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SabrinaAvery

Ilearnedchapters14&15

Chapter14
Ilearnedthateachfamilymembernomatterontheagesgrievesindifferent
wayspeculiartotheirroles.Asateacheritisimportanttobeawareofpatterned
butnotexpectallchildrenandparentstoreactsimilarlytodivorce,becauseof
differentpersonalities,genders,experiencesandoutsidesupport.Divorceisthe
secondmoststressfulexperienceforfamilystodealwith,otherthandeath.To
somepointallfamilymemberexperienceabandonments,trauma,rejection,lossof
incomeandevenalowerstandardofliving.Foradultsdivorcefeelslikeaworld
toanend,buttoyoungchildrenitfeelsliketheworldisending.Meaningtheone
familytheyhavealwaysknownisnowgone.Atthistimethemothersworking
patternmayincreaseandthefamilyslivingislikelytochangewithincreasing
stress.Itisveryimportantthattheadultswhoareintimatelyinvolvedwith
childrenrealizewhatacriticalpointthisisfortheirdevelopment.Childrenare
morevulnerableatthisageandformotherandfathertheycanresolvethislife
crisisandmoveo,butchildrendivorceisalongcontinuumoflifeexperiences.
Researchestimatesthat20to25percentofchildrenfromdivorcedfamilieshave

problems,asteachersweneedtodoourbesttogivetheseandallchildrena
healthyandsafeenvironmenttolearnandgrowin.
Chapter15
Ilearnedthatmanyparentsaremotivatedconcernedfortheirchildrenand
alwaysquestioningthepracticesofateacherorcaregiver.Thismaybeexpressed
invoicesthatcouldangry,butsometimesparentswhofeelpowerlessattemptto
grabpowerinappropriately.Anotherreasonoremotiontheymaybecoveringupis
thegriefofparentswhofeelupsetwhenrealizingthattheirchildhaseithergone
offtoschoolormayevenhaveadevelopmentalproblem.Thenteachersrealize
thatparentsmaybeoverwhelmedandextremelyupsetitisimportanttorealize
thiscomeupwithamethodofcopingwiththeiranxietyandshowingthather
childisgettingthebesthelp.Whenteacherdirectlyassignblameforaproblem,
parentsmayreactinhostileways,theremaybenosolution,buttodowhatisbest
forthechildwhileworkingtogetherwiththeparentswishes.Ifparentsbecome
defensiveandfeelthatteachersarecriticizingthem,teacherandparentswillsuffer
formthebreakdownincommunication.Carfulanalysisoftheconflictmayhelp
teachermovetowardprofessionalactionsandacceptablesolutions.

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