Beruflich Dokumente
Kultur Dokumente
Davis
FHS-2400
Unit
4
Chapters
5
&
6
2-18-16
Love Language
I have had some different experiences with how people show love. My wife and I have
been
to
marriage
counseling
and
taken
tests
on
what
our
love
language
is.
What
we
found
out
is
that
almost
all
of
our
love
languages
are
different.
This
has
been
a
major
factor
in
our
marriage
because
how
we
give
love
and
more
importantly
how
we
perceive
one
anothers
love
is
vastly
different
from
our
own.
This
has
caused
conflict
and
has
been
a
hard
thing
for
us
to
work
through
as
a
couple.
Throughout our marriage we have both felt like one of us didnt love the other because
we
were
not
speaking
the
same
love
language.
Our
passion
and
intimacy
had
decreased
and
we
saw
this
as
a
crisis
(Cohen,
Strong,
2014,
p.
177).
We
realized
that
we
where
having
problems
and
started
to
go
to
counseling.
It
really
opened
up
my
understanding
of
how
we
show
each
other
love.
I
guess
this
could
be
seen
as
a
light
bulb
popping
up
over
my
head.
I
now
understand
how
she
shows
love
and
how
she
wants
to
be
loved.
Counseling
has
helped
us
understand
one
another
on
a
deeper
level.
It
has
also
helped
prevent
potential
conflicts
in
our
marriage
because
of
misunderstood
or
misinterpreted
love
languages.
Now that my wife and I understand each others love language it was time to use them. I
found
out
that
my
wifes
love
language
is
touch.
I
have
been
making
more
efforts
to
touch
her
as
I
pass
by
her
in
the
hall
or
just
hold
her
hand
in
the
car
while
we
are
driving.
She
in
turn
has
been
more
accepting
of
my
love
language
which
is
words
of
affirmation.
When
I
tell
her
she
is
beautiful
instead
of
denying
it
she
will
say
thanks
or
something
to
that
extent.
It
makes
me
feel
better
when
she
accepts
my
love
language
as
I
am
getting
better
at
providing
her
with
her
love
language.
My sons love language is quality time together so I have been spending more time
playing
with
him.
I
think
that
he
is
feeling
out
of
place
because
of
the
new
baby
and
how
much
time
my
wife
and
I
spend
with
her.
He
has
responded
positively
to
me
spending
time
with
him.
I
can
tell
by
how
he
tells
me
he
loves
me
more
and
wants
to
do
more
stuff
together.
In
fact,
I
think
that
he
has
the
whole
summer
planed
out
with
all
the
stuff
that
we
are
going
to
do.
I
can
also
see
that
he
responds
to
he
in
a
more
respectful
way
when
I
spend
time
with
him.
I think that understanding love languages and how to interpret someones love language
is
vital
to
a
successful
relationship.
I
know
that
if
my
wife
and
I
didnt
go
to
marriage
counseling
and
learn
about
love
languages
we
probably
would
not
be
married
today.
It
takes
work
and
compromise
to
make
a
family
work
and
understanding
that
we
each
love
one
another
but
maybe
we
dont
show
it
all
in
the
same
way.
Works
Cited
Cohen,
B.
Strong,
T.
(2014).
The
Marriage
and
Family
Experience
(Vol.
12).
Belmont,
California:
Wadsworth.