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WHAT IS LOVE ?

Love is …
as delicate as a rose petal

and
as strong as solid steel
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Love is so caring…

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Love is so romantic…

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 W. A. T. C.
H.
W= WORDS

A = ACTIONS

T = THOUGHTS

C = CHARACTER

H = HEAD & HEART

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Love
the
basic
human
value
 LOVE – THE MOST BASIC HUMAN VALUE
IN UNDERSTANDING

IN SPEECH

IN ACTION

IN THOUGHT

IN
UNDERSTANDING
 MAN’S LOVE ~
FREQUENT, AND
GENERALLY SHALLOW
[ LACKS DEPTH ]

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 WOMAN’ LOVE ~
RARELY,
[i.e. less frequently]
and more selectively
BUT MORE DEEPLY
& MUCH MORE INTENSIVELY

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 IMMATURE LOVE SAYS :

“ I LOVE YOU
BECAUSE
I NEED YOU ”

MATURE LOVE SAYS :

“ I NEED YOU
BECAUSE
I LOVE YOU ”
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 BE “LOVE” YOURSELF.
BECOME LOVE.
LET LOVE BE DEEPLY ROOTED
IN YOUR HEART – AND
GET RADIATED
IN YOUR
THOUGHT,
WORD &
ACTION.
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 RAINBOW IS THERE;
YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE IT,
FROM A DISTANCE.
BUT, YOU CANNOT GRIP IT,
HOLD IT, CATCH IT & PACK IT,
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WHERE THERE IS LOVE . . .
THERE IS ADJUSTMENT
FRIENDSHIP
SACRIFICE
UNDERSTANDING
AND
HENCE,
HAPPINESS & BLISS

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 LOVE AND HOPE
ARE THE ONLY REAL
THINGS
THAT MAKE US LIVE.
 LOVE
DOES NOT
DOUBT

LOVE
FLOURISHES
ON FAITH
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 UNSELFISH LOVE,
TAKES TIME TO GROW.
BEGIN WITH FRIENDSHIP.
LET IT GROW, SLOWLY, TO BECOME LOVE.
LET TIME REVEAL THE TRUE COLOURS.
SEE, WHETHER YOU AGREE OR DISAGREE
ON DIFFERENT ISSUES.
STUDY, WHETHER YOUR FRIENDSHIP
BECOMES,
OVER A PERIOD OF TIME,
WEAKER ? OR STRONGER ?

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 WHEN YOU BEGIN TO
UNDERSTAND
WHAT LOVE IS … &
WHAT LOVE IS NOT …

IT BEGINS TO BECOME POSSIBLE

TO CONTROL
THE EMOTION OF LOVE.
IT’S NOT THAT EASY,
BUT, YOU MUST.
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 LOVE IS . . .
RESPONSIBILITY.

CERTAINLY
NOT
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 MIND DESIRES VARIETY;
EASILY GETS ATTRACTED BY VICES.
THEN, HOW TO CONTROL ?
“BE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR VALUES”

LOVE FOR GOD

&
FEAR OF SIN
WILL HELP YOU A GREAT DEAL.
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 SELFISHNESS IS . . .
NATURAL;
BUT, IT REQUIRES TO BE

REGULATED,
CONTROLLED,
DIRECTED,
DISCIPLINED &
DIVINISED.
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 LEARN
TO HANDLE
THE EMOTION
OF LOVE

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 MAKES YOU
A BETTER HUMAN BEING ~

RESULTS IN
RESPECTING YOURSELF & ALL OTHERS,
BECAUSE YOU REALISE
THAT ALL OTHERS ARE LIKE YOU ~
AND, NEED TO BE
UNDERSTOOD, RESPECTED, & ACCEPTED,
JUST LIKE YOU DESIRE,
WITH CARE AND LOVE.

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