark
without
pre-established
social
proof
or
if
she
has
a
secret
vendetta
against
sarcastic
men
(might
have
gotten
pumped
and
dumped
by
thousands
of
players
before
you).
Reply
with
why?
Are
you
bad
at
them?
Never
backpedal
and
say
sorry[insert
straight
answer].
Worst
case
scenario,
defuse
and
eject.
Never
apologize
or
sacrifice
your
dignity
to
appease
a
girl.
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(e) Pretends
to
be
Offended
and
demands
an
apology:
Again,
dont
backpedal.
Plow
on
and
youll
see
her
eyes
light
up.
If
you
just
made
a
fat
joke
and
she
says
ummma
lot
of
my
friends
are
over
weight
reply
with
oh
wow,
mine
too.
Lets
hook
them
up.
To
avoid
offending
people
too
often,
reserve
yourself
to
jokes
about
ugly
people
or
more
gauzy
conditions.
No
ones
gonna
come
out
and
say,
excuse
me,
I
have
an
ugly
friend,
I
take
offense.
(f) Accusations
of
being
a
player:
Infamous,
especially
if
youre
running
tight
game
or
shes
seen
you
around
before
with
another
girl.
Take
this
as
a
compliment,
it
means
shes
aware
of
your
game
and
wants
you
to
continue
brain
banging
her.
Avoid
answering
this
directly,
and
never
get
defensive.
Play
it
off
as
Im
not
a
player,
Im
searching
for
true
love.
If
she
asks
how
many
girls
youve
been
with,
reply
with
I
dont
count
them.
If
she
says
she
saw
you
with
another
girl
before,
reply
with
Yah,
I
was
trying
to
get
you
jealous
so
youd
talk
to
me.
(g) A
compliance
test:
So
do
you
think
Im
pretty?
A
trap
for
unknowing
men
who
think
theyve
already
closed.
If
you
answer
with
yes,
you
might
get
a
close
but
the
hit
in
your
game
will
set
you
behind
in
future
pursuits.
Or
more
likely,
shell
toy
with
you
for
a
bit
longer
then
suddenly
vanish
after
youve
bought
her
enough
drinks.
Reply
with
Yah,
but
youre
a
democrat
so
its
never
gonna
work
between
us
or
Maybe,
but
youll
have
to
impress
me
with
your
personality
first.
Dont
say
no
directly
but
make
sure
you
disqualify
her.
(h) Testing
your
social
proof:
Where
are
your
friends?
or
Are
you
here
by
yourself?
Dont
be
shook
if
youre
flying
solo,
thats
exactly
what
shes
looking
for.
She
doesnt
care
if
youre
here
by
yourself,
but
she
does
care
if
youre
insecure
about
being
by
yourself.
Reply
with
I
dont
have
any,
just
a
couple
of
pets.
Dont
say,
Theyre
coming
if
they
really
arent
because
a
girl
WILL
judge
you
if
you
lie
about
suggested
social
proof.
(i)
Im
not
that
type
of
girl:
Even
the
most
accomplished
sluts
will
occasionally
insist
that
somewhere
deep
down
inside,
they
chastise
lewd
behavior.
Dont
get
defensive
and
try
and
justify
your
actions,
ignore
her
reproaches.
Smile
and
say
phew,
thank
god
and
then
continue.
2
steps
forward,
1
step
backwards
pretty
much
sums
up
courtship.
If
you
can
pull
it
off
and
have
enough
women
waiting
elsewhere,
laugh
and
reply
with
that
sucks,
Im
that
type
of
guy
(still
back
off,
never
make
a
girl
feel
uncomfortable
from
an
advance,
she
will
rationalize
it
later
as
a
lack
of
attraction
and
a
mistake).
(j) Talking
about
sex:
The
trump
card
all
women
hold
over
men.
Youll
witness
the
topic
of
sex
being
used
to
berate
men
and
over
and
over
again.
Women
use
it
to
flush
out
either
men
who
are
desperate
(given
off
by
an
over-eagerness
to
talk
about
sex),
or
virgins
who
dont
know
anything
about
women
(they
will
get
shy
and
retract
their
bad
boy
guise).
Dont
fall
into
this
man-trap,
reply
with
Youre
gonna
need
to
impress
me
a
bit
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more before we start talking about sex. Reframe conversations to place yourself in the dominant position. (k) Disapproval: Ewwww youre that type of guy? Shes looking to see if you get defensive over your identity. Give off a snort and then flash her your dick.
INVESTMENT What distinguishes a suggestion from other kinds of psychological influence, such as a command or the giving of a piece of information or instruction, is that in the case of a suggestion an idea is aroused in another persons brain which is not examined in regard to its origin but is accepted just as though it had arisen spontaneously in the brain. -Freud Following your opening, a hopefully interesting conversation, and a fluent exchange of negs and teasing, youll have to begin building comfort with your partner to move past the narrow scope of attraction. To close or to guarantee any form of future communication, you need to connect with her on an emotional level and hopefully one that sets you apart from the plethora of other guys that have tossed their chum at her. For a girl to want to continue a relationship with a guy she must feel invested in him. Investment can take many forms from material, mental, to time. It is the reason why people have so much trouble getting over their exes or why men assign so much value to their Oneitses. People we have invested time and energy into are perceived by our brains to be worth much more than others. Compliance tests are the male versions of shit tests and can be consciously executed to increase or confirm a girls investment in you. Its asking her for a subtle favor the same way she may ask you to do something when shes shit testing you. Ask her to hold your drink, to hold your jacket, to wait for you while you go to the bathroom, anything. Anytime you do a favor for someone, your mind rationalizes it by assuming you must like the person (cognitive dissonance). In general, you can begin a compliance test right after you sense a spark between you and the girl, to segue into comfort building. Create a sense of serendipity by acting surprised when the two of you like the same thing. If youre surfing from topic to topic like you should be, youll find one or two things you and her have in common. Extrapolate on these and act as if youre surprised to meet someone with the same interest. Anything tinged with a sense of destiny is attractive; women have a childish
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yearning
to
believe
in
soul
mates.
Dont
let
this
be
a
weakness,
turn
it
into
an
advantage
for
yourself.
Go
through
taboo
topics
with
her.
Make
fun
of
people
with
her
or
ask
her
about
her
opinion
on
some
guy
with
herby
sunglasses
on.
The
shared
sense
of
guilt
will
help
you
guys
connect
(at
the
expense
of
someone
elses
social
value).
Be
warned
that
this
game
can
be
somewhat
disturbing,
as
women
show
no
mercy
once
theyve
loosened
up.
Pain
and
anxiety
are
the
precursors
to
comfort
and
pleasure.
If
you
sense
that
not
enough
comfort
can
be
built,
eviscerate
insecurities
that
she
has
to
capitalize
on
them.
You
must
guise
yourself
as
the
savior
to
her
tensions.
If
you
sense
that
shes
a
workaholic,
ask
her
a
quick
question
about
her
job
and
make
it
obvious
to
herself
that
she
hates
being
confined
to
duties
all
day.
Then
make
yourself
the
opposite
a
free
spirit
that
strays
to
its
will.
If
you
sense
that
shes
having
financial
problems,
start
making
fun
of
how
rich
people
spend
all
their
money
on
golden
yachts
and
then
make
yourself
seem
like
a
financially
well
minded
person
(You
dont
need
to
be
rich,
just
dominant
and
knowing
how
to
survive.
You
dont
want
to
stir
up
gold
digger
inclinations).
Insinuate
desire
by
constantly
using
the
term
we
or
us.
As
your
conversation
flows,
assume
rapport.
Make
it
seem
as
though
you
guys
are
already
well
connected
and
only
catching
up.
Constantly
use
inclusive
terms
that
suggest
you
guys
already
share
a
basic
empathy.
As
you
transition
into
the
comfort
zone,
make
sure
you
make
THE
TARGET
feels
like
SHE
EARNED
the
right
to
be
there.
In
other
words,
that
even
though
you
initially
disqualified
her,
she
eventually
won
you
over.
Reverse
the
script
even
though
you
were
the
pursuer
all
along.
As
youre
building
comfort,
constantly
make
it
seem
like
youre
reluctant
to
divulge
any
further
but
her
insistence
is
what
makes
you
give
in.
Move
her.
Changing
venue
(bouncing)
increases
the
amount
of
time
a
girl
feels
like
shes
spent
with
you.
Tell
her
to
come
to
a
restaurant
across
the
street,
downstairs,
or
outside
for
a
smoke.
Avoid
staying
in
one
spot
if
youve
already
won
her
attraction
over.
This
is
also
the
easiest
way
to
see
if
a
girl
with
a
boyfriend
is
willing
to
leave
him
for
you
or
if
a
girl
you
just
met
is
interested
or
just
enjoying
the
attention
from
you.
A
girl
who
lacks
interest
will
not
agree
to
change
location
with
you,
especially
to
a
quieter
place.
Dont
be
argumentative.
Women
dont
like
men
who
argue,
they
like
men
who
have
the
balls
to
argue.
A
guy
who
parrots
her
beliefs
has
no
backbone
to
stand
up
for
himself,
but
a
guy
who
attacks
every
straw
is
just
as
insecure.
Men
who
argue
every
point
possible
have
an
overriding
need
to
prove
themselves
right
to
avoid
the
insecurity
of
being
unheard
or
losing.
If
you
disagree
with
a
girl,
make
the
disagreement
short
and
playful.
Cut
the
thread
right
after
if
you
see
it
going
nowhere.
Share
both
commonalities
and
differences,
at
both
extremes.
Tell
her
you
read
the
same
exact
weird
nerd
blog
she
reads;
but
that
you
have
a
completely
different
take
on
whether
aliens
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exist.
The
difference
incites
intrigue
while
the
commonality
creates
comfort.
Blow
up
similarities
to
make
it
seem
like
you
guys
are
perfect
for
each
other.
Blow
up
differences
to
disqualify
her
and
make
it
known
that
you
have
different
interests.
Occasionally
freeze
her
out
while
building
comfort
to
make
her
seek
more
of
it.
A
continuous
stream
of
rapport
bores
people,
the
eros
of
drama
must
be
injected
every
once
in
a
while
regardless
of
how
well
youre
doing.
Use
jealousy
even
in
the
beginning
stages,
if
a
girl
sees
your
interest
suddenly
waning
because
another
girl
took
a
liking
to
you,
she
will
double
up
her
efforts
to
keep
you
attracted.
End
a
freeze
out
when
she
complies
with
more
IOIs
to
make
her
associate
increased
attention
with
increased
pleasure.
Sharing
vulnerabilities
serves
as
an
opiate
for
deep
comfort
building.
Tell
her
about
how
youve
recently
been
thinking
about
taking
some
risk
in
life
like
moving
to
a
new
place
or
quitting
your
job
and
trying
something
new.
Or
tell
her
an
embarrassing
story
with
a
funny
touch
to
it.
Make
her
feel
as
though
youre
opening
up
to
her
though
reluctantly
and
that
she
can
do
the
same.
If
you
open
up
too
eagerly,
she
assumes
theres
no
depth
to
your
personality
because
you
wear
your
heart
on
your
sleeve.
Be
a
man
of
several
layers.
When
you
run
vulnerability
game
make
it
short
and
sweet.
Sometimes
a
guy
will
get
high
off
of
the
initial
burst
of
attention
from
a
girl
when
he
divulges
an
insecurity
so
he
goes
on
and
on
about
his
weaknesses
to
extract
every
last
penance
of
sympathy.
Each
consecutive
vulnerability
revealed
will
generate
significantly
less
rapport
than
the
last
one.
Dont
fall
for
the
trap
of
over
indulgence.
Hubris
is
punishable
by
death.
Give
her
something
of
yours
like
a
scarf
or
a
hat.
Spray
it
with
your
cologne
so
she
subconsciously
anchors
the
smell
with
the
positive
feeling
of
being
with
you.
If
she
has
an
item
of
yours,
you
can
separate
and
then
come
back
to
her
later
to
distort
the
amount
of
time
the
both
of
you
have
known
each
other
for.
This
also
works
well
in
between
concurrent
dates.
Always
make
it
seem
like
theres
more
to
you
than
meets
the
eye.
What
is
confusing
is
seductive.
Even
during
the
comfort
phase,
occasionally
throw
in
mixed
signals
like
acting
more
withdrawn
if
she
touched
on
a
sensitive
topic.
To
build
comfort,
the
cocky
funny
persona
must
somewhat
shy
away
and
slightly
hint
towards
a
more
sensitive
and
deeper
well
of
emotions.
Feed
her
imagination
with
slight
but
noticeable
inconsistencies
and
changes
in
your
demeanor.
Keep
your
language
vague
and
suggestive.
When
you
compliment
her,
tell
her
youre
very
interesting,
avoid
male
hausfrau
compliments
like
youre
so
beautiful.
Dont
give
her
a
reason
as
to
why
shes
interesting;
let
her
wonder
what
interests
you
about
her.
In
turn,
shell
try
and
interest
you
even
further.
People
try
and
act
in
accordance
to
how
others
perceive
them,
let
her
feel
like
you
perceive
her
in
a
unique
and
ambiguous
light
to
make
her
want
to
seek
more
rapport
with
you.
Disarm
suspicion
with
sincerity.
If
she
starts
to
feel
worried
that
you
wouldve
hit
on
any
person
in
the
club,
confide
to
her
that
you
had
a
slight
crush
on
her
the
moment
you
walked
in
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(combine with inconsistency like flirting with another girl). Admit to a sin on your part, something she thinks a regular guy wouldve kept to himself. This will only work after attraction has already been built. If you skip attraction and go straight to comfort, she will see you only as a friend. Isolate your target. Psychologically isolate them by being the observed person in a club. Be the guy engaging a set next to her with a hilarious story that her own set wants to try and listen to. Make her mind both notice and relentlessly think about you. Shut off the rest of the crowd in her mind. If shes raved by your approach, she will maintain eye contact even if a gorilla breaks in through the backdoor of the club. Physically isolate her by taking her to a corner or a less lit area. The idea of being isolated and hidden allows her to seek more comfort without being bogged down by her protective shields. Use the same dialect she uses to build a sense of familiarity. People will use a different vernacular depending on where they work, the cliques they hang out with, and where theyre from. Try and catch her clichs and use them yourself. If shes a feminist with a Ph.D, use words like fem reform and cissexuality. If youre talking to a lawyer, use phrases like firm and Screw people in the ass.
ESCALATION
Dont
think,
just
do
Escalation
should
start
in
your
head
the
moment
you
think
about
approaching.
You
should
be
exchanging
endless
orgasms
with
your
target
in
your
head
before
the
word
hey
escapes
your
mouth.
Outside
of
your
head,
it
should
be
a
pervasive
theme
during
the
entire
seduction.
Every
moment
is
technically
a
moment
of
escalation.
Every
date
a
gateway
for
the
moment
of
consummation
when
her
clothes
descend
to
more
idle
forms.
Your
quarry
must
feel
comfortable
to
the
idea
of
a
physical
touch
from
you.
Ideally,
this
should
start
the
moment
you
say
hi
to
her.
Touch
her
forearm
or
her
shoulder.
Retract
coolly
but
let
it
linger
when
youre
into
deeper
parts
of
the
conversation.
If
you
have
to
console
her
after
a
neg,
pat
her
shoulder.
All
people
long
for
physical
comfort
from
others,
were
just
repulsed
when
it
comes
from
inferior
beings.
Touch
and
touch
often.
It
doesnt
matter
if
you
have
to
settle
for
ankle
locking
underneath
a
table
or
stroking
her
toes,
touch
as
much
as
possible.
Until
you
feel
a
thread
of
resistance,
encroach
on
her
personal
space
(assuming
she
previously
gave
you
a
significant
amount
of
IOIs,
not
on
a
girl
that
doesnt
like
you).
If
shes
stayed
with
you
past
15
or
20
minutes,
theres
almost
no
chance
shell
resist
some
sort
of
contact,
she
wouldve
left
by
now
if
she
werent
interested
at
all.
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Handholding is the easiest measure of how ready a girl is to be isolated or kissed. If shes ok with holding your hand, shes ready for a cock kiss. Always try and escalate as far as possible, whenever possible. The deeper of an investment you can get from a girl, the more willing she will be reciprocate future advances. Remember to match escalation with comfort and never make her feel like shes a smash and dash. Although youre escalating as fast as possible keep comfort as high as possible. Comfort should never be sacrificed for speed. If shes resisting because she questions whether shell regret it later move back to building more comfort. Escalation is based on moving 2 steps forward and one step backwards, constantly. If you kiss her for a while, suddenly break out and stare away distractedly. Insecurity breeds anxiety, anxiety breeds love. Its important to ALWAYS be escalating because rejection is not your enemy falling into sexual depression is your enemy. Spending 6 months chasing a girl only to realize your math professor is fucking her is the enemy. Being blown out in a set lets you learn from your mistake and move on quick. But not escalating with a girl and spending twenty minutes of your time grasping for straws accomplishes nothing. Always be escalating to keep yourself out of the friend zone. If youve successfully escalated, or built any amount of comfort, make sure to ask for her number at the end of the night. Ask for her number even in the mild stages of attraction, theres nothing to lose. Ask her for her number even if you just met her. Dont over analyze it, dont think about the possibility of rejection, just ask. In fact, if she says no, youll find yourself happy that you did it because now youll be aware of how innocuous rejection feels. Its only a mental barrier we construct for ourselves. Use the 2 steps forward 1 backwards principle to keep your entire engagement in suspense. Even if your ultimate purpose is single-minded, keep the entire process as ambiguous and free flowing as possible. Make it seem naturally flowing rather than synthetically forced out.
The more the both of you feel like the exchange challenged your normal values or thresholds, the more you will both be invested to the relationship. Its always important to push a girls boundaries whether in sex, teasing, or seduction to make yourself an object of unique desire rather than another male decoy. Immerse yourself into the entire escalation process as much as possible. All external thoughts while you and a girl are alone are manifestations of inner insecurities. Keep them at bay by focusing on nothing but the experience. If youve gotten this far, you dont need this book or any material on escalating. What you need is to follow your pre-programming as a man and shut off the feminine chatter from the other parts of your brain. The point of escalating; whether its going in for a kiss or getting intimate for the first time is to drown out the sordid reality inextricably linked to a girls fear of letting herself go in your presence. Follow your gut instinct; overwhelm her with the need to take a chance. Throw aside any thoughts of uncertainty; master the bold move.
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Chapter
the
Fourth:
The
Not-Pick
Up
THE
FRIEND
ZONE
Friends
are
just
girls
you
havent
been
able
to
fuck
yet
If
the
seduction
youre
seeking
is
not
a
cold
approach,
then
we
assume
that
the
girl
in
question
is
either
a
friend
or
an
enemy,
preferably
the
latter.
An
enemy
still
has
an
emotional
perception
of
you,
one
that
can
be
twisted
into
a
hate
fuck
to
generate
sexual
tension
and
life
long
regret.
A
friend
will
feel
her
vagina
dry
up
into
a
sand
dune
whenever
you
begin
talking
to
her.
Ergo
the
real
problem
in
your
situation
is
a
lack
of
attraction,
or
in
rare
circumstances,
a
lack
of
rapport.
The
question
of
the
friend
zone,
the
LJBF
break
up
and
the
asexual
relationship
has
its
roots
in
a
more
functional
problem.
The
idea
of
a
guy,
liking
a
girl,
but
not
being
able
to
generate
the
right
emotional
response
from
her
because
he
focuses
on
rapport
more
than
attraction.
The
girl
can
be
anyone;
an
ex
girlfriend,
a
classmate,
a
colleague,
or
a
teacher
if
youre
aiming
high.
In
her
opinion,
she
just
doesnt
feel
the
spark.
In
your
opinion,
youre
doing
everything
right,
just
as
youve
seen
it
done
in
a
Harlequin
romance,
but
nothing
seems
to
work.
Unlike
the
previous
chapter,
this
discussion
will
assume
you
and
your
target
are
already
familiar
with
each
other.
What
this
chapter
doesnt
assume
is
whether
your
target
is
the
subject
of
a
Oneitis
infection,
or
merely
an
infatuation
you
wish
to
cater.
I
feel
compelled
to
say
over
and
over
again
that
while
learning
how
to
get
a
girl
you
like
is
helpful,
basking
in
obsession
is
an
unhealthy
practice.
At
no
point
in
your
life
should
any
single
girl
be
the
focus
of
all
of
your
game.
Even
after
you
get
married,
keep
orbiters
around
you.
Never
cheat,
but
always
retain
the
potential
to
do
so.
Keeping
your
options
or
at
least
eyes
open
helps
to
mitigate
the
dependency
that
eventually
normalizes
the
attraction
in
a
relationship.
Any
time
you
find
yourself
going
an
extra
mile
for
a
girl,
you
wont
get
her.
If
youre
posting
on
forums
about
your
sexually
arid
dynamic
with
a
girl,
you
wont
get
her.
If
youre
having
council
meetings
with
all
of
your
friends
to
deconstruct
every
single
one
of
her
micro-facial
expressions,
you
wont
get
her.
And
even
if
you
prove
me
wrong
and
somehow
get
her,
you
wont
keep
her.
And
if
by
some
unnatural
miracle
you
keep
her
(zombie
revolution
and
you
two
are
the
last
humans
left
alive),
she
wont
be
happy
with
you.
The
cock
must
subdue
the
vagina,
and
no
cock
can
subdue
a
pedestalized
vagina.
Use
the
advice
in
this
chapter
loosely,
if
you
cant
get
the
girl
in
question,
move
on
to
a
different
one.
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While the basic reason you like her will be elementary, a more complex tapestry will construct itself around your relationship with her. You will find her funnier or more interesting than other girls. Her trivial hobbies and interests, perhaps a movie or a book, will seem unique. When I tell you this from a third person point of view, the absurdity becomes apparent. Liking a girl is based almost entirely on Post hoc rationalization. If a fat girl suddenly came by and liked all these things, you wouldnt like her. Likewise, if you never had the initial burst of PEA for the girl you like, all of these unique tendencies would hold no importance within your mind. The tendency to pedestalize women weve taken favors to is further implicated by the matrix and its monogamous conditioning. There is only one perfect girl were told, and so we believe. The logical fallacy of this idea is of course that if a girl is perfect for you, then she wouldnt leave, or would like you in return. If a girl doesnt like you, or leaves you, she cannot, by definition, be your soul-mate. It helps to understand this basic tenant of your rationalization because you cannot successfully pursue a girl you pedestalize. You do not like her because of a magical sense of compatibility or a preordained destiny to be with her, you like her because of basic psychological principles. There are no matches made in heaven except for the ones between angels, all human bonds are developed on earth and for earthly reasons.
The
more
timidity
a
lover
shows
with
us
the
more
it
concerns
our
pride
to
goad
him
on;
the
more
respect
he
has
for
our
resistance,
the
more
respect
we
demand
of
him.
We
would
willingly
say
to
you
men:
Ah,
in
pitys
name
do
not
suppose
us
to
be
so
very
virtuous;
you
are
forcing
us
to
have
too
much
of
it.
For
women,
a
conquest
of
the
body
is
not
enough.
They
are
obliged
by
their
basic
feminine
prerogative
to
monopolize
male
attention
in
every
instance
and
form
possible.
In
our
compassing
social
mesh,
this
effect
results
in
every
girl
having
an
intrinsic
desire
to
preserve
as
much
platonic
attention
as
she
can
receive.
This
is
why
girls
keep
guys
who
like
them
on
leashes,
this
is
why
they
go
out
to
clubs,
this
is
why
they
wear
make
up,
this
is
why
they
are
constantly
competing
with
each
other
for
the
spotlight.
This
is
why
the
friend
zone
even
exists.
A
girl
who
can
lead
a
guy
on
without
giving
him
sex
is
bartering
nothing
in
exchange
for
his
resources.
It
would
be
parallel
to
a
having
a
fuck
buddy
for
a
guy.
A
guy-friend
that
a
girl
uses
to
soothe
her
ego
every
time
she
needs
to
be
conciliated
is
like
an
emotional
fleshlight.
The
more
you
allow
a
girl
to
indulge
in
this
dynamic,
or
give
her
your
attention
for
nothing
in
return,
the
more
she
will
be
unwilling
to
reciprocate
being
anything
more
than
friends.
In
her
mind,
it
makes
no
sense
for
her
to
work
harder
for
something
she
received
with
less
effort
in
the
past.
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A
guy
in
the
friend
zone
immediately
gets
desexualized
in
accordance
with
hypgergamy
and
civil
dynamics.
If
she
can
extract
all
of
your
attention
from
you
without
giving
you
sex,
there
is
an
implicit
understanding
that
she
can
do
better
than
you
in
the
sexual
market.
She
can
take
all
the
attention
she
can
get
from
you
while
saving
her
intimacy
for
someone
more
alpha
than
you,
getting
the
best
of
both
worlds.
There
is
no
direct
correlation
between
a
good
friendship
and
a
good
relationship,
although
youve
been
conditioned
to
believe
otherwise.
Common
interests
and
having
fun
around
each
other
is
a
prerequisite
to
a
good
relationship,
but
a
friendship
isnt
the
only
way
to
attain
that
ground.
Friendship
is
thoroughly
emphasized
as
the
only
gateway
to
a
good
relationship
because
it
preserves
the
agency
of
the
girl
while
rendering
you
relatively
impotent
to
her
sexual
pilot.
As
long
as
men
can
be
kept
chasing
friendship,
women
can
be
kept
in
the
power
position.
If
anything,
friendship
has
an
inverse
correlation
to
a
sexual
relationship
because
of
the
snowball
effect
it
entails.
The
myth
of
access
to
a
girls
intimacy
through
some
indefinite
amount
of
attention
as
a
preface
to
that
intimacy
leads
to
a
continuous
stream
of
effort
being
directed
the
wrong
way,
and
then
justified
through
circular
logic.
A
guy
toils
away
day
and
night
chasing
after
the
girl
he
likes,
witling
down
his
chances
with
each
extraneous
act
of
generosity.
Not
only
do
his
chances
diminish
the
more
he
bends
his
back
over
for
her,
but
he
is
subconsciously
driven
to
invest
more
and
more
of
his
energy
because
every
failure
is
attributed
to
a
lack
of
effort
even
though
that
effort
is
the
correlate
to
his
failure.
For
every
1
relationship
that
works
because
a
girl
and
a
guy
were
very
good
friends
at
first
there
are
100
or
more
relationships
that
never
happened
because
a
guy
got
dropped
off
to
the
friend
zone
and
left
to
jerk
off
to
facebook
photos
while
using
his
cascading
tears
to
lubricate
his
phalanges.
Luckily
you
only
hear
about
that
1
relationship
that
worked
and
the
100
that
never
did
get
laundered
by
unrealistic
expectations
(Becky
and
Sam?
No,
they
just
werent
meant
to
be).
In
a
way,
the
friend
zone
was
the
most
ingenious
operative
social
convention
invented
to
date.
Women
are
the
beneficiaries
in
multiple
ways.
In
a
break
up,
she
can
theoretically
preserve
the
attention
of
her
ex-boyfriend
by
offering
to
remain
friends
rather
than
acquaintances.
We
are
conditioned
to
believe
that
if
he
in
turn
refuses,
its
because
he
has
no
sense
of
decency.
During
an
approach,
girls
can
proactively
LJBF
a
guy
to
prevent
him
from
trying
to
steer
their
relationship
towards
sex.
If
its
done
immediately,
it
saves
both
of
them
their
efforts,
but
if
its
done
later,
it
loses
the
investment
he
already
made.
Unfortunately
if
hes
not
smart
enough
to
cut
his
losses
early,
he
will
continue
perpetuating
his
lost
cause
ideal
until
he
finds
another
girl
to
bandwagon.
Thus,
its
important
to
quickly
flush
out
relations
that
will
end
up
in
nothing
but
friendship.
Unless
your
goal
is
pursue
a
relationship
with
the
girl
because
you
actually
like
her
as
a
friend,
it
will
allow
you
to
redirect
your
attention
and
focus
elsewhere.
Attention
is
the
ultimate
reinforcer
for
men.
It
is
the
male
equivalent
of
sex,
the
thing
that
we
have
that
women
want
from
us.
Your
default
response
to
a
lack
of
intimacy
should
always
be
to
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excuse
yourself
from
the
situation
entirely.
It
is
the
only
way
you
can
preserve
your
station
as
the
dominant
partner
and
in
control
of
your
relationship
with
her.
If
you
stay
complacent
with
being
played
over
and
over
by
a
girl
who
has
no
intention
of
progressing
your
relationship,
you
inhibit
your
own
chances
to
develop
by
augmenting
a
beta
position
and
trading
off
resources
that
can
be
used
on
other
women.
Only
a
guy
who
is
unwilling
to
participate
in
his
position
as
a
surrogate
boyfriend
can
repossess
his
own
agency
and
create
the
impression
of
confidence
in
the
women
around
him.
I
say
this
of
course,
without
any
remorse
for
the
idea
of
a
friendship
between
a
girl
and
a
guy.
There
is
nothing
wrong
with
that;
I
am
referring
specifically
to
those
situations
(which
seem
to
happen
all
too
often)
where
a
guy
feels
he
is
being
manipulated
out
of
his
original
intentions.
If
youre
talking
to
a
girl
for
sex,
keep
the
goal
at
sex.
Dont
take
friendship
as
an
alternative
route.
If
youre
talking
to
a
girl
because
you
think
shes
cool
and
you
want
to
be
friends
with
her,
dont
let
sex
get
in
the
way
of
a
positive
bond.
The
statistical
rarity
of
this
situation
is
massively
disconcerted.
Around
90%
of
guy-girl
friendships
exist
because
either
one
wants
attention
or
sex
from
the
other.
Theres
nothing
wrong
with
this,
just
dont
fool
yourself
into
thinking
youre
chasing
a
girl
because
you
just
want
to
be
friends.
The
self
concern
of
Jerks
is
what
keeps
them
out
of
the
friend
zone.
Staying
in
the
friend
zone
is
a
losing
tradeoff
for
them
as
they
are
intuitively
aware
that
their
energies
can
be
focused
in
more
productive
ways.
Supplicating
to
a
womans
need
for
access
to
her
sexuality
is
exactly
the
type
of
selfless
act
nice
guys
are
conditioned
to
believe
in.
Despite
failing
over
and
over
again,
the
martyr
mentality
keeps
them
continuously
sacrificing
their
balls
for
a
girl
they
know
wont
be
interested
in
them.
It
is
the
essence
of
the
feminine
revolution,
turning
men
into
engineered
commodities
that
can
be
sacrificed
wholesale
to
mechanize
their
romantic
labor.
Self-depreciation
and
the
nice
guy
syndrome
is
the
dementors
kiss
in
platonic
relationships.
When
a
guy
assumes
the
position
of
a
friend
in
hopes
of
sexual
congress,
he
inevitably
adopts
an
attitude
that
he
is
different
from
the
other
guys
that
the
girl
he
has
been
with.
AFCs
dont
chase
girls
thinking
Im
going
to
act
desperate
to
make
her
sick
of
me,
they
think
If
I
act
desperate,
Ill
show
her
that
Im
different
from
other
guys.
The
act
of
self-deprecation
is
perceived
as
advantageous
rather
than
detrimental,
which
allows
for
the
inevitable
rationalization
of
his
original
position.
The
hope
that
shell
one
day
realize
she
was
meant
to
be
with
him
looms
in
the
near
future,
only
to
torture
him
out
of
his
prime
years
and
restful
sleep.
Luckily
by
the
time
shes
30
years
old
and
has
to
settle,
she
will
happily
realize
that
they
were
meant
to
be
all
along.
Fuck
that
shit
sideways.
The
lacking
of
intimacy,
if
one
hangs
on
to
it,
eventually
comes
to
a
point
where
it
compromises
ones
initial
goals.
If
you
cant
get
a
girl
after
trying
for
months,
your
body
begins
to
realize
it
needs
to
change
to
facilitate
your
relationship
with
her.
At
this
point,
withdrawing
or
using
concepts
from
game
like
push-pull
never
come
to
mind
because
they
are
counter-intuitive.
Rather,
you
begin
to
see
necessary
changes
according
to
her
identity.
Whether
consciously
or
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not,
you
attempt
to
change
your
own
being
to
accommodate
her
interests,
what
she
likes,
what
she
wants.
While
common
ground
is
a
necessary
aspect
of
a
positive
relationship,
this
type
of
forced
personality
change
will
breed
spite
in
the
future
and
compromise
your
own
ambitions.
Again
we
see
that
the
Jerk
has
a
natural
cure
for
this
never
letting
his
own
interests
become
convoluted
by
a
girls.
Harness
the
positive
aspects
of
being
a
jerk.
Sadly,
this
form
of
compromise
through
unthinking
optimism
will
ruin
the
chances
of
a
sexual
relationship
between
you
and
her.
The
more
you
placate
to
her
ego
by
shifting
your
own
reality,
the
more
you
show
her
that
you
are
willing
to
change
your
own
resolve
to
furnish
hers,
the
more
she
begins
to
think
you
are
unworthy
of
her
intimacy.
While
this
might
increase
rapport,
it
signals
to
her
an
inherent
weakness
within
your
character,
which
inevitably
gets
translated
by
her
as
an
inability
to
reinforce
masculine
power
and
independence.
In
her
eyes,
if
you
succumb
to
her
ego,
you
can
be
broken
by
anyone.
But
really,
who
are
you
even
kidding
with
this
friendship
bullshit
anyways?
Youre
either
in
a
romantic
relationship
with
a
girl
or
youre
not.
Friendship
is
not
a
zone
of
transference,
there
is
no
limbo
between
a
friendship
and
a
relationship.
If
a
girl
does
not
see
you
as
her
boyfriend,
she
sees
you
as
one
of
her
girlfriends.
If
at
any
point
your
relationship
with
her
becomes
a
liability
in
terms
of
her
relations
with
another
man
one
considerably
more
alpha
than
you,
she
will
happily
shit
out
your
friendship,
even
if
it
pains
her
to
do
so.
CHANGING
HER
IMPRESSION
OF
YOU
People
do
it
everyday,
they
talk
to
themselves
they
see
themselves
as
theyd
like
to
be,
they
dont
have
the
courage
you
have,
to
just
run
with
it
Its
much
harder
for
a
guy
to
get
a
girl
hes
known
for
a
long
time
to
like
him
than
it
is
for
a
girl
to
get
a
guy
shes
known
to
like
him.
Unlike
men,
women
are
sexually
attracted
to
a
guy
due
to
an
emotional
response
he
elicits
from
her.
If
her
first
impression
of
him
never
elicited
this
response,
it
is
unlikely
it
will
in
the
future.
His
image
becomes
psychologically
anchored
to
a
desexualized
response,
which
continues
throughout
the
duration
of
their
relationship.
To
change
this,
you
need
to
change
the
way
a
girl
perceives
you
and
the
original
context
she
uses
to
filter
your
actions.
To
the
above
statement,
youll
be
wondering;
why
are
girls
always
complaining
then?
Because
women
are
hypergamous.
90%
of
the
time
when
a
girl
likes
a
guy,
especially
a
girl
with
options,
that
guy
is
going
to
have
other
options
himself.
A
girl
complaining
about
guys
never
wanting
to
commit
is
like
a
guy
complaining
how
girls
never
want
to
have
sex.
Think
of
the
100
girls
that
George
Clooney
has
dated
that
have
the
impression
guys
never
commit.
There
are
a
hundred
other
betas
that
would
drop
dead
for
a
shot
at
marriage
with
any
of
those
girls.
If
you
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proposed
to
Anne
Hathaway
tomorrow
and
she
said
no,
would
you
go
around
saying
women
hate
the
institution
of
marriage?
All
game
concepts
should
be
applied
evenly,
as
you
would
with
any
girl.
But
if
you
already
know
her,
certain
points
are
more
important
than
others
to
change
her
impression
of
you.
A
change
in
external
game
is
just
as
important
as
an
improvement.
Hypothetically
if
your
external
game
was
already
superior
to
those
of
the
guys
around
you
(you
already
displayed
alpha
and
dominant
body
language
and
dressed
well),
continuing
to
do
so
might
reinforce
your
dominant
persona,
but
will
not
change
her
spayed
interpretation
of
your
actions.
Its
important
to
force
a
different
stimulus,
or
shift
the
way
you
do
things.
Talk
a
bit
differently,
dress
a
bit
differently,
illustrate
quirks
within
your
personality
that
were
previously
unknown
to
her.
The
preconceived
notions
she
has
of
you
must
slowly
be
distorted
by
your
actions.
To
make
sure
no
one
gets
confused
between
the
difference
of
the
above
and
changing
your
identity
as
it
was
established
in
the
friend
zone
section,
changing
your
identity
to
increase
attraction
is
different
from
changing
your
identity
to
increase
rapport.
The
latter
will
involve
more
supplication
and
resource
compromise,
like
talking
on
the
phone
with
her,
parroting
her
opinions,
or
making
a
decision
based
on
her
interests
and
then
establishing
a
new
mental
schema
to
justify
the
decision
on
your
own
terms.
The
former
will
be
more
about
being
less
available,
peacocking
with
new
items,
or
picking
up
a
new
hobby.
As
youre
changing
the
image
of
yourself
in
her
head,
pick
up
a
new
activity
or
hobby
that
can
justify
the
decision.
If
she
randomly
sees
you
beginning
to
change,
she
will
assume
you
are
consciously
doing
it
to
prove
something
to
her.
If
instead,
you
began
working
out
or
you
picked
up
a
side
job
and
started
acting
differently
gradually
after
picking
up
your
new
hobby,
she
would
associate
your
positive
traits
as
an
unintentional
development
caused
by
your
pursuit
of
new
ambitions.
As
a
corollary
to
the
above
statements,
make
your
goals
revolve
around
yourself
rather
than
her.
While
your
goal
might
indirectly
be
to
attract
a
specific
girl,
keeping
the
focus
on
your
self
will
help
you
sustain
the
change
for
more
long
term
results.
Any
change
you
implement
for
another
person
will
lose
its
urgency
as
soon
as
that
person
loses
their
significance
in
your
life.
People
get
flabby
and
lazy
in
relationships
because
the
sense
of
urgency
to
attract
is
gone
after
theyve
capitulated
with
their
partners.
If
the
main
reason
for
a
change
is
an
inner
ambition,
and
the
attraction
it
garners
from
another
person
remains
as
a
secondary
objective,
the
change
will
be
more
fulfilling.
The
amount
of
attention
you
give
her
must
change
to
fit
an
exchange
dynamic
rather
than
an
appeasement
dynamic.
Your
first
impression
of
her
registered
as
a
friend
or
a
person
she
can
get
attention
from
without
exchanging
intimacy
for.
If
you
limit
the
reinforcer,
attention,
you
change
her
perception
of
the
dynamic
between
you
two.
As
long
as
she
remains
unaware
of
why
your
attention
has
suddenly
become
more
restricted,
it
will
both
intrigue
her
and
shift
her
into
qualifying
mode,
granted
you
can
create
enough
attraction.
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The way you talk to her should change gradually and shift back and forth between friend and a romantic relationship. There are certain words people only use with their intimate partners, like babe or like (friends will say I love you, not I like you). Use words like these to sub communicate your intention to escalate past a platonic relationship and to make her feel as if the intention to do so was always there. She needs to feel like your friendship does not preclude the possibility for a romance, but was only a mask for it. The ideal goal of any seduction is to turn the seduced into the seducer. You MUST use jealousy to make a girl who has no emotional bond with you, change her feelings. After the slightest bit of attraction has been created, use jealousy to proliferate her emotions. Women compete for attention with each other regardless of whether the object being vied for is sexually desired or not. They will compete for the attention of alphas, of gay men, and of other women they look up to. If you can get a girl to compete for your attention, she will assume its because she likes you. The added effect of her invested effort will push her more and more towards a romantic relationship. While a gradual change has the benefit of authenticity a more traumatic adjustment can have faster and larger results, if executed properly. If all of a sudden you act aloof and disenchanted by her, she will assume its because you arent interested. But if say she thought there was a reason for your change, something her imagination can only suggest towards, she would drive herself crazy to restore the previous standing between you two. The emotional torque created just from her effort to maintain the friendship can be redirected in a more sexual way. Certain exchanges or types of physical kino are reserved for relationships, try and institute these between you and the girl. Any type of grooming for example, (wiping something off of someones face, cleaning a stain off of their jacket) incites feelings of romantic rapport. Women have been conditioned to associate any form of grooming as an intimate form of kino. Because you cant take a friend to a corner and immediately try and escalate with her without creeping her out, establishing a higher level of kino will take a longer time (and should be done more subtly than directly). Kino escalation should be done to indirectly hint towards your infatuation with her, it cannot overtly declare your attraction. It must seem as if both of you are unknowingly falling for each other, even if youve been in love with her for months. You must act just as oblivious and hesitant as her until the right moment where you overwhelm her with a bold move. Carry your conversations to allude to unique connections that you have with her. A girl isolates a boyfriend in one category, and the collective AFCs that chase her into another category. You two must have something between each other that other guys dont have with her. In a relationship, this is established by doing things with her that other guys havent done yet (harder with sluts). Change the emotional landscape constantly. From fighting to making up to exercising together, the more disperse her range of emotions relating to you, the stronger her perception of you
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becomes. If youve known her for a while, this becomes exceptionally important to undo the previously motionless image of you. You MUST establish a position of higher value by being less available than she is, at all times. In the previous chapter we discussed how the initial pick up should neg a target to create deficiency in attraction, and then fill that void. In an already existing relationship, this process gets drawn out for a longer period of time. Always take longer to respond back to texts, phone calls, e-mails, any form of contact. The seduced must always be put in a position of more reactivity than the seducer. Never feel guilt for trying to change anything about yourself or your relationship with a girl, unless it compromises a positive aspect of yourself or truly harms someone else. Making a girl feel bad because you arent willing to be her friend without sex is an operative social convention, and a firm staple of the matrix, used to inhibit feelings of guilt to curb the latent impulse of men to fuck women. If your goal with a girl is sex, dont be ashamed of it. It is only by pragmatically holding on to your identity as a man do you have any chance of attracting the girl in the first place. Telling a guy the reason why a girl doesnt like him is because they werent meant to be is like applying a band-aid to a structural hemorrhage. Men are bleeding out their masculinities for the girls that they like without knowing it. Sure you guys might not be a good match, but you couldve done certain things to increase your chances with her. Embrace your sexuality, dont be mundane about it. Dont hide your boner whenever she walks by, dont blush whenever you touch her, dont cringe whenever she speaks to you. Women are not decorations, they are meant to be consumed. SHOULD YOU TELL A GIRL THAT YOU LIKE HER? And the great question is If after implementing these changes while still avoiding the grasp of Oneitis you think you have a chance with the girl in mind the inevitable question of how to make your next move will come up. Should you ever tell a girl directly that you like her? No. The way you tell a girl you like her is not just an issue of semantics. How you go about this drastically changes the way she will perceive you. If you tell a girl I like you, you immediately pedestalize her. As long as she remains the object of desire, she will never be inclined to chase you. If challenge is absent in a relationship, attraction will never follow. To a girl, I like you comes off as a predisposition of desperation, a sign that a guy chose her because he is desperate for her. It contradicts her prerogative to search for preselected men because her
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subconscious compels her to assume you are of less value than her, since you are the one who exclusively wants her. How many times have you witnessed a relationship fizzle out even after a guy and a girl declared their liking towards each other? If a guy doesnt escalate and his desperation for a girl is out there, her attraction for him will slowly plummet. Everyday that he spends focusing his attention and resources on her without escalating is another day she subconsciously assumes it might be a better option to wait longer to find someone more alpha. A guy who doesnt proclaim he likes her would be more of a challenge, intrinsically communicating to a girl his confidence and capability as a man. Girls are least attracted to guys desperate for them and most attracted to guys they are unsure about. Guys that they know dont like them fall somewhere in the middle. If you signal to her that you like her in more covertly communicated methods, then rather than seeing you as a desperate chump, she sees you as a commodity to be won from the sexual market. The implications are vast. You are still available to other girls; only by chasing you to gain exclusivity can she gain access to the larger portion of your attention (again, attention must be taken away to maintain male agency). You are not desperate for her; you have simply communicated your interest in her. The job of escalating has now shifted from you to her. Normally were conditioned to think that men should always be the pursuers, but this dynamic only allows women to indefinitely extract any amount of attention they want from a guy before even considering him as a mate. In the scenario I offer to you, a guy is still in control of his own agency and can choose to forgo a relationship if its in his best interests. By not overtly telling a girl that you like her, your mind assumes that your sexual interest in her is not unique, allowing you to adopt an abundance mentality much more easily. You are proactively advertising your confidence in your ability to attract other women besides the girl in question not only to other girls, but to yourself. As soon as you begin to rationalize a wanting for a single girl, rather than being open-minded until you find someone, you compromise what you want in your ideal partner. The moment you say I like you, the tumultuous path of mental monogamy changes all your sexual imprinting. Ideally, you should date multiple women to allow yourself to naturally realize what you want in your ideal partner. By jumping from girl to girl and telling each one you like them individually, your template for what youre looking for shifts to accommodate each girl rather than remaining impartial in its development. More importantly, I like you is a precursor for beta behavior. While there are no definite Alpha behaviors, there are definite Alpha traits, dominance being one of them. I like you is a state of powerlessness, admitting that the girl is in the dominant position of a relationship. As long as she can withhold her intimacy from you, and her intimacy is the only one you desire, she is given full control over your thoughts.
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You are only allowed to say I love you, I like you, or any statement of exclusivity if a girl has already said it first. By allowing her to say it first, you increase her investment in you because she has taken the added effort of a potential rejection. Women are given so much power by our default conditioning, it is important to reinforce value and dominance in meta-channels like this. A girl wants to say I like you first. She wants to enthrall herself with the feeling of a potential rejection from a higher value male, and possibly his acceptance. It is an inherent part of her genetic encoding and her own unnatural conditioning makes it all the more harder to access such pleasures. PATIENCE When you force the other person to act, you are the one in control. It is always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains then attack. You hold the cards -Robert Greene In the process of a pick up, while patience is integral, the consequences are not as heartfelt. If youve been seducing a girl over a long period of time, a single over-eager move will break the spell and create more resentment than attraction. A single call saying I like you will come off as more disenchanting than bold. While escalating a relationship is necessary it must be done in an aggressively patient style. If she takes a day to respond back to a text, you take two days. This form of practical patience is essential to reinforcing high value. If you find yourself not able to wait to respond every time she beckons at you, she will eventually assume youre like every other guy shes cycled through for validation. A girl will only chase you if she finds you to be of high value, and what is scarce, is always valuable. You must aggressively ignore texts if you need to, cancel dates, and withhold your time. Being overeager at any point during a relationship (before or even after) causes premature resentment to build up. It is always better to defer to a more lax and patient state than an over eager one if you are debating between the two. If you are unattached and patient, a flop can be quickly undone by reigniting attraction using absence. If you are overeager, the mistakes are much harder to fix because youve changed the underlying presumptions she has about you. If youre too unattached, she might assume you dont like her, which can easily be fixed by a sudden show of rapport. But if youre too eager, and you spill out your intentions too early (before sufficient attraction has been made), she will know that a sudden absence is calculated to create an intentional response.
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Patience
and
aggressiveness
can
be
intertwined
by
using
insecurity
as
the
buffer.
Be
aggressive
in
your
dealings
with
a
girl,
but
not
in
a
way
to
accommodate
your
insecurities.
In
other
words,
imagine
a
week
has
passed
and
you
want
to
ask
her
out
on
a
date
with
a
direct
approach.
Your
insecurity
or
fear
of
letting
her
pass
is
the
main
driving
force.
If
you
cooled
your
head
and
thought
logically,
you
would
defer
to
building
more
attraction
first
and
then
approaching
her
later
(or
cutting
her
loose).
The
moment
you
make
a
bold
move,
or
try
and
escalate,
should
be
after
youve
locked
her
in.
You
can
lock
a
girl
in
anywhere,
at
a
party,
a
hang
out,
the
movies,
any
place
where
she
can
be
isolated.
Once
you
isolate
her,
you
immediately
shift
to
your
game
face,
and
everything
from
that
point
on
is
the
same
as
chapter
3.
You
look
for
IOIs,
expect
shit
tests,
and
eventually
move
into
a
comfort
zone.
Have
her
begging
for
it
like
a
hooker
with
bad
credit.
Dont
tip
your
hand
early.
Patience
allows
all
of
your
actions
to
be
interpreted
under
a
subtext
of
confidence
and
preselection.
If
a
perfect
10
begins
to
see
that
you
take
longer
than
5
seconds
to
respond
to
a
text
from
her
(her
average
ETA),
she
instantly
assumes
you
must
have
more
options
than
all
the
other
guys
bending
over
their
backs
for
her.
Patience
is
the
sign
of
a
Don
Juan,
a
master
of
the
game.
His
acts
might
be
so
bold
that
one
assumes
there
was
no
thought
behind
them
just
spontaneous
passion
but
in
truth
all
of
them
are
planned
with
utmost
precision.
Patience
forces
her
to
play
the
more
reactive
role
in
the
relationship,
which
is
always
the
less
powerful
role.
For
a
girl
to
like
you,
she
cannot
be
the
person
with
more
power
in
your
relationship.
She
needs
to
not
only
respect
you,
but
defer
to
your
lordship
at
the
first
sign
of
danger
or
insecurity.
ALWAYS
FOCUS
ON
INTEREST
LEVEL
Getting
a
girl
to
agree
to
go
on
a
date
with
you
or
even
accept
a
relationship
with
you
cannot
be
the
barometer
for
success.
While
the
focus
of
a
seduction
revolves
around
the
target,
the
latent
goal
of
the
seduction
revolves
around
you.
You
woe
a
girl
because
SHE
makes
you
happy.
Only
date
girls
who
are
INTERESTED
in
you,
they
are
the
only
ones
who
will
be
able
to
make
you
happy.
Always
be
focusing
on
interest
level,
nothing
else.
A
girl
can
claim
she
is
interested
in
you
by
going
on
a
date
with
you,
but
the
truth
is,
she
might
just
been
bored
or
looking
for
another
guy
to
feed
her
a
free
meal.
What
you
need
to
pay
attention
to
are
her
actions
and
what
they
delineate.
I
like
you
means
nothing
youre
cute
means
nothing
we
should
go
out
some
times
means
nothing
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youre different from all the other guys Ive met means nothing I love you means nothing Penis in vagina is the only accurate meter of initial success. Over the course of you meeting a girl and turning her into a potential girlfriend, you will either notice a lack of cues or an abundance of them regarding interest level. Does she look for you when she comes online? Does she respond to your texts? Is she willing to spend quality time with you? Does she make an effort to explore your interests? If she doesnt, dont make justifications for her lack of interest, just see it as it is. When most guys see a girl not interested in them, they dont assign it to interest level. They look at other factors. The nice guy who gets dumped for a jerk assumes that women are broken and stupid and arent capable of gauging what they really want in a partner. But the problem isnt in women its in THEM. The girls interest level wasnt high enough because they werent able to increase it to a point that could cultivate a successful relationship. Interest level is linear, not a complex diagram. After a certain percentage, say 70% a girl will want to date you. If she says, Im too busy with school work, her interest is below 70%. The trap that men fall into all too often is assuming that a girls interest level might be higher, but rationalizing her actions with an external factor. If a girls interest level is above 90%, she will want to be exclusive with you. If she tells you I want to be exclusive, but Im afraid of getting hurt again, her interest level is below 90%. To save their egos from getting nuked, men will rationalize over and over to themselves her interest level is at 95%, but her fear is holding her back. No, interest level functions in only one way. Start seeing reality for what it is, not how you want it to be. Use interest level to weed her out if she doesnt like you. If after a week (or ideally a moment) of trying to get this girl, she doesnt respond to any of your advances, DUMP HER. If a girl refuses all of your ideas, if shes crying to you about another guy, if shes considering getting back with her ex, why pursue her? Low interest level leads to sleepless nights filled with regret. Eliminate women without a high interest level in you. The extra effort needed to seduce a girl not innately interested in you is never worth it. AMOGING If you want to take a girl away from the sexual market, be ready to fight for her. AMOGing is most important in this form of seduction because dealing with other Alphas during a pick up is trivial and dealing with other Alphas in a relationship is unnecessary. In a pick up if you get AMOGed, move on to the next set and remember what you did wrong. Hone your skills. In a relationship if a guy tries to AMOG you in front of your girlfriend, you dont have to care. Ignore him. She is invested in you enough to reject the advances of herbs. If she gives out her number
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to a guy because he out muscled you, thank him for saving you from the clutches of a Hoar. But in a seduction somewhat drawn out, you must be ready to dominate in every instance possible. AMOGing in its simplest definition just means lowering the perception of another guy in the eyes of other girls. There are direct ways to do this, like physical confrontation and titular power, and indirect ways, like through the subtlety of language. You can neg a guy just like you neg a girl, or disqualify him from a circle based on one of his characteristics. But these are more blatant forms of AMOGing; we are more interested in ways other gurus have never talked about. Use a mans social conditioning against himself. For example, all men have been conditioned from day 1 of their lives to befriend girls in a way to supplicate to them. Even if youre dealing with an alpha with knowledge over game, some part of him will still remember this dynamic and defer to it if you can force it upon him. For example, imagine the girl you like has three or four other guys liking her. If you can entice all of THEIR propensities to befriend her, you can desexualize them in her eyes. When shes talking about another guy, make the assumption that theyre only friends. Make her think to herself no I dont see him like that, and you will strengthen her need to LJBF everyone but you. In any social setting, you can instantly AMOG all the guys around you by making any type of overt statement on them. Imagine youre at a club talking to two girls and a guy walks over and starts talking to them while ignoring you completely. Retort with hey man, we were waiting for you to come over here and hit on them. We were actually talking about how well you can run game. Instantly his actions are perceived in an overt rather than covert light. The girls will be ready to exploit overtly masculine behavior, just as they always are. If he tries to turn the tables on you, it will be irrelevant because youve already established the first impression. You are the dominant character thus any future interactions between you and that guy will be filtered under this context. If a guy is trying to tool you, befriend him, and neutralize him. If he continues to nag on and on or tries to neg you, he will seem like the douche trying too hard to impress the people around him by forcibly establishing his dominance. Always do the opposite of what hes trying to do. If hes playing the neutralizing card, then you should tool him. The key of course, is to do either in a fashionably artful way so as to out-perform your opponent. AMOGing is a skill, just like talking to women. Constantly be leading the guys around you. Dominating other men is the prequel to dominating women. Acts of masculinity, whether AMOGing or chopping down a tree are necessary for a girl to see you in a different light. By AMOGing I also dont mean you should always act like a douche. You can be nice to someone but in a way that presupposes your authority over them. Command your environment.
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The
advice
above
should
not
be
misinterpreted
as
a
contradiction
to
aloof
game.
You
should
still
not
care
when
another
guy
comes
along
to
try
and
steal
your
thunder.
I
am
only
insisting
that
you
display
to
a
girl
your
ability
to
lead
and
dominate
other
men.
THE
BOLD
MOVE
In
a
pick
up,
escalation
can
occur
within
minutes
of
the
initial
meeting.
Liberated
from
the
auspices
of
social
stigma,
a
girl
will
feel
no
remorse
in
spreading
her
legs
for
a
puissant
alpha
if
she
can
hide
it
from
her
memory
and
peers.
In
a
prolonged
seduction
like
the
one
weve
been
currently
discussing,
much
more
is
at
stake
for
a
girl.
She
will
be
judged
by
all
of
her
friends
who
will
relentlessly
appraise
her
choices
in
a
cacophony
of
criticism.
Regardless
of
how
short
or
trivial
an
intimate
moment
with
you
might
be,
she
will
view
it
as
an
investment
rather
than
a
fling.
She
will
never
do
anything
without
plausible
deniability.
She
needs
an
excuse
to
do
something
regardless
of
how
pathetic
it
sounds.
Come
over
to
my
house
to
watch
my
rabbit
play
the
piano
will
work
better
than
come
over
to
have
sex.
It
allows
her
to
deflect
the
responsibility
of
intimacy
on
you
or
a
bunch
of
unforeseen
circumstances.
The
moment
of
escalation
will
take
much
more
patience.
It
must
be
executed
at
a
point
when
the
girl
is
aroused
far
too
much
to
resist,
and
where
she
feels
the
need
to
do
so
in
order
to
qualify
herself
to
you.
The
first
part
is
accomplished
easily;
see
the
earlier
chapter
on
building
comfort
and
escalating.
The
second
part
takes
a
steady
commitment
to
debauchery
and
a
fluid
code
of
ethics.
She
needs
to
think
that
if
she
doesnt
eventually
relinquish
her
heart
to
you,
she
will
lose
you
to
another
girl.
This
ultimatum
must
be
sub
communicated
to
her
by
acting
like
a
preselected
male.
If
you
audibly
give
her
an
ultimatum
(either
date
me
or
dont
talk
to
me)
you
place
her
in
the
power
position
and
yourself
at
the
mercy
of
her
decision.
It
is
not
empowering
to
give
a
person
a
confrontational
demand.
Best
case
scenario,
she
will
give
in
but
not
without
feeling
that
she
has
been
emotionally
black
mailed.
The
resentment
will
cause
excessive
shit
testing
during
the
first
trimester
of
your
relationship.
More
importantly,
she
will
retain
the
dominant
position
in
the
relationship
because
you
have
already
tipped
your
hand
and
showed
her
how
much
you
care.
Worst
case
scenario,
you
come
off
as
a
sulking
beta
and
she
instantly
loses
all
attraction
for
you.
Game
over.
You
can
escalate
almost
anywhere
at
any
moment,
as
long
as
your
timing
is
right.
You
can
closet
fuck
a
girl
from
work
in
the
janitors
cupboard
if
you
feel
the
stars
have
aligned
at
that
moment,
or
you
can
choose
to
wait
till
the
both
of
you
are
hanging
out
at
the
movies.
Alcohol
helps
in
the
sense
that
it
removes
a
girls
self-conscious
inhibitions,
but
not
to
a
point
where
it
removes
her
sensory
inhibitions.
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Start
by
going
a
notch
above
friendly
kino
and
see
if
she
reciprocates.
If
she
responds
with
more
closed
off
body
language,
take
a
step
back.
If
she
responds
openly,
take
another
step
forward.
If
she
responds
again,
take
a
step
back.
This
calculated
state
of
whimsical
push
and
pull
is
necessary
to
allow
suspense
and
traction
to
grow
to
its
maximum
potential.
If
you
move
forward
with
too
much
momentum,
the
entire
process
comes
off
as
happening
too
fast
and
loses
its
arcane
touch.
If
your
aim
is
to
establish
a
relationship
with
this
girl,
she
must
feel
as
though
the
entire
thing
was
set
up
by
a
power
beyond
her
comprehension,
not
micromanaged
by
you
and
your
game
book.
If
youve
successfully
escalated,
wait
2
or
3
days
before
asking
her
on
a
date.
Which
moves
us
to
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Chapter
The
Fifth:
Precoital
Adventures
I
am
Jacks
supreme
sense
of
irony
COUNTER
INTUITIVE
Dating
is
a
sham,
a
pre-relationship
mechanism
highly
rigged
in
favor
of
women.
The
entire
process
is,
for
the
most
part,
counter-intuitive
from
the
mans
point
of
view.
Maintaining
things
like
challenge
and
a
prize
mentality
are
difficult
when
society
insists
on
pedestalizing
women
far
beyond
their
rational
value.
Customary
traditions
like
paying
for
your
date
already
corral
the
notion
that
she
is
of
higher
value
than
you.
Factors
like
her
friends
and
circulating
gossip
work
in
tandem
to
constantly
delay
sex
and
subjugate
you
to
laboratory
testing.
In
a
field
of
mines
like
this,
only
men
of
iron
resolve
can
come
out
victorious.
Betas
will
either
learn
to
cherish
celibacy
or
let
their
self-images
become
commoditized
by
a
system
bent
on
castrating
them.
When
youre
dating
a
girl,
she
is
not
the
prize,
you
are.
In
a
world
where
men
are
forced
to
maintain
monogamous
relationships,
you
cannot
take
the
risk
of
settling
for
a
washed
up
hausfrau
or
a
part
time
H0r3.
By
placing
yourself
on
a
pedestal,
all
of
your
actions
will
be
contextualized
in
terms
of
screening
her
as
a
potential
mate
rather
than
the
other
way
around.
It
will
generate
challenge
in
her
eyes
because
she
must
qualify
herself
to
you
before
gaining
admittance
to
a
stable
relationship.
A
high
standard
of
selective
reception
is
the
type
of
provocation
necessary
to
drive
a
girl
crazy.
You
will
never
win
a
girls
heart
by
putting
her
on
a
pedestal
and
giving
her
what
she
asks
for.
She
must
be
constantly
challenged
with
the
crushing
anxiety
of
a
competitive
sexual
market
ready
to
pry
you
away
from
her
hands.
Challenge
is
the
overriding
imperative
in
the
dating
phase.
Dominance,
humor,
charm,
preselection,
all
cater
to
her
need
to
feel
challenged
in
her
effort
to
get
you.
As
long
as
you
are
the
prize,
she
will
feel
compelled
to
show
up
to
dates
on
time
looking
her
very
best.
If
this
sense
of
demur
faces
regression,
expect
a
slow
transition
to
a
more
lax
dating
scene
absent
of
sexual
marathons
and
dramatic
climaxes.
Women
want
to
be
the
approval
seekers;
you
must
make
it
a
priority
to
grant
them
this
fantasy.
If
you
feel
at
any
moment
that
the
dating
is
getting
boring,
withdraw
into
another
girl.
When
in
doubt,
always
pose
indifferent
and
distracted.
As
long
as
you
have
other
women
around
you,
a
girl
will
give
you
much
more
leeway
if
you
fuck
up.
Women
have
a
6th
sense
for
men
who
have
options,
especially
if
those
options
consist
of
women
hotter
than
them.
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ASKING
HER
ON
A
DATE
There
are
two
requisites
to
asking
a
girl
out
on
a
date.
She
has
either
clearly
expressed
interest
in
you,
or
you
have
successfully
escalated
with
her.
Ideally,
it
should
be
the
second
scenario.
If
she
needs
to
be
the
one
to
express
interest
in
you
to
make
you
ask
her
out,
it
means
you
shouldve
attempted
to
escalate
earlier.
Either
ways,
this
is
your
cue
to
proceed
ahead.
Never
ask
her
out
on
a
date
right
away
after
shes
said
I
like
you
or
youve
escalated.
You
wait
2
or
4
days.
Never
three.
Game
is
spread
so
extensively
now;
every
guy
waits
the
magical
3
days.
The
Don
Juan
is
always
the
exception.
If
every
guy
is
waiting
three
days,
you
wait
for
any
amount
of
time
besides
three
days.
When
you
ask
her
out,
you
do
not
tip
your
cards
over.
You
are
still
a
preselected
male
with
other
options.
And
if
youre
not,
pretend
like
you
are.
You
do
not
tell
her
I
really
enjoy
licking
your
ass,
can
we
please
go
on
a
date?
You
casually
ask
her
to
hang
out;
you
are
not
interested
in
dating.
The
term
dating
itself
refers
to
a
female-framed
dynamic.
What
you
are
doing
is
hanging
out
with
her
to
see
if
she
is
worth
your
time.
Never
ask
her
out
on
a
bland
dinner
date
unless
youre
in
high
school
or
college.
To
the
younger
generation
of
woman,
a
dinner
date
is
something
straight
out
of
a
romantic
novel
and
because
not
that
many
guys
have
asked
her
out
on
one,
it
still
has
the
profound
effect
of
novelty
on
her.
More
experienced
women
will
find
a
dinner
date
banal.
She
has
seen
it
all
and
heard
it
all
and
paying
for
her
food
is
a
supplicatory
remark
that
screams,
Im
just
like
every
other
guy
out
there.
The
first
date
should
be
emotionally
compelling.
Earlier
we
discussed
the
chemical
rush
of
love,
fornicated
by
the
alkaloid
PEA.
PEA
also
gets
released
into
the
blood
following
emotions
like
fear
and
excitement
(you
probably
already
heard
this
somewhere).
Find
out
what
scares
her,
and
push
those
buttons.
If
shes
afraid
of
heights,
take
her
to
a
bookstore
but
walk
there
and
take
a
path
that
forces
the
both
of
you
to
walk
along
a
high
bridge
overseeing
a
river.
If
shes
afraid
of
spiders,
take
her
through
a
forest
path
to
get
to
the
caf
you
want
to
go
to.
If
her
favorite
color
is
pink,
chew
a
lot
of
bubble
gum.
Incite
some
sort
of
emotional
response
from
her
and
she
will
associate
the
added
octane
with
your
presence.
Even
though
the
date
should
be
aimed
at
generating
an
emotional
response
from
her,
the
overall
preference
should
be
catered
to
your
taste.
If
you
like
scuba
diving,
ask
her
to
go
scuba
diving.
If
she
says
no,
request
one
other
thing.
If
she
says
no
to
that
too,
shes
gone.
You
are
not
here
to
embellish
other
women
with
what
they
like
to
do.
Your
main
goal
in
life
revolves
around
your
ambitions,
you
are
taking
time
out
of
that
goal
to
test
her
for
possible
value,
do
not
bend
further
than
this.
If
she
cancels
on
the
date,
paraphrase
your
discomfort
into
one
word
with
no
logical
support.
She
says
I
cant
make
it
today,
work.
Reply
with
k.
When
she
texts
you
back,
dont
respond.
The
responsibility
of
reinitiating
contact
must
be
placed
on
her.
Dont
leave
a
rambling
voice
message
about
how
youd
like
to
reschedule
because
shes
a
nice
girl.
If
she
cancels
on
two
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dates,
shes
gone
for
good
unless
she
volunteers
to
skip
the
date
entirely
and
go
straight
into
foreplay.
You
are
screening
chicks
for
low
interest
level.
If
she
acts
bored
during
the
date
or
refuses
to
comply
with
normal
standards
of
human
curtsey,
excuse
yourself
politely
and
leave.
Dont
waste
your
time
with
girls
who
arent
interested,
trying
to
fix
the
deficit
will
cause
more
harm
than
good.
Attraction
is
not
a
choice;
dont
settle
for
dates
where
the
chemistry
must
be
forced
upon
itself.
If
shes
an
eight
or
above
and
is
sure
she
has
you
by
the
balls,
cancel
the
date
last
minute
and
then
reschedule
later.
Cancel
50%
of
first
dates
especially
if
they
resulted
from
a
long-term
friend.
The
anxiety
of
unknowing
must
constantly
be
perpetuated
within
the
relationship.
Studies
indicate
that
people
are
more
attracted
to
people
who
like
them
back.
This
must
be
combined
with
the
notion
that
familiarity
breeds
contempt.
She
must
constantly
be
floating
between
thoughts
of
he
definitely
likes
me
and
does
he
really
like
me?
and
maybe
he
hates
me?
She
must
never
be
in
a
position
where
she
is
sure
of
anything
besides
where
she
is
sure
of
nothing.
Cancelling
your
first
date
has
the
added
advantage
of
being
the
first
one
to
initiate
a
dick
move
in
a
relationship.
The
first
person
to
execute
a
dick
move
will
maintain
the
upper
hand
for
years
to
come
because
it
becomes
the
first
impression
of
your
romantic
relationship.
An
asshole
reaction
can
be
used
as
a
weapon
of
retaliation
any
time
you
perceive
her
investment
in
you
to
decrease,
or
in
this
case,
a
weapon
of
preventative
defense.
I
would
save
the
dick
move
for
later
if
I
considered
a
girl
to
be
conventionally
good
and
withholds
from
too
much
shit
testing.
If
youre
feeling
bad
about
being
an
asshole,
its
probably
because
youre
the
one
whos
used
to
taking
it
up
the
ass.
If
youre
not
the
one
doing
the
fucking
over,
youre
the
one
being
fucked
over.
There
are
no
altruistic
relationships.
If
a
girl
plays
games,
she
has
to
be
cut
off.
This
isnt
because
theres
anything
wrong
with
playing
push/pull;
its
just
that
a
relationship
cannot
work
if
both
people
are
strategically
maneuvering
around
each
others
desires.
A
nice
guy
with
high
social
status
might
have
a
girl
fuck
with
his
head
to
make
him
fall
head
over
heels,
or
a
jerk
with
a
lot
of
game
might
make
a
chick
who
could
do
a
lot
better
fall
in
love;
but
in
both
scenarios
there
is
only
one
actor.
In
any
relationship,
the
person
who
cares
less
has
more
power.
This
balance
must
be
kept
near
50/50
but
slightly
tipping
towards
you.
CONVERSATION
AND
SHIT
TESTING
Although
these
topics
have
already
been
covered
in
the
pick
up
section,
I
deem
it
necessary
to
recap
and
expand
on
them
because
in
the
course
of
dating
a
girl,
they
are
explored
in
much
more
depth.
Conversations
tend
to
linger
more
on
one
topic
than
casually
flitting
from
subject
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to
subject
and
shit
tests
turn
out
to
be
much
more
subtle
and
indiscriminate.
The
key
to
acing
both
aspects
is
not
a
prepared
full-proof
response
or
method
the
way
you
do
in
a
pick
up,
but
to
adopt
a
mentality
that
will
allow
you
to
consistently
pass
them.
The
added
advantage
of
dating
a
girl
is
the
extra
margin
received
from
her
decision
to
date
you.
The
first
time
you
talk
to
a
girl,
failing
just
one
shit
test
can
cause
her
beta
alarm
to
go
off.
When
youre
dating
a
girl,
you
can
fail
2
or
3
but
as
long
as
you
revert
back
to
a
strong
frame
and
catch
yourself
before
you
fall
too
deeply
into
beta
backsliding,
you
can
come
back
from
a
rupture
in
your
game.
A
guy
who
talks
about
himself
during
a
date
is
a
verbal
narcissist.
No
girl
wants
to
here
a
guy
ramble
off
about
his
ego
or
his
accomplishments,
they
want
him
to
forget
to
mention
that
hes
a
millionaire
and
then
accidently
find
out
about
his
elated
status
after
facebook
stalking
him.
A
guy
who
asks
a
girl
to
talk
about
herself
is
a
push
over.
He
has
no
conversational
skills
and
shoots
question
after
question
interrogator
style
never
forming
a
sense
of
rapport
in
his
exchanges.
But
a
guy
who
can
make
a
girl
want
to
talk
about
herself
and
give
only
clues
about
himself
is
a
conversational
genius.
Enthusiasm
and
indifference
must
both
be
constantly
juggled
with
each
other.
Occasionally
start
preaching
to
her
about
something
youre
passionate
about
or
bring
high-energy
game
in
the
form
of
a
story
youre
telling
her.
Then
at
other
times,
act
emotionally
sated
and
laid
back.
Be
an
extroverted
introvert.
A
man
whos
friendly
and
loves
talking
but
secretly
enjoys
spending
time
by
himself
accomplishing
his
own
artistic
goals.
Be
Hot
and
cold
with
Kino
and
conversation.
When
you
neg
her,
touch
her.
When
youre
being
nice,
be
laid
back
and
indifferent.
Dont
be
aggressive
and
nice
at
the
same
time
or
passive
and
mean
at
the
same
time.
To
learn
the
right
way
to
talk
to
a
girl,
you
must
learn
how
to
correctly
listen
to
her.
A
girl
does
not
want
you
to
hang
on
to
her
every
word.
If
youre
talking
to
her
with
your
pad
out,
jotting
down
important
notes,
you
are
trying
to
impress
her,
which
strips
your
relationship
of
serendipity.
If
instead
you
act
aloof
while
shes
talking
but
then
out
of
nowhere
recall
some
obscure
remark
she
made
weeks
ago,
she
gets
the
impression
that
youre
both
a
challenge,
and
a
good
catch.
Patronizing
mastery
combined
with
a
hidden
penchant
for
romance
is
the
stuff
that
gets
bytchez
wet.
Remember,
combine
romance
with
indifference,
heartfelt
concern
with
rash
indifference,
super
human
memory
with
careless
neglect.
She
wants
to
be
surprised
by
your
ability
to
listen
to
her.
She
wants
to
be
impressed
without
you
trying
to
impress
her.
Every
conversation
post
the
initial
attraction
phase
should
consist
of
a
lot
of
head
nods
and
agreement
cues.
Occasionally
disagree
but
never
insist
on
arguing.
When
she
attempts
to
start
a
heated
debate
with
you,
give
her
a
candid
smile
that
says
you
dont
take
her
seriously.
Let
her
talk
about
herself,
your
job
is
to
create
a
comfortable
environment
that
makes
her
want
to
talk
about
herself.
Shit
tests
will
be
deployed
much
more
discreetly.
She
will
be
testing
you
without
even
knowing
it
herself.
The
key
to
passing
shit
tests
while
dating
a
girl
is
just
to
recognize
them.
If
you
know
when
a
girl
is
testing
you,
the
process
becomes
disillusioned
and
youre
much
more
prone
to
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thinking
clearly.
For
example,
imagine
she
asks
you
are
you
dating
anyone
else
right
now?
Your
first
thoughts
will
immediately
race
to
wtf
do
I
do?
Say
yes
and
make
her
think
Im
an
asshole
or
say
no
and
lose
my
aura
of
preselection?
But
if
you
take
a
step
back
and
realize
shes
trying
to
shake
you,
the
answer
becomes
clearer.
Evade,
evade,
evade.
As
long
as
you
dont
give
her
the
delayed
gratification
of
causing
your
frame
to
break
down,
you
remain
in
control.
Tell
her
Its
complicated
or
Just
One?
No
drawn
out
explanation
or
detailed
status
analysis
is
necessary,
just
keep
her
guessing.
ANCHORING
Anchoring
refers
to
the
human
tendency
to
associate
an
emotional
response
with
a
specific
external
stimuli.
For
example,
you
might
feel
a
sense
of
allegiance
when
you
see
your
countrys
flag,
a
sense
of
nostalgia
looking
through
your
old
yearbook,
or
a
feeling
of
romance
when
you
hear
a
song
dedicated
to
an
old
relationship.
In
relationships
and
dating,
anchoring
happens
subconsciously
although
they
can
be
controlled
to
a
great
degree
(NLP
and
speed
seduction
has
its
foundation
in
manipulating
anchors).
If
a
girl
comes
into
a
bar
for
the
first
time
and
immediately
feels
connected
to
some
guy
gaming
her,
she
associates
positive
feelings
with
the
bar.
If
that
initial
pick-up
leads
into
a
relationship,
the
ambience
of
the
bar
will
be
anchored
through
out
their
relationship
assuming
they
dont
over
expose
themselves
to
it.
This
is
why
couples
sometimes
go
to
the
first
place
they
met
or
their
honey
moon
years
later.
The
areas
are
anchored
to
positive
emotions.
Anchoring
is
important
in
all
respects
of
the
game
but
I
decided
to
include
it
in
this
chapter
because
I
believe
it
has
the
most
significance
here.
In
the
pick
up
phase,
you
can
close
a
girl
without
consciously
anchoring
her
to
anything.
In
a
relationship,
anchors
will
be
created
regardless
of
whether
you
intend
to
create
them
or
not.
In
the
dating
phase
however,
you
have
much
more
control
not
only
over
when
to
anchor,
but
what
to
anchor
a
response
to.
Always
establish
an
anchor
when
you
close
a
girl.
If
you
kiss
her,
give
her
your
scarf
or
if
youre
into
overkilled
clichs,
a
rose.
Assuming
you
eventually
enter
a
relationship
with
a
girl,
anchoring
the
first
kiss
will
make
your
job
of
resparking
passion
much
easier
(if
necessary).
Your
first
slow
dance
with
a
girl,
if
its
special,
will
be
anchored
to
the
song
in
question.
Be
aware
of
not
only
the
things
shes
anchored
to,
but
also
the
stimuli
youre
anchored
to.
During
dates,
establish
anchors
with
humor
or
dominance.
If
you
use
a
certain
facial
expression
whenever
you
say
a
funny
joke
(assuming
your
jokes
are
funny),
your
date
will
be
anchored
to
laugh
at
the
facial
expression
itself.
Establish
positive
as
well
as
negative
anchors.
David
DeAngelo
was
once
popularly
scrutinized
for
recommending
a
book
on
how
to
train
dogs
as
a
dating
guide.
While
the
advice
seemed
somewhat
bigoted,
it
was
golden.
Originally
anchoring
was
discovered
by
an
experiment
involving
dogs,
where
the
consistent
ringing
of
a
bell
followed
by
feeding
time
anchored
the
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dogs
to
expect
food
whenever
someone
rang
a
bell
in
their
presence.
Women
(and
men)
work
the
same
way.
If
a
girl
withholds
sex
from
her
boyfriend
and
he
caves
in,
he
anchors
sexual
pleasure
to
obedience.
What
follows
is
a
sad
regression
to
a
sexually
sullen
relationship
where
the
girl
constantly
uses
sex
as
a
meal
card.
Negative
emotions
should
be
anchored
to
stimuli
you
have
under
your
control.
Over
the
course
of
a
relationship,
a
couple
might
go
on
breaks
to
patch
things
up.
Every
time
you
guys
are
on
a
break,
cut
off
all
contact
and
wear
only
blue
colored
clothing.
Never
wear
blue
at
any
other
time
during
the
year.
From
now
on,
your
absence
will
be
anchored
to
the
color
blue
and
any
time
she
gets
mad,
you
can
give
her
a
post
card
of
the
ocean.
When
youre
leaving
and
you
know
you
wont
be
seeing
your
girlfriend
for
a
few
days
whether
to
let
off
some
steam
or
reignite
passion,
slam
the
door
behind
you.
Youve
anchored
your
disappearance
to
the
noise
it
creates.
You
can
anchor
certain
emotions
by
synthetically
creating
them
in
her.
Ask
her
what
her
ideal
lover
consists
of.
While
shes
talking,
rub
your
chin
or
engage
in
some
sort
of
esoteric
movement.
Youll
have
anchored
the
movement
to
her
idea
of
love.
The
next
time
she
sees
you
doing
the
same
thing,
shell
feel
a
familiar
fluttering
in
her
stomach.
Anchoring
positive
and
negative
emotions
to
your
attention
/
lack
of
attention
is
the
foundation
behind
conditioning
a
girl
with
a
reward
/
punishment
system.
Attention
serves
as
the
reinforcer
for
males
in
a
relationship,
if
a
girl
does
something
you
dont
like,
withdraw
it.
If
your
lack
of
attention
gets
anchored
to
the
action
she
partook
in,
she
associates
her
action
with
a
negative
feeling.
Condition
a
girl
into
being
happy
whenever
she
makes
you
happy.
Practical
requisites
must
be
met
for
an
anchor
to
consistently
work
in
your
favor.
They
must
be
tailored
to
a
specific
response.
If
you
slam
the
door
on
a
girl
when
you
get
back
together
as
well
as
when
you
break
up,
the
lack
of
congeniality
makes
it
impossible
for
a
specific
anchor
to
develop.
Anchors
must
in
intermittent.
Over
exposure
to
any
type
of
anchor
reduces
its
effect
on
the
subject.
Wearing
a
girls
fathers
cologne
helps
with
your
game
because
the
smell
is
anchored
to
feelings
of
subordination
and
pleasure.
But
if
every
guy
started
wearing
this
cologne,
she
wouldnt
associate
positive
feelings
with
any
one
guy.
Feelings
of
loss,
betrayal,
euphoria,
and
anger
can
be
metaphorically
embedded
within
a
conversation
to
elicit
a
desirable
response.
After
a
fight
for
example
if
you
text
her
the
next
day
and
say
hey
Im
leaving
on
a
flight
to
Canada
to
see
my
grandmother,
shes
sick
the
embedded
message
of
distance,
loss,
and
pathology
are
all
expressed
through
a
superficial
action
(dont
lie
about
a
sick
grandma,
Im
just
giving
you
an
example.
This
disclaimer
is
necessary
for
retards).
Anchoring
should
never
be
visibly
done,
especially
when
used
as
a
reward
or
punishment.
If
you
withdraw
attention
from
a
girl
because
she
did
something
wrong,
she
cannot
know
you
are
intentionally
withdrawing
attention.
Find
something
to
divert
your
focus
on,
like
work
or
the
gym.
Guys
often
falsely
presume
that
a
girl
must
know
that
they
are
being
ignored
as
a
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punishment;
nothing
can
be
further
from
the
truth.
If
you
overtly
communicate
your
intention
to
ignore
them,
you
still
offer
them
the
dominant
position,
as
they
are
the
ones
who
choose
when
to
fix
the
problem.
If
you
ignore
them
because
you
have
other
work
to
do,
the
problem
never
becomes
magnified
and
your
absence
still
gets
anchored
to
the
initial
mistake.
RULES
OF
ENGAGEMENT
(a) Compress
emotions
to
as
little
time
as
possible
by
taking
her
to
different
experiences
during
a
single
date.
If
you
consider
her
serious
LTR
material,
take
her
to
more
high- octane
dates.
"We
discovered
that
people
are
not
like
Neo
in
'The
Matrix,'
dodging
bullets
in
slow-mo,"
Eagleman
said.
Memory
trick
Instead,
such
time
warping
seems
to
be
a
trick
played
by
one's
memory.
When
a
person
is
scared,
a
brain
area
called
the
amygdala
becomes
more
active,
laying
down
an
extra
set
of
memories
that
go
along
with
those
normally
taken
care
of
by
other
parts
of
the
brain.
"In
this
way,
frightening
events
are
associated
with
richer
and
denser
memories,"
Eagleman
explained.
"And
the
more
memory
you
have
of
an
event,
the
longer
you
believe
it
took."12
(b) Never
see
a
girl
more
than
twice
a
week
in
the
beginning:
Necessary
protocol
to
keep
her
hamster
grinding
for
attention.
Combine
this
with
the
clause
above
and
you
have
the
perfect
blend
of
attention
/
suspense.
By
only
seeing
her
two
times
a
week
you
avoid
the
toxicity
of
over
exposure
but
by
bouncing
around
with
her
and
having
new
experiences
whenever
you
do
see
her,
you
compress
the
emotional
rapport
gained
from
a
weeks
worth
of
cuddling
into
one
or
two
days.
(c) Never
fall
into
routines:
Dont
text
her
once
every
morning
when
you
wake
up
or
see
her
at
the
same
place
more
than
once.
The
only
time
this
rule
can
be
violated
is
if
youre
anchoring
her
to
a
stimulus.
Otherwise,
keep
your
dating
experiences
out
of
her
comfort
zone
When
a
man
says
one
joke,
the
joke
is
funny.
But
when
he
says
ten
jokes,
the
man
himself
becomes
funny.
By
never
falling
into
routines
and
constantly
taking
her
to
new
12
Choi, Charles. (December 11, 2007). Why Time Seems to Slow Down in Emergencies. Live Science. http://www.livescience.com/2117-time-slow-emergencies.html
locations,
you
associate
your
own
identity
with
unpredictability
and
excitement
rather
than
the
act
of
going
somewhere
unpredictable
as
the
cause
of
unpredictability.
(d)
Never
offer
emotional
sacrifice
first:
Dont
say
I
like
you
or
lets
be
exclusive
first,
under
any
circumstances.
Someone
once
asked
me
an
interesting
question,
what
if
a
girl
refuses
to
submit
just
like
you?
Then
she
gets
dropped.
The
possibility
of
having
a
good
relationship
with
her
is
forgone
because
there
are
thousands
of
other
women
you
could
also
have
a
good
relationship
with.
It
is
more
important
for
you
to
avoid
huge
mistakes
than
to
maximize
every
potential
for
pussy.
Vagina
is
abundant,
you
will
find
another
girl.
Your
time
is
not
abundant;
you
will
live
a
very
short
life.
Dont
waste
it
all
chasing
ONE
girl.
The
point
of
game
is
not
to
maximize
every
possible
victory,
but
to
minimize
every
possible
loss.
(e) Transition
to
a
decreasing
contact
ratio:
in
the
initial
phases
of
dating
youll
likely
maintain
a
1:1
ratio
for
texts,
phone
calls,
dates
planned
and
such.
As
time
passes
and
the
girl
gets
more
attached
to
you,
youll
notice
a
higher
investment
of
attention
from
her,
which
you
should
reciprocate
with
a
lower
level
of
investment.
For
every
3
dates
that
she
plans,
youll
want
to
plan
only
2
and
so
forth.
Never
let
this
ratio
fall
two
low
or
youll
find
her
falling
for
a
more
charming
man.
You
need
to
balance
it
just
right
so
she
feels
loved;
but
not
unconditionally
or
to
the
point
of
gross
discomfort.
(f) Maintain
a
healthy
Attraction
to
Rapport
level:
For
every
one
romantic
line
you
throw
into
the
mix,
add
two
or
three
cocky/
funny
lines
that
remind
her
youre
not
a
clappy
beta
posturing
as
an
alpha
for
a
relationship,
youre
an
alpha
posturing
as
a
clappy
beta
for
sex.
Any
relationship
where
rapport
is
matched
with
attraction
at
a
1:1
or
greater
ratio
will
fail
under
the
heaving
pressure
of
growing
resentment.
Keep
the
unquenched
lust
in
a
relationship
alive
by
constantly
playing
up
your
game.
(g) Always
Keep
an
Eye
open:
Never
focus
in
on
one
girl;
this
is
the
cardinal
mistake
of
men
who
begin
dating.
If
a
girl
is
aware
that
her
pussy
is
the
only
one
you
have
access
to
and
you
have
no
chance
of
changing
that
any
time
soon,
she
will
use
her
intimacy
as
a
bargaining
tool
to
oppress
your
freedom.
It
bores
her
to
death
to
watch
you
squirm
for
pussy
and
she
is
checking
off
the
days
until
she
can
find
a
caddish
alpha
to
explode
his
globule
of
excess
fertility
on
her
face.
(h) Judge
by
actions
not
by
words:
What
she
says
is
irrelevant,
focus
only
on
what
she
does.
If
she
tells
you
shes
really
into
you
but
she
shows
up
late
to
every
date,
cut
her
loose.
If
she
says
shes
very
interested
in
the
possibility
of
an
LTR
but
cries
herself
to
sleep
every
night
thinking
about
her
ex
boyfriend,
cut
her
loose.
This
point
works
in
tandem
with
focusing
only
on
interest
level.
Her
actions
are
a
reflection
of
how
much
she
is
interested
in
you;
use
this
as
a
tool
to
measure
how
much
of
an
asshole
you
need
to
be.
(i) No gifts or flowers: Never gift a girl you are dating unless you guys have already declared exclusivity and six months have passed. It is impossible to give a girl a gift while
the
two
of
you
are
in
the
non-exclusive
phase
and
come
off
as
not
being
needy.
(j) Own
her
Body:
Leave
her
corpse
withering
in
septic
shock
after
youre
done
fucking
her.
She
is
to
be
treated
like
a
possession
during
sex;
a
blessed
commodity
burdened
with
the
sole
purpose
of
pleasuring
you
till
her
last
ounce
of
utility
has
been
extracted.
(k) Never
be
afraid
to
be
Machiavellian:
You
live
in
a
world
governed
by
bio-mechanics,
either
learn
to
adapt
or
adapt
to
learn.
You
are
not
given
a
choice;
reality
will
not
change
if
you
reject
it.
Use
jealousy,
calculated
absences,
and
premeditated
drama
if
you
must.
All
is
fair
in
love
and
war.
(l) Play
the
opposing
attract/rapport
position
based
on
her
level
of
comfort:
If
you
guys
are
out
with
her
friends
and
shes
comfortable,
ditch
her
and
talk
to
her
friends.
Show
off
your
ability
to
charm
and
dazzle.
Extra
points
for
flirting
with
her
best
looking
friend.
I
guarantee
the
best
blowjob
youve
ever
gotten
afterwards.
If
youre
with
your
friends
and
shes
feeling
uncomfortable,
pacify
her
worries
by
sticking
a
bit
closer.
I
guarantee
the
best
oil
massage
ever
afterwards.
Play
the
perfect
courtier.
(m)
Delay
showing
her
to
your
friends
for
as
long
as
possible:
Keep
as
much
as
you
can
about
your
life
under
wraps.
You
dont
want
to
keep
her
in
an
uncomfortable
position
of
being
in
the
dark;
you
just
dont
want
to
vomit
out
your
life
story
in
the
first
few
weeks
that
you
meet
her.
(n) Dont
lie.
Bend
the
truth
if
you
have
to,
but
dont
lie.
Pretending
to
be
someone
you
are
tangibly
not
is
a
show
of
bad
character.
If
you
get
caught,
you
lose
all
of
your
credibility.
Its
not
just
an
issue
of
trust;
it
lowers
her
perception
of
you.
Its
also
not
necessary.
Raw
game
can
make
up
for
any
deficiency
in
material
accomplishment.
(o) Always
maintain
the
position
of
less
reflexivity.
Get
less
mad
than
she
does
over
the
other
person
coming
late
to
a
date.
Care
less
than
she
does
about
not
getting
a
response
back
from
a
text.
Get
less
happy
than
she
does
when
you
guys
meet
after
a
while
(except
for
occasionally
when
you
should
show
unexpected
enthusiasm
just
to
throw
her
off).
(p) Never
have
phone
conversations
for
longer
than
20
minutes:
If
shes
demanding
that
you
guys
talk
more,
youre
doing
shit
right.
Never
forget
that
a
girl
telling
you
we
dont
talk
enough
is
better
than
we
talk
too
much.
There
is
no
such
thing
as
perfection,
she
will
always
be
complaining
about
the
former
or
the
latter.
Prefer
the
former
to
the
latter.
(q) Always
be
dating
more
than
one
girl
simultaneously
if
you
can
until
you
become
exclusive.
If
you
cant
date
another
girl,
double
up
your
efforts
to
talk
to
other
girls
while
youre
dating
someone.
Keep
yourself
sharp
and
on
top
of
things.
Optimize
your
appearance
and
external
image.
(r) Infiltrate
her
family:
It
doesnt
matter
if
you
do
it
positively
or
negatively.
If
her
family
loves
you,
they
will
vamp
up
your
position
by
elevating
your
social
status.
If
her
family
hates
you,
they
will
constantly
tell
her
how
youre
a
bad
influence,
which
will
intrigue
her
to
hang
out
with
you
more.
Bytchez
love
bad
boyz.
The
only
thing
you
need
to
avoid
is
having
her
family
call
you
a
loser.
(s) Dont
fall
into
the
trap
of
a
savior
schema.
You
cannot
change,
alter,
modify,
disassemble,
dissect,
fully
understand,
adjust,
amend,
morph,
transform,
reconstruct,
reform,
or
reshape
her
personality.
She
is
who
she
is.
If
you
dont
like
her,
dont
assume
you
can
change
her
with
a
relationship.
If
shes
a
whore
right
now,
chances
are,
shell
be
a
whore
after
you
slip
a
ring
unto
her
index
finger.
TEXTING Texting, like facebook, has revolutionized game. At first the idea seemed repulsive to me. I thought the growing rate of texting as a substitute for face to face game was another gizmo aimed at sapping our generation of its already allayed masculinity. Being shutdown in a cold approach or having an LTR tell you to your face that shes no longer interested is the type of paralyzing mental trauma needed to carve men out of stone. But as time progressed, the advantages became clear. Texting is more of a benefit to men who can cold approach than ones who cant. Because it is inherently a flaccid way of communicating with women, more and more betas exposed to game will rely on texting rather than face to face game as their primary method of seduction. The market for dry grinding will shrink decreasing the ratio of men stern enough to still learn how to say hi with their mouths. Following the laws of supply and demand, that means more pussy for men like you and me. Men who do know how to cold approach, can do both. There is no drawback to knowing how to game face to face, only the added advantage of being able to game multiple girls simultaneously with a lowered level of overall commitment. You cant talk to more than one girl on the phone at the same time, but you can certainly type out a line and mass text it to every girl youre seeing. Texting has brought game to a level of efficiency never seen before. Its necessary to maintain a level of glib laconism throughout all of your texts, except for the very, very occasional over-enthusiastic text aimed at keeping her thinking you might be taking cocaine on the side. Stay concise with your text messages; no one wants to hear a rambling beta go off on his lack of interesting things to say. The more you say in a text, the less things you allow a girl to wonder about, and the more things she has to think about. And if you havent realized by now, women arent very good at thinking. About anything. You want them to know as little about you as possible, and for whatever thinking that happens to be based on her subjective feminine intuitions which will characterize you as being much cooler than you
really
are
to
stay
in
accord
with
her
previous
choice
to
date
you
or
give
you
her
number
in
the
first
place.
A
good
rule
of
thumb
is
to
make
sure
your
texts
are
always
more
concise,
and
shorter
than
hers.
Generally
they
should
be
half
to
3/4
the
size
of
hers
but
dont
overanalyze
this
aspect.
Just
remember
that
if
you
find
yourself
bantering
too
much
about
some
unimportant
topic,
her
pussys
drying
up
like
severed
contact
lenses.
A
girl
does
not
want
you
to
explain
shit
over
a
text
message;
she
wants
you
to
smoothly
disregard
her
feminine
talk
with
the
same
Adonis-charm
youve
been
utilizing
thus
far.
One
word
messages
can
go
along
way
if
your
situation
requires
extra
breviloquence.
Saying
okay
for
example
and
nothing
else
leaves
expansive
room
for
interpretation,
the
kind
of
puzzle
that
makes
her
go
crazy
trying
to
demystify
your
meaning.
The
cryptic
nature
of
one
word
texts
and
their
inherent
brevity
make
them
alpha
by
nature.
They
generate
intrigue
much
the
same
way
as
a
one-minute
approach
would.
It
takes
advantage
of
a
girls
imagination
the
most
important
tool
in
your
repertoire.
Use
texts
as
a
way
to
measure
interest
level
after
a
first
date
or
during
the
pre-season
warm
up.
If
she
ignores
a
text
or
replies
extremely
late,
her
interest
is
too
low
to
pursue
with
dedication,
game
her
loosely
to
see
if
she
follows
through
later
but
have
other
options
available.
If
she
responds
within
15
minutes
or
less
and
not
with
a
one
word
reply,
her
vagina
gets
lukewarm
just
thinking
about
you.
Cut
out
cutesy
gay
shit
unless
youre
gaming
a
guy.
Smileys
are
to
be
used
with
careful
control
in
regard
to
their
intentions.
Betas
will
use
smileys
or
emotive
laughing
to
minimize
their
threat
projection;
Darwinism
has
made
it
most
favorable
for
betas
to
tuck
their
balls
inside
their
legs.
Historically
speaking,
barring
teeth
would
lead
a
beta
to
getting
his
balls
smashed
by
a
man
more
Alpha
than
him.
In
this
respect,
betas
still
smile
too
often
and
laugh
too
hard
as
a
way
to
raise
the
comfort
level
of
those
around
them
and
mitigate
their
own
dominance.
Alphas
will
smile
in
uncomfortable
situations
or
when
theyre
happy,
but
its
not
a
lingering
smile.
Likewise,
theyll
say
lol
in
a
text
when
something
is
funny,
not
as
a
precursor
to
a
random
statement
to
prevent
it
from
being
taken
too
seriously.
You
dont
give
a
shit
if
a
girl
takes
your
text
too
seriously.
The
only
time
its
okay
to
use
a
smiley
is
if
its
within
the
context
of
a
sarcastic
remark
or
to
clarify
a
sexual
innuendo
in
case
the
girl
youre
speaking
to
is
too
stupid
to
understand
your
elaborate
use
of
erotic
prose.
Never
use
terms
like
LOL
in
caps
unless
it
is
absolutely
called
for.
You
need
to
be
hard
to
impress,
not
a
giddy
beta
who
laughs
at
everything
because
hes
happy
another
human
being
is
texting
him.
The
interlude
between
texts
must
be
carefully
kept
track
of.
Never
send
an
instantaneous
reply
to
a
response
received
5
hours
late.
If
her
timing
is
excessively
bad,
like
a
day
late,
yours
must
be
jammed
in
between
air
particles
and
received
a
week
late.
Never
think
that
a
girl
will
Page 112 of 139
respond
the
same
way
if
you
act
more
dedicated
to
texting
her.
The
harder
you
make
it
for
her,
the
easier
she
will
make
it
for
you.
If
you
blew
it
with
a
girl,
send
a
random
funny
line
a
week
later
to
see
if
theres
any
chance
of
round
two,
unless
you
have
other
dating
prospects.
This
method
is
mainly
reserved
for
those
times
when
your
running
on
a
slump
and
you
need
to
milk
out
every
opportunity
possible.
This
technique
also
works
on
exes.
Text
an
ex
with
an
inconclusive
line
that
sounds
like
it
was
meant
for
someone
else
and
act
oblivious
to
your
error.
Never
have
a
phone
conversation
with
a
girl
you
arent
in
a
relationship
with.
Dont
reject
a
proposal
to
talk
over
the
phone,
evade
it.
Talking
over
the
phone
is
a
pure
commitment
similar
to
a
one-way
blowjob.
But
unlike
a
blowjob,
it
lands
you
in
the
friend
zone
because
of
its
platonic
subtext.
Phone
calls
should
only
serve
purposes;
texting
is
always
to
be
favored
in
terms
of
the
man
because
it
is
less
commitment
oriented.
Whether
youre
talking
to
a
girl
online,
over
the
phone,
or
via
texting,
never
hold
prolonged
conversations
in
any
form
besides
face
to
face
talking.
Texting
is
to
be
supplementary,
not
a
continuous
stream
of
communication.
You
must
make
yourself
busy
with
other
things
like
making
money
or
studying.
Mirror
her
texting
style.
Copy
phrases
she
uses
and
imitate
the
quirky
language
she
adopts.
Use
the
same
abbreviations
as
her.
Page 113 of 139
Chapter
The
Sixth:
Meta
Game
BE
FUNNY
I
found
this
subchapter
to
be
of
special
significance
because
Ive
never
read
a
PUA
guide
that
didnt
take
humor
for
granted.
Be
funny
by
being
funny
was
the
madly
illuminating
advice
offered
to
a
mafia
of
degenerated
acolytes
who
had
never
made
a
girl
laugh
in
their
post- pubescent
lives.
Being
funny
isnt
as
easy
as
it
sounds
for
people
not
acclimated
to
the
world
of
humor
but
its
not
a
difficult
trait
to
grasp
either.
Its
the
same
as
talking
to
girls;
some
men
had
favorable
upbringings
making
them
more
proficient
at
it
while
others
were
turned
into
lackeys
incapable
of
making
a
joke
even
if
their
virginities
depended
on
it.
Being
funny
starts
with
having
a
good
sense
of
humor.
You
need
to
be
able
to
laugh
at
things
yourself
before
you
can
make
other
people
laugh
at
them.
From
personal
observations,
Ive
concluded
this
is
almost
entirely
based
on
the
amount
of
exposure
a
person
has
to
the
satirical
arts
in
the
first
place.
Comedy
is
not
an
external
manifestation
of
something
spontaneously
generated
inside.
It
is
a
deflection
of
incoming
energy.
A
person
who
watches
6
episodes
of
family
guy
a
week
will
be
funnier
than
a
person
who
watches
only
1
episode
a
week,
ceteris
paribus.
The
more
you
surround
yourself
with
absurd
oddities
and
slapstick
images,
the
more
your
impression
of
the
world
becomes
a
hysterical
caricature
of
itself.
Comedians
(not
just
professional
ones)
have
a
different
way
of
seeing
the
world.
When
I
see
a
midget,
I
look
at
him
and
laugh;
I
dont
turn
away
in
blot
displeasure.
Ethnic
slurs
are
hilarious,
handicapped
people
prove
gods
love
of
insanity,
and
betas
offer
an
endless
supply
of
laughter.
Life
is
funny
as
fuck
(although
the
jokes
on
mankind).
Learn
to
laugh
along.
Watch
cartoons
and
comedians
the
same
way
you
watch
lesbian
porn
and
PUA
bootcamps.
Youre
not
going
to
copy
their
jokes,
but
the
style
of
their
delivery
and
their
content
will
give
the
backwaters
of
your
mind
more
material
to
work
on.
Rappers
listen
to
rap
songs,
poets
read
poetry.
The
more
substance
you
give
yourself
to
work
from,
the
easier
it
will
be
to
draw
from
your
own
mind.
Enrich
yourself
with
content.
Deploy
your
new
found
cynicism
in
your
social
interactions.
It
doesnt
help
to
be
funny
and
introverted
at
the
same
time.
Humor
is
a
socially
contagious
phenomenon.
Like
misery,
it
loves
company.
Preferably
do
this
around
people
who
are
funny
themselves.
Being
around
comics
helps
to
develop
your
wit
and
sharpness.
Being
around
lethargic
losers
who
complain
about
the
humdrum
of
life
all
day
helps
to
develop
premature
ejaculation.
There
is
no
greater
influence
on
your
own
ability
to
entertain
than
the
ability
of
those
around
you.
Funny
people
have
funny
friends.
Because
men
are
latently
competitive,
they
will
constantly
strive
to
make
the
funniest
joke
in
their
social
circle
even
while
laughing
at
others.
A
funny
group
of
guys
will
continuously
encourage
each
other
to
step
up
their
level
of
comedy
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the same way that alphas who sarge together repeatedly polish each others game. Any social circle that shares a similar interest will drive all of its incumbents towards perfection. The above policy of surrounding yourself with funny things should be done under sensible limits for two reasons. First, the marginal rate of return on all things in this world will reduce the benefit of your 1,000th episode of the Simpsons to lower than the utility of the 100th episode. Secondly, focusing just on comedy trades off with other aspects with your life. Being funny without being dominant or aloof makes you come off as a class clown. Expect to make girls laugh, but not wet. Clowns get laid much less frequently than the Motorhead Alpha who occasionally makes a snazzy remark. This balance between getting attention and trying to get attention should be achieved by letting any joke or comically driven act to come fluidly rather than forced out. If ever you find yourself trying to force out a joke as a way to attain approval from those around you, tell yourself to stop. Scream it out loud if you have to. Approval-seeking behavior immediately breaks down your frame. If you say a single funny joke, the joke itself is funny. But if you recite ten funny jokes, you become funny (credit to Mystery for making this inference). Theres no magic behind an eccentric aura, its just the consistent application of eccentricities that give you the aura of being unique. Do a sock puppet show for a girl, use quirky openers, and fill your life with the general weirdness you always longed to express. Do it with style. Have props to anchor a funny persona to. A hat, a hammer, a cigar, a shiny glove, a massive LED pendant necklace, anything that makes your image uncommon. An eccentric image makes it easier to make anything you do funny. If people anchor your image to the unexpected and the funny, your job becomes much easier. Comedy is a reflection of confidence because a joke always carries a certain amount of risk with it. Betas are funnier around men than women because they dont have the balls necessary to nimbly tread around the inflated egos of women. The combination of irrationally believing in yourself, a decent sense of humor, and a lack of approach anxiety allows you to freely express yourself without the worry of social ostracization. Smile confidently, but never laugh at your own jokes. The only exception being when you need to play off a terrible joke. Comedy works well to neutralize a girls protective shield, elevate your social proof, and give yourself a boost in confidence. Ever notice how girls are always quick to say I want a guy who can make me laugh but never I want a guy who can fuck me good? Humor is not negatively labeled by the matrix like masculinity so its more plausible for a girl to admit she likes a funny guy than an authoritatively dominant one.
Delivery
is
everything.
Sometimes
you
need
to
be
high-energy
for
a
joke
to
work
and
sometimes
you
need
to
be
laid
back
or
oblivious.
Having
good
delivery
emanates
from
having
the
confidence
to
deliver
well.
If
you
know
what
youre
about
to
say
is
funny,
youll
be
able
to
deliver
perfectly.
If
you
have
an
unshakable
inner
game,
you
wont
hold
yourself
back
from
being
over
animate
when
telling
a
joke
or
story.
While
comedy
is
mostly
universal,
men
and
women
have
a
different
way
of
reacting
to
jokes.
Men
are
more
focused
on
content
(the
contextually
of
the
punch
line)
while
women
are
more
focused
on
expression
(the
delivery
of
the
punch
line).
This
is
simply
a
matter
of
fact,
there
is
no
need
to
specialize
in
either
one
unless
you
hang
out
exclusively
with
women.
If
youre
in
a
circle
of
10
women,
focus
on
making
your
delivery
perfect.
If
youre
in
a
circle
of
5
women
and
5
men,
it
wont
matter
because
as
long
as
you
make
half
the
group
laugh,
the
other
half
will
follow
in
suit.
BE
MYSTERIOUS
A
womans
imagination
lubes
her
unquenched
lust
for
more
attention.
For
a
girl
to
fall
in
love
with
you,
she
needs
to
wonder,
whats
he
doing
right
now?
when
shes
not
with
you
and
whats
he
thinking
about?
when
she
is
with
you.
Honesty
has
become
the
largest
ideological
racket
for
The
Matrix.
AFCs
divulge
their
hearts
on
the
first
or
second
date
hoping
that
their
honesty
will
serve
as
a
prelude
to
engorged
vulvas
and
long
walks
on
the
beach.
The
popularized
myth
that
women
love
men
who
outwardly
project
all
of
their
vulnerabilities
has
ushered
in
a
loveless
dystopia
filled
with
men
quick
to
regurgitate
dry
facts
about
themselves
with
a
deluded
conception
of
game.
Nothing
could
be
further
from
the
truth.
Women
respond
with
prude
torpor
to
men
who
reveal
everything
about
themselves.
They
crave
mystery,
they
dream
of
climbing
severe
mental
inclines
to
win
the
affections
of
their
target,
they
fantasize
about
spending
weeks
regaling
over
a
great
mans
success
only
to
figure
out
what
makes
him
tick.
Bragging
or
telling
a
girl
everything
about
yourself
is
the
sign
of
a
rotten
beta
core.
When
a
girl
asks
you
a
question,
especially
when
its
a
shit
test
or
a
qualifying
inquiry,
treat
it
like
youre
a
king
being
interrogated
by
his
circle
of
concubines.
Patronize
the
question,
evade
it
with
semantical
genius,
circumvent
her
impassive
politeness
with
amused
mastery.
The
art
of
being
mysterious,
or
balancing
between
telling
a
girl
too
little
or
too
much
can
be
circumscribed
within
three
words:
Keep.
Her.
Guessing.
Her:
How
many
years
old
are
you?
You:
Guess
Her:
28
You:
wow
why?
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Her:
Am
I
right?
You:
Maybe
(Bad
Answer,
pushing
it
too
far)
Notice
how
if
you
push
it
too
far,
shes
no
longer
guessing.
Now
shes
concluded
that
youre
either
too
old
or
too
young
and
you
intentionally
dont
want
to
reveal
your
age.
Notice
the
same
thing
again:
Her:
What
do
you
do?
You:
Im
an
opera
singer
Her:
aww
come
on
seriously
You:
Ok
fine,
I
rob
jewels
for
a
living
Her:
haha.ok
If
you
maintain
an
adrift
attitude
for
long
enough,
you
lose
the
effect
you
originally
wanted
to
coax
out
of
her.
Her:
What
kind
of
watch
do
you
have?
You:
Its
European
Her:
Whats
the
name?
You:
Rolex
Her:
**Gold
Digger
Eyes
Light
up**
This
same
effect
could
not
be
accomplished
if
came
off
as
trying
to
impress
her.
Her:
What
kind
of
watch
do
you
have?
You:
ROLEX
MOTHA
FUCKA,
WATCHU
GOT
ON
DAT
BYTCHHH?!?!?!
(Fail)
Directly
impassive
game
like
the
example
above
doesnt
foster
enough
ambiguity
to
generate
mystery.
Always
answer
vaguely,
but
not
too
vaguely.
Dont
abuse
sarcasm
to
a
point
where
its
not
attractive
anymore.
Mystery
can
only
be
created
from
a
combination
of
a
lack
of
information
AND
a
desire
for
more
information.
If
either
ingredient
is
missing,
your
enigmatic
aura
is
broken.
Without
a
lack
of
information,
the
accumulated
facts
about
yourself
extinguishes
her
desire
to
learn
more.
Without
a
desire
to
learn
more,
a
lack
of
information
becomes
irrelevant.
This
is
why
no-contact
serves
as
a
nuke
for
a
flagging
relationship.
As
soon
as
you
withdraw
yourself
entirely
from
your
girlfriend,
you
recreate
that
sense
of
unknowing
in
her
that
pulls
her
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towards
you.
If
instead
you
push
further,
you
reveal
more
about
your
emotions
and
she
feels
compelled
to
withdraw
even
further.
The
desire
for
more
information
can
only
be
maintained
if
your
withdrawal
is
accompanied
by
a
cryptic
pretext.
If
you
go
no-contact
for
2
weeks
and
then
you
call
her
and
tell
her
Ive
been
ignoring
you
because
Im
mad,
the
Mystery
evaporates
and
you
become
a
sulking
beta.
Her
spellbinding
confusion
morphs
into
controlled
resentment
and
your
attempt
at
getting
back
at
her
becomes
a
filibuster
for
future
passions.
On
the
other
hand
if
you
go
no-contact
and
you
start
pursuing
your
career,
you
have
an
ambiguous
reason
behind
withdrawing
from
her.
The
mystery
is
not
so
great
that
she
assumes
you
are
being
spiteful,
nor
is
it
so
small
that
she
never
has
a
reason
to
detract.
She
begins
to
think
why
is
he
working
so
hard?
and
possibly
even
imagines
there
might
be
another
woman
in
your
life
youre
trying
to
impress.
She
will
pine
for
your
affections
as
her
new
found
lack
of
control
over
you
longs
to
be
squandered.
BE
DOMINANT
To
be
obeyed,
you
must
know
how
to
command
Behold!
The
worst
that
our
species
has
to
offer.
His
head
rested
on
her
shoulder,
arched
at
a
sickly
angle
such
as
to
perfectly
accentuate
the
prematurely
senile
state
of
his
body.
His
torso
drooped;
his
stature
was
that
of
a
saggy
vagina
brought
to
life
by
the
isolated
fatuity
of
a
voodoo
puppet
master.
He
sat
at
a
table
with
his
girlfriend,
sagging
on
her
shoulders
like
a
baby
being
nursed.
The
rest
of
his
friends
cringed
somewhere
deep
down.
The
maggoty
corpse
in
front
of
them
was
a
part
of
an
unnatural
spectacle
that
secretly
made
everyone
want
to
puke
their
fucking
guts
out.
A
malign
madness
better
left
ignored
until
its
user
sought
out
some
method
of
self-cure.
His
girlfriend
scanned
the
room
with
vacant
eyes.
Some
guy
across
the
floor
winked
at
her.
She
made
a
mental
note
to
pass
him
her
phone
number
near
the
end
of
the
night.
He
had
a
friend
with
him.
Maybe
shed
let
both
of
them
give
it
a
go.
At
the
same
time.
She
slowly
glanced
at
her
shoulder.
Ughh!
What
a
gruesome
sight!
She
stroked
his
hair,
propelled
by
the
bureau
of
financial
security
this
bad
dream
would
have
to
offer
in
years
to
come.
He
was
her
back-up
plan
in
case
Social
Security
collapsed.
Her:
Hey
Im
hungry,
can
we
get
some
food?
Him:
Ok,
where
do
you
want
to
go?
Her:
I
dont
know,
wherever
Him:
Its
up
to
you,
I
dont,
care
either
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Her:
Ok
but
can
you
just
choose
Him:
Why?
You
choose.
And
on
and
on
they
went
as
her
vagina
lost
more
and
more
blood
flow.
They
get
home
hours
later.
He
plops
onto
the
bed.
Him:
Can
we
do
stuff?
He
asked
for
permission
to
her
intimacy,
just
like
hed
been
taught
as
a
kid.
She
refused,
claiming
she
was
too
tired.
In
reality
she
just
wasnt
turned
on.
The
idea
of
a
feeble
man
who
exhumed
such
a
pungent
stench
of
weakness
touching
her
naked
body
made
her
shudder
with
shame.
They
wake
up
the
next
morning
and
she
says
shes
feeling
sick
and
wants
breakfast
in
bed.
He
obliges
with
the
hope
that
by
being
extra
nice,
he
might
get
lucky
tonight.
And
so
they
continued,
both
plunging
headfirst
into
a
non-existent
romance
that
would
rot
away
into
sulfuric
hatred
within
the
coming
year.
Dont
be
the
guy
in
the
above
example.
Dont
be
the
guy
who
says,
no
you
choose
when
your
girlfriend
says
your
choice.
Dont
be
the
guy
who
asks
to
have
sex.
Dont
be
the
guy
who
compromises
his
integrity
for
a
chance
at
ass.
Dont
be
the
guy
who
sprawls
the
remains
of
his
manhood
in
extended
phone
conversations
with
his
girlfriends
friends
asking
for
advice
on
his
ebbing
romance.
Girlfriend
show
disrespect?
Slap
with
cock.
Girlfriend
hungry?
Go
to
forest
and
kill
deer.
Bring
back
and
make
soup.
Girlfriend
say,
I
am
tired?
Tie
to
bedpost
with
titanium
handcuffs.
Sex
till
you
are
tired
too.
Girlfriend
say,
No
more
toilet
paper
Go
outside
and
chop
down
tree.
Make
paper
with
bare
hands.
Dominance
is
not
a
candid
declaration
of
ones
power,
it
is
not
the
establishment
of
authoritative
behavior
cycles,
nor
is
it
the
exercise
of
influence
over
a
womans
esteem.
It
is,
in
its
purest
form,
the
exploitation
of
a
womans
SELF-desire
to
be
seduced,
led,
and
loved
by
a
man
she
is
attracted
to;
it
is
the
employment
of
a
subtle
fascism
to
release
a
womans
subconscious
ambition
to
yield
to
a
world-bestriding
Alpha.
Women
WANT
to
be
seduced,
led,
and
loved.
It
is
not
by
nefarious
temptation
that
men
dominate
women
but
by
a
willing
deference
to
men
who
have
the
ability
to
lead
whether
by
resourcefulness,
charisma,
or
raw
audacity.
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Power
is
best
exercised
with
subtlety.
Overtly
attempting
to
control
women
will
breed
emotional
resentment
and
mistrust.
A
girl
must
internalize
her
deference
to
you,
you
cannot
insist
on
it.
Monogamous
trust
is
the
most
important
form
of
trust
for
a
man;
but
not
for
a
woman.
Women
will
always
say
otherwise,
ignore
them.
For
a
girl,
the
most
important
form
of
trust
is
provisional
trust.
Your
girlfriend
must
trust
in
your
abilities,
your
domineering
attitude,
your
confidence,
and
your
capabilities.
She
must
truly,
without
an
ounce
of
doubt,
believe
in
you.
Next
time
your
girlfriend
says
I
dont
trust
you
you
can
think
of
this
article
and
remind
yourself
that
her
trust
in
your
fidelity
and
the
integrity
of
your
words
is
almost
insignificant
compared
to
her
trust
in
your
capacity
for
alphaness.
Why
do
woman
insist
on
pursuing
relationships
where
trust
is
an
issue?
Because
unbeknown
to
them,
a
greater
form
of
trust
urges
them
towards
mutual
destruction.
They
have
unshakable
faith
in
HIM,
an
unconscious
yet
super-imposing
trust
in
his
ability
to
provide,
to
succeed,
to
seduce,
to
love,
to
protect,
to
solve,
to
imagine,
to
create,
to
improvise,
to
hunt,
to
NOT
be
a
giant
vagina.
Think
back
to
basic
biology.
Men
cannot
replicate
their
genes
if
their
girlfriends
are
promiscuous
hence
physical
loyalty
is
the
most
important
thing
for
a
man.
A
womans
reproductive
needs
are
fulfilled
whether
her
partner
fucks
other
women
or
not.
Her
provisional
needs
however,
are
dependent
on
the
amount
of
attention/nourishment
she
gets
from
her
partner,
and
the
amount
of
protection
he
is
capable
of
providing.
BE
ALOOF
A
precursor
for
aloofness
lies
in
ignoring
beauty.
Men
tend
to
take
women
seriously
because
of
their
own
desperate
circumstances.
Let
me
illustrate.
Women
love
Alpha
males,
and
they
love
Gay
males.
They
only
truly
despise
betas
and
Omegas.
What
do
Alphas
and
Gays
have
in
common?
They
both
display
a
lack
of
interest
in
women.
They
never
take
their
shit
seriously.
A
gay
man
will
slap
a
bitch
without
hesitating.
An
Alpha
has
no
problem
walking
away
from
a
9
who
shows
a
lack
of
interest.
The
beta
on
the
other
hand,
stands
there
whimpering
with
absolutely
no
intention
of
walking
away
because
he
thinks
that
theres
still
a
0.078%
chance
he
might
get
laid.
When
an
Alpha
sees
a
girl
with
big
tits,
he
thinks
to
himself
Ive
seen
bigger.
When
a
Gay
guy
sees
the
same
girl,
he
thinks
to
himself,
That
shit
is
bootleg.
When
a
beta
sees
the
same
girl,
he
has
a
seizure.
The
beta
cant
possibly
fathom
the
idea
of
ignoring
the
girl
with
tits.
He
is
easily
mesmerized
with
beauty,
the
thought
of
erotic
pleasure
paralyzes
his
game.
He
cant
neg
a
girl
thats
too
risky
for
him.
An
Alpha
can
neg
a
girl
because
he
doesnt
give
a
shit,
he
has
a
de
facto
harem
he
can
turn
to
if
things
dont
go
well.
The
gay
guy
can
neg
a
girl
because,
well
hes
gay.
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When a girl uses jealousy to coerce an Alpha into giving her more attention he doesnt notice. In fact, hes at the other side of the room flirting with her best friend. The gay guy is even further ahead in the race, hes flirting with the same guy as the girl and getting more IOIs (indicators of interest). The beta, oh the beta. When his girlfriend uses jealousy, his heart burns with utter anguish. He promises to discuss it with her when they are back at home. He must forbid her to talk to other guys at parties lest she realize that shes going out with a loser and that she can do much better. When a girlfriend complains to her Alpha boyfriend about how she doesnt want to have sex, he doesnt mind. He knows he can get other girls and if this charade continues, shell get dumped. The gay guy never needed her anyways, he was gonna use a massive shiny dildo. The beta begs her a thousand times. In his pleading, she loses even more interest from him. The next time they are out on a date, she fantasizes about blowing the waiter in the bathroom. He starts prostrating to her in the hopes that a submissive attitude will make her reward him with sex. As the relationship progresses, so does this dynamic of reward/ punishment, eventually reducing his existence to slavery. When a girl asks an Alpha to buy a drink for her, he replies with some witty remark. Why? Are you broke? When she asks a gay guy, he just starts laughing. When she asks a beta, he whips out his wallet in 0.3 seconds and doesnt even bother paying for just one drink. Instead, he gives her a wad of cash so she can buy her AND all of her friends drinks. Afterwards, he requests a dance, saying that if she agrees to go out with him, hell write her straight checks in the future. If you are single Realize that you have game and that women are only compliments to your life. If you are in a relationship You MUST accept the fact that there are THOUSANDS of girls out there who can make you just as happy, if not happier, than your current girlfriend. Only by truly accepting a mentality of abundance will your mind naturally shift to an attitude of amused mastery. DEEP ABUNDANCE is key. Look at the colossal figures of the pua community do you think they stop gaming after they close? If they close a 7 and theyre on a streak, theyll leave her to try and go close a 9. Would a beta do that? Never. Imagine if James Bonds wife said Im going to leave you. Would he take it seriously? Hell no. He knows hes gonna die within the next few months, this is a blessing in disguise for him. The nexus of aloofness lies ultimately in NOT BEING DESPERATE. You can afford to be aloof because you have an unlimited number of options. Even if you DONT have any options you must PRETEND like you do.
Aloofness
is
not
feigned
disinterest
it
is
a
MASTERFUL
way
of
displaying
an
uninterested
attitude
based
on
the
premise
that
you
have
seen
it
all,
know
it
all,
and
know
how
to
handle
it
all.
The
universe
is
your
playground.
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Chapter
The
Seventh:
Exemplars
THE
VOICE
IN
THE
WALLS
I
knew
this
feeling
too
well.
I
was
about
to
faint.
The
draught
of
air
amplified
the
vanishing
corners.
My
date
had
drugged
me,
that
much
was
obvious.
I
just
didnt
know
why.
This
icky
little
shit
put
a
benzo
in
my
drink;
but
the
truth
was,
I
knew
she
was
going
to.
Its
why
I
was
with
her.
I
had
this
sadomasochistic
fetish
not
only
in
sexual
conquests
but
in
business
as
well.
I
cant
count
the
number
of
times
my
friends
had
to
excavate
me
from
a
bad
investment,
tear
me
out
of
a
gambling
addiction,
or
take
me
to
the
manic
side
of
my
manic-depressiveness.
And
here
I
was,
about
to
pass
out
in
the
middle
of
a
mosh
pit
in
bumblefuck
Vermont.
I
was
hoping
I
was
going
to
become
a
part
of
some
Goth
sexual
experiment
involving
multiple
girls
and
me.
I
think
I
had
about
a
minute
before
everything
was
about
to
black
out.
She
whispered
to
me,
dont
worry,
Ill
take
care
of
you.
For
a
second
I
realized
how
terribly
wrong
this
could
go.
She
could
have
five
gay
friends
who
just
wanted
to
butt
fuck
a
straight
guy
to
release
pent
up
hatred
against
society.
If
I
was
going
to
become
a
part
of
some
sort
of
devastating
homosexual
orgy
it
was
too
late
to
do
anything
about
it
now.
My
butt
cheeks
contracted.
45
seconds
She
pushed
her
hands
down
my
extremely
weird
looking
patent
leather
pants.
I
cant
believe
I
was
dressed
like
this.
Man
the
shit
that
I
do
for
ass.
And
weird
ass
too.
Even
being
sedated,
I
got
a
boner.
Theres
something
about
a
girl
whos
a
9+
that
makes
every
erotic
experience
with
her
an
explosion
of
sexual
tension.
A
handjob
from
a
10
is
better
than
Viagra
stimulated
sex
with
fifteen
7s.
Everyone
at
this
club
was
dressed
like
a
vampire.
Normally
people
called
this
being
Goth
or
emo
but
here
it
was
something
so
much
more
gruesome.
Everyone
was
a
devout
believer
in
the
occult.
Do
you
trust
me?
I
said
yes.
Actually
I
dont
remember
what
I
said,
but
I
think
I
said
yes.
30
seconds.
Normally
I
only
date
human
looking
people
but
the
appeal
of
a
Frankenstein
girl
had
some
sort
of
a
bizarre
effect
on
me.
I
craved
their
weirdness;
Id
never
be
in
a
relationship
with
one
but
a
sexual
encounter
with
the
strange
was
too
good
to
give
up.
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20
seconds.
She
grabbed
me
with
cannibal
intent.
Her
gelatinous
friend
came
by
and
grabbed
my
other
arm.
Lets
get
him
to
the
car.
She
told
me
before
that
her
and
her
friends
would
sometimes
take
guys
into
four
or
fivesomes.
I
was
intrigued
at
the
time.
But
how
was
this
going
to
end
up
as
a
five
some?
I
wouldnt
be
conscious.
What
if
I
woke
up
naked
with
a
bleeding
ass
and
a
bottle
of
lube
next
to
me
10
seconds.
How
the
fuck
did
I
end
up
here?
It
was
my
cousins
24th
birthday.
She
was
a
model
for
suicide
girls
or
some
type
of
Neo- pornographic
website
I
didnt
care
enough
to
remember.
The
party
was
being
held
at
some
abandoned
building.
Id
have
to
dress
and
pretend
to
be
Goth,
which
is
a
lot
harder
than
it
sounds.
Goths
are
brutally
efficient
at
picking
out
wanna-be
Goths.
The
challenge
itself
was
somewhat
enticing
though.
How
do
you
peacock
in
a
room
full
of
Goth
Guys?
By
not
peacocking.
I
brought
along
3
of
my
friends.
A
wing
and
2
pivots.
I
looked
around.
Saw
a
target.
I
turned
to
pivot
A.
She
already
knew
the
drill.
Me:
Her
Pivot:
Arent
you
going
to
wish
your
cousin
happy
birthday
first?
Me:
I
already
texted
her,
theyre
doing
speed
balls
in
the
basement
[mixture
of
cocaine
and
heroine].
Pivot:
ok
this
is
fucking
weird.
Why
did
I
let
you
talk
me
into
this
Me:
Relax,
new
experiences.
Can
you
wing
me
now?
Pivot:
fine,
lets
go
grab
a
drink
first?
You
owe
me.
Me:
Sure,
but
Im
just
gonna
get
apple
juice.
Pivot:
Pussy
Me:
Respect
Bro.
Pivot:
The
guys
here
are
weird,
I
dont
like
weird
guys
Me:
Yah
they
probably
all
have
Herpes
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Pivot:
The
girls
probably
do
too
Me:
I
plan
on
wearing
condoms
made
out
of
Kevlar
Never
drink
too
much
at
parties
or
clubs;
it
fucks
with
your
game.
Taking
a
Couple
of
shots
to
loosen
up
your
anxiety
is
ok,
but
thats
all.
You
need
proper
wit
to
go
back
and
forth
with
a
girl.
More
importantly,
you
might
be
hitting
on
someones
girlfriend
so
youll
need
to
have
a
clear
head
to
defuse
a
situation
or
be
able
to
exchange
blows.
We
grabbed
drinks
and
approached
the
group
with
the
girl
that
caught
my
attention.
When
I
came
closer
I
realized
she
was
a
lot
hotter
than
I
expected.
A
solid
9
with
onyx
black
pendants
all
over.
Jet
black
nail
polish.
A
putrid
sexuality
that
for
some
reason
paralyzed
my
game.
I
was
speechless
for
the
first
10
seconds
we
entered
the
set,
letting
my
pivot
do
the
opening.
I
just
looked
like
a
sober
tard
with
no
social
skills.
But
we
knew
some
of
the
people
here
from
before
so
it
wasnt
too
difficult
to
nuzzle
in.
Normally
when
you
engage
a
group,
YOU
should
always
speak
first.
If
a
wing
knows
a
girl
you
dont,
still
opt
to
introduce
yourself
to
the
girl
rather
than
have
the
wing
introduce
you
to
her.
The
Alpha
way
is
always
to
take
initiative.
I
caught
eye
contact
with
the
target
and
held
it.
The
moment
when
you
and
a
girl
lock
eyes
on
each
other
is
an
implicit
shit
test.
Hold
it
until
it
feels
uncomfortable.
Thats
the
moment
you
pass.
We
chatted
up
the
group
but
remained
mostly
invisible.
They
were
talking
about
music,
not
one
of
my
fortes.
Its
too
risky
to
bullshit
in
an
environment
where
fakes
are
easily
discerned.
I
waited
politely.
The
conversation
shifted
to
philosophy
and
some
guy
started
talking
about
Philosophy.
Finally,
something
I
could
out-class
these
people
in.
If
you
talked
about
Foucault
at
a
regular
party,
youd
get
kicked
out.
Here,
it
was
a
way
to
build
social
proof.
Its
not
just
a
myth;
Goth
girls
are
significantly
more
intelligent
and
artistic
than
normal
girls.
Lawyers
and
political
cunts
rank
high
up
too,
but
they
lack
the
artistic
sublime
of
their
underworld
counter
parts.
And
theyre
also
generally
hotter,
put
out
faster,
and
are
muchmuch
better
in
bed.
The
group
disbursed,
I
approached.
Me:
Your
nail
polish
really
stands
out
[It
didnt,
everyone
in
the
party
was
wearing
black
nail
polish]
Her:
It
doesnt,
everyone
here
is
wearing
black
nail
polish
[Rude
voice
like
she
had
a
vacuum
stuck
up
her
ass]
Me:
Ahh,
I
see
you
hate
sarcasm
Her:
No,
just
bad
sarcasm.
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Sometimes
its
possible
to
build
attraction
in
situations
like
these,
but
sometimes
its
just
not
worth
it.
There
were
too
many
other
targets
around
to
continue
here
undaunted
and
risk
my
dignity.
I
ejected
and
met
up
with
my
wing.
Wing:
Lets
just
stand
here
and
look
cool.
You:
yah,
Im
sure
theyll
sense
our
game
and
come
to
us.
Wing:
Precisely
You:
Genius
Wing:
Elementary
Really
You:
Im
gonna
go
do
some
more
approaches
Wing:
Yah
me
too,
lets
keep
coming
into
each
others
sets?
You:
Yah
and
skip
introductions
if
you
want
to
run
solo
Wing:
ok
345
approaches.
All
fails.
A
couple
more
and
Id
get
blown
out
of
enough
sets
to
affect
future
attempts.
I
was
standing
against
the
wall
watching
my
wing
do
pretty
well
in
a
two-set
of
coked
out
bliss
with
both
pivots
when
someone
approached
me.
A
ten.
Again
I
almost
lost
my
wits.
I
just
wasnt
used
to
the
stuff
some
of
these
people
were
wearing.
She
wasnt
approaching
me
because
she
was
interested,
she
was
approaching
because
she
loved
the
feeling
of
guys
gawking
at
her
in
intimidation.
I
wouldnt
be
surprised
if
I
was
the
5th
or
6th
guy
she
was
approaching.
Ten:
Are
you
gay?
Me:
Thats
not
a
very
good
pick
up
line
Use
this
line
if
a
girl
trying
to
bust
your
balls
approaches
you.
It
flips
the
qualifier
script
on
them.
Ten:
[laughs]
Whats
your
name?
Me:
Darkness
Ten:
[laughs
again]
youre
almost
funny
[notice,
shit
test]
Me:
youre
almost
charming
Ten:
How
do
you
know
__________?
Me:
Im
her
cousin
Ten:
Oh
wow
I
could
see
the
resemblance
Me:
How
about
you?
Ten:
We
used
to
worship
Satan
together.
At
this
point
I
acted
unfazed
although
secretly
I
was
thinking
these
people
were
fucking
crazy.
Fucking
crazy
and
hot.
Ten:
Do
you
do
acid?
Me:
Only
when
life
gets
boring
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Ten: How about now? Me: Its pretty boring now but I can entertain myself talking to misfits [neg] Ten: [laughs] ok As we continue on talking, I maintain the aloof cat-and-mouse chase but its getting slightly harder. Every beta around us kept stealing glances at her. She was a genuine ten. I had to make sure to ignore her beauty. We kept talking, she asks if Im going to be at the After party. I was planning to head home with my wing and pivots but I decide to stay sensing her interest getting higher. She went around doing the same thing to a couple of other guys. I made sure she noticed me doing other approaches. Fast forward 4 hours. Were sitting on a couch. She comes in to kiss me. I wish she hadnt, if a girl comes in to kiss you, you arent gaming her properly. A girl who takes physical initiative immediately takes the power position and you become a virgin beta sex experiment. Some girls have deeper psychological insecurities that cluster themselves around sexual power plays like the one Im witnessing right now. Maintain frame control and you will be rewarded. Be the one to escalate, you are the man. We talk, have sex in the bathroom, she seems a bit too experienced in all this. More than me at least. Her body was a veritable warren of abnormalities. Piercings and quasi-pagan tattoos pervaded all of her skin. She wasnt kidding about being in a satanic cult. We exchange phone numbers, Im pretty sure she hooked up with another guy the same night. I talk to her for 2 weeks. With a girl like this you can expect consistent sex if youre good, but exclusivity is a long shot. The word exclusive probably isnt in her vocabulary. I find it progressively harder to get her out of my mind. My cousin tells me shes weird. My cousin is really weird herself so when she says someone else is weird, it means theyre fucking insane. Were laying down after sex; she tells me if Id be interested in a threesome. Normally Id overanalyze the question but this girl was purely in it for the experience. Me: With another girl? Ten: Or guy Me: Nah I dont want him to accidently slip it into my ass Ten: Youre homophobic? Me: No, just straight Ten: Sucks, straight people are boring [shit test] Me: yah, who would ever want to have sex with one? Ten: [laughs]
We talk about everything from aliens to religion and Socrates. Im not cuddling her; I have to make sure not a germ of neediness comes out. Post-sex is the perfect time to balloon your indifference towards a girl if need be. Get up first after climax, turn the other way around after sex, or get up quick and tell her youre hungry. Do this with an ex who uses break up sex to get validation from you and watch her ego melt into pettiness. She tells me about this group shes a part of. They practice ritualistic sex with outside members. A part of me agonized with the possibility of an opulent fantasy. I didnt want to know about the other preternatural superstition they were involved in but she told me anyways. Strange stuff. She calls me two days later. Normally I dont pick up her calls but I finally decided to give her a little leeway. Me: whats up? Ten: Is there a reason you always ignore my calls? [a crack in her armor] Me: Im intimidated by you Ten: Im going to Vermont, come with me? Me: Ive known you for a bit more than two weeks, you want me to come to Vermont with you? Ten: Yawhats the problem? I forget how different values can run across cliques. Me: What are we going to do there? Her: The first rule of Project Mayhem is, you do not ask any questions. Me: So now youre going to try and impress me by quoting Fightclub? Her: Just come or Ill rape you Me: If you rape me Ill probably come anyways Her: So youre coming? Me: Are you going to rape me? Her: Do you want me to? Me: Yes Her: You know I will right? Me: Its been a long held fantasy. Make it painful Her: Will do Stop _________ to impress me is a powerful DHV that can be used at any time. The statement assumes that the girl is trying to impress you so every time she answers it she acknowledges it herself. My roommates wouldve killed me if I told them I was going to Vermont with a deranged nypmophaniac in a subterraneous satanic circle who Id only known for two weeks. Theyd warn
me
about
all
the
weird
shit
these
people
did
and
how
they
practiced
human
sacrifice
and
body
atonement.
But
I
was
too
intrigued.
Fast
forward
3
days.
I
walk
into
a
contagious
nightmare.
The
entire
place
looked
like
an
altar
for
Cthulu.
Every
ounce
of
me
wanted
to
retract
to
beta
mode,
I
wasnt
comfortable
here.
When
youre
at
a
place
where
your
dates
comfortable
and
youre
not,
double
the
effort
to
make
space
from
her
and
flirt
with
other
girls.
Acting
uncomfortable
shoots
your
social
proof
down
to
the
sewers.
She
hands
me
a
drink.
She
did
it
too
fast;
I
could
tell
something
was
still
dissolving
into
it.
CRASH
We
lived
like
entourage,
but
without
the
absurd
amount
of
free
time.
We
all
had
to
work
12-15
hours
a
day
except
for
Frogs
because
his
dad
could
pull
out
bricks
of
gold
from
a
camels
ass.
Hermit
was
an
investment
banker,
Frogs
went
to
med
school,
Toad
did
something
shady
he
didnt
want
to
talk
about
(we
all
assumed
he
was
in
the
gay
porn
business),
Tadpole
owned
4
subways
and
I
was
an
independent
trader.
We
were
all
young
and
pretty
much
fresh
out
of
college
but
together
we
raked
in
a
7
figure
household
income.
Too
bad
we
could
barely
enjoy
it.
I
wish
I
could
tell
you
we
went
out
every
night
like
every
other
guru,
but
the
truth
is,
we
were
all
way
to
work
oriented.
But
Thursdays
and
Fridays
(best
days
to
sarge)
we
made
an
effort.
9
pm
on
Thursday.
I
take
20
minutes
to
get
ready,
never
more
than
that.
Its
important
to
look
good
before
you
go
out
for
the
confidence
it
gives
you,
not
just
the
extra
appeal.
If
you
find
yourself
piqued
about
the
way
you
look
or
wondering
if
you
have
bad
breath,
it
WILL
show
in
your
game.
Your
hands
will
drift
to
your
mouth
as
an
unconscious
way
to
cover
your
breath
or
youll
intentionally
hold
an
awkward
position
to
hide
your
body
as
much
as
possible.
I
take
the
basics.
A
pack
of
gum,
sample
size
of
cologne,
cell
phone,
wallet,
etc.
Never
forget
gum
if
youre
going
to
drink,
Torrid
breath
leaves
a
bad
first
impression.
Taking
a
cologne
sampler
is
optional,
but
I
like
to
smell
exceptionally
well
compared
to
other
guys
and
we
were
planning
to
stay
out
for
a
long
time.
We
head
out
and
break
up
into
three
groups
(someone
always
runs
solo).
Phone
numbers
were
worth
one
point;
k
closes
were
worth
3
points.
F-closes
granted
you
diplomatic
immunity.
Whoever
had
the
least
number
of
points
by
the
end
of
the
night
had
to
buy
dinner.
If
someone
was
doing
exceptionally
terrible
or
was
on
a
slump,
we
would
take
the
effort
to
order
a
shitload
of
expensive
things
we
couldnt
pronounce
to
give
them
added
motivation.
Slumps
and
bad
days
can
always
be
overcome
with
persistence.
Persistence
is
the
key
to
not
just
game,
but
life.
Dethatch
yourself
from
your
failures
and
use
them
only
as
learning
experiences.
Page 129 of 139
This
is
how
we
kept
our
game
at
the
acme
of
our
skills.
Me
and
Frogs
head
out
to
a
more
high
class
area;
equipped
with
tailored
suits
and
shiny
ties.
We
enter
and
casually
walk
over
to
the
lounge
while
talking.
When
you
walk
into
any
venue,
smile
because
you
know
youre
about
to
take
over
the
place.
Dont
hang
idly
near
the
front
scanning
the
area
like
a
predator.
Make
it
look
like
youve
been
here
before
and
your
only
goal
is
to
enjoy
yourself,
not
to
impress
anyone
or
get
laid.
Never
show
up
anywhere
with
an
approval-seeking
mentality,
always
have
an
approval-granting
mentality.
Frogs:
Theres
a
three
set
right
behind
you
Me:
Any
of
them
good
looking?
Frogs
Hell
yah
man,
you
gotta
see
this
I
turn
around
and
see
3
old
guys
talking
about
liberal
democracy
or
something.
Me:
Oh,
are
they
your
type?
Frogs:
[laughs]
I
was
kidding.
Theres
actually
a
pretty
good
five
set
on
the
other
side
of
the
room
though.
Two
gay
guys
and
three
girls.
Hes
right.
In
a
scenario
like
this,
approach
the
gay
guys
first.
Easy
way
to
gain
social
proof
and
the
sharp
contrast
makes
your
masculinity
stand
out.
Frogs:
Ill
approach.
Dibs
on
the
blonde.
Me:
If
you
let
me
approach,
you
can
have
the
blonde.
Frogs:
Fine,
dont
make
me
your
gay
best
friend
again
[referring
to
past
scenario
where
I
winged
him
but
made
him
look
gay
and
pretended
like
I
was
trying
to
hook
up
him
up
with
the
gay
guy
in
the
set].
Me:
haha,
ok
fine
We
casually
walk
over
to
grab
a
table
by
them.
As
were
walking
by
I
do
my
approach
Me:
Nice
suit.
[Gay
guys
love
fashion
compliments
from
straight
guys]
Gay
1:
thanks
man
Me:
Its
hard
to
find
people
with
good
taste
And
I
walked
away
to
our
table.
This
is
what
I
call
a
movie
opener.
I
open
slow
with
only
a
touch
of
kino
then
walk
away
with
dramatic
pause.
Never
continue
after
this
point
otherwise
you
lose
the
effect.
Walk
away
and
let
them
think
for
a
while
about
the
debonair
stranger
they
just
met.
The
longer
you
talk,
the
higher
the
chances
of
you
messing
shit
up.
This
type
of
opener
doesnt
work
at
clubs
because
the
music
will
be
too
loud
to
pull
it
off.
Nor
does
it
work
in
most
day
game
instances
unless
youre
sure
youll
be
within
proximity
of
the
girl
to
do
the
second
approach
a
bit
later.
Talk
slow
and
rooted,
like
you
have
social
proof
leaking
out
of
your
testicles.
If
you
get
nervous
easily,
go
for
a
high-energy
opener
rather
than
something
controlled
like
this.
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Frogs:
You
would
be
the
perfect
homosexual
Me:
Dont
get
your
hopes
up
Frogs:
When
are
we
doing
the
second
approach?
Me:
seven
minutes
Frogs:
Im
going
to
use
direct
game.
Lets
pretend
to
be
hedge
fund
managers
Me:
Were
too
young
to
be
hedge
fund
managers
dumbass.
Ill
pretend
to
be
a
lawyer
you
can
pretend
to
be
my
butler
Frogs:
Lawyers
it
is
Anyone
not
actually
in
the
law
field
assumes
all
lawyers
are
smooth
talking
slick
bastards.
The
reality
of
the
job
has
yet
to
be
exposed
in
popular
media.
Frogs
loves
lying.
I
dont
know
whats
with
him.
He
lies
even
when
he
doesnt
need
to.
I
find
it
extraneous;
theres
no
point
if
your
game
is
tight.
I
only
do
it
when
necessary
and
I
usually
wont
lie,
Ill
just
bend
the
truth
a
little.
They
looked
at
us
a
couple
times;
luckily
I
had
left
off
a
strong
impression.
During
the
second
approach
Id
have
to
tool
the
gays
otherwise
I
might
come
off
as
gay
myself.
When
you
are
approaching
an
obstacle
to
get
to
a
target,
never
spend
more
than
7
to
10
minutes
on
the
obstacle
or
else
your
target
will
assume
you
like
the
obstacle
instead.
Timing
and
strategy
is
everything.
Love
is
war.
Suddenly
Frogs
just
gets
up
and
walks
over
to
the
other
table
and
starts
talking
to
the
brunette
7.
Frogs:
Hi.
Im
sorry
but
my
friend
there
is
too
shy
to
tell
you
hed
like
to
talk
to
you
What.
A.
Dick.
Normally
wings
are
supposed
to
help
each
other.
Id
do
so
much
better
going
solo
even
though
this
was
more
fun.
He
AMOGed
me
and
used
it
as
a
reason
to
open
the
set.
I
have
to
admit,
it
was
a
pretty
good
move.
I
smiled
and
nodded
disapprovingly
like
he
was
a
stupid
kid.
It
was
the
only
way
I
could
think
of
not
coming
off
as
a
herb.
I
played
it
off
like
he
was
just
being
stupid.
He
joined
the
set;
I
pretended
to
have
a
phone
call
with
an
important
client.
I
didnt
want
to
jump
in
right
away.
When
youre
put
into
an
awkward
situation,
do
not
shift
into
awkward
body
language.
Maintain
Alpha
state
control.
Frogs
was
doing
well,
be
brought
high
energy
game
and
pretended
to
be
super
wealthy.
He
definitely
abuses
the
idea
of
stretching
the
truth.
Every
other
girl
he
fucks
thinks
hes
some
kind
of
and
up
and
coming
billionaire.
In
fact
I
think
theres
a
facebook
group
of
girls
hes
fucked
who
are
trying
to
raise
awareness
in
new
york
city
about
his
antics.
I
joined
the
set
later
and
naturally,
I
hit
on
the
blonde
right
away.
Frogs
had
been
ignoring
her
since
she
was
the
target,
but
I
came
in
and
filled
the
deficit
instead.
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Me: You have beautiful earrings, Topaz? Blonde: Howd you know? Me: Lucky Guess Blonde: You have good eyes I didnt actually have good eyes. I just overheard Gay2 telling frogs its going to be her birthday soon! and it was the end of October right now. Assuming her birthday is in November then, I guessed her earrings were probably Topaz. Always use information to your advantage. If your friends try and set you up with a girl, rather than stalking through her facebook photos, look at her profile and find out what she listed under favorite books and favorite movies. The more clairvoyant you can make yourself seem, the more spellbinding your game comes off as. Women want to be swept off their feet. They dont care if you do it consciously; they just want you to hide the fact that you did. Notice I used direct game in the scenario because I already had already built attraction in the beginning and through association with Frogs. Plus the girls were kind of tipsy. We bounce to get food at a nearby Diner. Frogs initiated the bounce. Thus far he clearly came off as more Alpha than me. Even his target, who I was originally gaming to fuck with him, was clawing for his attention. This is the power of having knowledge over social dynamics. When youre not doing as well as you want to be doing; you will know why. Hermit texted us. The club he was at was apparently like paradise. I tell Frogs Im about to go and he decides to come with. He number closes the blonde. I wasnt paying enough attention to the brunette to close her. She might have given me her number but I knew she would flake or her interest level wouldnt be high enough to try anything worthwhile. I didnt care enough about paying for dinner to try and grab a number out of desperation and I knew Id be able to come back later. Frogs picks up the tab before we leave (No matter how much girls will deny this, spending cash is a turn on). This is different from paying for a date to suck up. Frogs is spoiled as fuck anyways so never minds wasting money; and he was confident enough that he was going to close the blonde later to moisten her up now with some outgoing cash flows. Me: Well played sir. Frogs: Thank you, I got two numbers. Guess youre gonna be paying for dinner tonight Me: Howd you get two? Frogs: The gay guy Me: That doesnt count Frogs: Technically we never established that. The rules only state Whoever gets the least amount of numbers.
We walked into the club Hermit was in, he wasnt kidding. He was already hooking up with some chick by the bar. I was about to give him mental props but then I realized the girl hes with was a 5 and fat. Maybe even less. A bird in hand is worth two in the bush but a really ugly bird in hand isnt worth much at all. Frogs: A lot of really drunk people here. This is going to be easy Me: Yah Ill meet you at the bar in 30 Never approach girls that are too drunk, any rapistesque behavior should be avoided. Approach ones who drank just enough to loosen up their protective shields. Alcohol is like truth serum for girls, it melts them of their normal inhibitions. I walk around and approached a couple of girls solo. Got a few friendly returns, and got blown out once. Number closed one girl after using the Did you see the fight outside? opener. We talked for a bit and danced, she eventually had to leave with her friends. I asked her how could we continue this conversation? just as Neil Strauss would. She gave her number but insisted on taking mine too. High interest. She was a 7, but better than nothing. I find myself using lines from Mystery more than anyone else. Ross Jeffries may be conventionally considered the father of the seduction community, but Mystery has laid the groundwork for the upcoming revolution. If a girl asks you to dance, you have two options. I dont dance and smile with your diabolical grin or slowly follow her to the dance floor. If you have to refuse, do so in a non-shy looking way. You dont want to come off as being too self conscious to dance. The scenario you really want to avoid is the one where she has to drag you to the dance floor like a little kid. Met up with Frogs and Hermit after K closing another girl who had seen me with the first girl I closed. Be seen with 1 girl; get 2 more to like you. Be seen with 2 girls; get 3 more to like you. There are no marginal returns with women. The more you close, the more you can close. Hermits girlfriend came into the club. They were in the pre-exclusive phase. There are a few moments in life when a girls actions will really baffle you. Hermit was telling me just 2 days ago how this girl claimed she hated players and preferred guys who lived a Mormon lifestyle. She specifically said she wouldnt give the time of day to any guy who flirted with another girl in front of her. She walked in and covered Hermits eyes with her hands. How would a beta react to this? Probably with a sudden jerking motion, turn around and say, Heyyyyy!! What are you doing here? with a newly flustered circuit. Hermit was unfazed.
Hermit:
Hmmm.very
manly
hands.
Jessica?
Sara:
No
you
asshole
its
me!!
Ofcourse
he
knew
who
it
was.
He
didnt
turn
around
entirely;
he
just
looked
over
his
shoulder.
He
acknowledged
her
with
a
tone
of
voice
that
perfectly
combined
joy
with
disappointment.
She
was
about
an
8.
I
dont
understand
why
he
was
hooking
up
with
that
fat
chick
earlier
if
he
clearly
had
access
to
eugenically
superior
pussy.
I
guess
some
guys
really
need
variety.
She
hung
on
to
him
for
the
rest
of
the
night.
Her
friends
were
there
too,
but
she
no
longer
cared.
He
gave
her
attention
in
spurts
of
enthusiasm.
Right
afterwards
hed
look
around
the
room
with
hungry
eyes.
He
commented
on
how
much
fun
me
and
Frogs
must
have
been
having.
Her
facial
expression
twitched
with
worry
when
he
was
distracted,
then
pulsed
with
joy
when
he
gave
her
his
attention.
This
was
the
game
perfectly
executed.
This
was
a
girl
in
love.
He
accidently
number
closed
a
girl
in
front
of
her.
Youd
think
shed
try
and
get
back
at
him
by
giving
her
number
out
to
another
guy
right?
Nope,
she
went
out
of
her
way
to
reject
as
many
guys
as
possible
to
show
him
her
loyalty.
Betas
will
gawk
in
disbelief
when
they
see
things
like
this,
appropriating
it
to
some
odd
exception.
No,
this
is
how
all
people
work.
Usually
its
the
GUY
whose
running
around
with
his
balls
tucked
neatly
between
his
legs
trying
to
please
the
girl
hes
dating
with
magnanimous
displays
of
loyalty.
Hermit
was
denaturing
the
normal
dynamic
and
placing
the
girl
in
the
position
of
the
love-struck
beta.
For
the
rest
of
the
night
I
thought
Id
have
some
fun
pretending
to
be
working
for
a
film
studio
and
asking
people
for
their
numbers
to
be
extras.
We
eventually
left
to
meet
up
with
Toad
and
Tadpole
for
dinner.
Hermits
girlfriend
asked
if
he
was
going
home
since
it
was
getting
late.
She
wanted
to
imagine
him
as
the
good
guy
whod
recoil
at
the
thought
of
staying
out
later
than
his
girlfriend.
Obviously,
he
said
Hell
no,
its
early.
She
asked
if
she
could
come
over
later.
My
friends
make
me
proud.
Frogs:
Im
at
5
Toad:
like
15
I
think
Tadpole:
yah
same
here
Hermit:
Technically
Im
closing
the
girl
Im
dating,
so
Im
clear
Me:
27
Frogs:
Wtf?
How
did
all
of
you
get
that
many?
Tadpole:
Shark
gave
us
a
couple
of
numbers,
I
duno
how
HE
got
that
many.
Me:
I
pretended
to
be
a
film
maker
and
asked
people
for
their
numbers
to
be
extras
Frogs:
These
are
all
guysand
you
shared
numbers?
Thats
not
allowed
Me:
Technically
we
never
established
that.
The
rules
only
state
whoever
gets
the
least
amount
of
numbers.
Fuckin
con
artist.
I
hope
he
learned
his
lesson.
Page 134 of 139
LOVE
The
most
merciful
thing
in
the
world
I
think,
is
the
inability
of
the
human
mind
to
correlate
all
its
contents.
We
live
on
a
placid
island
of
ignorance
in
the
midst
of
black
seas
of
infinity,
and
it
was
not
meant
that
we
should
voyage
this
far.
The
sciences,
each
straining
in
its
own
direction,
have
hitherto
harmed
us
little;
but
some
day
the
piecing
together
of
disassociated
knowledge
will
open
up
such
terrifying
vistas
of
reality,
and
of
our
frightful
position
therein,
that
we
shall
either
go
mad
from
the
revelation
or
flee
from
the
deadly
light
into
the
peace
and
safety
of
a
new
dark
age.
Love
is
a
hideous
thing.
I
sat
there
with
my
face
buried
into
my
palms.
An
abjected
man
wallowing
in
a
psychotic
drama
undulating
around
him
with
unsheathed
cruelty.
I
was
28
years
old,
considered
successful
by
normal
standards,
yet
felt
so
defeated.
Me:
Why?
Her:
I
dont
know,
it
was
a
mistake
Me:
Why?
Her:
I
told
you,
I
dont
know.
Im
sorry
Me:
I
dont
understand.
Her:
Im
sorry
Me:
HowwhatHow
did
this
happen.
How
could
you
I
was
supposed
to
be
getting
married
to
this
girl;
I
planned
on
proposing
within
the
coming
year.
She
was
sobbing
heavily.
Tears
streamed
like
my
ducts
had
been
cut
open
and
burgeoned
with
steroids.
We
were
already
in
a
wayward
position
but
nothing
that
couldnt
be
fixed.
I
did
everything
right.
I
kept
competitive
anxiety
high,
I
treated
her
with
respect,
I
cut
off
contact
when
I
needed
to,
I
maintained
challenge,
I
had
other
options,
I
negged
her
with
succinct
charm,
I
owned
her
body;
yet
I
failed.
I
didnt
do
everything
right
though.
I
didnt
do
anything
right.
I
thought
she
was
different,
just
like
every
guy
in
every
failing
relationship
thinks.
I
started
buying
more
gifts,
I
started
being
more
needy,
I
started
texting
more
often;
slowly
I
watched
my
relationship
decompose
into
a
hopeless
nadir
of
petty
bickering.
Cut
off
all
contact?
Date
other
girls?
Remind
yourself
that
youre
a
man?
Snog
a
girl
whos
hotter?
Find
a
hobby
to
keep
yourself
busy?
Be
indifferent?
Work
on
your
career?
How
the
Fuck
are
you
supposed
to
do
any
of
that
after
a
3
year
relationship
and
a
$270,000
engagement
ring
in
the
closet?
Page 135 of 139
Imagine
youre
me.
Its
a
3
weeks
into
the
relationship.
You
have
sex
for
the
first
time.
You
like
this
girl
so
much,
its
already
harder
than
normal
to
escape
the
impulse
to
act
beta.
Youre
quietly
enamored
by
performance
anxiety
at
first
but
you
quickly
get
lost
in
her
beauty.
Its
the
best
sex
either
of
you
have
ever
had.
Its
6
months
into
the
relationship;
you
buy
flowers
for
the
first
time.
Youve
never
bought
flowers
for
a
girl
just
to
make
her
happy.
You
detest,
with
every
ounce
of
your
heart,
the
whorish
overconsumption
that
plagues
women
in
your
generation.
But
this
girl
was
different;
she
was
unburdened
by
the
oeuvre
of
status
mongering
that
mesmerized
other
women
into
gulfs
of
vanity.
Its
a
year
into
your
relationship.
You
practiced
stopping-short
while
jerking
off
for
all
of
last
week
in
preparation
for
today.
You
can
finally
last
all
night
instead
of
15
seconds.
Still,
youre
strongly
considering
taking
a
mild
dose
of
Viagra.
You
make
love
till
dawn.
Afterwards,
you
let
her
breach
all
the
insecurities
you
normally
guard
so
anxiously.
A
year
and
a
half
passes.
Shes
sitting
on
the
couch
with
your
frumpy
pajamas
on.
Youre
watching
Fightclub
together
for
the
3rd
time.
What
other
girl
in
the
world
would
want
to
watch
a
movie
like
this
more
than
0.5
times?
You
mention
the
theme
of
existentialism
and
shes
intrigued.
But
not
intrigued
in
the
way
cheap
hookers
are;
shes
not
just
doing
it
to
look
cool.
Then
she
wouldve
said
something
like
yah,
I
know
what
existentialism
is.
No,
she
picks
up
the
laptop
and
looks
it
up
herself.
You
talk
about
it
with
her
for
an
hour
and
you
find
out
shes
legitimately
interested.
A
week
later
youre
at
her
apartment
and
you
find
a
book
by
Jean-Paul
Sartre.
She
went
to
the
library
and
picked
it
out
because
you
had
casually
mentioned
his
name
during
your
conversation
with
her
on
the
couch.
She
wants
to
read
about
analyzing
objective
knowledge
because
youre
interested
in
it.
Its
23
months
into
your
relationship.
The
two
of
you
decided
to
go
on
a
break
after
a
bad
fight;
but
break
is
a
weasel
word.
You
cant
stop
having
sex;
you
cant
take
a
break
from
your
emotions.
There
is
no
difference
in
your
relationship
besides
the
fact
that
youre
now
emancipated
from
an
illusory
label
that
serves
no
purpose
other
than
to
infatuate
a
futile
desire
for
asylum.
Sure
you
cant
call
her
girlfriend
but
the
taxonomy
of
your
relationship
with
someone
else
does
not
measure
the
depth
of
your
feelings
for
them.
Its
your
second
anniversary.
Youve
been
fighting
with
her
for
the
past
few
days;
youre
still
not
officially
back
together
yet.
Neither
of
you
are
on
talking
terms.
Its
11:52
pm
day-before.
You
plan
on
going
out
with
a
couple
of
friends
at
12:30.
Youre
going
to
surreptitiously
flirt
with
some
of
the
girls
there.
You
need
to
keep
your
game
sharp;
you
know
the
rules.
11:53;
agonizing
minutes
pass
by.
You
thought
you
had
complete
frame
control
but
doubts
begin
to
creep
in.
You
try
and
shake
them
off.
Shouldnt
she
at
least
call?
Suddenly
you
decide
youre
going
to
close
today.
If
your
girlfriend
doesnt
want
to
get
back
together
with
you,
it
means
she
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doesnt
want
to
get
back
together
with
you.
You
are
not
stupid;
you
know
all
of
the
extraneous
details
are
just
clouding
your
judgment
through
ego
predicated
bullshit.
Clear
your
head.
11:54.
Maybe
you
should
just
call?
At
least
to
officially
end
it.
But
isnt
indifference
better?
Yes
but
maybe
you
should
still
call
anyways.
Or
maybe
not.
11:55.
If
shes
over
you,
then
that
means
shes
fucked
another
guy
by
now.
You
say
it
to
yourself
casually
because
youre
an
Alpha,
but
deep
down
inside,
some
part
of
you
is
seething
from
the
overdose
of
endorphins
your
body
just
injected
you
with.
Your
insides
curl
into
a
venomous
cobra.
11:56.
Fuck
this
shit.
You
take
a
shot
of
Patron
and
a
pill
of
Vicodin.
Waitshit
Vicodin
makes
you
impotent.
Whatever,
the
good
die
young
anyways.
11:57.
You
curse
her
out
in
your
head.
Fucking
swamp
cunt
cum
guzzling
bitch
ass
feminist
whore.
Damyou
really
love
her.
11:58.You
pick
up
your
phone
and
dial
her
number.
You
cant
take
it
anymore.
You
admit
to
yourself
that
youre
an
ass-lickin
vagina.
Youre
going
to
break
the
rules
of
game;
you
dont
give
a
flying
fuck
anymore.
Game
is
stupid
anyways.
This
is
real
life.
Busy
Signal.
WHAT.
THE.
FUCK.
This
fucking
unfettered
nymphomaniac
is
probably
talking
to
some
other
guy
who
pokes
her
anus
with
a
dildo
during
foreplay.
11:59.
Your
Phone
rings.
Its
her.
To
pick
up
or
not
to
pick
up?
Youre
not
going
to
pick
up.
No,
youre
going
to
go
out
and
fuck
the
shit
out
of
some
skanky
whore
in
a
club
or
finger
bang
some
washed
up
cougar
in
the
backstreets
of
Chicago.
The
first
ring
finishes.
You
cant
control
your
hands.
You
pick
up
the
phone.
Youre
voice
is
about
to
crack
but
then
you
double
back
and
revert
to
aloof
game.
Yo.
She
tells
you
she
just
called
you
10
seconds
ago
but
she
got
a
busy
signal.
You
realize
what
just
happened.
You
both
called
each
other
at
the
same
exact
time
and
your
calls
cancelled
each
other
out.
You
think
about
soul
mates
again.
Are
you
sure
they
dont
exist?
I
mean
how
could
shit
like
this
happen
without
a
Super
Omniscient
being
panning
it
out?
Whatever.
You
hear
her
sob.
She
tells
you
how
shes
missed
you.
She
asks
why
you
never
bothered
to
try
and
get
back
together.
You
tell
her
because
the
words
why
havent
you
called
sound
so
much
sweeter
to
my
ears
than
why
are
you
calling
again?
She
laughs.
You
remind
her
why
she
loves
you.
She
starts
crying
harder.
She
asks
if
theres
someone
else
in
your
life
now.
You
Say
no.
She
asks
if
you
were
going
to
go
out
tonight.
You
say
no
(*wink
wink*).
She
asks
if
you
could
please
come
over.
You
refuse
and
tell
her
to
come
over
instead.
You
know
how
it
works;
you
are
more
dominant
in
your
own
house.
She
comes
over.
You
get
back
together.
Everything
is
right
again.
Game
works.
Had
you
acted
like
a
sniveling
beta
and
begged
her
to
end
the
break,
this
moment
of
triumph
would
not
have
come.
You
wouldve
driven
the
chasm
of
indifference
between
you
and
her
wider
and
wider.
Secretly,
her
heart
thanks
you
for
not
being
a
pussy
(*wink
wink*).
She
is
unaware
of
how
her
own
emotions
work.
2
years
have
passed
by.
The
both
of
you
have
occasionally
flirted
with
the
idea
of
marriage.
Like
the
Super
Alpha
you
are,
you
intend
to
delay
commitment
for
as
long
as
possible.
You
have
no
intention
of
becoming
a
statistic
just
yet.
Its
her
birthday.
The
last
6
months
have
been
going
pretty
well,
and
shes
been
acting
extra
giddy
recently.
Its
because
you
just
hired
a
hot
new
assistant
with
a
much
tighter
body.
Women
thrive
on
challenges
like
these.
Youve
been
acting
extra
aloof
which
has
further
triggered
her
Hamster
into
Weapon-X
mode.
Shes
been
going
to
the
gym
more
often,
responding
to
your
texts
a
bit
faster,
and
running
sexual
marathons
like
an
Olympic
porn
artist.
You
decide
to
give
her
an
extra
savory
gift
and
take
her
to
a
country
in
the
South
East
during
Monsoon
season.
Like
every
other
sweetly
feminine
girl
engrossed
by
romantic
phantasms,
shes
obsessed
with
watching
rain
fall
and
treading
water.
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Its
a
dream
come
true
for
her.
You
spend
a
week
feeding
strawberries
to
each
other
and
doing
all
the
clich
things
the
both
of
you
normally
make
fun
of
other
couples
for.
Her
body
is
amazingbut
yours
is
better.
You
practice
tantric
sex
and
bemuse
her
with
stories
from
work.
She
tells
you
about
the
gossip
in
her
friend
circle.
You
accidently
leave
a
flirtatious
text
from
your
assistant
out.
You
have
a
small
fight
over
it.
The
sex
afterwards
was
better
than
all
the
other
times
combined.
We
were
having
a
bad
month
mixed
in
with
some
pretty
bad
fights.
She
calls
me
and
tells
me
she
needs
to
talk.
I
say
ok,
Im
staying
calm.
I
could
hear
her
crying
already.
Im
a
man,
I
can
handle
anything.
Ive
already
had
to
overcome
a
thousand
hurdles
to
get
to
where
I
am
in
life.
After
10
seconds
of
her
talking,
3
years
of
my
life
dissolved
into
nothingness.
I
meet
up
with
her
2
weeks
later,
only
for
closure.
Shes
crying
uncontrollably.
I
got
teary
but
swallowed
it.
The
Last
Time
is
always
just
as
unforgettable
as
the
First
Time
with
a
girl
you
love.
The
undimensional
pleasure
of
simultaneously
climaxing
while
vacillating
between
the
possibility
of
eternal
love
and
the
gnawing
clutch
of
separation
is
the
orgiastic
zenith
of
life.
She
convulsed
over
and
over
again
into
a
bevy
of
explosive
life-affirming
orgasms
that
sequeled
the
rhythmical
throbbing
of
our
love
in
tangible
form.
Each
time
I
watched
in
awe
as
rivulets
of
sweat
pounded
down
her
sexually
defecating
body
cooling
down
the
remnants
of
erotic
felicity.
She
would
masturbate
to
this
day
for
decades
to
come.
No
doppelganger
will
ever
own
her
the
way
I
did.
I
called
her
a
week
later
Her:
Hi!
Me:
Hey,
whats
up?
Her:
Nothin,
what
are
you
doing?
Me:
Nothing
I
was
just..
Her:
[cutting
me
off]
Hey
listen
I
was
wondering
if
we
could
Me:
[cutting
her
off]
I
have
to
tell
you
something
Her:
Yah?
Me:
Im
moving
back
to
New
York.
Her:
Oh
Ok
Can
I
ask
why?
Me:
I
want
to
keep
pursuing
my
dreams
and
New
York
is
the
best
place
to
do
it,
plus
Id
rather
finally
be
home
now.
I
havent
seen
my
parents
in
a
long
time.
I
could
hear
her
break.
I
almost
enjoyed
it.
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I couldve prevented this. I know how women work, I know how they think, I know I couldve done something. But its too late now. Its the end of a chapter, but life isnt over. I have a world to conquer. I had a hard time clearing my head during the drive back to New York. A pack of cigarettes helped. Even if I couldnt do it, maybe I can help someone else save the girl of their dreams, or learn to pursue life the way I do. Ill start a blog I figured, people need to know about this shit.
THE END