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BEHIND
DISCRIMINATION
AGAINST COLOR
BY A N A G O N Z A L E Z
A LITTLE ABOUT
ME.
Over the years, my last name, and
skin color revealed the mixture in
my DNA. My father had Lebanese
descent and my mother had
Spanish and French roots. His
Arabic face and dark hair along
with her green eyes and pale skin
resulted a genetically confused
child. Ironically, all of my history
helped my success but also caused
many of my obstacles. It kept me
wondering how many people
actually go through this during
their lifetime? How many mixed or
colored children receive mild
discrimination on a daily basis due
only to their skin color?
M Y F I R S T E X P E R I E N C E W I T H D I S C R I M I N A T I O N I S A V E R Y V I V I D M E M O R Y. M Y A U N T W A S E N G A G E D T O A N A M E R I C A N M A N . S O W H E N
W E A R R I V E D T O T H E U . S . I T W A S T H E P E R F E C T O C C A S I O N F O R T H E F A M I LY T O O F F I C I A L L Y M E E T . M Y F A T H E R ' S F A M I L Y C O N S I S T E D
O F H I S PA R E N T S , H I M S E L F , A N D T H R E E O T H E R S I S T E R S . AT T H E T I M E , W E W E R E A T O TA L O F F O U R G RA N D C H I L D R E N , T W O BOY S A N D
T W O G I R L S . O N LY T H E G I R L S W E R E T O P A R T I C I P A T E I N A S E T O F W E D D I N G P I C T U R E S O F H E R C H O I C E A N D M Y A U N T H A D D E C I D E D
T H AT M E , A N D M Y C A N A D I A N -B O R N C O U S I N W O U L D B E T H E P E R F E C T A D D I T I O N . W H E N W E A R R I V E D T O M E E T H E R H U S B A N D ' S
F A M I LY , O N E O F H I S S I S T E R S W A S P A R T I C U L A R LY I N A W E W I T H M E A N D M Y C O U S I N . I N H E R I G N O R A N C E , S H E O P E N LY S A I D M Y S K I N
C O L O R W A S B E A U T I F U L , M A K I N G I T H A R D T O B E L I E V E I W A S F U L LY M E X I C A N . S H E T O O K O U T A B A S K E T O F C H O C O L A T E S A N D S A I D
" K N O C K YO U R S E L F O U T ! " . I D E C I D E D T O WA S T E N O T I M E . I M O V E D M Y H A N D T O WA R D S T H E C H O C O L AT E S , T O F E E L T H E W O M A N ' S
H A N D S M A C K I T A W A Y. " N O T Y O U . " , S H E S A I D W I T H A S T E R N S M I L E . I L O O K E D U P A T H E R , W I T H A N E X P R E S S I O N I H A V E N O N A M E
F O R . I D I D N ' T S P E A K E N G L I S H , B U T H E R R E A C T I O N WA S A ' N O ' I N E V E RY L A N G U A G E K N O W N . I S TA R E D AT T H E B A S K E T A S M Y
C O U S I N S A N D A L L O T H E R K I D S R E A C H E D I N F O R A H A N D F U L . I L E F T A N D S AT N E X T T O M Y M O T H E R . I WA S T O O L I T T L E T O
R E C O G N I Z E T H E A T T A C K , A L T H O U G H I F E LT I T S C R U E L T Y.
D O I N G A B I T O F R E S E A R C H O N T H E T O P I C , I R E A L I Z E D S I T E S M O S T LY J U S T O F F E R E D L I N K S T O F O L L O W I N C A S E Y O U E X P E R I E N C E D
D I S C R I M I N AT I O N . A N A RT I C L E N A M E D O U R C U LT U R E O F F E A R O F D I F F E R E N T C U LT U R E S ( S O U R C E :
H T T P : / / W W W . C H R I S T E N A C L E V E L A N D . C O M / 2 0 1 3 / 0 1 / O U R - C U L T U R E - O F - F E A R - O F - D I F F E R E N T - C U L T U R E S /) I N S I S T S T H A T M O S T O F O U R H A T E
S T E M S F R O M F E A R. " W E R E A F R A I D T H AT T H E I R D I F F E R E N C E W I L L B L U R T H E C U LT U R A L D I S T I N C T I O N S T H AT W E H O L D S O D E A R . " S H E
M E N T I O N S A U T H O R T O RY H I G G I N S , A S O C I A L P S YC H O LO G I S T W H O S AY S M O S T I N D I V I D U A L S A R E P R O G RA M M E D T O A C H I E V E A N I D E A L I M A G E
O F T H E M S E LV E S A N D A V O I D A N Y D A N G E R T O I T. T H E T H E O RY C A N B E U S E D I N S E V E R A L C I R C U M S TA N C E S , B U T I N S H O RT , D I S C R I M I N A T I O N
G O E S H A N D I N H A N D W I T H S E L F - D I S C RE PA N C I E S . S E L F - D I S C R E PA N C I E S , A R E B A S E D O N I N C O N S I S T E N C I E S B E T W E E N I N D I V I D U A L S S E L F C O N C E P T A N D P E RT I N E N T S E L F - G U I D E S . S O S O M E O N E W H O C O M E S F R O M A D I F F E R E N T C O U N T RY , S P E A K S , D R E S S E S , A N D LO O K S
D I F F E R E N T , A U T O M A T I C A L LY R E P R E S E N T S A D A N G E R T O T H E C U LT U R E Y O U H A V E G R O W N I N . W I T H T H A T I N M I N D , A P E R S O N C A N M A K E A
G E N E R A L I Z A T I O N A B O U T A N E T H N I C G R O U P T H A T H A S N T B E E N P E R P E T U A T E D I N S O C I E T Y. S A Y A M A N E N C O U N T E R S I N D I V I D U A L S F R O M A
PA RT I C U L A R E T H N I C G R O U P A N D F I N D S T H E M T O B E P R E T T Y G O O D AT G A R D E N I N G . B A S E D O N H I S E N C O U N T E R S W I T H T H I S G R O U P , H E M AY
OV E R S I M P L I F Y A N D C O N C LU D E T H AT A N YO N E F R O M T H I S E T H N I C G R OU P M U S T B E A N E XC E L L E N T AT G A R D E N I N G .
STEREOTYPES? WHERE?
Both negative and positive stereotypes exist and hardly allow
individuality. While making friends during high school, I found
that most friendships I formed reached the same peak. Friends
started feeling comfortable enough to make strange questions or
comments about me. I remember once during class we were put
into groups. One of the girls was particularly observant and
quiet, until she finally asked if I was ADOPTED. I laughed and
responded with a matter-of-fact "No." Her expression was serious
and she insisted, "Well, what color are your Parents?" I didn't
even know how to answer that question. I gave her a long stare.
"You don't look like you speak Spanish...", added a guy sitting
next to her. I opened my eyes wide. I couldn't help but wonder,
what DOES a Spanish speaker look like? Nonetheless, I took a
deep breath, accepted their curiosity and explained my roots.
After all, all Asians are smart. Arabs are all terrorists. Native
Americans run around fires and scream like savages. And here I
was, being Mexican and NOT wearing a sombrero or being dark.
That fact caused an existential crisis for them. None realized that
asking those questions caused me a good amount of frustration.
I knew deep inside they asked mainly out of curiosity, but I
couldn't help and feel bothered by the ignorance behind it. I
practiced tolerance and eventually accepted the fact that people
can't help but wonder.
THE END