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Calendar of Events...
Want to win a Visa Gift card?
Here's the scoop: For the entire month of April 2013, donations made will be entered into a drawing for a Visa gift card! Details: Donations $1-$25 will be entered for a $10 card; Donations $26-$100 will be entered for a $25 card; Donations $101 -$500 will be entered for a $50 card; Donations $501 and over will be entered for a $100 card PLUS our very first Foundation t-shirt! Visit www.theEMMAfoundation.org and go to the How Can I Help? page for donation link and mailing information. You can also use the form at the end of this newsletter. Get ready for your chance to win and dont forget to share us with your friends! Proceeds will cover expenses for support groups and upcoming focus group.
Winner to be announced on 5/1/13 on our website & Facebook page
We want to thank our wonderful community members for providing space for meetings! Hedberg Public Library 316 S. Main St. Janesville, WI: Saturday 4/6, 1-3pm Mt. Calvary Lutheran Church 2940 Mineral Point Ave. Janesville, WI: Tuesday 4/30, 5-6pm
Support groups are open to victims and their families, we enjoy having friends of victims and their families join us as well. Having a support system is a crucial piece in your healing journey. We look forward to seeing you there.
Rachel, and The EMMA Foundation, has followed Suzzan from the day we found her!
A victim of child sex trafficking, survivor, and above all - inspiration. Suzzan shares her story of sexual mistreatment, pain, and healing through her amazing Art, writing, and blogging. We highly recommend her non-repentant, entrancing book of tales of her story and survival. This book is not for the weak of heart, but neither is the horror and pain child sex trafficking enthralls on the innocent lives of its trapped victims. Find Suzzan: www.suzzanb.com & http://theartofsuzzanblac.blogspot.co.uk Purchase her book, The ReBIRTH of Suzzan Blac, on Amazon.com
Suzzan Blac!
Battered But Not Broken: Healing through the Arts
Taking the stage with her story of survival of Domestic Violence, Cynthia Wilson has written a profound rendition of her own life. Battered But Not Broken Stage play set to break the silence on domestic violence. The play was written by Cynthia Wilson of Charleston W.V. and produced by Shelly Garrett - of Beauty Shop and Barbershop with Ice Cube. Get a sneak peek at what to expect, and where to purchase tickets as Cynthia takes this play on tour! Check out the promo trailer on YouTube: http://youtu.be/SYJJmpqtfpk
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What the Blog...an insight to the forum (posted 2/26/13 by Rachel Williams)
Is it Rape, or Incest? Giving abuse a politically acceptable name
RAPE. In any other realm outside of a family member would be referred to by its justified name, rape. My daughter was raped at age 3. I don't call it incest, I call it what it is, rape. Because it was done by a very trusted family member doesn't change what happened. The act is the same. Whether it was a family member or complete stranger, rape is still rape.
My daughter was raped at age 3. I don't call it incest, I call it what it is, rape
Being raped by someone in your family doesn't make it less of a crime. It doesn't change the outcome of the pain and trauma. If anything, rape by a family member magnifies the trauma. Most victims have the stress of seeing their abuser on a regular basis. Sadly, in most cases the abuse is continuous, most times repeated for years. Unfortunately for most victims in an "incest" situation they do not have the support of other family members, therefore, they don't tell and they don't get the help they need. Their opportunity to heal is taken away. It gets swept under the carper or hushed by those responsible for protecting these young victims. Turning your head to the situation doesn't make it go away, in my opinion, it makes you an accomplice! If a stranger grabs a child in your family off a playground and rapes them, most people would see that attacker gets justified punished. They would fight that to the end. The heartache of seeing your family member hurt in such a disgusting and traumatic way would hit like a ton of bricks. But when that attacker is someone in the family not everyone is so quick to take action. Why is that? Since when is protecting a family predator more precious than protecting the innocence, safety, and well-being of a child? The problem with child sexual abuse in a family is the abuse becomes a cycle. More and more innocent children become victims and before you know it the problem is out of control. It somehow becomes more and more acceptable. It spreads like a disease. Until we as families take the steps to stop the cycle, the abuse will continue and too many victims will suffer. One victim is one too many. I understand the definition of the word incest encompasses more than just child sexual abuse. However, when you take away the word RAPE just because it happens within a family you are taking away the shock and ugliness of what really should be called RAPE. "Incest" doesn't sound as bitter and calculated as "rape" - it's a little easier to ignore when it's just incest. We are not minimizing our daughter's rape. We continue to hold her attacker accountable despite the conflict it has caused in our family. It's time to stop sugar coating our words and call it what it is - RAPE. It's disgusting! It is not acceptable! Society needs to stop giving it a loop hole making it politically acceptable by giving it a different name - its still rape.
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The most damaging thing that happened to me from my brother, his friends, and my dad raping me was self-hatred
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