Attract Women: Gun to the Head Gaming

Hola Numbnuts
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser
locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush
towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesnt even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says,
Is this the guy? The other looks at a photograph and says, Hes not wearing
the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I
d say it is him.
One of them says, Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or
were going to shoot you in the face.
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for
the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Heres what Id do
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd
does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a
minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol mouth movin a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is Hows it going?
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after Ive TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her Whats on the agenda for later?
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isnt.
In fact, Logistics arent nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not
really.
Imagine this you have plans to go bowling tonight. Its Tuesday, you almost
always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: Whats going on man?
You: Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my
Galaga score.
Buddy: Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit
maybe share our feelings and shit?
You: Umm Well I always bowl on Tuesdays kinda my normal thing and uh

But, what if Buddy called you up and said, Dude These concert tickets just fell
into my lap and blah, blah, blah
Do you think thatd change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is I used to
let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered
Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations
and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably
sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridges set up, focus on the one who seems like your
best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with
time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce
statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesnt take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you
are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, It
s just right down the street. (Ive used this a billion times for venues that are
30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, Hey sexy just in case
this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of
another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the
face.
13. As shes driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with
normal conversation. Turn here. Go left. when you get to your place say,
Park here. I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. Come in and get some water before you head back.
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is while shes in the
bathroom put on a DVD. I like Wedding Crashers or, South Park: The Return
of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers because it is sexual in nature and
hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, And try not to think about me constantly as you pull her
hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door.
When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame
Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic
way.
Captain Jack
P.S. I thought about using the Grenade Launcher instead of the Flame Thrower. But, I
felt like Grenade Launcher was a little too obvious. I feel Flame Thrower gives that
extra little bit of twist.

Gun to the Head: Charred Remains Checklist

After charring your doubters with the flamethrower youll probably want to get
some fresh air and reflect.
What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same
Night Lay?
Well, now its time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to
the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or
not you have your shit together.
When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates. Thomas
Monson
Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.
1. How many sets did I open? (If its less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase
your work rate)
2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I
could?
3. When something didnt go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?
4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didnt serve me?
5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
6. Of the TimeBridges I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there
instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into
the future with me?
7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?
8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?
9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in
front of me?
10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I
thought she was sexy?
13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?
14. Did I attempt a kiss close?
15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a
compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?
16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?
17. Did I drunk-n-lonely text about 10 minutes after close?
What is measured improves.
Captain Jack

Opening and Social Proof versus Player in the Game

Since Im going out to meet and seduce women more and actually working on SPs
Ive done a bit more experimentation and then, OUTSIDE THE FIELD, analysis of
what Ive noticed versus what I expected versus what I want.
I noticed the other day I was only marginally interesting to the hot bartenders and
wait staff until I started talking to cougar and the milf.
Normally, I explain this as Social Proof. Its one of the communities favorite theories.
And, it seems to explain a lot. Cialdini popularized it and the definition is people
will be more likely to do what they see other people doing.
What about in the case of a normal bootcamp when guys are opening, but getting
blown out or failing to get attraction they still get more AIs after opening than
when they dont open. And, in this case youd expect them to get blown out so much
the first few times that theyd be done for the night due to all the negative social
proof. But, that doesnt happen.
So, whats going on?
Lets examine this a bit further
Have you ever looked at a woman and thought it looked hard to approach her and
you werent sure if you wanted to risk it. Then, some chode went and opened her
and she was extremely nice to him and everything went fine. Then, you said to
yourself, Holy shit I could do better than that chode and you walked over and
opened?
Have you ever seen a hot girl with a chode and thought, Damn how the fuck did
he get her? Im 10x cooler than that guy and if you had a smooth chance youd have
attempted to flirt?
Both of the above have happened to me and others many, many times. Heres
another related question:
Did you know that guys have been blown out after approaching women, gone back
in later, and had it bust wide open?
What Im going to say is that Social Proof doesnt explain the warm responses you
get from approaching women when youve been seen in set OR you merge sets with
pawns
I think it has to do with how she categorizes YOU in relation to the Game being
played. Shes not keying off of the ACTUAL responses of the other women (thatd
be pre-selection) as much as shes keying off the realization that you are playing
the Game.
See, women know that this is a Game. The Game is find an attractive mate to have
sex with!
In any game there are Players and Spectators. If you are not talking to women,
approaching women or already with women then you are a Spectator until proven
otherwise. (She may HOPE that you are a Player and give you AIs to find out.)
Why do AIs increase when women see you open? Simply because they realize you
are a Player and so are they so its an invitation from one Player to another Player to
engage in the Game.
What about opening sets with a woman with you? First, it demonstrates youre a
Player in two ways, the opening and you are already with a girl. Second, much like
you look at a dude and think you could do better than that guy, the girl looks at the
girl and does the same except girls seem to be much more aggressive in this area
than the average community male. An Hb3 WILL try to unseat a 9 or 10 whereas
most dudes who feel outclassed will shy away and ask if she has any friends or
something.
You are most likely missing a lot of AIs. Assume any eye contact is an AI for the
time being and youll get a lot of real world experience around the subject. Also,
many afc/PUAs have trouble with making or keeping eye contact so practice holding
eye contact if you havent done those types of drills. Especially if this is a weak point
because it just wont be tolerated in set. If this is a weak point for you literally stare
girls down until you dont feel any pressure to look away. A few days/nights of this
is usually all you need.
You can make the assumption that if you see one AI youve probably missed 2 or 3.
Now, this snowballs. You open a set, girls notice, they start changing their body
language and giving you AIs. They look in your direction more. Other girls pick up
on this you open more, new girls pick up on it plus the old girls. Snowball.
(If youve ever been in a club with a celebrity or sports star youll notice this on
steroids magnified by one hundred. You can hardly keep a womans attention when
theres a big celeb in proximity.)
As you move around girls will shift body language towards you. Youll get Proximity
AIs from all girl sets, etc.
(In my eCoaching bootcamp I discuss Parading girls its the fastest way to warm up
the entire venue. I have a saying that if you can Parade 3 times in a night you will
most likely get laid. It is magical.)
Cant this be described by Pre-Selection?
Again, only partially. See, pre-selection means the women were visibly and intensely
attracted to you and the other women noticed it. We have PLENTY of examples of
guys who have a lot of hot female FRIENDS who couldnt get laid if their life
depended on it. What is going on here? Well, though they are surrounded by hot
girls they never show new girls they meet that they are in the game. They never
show her that they know her Goals and move her across the barriers/obstacles to
the win.
Dont get me wrong Pre-Selection DOES help. But, what Im talking about is
something even before and more basic. Im talking about girls giving AIs and
becoming warm just based on her/their analysis that you are playing the same
Game they are. Pre-selection comes later it is Hes in the same Game AND hes
obviously good at it (Parading, which I mentioned above, activates Pre-Selection
especially when multiple girls are paraded together or close together in the same
night.)
EVERYBODY in the game hates wasting time. Females dont want an opportunistic
Spectator to suck up their time so they usually reserve their AIs for proven Players.
Girls also intuitively know that if she can get one guy to open her then a few others
will get more courage and open. Thus, more Players and more opportunity for her to
win.
What about Celebrities?
Lets analyze this a bit Why do women like Celebrities? I can think of a bunch of
reasons.
1. Money? Money doesnt hurt BUT, it cant ONLY be money. Pro PUAs have many,
many super rich guys come to us for help. Many super rich end up as sugar daddies
for hotties and those situations arent usually exclusive.
2. Looks? Well, women dont have the same physiological responses to looks as men
do. Their acceptable range of looks is MUCH wider and is weak enough that we can
totally ignore it. (Provided your grooming and style is good). Plus, many Celebrities
are dog ugly.
3. Status? A strong contributor. Society has conditioned us to treat celebs better.
Even dudes want to meet other celebrity dudes.
4. An Assumed Player in the Game. This conditioning of status begins the
SNOWBALL we talked about earlier. When you get the multiple girls visibly
interested, the society conditioning of treating celebs as special plus the idea of
bragging rights and money, then you have a lot of factors working together. It is
deduced, assumed, that they are prime Players in the Game thus, the females play
all out.
The Case of the Man with Social Proof but Not a Player in the Game.
Take a guy out with 3 women. One of them is his wife, the other two are her sexy
girlfriends. He has a wedding band on. Does he get massive AIs? No. He might get a
few at first some women are screwy and like to try and others may not have
noticed the ring but after about an hour or two in the venue he is essentially
invisible to the other Players.
I noticed this when I was out with FBs/Girlfriends. Id get a LOT of AIs at first and
after a bit I was essentially invisible again. Sure I was with a hot girl (social proof
idea) BUT it was pre-empted because the girls realized I wasnt in the Game.
So, I put the idea of Social Proof on the backburner as something that, while valid,
only partially described what was happening and opt instead for the fuller idea of
Player in the Game. It better describes what actually occurs in the field. Spectators,
Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.
This also helps to mesh Sexual Framing with some of the more standard MM
structured approach. Though, I usually avoid the standard Peacocking, Pawning,
Social Proof/DHV routines (ex. the routine where you show you with pics with hot
girls, doing cool shit, hanging with cool people), with this idea they start to make
sense together.
When I open and start Sexual Framing Im demonstrating Im a Player in the
Game that we are both playing the same Game, that I value her Game Goal (finding
a guy who can make her feel sexy and sexual) and Im willling to carry it home (so to
speak! haa).
Since Ive gotten good at opening one or two sets, hooking and staying in for the long
haul the other girls notice it if the set busts or unravels, many girls in the vicinity
have noticed the deep sexual attraction between me and the other girl and have me
pegged. Opening any girl who witnessed that makes my set go that much easier.
She isnt looking for Value or Social Proof, shes looking for the man in her near
Vicinity who is the best Player in the Game.
If you understand this it will lessen your worry about people seeing a set go bad. It
wont matter, by opening youll show everyone else youre in the game.
Captain Jack
P.S. You should also feel less pressure from others watching you open because
Spectators dont count! And, Male Players are too busy playing to notice or care! In
fact, if anything theyre probably thinking of allying with you to give both of you
better chances to win.
More on The Game Dynamics

Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance

Hmm I think this is boiling down to a bit of semantics and how you exactly define it.
If I go to a bar with my hot female friends I get tons more AIs that if I go with my male
buddies. Sure, if I dont do anything about it then the AIs will die down over time
(except for new girls entering the venue). But either way simply having hot girls with
you gets you more interest than not, therefore scientifically proving that social proof is
a contributory factor!
It wont get you laid (youll still have to open duh!) but is sure as dandy helps!
comment by charliereay on Opening and Social Proof Versus Player in the
Game post
I am surprised I didnt get more of these types of comments. When I published the
post I expected to get a lot more of these types than the all out positive ones.
Let me start by saying this Im not saying Social Proof isnt right or is wrong.
What Im saying is that it is INCOMPLETE. Im pointing out that it leaves A LOT more
unexplained than explained.
I discussed quite a few things that it left unexplained in the last post. There is a
higher level dynamic at work when attracting, approaching and seducing
women that better explains what is going on and that is the player in the game
concept.
One GREAT way to know if you have found a better organizing principle is if you
experience a surge in motivation to act or a desire to do things differently. Two or 3
commenters noted they felt more pumped toapproach women. The reason is
because when they adopted this idea it caused a spontaneous release of competing
and inefficient ideas leaving more energy and attention available for action. And/or
it stabilized a lot of floating thoughts thus lessening confusion (and confusion causes
fear and apprehension.)
Ill show you how it better explains common field phenomena and then Ill show you
how it ALSO explainsSexual Framing.
Social Proof
Covered in previous post.
Peacocking
Someone who is peacocking but not opening is a tool. Why? Socially we
know, and women know, that Peacocking is something you do when you are
Playing the Game. A dude who is Peacocked and not opening is socially
weird. Likewise, people with low game awareness call scantily clad women in
the club sluts not realizing this is what women do to invite the real Players
to open. Saying that women open guys who are peacocked because they
realize the men are Players in the Game is a leap but, it is a very small leap.
It might be better explained by saying that women can use it to show
everyone THEY are playing the Game thus, getting her opened more without
making it too obvious.
Pre-Selection
I covered this a bit in the last post. Pre-Selection is a VERY valid and
observable phenom. But, again this only applies to Players in the Game.
When they realize you arent in the Game their awareness is no longer on you
and all invitations and attention shift to find Players.
Jealousy Threads
Again, you have to be a Player in the Game and have her attracted for a
Jealousy Thread to exist. J-Threads are incredibly powerful. They are so
powerful BECAUSE the Game has a limited time span (a Game Obstacle) and
a limited number of Players (another Game Obstacle). Her desire to win
compels her to focus more energy on a proven quantity as does her desire to
IMPROVE against competition. (The competition is other females, not the
males.) Add to that the fact that she WAS on her way to Winning and youve
got a deep sense of loss and self-doubt creeping in. The idea that other
females could be BETTER was theoretical, now it is all too real. She will do
ALMOST anything to beat the competitor.
Disqualifiers
There are two valid players. It looks like they are headed to winning but,
now one of them seems to be questioning whether or not the other is a
Player the chances of winning drop causing fear and increasing desire to
get back in the Game.
DHVs
Im skeptical about the real use of DHVs EXCEPT when you are talking to a
girl to whom that shit is important AND her logical mind is engaged. She can
use that stuff to talk herself into liking you or giving you more time/chances.
Ok, Player in the Game refines those a bit without colliding and give us a better
understanding.
We KNOW Mystery Method works AND it works very very well for what it is
designed to do Those items listed above are given as the reason MM works But,
what then explains the massive success of Sexual Framing which isnt built on any of
those?
Sexual Framing doesnt use Jealousy-Threads, Pre-Selection, Demonstrations of
Higher Value (DHVs), Merging, Pawning or Social Proof except as a consequence
when a set unravels and you have to open a new one.
In fact, Sexual Framing VIOLATES many common MM principles.
Can the Player in the Game concept describe it? Yes! Wonderfully!
A Game is made up of Spectators, Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.
Im not using Obstacles in the MM definition here. Although her friends COULD be
Obstacles they arent by default. They are only Obstacles when they dont KNOW
that you and her friend have AGREED to play the game together.
Approaching, attracting and seducing women is often called The Game.
All Games are Based on Agreement.
Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players. Naturally, this
is you making a smooth open, hooking the set and her entering communication with
you. If you cant get agreement on this you dont have a Game.
Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game
TOGETHER. By opening Sexual Frames you are telling her what Game you are
playing. As she continues talking with you and playing along she is AGREEING that
this is a male-female conversation with a sexual dynamic. If you cant get agreement
on this you dont have a Game.
Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal. By being
non-judgmental and telling her you LOVE how sexy she is, etc you are showing her
this. If you cant get agreement on this you dont have a Game.
Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the
Obstacles first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate
environment then over time. This can be done explicitly by getting the group to
like you getting her so into you that she does it and/or using an Inoculation
Routine like I mentioned in FR: College Girls! Then, by baby-stepping her along
ever so gently shell know/feel that she is having all the good feelings and none of
the bad (like she usually does), she gets even more comfortable and puts more trust
in you. If you cant get agreement on this you dont have a Game.
Also, you can look for her to show you the same! For example, when I ask her
Youre not the jealous type are you? and then tell a story about how I was
hanging out (code for fucking) a girl and she got jealous and I didnt approve Im
beginning to define what Game we are playing and putting in question her
agreement on Dynamic 2. She has to alleviate my concerns by agreeing with me that
jealousy sucks.
The Most Evil of All Evils
What about LMR? Can this even shed some light on LMR?
Yes!
LMR is primarily an unclear agreement about whether or not you are both playing
the same Game (unclear Game Dynamic 2). It can also be that you havent shown her
that you value her Game Goal (unclear on Game Dynamic 3).
If she is playing Potential GF Game and you are playing ONS game and she THINKS
you are playing Potential GF Game but isnt exactly sure due to mixed
communication signals then BAM! LMR. Youd have to have told her that your
game works like this Primarily Sexual and then possible grow into GF over time in
order to avoid it.
On the flipside, If you WERE playing to get a GF and she was CONVINCED you were
and she WAS playing that Game too
and she believed that giving it up wouldnt destroy that Game (clear on Game
Dynamic 3), then
shed have no issue having sex with you the first night.
This is why so many of the PUAs trained in social forms of Pick-up have such a
hard time getting laid.
They broadcast social, fun guy potential fun bf on Game Dynamic 2 and then
wonder why it takes forever to lay her furthermore, they never make it clear that
they VALUE sexuality so she has to be double certain it wont fuck up that Game
before having sex. They have methodically built tons of agreement on a DIFFERENT
GAME (fun, cool, social bf) and wonder why the Game Goal of a DIFFERENT GAME
isnt happening.
Those Silly PUAs.
Captain Jack
P.S. Knowing what you know now about The Game Dynamics you should be able to
pinpoint on WHICH Dynamic any busted set failed on. All no-gos are failure on
Game Dynamic 1. All sets that unravel come from failures on Game Dynamic 4, etc.
What would you do with said information? Why youd examine your Game Plan and
look for deficiencies in your common routines/stacks/ideas/beliefs in that area,
shore it up, set up experiments/solutions and get your ass back in the Field!
P.P.S. Disqualifiers work because they threaten agreement on Game Dynamic 1. See
that? If there isnt agreement on all the Game Dynamics, there is NO GAME, thus no
chance of winning. Jealousy Thread threatens Game Dynamic 2.

Player States of Existence and Nested Games

Hola PUAs!
Recall from Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance Game Dynamic 1:
You and her must agree you are both Players.
So, Im going to introduce Player States of Existence to you to help you improve
Dynamic 1.
Before she sees you or is aware of your presence your state is Non-Existence. After
she becomes aware of you and/or you open and the set progresses, she updates
your State to one of the following:
Potential Player of a Game I Want to Play
Doubt (could be Doubt about Dynamic 2, 3, 4)
Playing a Different Game
Someone I Want to Play With
All of her communication is geared towards Clarifying the Dynamics and/or
forwarding agreement on them. If you are in an Existence of Doubt on Dynamic 3
she may call a certain girl in the club who is dancing sexy a slut to see what you say
about it. (Also remember that most of this is unconscious, we are wired to gain
certainty about the Game we are playing and our states of existence in it.)
If you call the girl a slut as well then youve shed some light for her on Dynamic 3.
You need to respond in a way that reaffirms what Game you are playing and that
you VALUE that Game Goal.
Contrast these two responses:
1) For real, her boyfriend needs to put her in check.
2) I like it when women express their sexuality so freely.
In one simple exchange youve created entirely different scenarios.
Shit Tests?
What we used to call Shit Tests arent Shit Tests at all. They are attempts to
Clarify. Simple as that. Youve done something or broadcast something or she has
flat out ASSUMED something about the Game and wants to get a response from you
about it to Clarify.
In the writing of Field Reports (or, even better, audio recordings) you can notice
when youve been in a Doubt Status in her mind. It is clear as day. The stuff she says
or asks you is so obviously trying to Clarify that I now wonder how I missed it for so
long.
When the Dynamics are Clarified and Agreed on sex is a matter of keeping them
clear and getting her to a place where you can escalate physically to sex.
Almost all sets that blow up after things have been going well are because youve
cast Doubt on one or more of the Dynamics.
I did it msyelf just yesterday. Super hot 19 year old asian waittress, disqualified her
so much that Dynamic 1 got thrown out and she didnt feel like she could play.
Whats the Strategy now? I have to go back there and Clarify on Dynamic 1 and work
back through the rest of them.
Nested Games
I have the working Hypotheses that women go to bars/clubs to find attractive mates
to have sex with. That hypotheses has served me well and it is one that I continue to
work within
For some people, the hardcore clubbies, sex occurs inside of another game. That
Game is Faux Celebrity. Think of the super-hot club chick. Her primary Game is Faux
Celebrity. Almost anyone who wants to gain Agreement on Dynamic 1 for the Sex
Game has to be playing Faux Celebrity Game first. For them, Sex seems to be a
Nested Game inside of it I think that since Mystery didnt have any awareness of
Nested Games he took this to mean this is THE ONLY way to do it. This is where his
Celebrity and Entourage games concepts come from (and hence DHVs.)
Since the problem with Nested Games stems from having to Clarify and Agree on the
Game Dynamics TWICE (once for each Game) it appears more difficult.
People who have Sex as a Nested Game have larger Social Circles and/or serial LTRs
or some other side effect. You see a lot of hot girls with Social Circles that have a lot
of guys who passed on Dynamic 1 of the Outer Game and then failed on the Nested
Game. Caught in the Friend Zone!
The Master Strategy is to cast DOUBT on the validity of the Outer Game and then
BYPASS it to go straight to Clarifying on the Nested Game. If you can get Agreement
on them then she will backwards rationalize why the Outer Game doesnt matter or
apply in this case.
She will HOOK MUCH HARDER because she has those intense feelings and it makes
her feel like it must be more REAL.
For the next audio (or two) in the Master Strategies course I am going to be
releasing all the current research information about Game Dynamics I have. ALL
Master Strategies result in increasing your capability IN THE FIELD. It is Theory FOR
Action.
If you sign up now youll get the two previous audios as well.

How to Meet, Attract and Seduce Women Using Game Dynamics

Do you ever wonder why
Sets that were going well suddenly unravel?
A girl who was all over you on the first meeting is acting like a church girl on
the first date?
Things seem to work for others but not YOU?
A girl suddenly stops responding to calls or texts?
You do well at some venues but not others?
You do well with certain types of girls but not others?
If meeting women and attracting women is frustrating, youve been spinning your
wheels and cant make any (or much) progress DESPITE working at it for awhile
then there is a fundamental problem.
Working harder wont do a damn thing for you but continue to frustrate you and
waste your time.
Ive already proven that what nearly every other PU guru says out there is just plain
dead wrong. Social Pick-up is dead (or it should be) It is retarded and is based on
bullshit ideas.
Social is the wrong thing to be. She is SICK of Social. Those are the nice guy losers
she not only wont have sex with but who she is actually REPULSED by
If youve been reading my stuff for any length of time you at least have SOME idea of
where I am coming from. Right now, I am EXCITED because Ive discovered the
Missing Link to finding THE THING that is causing you trouble.
And in just a few minutes, youre gonna discover it, too.
Heres what its all about: Nearly everybody thinks attracting women is either a
Social Game, an Inner Game or a X Game or all those things to different degrees.
You open confidently, you do this technique, that technique, get a number, see her
again and after some elapsed time you make a move.
And, sure you need to do all those things No getting around that.
But, in terms of real progress, it is DEADLY to think its only those things. The guys
who got good intuitively understand this but not always in the right way. A lot of
gurus will yak on and on about how important Inner Game is. How you gotta get
your Inner Game on and get your confidence up and be a man and strengthen your
masculine core and other such things which CANNOT be demonstrated or taught.
They have a point You do need that stuff but it isnt learned. Its a Phenomena of
this Missing Link Im talking about.
And until you understand this Missing Link, you will NEVER get where you want to
go in terms of attracting women. Ever. (Sorry.)
Listen: Youre going to be just as thrilled AND ecstatic as I am once you see what Im
talking about here. It will change everything about Game (and life) for you and it
will:
Make your skillset more stable (forget about wild and unexplainable
swings. If weird shit happens youll know WHY and how to fix it.)
Instantly detect where SHE is at in the interaction and precisely what you
need to do next to baby-step it towards your Goal.
TRULY feel more confident in interactions.
SEE and notice opportunities in the field and in-set that youve never noticed
before.
And literally FORCE your Game Plan to be more precise, accurate and
effective!
And the best part is
Its REALLY Simple!
Have you ever had been watching a mystery movie and you solved the crime
halfway through? The other people watching it with you are still completely in the
dark and making these wild statements about who did what and using earlier scenes
to tell you why and it all sounded so ridiculous you couldnt believe they were so
dumb?
If so, then you have a feeling of what it is like for me when Im crushing old Pick-up
ideas left and right using this new Missing Link. Its a Process that anyone can run.
Ive run it on myself a few times and each time I see things clearer and clearer and
results go through the roof.
I know this sounds too good to be true but, this missing link process really is
just like suddenly discovering you can do something that no one else seems able to
do.
Thats because it has nothing at all to do with the anything anyone in the
community has ever discussednothing at all to do with the whatever half-baked
InnerGame ideas that any of the gurus are talking about no magic crystals, or
energy vortexes or loving and stroking your masculine side and nothing at all to
do with anything that any regular guru would suggest to try to fix your Game.
Heres an email I got from someone who just recently got this missing link a few
days ago:
Dude, I have been in this so called community for years now, while I get lucky here and
there.. (way more then before I started).. I always end up losing or messing out on
potentially good opportunities, i take that back, great opportunities. Ive always
known that it had to do something with reframing my way of thinking about some
part of the interaction, but It didnt really make much sense until I heard the last two
pieces you sent.
fuck, its like i been stuck in my own little mental cell. Im definitely going to put this
plan of action in play. Ever since I read your modified strawberry fields test some
where on the web, I knew you had a unique view about thist, the sexual framing part I
have lacked for years now.
You want to know what this is? Of course you do. And Im going to reveal it to you.
Right now.
Come closer. Closer. Listen: The secret is
HOW YOU SEE THINGS!
Or, the better way of saying it is Your Viewpoint.
Now, dont think for a second you know what I mean by Viewpoint. Its not your
attitude or belief or anything like that It goes much deeper and it is a mind
phenomena that I saw at work in me and others.
Forget about all the tactics, strategies, body language and all that shit you know.
You could know EVERY POSSIBLE pick-up routine and if your Viewpoint is fucked
so are you. You wont execute the tactics at the right time or youll OVER do it or,
forget or not see the opportunity. The list goes on.
Basically, the mind avoids confusion by grabbing onto a basic ordering idea. It is
good because it brings you out of confusion and helps you operate/interact with
your environment It is bad because it only allows you to see things that jive with
it
Bad Basic Ordering Idea and youve got REAL TROUBLE.
It clouds, skews and keeps you from seeing what is actually happening. Problem is
once youve adopted it, the Basic Ordering Idea DISAPPEARS from immediate
conscious view. You arent aware of it you are only able to see the ideas and inputs
IT organizes!
Those ideas and inputs are anchored and have the appearance of HARD REALITY.
The plain fact is and this is what separates the great ones from the guys having
shitloads of trouble theres a very destructive ILLUSION going on. There is stuff
happening in the real world then, theres the stuff that The Viewpoint magnifies
and notices and the stuff that it ignores or writes off
The Viewpoint is the reason why you dont make or make very little progress. You
can never get better than it allows you to it creates an artificial upper limit on your
results! And, no matter how much work you do no matter how many sets you
open no matter how many Pick-up Systems you learn youll be kept captive by
The Viewpoint.
What you THINK you see is NOT what is actually happening. What no pick up guru
(who cares about actually training and getting his students GOOD!) has realized is
that
The Viewpoint Completely SCREWS You
Every Time You Are In the Field!
The ability to discover, then dismantle, and then REPLACE the basic ordering idea
the Viewpoint is attached to is what is going to separate you from the pack!
The guys who got good either did this on accident or (more likely) never had a very
limiting basic ordering idea to begin with They dont know what theyve done to
get past the illusion created by the Viewpoint!
Imagine a simple discovery and correction boosting your game. Previous tactics
that NEVER worked for you now work BECAUSE you can see when and how to use
them and you do it EASILY.
Imagine KNOWING where she is at and what to do next this is the most shocking
thing to see in my opinion. Girls are READY far more quickly than weve previously
suspected!
The plain fact is you can be awkward, average looking and even selectively lazy
and STILL get good at Game. It is NATURAL and sex is simple. But ONLY if youve
conquered the viewpoint created illusion.
Okay, Im not going to tease you any more. I cant teach you this process here in a
blog post, because it takes a bit of explanation and drilling. Youve got to HEAR it
and then do it for yourself.
Its an audio that is about an hour long and will take you about another hour or so to
do the process on yourself.
But once you do, youll start seeing and feeling shit you never have before. Youll be
amazed and wonder how you missed it Youll also say No wonder! at a lot of the
stuff that happens in set when you get to the basic ordering idea.
It will take you about an hour to listen but only a few minutes for the realizations to
start setting in Then, its time to do the process on yourself AND see how things
change next time you go out!
And thats it. Youll have corrected the illusion that is the SOURCE of all your
misery in Game.
Simple. Easy. Fast.
The way to get it is to get the Master Strategies Monthly program.
Not only will you get this specific audio youll get the Sexual Framing Mastery
audio, the Crush Mental Barriers audio, the audio on Recorded Voice and the
brand new Game Dynamics audio. Thats 5 audios youll get now PLUS 9 more, one
per month, for the next 9 months!
Simply click the link below to order
Master Strategies Monthly
Or, heres a 3 payment option:
Master Strategies Monthly 3-Pay
Hope to hear of your successes with this new stuff!
Captain Jack

Sexualizing Your Game: How Tos

Ok, early in my PU career a few things happened that required me to focus on SNLs.
One was that my car blew up on my first f-close out of bootcamp.
The second was, even when I had access to a car, I could get girls numbers and even
timebridges but I could FEEL on the day2s that there was no sexual energy so they
would drag out to day3s, day4s. Naturally, I said Fuck that shit!
And, put on my scientist hat to design in-field experiments to 1) Get same night sex
because I didnt know when Id have access to a car or 2) Make Day2s little more
than coming to my place for sex
Then, I read My Secret Garden and Way of the Superior Man and both of them
rocked my world. Those are must reads for every PUA.
So, how do you get sexual in the sarge? Theres a direct way (which Sinn has been
using for a few weeks now and Im sure hell post about it) and then theres an
Indirect way which relies on outside framing ideas and presuppositions (from the
Milton Model created by Bandler).
Heres my normal way of doing it:
Opener
DHV Spike Stories
BUT, my DHV spike stories contain references to a past girlfriend who was a dancer.
The presups are that 1) shes hot 2) she can have any guy but she wants me and 3)
shes a very sexual person
At this point, if were still talking I do sleepy eyes ala ijjjjjji and make my
movements slow and deliberate with LOTS of eye contact and shoulder and lower
back kino.
At the first opportunity (mini-isolation or full) I run my version of Strawberry
Fields. Im not saying shes a sexual being. Its the test!
When I give her the results I often whisper them into her ear with my hand on her
lowerback. Then, I push her away.
If this goes well I start bouncing between my comfort stack and more sexual
presupps. Usually by this time you can start saying more direct sexual talk (If your
friends werent here Id spank you for being such a bad girl.)
I think of this as an interlacing spiral moving upwards to sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort,
Sex. Comfort, Sex. In lock-step.
I try to get Rings on Fingers in after one comfort routine. Rings on Fingers does 3
things:
1) It tells her she is sexually aggressive when she sees someone shes attracted to
2) It tells her your are NOT judgmental
3) It says that BOTH of you are good at keeping secrets
The change in her demeanor is visible. If youve ever done it youll know what Im
talking about. The best way I can describe it is She softens and then glows.
Now, if I havent gotten the Same Night Lay Logistics info by this time then I make
sure to do it now. (look for Same Night Lay guidelines to find out those questions)
Next, Ill start laying down my Identity Stack which includes my Cosmo Routine I
based off of Bandlers SRT. Ive shared this in my eCoaching program. It MIGHT be
on the Lounge as well.
Statements like Im trying so hard not to kiss you right now work well at this point.
Kiss tests like going cheek-to-cheek to tell her something can often lead to what
appears to be a spontaneous kiss, too.
One way to know if youre out of lock-step in terms of sexual escalation and comfort
is if she says things like, Dont you want to know anything about me? or I hardly
know you. throttle back and run some more comfort.
The rest of the logistical info can be found here.
~ Captain Jack ~