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Lust Intensifiers

Head Games:
The Art of Role-Playing

by Lawrence Lanoff


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Head Games: The Art of Role-Playing

Head Games:
The Art of Role-Playing
For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears.
Isabel Allende

I love women. Through and through. All parts, shapes, sizes, and minds. I
always make sure that my lovers know that no matter what they are into,
as long as we talk about it, Im open and she has a total safe space to
explore her sexuality.
But in order to create that safe space, you have to be willing to explore.
Thats why, if I have a girlfriend who is into being humiliated in the
bedroom, Im a total hell yes to acting that out to the degree that shes
interested in exploring it. Because I understand that what we play in the
bedroom and in her lusty erotic mind is all good. Its not for me to judge
but instead my job is to stoke the flames of her raw sexuality.
A Moment of Sexual Zen. Help her get out of the cage of sexual
suppression and into the freedom of her body and the clarity of her mind.
Her body is where sex happens. Her mind is where eroticism happens.

The Sexual Mind The Power of Her Imagination

Now that you have developed the art of navigating her inner world, you
probably have been given some great ideas for possible role-playing
scenarios but arent sure how to go about it exactly.
Role-playing doesnt have to be elaborate. Nobody has to dress up in a
costume and you certainly dont have to invest in a bunch of crazy props
(though I have done this). Costumes and props can be a lot of fun, if thats
what youre into!
Many role-playing scenarios involve a power dynamic. Meaning, one
person is often the person with the power and the other person submits to
their desires.

Head Games: The Art of Role-Playing

Recognize this key point: that what makes these scenarios erotic is the
IMAGINARY play of power. You both know that, at any moment,
someone can say, Stop, and whatever is happening will come to a
screeching halt.
You also know that you are both actually consenting adults, even if one of
you is playing a college coed and the other a horny professor.
Actually taking advantage of someone is not hot. Someone giving consent
to be taken advantage of is hot. In other words, just because you are
turned on by the idea of your girlfriend acting like a young girl does not
mean you want to have sex with young girls! So you can let go of any
shame you might have about that.

Play The Role and Roll Around Playing.

Role-playing ideas:
1. Professor and student show a women with a teacher fetish how
she can become teachers pet.
2. Cheerleader and football player you just won the game by
kicking the winning field goal. The head cheerleader thinks you
deserve a reward.
3. Delivery guy and customer she is crazy horny for dick and sees
the perfect opportunity to satisfy her hunger.
4. Massage therapist and client dim the lights, play some soothing
music, and burn some incense. You guys can decide beforehand if
the therapist or client will be doing the seducing. The therapist
could be an innocent professional, but when she sees your hard
cock underneath the sheet, she is unable to resist massaging it with
her mouth. Or the client could be expecting a normal massage, but
then finds (himself or herself) getting really hot and bothered and
starts fishing for happy-ending possibilities.
5. Escort and client have a white envelope next to the bed with her
escort name on it. Tell her you are nervous because its your first

Head Games: The Art of Role-Playing

time hiring someone for sex. Let her take control and teach you
how to satisfy her.
6. Strangers who meet at a bar you can actually go separately to a
bar and pretend to be meeting for the first time.
7. Exhibitionists create a hot imaginary audience to watch the two
of you.
8. Porn Stars pretend you are porn stars filming your next smash hit
(you can either really film it or simply pretend you are being
9. Royalty and servant be fed grapes and give orders. She/he must
10. Doctor and patient be her gynecologist and give her an exam
shell never forget.
11. Yoga teacher and student make her your star pupil when you
show her a variation of downward dog shes never tried before.
12. Boss and employee somebody might be getting a raise!
13. Voyeurs watch each other masturbate. Show each other exactly
how you like to be touched. Take notes! You might want to use
some of the techniques she shows you later.
Role-playing can be spontaneous and doesnt necessarily require any
acting out of a specific scenario.

Spontaneous Role-Playing
For instance, when you guys are making out and things are starting to get
hot and heavy, you can start a role-playing conversation by leaning in and
in a low, sexy voice whispering, You know I could get fired for this,
right? I mean a professor/doctor/boss is never supposed to fuck one of his
students/patients/employees. But you come to class/my office in your
short fucking skirts and taunt me with those perky little tits and that wet

Head Games: The Art of Role-Playing

little pussy. I wear suit jackets to work to cover up the boners I get when I
look at you. I hope you are ready for me to destroy that tight little cunt!
All women want to feel irresistible. Thats what makes these role-playing
scenarios so much fun. For a lot of women, the idea of men being
powerless to resist the masculine primal urge to fuck women (especially
when its taboo) is very arousing in a role-playing scenario.
Role-playing can also be fun to actually act out.
For instance, if you have a desk, it could be fun to call your partner into
your office, berate her for having poor grades, or not meeting a work
deadline etc., then tell her youre willing to overlook these flaws if shes
willing to pull up her skirt and bend over your desk. (When my girlfriend
was reading this, she got so hot and horny thinking about this scenario, she
masturbated right in front of me and then had me spank her for being such
a naughty girl.)
You then walk up to her and push your cock into her thigh and tell her
how horny she makes you. Rub your hand slowly over her ass and then
down her thigh and back up.
Lightly spank one bare cheek then give it a good squeeze.
Pull her pussy apart and tell her you can see how wet she is and that you
always knew she was a dirty whore (use whore only if you know she
likes to be called names like that).
Tell her how you are going to give her an A or extend her deadline if shes
a good girl and doesnt tell anybody about what shes going to let you do
to her.

Role-playing is powerful. Playing with power dynamics is also erotically
charged. Have fun. Talk a lot about what turns you and her on

Head Games: The Art of Role-Playing

Its always fun to decompress afterwards and talk about what you loved
and what you didnt. This allows you to create a mental turn-on map
that you can use in connection with other techniques weve already
discussed in this program like Pavlovs Pussy.
I also love to use this time, post orgasm and playtime to set up exactly
how I want my partner to feel about the experience. I affirm how beautiful
it is to see her open up. I talk about how good she's going to feel later,
when she thinks about this experience. Remembering how great it feels for
her to feel totally safe and completely let go.
Always speak simply and positively.
Bonus Affirmation: While she's in an open, post-orgasmic state, I love to
affirm that she's strong, sexy, smart, and that her body is filled with
pleasure. More and more pleasure.

*** A brief note on the word CUNT. I personally love the word because
its so charged. Ive actually never had a woman push back on the word
in the right context. I know its charged, so I use it emotionally, to
generate more energy. But if its a word that she finds humiliating or
hurtful, theres no way Ill use it. However, like any word, I encourage my
lovers to claim power from any words that have power over them - like
cunt, slut, or whore. If you own the power of the word, it has no power
over you.