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About
March 2016
Genetic Testing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5
Why its so important
Taking Baby Home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6

Local pediatricians words of wisdom
Oh Baby, Baby.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7
The cutest things from togs to treats and more
How to Pick a Hebrew School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8

Good advice on choosing religious education
Hebrew & Nursery School Listings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

A guide to local schools
Mistakes Mom and Dad Make . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11

Avoiding these traps for better parenting
Generation G. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Great Grandmother Molly in her glory
Not Yet.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13
Waiting until a child can and will
Ah-Choo! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
Spring allergies and how to deal
Day Camping We Will Go. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Choosing the right place for your child
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A guide to our camps
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Great picks for the month
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musings from the editor

A
friend in need is a friend indeed.

Especially when youre having car
trouble.
Tanya the Toyota is to me like Silver is to
the Lone Ranger. My car that is Tanya is
not only my reliable mode of transportation,
but also a longtime companion. Weve been
through a lot together. And while Im exhorted
by many well-meaning friends to buy a car that
is younger than bat mitzvah (Tanyas actually
older!), I hesitate to part with her.
Why? Just like me, she may have a few
years on her, but shes still in good shape.
She has, though, felt a little long in the
tooth recently.
Recently, before a family getaway during
the school break, I had some trouble with Tanya. It wasnt really the cars fault, but it did remind me of her age. I parked in the mall parking lot to go into the stores in search of some
ski pants for one of the kids. After a short
excursion inside the mall and no real luck
with the shopping I returned to car. It was
already dark, but I noticed that the headlights
were left on. By me. Uh oh. I couldnt get the
car started. The battery
was kaput.
So who did I call? Not
AAA. Not the insurance
guys who offer road service. Not even my husband (not yet).
I called a group of road
rescuers known as Chaverim, literally friends in
Hebrew. This volunteer
brigade will come out and
offer an assist on the road, a boost, a lockout opening, and more even things that
are not car-related. Chaverim Teaneck (there
are Chaverim organizations in other areas, as
well), is a small but mighty group started several years ago by a group of post-high school
yeshiva students. I knew about the organization because I had gotten help from Chaverim
in Brooklyn, and hoped that there was a one in
Teaneck. Lucky for me, there is.
If you cross the alacrity and altruism of a
superhero and the looks of a Maccabeat, thats
Chaverim. At least that was my impression of
the kippah-clad young man who showed up to
give me a boost. And it wasnt only my car that
got the boost. I felt so appreciative of his parking lot rescue. When I tried to thank him with a
tip, he absolutely refused. Unbelievable.
Not even a week later, there I was again in
Teaneck with Tanya. But this time when I exited the car, I left the keys in the ignition. Oy.
Who did I call? Yes, Chaverim.
Hoping that another member would show
up instead of the same young man who helped
me the last time I was embarrassed and at
the same time hoping that he would show up
because he was so helpful, I was just happy
someone was coming. It turned out to be the
same young man.
But this time, it wasnt so easy to get Tanya back on the road. The lock of my car is not
a newfangled one, but an older button type
lock, and it was giving my Chaver a little bit
of trouble.
Who did he call? A cohort. Lickety split, a
second Chaver showed up to try and get the
car door open. He even unlaced his sneaker
MissionStatement
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James L. Janoff
Natalie Jay
Heidi Mae Bratt
Peggy Elias
George Kroll
Karen Nathanson
Janice Rosen
Brenda Sutcliffe
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Deborah Herman
Art Director
AdvisoryBoard
Michelle Brauntuch, MS,CCLS
Barry Weissman, MD
Child Life Specialist, Englewood Hospital, Englewood
Pediatrician, Hackensack and Wyckoff
Hope Eliasof
Cheryl Wylen
Holistic Chiropractor, Oakland
Rivka Schonfeld
Ed Silberfarb
Sara Shapiro-Plevan
Slovie Jungreis-Wolff
Denise Morrison Yearian
Contributing Writers
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Marketing and Communications Specialist
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Marriage and Family Therapist, Midland Park
Cheers,
About
About Our Children is designed to help Jewish families in our area live healthy, positive lives that make the most of
the resources available to them. By providing useful, current, accurate information, the publication aims to guide parents to essential information on faith, education, the arts, events, and child-raising in short, everything that todays
Jewish family, babies to grandparents, needs to live life to the fullest in northern New Jersey and Rockland County.
Dr. Annette Berger, Psy.D.
and tried to grab the stubborn button open.

Look, its MacGyver, said Chaver Number One, referring to the television genius
agent who rights wrongs with his vast scientific knowledge and creativity. MacGyver never
carries a gun and always thwarts the enemy,
sometimes with little more than a paper clip
and the duct tape in his pocket
But this MacGyver had no luck.
Who did they call? A third Chaver, who
got to the scene in no time. And with the right
equipment to open Tanyas old-fashioned
button.
Joked Chaver Number One, One more
guy and well have to get out the sushi.
Three Chaverim. Number Three had the
right tool to open it. He gave it to Number
Two, who got the door open. And Number
One, my original Chaver, was there orchestrating the whole rescue and helping every step
of the way.
Tanya was back in business and I was able
to get back home.
What can I say?
Im just so lucky to have friends like these.
Director of Adult Programs and Cultural Arts

YM-YWHA of North Jersey, Wayne
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Why is genetic testing important?

Based upon personal and family history, genetic testing is important because it can determine a patients
risk, or predisposition, for certain cancers. If a genetic
mutation (a change in the gene) is identified, this mutation can increase their risk for certain cancers such
as breast, ovarian, uterine and colon cancer. By gaining
this life-saving knowledge, a patient can be proactive
and have risk-reducing surgery and/or other medical
treatments, to help decrease their risk of getting certain cancers. It is also important to note that patients
who have had the BRCA testing prior to 2013 should
speak to their health care provider to see if they qualify
for updated panel testing. I also want to stress that every patient should gather health information from both
sides of the family.
Specifically why is Jewish genetic testing important?

Genetic counseling and testing in the Jewish population
is important because 1 in 40 individuals have a genetic
mutation, which can increase their risk for breast, ovarian, uterine and colon cancers. These genes are included in certain syndromes, which are called BRCA (breast
and ovary) and Lynch (colon, uterine and ovary). Patients can have risk-reducing procedures once these
genes have been identified.
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What services are available at Holy Name Medical

Center for genetic testing and genetic counseling?
Genetic counseling and testing is available for patients
who feel they are at increased risk for cancer. Counseling
and testing is performed by a nurse practitioner who specializes in womens health and genetics. The nurse practitioner works very closely with GYN oncologist Dr. Sharyn
Lewin, who performs risk-reducing surgery, such as removal of ovaries and uterus. Dr. Lewin manages patients
who are at high risk for female cancers such as ovarian
and uterine. The nurse practitioner can help to coordinate
the care for patients who are at high risk for these cancers,
and makes the appropriate referrals to other specialists,
such as breast surgery and gastroenterology.
Anything else you would like to add?

Yes, prenatal testing does not include the genes that
can increase a patients risk for cancer. Its important to
find a health care professional knowledgeable in cancer
genetics for counseling and testing.
In addition, Holy Name has partnered with the
Lewin Fund to host a Hereditary Genetics and Cancer
Symposium in April 2016 for Cancer Prevention Month.
This free community event will take place on Sunday,
April 10, from 10 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at the Kaplen JCC on
the Palisades in Tenafly. Dr. Lewin will convene worldrenowned oncologists for a thought-provoking and lifesaving discussion about cancer awareness, early detection, prevention, and hereditary genetics. For more
information or to register, visit thelewinfund.org
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Taking Baby Home from the Hospital
Now What?
fter the initial excitement of giving birth to a healthy baby, new

parents are ready to take their
baby home from the hospital. Baby is all
dressed in his or her first cute outfit. The
car is outfitted with the brand new car
seat. Thats when it might sink in.
Whoa! Wheres the users manual?
What do we do? Are they really going to
let us take this baby home? Yes. Youre
going to take baby home, just like all
parents have done before you. And yes,
baby will be just fine.
Still, About Our Children checked in
with a neonatologist, Dr. Frank P. Manginello, the Darlene L. Marron Chairman of
Childrens Services at the Valley Hospital/Valley Medical Group, and Dr. Daniel
Anderson, a pediatrician with Tenafly
Pediatrics, for their words of wisdom.
About Our Children: What is the
most important advice you can give to
first-time parents?
Dr. Frank Manginello: Be prepared
prior to conception. See your doctor early, stay in good physical shape, and get a
little rest with your feet up twice a day.
Taking prenatal vitamins, especially folic
acid, is very important even prior to conception. Always being in good physical
shape is a great idea, as well as control of
blood pressure, weight, etc. Discuss prepregnancy with your OB/GYN any medical or family genetic issues that may be
of concern or need evaluation prior to
pregnancy.
Dr. Daniel Anderson: First-time

parents receive a lot of advice, both
solicited and unsolicited, from well-intentioned family, friends and neighbors.
Sifting through all their advice can be
overwhelming and at times stressful.
The most important thing to remember
is that this is your child and it is up to
you to feel comfortable with your parenting methods. I always say to my patients, Happy, healthy parents lead to
happy, healthy babies. I believe that
starts with trusting your decision making and having a strong partnership with
your pediatrician.
AOC: How should a parent choose a
doctor for their newborn or baby?
Dr. Manginello: Interview, talk to
friends, check out the hospitals he/she
goes to, check with insurance, and find
someone whose delivery beliefs match
yours.
Dr. Anderson: Pediatricians serve a
very special role in the care and development of a child. We have the opportunity to help guide parents on the care
of their child from birth to the start of
adulthood. And likewise, your pediatrician will grow a relationship with the
child as they learn to take care of their
bodies and become healthy adults. The
most important thing a family needs is
to find a pediatrician they can trust with
this relationship, and feel confident in
the care they provide. To start the process for selecting a pediatrician ask for
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website that provides ample information
about their pediatricians.
AOC: How do you help educate parents of newborns?
Dr. Manginello: We teach them the
benefits of good physical and mental
health and appropriate expectations.
Breastfeeding is best, but must be individualized with every patient. Babies do
not take much in during the first couple
of days, but persistence and working
with good lactation consultants, in conjunction with your pediatrician, is going
to be helpful. Minimal weight loss occurs
for every baby after birth, and is often
greater if the mother has had a Caesarean. Also mothers need to discuss with
their doctors the risk and benefits of
any medications that they may be taking and make a coordinated decision as
to what can be safely continued. Also to
be discussed, if there were any mental
health issues in the past, that the mother will be at greater risk for post partum
depression.
Dr. Anderson: Tenafly Pediatrics
strives to provide parents with ample access to information. Prior to the childs
birth, families have the opportunity to
visit the office for a prenatal visit. During this visit, families can learn about
the practice and ask questions of the
pediatrician. Then, during the familys
first visit with their newborn, each family is provided with an electronic version
of our own baby book, which reviews
newborn care and acts as an additional
resource for families at home. I like to
think of it as reading material during
midnight feedings.
AOC: Are there any trends in newborn care that you have seen in the
years of your practice?
Dr. Manginello: Putting the baby on
its back to sleep, of course. Also moving the babys head regularly to prevent
deformation. We know the benefits of
nursing, and giving appropriate stimulation without overstimulation. Many
babies benefit from a relative schedule
for feeds. You cannot expect a baby to
consistently sleep at night until they are
many weeks old, and certainly you cannot try to keep them more awake during
the day early on to get them to sleep better at night. Sleep is important for health
and happiness. Fussy babies are often
just hungry or sleep deprived.
Dr. Anderson: A relatively recent
trend in newborn care in the United
States has been the Baby-Friendly Hospital initiative. Its focus is to create an envi-
ronment that supports a mothers desire

to breastfeed while she and the newborn
are still in the hospital. This initiative requires newborns to be with their mothers more because it allows feeding on
demand, provides opportunities to learn
breastfeeding techniques and encourages bonding. An important campaign to
highlight, while not new, is the Back to
Sleep campaign. Its original focus was
to educate parents on the importance of
placing babies on their back while sleeping to help prevent Sudden Infant Death
Syndrome. Due to the campaign success
the program evolved to further define
what constitutes a safe sleeping environment. We now know amongst other
things how important it is to remove soft
objects and loose bedding from the crib,
that all smoke exposure should be avoided and that babies should be placed on a
firm surface to sleep.
AOC: When is a parent reacting to
a situation with their newborn or baby?
When is a parent overreacting? How do
they know the difference?
Dr. Manginello: Feeding a baby on
demand generally works, within the
framework of the familys own schedule. For the first month or so, just spend
the time getting used to the baby. Forget about shopping, cooking thank you
notes and the like. Discuss early with
your pediatrician what the signs would
necessitate a phone call or visit, and do
not take the baby out into crowds for the
first month or two.
Dr. Anderson: All new parents, at
times, will question whether theyre
overreacting. As a pediatrician my job is
to make sure children are healthy, growing and developing normally. If a parent
feels that something is wrong I want to
hear from them. Part of learning how to
decipher what is normal newborn behavior is by talking with your pediatrician about expectations for what your
family may experience.
AOC: Anything else?
Dr. Manginello: Enjoy the time
spent and get pleasure out of the small
things a baby will do early on, such
as grabbing, looking at you, lifting the
head. All of these occur prior to the
first smile, so parents need some good
early feedback.
Dr. Anderson: Congratulations to
all expecting and new parents. Having a
child is one of lifes greatest joys. I hope
you and your family enjoys this time
with your babyit will go by too fast.
Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our
Children.
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How to Choose the Right Hebrew School for Your Child
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hats the difference between

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schedule. What if attending Shabbat services is a requirement but you are often
out of town on weekends? What if you
want a two-day program and not a threeday program?
School requirements should mesh
with your familys needs and should
support your goals for your childs education. Is the synagogue located far
away from your home or close by in
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particular learning needs or particular
interests, find out if the school can accommodate these needs. One of the surest ways to guarantee your childs success in Hebrew school is to make sure
that its a good fit.
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Schedule a tour of the school and visit
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learning? Are the students happy and
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A good program will feel good
when youre in the building. Remember
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offices. Students studying in these settings should still be actively engaged
in exciting, meaningful, and stimulating
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Do Your Homework
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Many parents discover in retrospect
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prayer and participation in Shabbat ser-
vices over other areas of study.

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develop deeper knowledge. Look at the
curriculum and make sure it addresses
your particular familys needs.
Whos in Charge?
The educational leadership and teaching
faculty make a school what it is. A good
school will have a clearly articulated educational vision and a director or principal who guides the program and sets
the agenda for change and growth. Meet
with the education director and ask her
to share her vision for the school. Dont
hesitate to come prepared with questions. Discuss any anxieties you may
have about the process and what it will
take to make the experience a positive
one for your child and your family. Learn
a bit about the faculty and even ask to
take a look at textbooks and other materials. Taking some time to meet with the
head of the school will help you to get
to know the school more intimately, and
let you know if youre making the right
choice.
Involved Parents
The shema prayer teaches us
vshinantam lvaneha, you shall teach
the words of Torah to your children. The
obligation of providing a child with a
Jewish education rests on the shoulders
of the parents. While you may not want
to teach in your childs Hebrew school,
you should find out how parents are involved in the school.
Is there an active school or education committee? Are parents invited
and encouraged to volunteer? Does the
synagogue community rely on lay leadership? Parents should be actively involved in the governance of the school,
in planning and executing programs, and
in the life of the community. This doesnt
mean that you need to get involved right
away, but it opens the door for you to
participate in your childs education at
some later date.
Other Amenities
A Jewish education is not a stand-alone
experience. Generally, schools are part
of synagogue communities that offer
a wide variety of programming. Are
you looking for anything else? Families
who regularly attend Shabbat services
may be interested in childrens services. You may be eager to be a part of a
regular davening (prayer) community
and want to join the morning minyan.
Are you interested in learning with
your child? Find out if the synagogue
or school offers family education programs where you can learn side-by-side
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OurChildren
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254 Broad Ave.

Leonia, NJ 07605
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Grades: Kindergarten through confirmation
Number of students currently
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Our religious school provides a welcoming and inclusive environment
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Our Rabbi, Cantor and teaching staff
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parents provide support through
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10-10 Norma Avenue

Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
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A warm, loving environment in
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Our objective: to give your child the
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We are a state accredited preschool
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We are a small, nurturing environment rich in hands-on secular/Judaic experiences and exploration both
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Nursery Schools
Jewish Community Center of Fort
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Hebrew School
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Fort Lee, NJ 07024 (new satellite
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At the JCC of Fort Lee Hebrew
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and creative programming. Our established 1 and 2 day programs fit
busy family schedules. Both of our
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The Jewish Community Center of

Paramus/Congregation Beth
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Paramus, NJ 07652
Education director@jccparamus.org
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Ages 4 to 13
Our award-winning Hebrew School
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We are a wonderful place for children to learn and grow. We provide
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At Temple Emanu-El, we nourish a
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amenities now, but you may want them

later on.
with your child. Many adults are also

seeking stimulating learning opportunities for themselvesdoes the congregation offer workshops and courses
designed with adult learners in mind?
And dont forget: you may not be able
to take advantage of these additional
Making the Decision

In the end, the choice is yours. Choosing a religious school program for your
child is a true commitment, spiritually as
well as financially. For the relationship to
be successful, both parents and school

leaders must be partners in the childs
education and commit to that partnership from the moment the child enters
the school until he or she graduates. The
entire undertaking is, however, a very
personal one, and should be reflective of
who you are, and who your child is, and
the dreams and aspirations you have for

your family.
This piece originally appeared on Kveller.
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OurChildren
About
Try and Steer Clear of These Parenting Mistakes

S LOV I E JU N G R E I S - WO L F F
e all make mistakes. Children.

Parents. Yes, sometimes especially the parents. Here are five
of the most common mistakes parents
make. With more awareness, we can work
on avoiding them.
Bubble-wrapping children
Children require independence to flourish. They need to write and rewrite reports, stay up studying and use their
time wisely, work on science projects,
and earn their As and Bs. The moments
they fail a test, strike out in a baseball
game, dont get the part in the production or are unhappy with the class they
were placed in are opportunities for
growth. Its okay for them to struggle,
figure out how to do better next time
and open hearts to people theyd never
normally sit with at the lunch table in
school.
Children need to fall in order to learn
how to get up and stand on their own
two feet. We cant protect them from
pain, disappointment and rejection. The
more we try the less they can handle.

They need to learn how to cope.
Self-esteem comes from discovering
their inner strengths and knowing that I
can do this, I will not fall apart.
Weak discipline
All children require discipline to understand standards of behavior and learn
self-control, especially today.
But we make the mistake of believing that discipline means punishment
and negativity. Some parents are afraid
that saying no will push children away.
Not true.
Good discipline means that I dont
wait for the problems to arise. Instead I
have created a bond with my children,
we communicate well, I am present, they
know what is expected and accepted.
When they run off course (all children
will at some time make mistakes or test
us), I do not ignore the problem, yell,
or become overly emotional, hit, or put
my children down. Instead I use natural
and clear consequences, remain calm
but strong, take the time to listen, and
teach my children to take responsibility
for their actions. I approach the relationship with a positive spirit and try my
best to be present in my childrens lives
to show that I care.
Problems occur if children see that
we dont carry through, are not serious
about our standards, are inconsistent, or
believe that screaming means discipline.
HAPPY CHILDREN
ARE NOT OUR
ULTIMATE
PARENTING GOAL.
Too many times we say no but
convey maybe or Im not sure, which
breeds confusion. They read our hesitation and pounce on our doubt. If I
believe in myself, am consistent, clear,
stand firm in my parenting standards,
and balance discipline with loving times
spent together, my ability to discipline
becomes strengthened.
Fearing unhappiness
What do you want for your children?
The most common response I get to
this question is: I just want them to be
happy.
If this is your reply, it becomes easy
to fall into the happiness trap. We keep
buying, look away at bad behavior, overindulge and go against our better judgment all in the name of happiness. We
confuse the idea of loving children with
constantly doing for them and making
them happy.
Happy children are not our ultimate
parenting goal. Good character, grit, resilience, sensitivity, honesty, respect,
strong work ethics, and high values are
all part of our mission. There will be
times that our children will be unhappy
despite our best intentions. They will get
upset with our decisions. But sometimes
the answer is no. As hard as we try we
will encounter their tears. This does not
mean that we are bad parents. It means
we are doing our job and teaching our
children that they cant always have
Mistakes continued on page 23
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never understand a grandchilds indifference to a book she praised.
Her social life sometimes eclipsed
the younger generation. One New Years
Eve, she noticed a teenage grandson morose with nothing to do. She convinced
him to accompany her to a concert,
which he later described as Edwardian music attended by all gray-haired
ladies. At intermission she abandoned
him to go to a New Years Eve party.
Drama was important in her life, not
only as a spectator, but also as a performer.
She saw every play she could, especially if
offered a free ticket even a half hour before
curtain time. She was a founding member of
an intergenerational theater group, Roots
and Branches, which brought together the
young and the old, and sought to bring
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About
Not Yet
The Power to Encourage

Your Children to Dream Big
R I F KA S C H O N F E L D
wo 10-year-olds are placed into

two separate rooms. They are
both given the same puzzle. It is a
three dimensional puzzle with very few
instructions. They are told that they can
have as much time as they would like to
work on the puzzle.
The first ten-year-old stares at the
box. He opens it up and then sighs. I
will never be able to figure this out. He
closes the box and tells the adult outside that he is ready to go.
The second 10-year-old stares at
the box. He opens it up and takes all
of the pieces out. Then, he stares at
the box again. I love a challenge! he
says. He starts experimenting with
the different pieces
which kinds
fit together. Then, he goes back to
the pictures on the box. He looks for
instructions. He turns the pieces
over. After a half-hour, he has
managed to put together a
few of the pieces, and gradually begins working at a faster
pace. Much later, he finishes
and admires his fully built
puzzle.
Whats the difference between the first and second
ten-year-old? Is the first lazy? Is
the second one just smarter than
the first? Carol Dweck, a professor of Psychology and author of
Mindset: The New Psychology
of Success, explains that there is
something very important about
the differences between the boys.
Its not that one is lazy or the other smarter, rather one has a fixed
mindset and the other has a growth
mindset.
Ms. Dwecks research reveals that
people have views about themselves
that change the way they interact
with others, respond to failure, and deal
with challenges. These views about
themselves are labeled mindsets: the
view you adopt for yourself.
Fixed
If you have a fixed mindset, you believe
that your qualities are carved in stone.
You believe that you have a certain
amount of intelligence, a certain personality, and a certain moral character. This
creates an urge to prove yourself over
and over again.
Growth
The growth mindset is based on the belief that your basic qualities are things
that can cultivate through your efforts.
This mindset is founded on the idea that
you can change and grow through application and experience. This means your
true potential is unknown and therefore
anything can be accomplished through
hard work and passion.
This idea of a growth mindset can
also be called the power of yet. In other words, you are not there yet, but you
can get there. Ms. Dweck argues that the
power of yet is in direct contrast to the
tyranny of now. If you believe that you
can grow and learn, you have the power
of yet on your side. In contrast, if
you feel that your intelligence
is fixed and cannot be changed,
you are stuck in the now, with
no possibility of a yet. There is
a high school in Chicago that
lists students failing grades
as not yet, rather than
fail, indicating to students that they can succeed, they just are not
there yet.
Are we raising our
children for now or yet?
We all want our children to dream big dream.
We want them to believe in
the power of yet. We want
them to see problems as
challenges, not as crises.
Research has shown that
our mindsets are not set in
stone. In other words, you
can move from having a fixed
mindset to having a growth
mindset. But, how can we do
this?
Praise wisely
Instead of praising intelligence
or talent, praise the process that children engage in. Praise for effort. Praise
for improvement. This will help children
gain resilience and strength. If they understand that the process is important
and not just the product, they will be
more likely to engage in difficult activities in the future.
Reward the yet

As parents and teachers, we tend to
reward the finished product. You finished your project. You got an A. You
cleaned up your whole room. You get a

sticker on your chart. Instead, reward
for effort, strategy and process. Give rewards for thinking about how to tackle
problems and for the work that is done.
This will eventually create more engagement for long periods of time, and
generally more persistence in difficult
tasks.
Teach children that they can change.
Show them how the brain works and
how new connections are made everyday (if you need some help understanding neurons and their connections, dont
shy away from a challenge!). Teach them
that they have the ability to gain skills
and intelligence.
Use the words yet and not yet.
Instead of saying you didnt do it, say,
you didnt do it yet. This allows chil-
dren to understand that they can accomplish what they hope to do; they just
arent there yet.
Educators and parents who create
growth mindsets make things happen.
The meaning of effort and difficulty are
transformed. Rather than difficulty making children run, it makes them think. If
we all work on cultivating a growth attitude, we can grow and thrive. Now thats
a challenge Im willing to accept.
Rifka Schonfeld, founder and director of
S.O.S (Strategies for Optimum Success), has
served the Jewish community for nearly 30
years as an educator and education consultant. She is a reading specialist who does
G.E.D. preparation, evaluations, social skills
training, dating coaching and self-esteem
building. Visit her at rifkaschonfeld@gmail.
com.
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About
Cold?
Sneeve Catches the Yucky Stuff
eve all seen it. A runny

nose swiped across
a just-washed
sleeve. A gloppy sneeze
into the arm of a brand
new sweater. Now
theres The Sneeve, a
soft, stretchy, absorbent little sleeve that
children wear over their
arms, shirts, sweaters,
sweatshirts or pajamas
to catch the yucky stuff
and help stop it from
spreading from colds.
The Centers
for Disease Control
recommends coughing and sneezing into
the upper sleeve to
help stop germs from
spreading.
Each disposable
Sneeve will last most
children for a full day,
absorbing phlegm and
mucus (even the words
are gross) and protecting
clothing from becoming a
germy landing pad. An
antimicrobial application
kills 99.9% of viruses and
bacteria on contact.
The blue Sneeve fits on
most children 3 to 8 and
reminds them to cough and
sneeze into their arms. It
resembles the compression
sleeves that athletes use.
The anti-microbial application, used in hospitals, is
made from citric acid and
silver. Its safe for children,
but merciless on viruses and
bacteria. www.thesneeve.com
Debora K. Geller, M.D.

Pediatric and Adult Allergy, Asthma and Immunology
Environmental Food Allergy Testing

Immunotherapy (Allergy shots)
Complete Asthma Care Same Day Appointments
Voted Castle Connolly Top Doctor
NJ Monthly Top Doctor - 2014, 2015
Inside Jersey Top Doctor and Top Doctors for Children
Medical excellence with a personal touch

466 Old Hook Rd., Suite 24E, Emerson, NJ 201-265-7515
www.bergenallergydoctor.com
Ah Choo!
Spring Allergies Budding

As the Season Hits
ts that time of year again. The birds

chirp in the distance. The temperatures start to mellow. The days are
getting longer. The crocuses are trying
break through the soil. And the sniffles
and sneezes and runny noses are right
around the corner. Spring brings with it
the start of new green life, and also, for
many, the start of the new spring allergy
season.
About Our Children conferred with
Dr. Debora K. Geller, a pediatric and
adult allergist and immunologist who
has a private practice in Emerson, for
some advice on how to navigate allergies in children.
About Our Children: How does a
parent know the difference between a
cold and allergies?
Dr. Debora Geller: They can often
appear the same, especially with the
onset of symptoms. For example, symptoms of clear runny nose, fatigue and
runny eyes can be seen with either a
cold or allergies. Typically allergies do
not produce a fever, the symptoms may
last longer, and itching may be a predominant symptom. With colds one may
or may not have a fever, symptoms usually resolve after about a week and itching isnt usually reported.
AOC: What are the best treatments
for allergies?
Dr. Geller: There are very good over
the counter as well as prescription medications available for allergies. Antihistamines, oral, intranasal and ocular work
very well. Nasal steroids are very good
especially for those with more severe
symptoms. Allergy shots are very effective for those who are not well controlled with allergy medication.
AOC: Is there any way to prevent a
bad allergy attack?
Dr. Geller: Yes. One should be aware
of their trigger, for example, pet dander,
pollen or dust. If they know they will be

exposed, take some preventative medications before exposure such as an antihistamine before going to someones
house with a dog. Or prior to the spring
allergy season plan to start preventative
allergy medications. One may still experience allergy symptoms but hopefully
they wont be as severe.
AOC: Can allergy symptoms be outgrown in children?
Dr. Geller: Food allergies such as
milk and eggs are the most common
pediatric food allergies, and yes, they
are often outgrown. It is less likely with
peanuts, tree nuts and shellfish. Environmental allergy symptoms can change
over time. For some, symptoms may improve; however, for others allergy symptoms can become more severe.
AOC: Have there been any breakthrough treatments for children?
Dr. Geller: For the treatment of environmental allergies medications that are
available are pretty much the same antihistamines, steroids, leukotriene modifiers such as montelukast and allergy immunotherapy. Most recently, sublingual
immunotherapy has become available
for grass and ragweed allergy for those
individuals not interested or able to
pursue subcutaneous immunotherapy
or allergy shots. With sublingual immunotherapy, a daily tablet is taken prior
to the onset of grass and or ragweed
allergy season to modify symptoms.
Unfortunately, we do not have a tablet
available for tree allergy, which is the
main pollen group causing spring symptom in our area. There is always new research going on for the treatment of food
allergies at this point avoidance and the
availability of epinephrine-containing
devices is what we can recommend for
those known to have life threatening
food allergies.
Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our
Children.
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About
Matchmaking the Camp

and the Happy Day Camper
DENISE MORRISON YEARIAN
friendly? Do they immediately bond

with the children? Are the facilities
well maintained, clean, and free of
safety hazards?
ummer day camp is a place

where children learn new skills,
acquire new interests and make
new friends. But there is no one-sizefits-all camp. To find the right day
camp for your child, consider these
suggestions.
Peruse Policies
Eliminate future problems by reviewing the camps policies and procedures before you sign up. You dont
want to learn after the fact that your
child cant turn on his cell phone or
that drop-off and pick-up policies
differ from what you thought. Share
pertinent information with your
child too, so there are no surprises
on his end.
Consider Your Child
Gather Information
Traditional or Specialty
When choosing between a traditional versus specialty
program, consider this rule of thumb: The younger the
child, the more varied the activities should be. Children
between the ages of 7 and 11 thrive in a setting where
they can sample a variety of subjects. As their attention span develops, they may want to focus on a single
activity. If you go with a specialty camp, find out how
intense the program is. It may be labeled specialty
but only have a one- or two-hour component with other
activities scheduled in.
Look at Location
Find a camp close to your job or home to shorten travel
time and allow quick access to your child in an emergency. Convenience, however, shouldnt be the primary
factor. Balance your decision with what the camp has
to offer. If your child really wants to participate in a given camp, consider your willingness to drive out of the
way. Or see if theres a neighbor you can carpool with.
Ponder Program Length

Program length should be viewed in light of the family and childs needs. If your schedule dictates him or
her having to stay a full day ask about before and after-care. If he or she is younger, find out about naps or
quiet times. Its also important to find out who runs the
before- and after-care program. Is it the same staff your
child has all day? What activities will he be engaged in
during this time?
Scout Out Schedules

Before enrolling, inquire about the daily schedule.
What themes and related activities are planned? Will
there be field trips or special guests coming in to keep
camp exciting and extend theme-based learning? Will
your camper receive any reading, writing or math experiences? Done properly, kids can enjoy games and
activities that keep those academic skills sharp. Also
look at resources the camp has to offer and inquire
how often your child will participate in them. Dont
assume that just because theres a pool, ropes course
or archery field on the brochure it will be part of your
childs session.
Ask About Staff

Find out how staff and counselors are selected, their
experience, background, age and training, as well as
counselor-to-camper ratio. The American Camping Associations day camp recommendations are 1-6 for ages
4 to 5, 1-8 for ages 6 to 8, 1-10 for ages 9 to 14 and 1-12
for ages 15 to 17. Also ask how counselors are screened
and what background checks are done. If youre going
with a specialty camp, what kind of in-depth knowledge
and experience do the counselors have teaching the
subject?
Consider Costs
Compare program costs and find out what the fees actually cover. Some camps include field trips, materials,
meals and t-shirts into their initial fee. With others its
an add-on. Also find out the camps refund policy and
rules regarding transfer of weeks if your plans change
or your child gets sick. If the camp is out of your price
range, is a scholarship or financial assistance available?
Explore Open Houses

Visiting an open house can get children acclimated to
the environment and give you a better perspective of
the staff, facilities and activities. Is the staff smiling and
Gymnastics Jazz Creative Legos
Cresskill
Performing Arts
300 Knickerbocker Rd Cresskill

REGISTER NOW
Fencing Princess Dance and more age 2-1/2 to adults
Attend camp fairs or get a local camp guide copy. Circle

programs of interest and then comparison shop. Call
each prospective camp to inquire about philosophy,
daily schedule and other important issues. Invest this
time up front and you may find a camp to stay with for
several years.
Denise Morrison Yearian is the former

editor of two parenting magazines and
the mother of three children and grandmother of four.
Dance Acting Musical Theater Voice Choreography
Talk it over and narrow the options

based on your childs interests and
needs. Find out what he wants from the
experience and together make a list of
things he might like to do. Also consider his developmental needs. Is he ready
for an all-day program? Would s/he be
more comfortable in an intimate versus
large group setting? If your child likes
sports but has shown some interest in
drama or art, encourage him or her to
step out of his comfort zone. It may just
spark a new passion.
Born to Perform April Break Camp

Summer Performing Arts Camp
Age 3 - Teens
Fencing Camp, Age 7 - Teens 2015
Early Registration Discount;
READERS
CHOICE
Call for details.
FIRST PLACE
201-390-7513 201-266-8830
studio-info@cresskillperformingarts.com
www.cresskillperformingarts.com
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About Our Childrens
Guide to Summer Camps
DAY CAmps
events, daily hot lunch program. You may

register on a weekly basis (8 weeks of
camp available). Webcam service available. Dedicated teacher and assistant for
each group. Please see our ad on page 20.
Camp Veritans
225 Pompton Road

Haledon, NJ
Phone: 973-956-1220
Fax: 973-956-5751
www.campveritans.com
Ages/Grade: 4 Years 10th grade
Dates: June 27 August 19
Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:5
Gan Yaldenu
Camp Veritans, a Jewish day camp located in Haledon, is a camp for children
entering pre-K through 10th grade. We offer a variety of fantastic activities on our
beautiful 64 acre campus including Red
Cross swim instruction, amazing sports,
creative arts, ropes/challenge course,
in addition to daily hot kosher catered
lunches, transportation and so much
more. Specialized Trip & Travel program
for 8th and 9th graders and a comprehensive CIT program for our 10th graders.
Please see our ad on page 19 .
Camp Shalev/Gan Aviv
21 West Main St.

Bergeneld, NJ
Phone: 201-384- 6111
camp@ganaviv.com / www.ganaviv.com
Ages: 6 Weeks and up
Session: June 28 to August 19/ 2016
Extended operations hours: 7:30 6:30
p.m.
New and improved summer camp. Many
fun outdoor activities, instructional swim,
weekly outside specials, weekly trips and
85 Coply Ave.
Teaneck, NJ
Phone: 208-801-0291
www.ganyaldenu.com
Ages: 2 1/2 5
Dates: June 27 August 19
Approx. cost per child: $1,550
Our summer camp program has been
delighting children with outdoor fun and
exploration for over 25 years! Children
enjoy exciting weekly themes, trips, and
special events. Our oversized playground,
in-ground kiddie pool, and outdoor picnic
area offer young children a real camp experience in a safe, age-appropriate, environment. Please see our ad on page 5.
JCC Camp Katan: A fun separation/

adjustment summer program
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1433
Age: 2 (must be 32 by 10/15/16)
Dates: June 27 Aug. 19,
9 11:30 a.m.
Cost: Mon. Fri.: $2,075; Mon., Wed. &
Fri.: $1,300
This 8-week summer adventure features
daily indoor and outdoor play, a fabulous

water park with exciting water activities,
special programs such as visits from a
petting zoo, story time, puppetry, singing, Shabbat celebrations and lots of fun.
In addition to providing an exciting and
memorable summer experience, Camp
Katan introduces young children to an
interactive social experience in a caring,
warm environment. JCC membership
is required. Not a member? Ask about
our new $750 camp families summer
membership.
Musical Words
Teaneck Community Education Center
1 Merrison St.
Teaneck, NJ
Phone: 201-833-5514
Fax: 201-837-9468
www.teaneckschool.org
Grades: 2 to 6
Session dates: July 11 to July 22
Approximate cost per child: $395
Counselor to camper ratio: 8 to 1
Deadline for registration: June 1, 2016
Musical Words is a two-week program that

combines language arts instruction with
music, movement, drawing and sculpting
and culminates in a theatrical presentation. Also available Camp KooKoosKoos, a
day camp for grades kindergarten through
4 and Camp K-Explorers, a travel and day
camp for grades 5 to 8. See website for
details on both programs. Please see our
ad on page 16.
Neil Klatskin Day Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-567-8963
or nkdc@jccotp.org
Ages: 3 7
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27 Aug 19,
9 a.m. 4 p.m. (shorter days available
for preschoolers)
The Best, All-Inclusive Day Camp Right
in Your Backyard! NKDC offers children a
summer of adventure and non-stop fun.
Our beautiful 21+ acre campus features
3 pools, a sprinkler park, sports fields,
basketball and tennis courts, a low ropes
course with zip line, indoor rainy-day facilities and more. Children ages 3 and 4
are home based in air-conditioned classrooms with head counselors who are certified educators. Your camper will enjoy
the outdoors, learn new skills, make new
friends and explore personal interests.
With dynamic, age-appropriate programming including sports, swimming, art,
drama, music, Judaic programming, special events and much more, your camper
will have an incredible summer to remember. Plus NKDC is all-inclusive, providing
lunch, snacks, towel service and camp
swag, so its easy on parents too. Campers also have access to transportation
and extended care services. JCC membership is required. Not a member? Ask
about our new $750 camp families summer membership.
SUMME
2016
Musical Words
MACK
is BAC
Musical words is a two-week
K!
program that combines language
arts instruction with music,
movement, drawing, and sculpting,
and culminates in a theatrical
presentation. Developed by Ramapo
College music professor and former
Teaneck Public Schools teacher Mack Brandon.
Musical Words features a staff of dynamic
teaching professionals who will make reading
and learning fun. With a student ratio of 8:1,
each child will experience the joy of reading
and writing through the arts in a warm and
nurturing environment.
REGISTRATION NOW OPEN!
Call us or email for an application today.
JULY 11 - JULY 22
2 Weeks
9am - 3pm
1 Depot Square, Englewood, NJ

education@bergenpac.org
(201) 482-8194
Lowell School
1025 Lincoln Place, Teaneck
$100 Discount if Registered & Paid

in Full by April 1st
Residents: $395
Non-Residents: $420
Musical Words is open to all children, entering grades 2-6 in September 2016 who love
to read or who could love to read. Enrollment is limited. Non-residents are welcome!
Email cdrootin@teaneckschools.org, or call 201-833-5534 for more information.
16 About our Children MARCH 2016
EARLY BIRD
REGISTRATION
*Tuition Includes Lunch & Snacks

*After Camp Care Available For Additional Fee
JULY 5 - 22, 2016

AUGUST 1 - 19, 2016
More summer oerings available for

all ages at bergenPAC.org/summer or
call (201) 482-8194
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About
Palisades Country Day Camp
is to help our students find their passion. Once they find

it, they are self-motivated to learn and explore further.
We offer classes across many disciplines to satisfy the
diverse interests and talents of the children we serve.
There are more than fifty classes to choose from in technology, science, performing arts, visual arts, math, business, sports, recreation and even construction. Please
PCDC is Bergen Countys #1 Summer Day Camp for toddlers through 2nd grade. Daily instructional and recreational swim, Splash Park, Sports, Arts and Crafts, Ceramics, Nature, Dance, Yoga, Mini Chefs, Photography,
TV and Film, Legos, Robotics, Special Events, Electives ...
and so much more! Please see our ad on page 17. Please
JCC Big Idea Hi-Tech Camp
248 Herbert Ave.

Closter, NJ
Phone: 201-784-7600 extension 3
Fax: 201-784-8261
www.palisadescountryday.com
Grades served: Toddlers through 2nd grade
Session dates: June 27th - August 19th 2016
overnight camps
Jewish Camp Initiative of Jewish Federation of
Northern New Jersey
50 Eisenhower Drive
Paramus, NJ
Phone: 201-820-3978
Fax: 201-820-3900
www.jfnnj.org/jewishcamp
Grades/Ages: 7 18 years old,
entering 3rd 12th grade

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1427
Grades: 3 9
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27 Aug. 19,
9 am 4 pm (2 week options available)
Cost: Call for fees
Your camper will design their future at our new, innovative tech camp. BIG IDEA camp is the perfect mix between
cutting edge tech workshops and outdoor summer fun.
Areas of focus will include robotics, coding, 3D modeling,

DJ, film production and even fashion, all taught in handson workshops by professional instructors from Israel and
the US. Curriculum developed by BIG IDEA, the leaders of
tech education in Israel. All JCC specialty camps are new
and improved, offering an ALL-INCLUSIVE package that
ART
Lessons
Art of Excellence Studio
Classes in Drawing and Watercolor Structured Lessons
Summer Specials
NEW
STUDENTS
ONLY
Sign up for 4 beginner drawing lessons

and get 1 additional lesson free!
Oceans Alive and Native American themed art camps in August!

Artist, Rina Goldhagen 201-248-4779
www.artofexcellencestudio.com
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey is proud to

partner with the Foundation for Jewish Camp in providing One Happy Camper grants of up to $1,000 to firsttime campers who will be attending non-profit Jewish
overnight camp. Your child may be one of this summers
happy campers. Eligibility criteria and information on
how to apply can be found at www.jfnnj.org/jewishcamp.
Please see our ad on page 19 .
PROGRAMS FOR TEENS

Teen Adventures Travel and Volunteer Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1469
Grades: 6 9
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27-July 29,
9 a.m. 5 p.m. (Wed. till 7 p.m.) (weekly options available)
Cost: Before May 1: $4,200 JCC members, $4,600
public
After May 1: $4,300 JCC members, $4,700 Public
Kick-off this summer with jam-packed activities that your
camper is sure to enjoy. Filled with a variety of travel destinations and volunteer opportunities, this is the place
where magic happens and memories are made. Programming includes two community service days a week, daily
trips and overnight getaways! For a tentative calendar
please visit jccotp.org/travel-volunteer-camps. JCC membership is not required.
ENRICHMENT CAMPS
Big Time Sports Broadcasting Camp
1420 Walnut Street, Suite 605
Philadelphia, PA
Phone: 800-319-0884
www.playbyplaycamps.com
Ages: Boys & Girls 10 18
The Sports Broadcasting Camp is located on the campus of Montclair State College in Montclair this summer
is celebrating its 11th year. Learn from the pros. Meet
sports celebrities; make play-by-play, sports anchor, and
reporting tapes. Participate in mock sports talk radio
and PTI-style shows, and much more. Please see our ad
on page 20.
International Ivy
11 Locations in North Jersey

Paramus, Oakland, Ringwood
Phone: 855-678-6335
www.iisummer.com
Weekly sessions: full day or half day
Ages: 5 14
Summer Enrichment Program. International Ivy offers
creative, hands-on and intellectually stimulating learning experiences during the summer. Summer is a great
time to explore, meander, stretch the imagination and
lose oneself in doing something fun. Our ultimate goal
About Our Children MARCH 2016 17
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About
includes lunch, snacks, daily swim and

towel service. Campers also have access
to transportation and extended care services. JCC membership is not required.
ARTS, PERFORMANCE AND

MUSIC CAMPS
Art of Excellent Studio
Artist, Rina Goldhagen

Dates: July and August
Ages 7 Adult
201-248-4779
www.artofexcellencestudio.com
Themed Arts and Craft camps available in
July and August. You can email inquiries
to artofexcellencestudio@gmail.com. Ongoing lessons and portfolio classes available. Unlock your creative with classes in
drawing and watercolor. Please see our
ad on page 17
Black Box Studios
at the new Black Box

Performing Arts Center of Teaneck
200 Walraven Drive
just east of Palisade Avenue
Teaneck, NJ
201-357-2221
www.blackboxnynj.com
and on Facebook
Ages: 5 to Adult
Classes in theater, music, and improv all
year round. Professional performances
and events for all ages and interests, including cutting-edge drama, musicals,
childrens shows, musical performances,
improv jams, and more. Please see our ad
on page 18.
Bounce U
70 Eisenhower Drive
Paramus, NJ
201-992-8152
www.bounceU.com/paramus-nj
www.Facebook.com/BounceUParamus/
424 Market Street
Nanuet, NY
845-367-4250
www.BounceU.com/nanuet-ny
www.Facebook.com/BounceUNanuet/
Create and Bounce Art Camp
Dates: July 11 Sept. 1, 2016
Time: 9 a.m. 3 p.m.
A little bit of exercise goes a long way toward inspiring your artists minds. BounceUs Create and Bounce program gives
kids a chance to enjoy physical activity
and creative time in equal doses, offering
an experience thats healthy, mentally engaging and seriously fun. Complete with
lunch, snacks, and games, its a one-of-akind camp experience theyll never forget. Please see our ad on page 3.
Cresskill Performing Arts
300 Knickerbocker Road, Suite 1100

Cresskill, NJ
Phone: 201-390-7513
and 201-266-8830
www.cresskillperformingarts.com
Ages: Toddlers-adults (studio)
Ages: 3 teens (camp programs)
Born to Perform April Break Camp, April
11 15. Half and full day camp available.
Dancing, acting, singing, arts & crafts,
gymnastics, fencing, creative Legos, and
more. Be productive, busy, happy and
challenged during the school break. Born
to Perform Summer Camp: 3 programs, 9
weeks, ages 3 teens, Preschool Performers, Creative Children, Preteen/Teen Exploring Artists come for one or two weeks
or all summer, June 27 August 26. Two
weeks of Fencing Camp, age 7 teens:
June 27 and August 22. For intermediate/
advanced dancers: Modern/Ballet Intensive, weeks of July 18 and August 15. Early
drop-off/late pick-ups helps working parents, too. Early registration discount: call
201-390-7513 for details. Please see our ad
on page 15
JCC Center-Stage Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1493
or hharel@jccotp.org
Grades: 3 9
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27 July 15,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $1,330 JCC members, $1,750
public
An excellent opportunity for young actors, beginner/intermediate through
advanced, to experience the fun of performing at a very high level in a Broadwaystyle musical, Arabian Nights, including
Aladdin, Sinbad the Sailor and Ali Baba
and the 40 Rascals. Enjoy colorful sets,
costumes, challenging dialogue, big musical numbers and solos, plus workshops
in acting, movement, singing, and improv. Concludes with an incredible final
production and lots of applause. All JCC
specialty camps are new and improved,
offering an ALL-INCLUSIVE package that
to transportation and extended care services. JCC membership is required for
campers in grade 3 through age 10. Not a
member? Ask about our new $750 camp
families summer membership.
JCC Broadway Performance Intensive

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1493 or hharel@
jccotp.org
Grades: 5 10
Sessions: Mon. Fri., July 18 29,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $950 JCC members, $1,250
public
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11:30 AM and 1:30 PM on Sunday

March 6 and March 13
Check out our

summer program
for kids ages 13-19 at
www.blackboxnynj.com/
summer
Featuring:
Katelyn Lauria, Aaron McMillan, Vikki Martin,
Andrew Martinelli & Esti Mellul
An exciting musical theater program for

intermediate/advanced students led by
Broadway musical director/ accompanist
Joe Baker and his NYC colleagues as special guest instructors. This camp includes
intensive professional skill development
in singing, acting, comedy and movement,
and culminates in two Cabaret-style performances, one in NYC, featuring favorite
solos and numbers from Broadway musicals, comedy skits, short scenes and
popular rock songs. Interview/audition
required. All JCC specialty camps are new
and improved, offering an ALL-INCLUSIVE
package that includes lunch, snacks, daily swim and towel service. Campers also
have access to transportation and extended care services. JCC membership is
required for campers in grade 5 through
age 10. Not a member? Ask about our new
$750 camp families summer membership.
JCC Chamber Music Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1465
Grades: 3 12
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27 July 8,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $950 JCC members, $1,250

public
(Weekly option available. Visit jccotp.
org/music-camps for details)
The JCC Thurnauer School of Musics

Chamber Music Camp brings together talented young musicians and an acclaimed
faculty of artists and educators to experience the joys of ensemble playing in an
atmosphere of success and enjoyment.
The camp accepts a select group of string
players and pianists, based on auditions, interviews and recommendations.
Students are divided into ensembles according to age and skill. All JCC specialty
camps are new and improved, offering
an ALL-INCLUSIVE package that includes
lunch, snacks, daily swim and towel service. Campers also have access to transportation and extended care services.
JCC membership is not required.
JCC Dance Intensive

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1495 or acarolan@
jccotp.org
Grades: 3 10
Sessions: Mon. Fri., July 25-Aug. 19,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $475/$625 week (weekly
options available)
Enjoy a full week of basic technique that
explores all the latest crazes and new
dance forms. Campers take class in Ballet, Jazz, and Hip Hop each day. Improve
your skill level, build strength, and gain
more flexibility while having a great time!
All JCC specialty camps are new and improved, offering an ALL-INCLUSIVE package that includes lunch, snacks, daily
swim and towel service. Campers also
have access to transportation and extended care services. JCC membership is
required for campers in grade 3 through
age 10. Not a member? Ask about our new
$750 camp families summer membership.
JCC Fine Arts Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-567-8963
Grades: 36
Dates: Mon. Fri., June 27 Aug. 19,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
$475/$625 per week (weekly options
available)
Get creative and have a blast at Fine Arts
Camp! Each week campers will focus on a
different, exciting project that will incorporate new art skills, methodology and
mediums. Each session will also feature a
visiting artist who will teach a hands-on
workshop on their craft. All JCC specialty
JCC membership is required for children
in grade 3 through age 10. Not a member?
Ask about our new $750 camp families
summer membership.
JCC Little Dancers Mini-Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1495 or acarolan@
jccotp.org
Ages: 3 5
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 13 24,
Aug. 22 26, 9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $325/week or $75/day 3-day
minimum (weekly options available)
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A fun-filled day of dance and camp activities! Our week includes dance classes
in Ballet, Hip Hop, and Tap! In addition,
campers enjoy arts and crafts, playground time, splashing in the waterpark,
lunch, and rest/video time. Our teachers
are experienced dance teachers with a
warm, caring approach in the classroom.
Extended care available until 6 p.m. upon
request. JCC membership is required.
JCC Musical Explorers Mini-Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1465
Ages: 3 5
Sessions: Mon. Fri., Aug 22 26,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $385 JCC members, $415 public
Summer is a time to create, explore and
play. Your campers will be music investigators, discovering and building different
instruments, learning to play the drums,
singing their favorite songs, and using
movement and games as a tool to learn to
read music! In addition to all of our musical discoveries, our young explorers will
enjoy the water park and playground! JCC
membership is not required.
JCC Music Discovery Mini-Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1465
Ages: 6 8
Sessions: Mon. Fri., Aug 22 26,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $455 JCC members, $495 public
Make music this summer and meet new
friends while exploring the guitar, violin,
cello and flute in small groups. Campers
sing their favorite songs, play musical
games, arts and crafts and participate
in sports, swimming and team building
activities! Our Music Discovery Camp is
an exciting way to begin or continue you
childs music education. Instruments provided. JCC membership is not required.
JCC Young Peoples Chorus @

Thurnauer Summer Camp

Taub Campus,
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1465
Ages 812
Dates: Mon.-Fri., Aug. 8-19, 9 a.m.-4
p.m.
$475 JCC members, $625 public per
week (weekly options available)
Calling all children who love to sing! Our
award-winning chorus is starting a summer camp! Meet new friends and sing classical, contemporary, jazz and pop songs.
Challenging and unique music, fun choreography and a performance at the end!
No previous music experience required.
Includes sports and team-building activities. All JCC specialty camps are new and
improved, offering an ALL-INCLUSIVE
package that includes lunch, snacks,
daily swim and towel service. Campers
also have access to transportation and
extended care services. JCC membership
is not required.
The Performing Arts School

Musical Theater Summer Camp
1 Depot Square
Englewood, NJ
Phone: 201-482-8194
Fax: 201-482-8391
bergenPAC.org/summer
Ages: 5 12
Session dates: 7/5 7/22 & 8/1 8/19
Deadline for registration: 6/1/16

Counselor to camper ratio: 3:15
Approx. cost per child: $850
bergenPACs Summer Camp in the Performing Arts School provides our youth
ages 5 12, an experience in the performing arts that they will never forget.
We will build confidence, understanding
and a sense of appreciation for the arts
while giving campers the opportunity to
explore and develop their talents. $100
discount if registered and paid in full
by March 1. Tuition includes lunch and
snacks. After-camp care available for additional fee. Please see our ad on page 16.
SPECIAL NEEDS SUMMER

PROGRAMS
Therapeutic Nursery Summer Program
Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1497 or tn@jccotp.org
Ages 3 6
Mon.-Fri., July 11 Aug. 19,
9 11:30 a.m. or 12:30-3 p.m.
Developmental language-based parent/

child program for bright preschool children with a variety of developmental difficulties, including language disorders,
ADHD, high functioning autism, social
and emotional challenges as well as selective mutism.
Camp Haverim

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1489
Ages: 3-21, Mon. Fri., Aug. 15 26,
9 a.m. 3:45 p.m.
Cost: Call for fees
Camp Haverim is a two-week camp designed for children and teens with autism
and other cognitive and developmental
delays, with sufficient communication
and self-help skills, and attend 11 months
of special schooling. Campers participate
in a diverse full-day program including
social skills, swimming and water park activities, sports, yoga and adaptive physical education, academic enrichment, music therapy, arts and therapy dogs. Space
is limited. Group sizes are between 4 and
8 campers. Priority is given to returning
campers, participants in Special Services
programs and JCC members. JCC membership is not required. New participants
must have an intake interview.
Neil Klatskin Day Camp: Tikvah

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-567-8963 or nkdc@jccotp.
org
Ages: 5 11 (Must be 5 by June 1,
2016)
Dates: June 27 Aug. 19,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Tikvah is designed for children and adolescents with learning, mild neurological and/or perceptual differences and
have sufficient communication and selfhelp skills to participate in a full range
of camping activities. The participants
enjoy a diverse, full-day program including adaptive physical education, arts and
crafts, drama, Red Cross instructional
and recreational swim, Judaic programming, academic enrichment, music, special events, live entertainment, extended
nights, carnivals, playground time, and
more. Special attention is given to each
camper to ensure a summer filled with
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enjoyment and learning. Group sizes

range from three to six campers, staffed
by a minimum of two caring and qualified
counselors. Shorter sessions are available based on campers extended school
year needs, but a minimum of 3 consecutive camp weeks are required for registration. JCC membership is not required.
New participants must have an intake
interview.
Neil Klatskin Day Camp: Tikvah Teens

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-567-8963
or nkdc@jccotp.org
Ages: 12 15, June 27 Aug. 19,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Your camper will continue to grow and

learn as part of our JCC community. This
program is designed as a transitional
camp program for adolescents with learning, mild neurological and/or perceptual
differences who have sufficient communication and self-help skills to participate
in a full range of daily activities. Camp-
ers will work on life skills, pre-vocational

training and academic enrichment in addition to camp activities like swimming,
sports, and more in an age and developmentally appropriate setting. JCC membership is not required. New participants
must have an intake interview.
On Our Own Young Adult Summer

Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1489
Ages: 15 30
Sessions: Mon. Fri. June 20 Aug 12,
9:30 a.m. 2:30 p.m., call for fees
An eight-week life skills, vocational and
recreational camp for teens and young
adults with intellectual and developmental delays, including autism, with
self-help skills to independently participate within a 1:3 staffing ratio. Activities
include weekly trips, swim, gym, music,
dance and more. JCC membership is not
required. New participants must have an
intake interview.
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JCC Multi-Sport Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1476
or athletics@jccotp.org
Grades: 3 8
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27 Aug.
19, 9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $475/week (weekly options available)
Perfect for the camper that likes variety!
This camp focuses on building fundamentals across a variety of sports, includes
performance training, and is appropriate
for all skill levels. Your camper will love
making use of all the courts and fields the
JCC has to offer and will enjoy a relaxed
and fun environment while learning and
improving their skills. All JCC specialty
JCC membership is required. Not a member? Ask about our new $750 camp families summer membership.
JCC Basketball Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1476 or athletics@
jccotp.org
Grades 3 8
Sessions: Mon. Fri., June 27 Aug.
19, 9 a.m. 4 p.m.
Cost: $475/week (weekly options
available)
If your camper loves basketballthis is
the camp for them! JCC basketball professionals bring their love of the game and
incomparable coaching skills enhance
your campers skills at every level. Includes performance training, teaching
athletes to build strength, endurance,
and flexibility, for increased productivity
and decreased chance of injury. While
basketball is the focus, campers will enjoy other fun JCC activities as well. All JCC
to transportation and extended care services. JCC membership is required. Not a
JCC Playmaker All Stars Mini-Camp
8 weeks of camp available

Sports, Swimming and
Music Every Week
Weekly Trips to the Zoo,
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Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
jccotp.org
Ages: 3 4,
9 a.m. 1 p.m.
available)
Grades K 6
9 a.m. 3 p.m.
available)
Playmaker All Stars Mini-Camp gives your

camper the opportunity to learn sports
in a fun and friendly environment. Indoor/Outdoor activities include soccer,
baseball, races, floor hockey, basketball,
dodgeball and more. Low camper to
staff ratio ensures safety and fun. Fee includes bottled water. JCC membership is
required.
JCC Soccer Mini-Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
jccotp.org
Ages 3 Grade 6
9 a.m. 3 p.m.
available)
Your camper will have fun with talented
soccer specialists in a program designed
to teach and strengthen soccer skills. Enhance your childs understanding of the
game and build confidence through interactive games and drills. Include daily
outdoor swim time. JCC membership is
required.
JCC Marty Perlman Sports Mini-Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
jccotp.org
Ages: 3 Grade 6
Sessions: Mon. Fri., Aug. 22 Sep 2,
9 a.m. 3 p.m.
available)
Your campers will build fundamental

skills across a variety of sports. This
multi-sport camp utilizes all the JCCs
sports courts and fields and ends each
day in our beautiful outdoor pool. Appropriate for all skill levels, a great way to
learn and improve skills in a relaxed and
fun environment. Include daily outdoor
swim time. JCC membership is required.
The Michelle Weiss

Childrens Tennis Camp

Taub Campus
411 E. Clinton Ave.
Tenafly, NJ
Phone: 201-408-1476
or athletics@jccotp.org
Grades 3 8
Sessions: Mon. Fri., July 25 Aug. 19,
9 a.m. 4 p.m.
available)
Whether your camper has his/her sights
on the U.S. Open or is just looking for a
summer out on the court with friends
this camp is sure to provide a swinging
good time. Campers will enhance their
understanding of the game and build
skills and confidence through interactive games and drills, while also increasing strength, endurance, and flexibility through performance training. All JCC
to transportation and extended care services. JCC membership is required. Not a
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CO M P I L E D BY H E I D I M A E B RAT T
Black Box
Summer Theater Fun
Celebrating its 8th season in its brandnew home, Black Box Studios at the Black
Box Performing Arts Center in Teaneck
is gearing up for its mega-production of
Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of
Fleet Street for its summertime Rock
Musical Theater Intensive, said Matt Okin,
artistic director. Teenagers 13- to 19-yearsold are invited to audition now for the
summer program, which runs from June 27
PHOTO BY LARRY YUDELSON
to July 22. In the meantime, theres plenty

of action at Black Box this spring in its new
100-seat theater and performance space.
Check out the ongoing classes, with some
new ones added, for actors ages 5 to
adult. Black Box Studios at the Black Box
Performing Arts Center, 200 Walraven
Drive, just east of Palisade Ave.,
Teaneck, 201-357-2221,
www.blackboxnynj.com
Sid the Science Kid

at Liberty Science Center
Children will get that all-about-science
thing as they explore the new exhibition,
Sid the Science Kid: The Super-Duper
Exhibit at the Liberty Science Center.
Vistiors can check out the world of Sid,
a PBS Kids TV star of his own series.
Families will be able to investigate,
explore, and discover everyday science
questions around Sids home, his school,
in the Super Fab Lab, and on the playground. Which kitchen gadgets will sink
or float? How much do different pantry

items weigh? How do plants grow in
a flowerbed? What do things look like
under a magnifying glass or microscope?
How does a pulley work? Whats your
Super-Duper-Ooper-Schmooper Big
Idea! today? Explore these questions
and more in Sids exciting world. Liberty
Science Center, Liberty State Park,
222 Jersey City Boulevard, Jersey City.
201-200-1000, www.lsc.org.
Purim Parade Fun

and More at the Kaplen JCC
Bring your children in their favorite Purim costumes to enjoy train rides,
junior bounce and moon bounce, slides, games, prizes, life-size cartoon
characters, cotton candy, a costume parade and more at the Rubach Family
Purim Carnival at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades. The carnival runs from
1 to 4 p.m. on Sunday, March 20. The event opens at noon for families with
children with special needs. Suggested entrance donation is $1 per person and a non-perishable food item to be donated to the Center for Food
Action. Ride and game tickets will be sold. Kaplen JCC on the Palisades,
411 E. Clinton Ave., Tenafly. www.jccotp.org.
The Paper Bag Players

at the Jewish Museum
The Paper Bag Players, celebrating
their 57th year of bringing original,
contemporary musical theater to children, return to the Jewish Museum
on Sunday, March 13 with two performances of Pop-Pop-Popcorn, at
11:30 a.m. and 2 p.m.; and Become
a Paper Bag Player, a special behindthe-scenes workshop at 10:30 a.m.
Pop-Pop-Popcorn, a fast-paced,
interactive performance for children
ages 3 through 8, mixes new work
and classic Paper Bag Player sketches

sure to entertain and delight children
and adults. The Paper Bag Players,
called the leading U.S. theater company for kids by People Magazine,
and founded in 1958 by Judith Martin,
is a non-profit theater company of
adults who create and perform musical theater for children ages 3 through
8. The Jewish Museum,1109 Fifth
Ave., Manhattan. 212-423-3200,
www.thejewishmuseum.org
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To Our Readers: Although all information is as timely as we can make it, its a good idea to call to verify details before you go.
Sunday, February 28
Aladdin Jr. at Wayne Y: Based on the iconic

animated film with an Academy Award-winning
score by Alan Menken, Howard Ashman and Tim
Rice, Aladdin Jr. will send audiences soaring on
a flying carpet ride. 2 p.m. $13 in advance; $16
at the door. Wayne YMCA, 1 Pike Drive, Wayne.
973-595-0100.
The Funny Monster Who Ate My Peas:
Professional Childrens Theater Series at the
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades presents The Funny
Monster Who Ate My Peas by ArtsPower. 2-3 p.m.
Tickets $12 in advance; $17 at the door. JCC on
the Palisades, 411 E. Clinton Ave., Tenafly. www.
jccotp.org, 201-408-1493.
Tuesday, March 1
Childrens Choir at Temple Emanu-El: Rejoice,

celebrate and have fun in the process of making
music at the Childrens Choir at Temple Emanu-El
of Closter, 6 p.m., 180 Piermont Road, Closter.
Open to all children in grades 6-7. For more
information, contact Naama Heymann, 201-7502959, heymann@templeemanu-el.com
Wednesday, March 2
F2F at Temple Emanu-El: Face 2 Face/USY

for 9th-12th Graders at Temple Emanu-El of
Closter, 6 p.m. 180 Piermont Road, Closter. Join
us for a Game Night with residents of the Jewish
Home Assisted Living in River Vale. For information, Tammy Ween at 201-750-9997 or ween@
templeemanu-el.com.
Friday, March 4
T.G.I.S. at Temple Emanu-El: Thank Goodness

Its Shabbat (3rd 5th Grade) at Temple EmanuEl of Closter, 5:45 p.m. 180 Piermont Road,
Closter. Come discover Shabbat through music,
crafts, storytelling, cooking and much more!
Contact Naama Heymann at 201-750-2959 or
heymann@templeemanu-el.com.
Saturday, March 5
Club Sababa: New program for grades 2 through

8 at Glen Rock Jewish Center. 7 to 9 p.m. A Taste
of Summer with Camp Zeke. Camp-style games,
challenges and cooking. Open to all. $18. 682
Harristown Road, Glen Rock. 201-652-6624.
Sunday, March 6
Taste of Hebrew School: The Jewish Community

Center of Paramus/Congregation Beth Tikvah
Hebrew School launches its six-week Taste of
Hebrew School for ages 4-7 from 9:30 to 11:30
a.m. Children will do crafts, work on menus and
learn stories and songs for Purim and Passover.
There is a $25 registration fee for this free program. 304 East Midland Ave., Paramus. edudirector@jccparamus.org or 201-262-7733.
Schindlers List: Showing at 1 p.m. Join 8th
12th graders to watch this important movie.
For location and more information, contact the
Temple Emanu-El office at 201-750-9997.
Sunday, March 6
Da Vinci Day at 92 Street Y: Leonardo da Vincis

workshop unlocked is an interactive exhibit for
children and families from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. This
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day event will include a model station, iPad station, 3D Printer station. In addition, there will be
Renaissance music, art workshops and more.
1395 Lexington Ave, Manhattan. 212-415-5500.
www.92y.org
youngest ones (pre-readers) are invited to welcome in Shabbat with us at this family-friendly
service. Barnert Temple is located at 747 Route
208 South, Franklin Lakes. 201-848-1027 www.
barnerttemple.org.
F2F: Face 2 Face/USY for 9th - 12th graders at

Temple Emanu-El of Closter, 6 p.m. Join us for a
special Purim volunteer project. For more information, contact Tammy Ween at 201-750-9997
or ween@templeemanu-el.com.
Purim Carnival at Temple Emeth: Join the fun

at Temple Emeth from 10 a.m. to noon for games,
prizes, games and fun for all ages. Come in costume. Invite your friends. Bring the children and
grandchildren. 1666 Windsor Road, Teaneck.
201-833-1322.
Purim Costume Craziness with Joanie Leeds:
Celebrate Purim with Joanie Leeds at the Museum
of Jewish Heritage. March in a costume parade,
shake groggers, and dance along to a lively concert. Enjoy a crafts activity and a mini-museum
tour after the performance. 10:30 a.m. For ages
3 to 7, siblings welcome. $8, Free for children
and grandchildren of members. 36 Battery Place,
Manhattan. 646-437-4202, www.mjhnyc.org.
Wednesday, March 9
Sunday, March 13
The Paper Bag Players at the Jewish Museum:

Celebrating 57 years of original contemporary
childrens musical theater, the Paper Bag Players
perform Pop-Pop Popcorn 11:30 a.m. and 2 p.m.
Join a behind-the-scenes workshop at 10:30 a.m.
The Jewish Museum. 1109 Fifth Ave., Manhattan.
212-423-3337, www.thejewishmuseum.org.
Wednesday, March 16
Open House for Barnert Temples

Kindergarten: Full-day kindergarten known
for individualized attention, creative curriculum
and sensitivity to each childs special learning
style. Come and see at 9:15 a.m. or 6:15 p.m.
Barnert Temple is located at 747 Route 208
South, Franklin Lakes. 201-848-1027 www.
barnerttemple.org. RSVP requested.
Friday, March 18
Tot Shabbat in Franklin Lakes: Please join us

on Friday, March 18 for our Tot Shabbat and
Pizza Dinner at Barnert Temple at 5 p.m. Our
Sunday, March 20
Wednesday, March 23
Purim at Temple Emanu-El: Megillah, seudah

and Purim Palooza at Temple Emanu-El of
Closter, 6:30 p.m. 180 Piermont Road, Closter.
Families are invited to join us for Megillah reading
and a puppet show followed by Purim seudah and
a carnival. Games, prizes, wacky challenges and
more. For information, Tammy Ween at 201-7509997 or ween@templeemanu-el.com.
30 North Van Brunt Street, Englewood, NJ

For Tickets Visit www.bergenpac.org or Call (201) 227-1030
March 13 at 1pm & 4pm
April 8 at 8pm
www.tofutti.com
April 10 at 8pm
April 24 at 1pm & 4pm
Go to bergenpac.org for a complete list of upcoming events!
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Mistakes continued from page 11

everything they want. Life holds disappointments. Growing desperate for approval and childrens smiles denies us
the power to parent with purpose.
Peter pan parenting

Children need role models. Where else
should they learn responsibility, spirituality, compassion, respect and priorities
if not from their parents?
Sadly, there are mothers and fathers
who dont want to grow up. They still
want to dress, drink, party, speak and
act like they did before having children.
Responsibilities feel choking, hindering their freedom. Life does not feel fun
anymore. Like Peter Pan, they want to
remain in Neverland.
With parenting comes responsibility.
We are not our childrens BFFs. We cannot expect more from our kids than we
expect from ourselves.
Forgetting to show love as children

grow
Its easy to show love to an infant. We
cuddle, kiss, hug and sing lullabies. They
climb on our laps and we wipe away their
tears. But what happens as they grow?
We give orders more and show love
Molly continued from page 12

82-year-old Molly played Juliet to a
22-year-old Romeo. In another, Molly was
one of three King Lears. When she proclaimed, How sharper than a serpents
tooth it is to have a thankless child, the
audience knew she was speaking for all
parents.
A shining hour was her performance
as the lead in an original play, An Appalling Old Lady, in which the characters
son and daughter try to persuade her to
give up her spacious apartment and move
to an assisted living complex, ostensibly
because of her needs, but really because
they want the desirable apartment for
themselves. Mollys final words on the
matter: I want to die in my own home,
in my own bed with whomever I choose.
Standing ovation.
A friend and lifelong theater professional, when told of Mollys new avocation
of acting, said, No, shes been acting all
her life. Now shes performing. Her ability to cold-read a script, seeing it for the
first time, impressed even the old pros.
Her most passionate role was in real
life, her relationship to children. They
were her favorite audience. She never
tired of reading or singing to them with
her usual vitality sometimes the same
piece, the Babar stories perhaps or the
Eentsy, Weentsy Spider among dozens
of others over and over again.
Besides being Great Grandma Molly
to four of my grandchildren, she was the
same to five of their older cousins. She
basked in the light of their accomplishments even though they didnt attend all
the plays, concerts and art exhibits she
Simchas
less. We forget to say, I love you. We

dont connect as easily. They are in their
world and we in ours. We get lost in our
phones, Instagram and daily pressures.
We stop laughing and sharing conversation. Talks are usually reserved for
misbehavior, admonishment, and asking if they took a shower and did their
homework.
We realize too late that weve left
words unsaid and wonder how many
more hugs and kisses could have been
given to nourish a hungry soul.
Decide today that no matter how
busy you are or complicated life has gotten, you will not allow another day to go
by without communicating love to each
child.
Children are a precious gift. Lets
take the time to cultivate souls, nourish hearts, build character and create a
path for the next generation. Believe in
yourself as a parent. What an incredible
mission we have.
Birth
Slovie Jungreis-Wolff is a writer, and a relationships and parenting instructor. She is

the daughter of Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis,
founder of Hineni International. She is also
the author of Raising A Child With Soul (St.
Martins Press).
AKIVA MORDECHAI SCHRANZ
Reprinted with permission of Aish.com
thought were necessary for a meaningful life.

She even took instruction from
them. One 8-year-old thought her knowledge of Hebrew was deficient, so he gave
her aleph-bet lessons.
Molly was often asked to speak to
childrens groups and talk about life experiences. The first question from the
kids was always, How old are you? as
if she were a different species. She could
tell the children that she was old enough
to remember horse-drawn trolley cars
and getting milk directly from a cow in
the Bronx farmland.
Her age made a powerful impression
on kids. When one was asked by an acquaintance on the street, Is that your
grandmother? Oh, no. Shes my great
grandmother, and shes VERY old.
The children were careful to include
her proper title, and address her as Great
Grandma Molly. Eventually that was too
cumbersome, so she became simply Great
Molly, a title she even used for herself.
Grandparents have only one barrier to overcome in dealing with children the opposition of parents. Great
grandparents have two obstacles
raised by two later generations, parents
and grandparents. Great Grandma Molly
eventually eased into the position of respected matriarch rather than the mover and shaker of family situations, but
she remained a presence in the lives of
all to the end.
Ed Silberfarb was a reporter for the Bergen
Record in New Jersey, then the New York
Herald Tribune where he was City Hall bureau
chief. Later, he was a public information officer for the New York City Transit Authority and
editor of one of its employee publications.
Bnai mitzvah
AMANDA BURNS
Amanda Burns, daughter of Michelle and
Ross Burns of West Milford, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on February 13 at
the Jewish Congregation of Kinnelon.
Akiva Mordechai Schranz was born on

January 28, 2016, to Rachel and Jerry
Schranz of Fair Lawn. He weighed 6.15
pounds and joins a sister, Ruthie, and a
brother, Daniel. His uncles are Moshe, Avi,
and David Schranz, and Dovid Gove. His
grandmother is Ruth Gove.
DANNY KRONER
Danny Kroner, son of Ellen and David
Kroner of Woodcliff Lake and brother
of Jacob, Michael, and Ryan, celebrated
becoming a bar mitzvah on January 30 at
Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley in
Woodcliff Lake.
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