MY LIFE- just a journey

‘’ A KHUDA THIS IS FOR YOU, FOR WHAT YOU TAUGHT ME’

THREE CHEERS TO YOU MY, LIFE, WHOM I ADORE SO MUCH FOR YOU BEING THE
BIGGEST OF ALL SOURCE OF MY ELEMENTARY HAPPINESS.

WHAT IF I ASK YOU WHAT HAVE YOU GOT BY LIVING THIS LIFE OF YOURS? WHAT IS
THAT YOU GAINED? WHAT IS IT THAT WHICH IS TEMPTING YOU TO LIVE FURTHER?
DO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU’RE AIM OF LIVING THIS LIFE HAS FORMED AND IS
TERMINATED? TERMINATED WITH A POSITIVE ANSWER OR HAS IT JUST STOPPED
LEAVING YOU IN A SOUP OF DISTRESS AND DEFEAT?

MY LIFE HAS GIVEN ME EVERYTHING I ASKED IT FOR. I BELIEVE THAT THERE HAS
BEEN NOTHING WHICH I DESIRED BUT NEVER ATTAINED.MY LIFE IS MY FAVORITE
TEACHER AND WITH REFERENCES TO IT, PHILOSOPHY MY FAVORITE SUBJECT.
PHILOSOPHY IS NOT A STUDY WHICH YOU WILL INCULCATE; IT IS THE UNIQUE STORY
OF YOUR OWN EXPERIENCES IF YOU EVER DECIDE TO FIND OUT THE MEANING OF
YOUR LIFE. MY EXPERIENCES HAVE BEEN MY BIGGEST GUIDE AND GOD. IT IS
THROUGH MY MORTAL LIFE THAT I ACCQUIRED THIS DEITY OF MINE.

IT IS HARD TO REALISE THIS POSTULATE WHICH IS NOT JUST WRITTEN BUT EVEN
EXPERIENCE BY VARIOUS HOURS OF YOUR LIFE, THE TIME WHICH MADE YOU THE
MOST HAPPY, THE TIME WHICH YOU WOULD NEVER LIKE TO REMEMBER JUST
BECAUSE IT WAS A BAD EXPERIENCE, A BAD TIME, A BAD MEMORY, HOWEVER DO
WE REALISE THAT IT HAS TAUGHT HAS SOMETHING?

ALL WAYS GIVE YOURSELF EXAMPLES OF OTHER SUC MILLIONS OF PEOPLE AROUND
THIS WORLD YOURS WHO ARE WORKING THAT HARD AS YOU ARE FOR SOLVING
YOUR OWN PROBLEMS.DO NOT EVER HURT YOUR OWN EMOTIONS BY CONSIDERING
THIS FACT OF YOU BEING THE UNLUCKIEST PERSON ON THIS EARTH… ITS BECAUSE
IF YOU REALLY TRY TO FIND AN ANSWER TO THE PROBLEMS YOU ARE FACING, GOD
WILL GIVE YOU THE EXAMPLE OF VARIOUS OTHERS WHO ARE IN TROUBLESDEEPER
THAN YOURS RATHER THAN GIVING YOU A DIRECT SATISFACTION.THERE IS ONE
THING WHICH EVERY MORTAL BEING SHOULD KNOW THAT ELEMENTS LIKE
JOY,SORROW ,HAPPINESS,PROBLEMS ARE JUST SMALL BITS OF DUST IN THE AIR,
WHICH WOULD BLOW AWAY WITH THE WIND ITSELF OR WOULD GET DROWNED IN
YOU SORROWS.NOTHING IS GOING TO EVER RETAIN BACK ITS PHYSIQUE NOTHING
AT ALL WOULD DO THIS.THEY WOULD ALL GO BACK JUST AT THEY CAME.

WE ARE TOUGHT VARIOUS VALUES NOT FOR JUST INCULCATING BUT FOR
PRACTISING.I MYSELF ON THE OTHER HAND BELIEVE IN GOING AGAINST THE
CONCEPT OF PRACTISING WHAT WAS LAID DOWN BY OTHERS.I ALWAYS ASK MYSELF
THAT THE VALUES TOUGHT TO US, ARE THEY AMONG THE SCIENTIFIC ELEMENTS OR
ARE THEY A PART OF THE NATURES’ ASSETS? THEY ARE NOTHING BUT THOUGHTS
AND BELEIFS PENNED DOWN BY OTHERS JUST LIKE US, OTHERS WHO HAVE GOT
SIMILAR POTENTION LIKE OURS TO DIFFERENCIATE BETWEEN GOOD AND BAD ,JUST
AND INJUST. I AM NOT GOING AGAINST THE CULTURAL VALUES LAID DOWN BY OUR
ANCESTORS NOR AM I TRYING TO CRITICISE ANY OF THEIR BELIEVES .MY BELIEF IS
THAT IT IS ME MYSELF WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR UNDERTAKING THI JOB OF
DISCOVERING MY OWN VALUES WHICH WILL ULTIMATELY HELP ME TO LEAD A
BETTER LIFE.THERE IS SOMETHING IN WHICH I TRULY BELIEVE UNTIL(after studying
the analytical outline of the history of my experiences, until now).I BELIEVE IN GOD.I
BELIEVE IN THE SAYING OF ‘’ WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS JUST FOR YOUR OWN
GOOD.’YOU MIGHT VERY WELL GO AGAINST THIS CONCEPT OF MINE BY RELATING
YOUR OWN EXPERIENCES WHICH MAY EXACTLY GO AGAINST THIS CONCEPT OF
MINE.HOWEVER I HAVE ONE SMALL REQUEST TO YOU, CONSIDER THIS NOTION OF
MINE AS A JOB WHICH YOU HAVE TO RESEARCH ABOUT , I AM QUIET SURE OF YOU
GETTING AN DEFINITE AND WELL DEFINED ANSWER ABOUT THIS BELIEF OF MINE
WHICH I AM SURE YOU WOULD INCULCATE AS SOON AS SOMETHING MAKES YOU
REALISE THIS.ALLWAYS GIVE YOUR HEART AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY TO THIK AND
TAKE DECISIONS WHICH ARE MEANT TO INCARVE THE DESTINY OF YOUR LIVING.IT
IS NOT JUST YOUR MIND WHO POSSES ALL THESE RIGHTS.READING THIS THE FIRST
THOUGHT OR QUESTION YOUR MIND IS TO FIND A BIOLOGICAL OR SCIENTIFIC
OUTLOOK TO CONVINCE YOURSELF THE FACT OF YOURE’ HEART POSSESING THE
ABILITY TO THINK AND DECIDE WOULD SURELY GIVE YOU A MILLION REASONS TO
CONVINCE YOURSELF ABOUT A LIVING HEART TO EVER POSSES THE ABILITY OF
THINKING.

DON’T ASK YOUR MIND THIS QUESTION, IF YOU SHALL DESIRE TO SEEK AN ANSWER,
GIVE YOUR HEART TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM SUBSIDING YOUR MINDS
INTERFERENCE.MAYBE I CULD NOT EXPLAI YOU THE CONCEPT OF MY THORY,
HOWEVER I WOULD BE GLAD IFYOU REMEMBER ONE THING-
‘ALLWAYS GIVE YOUR’ HEART A CHANCE AND IT IS SURE TO GIVE YOU A CHANCE
FOR LIVING ONCE MORE.’

I BELIVE THAT THERE ARE PHASES IN ONES LIFE WHICH MAY ACTUALLY CHANGE A
INDIVIDUALS WAY OF THINKING OR EVEN LINING.SUCH HAS WHAT ONCE HAPPENED
TO ME.IT IS ONLY AFTER THAT UNHOLY EXPERIENCE THAT HAS GIVEN ,ME JUST
ENOUGH MIND OF WRITING SOMETHING LIKE THIS. I ALWAYS SALUTE THAT
EXPERIENCE OF MIND WHICH I MUST HAVED HATED ONCE UPON A TIME.

OUT OF THE VARIOU DEFINATIONS THAT I FOUND ABOUT MY LIFE, THE FIRST OF ALL
OTHERS IS-

‘‘MY LIFE IS A VOYAGE OF FUN AND TERROR, IT IS A JOURNEY

OF MY LIFETIME THAT WOULD HELP ME DISCOVER THE
VARIOUS SHORES OF LIFE’’
 PART- II

THERE ARE A FEW OF MY BELEIFS WHICH I SHALL WRITE DOWN AND ELABORATE
UPON FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND:

PROVERBS FOR MYSELF- {1}

‘’WHY EVER FALL FOR SOMETHING WHICH IS OUT OF YOUR

REACH AND SURELY KNOWN THAT IT’S NOT MEANT FOR
YOU ‘’
THERE ARE MILLIONS OF THINGS THAT WE HUMANS DESIRE TO OWN AND ENJOY.WE
ALL HAVE A WISH TO POSSES SOMETHING.IT MAYBE WEALTH, HAPPINESS,SUCCESS ,
ENJOYMENT OF LIFE , SELF SATISFACTION OR IT MIGHT EVEN BE YOUR OWN ASSET-
SOMETHING WHICH GENUINELY BELONGS TO YOU BUT IS AWAY FROM YOU.THIS
ASSET OF YOUR MIGHT BE THAT FAR FROM YOU SUCH THAT YOUMAY HAVE NEVER
DREAMT OF SUCH A POSSILBILITY.ALL THE THINGS AROUND YOU WHICH YOU WISH
TO POSSES IN NOTHING IN FRONT OF THE BIGGEST OF ALL DESIRES WHICH YOU
ACTUALLY POSESS- YOUR GOD , YOUR LIFE

SO YOU SEE ALL THAT EXSISTS AROUND YOU DON’T EVER DESERVE TO BE IN YOUR
COMPANY BECAUSE ITS NOT EASY FOR THEM TO COME UP TO YOUR STATUS.PLEASE
DON’T HAVE THIS NOTION COMPARED WITH YOUR STATUS IN THIE ELEMENTARY
SOCIETY WHICH YOU ARE TO LEAVE BEHIND AFTER DEATH.COMPARE YOU
GREATNESS BY BRIDGING THE DIFFERENCE WHICH LIES BETWEEN THIS LIFE OF
YOURS AND THE AND YOUR GODS PLANS FOR YOU.ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE AND
BELIEVE IN THE FACT THAT YOUR GOD IS ALWAYS BEHIND YOU.IF YOU CAN
CONVINCE YOURSELF WITH THIS PRACTISE THAN ALL YOUR DREAMS WILL RUN
BEHIND YOU INSTEAD OF YOU RUNNING BEHIND THEM.

02

LOVE IS LIKE A LIFE, IF LOVED IT LIVES, IF NOT IT, DIES.

I BELIEVE IN THIS NOTION BECAUSE WE ARE ALL WELL AWARE THAT IT IS LOVE
WHICH HOLDS THIS WORLD TOGETHER.THE MUTUAL EXCHANGE OF FEELING AND
EMOTIONAL SATISFACTION GIVES BIRTH TO SUCH A RELATIONSHIP.IF THESE THINGS
WHICH FORMS LOVE DOSENT EXSISTS, THEN THIS LOVE WOULD BE NOTHING BUT A
BASELESS CONCEPTION THAT WILL HURT AND BOTHER YOU ALWAYS DEPENDING
UPON YOUR MINDS APPEAL TOWARDS IT.

03
‘’THE EARTH IS THE MOST HEVENLY PLACE BECAUSE THAT
IS THE ONLY WAY THROUGH WHICH YOU CAN REACH THE
HAVEN OF YOUR DREAMS.’’
HEAVEN IS THE PLACE WHERE WE ALL DESIRE TO DWELL.EARTH MIGHT BE THE
BEST PARADISE BUT WE ALL KNOW’ HOME SWEET HOME’.HOW MUCH SOEVER WE
LOVE THIS PALESTIAL OR MISERABLE EARTH OF OURS, WE ALL ULTIMATELY HAVE A
DESIRE TO GO BACK TO HEAVEN AND NOT LIVE ON THIS EARTH FOREVER.

04

‘’I AM THE BADDEST PERSON ON THIS EARTH.I MADE YOU CRY, T MADE YOU SAD
.BUT YOU MY FRIEND YOU ARE THE GREATEST BECAUSE …………YOU MADE ME
REALISE THIS.’’

I BELIEVE IN THIS LINE BECAUSE IT IS ONLY THE PEOPLE AROUND ME WHO WOLD
HELPS ME REALISE THIS FACT; IT’S NOT THE MIRROR IN MY ROOM WHICH WOULD
DO THIS.

05

‘’THERE WAS A TIME WHEN I COULD NOT REALISE MY MISTAKES,

THERE WAS TIME WHEN I COULD HAVE IMPROVED THEM

BUT NOW THE TIME TELLS ME ONLY ONE THING THAT IT’S TOO LATE TO EVER
REALISE THAT YOU ULTIMETELY REALISED THIS IT’

Part- III
MY LIFE IS EXACTLY LIKE A ROAD OR A HIGHWAY.

ONE DAY I WAS WALKING ON A NEWLY CONSTRUCTED ROAD WHICH WAS JUST LAID
DOWN.THE BLACK SHINING ROAD WAS LAID IN FRONT OF MY VISION.I STARTED
WALKING.THE JOURNEY WAS QUIET A SMOOTH ONE.IT SEEMED TO ME TO BE
COMPLETELY FLAT WITH NO VISIBLEHINDRANCES AND OBSTACLES.IT WAS A
FEELING OF A JOURNEY DOWN THE LANE, A PEACEFUL ONE, A SILENT ONE.I
WALKED FURTHER WHEN I SUDDENLY SPRAINED MY ANKLE, LOOKING BENEATH, I
DISCOVERED THAT I HAD STEPPED UPON A POTHOLE WHICH I HAD NOT NOTICED
PREVIOUSLY. I DECIDED TO BE CAREFUL THE NEXT TIME.THE PRESENCE OF A
POTHOLE ON A ROAD WHICH I EXPECTED TO BE SMOOTH, ANNOYED ME.I WALKED
ON FURTHER AHEAD RESUMING MY JOURNEY.ON MY SUCEEDING PATH, I SAW MANY
SUCH OTHER BIG AND SMALL DITCHES SPREAD AROUND THIS NEW ROAD.THIS
SIGHT MADE ME COME UNDER A IMPRESSION THAT THE CONSTRUCTION OF THIS
ROAD MIGHT BE INCOMPLETE.JUST AS I THOUGHT THIS,SOMETHING MADE ME
THINK ABOUT FINDING A DIFFERENT CONCLUSION THIS TIME FOR NOW I COULD SEE
A WELL LAID FLAT ROAD AHEAD OF ME.FURTHER ON I COULD FEEL THE SENSATION
OF A SHORT LIFT FROM THE ORDINARY COURSE OF THE FLAT ROAD,I WAS GOING
UPWAYS AND THEN DOWNWAYS ABOUT A SPEED BREAKER.MY WALK PROCEEDE
FURTHER AHEAD.THIS JOURNEY WAS A VOYAGE OF DIVERSED COMPLEXTIONS.
SMOOTH ROADS , BAD ROADS, DITCHED ROADS ,HIGH ROADS AND A ROAD FILLED
WITH GARBAGES DUMPED THE ENTIRE SURFACE WHICH I ENJOYED INITIALLY AS I
STARTED MY JOURNEY.WALKING FURTHER ON I SEE THAT THE ROAD HAS STOPPED.IT
HAS TAKEN ME TO A COMLETE DEAD END WHERE THERE IS NO WAY AHEAD TO
COMPLETE A JOURNEY.

MY LIFE IS A JOURNEY SIMILAR TO THIS.THE SMOOTH LANES OF MY LIFE GIVES ME

HAPPINESS, THE SPEED BREAKER IS MEANT FOR ME TO STOP AND LOOK DOWN AT
THINGS JUST TO CONVINCE MYSELF THAT IF I AM SAFE IN MY FURTHER ON JOURNEY
OR HAVE I COMMITED A SIN DOWN MY PREECEDING PATH? THE POTHOLES ARE THE
SADNESSES OF MY LIFE AND THE DITCHES ARE THE UNREPENTABLE LOSSES OF MY
LIFE.

I BELIEVE THAT IF I EVER WANT TO WALK OVER THAT ROAD AGAIN OR MAYBE JUST
CONTINUE MY JOURNEY FURTHER ON IT, IT IS MY DUTY ITSELF TO CLEAN THIS ROAD
OF MINE AND SMOOTHEN MY JOURNEY OVER IT.SAME IS THE STORY OF MY LIFE, MY
LIFE IS A LUMP OF SOFT CLAY WHICH I HAVE TO MOLD OUT APPLYING THE
CONCEPTIONS OF MY BELEIFS, OF MY WAYS.IF I SUCEED IN THIS TASK, THEN ONLY
CAN I PROUDLY PUBLICISE,’I HAVE WRITTERN MY OWN DESTINY, NOT YOU!’

Part-IV
ELEMENTARY THINGS

Things that won’t even last as long as you do.

THIS WORLD IS NO PLACE FOR ME TO LIVE.I RESIDE HERE AS THOUGH I AM A MERE

GUEST IN AN UNKNOWN LAND,NOT A RESIDENT.HAVE YOU SEEN THE WHOLE
WORLD?HAVE YOU EVER GOT THE CHANCE OF HAVING ENCOUNTERED THE
MISERY,HAPPINESS,SADDNESS THAT PREVAIL OVER THIS LIFE OF OURS?THE ONLY
TRUTH I KNOW AND I TRULY BELIEVE IN IS THE JOURNEY OF THE EXPERIENCE OF MY
LIFE.MY LIFE IS VERY INTERESTING.AND SO IS YOURS.I PERSONALLY WOULD NEVER
COMPLAIN ABOUT THE FACT OF CALLING MY LIFE AN OCEAN OF SADDNESS NOR
WOULD I EVER TRY TO CHEER MYSELF BY BELEIVING THAT MY LIFE IS A UPGOING
GREEN HILL OF JOY AND HAPPINESS.TODAY IF I EVER FIND MYSELF IN A FIX,I CHEER
MYSELF UP BY SAYING THIS LINE-‘’MY TOMORROW IS GOING TO BE BETTER THAN
MY TODAY.’’

ALL THAT YOU POSSES TODAY IS JUST NOT YOURS, EVERYTHING THAT YOU ENJOY IS
A FACTOR EXSISTING IN A TEMPRORARY BASIS. I AND YOU ARE GOING TO LEAVE
BACK ALL THAT WHICH WE CONSIDER OURS.
IF YOU EVER THINK THAT YOU ARE SAD, TRY DOING ALL THOSE THINGS WHICH YOU
LOVE DOING THE MOST.THIS ACTIVITIES WOULD ATLEAST GIVE YOU BREAK FROM
THE HIGH MOUNTING WALLS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND SADDNESS.

FOR EXAMPLE I’LL TELL YOU, WHENEVER I AM SAD, I DO THE FOLLOWING TWO
THINGS WHICH ALWAYS CHEERS ME UP –

1) PLAY MY GUTAR 2) REMEMBER ALL THOSE

BEAUTIFUL PAST TIMES MY LIFE

SIMILARLY, I SUGGEST YOU DO ALL THAT THINGS THAT YOU LOVE DOING AS PER
YOUR CHOICE AND PLEASURE.NOTHING WOULD GIVE YOU MORE HAPPINESS
THANTHIS ITSELF.

I AM WELL AWARE OF THE FACT THAT I AM NOT A GOOD PERSON BY HEART OR

MIND.I WAS MANY A TIME OBSESSED WTH MY LIFE AND WAY OF LIVING.SINCE I
COULD NEVER FIND A RESON TO BLAME MY LIFE FOR MY OBSESSIONS, THEN HOW
COULD I EVER THINK OF LEAVING MY LIFE IN THE HANDS OF DEATH AND DEFEAT?
HOW COULD I POSSIBLY DO THIS COWARDLY ACT?

I BELIEVE THAT I WAS SENT ON THIS EARTH FOR A SIMPLE REASON, I WAS TOLD BY
THE ALLMIGHTY THAT-GO SEARCH FOR WHAT YOU DIDN’T FIND HERE RETURN WITH
THE EXPERIENCE OF WHAT YOU FOUND THERE WHERE YOU DECIDED TO LIVE THAT
LIFE WHICH I GAVE YOU?

PART-V
TERMINATING HAPPINESS-

MANY THINGS AROUND ME MAKES ME HAPPY AND CHEERFULL.WHENEVER I THINK

ABOUT MY HAPINESS, I REALISE THAT ALL MY PAST SADNESSES WERE NOTHING,
NOTHING AT ALL!

THE TIME I SPENT WITH A BELOVED PERSON WOULD BE THE HAPPIEST MOMENT OF
THE TIMELINES OF MY HISTORY.THESE HAPPY MEMORIES ARE SO DEEP THAT MY
HEART DROWNS IN THEIR PRESENCE THUS LEAVING ME WITH AN EXPECTATION OF
FEELING THEM ALL OVER AGAIN.WHAT IS PAST IS PAST.ALL YOUR HAPPINESS AND
SADNESS ARE BLOWN BY THE WIND FAR AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE, GOD KNOWS
WHERE.

SAD MEMORIES ARE THE POISON WHICH KILLS A DROWNED HEART.WHATEVER

HAPPENS,NEVER HAPPENS BY A CHANCE OR JUST LIKE THAT.EVERY LITTLE THING
THAT TAKES PLACE ARE VITAL AND MUST BE REMEMBERED BECAUSE THEY MIGHT
EVEN TURN OUT TO BE THE WORST CHALLENGE THAT YOU ARE TO EVER FACE.

EXPERIMENTING WITH EXPERIENCES WILL NOT GIVE YOU ANY RESULT.HOWEVER

EXPERIENCING WHILE EXPERIMENTING WILL GIVE YOU ANSWERS TO YOUR
PROBLEMS.EVERY ROAD, EVERY AIM, EVERY WANT ULTIMATELYCOMES TO AN END.A
DEAD END TO BE PRCISE.ON SEEING THE DEAD WALL AHEAD OF YOU, WOULD YOU
PREFER TO TURN YOUR BACK AND CLIMB DOWN THE VERY HILL WHICH YOU
CLIMBED UP WITH YOUR DETERMINATION, HARDWORK AND PATIENCE? WILL THIS
EVER SATISFY YOU? IT WOULD JUST BE A MEMORY OF DEFEAT.

HAVE YOU EVER IN YOUR LIFE TRIED TO REALISE, TO KNOW, AND TO UNDERSTAND
THE REASON OF YOUR SADDNESS? HAVEYOU EVER GENUINELY TRIED TO WORK
HARD TO PROVIDE YOUESELF WITH AN ANSWER TO ALL THESE QUIERIES OF
YOURS TO WIN BACK YOU HAPPINESS? THINK ABOUT IT.YOU’LL START GETTING
YOUR ANSWERS.

PART-VI
MATERIALISTIC HAPPINESS

THERE IS NO OTHER HAPPINESS OTHER THAN A SATISFACTORY DEATH.ALL THE

ELEMENTS THAT YOU ARE EXPEREICING ON THIS EARTH IS WHAT YOU LEAVE
BEHIND HERE ITSELF FOR OTHERS TO ENJOY IN PLACE OF YOURSELF.IT IS NEITHER
YOUR FAMILY,LOVED ONES,YOU WEALTH OR YOUR SADDNESS,THAT WILL ACOMPANY
YOU TO WHERE YOU ETERNALLY DWELTH- DEATH.

EXPERIENCES ARE A SOURCE OF LEARNING, NOT AN EPIC

TO BE AWARE OF.
‘’C’EST LA VIE!’’

(THAT’S LIFE)

JUST AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE, THE MORE YOU EXPERIENCE, THE MORE IS YOUR
ANALYTICAL OUTLOOK DEVELOPED.

01(REVENGE AND FORGIVENESS)

IN SOME EVENTS OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MIGHT BE HAUNTED BY THE TENDENCY OF

ANGER AND BE TEMPTED TO SEEK REVENGE WHICH YOU WOULD NATURALLY
CONSIDER A ETHICAL JUSTIFICATION AGAINST YOUR CULPRIT.ANGER IS AN
EMOTION.JUST AS YOU FEEL HAPPY,SAD OR LOVED, ANGER IS AN EMOTION AS
WELL.THE FIRST THING YOU SHOULD KNOW IS TO LEARN AND CONTROL YOUR
ANGER.FORGIVENESS IS WHAT THAT WILL MAKE YOU A GOD.JUST AS GOD FORGIVES
ALL MORTAL MEN FOR THEIR IMMORTAL ACTS,YOU AS A SENSIBLE HUMAN SHOULD
LEARN TO FORGIVE PEOPLE WHO HAVE SNATCHED YOUR PEACE AND
HAPPINESS.WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR CULPRIT, IF YOU
BOTH HARM EACH OTHER THE SAME WAY?TAKING REVENGE MIGHT GIVE YOU SELF
SATISFACTION BUT WILL IT EVER LET YOU HAVE BACK WHAT YOU
LOST?INSTEAD,THIS FOOLISH ACT OF YOURS WILL GIVE YOU NOTHING BUT THE
SAME DEFRAME AS WHAT YOU DID TO SOMEONE FOR WHAT HE DID AGAINST
YOU?WILL THIS REALLY GIVE YOU A SELF SATISFACTION?

TAKE AN COMMON EXAMPLE FOR CONSIDERATION.SUPPOSE YOU HAVE A TOY

WHICH YOU LOVE THE MOST.IF THIS TOY OF YOURS IS BROKEN BY ONE OF YOUR
FRIENDS, YOU WOULD SURELY BREAK HIS FAVORITE TOY AS WELL.ITS NOTHING
ABNORMAL.IT IS JUST A SORT OF A NATURAL HUMAN REACTION OR TENDENCY.BUT
TELL ME, WILL THIS REVENGE OF YOURS WOULD EVER GET YOU BACK YOUR LOST
TOY?THIS WORK OF YOURS WOULD DO NOTHING BUT STENGTHEN THE BOND OF
ENIMITY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR FRIEND.IF YOU SHALL DO SOMETHING, THEN
DEVOTE YOUR ENERGY AND CONCENTRATION TO FIND A WAY TO REGAIN YOUR
LOST ASSET BACK.I AM PRETTY SURE THAT TAKING REVENGE WOULD NEVER
REUNITE YOU WITH YOUR LOST ASSET.

TAKING REVENGE IS NOT OUR JOB.OUR JOB IS TO SEEK JUSTICE AGAINST ALL THE
INJUSTICE THAT WERE DONE TOWARDS YOU BY OTHERS.YOU SHALL RIGHTFULLY
FIGHT FOR YOUR JUSTICE BUT MUST NEVER TRY TO MOLD AND DECIDE THE FATE OF
YOUR CULPRIT.BY DOING THE SAME, TELL ME, WOULD YOU BE A BETTERER PERSON
OR THE SAME OLD FOOL AS YOUR CULPRIT IS???

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE THAN BETWEEN A BARKING DOG AND A RESPECTABLE

GENTLEMAN, IF HE DECIDES TO STOP AND START BARKING JUST AS THE BARKING
DOG?

A GENTLEMAN WOULD SURPASS THE BARKING DOG SILENTLY

JUST BECAUSE HE HAS GOT SOME SELF RESPECT TO SAFE
GUARD.

FORGIVE PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY DID BUT NEVER FORGET

WHAT THEY DID.

02(HAPPINESS)

SOMETHING HAS CHANGED MY HABBITS NOW.NOW A DAYS I TRY TO FIND

UNRESONABLE HAPPINESS IN EVERY LITTLE THING THAT I DO.I FEEL THAT I AM
ALWAYS HAPPY.HAPPY IN ALL THOSE MOMENTS WHERE I MUST BE SAD OR
WORRIED.WHAT WOULD I EVER GAIN BY BEING SAD?IF THERE IS A SOLUTION TO MY
PROBLEM BY BEING SAD,THEN I DON’T MIND BEING SAD THROUGHOUT MY
LIFE.SADDNESS WILL CAUSE YOU NOTHING BUT JUST ADD WATER TO DROWN YOU
IN YOUR DISTRESS.HAPPINESS WILL GIVE YOU A REASON TO LIVE AND WAYS OUT OF
YOUR DEPRESSION.SIMILARLY MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY.MAKE ALL THE PEOPLE AROUND
YOU HAPPY.TRY TO MAKE THEM SMILE AND FORGET THEIR OWN PAINS.LET THEM
FEEL THAT YOUR PRESENCE AND COMPANY IS NO LESS THEN THEIR LOVED ONES.IF
YOU SUCEED IN THIS,YOU SHALL PROUDLY WIN MORE HEARTS BY YOUR
COMPASSIONATE AND GENEROUS NATURE.MAKE THEM HAPPY AND BELIEVE IN THE
FACT THAT THEY WILL NEVER REMBER THE FACT OF YOU MAKING THEM HAPPY.DO
NOT EVER TRY TO REMIND THEM OF YOUR LOVE AND PITY THAT YOU ONCE SHOWED
TOWARDS THEM, LET THEM FORGET IF THEY WISH, HOWEVER YOU MUST
REMEMBER TO CONTINUE THIS PRACTISE OF YOURS AGAIN AND AGAIN, IF NEEDED
WITH THAT SAME INDIVIDUAL.REMEMBER THIS WILL JUST HELP YOU GAIN IMMENSE
RESPECT.

BELIEVE IN THE ASPECT OF GOIN AGAINST THE PROVERB-

“FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION”
IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO WHAT YOU FIRST SHOWN OR IS SHOWN TO YOU BY
SOMEONE TO BE COMPLETELY TRUE.THIS WAS A FACT I MUST GENUINELY CONFESS
THAT IT COULDN’T’ HAVE EVER OCCOURED IN MY MIND. IT WAS ONE OF MY
FRIENDS WHO TOLD ME TO BELIEVE IN SUCH A NOTION.HE SAID TO ME-‘NEVER GO
ON THE FIRST IMPRESSION THAT SOMEONE LAYS IN FRONT OF YOU’.I NEVER
THOUGHT ABOUT THIS TO COSIDER THIS MATTER SERIOUSLY.HOWEVER, THE
THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN GOING ABOUT ME FOR THE PAST FEW DAYS HAVE GIVEN
ME ENOUGH REASONS TO BELIEVE HIS CONCEPT.

WELL I CAN NOT GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE BECAUSE I HAVE ONLY ONE, THAT TO
WHICH I WOULD NOT LIKE TO SHARE AS IT MAY HURT THE PROGRESS OF THAT
INDIVIDUAL.

HOWEVER, AS A HUMAN MYSELF, I HAVE DECIDED NEVER TO TAKE REVENGE

AGAINST ANYONE FOR WHAT THEY DID TO ME.I HAVE JUST FORGIVEN HER.
FORGIVEN HER FOR THAT ENTIRE SADDNESS SHE HAS GIVEN ME AND IS STILL
CONTINUING WITH, I HAVE JUST FORGIVEN HER BUT AT THE SAME TIME,HAVE
DECIDED TO FULLFILL ALL THOSE PROMISES I MADE TO HER RELYING THE
DEPENDENCY OF MY LIFE IN THAT FIRST IMPRESSION OF HERS. BUT I REMIND
MYSELF THAT I AM NOT WEAK AND DEFEATED.I BELIEVE THAT I AM HAPPY, HAPPY
BECAUSE SHE HAS HELPED ME EXPERIENCE ALL WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN AND ALL
THAT YOU HAVE BEEN READING.SO JUST DON’T HURT ANYONE.LET THEM HURT YOU
BECAUSE WHATEVER THAT THEY DO, UNKNOWINGLY, IS ACTUALLY HELPING YOU TO
BECOME A BETTER PERSON, A MORE EXPERIENCED ONE.
LET THEM CONTINUE AND LET YOURSELF FOGIVE THEM,
FOR GOD’S SAKE.BECAUSE, YOU WILL ULTIMATELY FIND
YOUR TRUE AIM AND SUCEED IN WINNING IT.

‘PLEASE GOD FORGIVE HER, AND NEVERHURT HER FOR WHAT SHE DID.LET HER BE
HAPPY AND
SMILING ALWAYS.’