The Conscious Communication Program

A Conscious Relationship Map

Language
Level

(Is the information at a level

the listener can understand?)

Opponent
-2

Lis

Aquaintance
0

+1
+2

De

+1
+1

+2
+2

Family

+1

+1

ad

-1

-2

-3

Too
Close

(How interesting
is the conversation?)

Family

0
-1

-2
+2

in

-2

-3

Connection
Level

Family

-1

-1

+1

+2

+2

+1

Dy

Po 0 tive
te
Friend Pro
n
b
+1 ti
a
al
+2
tio
Family Ac +2 nar
y
tiv
e

+2

-3

ac

+1

In

Ally

-1

-1

(Procrastination)

-1
-2

-2

Ending

Citizen

-3

-3

(What is the stage of the

relationship?)

-3

r
tene

Too Abstract

Too
Far

Connection
Status

Social

-2

Family
-1

-3

-2

Too Close

Family

Beginning

Family

(Impulsiveness)

-3

The circles = Listener Response

Business

Connection
Strength:
(How strong is the connection?)

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