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KAPLAN UNIVERSITY

HW410 Stress: Critical Issues in Management and


Prevention

Stress Management and


Prevention Program
Resource Guide

KAPLAN UNIVERSITY

Stress Management and Prevention


Program Resource Guide

By
Kerry A. McCullough
Kaplan University
HW410: Stress: Critical Issues in Management and Prevention
November 18, 2014

Table of Contents
UNIT 1 THE NATURE OF STRESS
Information to Remember ................................................................................................................ 5
What is Stress ......................................................................................................................... 5
The Yerkes-Dodson Principle............................................................................. 5
Holistic Approach to Stress Management ........................................................ 5
Resources: Exercises............................................................................................................. 5
My Health Philosophy........................................................................................... 5
Tools: Journal Writing .......................................................................................................... 6
Are You Stressed? .................................................................................................. 6
UNIT 2 THE PHYSIOLOGY OF STRESS
Information to Remember
Human Energy Field: Chakra System................................................................ 8
Stress Kills ................................................................................................................ 8
How the Immune System Works ....................................................................... 8
Resources: Exercises: Exercises ......................................................................................... 8
Immediate, Intermediate, and Prolonged Stress Effects ............................... 8
Tools: Journal Writing: ......................................................................................................... 9
My Health Profile ................................................................................................... 9
UNIT 3 PSYCHOLOGY OF STRESS
Information to Remember ................................................................................................11
Emotional Consequences of Stress ..................................................................11
Spiritual Health Consequences of Stress .........................................................11
The Subtleties of Predictability ..........................................................................11
Resources: Exercises...........................................................................................................11
Anger Recognition Checklist .............................................................................11
Tools: Journal Writing: Journal Writing .........................................................................12

The Psychology of Your Stress .........................................................................12


UNIT 4 PERSONALITY TRAITS AND THE HUMAN SPIRITUALITY
Information to Remember ................................................................................................14
Stress Prone Personality Traits ..........................................................................14
Stress Resistant Personality Traits.....................................................................14
Self-esteem .............................................................................................................14
Resources: Exercises: Exercises .......................................................................................14
Your Meaningful Purpose in Life .....................................................................14
Tools: Journal Writing ........................................................................................................15
Under the Gun: Stress and Personality............................................................15
UNIT 5 DEALING WITH STRESS: COPING STRATEGIES
Information to Remember ................................................................................................16
Culturally Appropriate Interventions ...............................................................16
Empowerment ......................................................................................................16
Humor ....................................................................................................................16
Resources: Exercises...........................................................................................................16
In Search of the Proverbial Funny Bone ........................................................16
Tools: Journal Writing ........................................................................................................18
Reframing: Seeing a Bigger, Clearer Perspective ...........................................18
UNIT 6 RELAXATION TECHNIQUES 1: BREATHING, MEDITATION,
AND MENTAL IMAGERY
Information to Remember ................................................................................................19
Centering ................................................................................................................19
Relaxation...............................................................................................................19
Meditation ..............................................................................................................19
Resources: Exercises
Three Short Guided Visualizations ..................................................................19
Tools: Journal Writing ........................................................................................................22
Too Much Information ......................................................................................22
UNIT 7 NUTRITION AND STRESS
Information to Remember ................................................................................................24
Foods that Trigger the Stress Response ..........................................................24

The Four Stress Domino Factors.....................................................................24


Stressed Eating......................................................................................................24
Resources: Exercises...........................................................................................................24
Checking the Body's Pulses................................................................................24
Tools: Journal Writing ........................................................................................................25
Stress-Related Eating Behaviors........................................................................25
UNIT 8 PHYSICAL EXERCISE AND ACTIVITY
Information to Remember ................................................................................................27
Exercise ..................................................................................................................27
Types of Physical Exercise .................................................................................27
Psychological Effects of Physical Exercise .....................................................27
Resources: Exercises...........................................................................................................27
Physical Exercise ..................................................................................................27
Tools: Journal Writing ........................................................................................................29
My Body, My Physique .......................................................................................29
UNIT 9 APPLYING STRESS: CRITICAL ISSUES FOR MANAGEMENT
AND PREVENTION TO YOUR PROFESSIONAL LIFE
Information to Remember ................................................................................................31
Prayer and Faith....................................................................................................31
Diversions ..............................................................................................................31
Hobbies ..................................................................................................................31
Resources: Exercises...........................................................................................................31
Defining Your Support Group .........................................................................31
Tools: Journal Writing ........................................................................................................33
The Healing Power of Prayer ............................................................................33
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
Primary & Secondary Sources ..........................................................................................34

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Unit

Unit 1: The Nature of Stress


Information to Remember:
What Stress Is

Stress the nonspecific response of the body to any demand placed upon it to adapt. There are
three types of stress, eustress, neustress, and distress. Eustress is good stress that caused
pleasure rather than pain, neustress involves sensory stimulus that is not considered good or
bad, and distress is bad stress and can be acute or chronic.
The Yerkes-Dodson Principle
This is also called the Yerkes-Dodson curve. It states that stress can increase performance up
to midpoint on the curve and is considered eustress. After crossing this point, however,
performance or health status is compromised and it becomes distress.
Holistic Approach to Stress Management
A holistic approach recognizes that there is no separation between mind, body, spirit, and
emotions in wellbeing. Stress management, therefore, must involve all four of these elements
of the human condition in order to bring ones health into balance and harmony. An
imbalance caused by neglect of any one of these elements can lead to stress, which leads to
disease and illness.

Resources: Exercises:
My Health Philosophy
This exercise helped me focus on what health and wellness means to me personally. What
Health and Wellness means to me is to be free from pain, discomfort, illness, and disease;
physically, mentally, and spiritually. I think good health is important for living a full and
fulfilling life without stress.
EXERCISE 1.2 My Health Philosophy
Life is a kaleidoscope of the infinite variety. No two things are the same. Everyones
life is individual.
--Paramahansa Yogananda
We all have philosophies. Philosophies are nothing more than our opinions, dressed
up with an introduction and conclusiona way to present to someone, even
ourselves, what we really think about some topic or ideal. We have philosophies on
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everythingthe types of music we like and listen to, the state of world affairs, and
even the foods we eat at restaurants.
Now its time to examine your philosophy about your health. Based on what you
already know, and perhaps have been taught or exposed to, define as best you can
what the words health and wellness mean to you. After having done this, ask
yourself why health is so important and write a few lines about this.
Given the premise that every issue is a health issue, identify some seemingly nonhealth issues such as the global economy, deforestation, or TV programming. See if
you can discover the connection between these issues and your state of well-being.
How is your state of health influenced by stress? Finally, where do you see yourself
twenty-five years from now? If you were to continue your current lifestyle for the
next three to four decades, how do you see yourself at that point in the future? Your
health philosophy guides your state of health. What is your health philosophy? What
has influenced your philosophy up to now (e.g., parents, teachers, friends, books)?
Be specific. Take some time to write it down here now. If you need additional space
to write, use the extra pages provided at the back of this book.
My Health Philosophy

Tools: Journal Writing:


Are You Stressed?
This exercise helped to identify the stressors that are experienced in life. It is important for a
person to acknowledge that he or she is stressed. It is also important to know the level of stress
that one feels on a daily basis.
EXERCISE 1.1 Are You Stressed?
Although there is no definitive survey composed of 20 questions to determine if you are
stressed or burnt out or just exactly how stressed you really are, questionnaires do
help increase awareness that, indeed, there may be a problem in one or more areas of
your life. The following is an example of a simple stress inventory to help you
determine the level of stress in your life. Read each statement, and then circle either
the word Agree or Disagree. Then count the number of "Agree" points (one per
question) and use the Stress Level Key to determine your personal stress level.
Statement:

Agree Disagree

1. I have a hard time falling asleep at night.


2. I tend to suffer from tension and/or migraine headaches.
3. I find myself thinking about finances and making ends meet.

Agree Disagree
Agree Disagree
Agree Disagree

4 .I wish I could find more to laugh and smile about each day.
5. More often than not, I skip breakfast or lunch to get things done.
6. If I could change my job situation, I would.
7. I wish I had more personal time for leisure pursuits.
8. I have lost a good friend or family member recently.
9. I am unhappy in my relationship or am recently divorced.
10. I haven't had a quality vacation in a long time.
11. I wish that my life had a clear meaning and purpose.
12. I tend to eat more than three meals a week outside the home.
13. I tend to suffer from chronic pain.
14. I don't have a strong group of friends to whom I can turn.
15. I don't exercise regularly (more than three times per week).
16. I am on prescribed medication for depression.
17. My sex life is very satisfying.
18. My family relationships arc less than desirable.
19. Overall, my self-esteem can be rather low.
20. I spend no time each day dedicated to meditation or centering.
Stress Level Key
Less than 5 points
skills.
More than 5 points
More than 10 points
More than 15 points

Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree
Agree

Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree
Disagree

Total Points 5
You have a low level of stress and maintain good coping
You have a moderate level of personal stress.
You have a high level of personal stress.
You have an exceptionally high level of stress.

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Unit

Unit 2: The Physiology of Stress


Information to Remember:
Human Energy Field: Chakra System

The body has a field of electromagnetic energy that surrounds and permeates the entire body.
Mystics often call this field of energy an aura. There is believed to be many layers to this energy
field that is each associated with an aspect of human consciousness (instiller, intellect, intuition,
and emotions). This supports the idea that the mind is not located in the body, but the body is
located in the mind.
Stress Kills
Stress affects the functioning of all aspects of the physiological systems. Chronic stress can erode
a persons health. Left untreated, stress can shut the body down, leading to eventual death.
How the Immune System Works
The immune system defends the body against infectious agents. These infectious agents are
viruses, bacteria, fungi, and parasites. Once the body becomes infected, it remembers the
infectious agent and the immune system prepares the body in case it returns.

Resources: Exercises:
Immediate, Intermediate, and Prolonged Stress Effects
When the brain interprets sensory input as a threat, the body goes into action for survival.
Through the mind-body connection, there is a chain-command of events that prepares the body
for fight or flight. This starts with the central nervous system. This exercise helps one to
recognize and understand the processes that the body goes through in response to stress.
EXERCISE 2.2 Immediate, Intermediate, and Prolonged Stress
Effects

As noted in Chapter 2, the stress response has immediate (seconds), intermediate


(minutes to hours), and prolonged (days) effects through which the symptoms of
physical stress can manifest. To reinforce your understanding of each phase of this
physiological process, please take a moment to reflect on how your body reacts to
stress through these three processes.
1. What do you feel when immediately threatened?
a.

Tingling sensations

Yes

No

2.

b.

Sweating

Yes

No

c.

Muscle tension (e.g., jaw muscles)

Yes

No

d.

Rapid heart rate

Yes

No

e.

Rapid breathing (or holding your breath)

Yes

No

f.

Rush of blood to your face and neck (blushing)

Yes

No

g.

Other _______________________________________________________

How would you best classify your bodys intermediate (within hours) response to
stress?
a.
Tension headache
Yes No
b.

Migraine headache

Yes

No

c.

Sore neck and shoulders

Yes

No

d.

Sore throat

Yes

No

e.

Allergies

Yes

No

f.

Stomachache

Yes

No

g.

GI tract problems

Yes

No

h.

Other _______________________________________________________

i.

Other _______________________________________________________

j.

Other _______________________________________________________

3. What do you notice as long-term effects of prolonged stress (five to ten days)?
a.
Cold or flu
Yes No
b.

Acne (broken-out face blemishes)

Yes

No

c.

Herpes flare-up (around lips)

Yes

No

d.

Menstrual period irregularities

Yes

No

e.

Other _______________________________________________________

f.

Other _______________________________________________________

g.

Other _______________________________________________________

Tools: Journal Writing:


My Health Profile
To understand your health, it is important to know your physical self. Looking at personal health
data can give you a sense of your health status. It is important to keep your body in good
condition in order to be healthy holistically, in mind, spirit, and body.
EXERCISE 3.3 My Health Profile

Health is so much more than the optimal functioning of our physical bodies. By and
large, however, the physical body is what people focus on when they talk about health
(weight, skin, hair, sight, hearing, etc.). To fully understand the mind-body-spirit
connection, you must realize that the body is actually the endpoint where unresolved
issues of mind and spirit collect, not the beginning. But if we were to start with the body
and examine, from head to toe, our physical makeup, perhaps we could use this as a
stepping stone toward understanding this unique relationship. Several aspects of our
physical makeup, when looked at as a composite, tend to give us a sound understanding
of our physical health status. This journal theme invites you to take some time to explore
your overall physical health. Once you have compiled all your personal health data,
compare your values with the norms discussed in class, or in the book Health and
Wellness. If you have any questions regarding your profile, bring these to the attention
of your physician.
My Health Profile
Name
Height
Weight
Age
Resting heart rate
Target heart rate
Maximal heart rate
Resting systolic blood pressure
Resting diastolic blood pressure
Total cholesterol
HDL level
LDL level
Vision status
Dental status
Hearing status
Skin condition
Gastrointestinal (GI) tract
Tense areas, muscular
Reproductive system
Skin
Sinuses
Other
_______________________________________________________________

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Unit 3: Psychology of Stress


Information to Remember:
Emotional Consequences of Stress

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Unit

The expression of emotions allows for a release of feelings, called


catharsis. Emotions can be either healthy or unhealthy. Unhealthy emotions (i.e. fear or anger)
can lead to illness.
Spiritual Health Consequences of Stress
Spirituality is part of the concept of the holistic approach to balance of the bodys systems.
One should not ignore their spiritual health as this can lead to a sense of victimization and
helplessness rather than empowerment in coping with stress. Spiritual health is as important
as other aspects that make up the whole person.
The Subtleties of Predictability
The subtleties of predictability are related to the nature of being forewarned of an impending
stressful situation. One of the subtleties is the timing of the warning. If it comes too close to
the event, you dont have time to prepare psychologically. It is also a problem if the warning
comes for a stressful event that will happen too far into the future.

Resources: Exercises:
Anger Recognition Checklist
This exercise helps one to become aware of their perceptions, attitudes and behaviors during
stress. This exercise also helps the person identify specific stressors that he or she may deal
with on a regular basis and what defense mechanisms may be used to protect the ego.
EXERCISE 5.1 Anger Recognition Check List

He, who angers you, conquers you.


Elizabeth Kenny

The following is a quick exercise to help you understand how anger can surface in
the course of a normal working day and how you may mismanage it. Please place a
check mark in front of any of the following that apply to you when you get angry or
feel frustrated or upset. After completing this section, please refer to the bottom
right hand corner to estimate, on average, the number of episodes of anger you
experience per day.
When I feel angry, my anger tends to surface in the following ways:
_____ anxiety
_____ threatening others
_____ depression
_____ buying things
_____ overeating
_____ frequent lateness
_____ starting to diet
_____ I never feel angry
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_____ trouble sleeping


_____ clenched jaw muscles, TMJD
_____ excessive sleeping
_____ boredom
_____ careless driving
_____ nausea, vomiting
_____ chronic fatigue
_____ skin problems
_____ abuse of alcohol/drugs
_____ easy irritation
_____ exploding in rage
_____ sexual difficulty
_____ cold withdrawal
_____ sexual apathy
_____ tension headaches
_____ busy work (clean, straighten)
_____ migraine headaches
_____ sulking, whining
_____ use of sarcasm
_____ hitting, throwing things
_____ hostile joking
_____ complaining, whining
_____ being accident prone
_____ cutting/mutilating myself
_____ guilt and self-blame
_____ insomnia
_____ smoking or drinking
_____ promiscuity
_____ high blood pressure
_____ helping others
_____ frequent nightmares
_____ other? ____________________
_____ tendency to harp or nag
_____ other? ____________________
_____ intellectualization
_____ swearing or name calling
_____ crying
_____ upset stomach (e.g., gas, cramps, IBS)
_____ muscle tension (neck, lower back)
* My average number of anger episodes per day is ___________________.

Tools: Journal Writing:


The Psychology of Your Stress
The Psychology of Your Stress exercise is designed to create awareness of a persons perceptions
of stress. This exercise also addresses attitudes and behaviors exhibited during stressful situations.
EXERCISE 4.1 The Psychology of Your Stress

The following questions are based on several theories from Chapter 4 to help you
become more aware of your perceptions, attitudes, and behaviors during episodes of
stress:
1. In hindsight (because Freud said people are not aware at the time that they are doing
it), do you find that you use one or more defense mechanisms to protect your ego?
Reflecting on your behavior, which of the following do you see as common behaviors in
your psychology of stress profile?
a.
Defensiveness (I didnt do it)
Yes
No
b.
Projection (She did it)
Yes
No
c.
Repression (I dont remember doing it)
Yes
No
d.
Displacement (He made me do it)
Yes
No
e.
Rationalization (Everyone does it)
Yes
No
f.
Humor (I can laugh about this now)
Yes
No
g.
Other ___________________________________

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2. Carl Jung was adamant that we need to listen to the wisdom of our dreams.
Please answer the following questions based on Jungs theories related to stress.
a.
Do you often remember your dreams?
Yes
No
b.
Do you make it a habit to try to understand your
dreams and dream symbols?
Yes
No
c.
Do you have any recurring dreams?
Yes
No
d.
Have you ever had a dream of an event that later
came to pass?
Yes
No
3. Kbler-Rosss stages of grieving are not just for cancer patients. These same
stages occur for the death of every unmet expectation. What recent expectation was
unmet that brought you to the door of the grieving process? What stage of KblerRosss progression have you currently reached with this stressor?

4. Refer to your Unit 1 Journal Writing Assignment, Exercise 1.5 (Personal Stress
Inventory: Top Ten Stressors). Please list your stressors as predominantly angerbased or fear-based stressors.
Anger-Based Stressors
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________
Fear-Based Stressors
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________

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Unit

Unit 4: Personality Traits and the


Human Spirituality
Information to Remember:
Stress Prone Personality Traits

Type A, Type D, Codependent, and Helpless-Hopeless are all stress prone personality traits.
These personality traits exhibit behaviors that induce stress. They are at increased risk for
disease, such as coronary heart disease, among others.
Stress Resistant Personality Traits
Stress resistant personality types include Hardy, Survivor, and sensation seeker. The Hardy
Personality exhibits resiliency. This individual exhibits characteristics that buffer against stress,
including commitment, control, and challenge. The survivor personality exhibits a winning
attitude to overcome adversity. The sensation seeker confront stress by calculating the risks
and then proceeding full ahead.
Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is a perquisite for a stress resistant personality. Self-esteem is the sense of self
values, acceptance and love for ones self. Self-esteem acts as a buffer against perceived
threats.

Resources: Exercises:
Your Meaningful Purpose in Life
This exercise is very valuable in helping one to reflect on his or her goals in life. It is also
where one finds value or meaning in life, and how those values change over time.
EXERCISE 7.6

Your Meaningful Purpose in Life

Knowing that your purpose in life may change many times in the course of your life,
for this exercise, first write down (in a few words to a sentence) what you consider
to be your life purpose now, at this point in time. Then take a moment to briefly
describe what you considered to be your purpose in life at the start of each decade of
your life (e.g., at age twenty it might be or have been to graduate with a college
degree, at age thirty it might be or have been to raise a family or start a business).

Now _______________________________________________________________
Age 60 _____________________________________________________________
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Age
Age
Age
Age
Age

50
40
30
20
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_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________

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Tools: Journal Writing:


Under the Gun: Stress and Personality
This journal exercise helped to focus on the stressors in life. It prompts you to not only face
stressors, but devise solutions to deal the stress, and reduce the associated anxiety.
EXERCISE 6.1 Under the Gun: Stress and Personality

Pick a stressor in your life and explain the characteristics that you feel you employ to
deal with stress based on the concepts of the hardy personality.
1. Control: _________________________________________________________

2. Commitment: ____________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________________

List any other aspects (inner resources) that help you get through the tough times:
1. _________________________________________
2. _________________________________________
3. _________________________________________
4. _________________________________________
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5
Unit

Unit 5: Dealing with Stress:


Coping Strategies
Information to Remember:
Culturally Appropriate Interventions

There are three things that you can do to make sure a health program is culturally appropriate.
One is to use a multilevel approach that includes social, economic, and political levels of the
problem. The second is, when translating when translating materials into different languages,
performing a complete revision of the materials, rather than just doing a word for word
translation to ensure appropriate terms and understandings of the targeted cultures. Third, use
a variety of approaches which may include music, art, and dance.
Empowerment
Empowerment is vital to self-esteem. Empowerment is defined as the realization that
control is an illusion, whereas control is an attempt to manipulate self, others or both.
Empowerment involves assertiveness and boundaries. Assertiveness is being aware that
feelings are just feelings; they are neither right nor wrong. Boundaries refer to borders
between objects. The limits that we maintaining between people and things before suffering
consequences, good or bad.
Humor
Humor is the ability to laugh at ourselves and to go with the flow. Humor reduces stress
and eases lifes embarrassments. Humor is a release, and has the power to heal.

Resources: Exercises:
In Search of the Proverbial Funny Bone
Humor reduces stress and acts as a coping mechanism. This exercise is helpful in finding ways
to put humor into daily life, and offers a variety of vehicles to make one laugh.
EXERCISE 13.1 In Search of the Proverbial Funny Bone
Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.
Victor Borge

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Life is full of absurdities, incongruities, and events that tickle our funny bones. For
instance, Chaplin once got third place in a Charlie Chaplin look-alike contest. Since
the 1964 day that Norman Cousins checked out of a hospital room into a hotel room
across the street and literally laughed his way back to health from a life-threatening
disease, the medical world has stood up and taken notice. Humor really is good
medicine.
Today, there is a whole new scientific discipline, psychoneuroimmunology (PNI), to
study the relationship between the mind and the body and the effects each has on
the other. It is no secret that negative emotions (e.g., anger, fear, guilt, worry,
depression, loneliness) can have a detrimental effect on the body, manifesting as
disease and illness. Although there is much to be understood, we now know that,
just as negative emotions can have a negative effect on the body, so too positive
emotions (e.g., joy, love, hope, and the feelings associated with humor) can have a
positive effect on the body by speeding the healing process and promoting wellbeing.
Humor is a great stress reducer. Humor acts as a coping mechanism to help us deal
with lifes hardships. It softens (domesticates) the walls of the ego, makes us feel
less defensive, unmasks the truth in a comical way, and often gives us a clearer
perspective and focus in our everyday lives. Comic relief is used in many stress
management programs, hospitals, and work settings. Stress is often associated with
negative attitudes that really deflate self-esteem. A preponderance of negative
emotions can taint our view of the world, perpetuating the cycle of stress. There has
to be a balance. Researchers are now discovering that we need to incorporate
positive emotions to achieve balance, and humor is one of the answers.
Although one can turn on the television to catch a few laughs, the greater variety of
humor vehicles (books, movies, live comedians, and music) one has access to, the
richer the rewards. Sometimes all we have to do is dig through our memory to find a
tickler.
1. How would you rate your sense of humor? Do you exercise it often? Do you use it
correctly? Offensive humor (sarcasm, racist and sexist humor, practical jokes)
can actually promote stress. What are some ways to augment your sense of
humor?
2. What is your favorite kind of humor? Parody, slapstick, satire, black humor,
nonsense, irony, puns? What type of humor do you fall back on to reduce stress?
3. What would you consider the funniest moment(s) of your life?
4. Are there moments you can recall (from any situation) that are so funny the mere
thought puts a grin or secret smile on your face? What are they?
5. In the hit song My Favorite Things, Julie Andrews sang about a host of things
that flooded her mind with joy and brought a smile to her face. Whats on your
list?

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6. Make a list of things to do, places to go, and people to see to lift your spirits
when you need it.

Tools: Journal Writing:


Reframing: Seeing a Bigger, Clearer Perspective
This Journal writing exercise involves reframing. Reframing is a coping strategy where you
identify a stressful event and rework it to form a different, more positive perspective of the
situation. It takes a negative and makes it positive.
EXERCISE 8.1 Reframing: Seeing a Bigger, Clearer Perspective

Anger and fear that arise from encountering a stressful situation can narrow our
focus and distort our perspective on the bigger picture. Although the initial aspects of
dealing with these situations involve some degree of grieving, the secret to coping
with stress is to change the threatening perception to a nonthreatening perception.
This worksheet invites you to identify three stressors and, if necessary, draft a new,
reframed perspective (not a rationalization) that allows you to get out of the rut of
a myopic view and start moving on with your life.
Example:
Situation: Can never find a parking space close to the dorm/classroom
Reframed Perspective: Although nearby parking certainly saves time, there is no
denying that the walk provides much needed exercise/activity
1. Situation: ______________________________________________________.
Reframed Perspective:

2. Situation: ________________________________________________
Reframed Perspective:

3. Situation: ______________________________________________________.
Reframed Perspective:

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6
Unit

Unit 6: Relaxation Techniques 1:


Breathing, Meditation, and Mental
Imagery
Information to Remember:
Centering

Centering is a technique used in meditation. It involves focusing your attention on something. It


could be a sound or a point in space. You focus on this to the exclusion of everything around you.
Relaxation
Relaxation allows the body to rest and provides relief from lifes efforts. It helps to calm ones mind
and sooths ones spirit. It is worthwhile to learn relaxation techniques to provide some peace from
lifes stressors.
Meditation
Meditation is emptying the mind of all thoughts. You may also concentrate the mind on something
in order to aid in mental or spiritual develop. Meditation is also used as a relaxation technique, and
can aid in problem solving.

Resources: Exercises:
Three Short Guided Visualizations
Visualization is a very helpful relaxation technique. A person is guided through a series of
instructions that help him or her focus. Guided imagery is used to enhance ones imagination.
Guided imagery, such as in this exercise, are available as audio recordings.
EXERCISE 20.2 Three Short Guided Visualizations
A Point of Light in Space
This guided imagery is called a point of light in space. As with all types of guided
imagery, please adapt and embellish all suggestions you hear to best promote a
sense of rest and relaxation. To begin
Close your eyes and begin to focus on your breathing. Feel the air come into your
nose or mouth, down into your lungs, and as you inhale, feel your stomach area
extend out comfortably. Then when you begin to exhale, feel a deep sense of
relaxation, for there is no work, no effort, as you release the air from your lungs.
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This is the most relaxed part of breathing. The exhalation phase of the breath cycle
requires no work, no effortit happens all by itself. Please repeat this cycle of
comfortably deep breathing two more times. Inhale (pause five seconds). Exhale.
Inhale (pause five seconds).
Exhale.
Now, with your minds eye, imagine a vast area of dark empty space in front of you.
As you look at this dark empty space, off in the distance you see a small point of
light: a brilliant, golden-white light. Allow your thoughts to slowly bring this point of
light closer to you. Think to yourself of the stillness that surrounds the light. The
stillness represents the quiet solitude that the mind craves after a busy day of
sensory overload. The point of light represents only that which is essential to focus
on for your higher good. All other thoughts are unimportant at this time. Once again,
focus on the small point of light. Although this point of light is small, its bright and
vibrant. This light is a symbolic representation of your selfyourself at complete
homeostasis.
As you focus on this point of light, take a slow, comfortable, deep breathas slow
and comfortably deep as you can. As you exhale, place all of your attention, all of
your concentration, on this point of light. If your mind should happen to wander, and
most likely it will, simply direct all thoughts back to this point of light in a calm sea of
still darkness.
As you focus on this point of light, think to yourself that in the course of a busy day
you are constantly being bombarded with sensory stimulation and an abundance of
information. Although the mind seeks stimulation, the mind also craves time to
unwind and relax. Balance is essential. While it may be impossible to have no
thoughts in your mind, it is possible to focus solely on just one thought. Right now,
the only thought you need to focus on is this beautiful point of light. As you focus on
this single point of brilliant light, take one more slow deep breath. As you exhale,
feel whatever tensions or excess energy you carry in your mind dissipate, thus
allowing for a deeper sense of relaxation of mind, body, and spirit.
Take one more slow, deep breath, and this time as you exhale, slowly allow this
image of the brilliant point of light to fade from your minds eye, yet retain the deep
sense of relaxation and calm it has instilled. And as you do this, begin to place all of
your attention on your breathing. Inhale and as you do, feel your stomach begin to
extend, then slowly come back in as you exhale. In this exhalation process, become
aware of a deep sense of complete relaxation.
Although you feel relaxed, you dont feel sleepy or tired. You feel refreshed and
renewed. As you become aware of this energizing sensation, begin to open your eyes
to a soft gaze in front of you and slowly bring yourself back to the awareness of the
room you are now in, feeling refreshed and renewed.
Gentle Falling Snow
Picture this: You are sitting by a large picture window in a warm log cabin on a brisk
winters day. You have the entire place to yourself, and the solitude feels
invigorating. There is a log fire in the wood stove radiating abundant heat. Both the
sounds of crackling wood and the scent of pine arouse your senses and for a
moment, you close your eyes and take a slow, deep breath, a sigh that refreshes. As
you exhale, you feel a wonderful sense of relaxation permeate your entire body from
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head to toe, and it feels great. Consciously, you take another slow, deep breath in
through your nose. As you exhale through your mouth, you become aware of the
glorious stillness that surrounds you in this cabin.
From where you are seated, look out the window, and as you do, you see falling
snow, snow that falls gently to the ground in large flakes. Everything outside is
covered in white fluffy snow: the ground, the pine trees, the aspensin fact, all the
trees for as far as you can see are covered in snow. As you look closely at the
snowflakes descending from on high toward the ground, you sense a calmness both
indoors and outdoors. Other than snow falling, everything is still. Everything is quiet.
This stillness you observe is a reflection of the tranquility you feel within yourself.
This stillness is so inviting that you slowly move off the couch and stand up. As you
walk toward the cabin door, you put on your warm winter coat, hat, and gloves.
Then, slowly you open the door and simply stand in the doorframe to observe the
endless dance of millions of snowflakes floating gentlyalmost in slow motionfrom
the sky down to the snow-covered ground.
Listen closely. What do you hear? The sound of snowflakes is so soft, so gentle, that
the sound is barely audible. Your ability to focus on this sound to the exclusion of all
other thoughts sets your mind at ease, like a broom that gently sweeps the floor of
any remnants needing to be cleaned. The snow-covered ground is a symbol of your
mind: clean, clear, and still. Take a slow, deep breath of this clean, fresh air and feel
a deeper sense of calmness throughout your entire body.
As you step back inside and close the door, you kick off your shoes, take off this
jacket, hat, and gloves, and return to the couch by the picture window. As you close
your eyes to focus on the sounds of stillness, take one final slow, deep breath and
bring that stillness into the center of your heart space.
Now, slowly allow this image to fade from your minds eye, but retain the sense of
tranquility it inspired. Make yourself aware of your surroundings: the room, the
building, the time of day, and perhaps what you will do after this relaxation session.
Although you feel relaxed, you dont feel tired. You feel rested and rejuvenated.
Begin to make yourself aware of your body. Stretch your arms and shoulders. When
you feel ready, open your eyes to a soft gaze in front of you, and as you do, retain
this sense of calm comfort throughout your mind, body, and spirit all day long.
A Walk on a Secluded Beach
The beach, from the warm turquoise waters of the ocean to the cool, gentle breezes
and warm sand, has served humanity for thousands of years as a metaphor for
cleansing the mind and relaxing the body. Sitting or walking along a deserted beach
and focusing on the gentle rhythm of the ocean surf serve a primal desire for
relaxation. It is this image that we wish to re-create in the minds eye for the same
purpose right now.
The time of day is moments before sunrise, or if you wish, sunset. The temperature
is comfortably warm, yet there is a gentle breeze in the air. The sky contains a few
clouds, but only enough to enhance the spectacle of reflecting the suns rays in
concert with the rotation of the earth. While there may be birds off in the distance,
you notice that the only sounds you hear are those of the ocean waves in perfect
rhythm with your relaxed breathing: inhalation and exhalation.
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As you stop for a moment and look out to the horizon, the vastness of all you see in
front of you shrinks any and all problems, concerns, and issues you may have at this
time to their proper proportion. The immensity, as well as the beauty, of the view
you hold in your eyes is exhilarating. Stop for a moment and take a comfortably
slow, deep breath. Just as the oceans waves clean the shoreline, so too does each
exhalation cleanse your mind and body of any thoughts, attitudes, perceptions,
beliefs, and feelings that, at one time, may have served you but now only hold you
back.
Using the ocean surf as a metaphor for peace and relaxation---breathe often for the
next several minutes, in rhythm with the oceans tide to instill a deep sense of peace
and relaxation in both your mind and your body;
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And one more time: Inhale . . . (pause five seconds) . . . Exhale. As you exhale, take
a moment to look down in the sand. As you do, you notice a seashell that catches
your attention. You bend down to pick it up and feel the soft texture of the repeated
eons of surf on each side of this shell. With a smile of recognition that we too will
become soft to the touch with the repeated surf of time, you place this shell in your
pocket as a reminder of your own journey of personal growth.
Now, slowly allow this image to fade from your mind, but retain all sensations of
relaxation. As you do this, return all thoughts to your breathing each breath
comfortably calm and relaxed. Make yourself aware of your surroundings.
Remember, although you feel relaxed, you dont feel tired or sleepy. You feel rested
and rejuvenated. Begin to make yourself aware of your body. Stretch your arms and
shoulders. When you feel ready, open your eyes to a soft gaze in front of you and
bring yourself back to awareness of your current surroundings.
Thoughts and Experiences

Tools: Journal Writing:


Too Much Information
Information overload is from all the media and information that is so readily available on radio,
television, and the internet. This exercise helps one to disconnection from the information
highway by reducing the amount of information a person is bombarded with on a daily basis.
EXERCISE 18.1 Too Much Information

If no one has officially said this to you yet, then you are overdue to hear these
words: Welcome to the information age! Satellite television, cable television, the
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Internet, cell phones, and embedded computer chips are just a few things that
inundate us with a tsunami of information. As if this werent enough, there are more
things looming on the horizon, all of which are begging for our attention. If you are
like most people today, most likely you are drowning in information. There is even a
new name for this: information stress.
Although we take in information through all of our five senses, over 80 percent of all
the information we take in is received through the senses of sight and sound. Well
before the term information age was coined, it was very easy to experience
sensory overload from too much information taken from the eyes and ears, such as
from watching too much television to pulling an all-nighter to cram for an exam. The
consequence of sensory overload is becoming numb to it all and walking around like
a zombie. Its no stretch to say there are people who fit this description.
Living in the information age, discernment is essential. Discernment means being
able to distinguish truth from non-truth. Perhaps more accurately, it means discerning news from marketing, news from entertainment, and truth from hype and spin.
There is a solution to information overload. It is a practice called meditation:
cleaning the mind of all the clutter and useless information that bombards your
attention span.
1. List five ways to successfully decrease the quantity of information with which you
are barraged every day.
a. _______________________________________________________
b. _______________________________________________________
c. _______________________________________________________
d. _______________________________________________________
e. _______________________________________________________
2. People tend to mirror behavior, often not even knowing that they do this. In
terms of too much information, or TMI, people who take in too much information
often talk to their friends and share too much information (e.g., how much they
make, how many times they have sex per week, or how often they clean their
bathroom). There is a real art to sharing information without revealing
everything. As a rule, people who share too much information about themselves
have acceptance problems. Are you the kind of person who volunteers too much
information? If so, what can you do to filter out the less important facts and
perceptions and still get your point across?

3. See if you can come up with a handful of ways to bring balance back into your
life by taking time to quiet your mind and explain them here.

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7
Unit

Unit 7: Nutrition and Stress


Information to Remember:
Foods that Trigger the Stress Response

Some foods trigger a stress response, including coffee, tea, some soft drinks, and chocolate.
These foods are referred to as sympathomimetic agents because they trigger the stress
response due to the caffeine content. Caffeines stimulant properties are due to a chemical
substance called methylated xanthine, which is similar to amphetamine. This chemical
triggers a heightened state of arousal of the sympathetic nervous system and releases several
hormones. The caffeine in a six ounce cup of coffee is half of what is needed to cause
adverse arousal of the central nervous system, and it takes the body eight hours to
metabolize.
The Four Stress Domino Factors
There are four stress domino factors. Represented as dominos, these factors illustrate the
relationship between stress, nutrition, and the immune system. They are as follows: 1) stress
depletes nutrients in the body, including water-soluble vitamins and essential minerals that
are used for energy in the fight or flight response; 2) American lifestyles do not promote
good eating habits under stress, which may lead to obesity due to consumption of comfort,
junk, and fast foods, as well as processed foods, that are high in calories and low in nutrients;
3) some food substances such as, caffeine, processed sugar and flour, and salt, cause a
sustained elevated stress response by increasing the sympathetic drive and other
physiological responses; and 4) many processed foods cause or contribute to a cumulative
effect of toxins from residues of fertilizers, herbicides, and pesticides that hinder the
immune system and compromises health.
Stressed Eating
There is a relationship between stress and eating. People under stress often eat to pacify their
nerves. Often, the foods that people eat under stress are not the best choices. There is a
tendency to turn to comfort foods, which are often high in fat and salt.

Resources: Exercises:
Checking the Bodys Pulses

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This exercise uses biofeedback. It shows you how to monitor your heart rate, before and after, to
measure the effects of a relaxation exercise.
EXERCISE 27.1 Checking the Bodys Pulses
If you have ever checked your pulse, taken your temperature, or watched yourself
blush in the mirror, then you have done biofeedback. With the rapid advancement of
high technology, the state of the art of biofeedback has changed dramatically since
the first use of the lie detector test, which relied on galvanic skin response. By the
time you read this workbook, advances in technology will probably have established
sensors in clothing, computer mouses, and perhaps several more items that can
regularly monitor various physiological parameters and tell you exactly how you are
feeling at every moment. Welcome to the age of the biofeedback society.
Biofeedback, however, doesnt necessarily require expensive equipment or fancy
high-tech gear. Some types of biofeedback can be done quite simply, such as
monitoring your own breathing and checking your pulse before and after a relaxation
session. This workbook assignment invites you to do just that.
Assignment
Count the number of breaths (breathing normally) you take in a one-minute period.
If you are like most people, you will range between 14 and 16 breath cycles per
minute. Next, check your resting heart rate. In a normal resting state it should be
somewhere around 60 to 70 beats per minute.
Next, using one of the four tracks on the relaxation CD that accompanies Managing
Stress, take yourself through this experience and then monitor both your
respirations (breath cycles per minute) and resting heart rate (HR, in beats per
minute) to determine how relaxed you became.

Track 1: Mountain Lake

Breath Cycle Before


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Breath Cycle After


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Track 2: Progressive Muscular Relaxation

_____________

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Track 3: Autogenics

_____________

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Track 4: Rainbow Meditation

_____________

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Tools: Journal Writing:


Stress-Related Eating Behaviors
This exercise helps you to identify your eating behaviors. It covers when, where, and how you
eat.
EXERCISE 27.1 Stress-Related Eating Behaviors

Please read the following statements and circle the appropriate answer. Then tally
the total to determine your score using the key below.
4 = Always

3 = Often

2 = Sometimes
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1 = Rarely

0 = Never

1.

I tend to skip breakfast on a regular basis.

2.
3.

On average, two or three meals are prepared


outside the home each day.
I drink more than one cup of coffee or tea a day.

4.

I tend to drink more than one soda/pop per day.

5.

I commonly snack between meals.

6.

When in a hurry, I usually eat at fast food places.

7.

I tend to snack while watching television.

8.

I tend to put salt on my food before tasting it.

9.

I drink fewer than eight glasses of water a day.

10.

I tend to satisfy my sweet tooth daily.

11.

When preparing meals at home, I usually dont


cook from scratch.
Honestly, my eating habits lean toward fast, junk,
processed foods.
I eat fewer than four to five servings of fresh
vegetables per day.
I drink at least one glass of wine, beer, or alcohol
a day.
My meals are eaten sporadically throughout the
day rather than at regularly scheduled times.
I dont usually cook with fresh herbs and spices.

12.
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20.

I usually dont make a habit of eating organic fruits


and veggies.
My biggest meal of the day is usually eaten after
7:00 P.M.
For the most part, my vitamins and minerals come
from the foods I eat.
Artificial sweeteners are in many of the foods I
eat.
Total Score

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Scoring Key
A score of more than 20 points indicates eating behaviors are not conducive to
reducing stress. A score of more than 30 suggests eating habits may seriously
compromise the integrity of your immune system.
Paramount Wellness Institute. Reprinted with permission. All rights reserved.

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8
Unit

Unit 8: Physical Exercise and


Activity
Information to Remember:
Exercise

Exercise is physical movement, especially when intended to enhance health status. Regular
exercise is important in reducing stress by burning off stress hormones that circulate within the
body. Exercise can take on many forms. Exercise can be beneficial in reducing pain. Aerobic
exercise can help you to live longer and healthier.
Types of Physical Exercise
There are six components of fitness: cardiovascular endurance, muscular strength and endurance,
flexibility, agility, power, and balance. Muscular strength, muscular endurance, and flexibility are
said to be the most important components of fitness. Exercise burns calories. A balance of
calories consumed and calories expended will aid in weight control.
Physiological Effects of Physical Exercise
There are many positive health effects of exercise. These include decreased resting heart rate,
decreased resting blood pressure, decreased muscle tension, better quality sleep, increased
resistance to illness, and decreased cholesterol and triglyceride levels. Exercise also has positive
effects on sleep quality, decreasing symptoms of insomnia.

Resources: Exercises:
Physical Exercise
Physical activity is important to maintaining balance in the bodys systems. Exercise helps to burn
off harmful stress hormones that accumulate in the body. This exercise helps describe your
current exercise habits and identify barriers to regular exercise.
EXERCISE 28.1 Physical Exercise

In simplest terms, we are physical animals with a human spirit. As human beings we
were never meant to sit behind a desk for eight to ten hours a day. Human anatomy
and physiology were designed to find a balance between motion and stillness, stress
and homeostasis, exercise and relaxation. Some would say that the mounting
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In this day and age, in which stress is at an all-time high, our bodies kick out several
stress hormones, which, if not used for their intended purpose (to mobilize the
bodys systems for fight or flight), circulate throughout the body and tend to wreak
havoc on various organs and constituents of the immune system. Physical exercise is
considered the best way to keep the physiological systems of the body in balance,
from stress hormones and adipose tissue to the integrity of bone cells and
macrophages of the immune system.
Exercise doesnt have to be all that hard or time consuming. Perhaps the more
important thing than what you do, is just making the time to do it. Mark Twain once
said, Oh, I get the urge to exercise every now and then, but I just lie down till it
goes away. This may be humorous, but the truth of the matter is that physical
exercise is what we need to promote the balance and integrity of our physiological
systems. Although there is no doubt we seem to have a certain magnetic attraction
to the couch and TV, this pattern of behavior has proved to be hazardous to our
health.
1. Describe your exercise habits, including the formula for success (intensity,
frequency, and duration of exercise).

2. What are your favorite activities? If for some reason you were injured and
couldnt do your favorite activity, what would be your second option for exercise?

3. What do you do to motivate yourself when you are less than inspired to get up
and out the door? What are some additional incentives to maintain a regular
exercise regimen?

4.

Most people say that they cannot find the time to exercise. Considering classes,
studying, work, social obligations, and the like, it is hard to fit in everything. So
the question of priorities comes to mind. What are your priorities in terms of your
health? Do you see your perspective changing in the course of your life? Right
now, what can you do to find (make) the time to get physical exercise every day?

5. Sketch out a quick weekly program of exercise, including days to work out, time
of day, and activity.
Days to work out:

Time of day:

Activity:

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Tools: Journal Writing:


My Body, My Physique
This exercise is about body image. It helps build self-esteem by helping you accept yourself by
focusing on what you consider positive aspects of your body.
EXERCISE 28.2

My Body, My Physique

Discovering your real self means the difference between freedom and the
compulsions of conformity.
--Maxwell Maltz
One often hears in California that Nobody is ever satisfied with their hair. The same
could be said about our bodies. We receive hundreds of messages a day from the
media telling us that our physiques just arent good enough. We spend hours and
hours and gobs of money altering, complementing, adding, shifting, subtracting, and
glamorizing various aspects of our bodies just to please other people in the hopes
that we too can be pleased. Hair color, eye color, body weight (too much, too little),
aerobic this, anaerobic that, add inches here, take off pounds thereit is fair to say
that few people are completely satisfied with their bodies. But it doesnt have to be
this way.
There is a strong connection between self-esteem and body image. The two go hand
in hand. If your level of self-esteem is low, so too will be your body image. In his
book Psycho-Cybernetics, Dr. Maxwell Maltz noted that many of his clients didnt
seem all that much happier after receiving nose jobs and facelifts, which led him to
the realization that the real change has to take place inside first.
So how do you feel about your body, your physique?
1. Describe your body. First list all the things you like about your body and explain
why. Next, if so inclined, make a list of things you wish to improve.

2. Do you compare yourself with others? If you do, youre not alone. Actually, this is
pretty common for both men and women, especially in college when your identity
is still being formulated: Grooming yourself for that very important first
impression can take priority over a term paper every time. So what is it you find
yourself comparing with other people? Why?

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3. The American public is obsessed with weight and weight gain. There is some
good reason for this because of the relationship between obesity and diseases
such as cancer, diabetes, and heart disease, but the concern has become an
obsession for most people. Is your weight a concern for you? If so, how?

4. Taking to heart Maxwell Maltzs notion of making the first change within, can you
think of any perceptions, attitudes, and beliefs you can begin to alter so that
changes you do make to your physique are long-lasting ones with which you feel
content?

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9
Unit

Unit 9: Applying Stress: Critical Issues for


Management and Prevention to your
Professional Life
Information to Remember:
Prayer and Faith
Prayer is one of the oldest forms of coping mechanisms. It is used by a people the world over in
various forms of religious practices. Prayer is not meditation, but prayer and meditation are similar
in the use of centering, which increases concentration and connectedness. However, prayer,
unlike meditation, elicits divine intervention.
Diversions
Diversions give the conscious mind a change of pace promote clear thinking. Diversions can be
negative or positive. With positive diversions, the person takes an active role in the escape process.
A diversion is negative, if it is used as an avoidance technique, and provides neither enlightenment
nor resolution.
Hobbies
Hobbies are positive diversions that help reduce stress by giving the conscious mind a change of
pace, which allows for clear thinking. Hobbies take the mind off the problem, removing it from
conscious attention by creating a diversion to other unrelated subjects, and allowing the person to
deal more effectively with the issues at hand. Hobbies are believed to be the best form of active
escape, which adds to identity, character and self-esteem.

Resources: Exercises:
Defining Your Support Group
This exercise helps to identify the persons in your support group. Your support group is usually
made up of close friends and family members, but could include neighbors and co-workers.
These are people to whom you may go for help and support in time of need.
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EXERCISE 17.1 Defining Your Support Group

Support groups are vital to the quality and length of our lives. Support groups are
composed of friends, colleagues, peers, neighbors, and perhaps most of all, family
members. Your support group is made up of those people to whom you feel closest
who are there to socialize with, give you a helping hand, or provide a shoulder to cry
on when you feel like doing so. The following exercise is designed to help you
reinforce the foundations of your support group.
1. Create what you think is the best definition of a friend. A friend is:
______________________________________________________________
2. Make a list of those people who you feel constitute your support group.
a. My closest male friends are:
________________________________________________________
b. My closest female friends are:
________________________________________________________
c. The friends I know I can share any problem with at any time include:
________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________
d. The friends I can call to go play or go shopping include:
________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________
e. These friends energize me; they dont drain my energy:
________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________
f. Friends on whom I know I can call for a favor at any time include:
________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________
g. Friends who are my mentors include:
________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________
h. Friends who expand my personal horizons with new ideas or activities
are:
________________________________________________________
3. How has your support group changed over the past five years? Are all of your
friends on Facebook really part of your support network?
______________________________________________________________
4. Some people in our support groups tend to drain our energy rather than
replenish it. Do you have friends like this?
______________________________________________________________
5. If so, how do you cope with them?
______________________________________________________________
6. What factors in your life detract from your ability to be there for others in
your support group?
______________________________________________________________
7. It has often been said that we can never have enough friends. Although this
may be true, you cannot spend quality time with everyone, because this
weakens the integrity of true friends. What do you do to nurture the
connections between you and your friends? In other words, how are you a
good friend to others?
______________________________________________________________
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8. For a variety of reasons, friends tend to come and go in our lives. New friends
can become a collective breath of fresh air in our lives. New friends are
harder to make and keep as we age. It helps to continually foster new
interests and hobbies. Make a list of three new places where you can begin to
meet new people to add as possible members of your support group.
a. ________________________________________________
b. ________________________________________________
c. ________________________________________________

Tools: Journal Writing:


The Healing Power of Prayer
Prayer is powerful coping technique when under duress. The following exercise is helpful in
focusing on the mind when seeking divine intervention when situations become difficult to
handle alone.
Exercise 17.3 The Healing Power of Prayer
Regardless of ones religious background or lack thereof, prayer is a commonly used
coping technique in times of duress. To seek help in times of need is considered a
savvy strategy for overcoming problems of any size. Although prayer can be a very
personal behavior, we now know that there are certain steps to ensure a clear
transmission for divine intercession. Consider using the following outline as a
personal template to refine the healing power of your prayers.
Intention: __________________________________________________________
1. Present Tense: State your prayerful intention in the present
tense.____________________________________________________________
2. Focused Concentration: Clear your mind by using the space below to write
down any distracting negative thoughts as a means of releasing
them.____________________________________________________________
3. Positive Thoughts and Intentions: State your intention in the most positive
way._____________________________________________________________
4. Emotional Vibration: Call to mind the most favorable emotions you can feel. If
it helps, write down the experience and feeling to help recreate this feeling
now._____________________________________________________________
5. Detached Outcomes: Below, write any fears, anxieties, or desires that need to
be released to make the prayer fly.
_________________________________________________________________
6. Attitude of Gratitude: Take a moment to write a few words of thanks here for
that for which you are grateful.
_________________________________________________________________

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Additional Information:
Primary Sources
Is Stress Management Related to Workforce Productivity?
This is an article reporting the results of a study to determine the relationship
between stress management and workforce productivity by Hassan Zarei Matin,
Hamid Reza Razavi, and Saeid Emamgholizadeh.
Mayo Clinic
The Mayo Clinic provides valuable information on health and wellness issues.
Biofeedback is useful in recognizing and controlling the body's functions, such as
your heart rate. Biofeedback helps focus on making subtle changes in body, and is
helpful as an aid to relaxation.
National Cancer Institute
The National Cancer Institute is part of the National Institutes of Health, which is one
the agencies that make up the Department of Health and Human Services.
National Center for Complementary and Alternative Medicine (NCCAM)
This is the Federal Government's lead agency for scientific research
complementary and alternative medicine.

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Robert Sapolsky: The Psychology of Stress


This is a YouTube video of Robert Sapolsky, the author of Why Zebras Dont Get
Ulcers, discussing the psychology of Stress.

Secondary Sources
Why Zebras Dont Get Ulcers: The Acclaimed Guide to Stress, Stress-Related
Diseases, 3rd Edition
Textbook used in the course, Stress-Critical Issues in Management & Prevention, at
Kaplan University.
Managing Stress: Principles and Strategies for Health and Well-Being
This is the textbook used in the course, Stress-Critical Issues in Management &
Prevention, at Kaplan University.
The Art of Peace and Relaxation Workbook
The companion workbook to Sewards Managing Stress 3rd ed. textbook.
Managing Stress Audio Files
These are the audio files that accompany some of the exercises mentioned in
Sewards Managing Stress 3rd ed. textbook, and are available for free online.

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