NASOITU ITUREI HA-TORAH QUESTIONS NASO BY RABBI CARL ASTOR 1. (5:12) If a man's wife has gone astray an !ro"en faith with him#$ Iturei Ha-Torah: %hat is written &re'ious(y) *An ea+h sha(( retain his sa+re onations$ ,a+h &riest sha(( "ee& what is gi'en to him$* (5:1-) If you "ee& what !e(ongs to the &riest. sure(y you wi(( !e in nee of him someay$ /ou wi(( !e for+e to go to him an !ring your unfaithfu( wife$ (Rashi) %hat is the +onne+tion !etween fai(ing to gi'e &riest(y gifts an the unfaithfu( wife) %e ha'e seen that two things ma"e one wea(thy if one !rings many things. as the 0a!!is ha'e state. *Asayr ta'asayr (you sha(( sure(y !ring a tenth tithe) (asayr) so that you !e+ome wea(thy (ta'yashary)* 1Sha!!at 1123. or the hus!an +an honor his wife an !uys for her e4&ensi'e +(othing an fine things. *They honor their wi'es so that they wi(( !e wea(thy* (56 52)$ 5ut a man +an say. *%hy must I gi'e tithes an +harity) I wi(( &ay for e4&ensi'e 7ewe(ry for my wife an !e+ome wea(thy$* Therefore. the Torah warns. if you *honor your wife at the e4&ense of +harity. you wi(( sure(y ha'e to !ring your au(teress to the &riest. for money s&ent on 7ewe(ry an fri'o(ity (eas to (ewness. an on(y +harity an tithing wi(( e(i'er you from harm$* a$ %hy wou( one !e+ome wea(thy through tithing) Through e4&ensi'e gifts to one's wife) !$ %hy +an the two not stan on their own) +$ 8ow might this a&&(y to other things in (ife) Iturei Naso Astor 2 ANSWERS 1a$ It is a mystery. !ut true. that no one !e+omes &oor !y gi'ing +harity$ 9erha&s the goo that one oes for others +omes !a+" to !(ess him$ If one honors his wife. he wi(( ha'e a hea(thy. sta!(e fami(y an that too as to one's a!i(ity to !e su++essfu($ 1!$ :i'ing to others an neg(e+ting one's own fami(y is not goo$ Nor is a se(fish. e4+(usi'e +on+ern for one's fami(y a!o'e e'eryone e(se hea(thy$ The two must go together$ 1+$ It +ou( a&&(y to s&ening money. time or effort$