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If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into the habit of living in the present and doing it now.
He slept beneath the moon He basked beneath the sun He lived a life of going to do and died with nothing done.
Get into a Continuous Education Program:honesty, compassion, courage, persistence and responsibility--
1.Many times we confuse intelligence with good judgment. 2. A person may have high intelligence but poor judgment. 3. Choose your advisers carefully and use your judgment. 4. A person can and will be successful with or without formal education if they have the 5 Cs: character commitment conviction courtesy courage
Eduacated means
those who manage well the circumstances which they encounter day by day. those who are honorable in their dealings with all men, bearing easily what is unpleasant or offensive in others, those who hold their pleasures always under control and are not unduly overcome by their misfortunes, bearing up under them bravely and in a manner worthy of our common nature. those who are not spoiled by their successes,
Just like our bodies need good food every day, our minds need good thoughts every day
Build a Positive Self-Esteem Do something for others who cannot repay you in cash or kind.
OBSTACLES TO SUCCESS
Ego Fear of failure success ; lack of self esteem No plan Lack of formalized goals Life changes Procrastination Family responsibility Financial security issues Lack of focus, being muddled Giving up vision for promise of money Doing too much alone Over-commitment Lack of commitment Lack of training Lack of persistence Lack of priorities
Desire
Commitment Responsibility Hard Work Character Positive Believing Give More Than You Get The Power of Persistence Pride of Performance Be Willing to Be a Student--Get a Mentor
"Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve."
The duck keeps paddling relentlessly underneath but appears smooth and calm on top.
Character is a combination of integrity, unselfishness, understanding, conviction, courage, loyalty and respect.
Excellence comes when the performer takes pride in doing his best
Life is like a ten speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use.
A man is a hero not because he is braver than anyone else, but because he is brave for ten minutes longer. --
TO AVOID GREEDASK URSELF Can I afford it? Do I really need it? If I have it, will it give me peace of mind?
Faith without action is delusion. Faith does not wait for miracles but produces them. If you think you can or if you think you can't, you are right. --
PEOPLE
People who make things happen People who watch things happen People who wonder what happened
Laws of Attraction
Everyone has a will to win but very few have the will to prepare to win
PREPARATION
admit it quickly not dwell on it learn from it not repeat it not assign blame or make excuses
Play to win and not to lose. Learn from other people's mistakes. Associate with people of high moral character. Give more than you get. Don't look for something for nothing. Always think long term. Evaluate your strengths and build on them. Always keep the larger picture in mind when making a decision. Never compromise your integrity.
Give recognition Give respect Make work interesting Be a good listener Throw a challenge Help but don't do for others what they should do for themselves
ACTION PLAN 1. Develop a sense of pride through training. 2. Reward performance. 3. Set well-defined, clear goals. 4. Set high expectations. 4. Set clear, measurable benchmarks. Evaluate the needs of others. 7. Make others part of your big picture. Set a good example by being a positive role model. Build the self-esteem of others.
High Self-Esteem Low Self-Esteem Talk about ideas Talk about people Caring attitude Critical attitude Humility Arrogance Respects authority Rebels against authority Courage of conviction Goes along to get along Confidence Confusion Concerned about character Concerned about reputation Assertive Aggressive Accepts responsibility Blames the whole world Self-interest Selfish Optimistic Fatalistic Understanding Greedy
Solitude Lonely Discuss Argue Believes in self-worth Believes in net worth only Guided Misguided Discipline Distorted sense of freedom Internally driven Externally driven Respects others Looks down on others Enjoys decency Enjoys vulgarity Knows limit Everything goes Giver Willing to learn Know it all Sensitive Touchy
Positive Self-Esteem
Discipline is not something you do to but you do for those you care about
Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired but controlling the desire
TO AVOID TENSION
Steps
Look for the positive in every person and in every situation. Resolve to be happy. Set your own standards judiciously. Develop an immunity to negative criticism. Learn to find pleasure in every little thing. Remember all times are not the same. Ups and downs are part of life. Make the best of every situation. Keep yourself constructively occupied. Help others less fortunate than yourself. Learn to get over things. Don't brood. Forgive yourself and others. Don't hold guilt or bear grudges
Attitude
I can handle it. I can do it. I am good at SPEAKING. I have a good memory
I will pay more for the ability to deal with people than for any other ability under the sun.
LIFE IS AN ECHO
WE SEE THINGS NOT THE WAY THEY ARE BUT THE WAY WE ARE
AVOID PHRASES
everyone else does it, or no one does it, or it is all your fault.
"They never cared to return my call" or "They ignored me." That is negative. Maybe: they tried, but couldn't get through they left the message we didn't get they had an emergency they never got the message
Be a Good Listener
Be Enthusiastic
Live while you are alive. Don't die before you are dead
ACCEPT UR MISTAKE
It appears to me ... I may be wrong ... Why do you feel that way? Can you explain a little? Can you be more specific?
Don't Gossip
When people tell lies, they lose credibility. Once they have lost credibility, even when they tell the truth, no one believes them.
Money will buy a great dog but only kindness will make him wag his tail.
Show Empathy
Be a Better Person
the kind of books we read; the kind of movies and TV programs we watch; the kind of music we listen to; the kind of company we keep
THE GIGO PRINCIPLE:The computer phrase GIGO (garbage in, garbage out) is very sound. Negativity in; negativity our. Positivity in; positivity out. Good in; good out.
DREAMS
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
Money will buy: Amusements but not happiness. A bed but not sleep. Books but not wisdom. A clock but not more time. Companions but not friends. Finery but not beauty. Food but not appetite. A house but not a home. Medicine but not health. A ring but not a marriage.
Study as if you were to live forever. Live as if you were to die tomorrow
Many people know how to be successful . Very few know how to handle success
A person becomes good when he actually does good rather than not doing wrong.