there are some points on my behalf that might worth nothing..

aapne keha ki "aakhir yeah soshan ladies k saath hi q hota h".. i didn't get why you mentioned only ladies for it..can't be it a man.. apni daily life se hi utha k dekh lo..females apna kaam bdi aaram se krva leti h ain..bt not gents.. viva se lekr placement tak ldki jyada awall kaise hoti h??waha to sirf is baat k a intezaar hota h ki kb yeah ldki kuch bole (chahe glt ya shi) aur kb usko appro ve kiya jaaye...nd gents agr shi b bolte hain to b unko suna ni jata..chahe vo k oi nyi and shi baat hi q na ho.. then what is this?? yeah kya apne aap main ek male hona ka mentally torture ni h ??? and if you are talking about the monopoly of the virginity...then just see aroun d..in our clg life..in professional life..and even more..jaha pr ldke hi aise nh i hote ki jo aise character k hote hain ki vo ek k saath nhi reh skte.. i hv seen many girls changing boyfreindsand accusing them that they can't afford even their CCD bills..and not a perfect match and many more like these..aren't they silly reasons to go away.. have you ever thought..can be these the reasons to break a relationship??? then where is that monopoly about which you are talking... and aapne keha ki equal rights nhi hain kisi relign main ladies k liye.. to kya aapko yaad hain vo fere jo ek couple agni ki saakhshi mankr leta h.. usmain 5th nmbr ka fera isi baare main h jo ek aurat apne hone have suhaag se ma nhti h ki agr vo koi b kaam kre..to us aurat ki j uski patni bn'ne wali h..uski salah jrur lega.. ek aur fere main manga gya h ki vo aadmi apni aurat ko kisi terah se jaleel ni k rega kisi aur k saamne..even uske family members k saamne..agr koi baat ho to vo usko akele main bta skta h... aur agr ek aadmi in dono shrto ko manta h(along with the rest of all) to hi unki saadi mani jati h..aur unko husband wife keha jata h...