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It’s not what happens around us, or to us, but within us that really
counts, but when it comes to applying it.
You become obsessed by what you have done or have not yet
done, this guilt is not reality. It is your mental state. There is no
guilt. Learn from your mistakes and avoid bad or negative
behavior and vow to make a mental note to change it. All the
guilt does is STOP you from correcting your behavior.
Guilt thoughts are:
• Should have
• Would have
• Could have
○ thoughts but they are only thoughts
By saying you should have -people are telling other people that
they did not do something as well as they might have. What
purpose is served by rehashing what you should or shouldn’t have
done? It’s over, done with! Forgive yourself and others and move
ahead.
First you chose to think anxiously, and then you blame the results
on anxiety itself, rather than on your own choices. This thought
process behind saying I am having this or that attack…
Incorrect choices
You chose unhappiness by blaming someone or something else
for your problems, circumstances, etc.
HINT: blame account/Blame bank: Just take the blame and put it
into the blame bank or account and leave it there. Let it go.
4. If you change your thinking then you can improve your world
and make it really work for everyone.
The problems that arise in:
politics, religion, education, families, business, the military,
society, medicine, and every form of human enterprise are due to
self- programmed unreal thinking.
• Thinking incorrectly
• Un correct thinking
• Thinking is out of focus, or blurred thinking which lead to self
destructive thoughts.
• Out of focus.
A rule thinker is one who does what they are told, regardless of
the situation.
Rules oriented thinking places the responsibility for behavior on
the rule, rather than the individual. When rules, laws, and policies
are held accountable as the cause of human thinking, ethics must
take a back seat.
When people base their behavior on what others tell them is
correct, ethical thinking is almost impossible and the opportunity
for fulfillment and happiness is taken away.
Happiness is an inner experience, rules are outer experiences.
Ethics are inner rules which never allow a person to behave in a
way that would be harmful to
others.
Ethical thinking-would teach people how to think for themselves.
The need for so many rules for almost every facet of your lives
would be eliminated. You have rules for virtually everything,
including when you can have a beer, what god will do to you if
you are not obeying the laws, and even what courses you must
take in schools.
Knowledge thinking says that anything you learn can benefit you
and enrich your life. Achievement thinking says that you must be
able to measure, weigh, or spend what you study and that it will
be manifested later when the fruits of your study of behavior are
to be picked.
Physical and mental illnesses are almost nonexistent when a
person learns to think in inner serenity ways. Your highest
achievers, your most fulfilled people, your most pioneering minds
in all fields seem to share this inner peace thinking, and yet so
few emulate it. Instead, they substitute for it the pursuit of
things, achievements, awards, trophies, or the approval of others.
The solution is to “Transform your thinking!”
Success will arrive in your life in whatever form you need it. All
your creative geniuses, including, artists, musicians, architects,
writers, actors, chefs, designers, mechanics do not do what they
do for money, even though it may appear that way to you. The
actual act of doing whatever it is that you do should provide
satisfaction to you independently of any external reward. The
pay is a
bonus. The bonuses arrive when you stop focusing on them and
turn your thoughts to enjoying your life and what you are doing in
the moment.
Once you believe your values derive from what you accomplish,
then it must also follow that when you fail to accomplish, then you
have no value. Hence you see people all over who when their
profit pictures turn sour, become depressed, even to the point of
needing treatment from others who are suffering from “more”. I
have observed human’s feelings useless when they retire
because they believe they are what they do.
You only grow when you fail.
Many businessmen say that the most important things in the lives
are their family, loved ones…yet spent almost no time with them.
They were busy accumulating money, which they must have
believed would provide that happiness. Still their marriages were
breaking up and they were clearly strange to their own children.
Ironically, they had no time to be with the very people they
described as most important to them.
You see their thinking is in error.
This “money lust” seems to run rampant, all for nothing. People
just think incorrectly and raise their children to do the same exact
thing.
Here, society teaches students the same way; the same amount
of time, and call those who can learn exactly that way the fastest
the smartest. In my reality, being able to assimilate something
faster than someone else has to do with one thing, speed. The
educational logic guarantees there will always be average and
below average students. Our society insists that everyone
conform to a standard norm. You teach all your young people to
think and act alike. But what do you have to offer your world if
you are just like everybody else? You insure this through the
insane pursuit of grades; those educational merit badges you
dispense on report cards and transcripts. These are the real
obsessions of educators here, not knowledge and self-discovery,
but the pursuit of those external rewards called grads. These
grades have been elevated to the biggest status and have
nothing to do with being educated in reality.
that when you acquire knowledge, you get inner satisfaction, plus
the A if you need the grade for record keeping purposes. The
results are personal satisfaction and inner pride, and one receives
a grade of Mastery when they demonstrated mastery of the
material. In a mastery system, people want to help each other,
rather than compete for the few trophies that educators make
available in for of grades, honor societies and so on. Students
have freedom to develop in areas of personal interest and explore
challenging subject without fear of railing. Cooperation rather
than competition is the style of learning and cheating is
impossible.
mind that I wanted to pay for my own college and attend and get
all A’s. I did just that. I went into the Paralegal field and loved
every class and gave 110%. It does make a difference when you
pay for your own education.