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Please take out your phone or laptop and see if you can locate the consent
statement for the University of Memphis on our website.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laMtr-rUEmY
What is consent
Each partner remains open to and RESPECTS the other partners expression of
agreement or disagreement to engage in the activity.
Consent 101
Is it consent?
Silence, or not responding - is not consent. The absence of a No does not mean
Yes ... no answer does not mean Consent can be assumed.
A Yes is not Consent when someone is coerced, pressured, or afraid of how their
partner might react to a No response: "I'm not sure if I'm ready" "I don't know if I
want to" "I'm scared" - all of these statements must be taken as meaning No.
Ways to say No
Verbal
Ways to say No
Nonverbal
Non-verbal messages such as lack of eye contact, crossing arms, not responding, or
pulling away, can be signs of discomfort, anxiety or fear. In any of these situations
-stop immediately.
If your partner fights your advances, then you should stop immediately.
Failure to stop in these situations are considered RAPE and could land you in jail.
You may feel that asking for consent makes sex too formal. But it doesnt
need to be. It can be as simple as, Is this OK with you?
I'd really like to hug / kiss / touch / ........... you. Would you like to?
Have you ever ............ ? Would you like to try it with me?
Talking about questions like these can be fun and interesting. And can tell you a lot
about whether you are both sexually compatible. Much better to know this before
you begin a sexual relationship!
How to Report
Your RA
Your AAC
Counseling Services
Police
Professors or advisors
When to report
Have a friend help you if you are worried about going alone
fear of publicity
fear that the prosecutor will not believe them, or will not bring charges
self-blame for being alone with the assailant, perhaps in one's own or the
assailant's residence
Less than One in Twenty college women who are victims of rape or
attempted rape report it to police or college authorities.
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