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2 Issue 3 :: 01/09/14 2 excited to meet old friends, perhaps make new ones, register for classes, buy books, get back to routine, etc.; all of which can be summarized by saying that September is all about new beginnings. New beginnings because some students will be experiencing their first semester in university, QUESTION OF THE MONTH New Beginnings By Sheikh Hisham Alaghbari A man with three sons owns 17 camels. In his will it is written that his oldest son is to receive half of the camels, his second son is to receive a third of the camels and his youngest sons is to receive a ninth of the camels. How is it possible to have the camels split between the three sons? Answer will be revealed in next months issue IshaAllah! Send your answer to uomsatimes@gmail.com with the subject "Question of the Month", your name, and phone number. A prize will be awarded to a winner every month! 3 others have learnt from their shortfalls in the past and are prepared this time around to make changes in order to perform better. University time can be very stressful. Many students become overwhelmed thinking about studies, work/volunteering, family, finances, spiritual growth, and so on. Dealing with and 1 People usually set goals, plan to take up some challenges and make their new year's resolution at the end of December hoping to start implementing them in January. Yet, September is that pivotal time point for me. Despite having been out of school for a few years now, September continues to be a special yearly milestone for me. I would also say that this is the case for most university students as well. As students return from the summer break, they are Due to last minute change in how the question was phrased and a pinch of confusion, the answer to Augusts Question of The Month is unable to be answered. We apologize for the inconvenience and hope you continue to send in answers. Thank you for understanding! ANSWER TO AUGUSTS QUESTION 3 Issue 3 :: 01/09/14 5 renew your intention and make it only for Allah. 2- Time management: our biggest and most prized capital is time. Yet, many people have no problem wasting it. If it helps, think of time as money and make sure that you get the biggest bang for your buck. Some students do not live up to their full potential because they think that they do not have time. Yet, upon closer inspection, you will find that their time is not used wisely. If theres anything that a Muslim should be greedy with, its time. Plan to cut out all idle time in your life and very soon you will realize that you can accomplish a whole lot more. In addition, procrastination can be very detrimental to one's success. Be proactive! 3- Good righteous companionship: being the stressful environment that it is, university life leads many students to haram activities in order to relief some of the stress. At times of spiritual lows, one can easily fall into the haram. Make sure to stay close to those who remind you of 4 managing all of these things can be a very rewarding experience. It is only fully appreciated in retrospect. While attending university has the obvious result of academic and scholastic growth, it is also the time period allowing for the transition from childish/immature behavior to that of a more responsible demeanor. During this time, a lot of mistakes are made but most probably more lessons are learnt. That's why it is important to be serious during university years. This does not mean that one should not have fun. All it means is that students must be balanced. Having said this, it is important to keep the following in mind: 1- Intention: one of the beauties of our religion is that it allows one to gain rewards from Allah and His Pleasure simply through making intentions whereby turning an otherwise ordinary action into an act of worship. With the new school year, make sure to 6 Allah. 4- Make duaa: ultimately, everything is in the hands of Allah. Call upon Him for every need of yours and take the proper means and by the Will of Allah, you will achieve all your goals. May Allah subhanhu wa ta'la grant us success in this life and the Next. September is all about new beginnings. Intention, Time Management, Companionship & Duaa 4 Issue 3 :: 01/09/14 1 As human beings we seem to have this tendency to give out usually incorrect and ill- informed judgments on others at every turn. The world appears to be filled with finger pointing and blaming that is seemingly absent of the needed balance of empathy and communication. What causes this kind of disconnect between people? This question is certainly not an easy one to answer, but based on a concept in psychology we can inch closer to a better understanding. This concept is referred to as the fundamental attribution error and can be defined as, Peoples tendency to overemphasize internal explanations for the Secret Springs of Action By: Abdo Elnakouiouri 2 behaviour of others, while failing to take into account the power of the situation. In simpler terms we tend to mostly think that other people do things because of who they are while neglecting the effect that the context and situation plays into instigating the action. For example, if you are walking down the street and see someone trip and fall, you are most likely to believe the person to be clumsy or absent minded. Conversely, because of what is termed the actor- observer bias, if you are walking down the street and you yourself trip it is clearly because you had a rough day and that your tired. In this case the trip is attributed to circumstances and not because of inherent traits within you. Another example would be if you did not do well on a test, the complete burden 3 of blame, according to you, would rests solely on the totalitarian teacher that lacks any regard for student success. The problem with this is compounded when we try to understand why and where our actions come from. As the philosopher Immanuel Kant said, We can never, even by the strictest examination, get completely behind the secret springs of action. Our actions hardly ever come from one sole intention that that directly causes the action. The simple idea that cause/intention X results in action Y is rarely if ever the case. Instead we need to take into account our competing motivations, the circumstances and cues of the environment, our past habits and biases, our available reservoir of 5 Issue 3 :: 01/09/14 4 actions permitted through our beliefs, etc. The list is infinite. The point is that actions come from a complex mix of variables that would be near impossible to fully understand. We also extrapolate this to groups in general. What is known as the ultimate attribution error expresses the idea that we tend to explain the negative actions of a group that arent related to us by labeling them as all having a certain flaw. If someone observes a representative of another group acting poorly, they then label the whole group as having an inherent faulty characteristic. However if someone from a group that we are associated with acts in a negative fashion we have a more holistic view of the circumstances from within and can recognize them as either an outlier or acting outside of their normal habits due to our full appreciation of the diversity and variables at play. So for example if a friend of yours yells at someone at their work, you might excuse their actions because you know that they are going through especially stressful times at home or at school. 5 One of the many motivations behind these biases and errors is the need to conserve intellectual and cognitive energy. Unless someone has trained themselves and learned to look for alternative and circumstantial explanations for others action it is much easier to see another group or person in a one dimensional fashion. Why invest energy in trying to come up with alternative versions of why a person did something when it is much easier to have an easy to digest cause and effect behind the whole thing? It has been shown that when the brain is preoccupied with other processes the fundamental attribution error is committed more often 1 .
This means that as a result of not having our full mental capacity to push ourselves to understand the whole situation we instead often opt to take the easy way out since the possible circumstances behind the action are not easy to access. It requires tapping into our true human potential to try empathizing with a person or group that act outside our scope of understanding. Therefore, we must either put forth due effort before making initial evaluations or suspending judgement indefinitely. 6 How might we bring ourselves to overcome this easy to commit error that contaminates the lines of empathy and communication? Firstly we must look within ourselves and delve deep into our past in order to gain a further understanding of how actions that now seem disturbing were once initiated by us under an aura of normalcy. Although we may tend to secretly condemn ourselves for our own past actions, using them to initiate a further understanding on how we came to carry out what we did will nudge us forward in the understanding of how different factors can lead to retrospectively wrong behaviour. Your actions might have been the only logical choice at the time based on your limited knowledge and the circumstances. Observing now with hindsight on how things played out with a deeper understanding of the context, we can be empathetic towards ourselves and come to terms with our mistakes. In fact there are almost certainly things that you do now that you will look back on in the future with at least a slight distain. If we cannot fully grasp our own actions and 6 Issue 3 :: 01/09/14 7 intentions, can we honestly assume that we can do that for others? We might see things that might be oblivious to them, but the background knowledge or the circumstances that lead them to these situations are not necessarily available to us. From this internal search we resurface with a newfound appreciation and a humbling paradigm shift recognizing that we see things through the scope of a single pixel in a vast and changing picture. Quick blanket judgements on a person let alone an entire group are quickly rendered obscene departures from reason. This is but one example of how delving deeper within ourselves leads to a deeper understanding of the world around us.
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