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of the drunk tanks. Obviously, I was a child, and in no way intoxicated. My dad was
trying his best to show me what bad decisions can result in regards to breaking the law.
At the time, as a 7-year old, I was completely transfixed on the idea of my freedom being
taken away. But through this new lens, I see that my privacy was also being taken away.
If I were jailed, I would constantly be watched; even using the restroom would be an
open view through those metal bars. My father was a policeman; his job was to obtain
information that resulted in justice. At one point in my fathers career, he helped a
different citys police force by working as a private detective. Again, a detective could
arguably be the most anti-privacy job next to paparazzi or the NSA. My little brother is
two years younger than me. We did a lot of things together, but we had separate rooms. I
cannot recall invading my little brothers privacy, or him invading mine. We knew that if
either of our doors were closed, a knock is the most basic pre-requisite before opening
that door.
Being a privileged white male, Ive never had my privacy oppressively invaded. I
also, never took a shine to religion. I attended an all boys catholic high school, in which
I liked to keep my religious affiliations (or lack there of) quite private. I did not want to
alienate myself from my classmates based on religion which I didnt care about or believe
in. After high school, I immediately went to college at CSUMB as a freshman. Here, I
experienced roommate living for the first time. Ive had sleepovers before, but this was a
whole new ballgame. This could have been comparable to when my father locked me in
the drunk tank, except this time I had cell mates. We were all in the same boat, a forced
lack of privacy for all freshmen. I am, at my core, an introvert. I crave and need solitude
After reflection, I have realized the values that are reinforced or slowly beginning
to dwindle in my life. First, is the fluctuation of trust that I put into things especially
online. These days, anyone can write anything on the Internet, and as long as it looks
legitimate it will most likely be taken seriously. Second, is my uncaring or sense of
empathy. I am a gamer, and from that culture brings desensitization to human feelings.
Like I said before, it is so easy to feel invincible and unfeeling from behind a computer
screen. To feel untouchable and anonymous can bring on a completely different psyche.
My personal conception of privacy ultimately falls to: we are beginning to move
towards complete transparency in all of our lives. We update each other on our current
whereabouts, actions, and feelings. With this becoming the overwhelming majority, I
believe that privacy will become quite a valuable commodity. The only people, who will
be able to retain it, are the ones who do not participate in the system all together. The
only sad thing is, the world we live in today essentially requires you to be a part of
technology and the Internet. With that requirement, your privacy is forfeit.