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Banter Lines

For when she says something dumb

Banter Lines

To suggest she’s hitting on you

The best way to deliver the lines below is to exaggerate how little sense she is making. This is a good time to be animated, and a slightly childish.

 

The lines below are meant to be delivered as it becomes clear you’re hitting on her. The way to deliver these lines is you know she wants you, but she won’t admit it.

What am I going to do with you:

The Cat’s out of the bag:

 

It’s a good thing you’re pretty cuz when those looks go you’re gonna be in trouble

What did you come over here just to flirt with me?

So what else do you like about me?

Now are you just making shit up as you go along?

 

Stop undressing me with your yes

Let’s play a game and see how long you can hold your breath

Did you slip roofies in my drink?

You’re aware you’re still talking right?

 

You’re looking at me like a fat kid looks at a cheeseburger

Bartender, I think you need to cut her off

Remember, you don’t want to come across mean or insulting, just playful and fun.

Remember, these lines work best if you’ve already used one of the other banter lines above. You NEED to banter immediately. If not, these lines can be taken out of context later in the conversation.

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Interest Signs

For before you approach her

Basic Openers

For when you can think of anything

 

Although I never recommend waiting for signs of interest before approaching a girl you want to talk to. (Don’t wait for interest to approach. Create interest by approaching.) Here are some signals girls will give to hint to you that she wants you to approach.

 

My favorite type of opener is when you comment on something that’s going on around you, or invite her into a conversation you’re already having. But if that’s not possible, use one of these.

Opening lines for any situation:

 

Signs that she wants you to approach:

Hey. You look like you’re having the most fun here out of anyone (said with relaxed sarcasm)

Hey. Let me guess, you’re from

Hey (yes, this works)

She gets closer to you in proximity

She keeps making eye contact or smiling at you

She eave drops on your conversation

She has a friend talk to you to fish for information

 

On the other side of this card you’ll get signs that she likes you and that should continue talking to her and begin escalating the conversation after the approach.

These openers are simple and will get a girl talking to you. In “easy” environments these are more than enough to get her attention.

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Fun Openers

For when you’re in a playful mood

Opinion Openers

For built in topics to talk about

   

While the situational opener is my favorite. Sometimes if I’m in a playful mood, Ill use one of these to ‘goof’ with a girl. Done right they are really effective as they quickly establish you as a fun guy.

Opinion openers are great for situations where you want to start the conversation off with an interesting topic.

Begin opener with “Can I get your opinion on something?”

Opening lines for any situation:

 

Do drunk I love you’s count?

Is it cool for a dude to wear makeup

Who lies more men or women?

What’s your favorite dinosaur

If your girlfriend kisses another girl… is it cheating?

You wanna know why you suck?

Do you think mic Jagger is sexy?

I’m lost I can’t find my friends and Im scared

Would you go on the Maury show to have a secret admirer revealed to you

The voices in my head told me to come over and say hi

 

Is it ok to break up with someone over text?

The important thing to remember about these openers is that they have be said playful so that she immediately assumes you’re just having fun with her.

 

If you use any of these openers make sure that you have the back story ready. These openers rely on you having a reason for asking.

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Motivation

How to get yourself to approach

Talking to Women

15 Tips to Keep in Mind

   

The best way to get yourself motivated enough to approach a girl is to change the meaning you give it. Instead of making it a life or death situation… simply aim to do one of the following.

 

Here are 15 tips to keep in mind while talking to a woman.

Attraction building tips:

 

Lead the conversation- don’t wait for her to dictate it

Ways to make approaching more fun:

 

Talk about topics that evoke emotions

Play a role (pretend you are an actor)

Pay attention to the non-verbal cues she is giving you

Be a detective trying to discover what she likes

Remember the motto: Women like “fun” not funny

Be purposely ‘uncool’ and a little goofy just for fun

Tease her

Turn it into a game

Take the conversation to rated r

Give her a story to tell her friends

 

Use things like cold reads to show you understand her

Practice Faking confidence

Avoid complimenting her too much

Doing any of the listed above will make the experience more fun.

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Teasing Her

What to tease a girl about

Conversation Topics 4 ‘go to’ topics

 

Teasing her in one of the best ways to begin flirting with her. IF you listen to her, you’ll find things to tease her about. Here are some things to look out for:

 

These topics will keep a conversation moving forward toward rapport, attraction, and sexuality. This is the exact order you should bring the topics up in.

Things you can look to tease a girl about:

The Four best topics to bring up:

 

Her bossy side

Glorified Gossip (drama, jerry springer type stuff)

Her “blonde” side

Double entendres

Her wild side

Her naivetés or gullibility

Her paranoia

 

Early childhood memories (tv shows, stories, playground)

Future ambitions (get her talking about her ideal life)

Observations about her (notice things about her)

These topics are so effective because they build rapport, provide hooks, elicit emotions, highlight your value, and lead to sexuality.

(more topics on back)

Basically you’re looking for things she says or does that demonstrate any of these things. (on the back are things to remember when teasing)

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Banter Lines

To set the tone of the interaction

Banter Lines

For when she’s acting bitchy

 

Ideally you want to get across 3 or 4 banter lines before you move into normal conversation The best way to deliver these lines is like you just realized something about her.

 

The lines below should be delivered with the attitude that you know beneath her tough exterior she is a cute little puppy dog.

I’m going to make you smile no matter how hard you resist:

Your knee jerk reaction to her:

 

Oh… we’ve got grumpy smurf here

You and I aren’t going to get along

You guys are tourist aren’t you

Don’t say anything, you’re cute… you’ll mess it up

Ooh she is very hostile when she hasn’t taken her nap

I love it when you talk mean to me

You’re cool. You can help me pickup chicks.

You usually hang out at the library don’t you

Oh, so you’re one of THOSE

I bet you have a real cute side somewhere. You just don’t show it

Stop playing hard to get. You know im better at it

Looks like someone put on their cranky pants this morning.

Don’t dwell on the banter line. If she pries to try to get you to explain more just let it roll off. Give a sly smile and change the subject.

These lines are meant for a girl who is not giving you much to go with

or

is giving you a little bit of an attitude.

 

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Interest Signs

For After you’ve been talking to her

Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

 
 

Its good to have an idea of where you stand with a girl after you’ve been talking to her for a while.

 

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep some simple strategies in mind.

Signs that she you should escalate:

How to create the best chance of success:

She tries to keep the conversation going so you don’t leave

 

Come in at the same energy level she is at

She tries to find out if you’re single

She keeps moving closer towards you or touches you alot

She gives you a flirtatious nickname

She’ll try to make future plans for the two of you to do

She laughs at all your jokes (even the unfunny ones

She is eager to introduce you to her friends

She calls you a “player” or “heartbreaker”

Don’t invade her personal space

Talk to her friends if they are around

Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it)

Don’t hesitate before approaching (she will notice)

Don’t overthink- be spontaneous

Have laid back body language

Use a time constraint

If you are getting a few of these signs it’s time to escalate.

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

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Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

 

Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

 

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep some simple strategies in mind.

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep some simple strategies in mind.

How to create the best chance of success:

How to create the best chance of success:

Come in at the same energy level she is at

 

Come in at the same energy level she is at

Don’t invade her personal space

Don’t invade her personal space

Talk to her friends if they are around

Talk to her friends if they are around

Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it)

Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it)

Don’t hesitate before approaching (she will notice)

Don’t hesitate before approaching (she will notice)

Don’t overthink- be spontaneous

Don’t overthink- be spontaneous

Have laid back body language

Have laid back body language

Use a time constraint

Use a time constraint

 

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

 

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Motivation

How to get yourself to approach

Talking to Women

15 Tips to Keep in Mind

   

Sometimes the best way to get you to take action is to get a slap in

 

Here are 15 tips to keep in mind while talking to a woman.

 
 

Attraction building tips:

 

the face with reality. Below are little doses of it that should inspire you to act.

 

Make statements instead of asking questions

 

Things to keep in mind next to you hesitate to approach:

 

Avoid “interview mode” you like the plague

You never regret the approaches you make (only the ones you don’t make)

Don’t hide your identity. Don’t blindly agree with her

Never compliment her on her eyes, looks or body

At the end of your life are you going to say I wish I approached less girls? Or more?

Say something that expresses sexual desire for her

Touch her

If you want to achieve greatness, stop waiting for permission

Use conversation games and take her back to the playground

Every “no” is one step closer to the girls of your dreams

Don’t give away your hand too fast. Let her work to keep you interested

Be prepared to do 90% of the talking when you first approach

An entire lifetime of sexual frustration can change with one approach

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Teasing Her

Things to remember when teasing

Conversation Topics 8 More topics

 
 

Teasing her in one of the best ways to begin flirting with her. IF you listen to her, you’ll find things to tease her about. Here are some things to look out for:

 

A

good topic should create connection, provide hooks, emotions,

sexuality, make you human, and highlight your best qualities

The 8 more of the best topics to bring up:

Things you to keep in mind:

 

Travel

Always be “playful” no t mean

Pop culture

Avoid teasing her about physical appearance

Observations of things around you

 

Be clear and remember girls aren’t always so bright

Lessons learned overcoming odds

If something works, go back to it throughout the conversation

Music

You always have to have the better comeback if she starts teasing you back

Food (oddly sexual)

 

Unusual experiences (meeting someone famous, scary)

 
 

Passions and interests

 

The biggest thing to keep in mind is to avoid making asshole comments and instead concentrate on being playful.