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A country music songwriter once penned the words to a sad song that he titled, Stop the
World and Let Me Off. Most of us have sung those lyrics to ourselves, or at least identified
with them, at one time or another. Sometimes it is the pain of a broken relationship, a tragic loss
of a loved one, or just the unrelenting pressure of lifes demands. Anxiety comes quickly as we
desperately try to please those around us or agree to commitments we cannot keep.
We are not immune from these feelings. Despair is sometimes brought on because we live in a
fallen world where evil exists; other times its a product of our own design. It is healthy to grieve
tragedy and to be disappointed with our own poor choices. It is not healthy when disappointment progresses into depression and we begin to question our own worth. Feelings that are
normal turn tragic when they lead to thoughts of suicide.
The United States records 41,000 suicides per year. That amounts to one suicide every 13 minutes. The implications are far reaching since there is no narrowly defined demographic affected
by this act. Think about it this way: the people who commit suicide come from all walks of life
so all types of people are affected. Families across all educational backgrounds and economic
statuses feel the pain when a loved one chooses to commit suicide. A wise old sage once
remarked that suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problem that leaves family members
broken-hearted.
How to Cope
With the Loss of
Someone to Suicide
There is no quick-fix solution that will take
away the pain associated with the loss of
someone to suicide. It hurts deeply because
we care deeply for the person. Thankfully,
Christians have a hope that goes beyond this
world. First Corinthians 15:54-57 tells us
that death has been swallowed up in victory.
Death has no sting because Jesus Christ has
conquered sin and death.
We have victory in Jesus and the assurance
that He is more than enough. He is more
than enough to provide comfort, grace,
and peace in tragic situations. We can run
to Jesus as the One who understands our
lament. The answer to Why? may never
come, but we belong to a loving Father who
desires to heal our pain. Our cry of Abba
never goes unheard (Galatians 4:6; Romans
8:15).
Suicide
is derived from the
Latin word suicidium,
meaning killing
of oneself.
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There is
healing in
just having a
friend close
by to help
carry the
burden.
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How to Minister
to Those Who Have
Lost Someone to
Suicide
The Theological
Framework for
Handling the
Concept of Suicide
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Blessed
is the
man who
trusts in
the LORD . . .
he is like a
tree planted
by water
(Jeremiah 17:7-8).
further action as his depression lingered (1 Kings 19:4). We quickly learn that God
had a better plan for his life and sent an angel to minister to Elijah (1 Kings 19:5).
He did not give up and God gave him a renewed purpose!
Life with God is always characterized by hope. Zelda Williams, the daughter of the
late actor Robin Williams, pleaded with those battling depression to hold on to
the possibility of hope. The Christian message says to hold on to the certainty
of hope that we have in Jesus. Hebrews 6:18-19 tells us we can have great confidence in God as we hold to the hope before us. That hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls.
National
Suicide
Prevention
Lifeline
Sometimes the question gets posed this way: Is suicide a sin? The short answer is unequivocally, Yes! No person has the authority to take a lifenot even
his or her own. That belongs to God alone.
for help:
1 (800) 273-8255
However, suicide is not the unpardonable sin. The act of suicide does not alter the
eternal destiny of the person because salvation is based on our response to Gods
promises (John 10:27-29). That does not change the fact that those who commit
suicide leave a shattered mess for their friends and family to walk through. The
painful impact left by suicide is long lasting on those left behind.
thehopeline.com
The pain that is experienced in this life is real and depression can take us to a dark
place, but there is a way out with Christ. There is always the
hope of a brighter tomorrow even if we cannot see it in the
moment. The apostle Paul knew this to be true when he wrote
that he would boast all the more gladly in his weaknesses so
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the power of Christ would rest on him. The Lord did not promEdward E. Moody, Jr., Ph.D.
ise to remove every obstacle and difficult situation. Instead, the
Lord assured Paul that His grace is sufficient for us, and His
power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
FIRST AID
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We must trust our heavenly Father with our lives. He has promised to guide us and to use everything that happens in our lives
to make us a little more like His Son. Jesus willingly laid down
His life to demonstrate Gods love for us (Romans 5:8). He
paid the ultimate price so we no longer have to fear sin, evil,
and death. His death brought us life and the certainty of hope
so we can truly live. Our lives are made new in Jesus so we no
longer live for ourselves but for Him who purchased us by His
blood (2 Corinthians 5:14-15).
Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. You are not your own,
for you were bought with a price (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
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