NOVEMBER 2013

a letter from

Chatter

But Jesus sends him a message back in Luke 7:22-23: Go back and report to John what you have seen and heard: The blind receive sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is proclaimed to the poor. Blessed is anyone who does not stumble on account of me. Johns faith was stumbling over what we all stumble over: Jesus is unexpected. He does things in funny ways. He asks us to do funny things in funny ways with funny consequences. And not ha-ha funny, either. Sometimes the way is painful, confusing, and punctuated by prison cells. But Jesus reassures John and us take heart! The evidence is in. Hang on and trust me. The beauty is already flowing, even if you cant see it right now from the confines of your 5 x 5 cell. John never got out in time to see all those healed people, the ones with leprous sores drying into soft skin, those with crusty eyes blinking in brilliant wonder. He didnt witness first-hand the loosened, joy-filled spirit of a widow who came to Messiah with nothing but the clothes on her back. He didnt get to see the redemption being ushered in. He had to trust the promise. He had to take the God-man at his word. John did the only thing he knew to do: he went to the right person and asked the right question. Hi, Jesus. Its me. Are you who really you say you are? And what did Jesus have to say about John? Did he hold him up as a cautionary tale? No, Jesus confirmed to everyone within earshot that John was indeed a prophet, yes, but even more than that: John was a spiritual street-sweeper. He had cleared the rocky, uneven roads so Jesus could have immediate access into the hearts and minds of a people so desperate for hope, so desperate for healing. Among those born of women there is no one greater than John, Jesus says. And thats high praise. If your obedience to Jesus has led to unexpected territory, sometimes all you can do is go back to the right person and ask the right question. No one is too big, too holy, or too good to start again at square one. Hi Jesus. Its me

Should we expect someone else? John the Baptist, the desert-dwelling New

Testament prophet, sent his disciples to ask Jesus this question. From the confines of Herods prison cell, he was curious.

John wasnt being unreasonable. From his miraculous birth, John had a special calling on his life. He grew up in the desert following the Nazarite vow a strict lifestyle code that set him apart as holy, one an ANGEL had prescribed for him and then emerged publicly as a messenger sent to prepare the way for Messiah. Heady stuff. John began baptizing in the Jordan River, preparing the people of Israel to be ready and worthy to receive their long-awaited king. His message was hope for an oppressed society. And then that hope appeared one day by the river: Jesus. In the flesh! John watched the dove descend and heard the voice from heaven: This is my son! Despite his camel hair garment and locust diet, John was seeing his vision for the future playing out as planned as prophesied. And then this: prison. No more ministry. No more riverside sermons. No more lined-up converts waiting to be plunged below the murky waters. Suddenly the flow was interrupted and replaced by a disconcerting darkness. So John sends his friends to track down the would-be Messiah. I just wanted to make sure: are you really the one who is to come, or should we expect someone else? Was John impatient, wondering why the new kingdom hadnt been ushered in? Was he questioning his sanity now that his ministry had grinded to a halt? The executioner was sharpening his sword was John fearful of what Jesus might or might not do to save him? Whatever prompted Johns question, the question itself betrays a very human, very un-heroic doubt. John had reason to worry, as we know. He never got back out into the action. In fact, he never saw the light of day, again; Herod served his head on a platter after an episode of dinner party bravado.

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Irving Bible Church: a community on a journey.

Thanks for picking up Chatter. Chatter is a publication of Irving Bible Church in Irving, Texas.
Why are we here?
IBC is on a journey committed to life transformation through Jesus Christ. We engage this journey by growing in Christ, connecting in community, and joining the mission. This commitment comes from Jesus words in the Great Commandment (Matthew 22:36-39) and Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20).

How do we do this?
Growing in Christ At the heart of the journey is the gospel of Jesus Christ, the story of the Son of God coming into our dark world to bring light, life, hope and transformation. The journey begins when we trust Christ, but it doesnt end there. Gods desire for each of us is for our hearts and lives to become more like the one who has saved us (Ephesians 4:11-13). Connecting in Community The gospel story draws us into a community of people whose lives have been transformed by Jesus. This journey is not one that we undertake alone. We are designed to do life together as a community of Christ-followers. It is essential that we walk with one another on the journey (John 13:34-35). Joining the Mission The gospel tells us that one day God will take all that is broken in this world and make it whole. Those of us who are on the journey together are called to be people who do what we can to make glimpses of that day show up in our day. We do this by telling the gospel story and demonstrating gospel-shaped love to a needy world (Matthew 28:18-20).

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Photo Update: Kenya Trip

IBCers from Tapestry (foster care and adoption ministry) provided medical supplies and educational resources to orphans in a local Kenyan community.

Sunday Worship at IBC: The Gospel of Mark

Becoming a Christian means embracing a Savior who calls us to follow him to live like he lived, love like he loved, and serve like he served. The last few chapters of Mark highlight two distinct aspects of the Saviors identity: Jesus as both the Suffering Servant and the Messiah King. As believers, we follow the Suffering Servant into humility and faithfulness. We follow the Messiah King into total surrender and ultimate victory. Join us Sundays at 9 a.m., 10:45 a.m. or 5 p.m.

Beginnings of Hope
The 2012 IBC Womens Christmas Dinner was much more than beautiful tables, good food, and fabulous music. It was a chance for American women to come together in support of their African sisters who have faced the worst of the worst. Last years Womens Christmas Dinner at IBC raised funds to send 75 victims of rape, trauma, and abuse to an ALARM-sponsored healing conference. Trauma healing conferences target women from various regions, tribal affiliations, and denominations. Women gathered for 37 days to obtain a sound understanding of biblical forgiveness, reconciliation, and mediation with the goal of personal application and commitment to share the information they receive. Healing is never easy, and the road to recovery is long. The women in Congo have faced unimaginable circumstances that shock us and move us into action. But there is light and life at work in Congo through IBC partner ALARM and others. And this December, you can be a part of the solution once again.

IBCer Katherine Holloway with women from the Trauma Healing Conference.

MASIKA JUSTINE

So many women have been widowed as a result of Congos bloody civil war. And like many widows, Masika Justine was left with three children to care for alone with meager resources. She built her livelihood selling charcoal, a business that requires some foot travel. One day while walking to the town of Mweso (about 120 kms from Goma) to buy inventory to sell, Masika was ambushed in the bush and raped by two attackers. As if the terrible trauma of that experience alone was not enough, Masiko tragically contracted HIV /AIDs as a result. But the suffering didnt end there. When Masikas own family heard about the rape and later discovered that she was infected by HIV, they all rejected her except for her father, who understood that it was not her fault. (The tribal culture shames women who are victims of rape.) When Masika was selected to attended the ALARM conference, her journey toward healing finally began: first, by hearing the testimonies of other women who had been raped and infected by the same illness; secondly, by absorbing the teachings brought by the volunteer leaders from IBC and others. Through the conference, Masika discovered the true love of Jesus. And almost impossible to believe, Masika also claims she has now decided to forgive both the abusers and the family members who rejected her. Since her time at the conference, Masika has been more willing to share her painful memories with other women, and is even helping the widows in the camp where she lives with the encouragement and information she received. Specifically, Masika says she will never forget the teachings on shame and culpability, and the verse : Do not be afraid; you will not suffer shame. Do not fear disgrace; you will not be humiliated. You will forget the shame of your youth and remember no more the reproach of your widowhood (Isaiah 54:4).

Now encouraged and comforted by her sisters in Christ, Masika perseveres to retain what she learned at the conference while continuing to develop her small business.
THERESE NDEMBA

Its difficult for Americans to understand the stigma of HIV/AIDs when it comes to family dynamics in a tribal culture. Therese Ndemba is a 45 year-old mother with three children, living with the taboo disease. When her extended family discovered that she was infected, they all discriminated against her shunning and belittling her except for one of her sisters, who eventually turned on her as well. Unsurprisingly, Therese began developing hatred and bitterness towards everybody she encountered especially those closest to her. And then she came to the trauma conference. By the grace of God, said Therese, I participated in the conference organized by ALARM and realized that I could forgive everyone. Amazing words from someone so hurt and vulnerable. Therese continues : I started to write small messages by the phone telling the members of the family that I have already forgiven them for the bad behavior against me. God worked through them, and now some of them can help me. Therese says that now her hopelessness has turned into hope. As if in defiance of her illness and pain, Therese has since returned to the university she had left mid-crises and has now graduated. In addition, she is a leader in the Hope Center, a ministry that works with women with HIV/AIDS as well as those those who have been raped. Therese is very grateful for ALARM and the IBC team, saying recently, Now, I live because of ALARM teachings.
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IBC Womens Christmas Dinner Tuesday, December 3, 69 p.m.

Usher in the Christmas season with a delicious meal, unique tablescapes, and a Christmas concert by worship artist, Sara Taylor. All raffle proceeds will be used to empower women in Africa*. Invite the special women in your life and make plans now to attend. When: Tuesday, December 3, 6-9 p.m. Where: IBC, Town Square and Worship Center Cost: $20 per person (*Raffle tickets are also available for purchase at the dinner.) Register: Online registration is not available. Tickets will be sold every Sunday in November after each service. Questions? Contact Tiffany at tstein@irvingbible.org.

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CONGO: THE SAD REALITY

The Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) has, for the last 15 years, been engulfed in violent conflict that has claimed upwards of 5.4 million lives and displaced over a million people from their homes. Between 1998 and 2004, Congos war drew in six other nations in what is often described as Africas World War, and the worst war the world has seen since World War II. A peace accord was finally implemented in 2003, bringing an official end to Congos second war in 2004. However, armed, rogue militia groups continue to ravage the eastern portion of the country, creating a heightened sense of distrust between tribes. According to the International Rescue Committee, death rates in the DRC have remained unchanged since the war ended, averaging 45,000 people a month from hunger, preventable disease, and other consequences of violence and displacement. In addition to the deaths of millions, and the displacement of entire communities, human rights and humanitarian organizations assert that the scale and nature of sexual violence and rape perpetrated against women and girls in eastern Congo exists on a scale seen nowhere else in the world. The United Nations has labeled DRC the rape capital of the world with a recent report from CNN revealing that 48 women were raped every hour in DRC in 2011. ALARM (African Leadership and Reconciliation Ministries) is an IBC partner committed to developing strong leadership in peace-building at a grassroot level, in order to promote reconciliation in communities and ensure the continuity and sustainability of peace-building initiatives. With 15 years of experience working in communities across East and Central Africa in which tribalism has resulted in violent conflict, ALARM has developed comprehensive, culturally relevant curricula for use in training on conflict resolution, peace-building, tribal tolerance, trauma healing, forgiveness, reconciliation and mediation. Visit alarm-inc.org for more information about ongoing restoration initiatives in Africa.
Source: African Leadership And Reconciliation Ministries

KABUO JOS

Widows are especially vulnerable in the Congo. Kabuo Jos, a widow with three children, was raped in the house she had been renting shortly after the death of her husband. Kabuos internal aftermath can only be described in one word: hatred. Kabuo hated herself and hated her life. She found herself railing against everyone, especially men every man she met was the enemy. And yet Kabuo found a way to keep her rape a secret. Although she knew people could tell she was angry about something, she never told them why. Until the ALARM conference. It was the second day of the conference when Kabuo realized something remarkable: other women were sharing openly about their all-too-familiar experiences. It gave her the courage to finally speak up herself, which became her turning point towards healing. Now, with the little money she makes in the widows camp, Kabuo is doing her best to sustain the lives of her three children while processing all she experienced at the ALARM conference. She tells the other women in the camp that she is still alive because of what she heard, particularly the Bible verses she has come to treasure every day: I John 1:6-7; Psalm 5:22; Galatians 6:2; Romans 8:1 and Psalm 139:14.

The IBC Womens Christmas Dinner is coming (next month) on December 3,

and will be a time for you to enjoy the lights and beauty of the season with your dearest friends and IBC family. It will also be a time to help create more stories of hope and healing for women in Congo like Masika, Therese, and Kabuo. If you would like to be part of the solution for women in Goma, Congo, see the previous page for more information about purchasing $1 raffle tickets. The goal for this years dinner is to raise $16,000 to sponsor another 75 women (or more!) to attend the 2014 Trauma Healing Conference in Congo.

KENYA

CONGO

Democratic Republic of the

Goma

J O U R N E Y O N : B R I D G E U P DAT E

Perhaps youve seen it along the art wall and admired it from afar, or maybe youve just stubbed your toe on it and kept on walking. Whatever your Bridge experience, heres the latest on IBCs Journey On mortgage retirement initiative.

THE BRIDGE repre-

sents IBCs connection to a future of greater levels of ministry made possible by the total elimination of our mortgage debt. the Bridge represents $100,000 of money applied towards our goal of financial freedom. is total mortgage debt elimination ($9 million) by December of 2014. Its not too late to get involved. Visit irvingbible.org/journeyon today.

EACH PLANK in

THE GOAL

IBCERS of all walks of life and from many

different backgrounds have committed to Journey On together. is the elimination of 37% ($3.3 million) of mortgage debt.

OUR PROGRESS, as of October 21,

(1590 1657), was born to a wealthy farming family in Yorkshire, England, surrounded by small, yippy dogs. By the time he was seven, both of his parents had died and he was sent to live with two uncles who apparently thought adopting a moppet would increase their luck with the local ladies. It did not. At age 12, a friend of Bradfords invited him to hear the Rev. Richard Clyfton preach. Clyfton espoused separating from the Church of England in order to create a church free from all vestiges of Catholicism. Bradford was hooked. After much harassment from the lackeys of King James I (including a brief imprisonment), Bradford and his fellow Separatists fled England for the Dutch Republic. After a dozen years in a foreign land, the Separatists decided life in a harsh, uncharted territory would be preferable to wearing wooden shoes one more day and began planning a clog-free voyage to the New World. Bradford, along with 101 other Pilgrims, sailed across the Atlantic Ocean on the Mayflower and landed at Plymouth Rock. As opposed to on Plymouth Rock which wouldve been a bad omen. He was one of 42 signatories to the Mayflower Compact, which established a civil government for the aboutto-be-formed Plymouth Colony. In 1620, during their first, harsh winter in New England, 45 of the 102 Pilgrim settlers died after learning from a soon-to-be-burned witch-prophetess that the Patriots would not be competitive for another 380 years. Bradford also fell ill during this time, but recovered upon realizing Cubs fans had it even worse. Also, he was governor a lot and liked to kick it on the weekends with pal Miles The Smile Standish. Jason Fox lives life buckle-free.
Source: Wikipedia, give or take

William Bradford

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One of these men is William Bradford. Chatter thinks it is the one holding the iPhone.

William Bradford: Weaver, Governor, Hat Buckler

As Thanksgiving and its attendant carbohydrates descend upon us, Chatter has once again hopped in the eBay-sourced DeLorean, fired up the flux capacitor and scared the bejeepers out of Michael J. Fox all in the name of Wolf Blitzer-level journalism (breathe) as we interview the man who made much progress in the New World, everyones favorite Pilgrim, William Bradford.

The Interview

the afterlife to speak with me today, Bill, er, William, er, Mr. Bradford, er Governor.
WILLIAM BRADFORD Please, son. Call me

CHATTER Thank you for taking time out of

WB Indeed we did, sir. And it was no Carnival Cruise, I tell you. CHAT Harsh conditions, Im sure. WB Quite the contrary. No Kathie Lee Gifford. No Legionnaires dis-

by the name conferred upon me by the noble people of Pokanoket when they made me an honorary member of their tribe: Sweet Willie B, the Pastiest Brave Around.

ease. No Turning Back Time: A Tribute to Cher on the lido deck. Ill take months of hard tack any day over that nonsense.

CHAT Most would, most would. Now, you became governor of Plym-

outh Colony when you were rather young, correct?

CHAT Seriously? WB They carved it into the bison-hoof belt buckle, did they not? CHAT That says Dont Mess with Texas. WB So it does. That scamp Jim Bowie is up to his undead tricks again,

WB Oh, I wouldnt say young. I was already on the far side of middle aged. CHAT Werent you just 30? WB Truly! CHAT And you were governor for most of your remaining life, yes? WB Indeed. I thought I wouldst kick the cornucopia any day, so I

I see.

CHAT Anyway. While many people know you as a leading Pilgrim, most

have no real idea what a Pilgrim is.

WB Certainly. A small-P pilgrim is a person who makes a journey for

religious reasons. Say, to visit Mount Calvary or the first Krispy Kreme. A capital-P Pilgrim is someone who also journeys for religious reasons, but looks good in a buckled hat even when exploring locations for the New Worlds first, shall we say, facilities.

figured running for one more term wouldnt hurt. Besides, that kept that nattering nabob Nabob Cornblower out of office. The man couldnt govern a hen house, let alone a colony. Seriously, his chickens ran roughshod over the village roads, scaring the wee ones like befeathered, pecking mercenaries. He was a Separatist who shouldve just kept on separating if you catch the itch of me knickers. the Wampanoag tribe. Is it true that Samoset walked right into the middle of Plymouth and declared, Welcome, Englishmen, in perfect English?

CHAT I sincerely pray I do not. Lets move on to your interactions with

CHAT We shall not. Now, most folks dont realize that the Pilgrims

werent called Pilgrims at the time. Church of England.

WB Aye, we were known as Separatists for wanting to split from the CHAT So you were church splitters? WB I do not think I much like your tone. Nor your casual lack of proper

WB I swear upon the 16 buckles currently holding my autumnal en-

stockings or salted pork.

CHAT Noted. Tell me about your years in the Dutch Republic. WB Oh, it was a grand time for me. I came into my inheritance and

semble together that it was so. It was just like an episode out of Star Trek when Kirk and Spock beam down to an alien planet and all the smokin hot alien babes speak English instead of Betelgeusian. Of course, by Star Trek I mean Schoolmaster Johnstons Primer for Mastering the Kings English and Other Matters of Elocution, and by smokin hot alien babes I mean ladies who dont have scurvy.

CHAT Im very confused. WB Youre confused? Do you know how easy it is to hide the symptoms

married a lovely girl named Dorothy. Did you know dating is much more economical in the Netherlands?

CHAT Umm, no. Why? WB Because you always go Dutch! CHAT We are now even for the church-splitter comment. WB Ho ho ho! I got you with that one, lad! CHAT So you and Dorothy made the trek to the New World aboard

of scurvy in Puritanical garb? Its a real of roll of the dice on your wedding night to be sure, although I claim no knowledge of dice throwing, pinochle or the devils own favorite, canasta.

CHAT Describe how the first Thanksgiving came about. WB Its not a complicated tale by any stretch. You know the saying

beware of Greeks bearing gifts?

CHAT Certainly. WB Well, lets just say theres no reason to beware of natives bearing pie.

The Mayflower.

In 1880, Bill was the 221st most popular name for newborn boys in the U.S.

The Mayflower was rated at 180 tons meaning it had a hold that could accommodate 180 casks of rum or wine.

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RECOVERY
When life just isnt working
Melissa invites us to join her Thursday night.

hat brought me to Recovery? To put it simply: I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. No matter how hectic or stressful my life was, I got up each morning to paint on a perfect face of makeup every strand of hair put in its perfect place all to match the perfect outfit. I made great money, spent time with my family, did charity work, went to church, socialized in the right circles. Wasnt this the life? It wasnt that I was unhappy, I just wasnt truly happy either. I did not feel fulfilled in my life; something was missing. The way I was living my life was not working for me. Something needed to change. I struggle with co-dependency, control, and perfection. Some of these issues were a way for me to mask events in my life that I wanted to brush under the rug and pretend never happened; some were a way for me to not have to feel my own emotions; some were learned coping mechanisms from childhood. Today I am a different person I feel revived and fulfilled yet Im still on a journey of healing and look forward to my time at Recovery every week. Want to be a fly on the wall on a typical night? Be my guest.

6:10 p.m.
I show up to the Student Ministries area. Chat with a few members as they arrive and pour myself a cup of coffee.

6:35 p.m.
Large group starts with music. A member shares their story more trouble on the home front. It is extremely moving. We hold the chip ceremony (a time to celebrate surrender) and pray the Serenity Prayer.

7:28 p.m.
Break. This gives everyone an opportunity to look at the literature table, get refreshments, and look at announcements/sign-up sheets.

7:40 p.m.
Small solutions group. Were in a circle, going around like we usually do. There are a few new people here someone struggling with depression, someone with alcohol, another having marital difficulties. During small solutions groups, men meet together in one room and women meet together in a different room. Men and women tend to see and experience the world and resolve issues differently. We can share more in-depth here as well.

7:53 p.m.
Its my turn to talk. I talk about how it is so important for each of us to really look closely at our entire life in order to find the patterns we follow. It is only when we can take an honest look at our parts in situations whether good, bad, or indifferent that we can change it.

8:21 p.m.
We close small group. I stay to help pack up and talk with a friend who has been having a hard time the past couple of weeks.

8:50 p.m.
On my way home, Im just thinking about how hard we are all on ourselves. Would we actually allow other people to treat our children, nephews, nieces, grandchildren, etc. the way we treat ourselves? The way we beat ourselves up? Sometimes we have to remember we must be kind and love ourselves first.

At Recovery at IBC, were real people learning how to apply the 12 steps as a powerful model in our lives for alleviating emotional pain, stress, and control and for seeking practical spiritual development in Christ. For more information about Recovery and the upcoming Eatin Meetin, see ad page 16.

Puny greeter.

Impetuous usher.

Oh , IT S ON !

MEET THOMAS WASHINGTON, IBC Usher extraordinaire. And not just any usher. Legend has it Thomas ushered one Sunday while trying to pass a kidney stone. A onetime professional Frisbee golf whiz, Thomas can surf an offering plate down the aisle faster than you can say, Please feel no obligation to give.

u s h e r v s. g r e e t e r

has it MEET WAYNE LAMB, IBC greeter emeritus. Legend travels He . team ing greet Wayne comes early just to greet the num alumi right the the nation scouting churches with just . When door handle that pulls easily with the slightest touch hes when home it he found IBC, Wayne decided to call that is. UN, the of doors not greeting foreign dignitaries at the

WHY IS IT SO MUCH HARDER BEING A GREETER THAN AN USHER, AND VICE VERSA?
Being an Usher requires a unique skill set. Passing the offering basket during the service is just the tip of the iceberg. You must stand ready with a smile to greet church members and guests as they enter the sanctuary hows that for multi-tasking, Mr. Lamb? A keen eye is a must to assist those who may require help finding a seat. Communion Sunday can be tricky. An usher must deftly coordinate dismissing each aisle in an orderly fashion, all the while making sure youre finished before the worship band is. A Greeter has to do so much more to welcome people. We welcome them to our church open the doors for them with a smile and let them know we care. An usher just tells them where to sit and passes a plate to get some of their money.

And while Chatter cant provide any actual sources to back up these legends, what we can give you is a good old-fashioned face-off. Thats right, its time for an Usher vs. Greeter smackdown.

WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO SURVIVE IN THE WILD, AN USHER OR A GREETER?

Do you even have to ask? Ushers, of course! Give us a toothpick and turn us loose. Did someone mention something about a kidney stone earlier? Greeters must be in great shape to open the 50-pound doors coming and going in the rain, snow, heat and wind.

DO USHERS OR GREETERS HAVE MORE FUN?

Ushers have more fun. Each Sunday we get to spend an hour and 15 minutes in a large room with a few hundred of our closest friends. The Greeter has the most fun because we get to interact with all the wonderful people. Ushers just walk up and down the aisles by themselves and stand around in the darkness with no one to talk to.

WHO HAS COOLER PARAPHERNALIA, USHERS OR GREETERS?

A name tag. I mean, how cool is that? A name tag that actually has your name! And, you get to pass out the previously mentioned baskets. Greeters have better clothes: black slacks, sport shirts, leather shoes. We meet and greet the public, after all.

It doesnt take much to make someone feel at home at Irving Bible Church. All you need is a smile. And with the holidays coming up, IBC needs more people than ever to make visitors and IBCers feel welcomed and loved.

Here are a few easy ways to smile:

So go on. Just say cheese.

Smiles needed:
Especially at Christmas!

help with parking greet at the doors be an usher

To get started or for more info, contact Sherri at ssharp@irvingbible.org.

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AN DR EW

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ZAC HA RY

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at camp kid jam

But on Sundays, I only get to spend an hour with Andrew and Zachary along with 15 or so other boys. At Camp Kidjam, however, I have a much smaller group and therefore get to really spend good quality time with everyone. Plus, we are together for 15 hours a day. In that setting, you really get to know each others personalities. CHAT: Do you have any funny memories with Zachary and Andrew from Camp? BH: Last year I went to the boys room to wake them up in the morning. I was surprised to find Zachary curled up on the dresser! He said he just felt like sleeping there that night. The next night I made sure he slept in his bed instead! THE TWINS TAKE Brothers Zachary and Andrew Laurendine are twin 4th graders from Irving who love practicing their karate moves and playing Nintendo. You might find Zachary reading his favorite book from his English class at school, while Andrew is more into solving math problems. CHAT: Hey guys. If you had to tell a friend about your small group leader Bret, what would you tell them? ANDREW LAURENDINE: He is the best leader, hes a holy person, and talks about the Lord a lot. ZACHARY LAURENDINE: That he is awesome and he lets us play at the end of the service. CHAT: Whats the biggest thing youve learned from Bret? AL: About loving the Lord and how it is good to do, and about trusting the Lord. ZL: To believe that Jesus is alive, and to never sin and do bad things. CHAT: Guys, whats your favorite thing about Camp KidJam? AL: Singing, because I like how it expresses the Big God Story. ZL: The whole thing. I feel like it talked to me. The songs talked to me and the people talked to me. CHAT: Tell us your best memory from Camp Kidjam. AL: My roommate Dillon that hes a nice friend, and because he helped me when my ear was hurting. ZL: Four things: meeting a new friend, Alex; having fun, looking out of the window at night from the bed and seeing a bunch of lights; and the songs listening and singing them.

BRET HARRELL: Ive been a small group leader on Sunday mornings for seven years with the same group of kids. I have had Andrew and Zachary in my group since the very beginning. When I first met them, I remember not being able to tell them apart and thinking they were identical twins. They have changed a lot over the years and its been a positive experience to watch them grow. A typical Sunday is full and energetic it can be really challenging keeping third grade boys on task! At the end of second grade, my group was old enough to attend Camp KidJam. I decided to be a leader at camp as an extension to the relationships I already had with these kids. Over the past five years, an average of 60 kids (25th grade) and 15 leaders have attended Camp KidJam. CHATTER: Give us a quick overview of the camp format. BH: Camp KidJam is a time of worship, teaching, and fun. The camp is anchored around Jam Sessions, which gather the entire camp (from our church and others) together

What happens when you pull Small Group Leaders and their kids away from their regular routine and send them to camp together? Volunteer Bret Harrell talks about two special twins from his small group Zachary and Andrew and how Camp KidJam has impacted his ministry. for music, games, skits, and Bible

lessons. I am very impressed with the production value of these events. Then we break out into small group sessions to build on the principles taught in the large group setting similar to a Sunday morning. Add in fun events and contests for the kids, and youve got a well-balanced camp that provides teaching in a fun environment. CHAT: Whats the biggest impact for the kids? BH: It helps kids build on the foundation of their Christian faith. There is a lot of fun at Camp KidJam, but the message is strong and I think that all the kids absorb it over the three days of camp. CHAT: How did the dynamics of your relationship with Andrew and Zachary evolve at Camp KidJam? BH: Ive known Andrew and Zachary since they were around 2 or 3 years old, and have watched them grow up over the years right alongside my own son who is in their class. They have always been very sweet, energetic and fun boys.

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STEPHEN MINISTRY
It Works Both Ways
As a Stephen Minister, IBCer Kevin Dial gets a front row seat to Gods redemptive genius.

God redeems what I cannot fathom.

welve years ago, I was driving down the road with cold eyes, numb, having lost my brother tragically two days earlier. I felt empty. The phrase I will never not be ready again echoed in my mind and steel doors were slamming shut inside me against anyone who would draw close. God began to whisper, The church is my body.Trust them. But, I couldnt. More accurately, I wouldnt. Gradually, I wore down and let others in, but the road to healing has been long. I got involved in Stephen Ministry because I have a heart for the broken and I believe we need each other. Not just to survive, but to heal.

And healing isnt easy. During my interview to become a Stephen Minister, I was asked to share the most painful experiences of my life something I wasnt used to doing with complete strangers. But as I shared my experiences, many of which were recent and escalating, I sensed their acceptance and presence.They valued honesty, and I was relieved to know that I did not have to be unaffected or have all the answers. I joined to serve other hurting people,yet I had also found a home for myself. Training, accountability, and confidentiality underlie this ministry of presence, as broken people minister to broken people. After my first visit with my care receiver, I was intimidated. He had some difficult situations before him that were not likely to resolve themselves soon.He was sad and resigned to the belief that his past had been wasted. We began talking about the characters in the Scriptures and how God used them in spite of a broken past.We talked about lamenting and being honest before God. We read Psalm 22, a song David wrote; the Israelites sang it in worship and Jesus cried it from the cross.

My care receiver did not want to talk about superficial topics, and yet he did not want to dwell on his pain either. His hunger was on the big questions, like Who is God?, Where is he in this?, and Who am I? Thats when we decided to study Romans. My friends face became like a childs hearing a story for the first time as his eyes were opened to new truths: the reality of original sin and how none are righteous; the intention of the law and how its purpose is to show guilt and lead us to mercy; salvation by faith. Not only was my care receiver understanding the gospel, he was embracing it. Good News penetrates dark places. My friend has strong roots. He has joined a church and a small group. He is going to Recovery. He will be baptized in a month. And through this process, I have sensed God saying, Be still and slow down. I have this. God has drawn another to him. He calls as he will call. He heals as he will heal. And, he can redeem and use anything. Stephen Ministry has shown me this first-hand. Growing up in a family of mental illness and chemical addiction taught me many things. My understanding of God, my understanding of myself, and my instincts on how to live were flawed. Determination and resolve were not enough; self-help books didnt help, and faking it didnt fool anybody. But God did not leave me alone. He would use others and Stephen Ministry to breathe truth into my life. He would use their gentleness to touch a calloused heart. He would use believers and biblical counsel to challenge many of the lies I had come to believe. And most recently, God has given me through Stephen Ministry a front row seat to watch him draw another to himself, showing me how what I thought to be an unredeemable past could play a part.God redeems what I cannot fathom. And, he uses his body of believers in creative, uncomfortable and beautiful ways to do it.

What is Stephen Ministry?

Stephen Ministers provide a listening ear and a caring presence for IBCers going through emotionally difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, loss of a job, illness, injury, divorce or other life events. If you or someone you know could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister, or if you are interested in becoming a Stephen Minister, contact stephenministry@irvingbible.org.

THIS MONTH
BIBLE COMMUNITIES
Groups on Sunday
Theres always something new going on in Bible Communities! Heres a taste of whats happening this month:
Synergy 9 a.m. The Alcove Couples in their 30s to 50s If you desire to dive into the Scriptures and deepen your faith, this class is for you. The Tree 9 a.m. West D 20s & 30s, married & young families The Tree is a community for young marrieds and young families looking to grow together in faith and marriage. Crossroads 10:45 a.m. West C Married late 20s and 30s Join us as we explore the apologetics series, Beyond Opinion by Ravi Zacharias. Journey 10:45 a.m. The Alcove All Welcome Join us discuss Navigating the Transitions of Life in November. On Track 10:45 a.m. Conference Room Single Parents If you are a single parent or a blended family, please join us for Bible study, fellowship and prayer. Thrive 10:45 a.m. West D Singles in their 30s & 40s Join us for a series on Advent focused on Gods faithfulness and the power to fulfill his promises, and learn more about the love that brought Christ to earth. Renew 10:45 a.m. Training Center Diverse, all ages and stages Can your relationship with God be bigger than just trying to do what he loves and avoiding what he hates? Join us we explore Francis Chans Crazy Love. Legacy Builders 6:45 p.m. West A All Welcome Join us for fellowship, prayer, and in-depth Bible teaching as we study the book of Romans in November. MyZone Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. Zone/Zone Jr. A mid-week event for kids thats great for bringing friends. K-5 grade.

Contact children@irvingbible.org.

Grace for the Wounded Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. A confidential small group ministry that explores the wounds we have received and the healing journey Gods prepared for us. Female group currently offered. Contact graceforthewounded@irvingbible. org to register. NAMI Family-to-Family Class Mondays, 6:309:30 p.m. West B A 12-week course designed for families and caregivers of those with serious mental illness. Contact Joey at joey@netbreezeinc.com or Debra at eumoore@yahoo.com. Shelter from the Storm A confidential small group focused on finding hope and healing from sexual abuse. Contact Michelle at shelterfromthestormibc@gmail.com or (214) 725-0898. Mental Health Grace Alliance Every other Monday, 6:30 p.m. West C The Living Grace Group For those who have mental illness. Contact Melissa Clark at melisser34@yahoo.com.

First Watch Replay Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Training Center Starts January 14. First Watch Xtra Meets Wednesdays at 6:30 a.m. in the Training Center.

CONNECT

Visit irvingbible.org/men for more info.

Events and Resources for Newcomers and Small Groups

Newcomer Gathering November 17, 12:30 p.m. Commons Annex Come find out more about IBC, meet Pastor Andy, staff, and other newcomers. KidZone available for 3 and younger with previous registration, however children are welcome. Email Sherri Sharp at ssharp@ irvingbible.org. Launch Pad Sundays, 9 a.m. begins October 13 West C Launch Pad is a place for people who are registered for small groups, but have a few weeks to wait before being placed. Contact Sara at staylor@irvingbible.org.

MISSION

Local and Global

Thanksgiving Meals Starting November 2 See ad, pg. 16. Prayer Meeting 2nd & 4th Wednesdays, 6:458 p.m. The Chapel Join us as we pray for IBC, the needs of our people, and the world. Laundry Love first Saturday of the month, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Located at Amigo Laundromat, 3349 Country Club Dr. in Irving (just down from Sam Houston Middle School). Please join us as we provide free laundry cycles and detergent, strike up conversations and build relationships. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org.

FAITH AND BELIEF

Events and Resources
Prayer at IBC Breakfast November 2, 8:3010 a.m. Training Center Please join us for a prayer gathering and breakfast. Contact and RSVP to Jason Stein at jstein@irvingbible. org. The Table November 10, 10:45 a.m. Living Room Join us as we talk about faith and explore the hard questions of life. Contact Jason at jstein@ irvingbible.org.

Family Grace Group For family members, friends, and caregivers who support individuals with serious mental disorders. Contact Buzz Moody at myrabuzz@ gmail.com.
Stephen Ministry at IBC Stephen Ministers provide a listening ear and a caring presence for IBCers going through emotionally difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, loss of a job, illness, injury, divorce or other life events. If you or someone you know could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister, or if you are interested in becoming a Stephen Minister, contact stephenministry@irvingbible. org. See article, pg. 13.

PARENTING

Events and Resources

Shop Talk November 10, 6:45 p.m. The Alcove See ad, pg. 17.

Visit irvingbible.org/parenting for more info or to register for KidZone.

MARRIAGE HOPE & HEALING

Community Care
Abortion Recovery Counseling One-on-one, confidential counseling for those living with the aftermath of abortion. For information, contact Kym at (972)560-4632 or kyeichner@irvingbible.org. Recovery at IBC Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. West Wing Youth Lounge Do you deal with perfectionism, pride, overeating, inappropriate anger or control? Recovery is confidential, and all are welcome. See article, pg. 10.

SINGLE PARENTS

Growing Together
Marriage at IBC Sundays, 9 a.m. High School Room Marriage at IBC will resume in January. Please visit irvingbible.org/marriage for more info.

Community and Resources

Sit with us on Sunday! Several single-parent families enjoy worshiping together in the 9 a.m. service. Join us in the lowest righthand section, Rows 5 & 6, facing the stage.

Please visit page 18 for more Sunday Bible Communities.

CHILDREN

Visit irvingbible.org/singleparents.

Infants Through 5th Grade

Camp KidJam Registration is now open for Camp KidJam 2014. See article, pg. 11. Thanksgiving KidVenture See ad, pg. 16. Zone 6:30 Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. A small group exploration of the Bible and Gods story. For kids K-5th grade.

MEN

Community and Resources

First Watch Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons Join the ranks of Men at IBC who are steadily moving towards Christ and making an eternal difference.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Community and Resources

In His Image Bible Study Wednesdays, 6:307:45 p.m. Training Room A small group for adults (18+) with special needs.

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Special Needs Support Group Wednesday nights, 6:307:45 p.m. The Conference Room Contact Lori at lorikuy@gmail.com. SonShine Pals and Room Our SonShine Rooms are available during the 10:45 a.m. service for children with special needs. There are also opportunities for children to be matched with a SonShine Pal.

Teen Adoptee/Parent Support Group Sunday, November 24, 5 p.m. A support group for teens (12-18) and parents of adopted teens.

If you have not attended a support group previously, or have questions, please email Amy at acurtis@ irvingbible.org.

Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

WOMEN STUDENTS
Middle/High School and College
Middle School Sundays Life on Life Student Ministries area, 10:30 a.m.12:20 p.m. Middle School Wednesdays The W Student Ministry area, 6:308 p.m. High School Winter Retreat See ad below. High School Sundays Life Groups Student Ministry area, 6:458 p.m. High School Wednesdays SWAG 7:158:30 p.m. The Alcove. Teen Recovery Monday Nights, 67:30 p.m. Zone, Jr. Teen Recovery is a safe and confidential environment for middle and high school students to identify and share their pain and struggles. Contact Trey at tgrant@irvingbible.org. IBC College Ministry Sundays at 3:30 p.m. The Commons Annex Passion Conference 2014 The college group at IBC will be attending Passion 2014 in Houston, TX, February 14-15.

The Gathering Thursdays, 7 p.m. The Alcove Join us for our new series, Daddy Issues, starting November 7. We all long for a fathers love, acceptance and presence in our lives. Unfortunately, even the best earthly fathers are not perfect, and sometimes we associate pain in our relationship with them to the character of our Heavenly Father. So what does that mean for our lives now? Sit with us on Sunday! We know sitting alone at church is lame, so join us for the 10:45 a.m. service. We sit together in the lower left-hand section facing the stage. Wed love to meet you.

FREE Citizenship Class Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. IBC For those at least 18 years old who have been issued a Permanent Resident Card. Well guide you through the N-400 paperwork and prepare you for the main components of the new citizenship test. Contact Michael at 2435citizenship@irvingbible.org. IBC Career Transition Ministry Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. Want to find a job? Come learn how to craft a rock-solid resume, use the Internet and LinkedIn to network, and ace the interview. For more info, contact 2435jobtransition@ irvingbible.org.

Community and Resources

Engage Event Tuesday, November 5 10:3011:30 a.m. or 7:308:30 p.m. The Commons All adults are invited to an interactive discussion with Lynn Cohick professor of New Testament at Wheaton College and author of the commentary, Ephesians as she explores the meaning of submission and headship in Ephesians 5 and its implications for our relationships today. Contact tstein@ irvingbible.org, 972-560-4650. Be Still Silent Retreat November 15, 9 a.m.3 p.m. Come away for a restful day with Jesus at the beautiful Mt. Carmel Center in Dallas. Register at irvingbible.org/women. All About Influence Conference Monday, November 18, 8:30 a.m.3:30 p.m. Womens Leadership Conference at DTS featuring Lisa Harper. To register with IBC group, contact Tiffany Stein at tstein@irvingbible.org or (972) 560-4600. Registration closes November 1. Christmas Dinner December 3, 69 p.m. Make plans to attend the annual Womens Christmas Dinner. Tickets will be sold each Sunday in December in Town Square until sold out. Contact Tiffany Stein at tstein@ irvingbible.org. See article, pg. 4. Save-the-Date Womens Bible Study Our winter Bible study will kick off on January 14 as we study the book of Luke. Visit irvingbible.org/women for more info and watch Chatter for more details next month.

Visit irvingbible.org/youngadults.

2435 KINWEST

Visit 2435kinwest.org A Little Bit of Everything

MISCELLANEOUS

Wednesday Nights at IBC

Vox Humana Choir Wednesdays, 78:30 p.m. IBC Worship Center The choral community of IBC is always looking for new singers, beginner or pro. Everyone is welcome and you can join at any time! No auditions necessary. Contact Crystal at celwell@irvingbible.org. ESL: English as a Second Language Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. AZ17, 18 and 19 Do you want to learn English? Improve your English? Come practice all four skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. For more info, contact Corey at 2435esl@irvingbible.org. Thanksgiving Day Breakfast November 28, 8:30 a.m. Join IBCers for a great meal and take a moment to reflect on Gods goodness. Contact Rod with questions at (214) 513-2589. NICHE (North Irving Christian Home Educators) Monday, November 18 The Alcove Join us for a family potluck and guest speaker. For more info visit texasniche.com. New Arrivals Congratulations to the following families on the births of their children:

Jim and Terrin Henry and their son Logan James, born August 12 at 8 lbs, 7 oz, and 20 inches. Rhett and Ashley Patterson and their son Brooks Pendleton, born May 31 at 7 lbs, 6 oz, and 20 inches.

For latest info on times and locations of college events, join the Facebook group: College at IBC. Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org.

TAPESTRY

WINTER RETREAT
JANUARY 31FEBRUARY 2 SKY RANCH
Mother Teresa said, Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of Gods kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile. The High School winter retreat this year will focus on the simple expression of kindness. Our savior Jesus lived his life in such a way that kindness exuded from him, and as Christians we have been called to follow his example. Register at irvingbible.org/students.

HIGH SCHOOL

Adoptive and Foster Families

November is National Adoption Month Visit tapestryministry.org to learn ways to celebrate and honor those whose lives have been touched by adoption. Waiting Families Group November 2, 7 p.m. For families awaiting placement in the adoption or foster care process. Fostering Hope Sunday, November 10, 5 p.m. A support group for foster families.

Visit irvingbible.org/women.

YOUNG ADULTS
20s and Early 30s
Family Dinner November 21 Join us for our annual family dinner where we gather to celebrate the season, and look back on all we have to be thankful for. Check out irvingbible.org/youngadults for more and to RSVP.

An IBC Tradition
Collection period: November 3-17
Over the past decade, IBCers have been serving our local community by providing supplies for Thanksgiving meals to families in need. If you would like to bless a family with a wonderful Thanksgiving this year, pick up the reusable grocery bags and supply list in Town Square beginning November 3, and return the filled bags by November 17. This year we are shooting for a goal of 2,000 bags! If you would like to volunteer for this project, please contact Lauren Moussa at lmoussa@irvingbible.org.

THANKSGIVING MEALS:

Recovery
Thursday, November 21, 6:30-8:30 p.m. in the West Wing
If youve considered checking out IBCs Recovery group but have never taken the next step, the Eatin Meetin is a great chance to see what Recovery is all about. This Eatin Meetin will be a time of thanksgiving as we celebrate the freedom being found in the lives of our members. THINGS WE ARE AT RECOVERY: A A A A A A A A A safe place to share refuge place of belonging place to care for others and be cared for place where respect is given to each member place where confidentiality is highly regarded place to learn place to demonstrate genuine love place to grow and become strong again

THINGS WE ARE NOT : A A A A A A place place place place place place for selfish control for therapy for secrets to look for dating relationships to rescue or be rescued by others for perfection

For more info, contact Joe at jorman@irvingbible.org.

KidVenture is an opportunity for you and your kids to serve our community together as a family.
November 17 After each Sunday service, Children at IBC will host a cardmaking station in the Haven where kids can decorate cards to go in each of the Thanksgiving bags. Drop by after your regular worship time! November 23, 10 a.m.-12 p.m.: Parents and kids are invited to help deliver the Thanksgiving bags to Clifton Elementary. Meet at the covered driveway at 10 a.m. (under The Mo) to load up. For more information, contact children@irvingbible.org.

Small Groups at IBC:

FIGURE 2

Need to Know Information

TOP 3 MOST TYPICAL SMALL GROUP LEADERS

YOUNG ADULT
November 22

FAMILY DINNER

TYPICAL SMALL GROUP PARTICIPANT ATTRACTIVENSS LEVEL

FIGURE 1

The DTS Graduate With a Heart of Gold

EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE, CHARISMATIC, & APPROCHABLE

The One With The Big House

MULLETS, BRITISH TEETH

TOP MODELS, BEYONCE

The Would-be Caterer/Pastry Chef

Sermon-Based Small Groups: Sign up now

Sign-up online at irvingbible.org/smallgroups. Questions? Contact Katie Geurin at kgeurin@irvingbible.org.

Now is the time to register for spring groups. Registration closes December 8 and groups begin meeting the week of January 5.

Everybody loves Thanksgiving, but not everyone gets a chance to go home for the holidays. If youre a young adult at IBC, we invite you to our annual Family Dinner, a time when we gather to celebrate the season and look back on all we have to be thankful for. Join us November 21 for a great evening of food and friends. Check out IBC Young Adults Facebook page or irvingbible.org/youngadults for event information and to sign up.

Shop Talk is a highly interactive gathering for parents of kids of all ages. Topics include core principles of parenting as well as practical discussion on issues parents face every day.

ShopTalk: The Cabbage Patch Invasion

Consumerism and materialism are part of our daily lives all year long, not just during the holidays. Come explore productive ways that families have faced the I want, everyone else has, and they get vocabulary, and gain practical skills that will keep you in sync with your kids. November 10, 6:458 p.m. in The Alcove Register for KidZone at irvingbible.org/parenting. Contact Mary Ann at mconnor@irvingbible.org.

Brought to you by:

SUNDAY SCHEDULE
First Worship Service: 9 a.m.
Childrens Classes (all ages) Synergy (40s & 50s), the Alcove The Tree (young marrieds and families), West D

HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills
Safety and Security Team Do you have a desire to serve and protect others? Then the IBC Safety and Security team on Sundays is for you. Contact Chris Rose at crose@irvingbible.org. Please include any credentials and relevant experience. 2435 Kinwest Medical Clinic Volunteers Our weekly medical clinic is in need of professional health care providers (MD, PA, FNP) to provide treatment for our patients. Volunteers do not need to serve every week. Contact Charles at cpierce@2435clinic.org. Tapestry Volunteers Tapestry, IBCs foster and adoption ministry, is in need of volunteers. Contact Amy Curtis at acurtis@irvingbible.org. NFNL Volunteers On the third Wednesday of each month we need help serving dinner to the women of New Friends New Life at Preston Road Church of Christ. Contact Christine at newfriendsnewlife@irvingbible.org. Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families Men and women are needed for gender-specific mentoring of children from single-parent families. Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingible.org. Meal Team Volunteers IBC serves meals on Sunday and Wednesday nights, and could use some additional volunteers to serve together. For Sundays contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org. For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Special Need Volunteers There any many opportunities from once a month to every Sunday to volunteer with the special needs ministry. Contact Shannon at specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

Second Worship Service: 10:45 a.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages) Crossroads (mid 20s-30s couples), West C On Track (single parents), Conference Room Journey (all welcome), The Alcove Renew (multi-generational), Training Center Thrive (30s & 40s singles), West D

My Resources
Box Tops for Education Box Tops for Educations coupons from products such as Kleenex, Ziplocks, breakfast cereals, etc can go to help purchase much needed equipment for Townsell Elementary. Please bring all Box Top coupons to the box in the donation area by the Training Center. Clothing for Brighter Tomorrows The women of Brighter Tomorrows are in need of undergarments (bras and panties) and sweatpants. New items only please. Please drop all donations in the box in the donation area by the Training Center. Contact Marjorie at brightertomorrows@irvingbible.org. Laundry Soap and Dryer Sheets Laundry Love collects laundry soap and dryer sheets. Please bring these to the Laundry Love box in the donation area by the Training Center. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org. Online Giving Option If you would find it more convenient to donate to the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit irvingbible.org/give.

Third Worship Service: 5 p.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages)

Community Dinner: 6 p.m. Community Events: 6:45 p.m.

Legacy Builders (all welcome), West A Middle School, The Commons High School, Student Ministries Area

SUNDAY COMMUNITY MEALS

Join us in the Town Square for our community meal on Sundays at 6 p.m. Meals are $3 per person or $10 max./family. 11/3 Awesome Pizza, breadsticks, super salad bar. 11/10 Beef fajitas, chips and salsa, salad bar. 11/17 All American burgers and brats, salad bar. 11/24 Giant Baked potatoes with all the fixins, salad bar. If youd like to serve on a Sunday night meal team, contact Pat OReilly at (214) 289-6176 or sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

Interested in learning more about IBCs budget for 2013 or other financial nuts and bolts? Visit irvingbible.org/budget.

WEDNESDAY MIDWEEK MEALS

Each Wednesday night from 5-6:20 p.m., IBC prepares dinner for anyone wanting a good, hot meal. PB&J sandwiches are also available. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. Just come by The Commons and grab a plate! 11/6 Baked chicken legs, tater tots, corn medley, salad, brownies. Hosted by Bob Downeys team. 11/13 Baked potatoes with all the fixins, salad, dessert. Hosted by Lavern Howells team. 11/20 Lasagna, hot breadsticks, salad, dessert. Hosted by Karen Rails team. 11/27 NO MEAL. Happy Thanksgiving yall! Changes to the menu may be made depending on food cost, availability, and Bob Downeys whim. If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please email bdowney@irvingbible.org.

New to IBC?
Have questions? Were here to help.

Were so glad youre here. Sometimes its hard to know where to begin, but we want to make the process of connecting and feeling at home as easy as possible. Here are some ways to start. The Information Center is a great place to get your questions answered, find help and encouragement for your personal journey, or just have a cup of coffee and settle in. Our team of volunteers would be happy to help you, and our goal is to make you feel at home. The Information Center is open every Sunday after all three worship services. The Newcomer Gathering is an informal get-together for those new to IBC and/or those wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in. Meet other newcomers, ministry leaders and elders. Cant seem to figure out what IBC is all about or how you fit into the larger picture? Want free breakfast every Sunday for four weeks? Propel is designed to help you figure out how to best plug in to IBCs culture and calling. Well talk about what it means to grow in Christ, connect in community and join the mission and what that might look like for you. Youll also learn more about membership at IBC. Small groups exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places dark places in our world, in our relationships and in our hearts. We do this in the context of sermon-based Bible studies that meet in homes. Groups comprise 12 people or fewer and are formed by leaders who have completed small group leader training. To sign up for a group or get more info, contact Ryan Sanders at rsanders@irvingbible.org.

Information Center
irvingbible.org/connect

Newcomer Gathering
Learn more about IBC and meet others like you.
irvingbible.org/connect

Ready to get plugged in?

irvingbible.org/connect

Propel

THE MOSAIC CAF (THE MO)

Caf Hours Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 8:30 a.m.5 p.m. Wednesday: 8:30 a.m.7 p.m. Friday, Saturday: 8:30 a.m.12 p.m. Sunday: 8 a.m.12:30 p.m. & 47 p.m. Phone: (972) 443-3323

Connect with others on the journey.

irvingbible.org/smallgroups

Small Groups

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GIVE THANKS AT YOUR OWN RISK

THANKSGIVING BRINGS TURKEY, DRESSING, AND SOMETIMES DISASTER.
HERE ARE A FEW HOLIDAY DEBACLES YOU SHARED WITH US:
TEXAS On our first Thanksgiving alone without parents or siblings, we had so little money that we could only roast a Cornish Game Hen. I overcooked it. To moisten it up, I melted Welchs Grape Jelly and basted the hen. I swore then and there it would never happen again and it hasnt!
MARK STADLER

2,000
The number of Thanksgiving Day residential fires reported to U.S. fire departments each year.
(Source: FEMA.org)

ILLINOIS OHIO Texas, Illinois and Ohio rank as top three states for Thanksgiving Day cooking fires. (State Farm)

THERE ARE ON THE ROAD ON THANKSGIVING DAY, MAKING IT THE MOST DANGEROUS TRAFFIC HOLIDAY OF THE YEAR.
(Forbes.com)

50% MORE DRIVERS

Never ever watch Bruce Almighty while eating Thanksgiving dinner. I had mashed potatoes coming out my nose because I was laughing so hard.
NORA BROOKS

My cousins water broke right as we were about to serve dessert. The baby was born at 11:50 p.m. She will be two years old this Thanksgiving.
KIMBERLY WEST

INFAMOUS TURKEY DAYS

November 25, 1993 Dallas Cowboys defensive tackle Leon Lett scrambles for the ball after Dallas blocked a Miami Dolphins field goal. His blunder allowed Miami to recover the ball and kick a game-saving field goal. November 27, 2009, 2:25 a.m. (early morning after Thanksgiving): Tiger Woods runs his Cadillac Escalade into a tree outside his Orlando home. He is rushed to the hospital in serious condition. November 26, 2043, 5:18 a.m. In a pre-dawn raid, gobblers from Red Team Bravo of the Freerange Assault Force secure the corporate headquarters of Butterball, LLC ending the 7-year gaggle wars, bringing freedom to noble birds across the country.

My disaster was when my boyfriend at the time shot and killed a turkey for Thanksgiving dinner. At 21, I had no idea how to prepare a turkey how to take off its feathers, which parts needed to be removed before cooking, what to do with all of those parts or, worse yet, what to do with the gun pellets that remained in its poor little ravaged body. Needless to say, it was a disaster. My first mistake was trying to burn off the feathers with a candle and lighter. That just went all kinds of wrong. When it came out of the oven with a few feathers still left and burned to a crisp, we tried to overlook them. But when we almost chipped a tooth on gun pellets, we decided to call it a day and order a pizza. AMY CURTIS

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Chatter hitched a ride around Europe with the Chan family (Keiji, Ken and Emi Chan), and especially loved the scooters in Paris. The Arch de Triomphe was pretty neat, too.

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