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1.As time has passed and Ive had many life experiences and watched my
mother get remarried and divorced multiple times and been in bad
relationships and amazing friendships and such, I think I finally found
the answer to what love is. Ive been saying that this is what love is for
over a year now and Im sticking with it. Ready for this... love is when
you put someone else's needs and wants before your own. It can be
expressed in many ways. For example, purchasing a gift for someone
rather than using that money on yourself. Spending time to write
someone something sweet rather than saving the time and energy.
Letting someone choose their music rather than yours so they are happy.
Thats what love is. Putting someones needs, wants, and happiness over
your own.
8-Caring about someone more than you've ever cared about someone
before
fantasies and movies and books on love. Those are all great ideas on the
people we need to find, but love is more. Love is creating a family,
raising great kids with a beautiful spouse, and living life the way we are
supposed to. Love is returning back to Heavenly Father with all the good
that we've done. Love is Christ suffering for us. That to me is love. Love
and happiness are the only keys to life.
10- hmm okay, that's always a tough question... I think love is the
overwhelming feeling of wanting the absolute best for someone while
also feeling genuinely afraid of ever having to live your life without this
person- whether it be a friend, a family member or a romantic partner
11- Love is not happiness, it is comfort and security. You can be happy
and in love, and it happens often, but don't ever expect it to be constant.
What is constant is that every time you are with the one you love, you
feel completely at ease. There is no need for tension or worries of the
day. It's just home.
and you love yourself you will never love yourself nearly as much as
you loved yourself knowing someone else would literally do anything to
take any bit of your pain away. It's finishing eachothers sentences and
staying up laughing over things you will never remember. It's telling
them about the people of your past, how they scarred you, how they
loved you and how you learned from them. It's them warming your
freezing toes on the couch with their thigh. It's knowing that no matter
what there will always be a connection so much deeper than anything
you could ever explain even after you have loved and lost. It's being
genuinely happy that if you even if you lost them you had that for those
moments. But loving your child is a whole new level. I'm not a mom but
I've already thought about how incredible it would feel to feel a child
inside me, how badly it would hurt to loose them and how incredible it
would be to meet them for the first time with the person I'm in love with
standing next to me or without them. It would be me willing to die for a
child to never have to go through an ounce of the abuse or pain or heart
break that I have. I've literally looked at my nephew and cried for hours
because he is so innocent and perfect and doesn't know how terrible the
world is. I cried in Walmart when he said my name for the first time or
me telling everyone about how I was the first person to make him
giggle. Its knowing that no matter what you know the difference
between causal sex and making love because you can still feel your heart
swell when you think of the difference. It's loving yourself more because
you have felt such a thing and it's the heart wrenching ache in your heart
when you see a mother mourning over their child
14- Haha sure uh....love is....accepting someone despite their faults, and
then showing that u care about them.
15- Well that's a problem because I've never been in love. So idk what
love is ):
17- Love is instant but it can alps take years to develop. Love is simple
and complicated. Love is the best and sometimes love is the worst. It can
create and destroy; pretty much every opposite there is. For me, love is
getting to go to bed with my best friend and have a support that won't
ever let me fall. Love gives me a positive outlook even if things get bad.
19- Love to me is caring for someone without limits. It's respect and
kindness and listening and talking. It's team work. I feel like it's the
hardest game you will play trying to find it but the victory is worth it.
And I think it is important to understand there is a difference between
love and lust.
20- Love is when you can look at someone and see past everything all
the mistakes the fights the bad days and nights and see their soul and
care for them for what is inside them and not what they show
others..love is when that someone does something that if anyone else did
it it would be weird or embarrassing or gross but when they do it it is the
best and cutest thing in the world love is when nothing else matters but
you two being together forever my advice is never give up no matter the
circumstances you are there with them every step of the way! You love
them more deeply than words will ever describe and you show them part
of that love everyday you talk about everything you work all problems
not through fighting or arguments but just through conversations you
have to be willing to give up the things in your life that interrupt the
flow of your relationship together you have to understand that in a
relationship there is no longer and "me and you" it is now "us" and it has
to always be "us" it can't be "us" one day and the next day "I" as long as
you are together and care for that person "I me myself you yourself" all
those words that talk you as an individual can't be in your mind or your
vocabulary once you come to see that in a relationship it is both the man
and the woman in everything working together as one is when the
relationship will be untouchable and more successful than you could
ever imagine
21- What I think is that true love is forgetting your self and serving the
other with all your heart.
22-Love is more than words, it's action as well. Love is putting the other
persons needs In front of your own. Having patience. Forgiveness. Trust.
Happiness. Adventure.
23- Love is having your best friend by your side through thick and thin.
They see all your good qualities, even if you think some are bad, they
are what make you you. Even once you're married you never stop
"dating" the one you love. It's not always the big grand gestures but the
little things that can make a huge difference in their day. It could be a
text saying you are thinking of them, telling them how good they look
(even if they haven't showered in a couple days or have bed hair), giving
them a hug that melts the stress of the day away.
24-I have given it some thought, and I believe that love is recognizing
someone's influence in your life, and then showing them that you
appreciate them and care for them by putting their needs before your
own. I believe that true love makes us want to go out of our way and do
everything we can to take care of and provide for those we love.
26- Ok here's the best I can come up with lol! Love is when you care
more about the well-being of someone else than your own. It's also a
feeling you can't really explain.
If you meet a girl in whose presence you feel a desire to achieve, who
inspires you to do your best, and to make the most of yourself, such a
young woman is worthy of your love and is awakening love in your
heart. I submit that as a true guide. In the presence of the girl you truly
love you do not feel to grovel; in her presence you do not attempt to take
advantage of her; in her presence you feel that you would like to be
everything that a Master Man should become, for she will inspire you
to that ideal. - A Parents Guide
It's the same with girls- find a man who inspires me to achieve, to come
closer to Christ and my Heavenly Father, someone who makes me feel
like I can do better. Love is always having that support, being a team,
making decisions together, and reaching towards the same goals. It's
having no the utmost respect for each other and forgiving one another
when our faults get in the way.
28- It's a hard question. But I think the word love is extremely over used.
We throw it around like it has no meaning. You just "I love you" without
really thinking about it. But ultimately I think it's an action. You can say
you love something, but it all comes back to the emotion you put into an
action. It means your willing to sacrifice whatever for that person.
However, a huge part of realizing what love is comes from loving
yourself. You honestly cannot know what love is without loving yourself
first. Then, it is easier to obtain that emotional connection to put for an
action.
29- I dont know what love is and I dont know what I want.
30- love is when your puppy licks your face even when you leave him
home alone all day.
or most satisfying thing. It just isn't out there. But Lust will keep you
looking for it forever. It always pushes you on towards something else.
Lust does not require hard work. It does not require sacrifice or pain. It
seeks instant gratification. Lust is merciless, devouring all it encounters
while stepping on and destroying those that stand in its way. It cares not
about feeling or emotions. It throws caution to the wind and leaps
without looking. It is fragile and shatters with the slightest bit of
instability.
Love: Love is the polar opposite of lust. Love is grown slowly. Love
takes time. It is found in warmth. Love is created by struggle and
sacrifice. It takes time but it endures. It offers comfort and safety and
security. It is forged through the refiners fire. It is strengthened through
service. It is patient. Love offers satisfaction.
Lust is like a 10 Year old who has just heard that a brand new toy will
be released a few weeks away. He spends all his time thinking about it
and dreaming about how he will play with it. He reads the reviews and
researches it. He has conjured up the scenarios in which he will play
with it. The time comes to get the toy. He tears it from its package and
its shininess gleams in his hands. He examines it from all angles and
determines it is perfect. He has waited so long for this day. He takes his
toy and immediately goes into play mode. He begins to use his toy in all
the ways he fantasized. He has fun. He is enjoying his new toy but
surprisingly, a few days go by and suddenly his toy doesn't look so shiny
and new anymore. He doesn't find the same excitement from it as he
once did. He has already played out all of his imaginations with it and it
seems to be less exciting than before. In only a few short weeks, it
doesn't bring him the same thrill or interest or desire as it did before. But
wait. whats this? Did he just see an ad on TV for another toy? And it
looks like the perfect toy its the one that he really wanted, isn't it? He
thought the other was going to bring him happiness but he didn't know
about this one back then. This one will surely be the best toy ever
Love is the opposite. Love is that warm teddy bear that has always been
there. It sits on the bed waiting for our daily return. It is an heirloom that
we cherish. It has history and time behind it. It is not new and shiny but
it is warm and comforting. It will always be there. No matter how many
new toys one gets, this faithful companion will never disappear or seem
useless. In fact we treat it as a priceless, protected Item. It is not for the
value found in its workmanship or design, but for the immense worth
found in the memories that it represents. In it is true satisfaction. It
stands for endurance. It represents comfort. It has been through a few
battles and is tattered at the edges but we would never let it go for the
memories and strength that it offers.
Love is satisfying, Lust is not. Lust Cannot become Love And Love
does not Need Lust.
feelings can leave just as fast as they can come. This leads to emptiness,
pain and fear, all things that oppose love. Why do people base so much
off of touch or sex or even making out? Because its simple its fast and
easy. You get what you want and you feel happy. But real love is not
quick its nothing without time trust and communication. To find love
you must first love yourself so you can love others. You need to be
willing to sacrifice everything for that person to make them happy and
trust that they will be willing to do the same for you. Love is when
mommy gives daddy the last piece of pizza, even when she wants it. To
know and feel real love you cant hold yourself back. Being willing and
understanding to those around you will open the doors. Love is missing
your favorite tv show to visit a friend in need or visit your sick parent. If
you want to find someone to love you stop forcing love. Stop only
focusing on what you get and the physical things. Start focusing on
helping them become who they want and allow them to help you in
return. The ultimate form of love comes through charity or the pure love
of god. He loves each of us and allows us to make out choices so we can
learn and grow. He will never give up on us and knows that we love him
even if we dont always say it. God saved us and gave us everything
with nothing in return. Love is when your mom brings you medicine to
work, even after she told you not to forget it and you did anyway. Love
is when you scratch you partners back because you know they had a bad
day. God is understanding and always tries to understand why we did
things and why we wont change. He also is forgiving and gives us many
chances. If you want to love someone look at them the way god does.
Now joy the most important in my opinion, Joy is love and without love
there is no joy. Joy is the pure happiness of being near someone. When
you see them and know that they accept you and will never fail you on
purpose. If you want to be happy, make others happy and they will make
you happy in return. Now there are always exceptions and people that
abuse love and fake it and use others for their personal gain. But these
people are really the losers because they never will experience that
feeling of bliss thats comes with understanding that you and your
partner will forever be a team and together are one.
Now Im just a 22 year old guy and Im single and I really have no
idea what love is. But thats the first step of learning what love is. I do
know that we need to be caring and kind and giving to those we want to
love. We need to talk and trust them with everything and hopes that they
will do the same for us. I know that love is more that physical attraction
and that physical looks leave with time and can be faked with makeup
and surgery. We should love people for how god loves them and look for
the good they do, and into their soul for their real intention. We need to
be forgiving and understanding and not judge, but work with them to
make both sides happy and comfortable. Love is pure and would never
hurt on purpose. Love is more than words its writing love notes or
bringing lunch to a friend while they are at work. Love is a choice and
you can choose to be loved or love someone today. But you probably
wont because youre too stuck up on what the world says love is:
physical looks, sex, and money, attention, and smarts. If you are lonely
love yourself. Treat yourself. Find what makes you happy and serve
yourself. Once you have done that, find someone who accepts you and
wants to help you with your goals and will do anything for you. Then
you do the same with them. Be patient with them and understanding talk
with them and trust them and try to make them smile every day. And
most important dont give up and choose each morning to make that
person your everything.
Live love and most important laugh because if youre not laughing
youre being too serious.