Passivity, Paradox, and Change
in Family Systems
Robert Musvey
Abstract
Problem families which respond to treat-
zicnt with passivity are considered as resit-
ing change in the Family system. When di-
rect methods of therapy have proven to he
uunsueeessfnl, strategie. paradoxical inter-
yentions may break the symbiosis in the
family and permit change and growth. The
compatibility and utility of such TA’ con-
‘cepts and approaches as script, coun-
terseript messages, injunctions permission,
and stroking ore considered and illustrated.
Three case studies iMustrating wnderstand-
ing strategic therapy from a TA perspective
areincluded.
TA ean be used directly with famities
(McClendon, 1977; Bader, 1982; Bader,
MeCiendon, Kaas, and Roper, 1982), Par of
the power ard attractiveness of TA therspists
stems from their willingtess to incorporate
other approaches when appropriate (e.g.,
James and Jongeward, 1977; Goulding and
Goulding, 1978). Twill discuss how the use of
paradox i strategic Family therapy is eompati-
ble with TA.
‘When a family successfully responds to di-
rect TA ioterventons. the members change
ther seript positions and give up games wita
their scpporting rackets ts they grow in spon-
tuneity, intimacy, and aweroaess. However,
some families continually disqualify therapeu
tic efforts and seem “stuck” in theit losing
transactional patterns. A family thal is not
conimmunicating constructively or relating posi-
tively appears “locked into” second- and third-
degree games, stamp collecting, racket feel
ings, and injunctions leading to a negative
setipt payofl. In general, the capacities for
positive stoking and growth are inhibited, &
problem family overemphasizes relationship
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