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addictions
81% report experiencing sexual abuse
72% report experiencing physical abuse
87% report coming from a disengaged family system
77% report coming from a rigid family system
66% report their families were rigd and disengaged
sexual
Did something sexual despite the threat of being caught
Became sexual despite the fear of STDs
Doing something you dont like in order to please someone else
Doing something that is sexually painful
Violated your beliefs
Avoiding social or family obligations to be sexual
Losing track of time because of sexual fantasies/activities
Sex becomes the central organizing principle in your life
Feels shameful
Is illicit, exploitative
Compromises values
Draws on fear for excitement
Reenacts childhood abuse
Disconnects one from oneself
Creates world of unreality
Is self-destructive and dangerous
Uses conquest or power
Is seductive
Serves to medicate and kill pain
Is dishonest
Becomes routine
Requires double life
Is grim and joyless
Demands perfection
Healthy Sex
Adds to self-esteem
Has no victims
Deepens meaning
Uses vulnerability for excitement
Cultivates sense of being adult
Furthers sense of self
Expands reality
Relies on safety
Is mutual and intimate
Takes responsibility for needs
May bring legitimate suffering
Originates in integrity
Presents challenges
Integrates most authentic parts of self
Is fun and playful
Accepts the imperfect
Addictive Behavior
Addictive behavior tends to progress over time
The addict will need more (amount, danger,