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Not enough time to get to know each other

1. Marriage is looking for a partner who is compatible to each other


Marriage is not just a union of two people but a coming together of
two families, two social networks which are now more closely linked
than ever before

Critics of arranged marriage would say that not enough importance is


given in such marriages to how the couple feels about each other.

Effect : once the wedding happens, there is a tremendous need for


adjustment because the couple might not have enough time to get to know
each other, understand each others feelings, values and opinions, about
different issue

2. Barely to know each others priorities

The highest priority should be to meet each others emotional needs.


the most important emotional needs in marriage cannot be met very well
with the children present. It's only when you have taken the time to give
each other your undivided attention that you can meet those needs.
Effect : - your source of strength in achieving all your other objectives, will
weaken.
- if your marriage suffers, everything else you value will suffer along
with it.