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Table of Contents
Page:
10 - Introduction
11 - Chapter 1 - Subliminal Persuasion Techniques You Can Use Today
36 - Chapter 2 - How To Read Minds And Influence The Opposite Sex
44 - Chapter 3 - How To Increase Your Brainpower - 70 Ways
60 - Chapter 4 - How To Get The Real News
67 - Chapter 5 - Medical and Health Secrets
90 - Chapter 6 - How Politicians Manipulate You
97 - Chapter 7 - Hypnotic Sales Writing
108 - Chapter 8 - The Power Of Neuro-Linguistic Programming
120 - Chapter 9 - How To Quickly Motivate Yourself
124 - Chapter 10 - How To Beat A Lie Detector Test
129 - Chapter 11 - How To Find People And Get Information
135 - Chapter 12 - Insider Secrets Of Treasure Hunting
141 - Chapter 13 - How I Make A Living On The Internet
146 - Chapter 14 - Make Money Online With No Website
150 - Chapter 15 - Twenty Ways To Make Any Business More Profitable
154 - Chapter 16 - How To Get Rid Of Your Debt
159 - Chapter 17 - How To Fix Your Credit
162 - Chapter 18 - Credit Card Company Tricks To Watch Out For
165 - Chapter 19 - I Watched Him Make $ 80,000 On The Roulette Wheel
173 - Chapter 20 - What Real Estate Agents Won't Tell You
176 - Chapter 21 - The Truth About Zero-Down Real Estate Investing
180 - Chapter 22 - How To Be More Creative
185 - Chapter 23 - How To Develop Your Intuition
187 - Chapter 24 - Secrets Of Focused Concentration
189 - Chapter 25 - Memory Secrets
193 - Chapter 26 - Secrets Of Spies
198 - Chapter 27 - Weight Loss Secrets
218 - Chapter 28 - Free Things - Are They Really Free?
221 - Chapter 29 - A Secret Of Lucky People
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More Secrets
(These start on page 223)
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Introduction
Some people may think that not much remains truly hidden anymore. Not
true! There are many little-known tricks-of-the-trade, techniques of control,
and secrets. Of course many of the people "in the know" don't want you to
know about them. Politicians, salesmen and others use subtle techniques to
influence you, for example. Do you think they want you to know what
they're doing? What else is being kept from you?
How about the truth regarding oil changes? Did you know that the standard
of an oil change every 3,000 miles was simply invented by the oil change
industry? There is no real basis for it. In 100,000 miles, if you change the oil
every three thousand miles instead of the manufacturer's recommended
6,000 mile frequency, you'll have an extra 17 oil changes. At $32 per oil
change, that is an extra $544!
That little secret comes from the bonus e-book 99 Lies, and is explained in
greater detail there. I bring it up here to show you what a little knowledge
can do for you. Now you can avoid throwing away thousands of dollars on
oil changes over your lifetime (That pays for this book a few dozen times
over, doesn't it?). If you're one of the few who already knew this one, don't
worry. There will still be much for you to learn and use in the following
pages.
Some of these secrets you may have read about before, because any
purchaser of this book probably already looks outside the mainstream for
information and knowledge. Much of it, however, will be entirely new to
you. I hope you can make good use of it.
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Certainly the knowledge and techniques here can be used for bad purposes.
They can be used for good as well. Finally, even if you don't choose to
practice and apply the following methods, don't you at least want to know if
they are being used on you?
The Techniques
Some of the best subliminal persuasion techniques come from NLP (neuro-
linguistic programming). For example, if you hear a person saying, "I see," a
few times, they are probably processing information visually, according to
NLP. To influence them then, you would use phrases like, "You can see
how..." or you would actually show them things. A more auditory person
would be influenced more if you said, "I hear what you're saying," and
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"Listen..."
That's a technique you may have read about before - it is in many books
now. But there are many techniques of subliminal persuasion that are not so
well known. In the examples that follow, you'll find both the well-known
techniques (in case you haven't tried them yet) and the more secret
techniques.
This is one of the most common persuasion techniques. You have probably
heard salesmen use this technique and abuse it. A statement like "Look
Steve, you can see the benefits of this..." just turns me off. You see, there is
more subtlety and art to persuasion than just following simple rules. People
do love to hear their own name, but you have to be careful how you use it.
First of all, you have to use it how they want to hear it. Ask them how they
prefer to be addressed. A Mike may not like "Michael," and a Joseph may be
irritated by you calling him "Joe."
Second, use it at the right time. Unless you are great at reading people and
know it is okay, don't say "Hi Betty!" the moment she walks into your
office. Like myself, Betty may be irritated if you use her name with
familiarity too soon. Wait until there is a bit of rapport, and sometimes even
ask permission; "Is it okay if I call you Betty?"
If you say "think about it," they'll do just that. It's not a call to action.
Instead, use words like "today," and "now," and "do this."
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that even using "by now," repetitively, as in "By now you can see that this
car is luxurious," is subconsciously taken as "buy now." Now you'll know
what's going on if you hear a salesman using this little trick.
Remember to use their words. For example, if you hear a man use the word
"efficient" often, then it's important to him - so start using it: "You can see
how efficient this RV is in its use of space." Pay attention and pick out any
words a person uses often. To see this in action, consider what words you
commonly use, and see if any smart sale's people are catching on and using
them with you.
Also watch for the type of words they use. Do they use visual, aural, or
kinesthetic words? "I see" is something a more visually-oriented person
would use. "I hear what you're saying," is something a more aurally-oriented
person might say. A person who is more kinesthetic will use expressions
like, "I'm not sure how I feel about that."
Our prime motivators are survival, food and shelter. However, we each are
also motivated by some or all of the following:
Ego
Vanity
Pleasure
Pain
Anger
Love
Pride
Envy
Greed
Hostility
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Acceptance
Approval
Maternal Instinct
Random Feelings
Listen, listen and listen some more. Then you can identify those motivators
that are strongest in a person This is valuable knowledge if you want to
influence them. If you are raising money for a charity, for example, and you
have identified "ego" as a strong motivator in a prospect, you can perhaps
promise to give him a prominent mention in your newsletter if he donates
enough. The idea is to find a way to use their own motivators to influence
them to do what you want.
Ask Questions
You want to know a little general information about the person you are
trying to influence, but you also want to know specific things. You need to
determine in what areas he or she is defensive, for example, so you can
avoid those areas, or have plans to deal with them. You especially should
ask about previous decisions. The information you gather will help you
determine what circumstances and information this person needs to make a
decision and act.
For an example of this in action, let's suppose you want the woman in front
of you to be your new girlfriend. You are in a casual conversation, and the
subject of partners comes up. You ask what it was that made her fall in love
with her last boyfriend.
"When I first met him, he really listened to me," she starts, "and I could tell
he was really paying attention, not just pretending to." At this point you
would want to look right into her eyes and really listen, of course. "He was
such a gentleman too," she adds. If she pulls out a cigarette you better be
ready to light it. "And I just felt safe when I was with him."
At this point, you have some good information. If you walk her to her car,
you know you better guide her around that patch of ice (make her feel safe)
and open the door for her (be a gentleman). Of course, you should always
listen to a woman (or any person) you want to be with.
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If you are trying to sell an investment to someone, you need to ask questions
like, "What have you invested in before?" Then ask "How long did it take
you to decide on that investment?" and "What made you finally decide to
invest in that?" If he tells you that he had to check with his wife, you need
to start selling his wife too. If he says he makes up his own mind and doesn't
like pushy salesmen, you need to help him be the "expert."
Be Like Them
People like people who are like themselves. People are more easily
persuaded by people they like. The lesson is that if you want to persuade
people, be like them. There are simple ways to do this, like dressing in a
way that isn't intimidating to them. Subtle tones and non-solid colors are
usually best in this respect. Then there are the more subtle ways to be like
them.
This is called "mirroring and matching." When done well, you can establish
rapport quickly and easily with most people. A bond begins to develop
between you, and you can test this by "leading." This means that once you
have established the bond, you change your body posture, to see if they
unconsciously do the same. If so, they are ready to follow. You continue to
mirror and match, but you also start to lead them right to the bottom line on
the contract, or to whatever action you want them to take.
How well does this work? A study done at INSEAD business school in
Fontainebleau, France, and reported in the Journal of Experimental Social
Psychology, volume 44, page 461, tested the effect of mimicking behavior
on 166 students. One part involved job negotiation, and another involved
the interaction between buyers and sellers. Both showed that subtle mimicry
worked.
In the buyer/seller experiment, for example, those not using mimicry made a
sale less than 13% of the time. Those who did copy the behaviors of the
prospects made a sale 67% of the time. These were role-playing
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Mirroring and matching works. But be subtle, and if you think that the
prospect suspects you are mimicking him or her, stop.
Use Inflection
It is easy to assume that a sentence like "I can't promise you that price." has
only one meaning. In reality, though, inflection provides much of the actual
meaning. Look at the each of the sentences below, each with a different
word emphasized, and followed by the implied meaning.
I can't promise you that price. (But maybe you'll get it.)
I can't promise you that price. (But I can promise someone else.)
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promise him. You probably know what you want to say to a person.
Understanding the subtle power of inflection will mean you actually say it.
Restate what a person has said they want, and then show them how you can
give them that. We all need to have some internal consistency, so we don't
like to act against what we say. This is why, as long as you have what they
need, this technique works well. For an example, we'll suppose you are
selling a prospect a vacation.
After listening to what they want, you find something that fits their needs,
and then say, "If I remember right, you said you wanted a warm beach,
under $2,000 for the week, and with nearby nightlife. I think we're in luck.
Both of the packages we just looked at fit your criteria, so do you like
Cancun or the Bahamas better?" It is tough for someone to say they are not
interested when you just found exactly what they said they wanted, and
reminded them of their words.
To plant an idea in a person's mind, say something like, "What will you do if
your plan doesn't work?" In this case you have planted the seed of doubt.
This doesn't have to be a negative plant, though. The idea is simply to get a
person to answer in a given direction. This gets them thinking in that
direction.
Be aware that people all around you use this technique half-consciously, but
the ideas that most of them plant in their friend's minds are fear-based. A
man wants to open a restaurant, for example, and his friend asks casually,
"Have you seen the statistics for the failure of new restaurants?" Or a
woman wants to travel alone and her friends asks, "Isn't that really
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dangerous?"
If you choose to plant ideas in your friend's minds, you might want to try
more positive ones. For example, if a friend has credit card debt, rather than
telling him what he needs to do (few care for our "helpful" advice), you
might ask, "What would you do if you really needed to get out of debt
quick?" This could get your friend thinking in the right direction.
To create a state in a person, talk about that state, and invite the person to
participate in the discussion. For example, if you want to generate some
excitement in a friend, talk about how exciting something is to you, and ask
what gets her going. She will likely get excited as she explains.
You can also ask people to recall something from a time you know (or can
assume) they were in the state you want them to be in now. This could be
whatever state you think will be useful. Remind them of some injustice, for
example, and have them recount it, and they will likely become angry all
over again.
In a regular sales situation this technique is much easier to use, because you
normally are only hoping to get the prospect to buy "something." For
example, if you're selling him a large-screen television, it isn't necessarily
important which one he buys, as long as it's one from your store. After he
has seen a few then, you ask him which one he favors, and - this is the
crucial part - ask him why.
The idea here is to get him to start arguing for a particular television. If he
has good reasons, admit it to him, as though he is winning an argument. You
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essentially let him sell you on why he should buy that TV. It is hard for a
man to then say no to his own sale's pitch.
For a "sale," where you want one particular outcome, you have to be more
creative. For example, suppose a woman wants to convince her husband that
they should take a vacation in Hawaii. First, she should find some activities
he would enjoy there. She may want to go for the beach and hiking
opportunities, but if he would be more excited by shark-fishing and volcano
tours, that's where she needs to start the conversation.
However, if he is already resistant to the idea of the trip, just telling him
what fun he could have will cause him to argue against the idea. Instead, his
wife needs to get him arguing for the trip. To do this, she can casually
mention another friend who went, and say something like, "They have these
shark-fishing cruises and volcano tours, but hiking would be fun too. Which
sounds better to you - I mean if we ever go there someday?"
She isn't suggesting buying tickets yet, but just asking a hypothetical
question. He has no reason to get defensive about a trip that isn't even being
planned or directly suggested. So he answers, possibly adding other thing he
would like to do, if they ever go.
Once he answers, she immediately asks him why he would want to do these
things, and what "his" activities would involve. This get's him arguing for
shark-fishing and volcano tours in Hawaii, and actually imagining them,
which gets him more excited about the trip. As she hesitantly acknowledges
that his idea of fun isn't so bad, he "wins" the argument for a trip he might
have said no to if she proposed it outright. His wife gets him to sell himself
on the idea. Of course, she'll work in her hiking or beach time once they
finally plan the trip.
We all try to be consistent with what we think we should be, and what we
believe or say. When faced with possible inconsistency, we experience what
psychologists call "cognitive dissonance," the stress resulting from holding
two contradictory cognitions at once. A "cognition," in this context, can be a
thought, attitude, emotion, belief or behavior.
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For example, suppose a man thinks he's a nice person, but says something
cruel to a woman he works with. That uncomfortable feeling he experiences
is less about her being hurt as it is about violating his belief about himself as
a nice man. This is cognitive dissonance, but the important point for our
purposes is that he feels the need to resolve it (we all do). He can do so in
number of ways.
First, he could alter his belief, recognizing that he's not always nice -
perhaps the least likely option to be chosen. Second, he can explain why she
deserved it, thus making it her fault, not his, a common way to resolve one's
own self-doubt. He could blame it on other factors, telling himself he's only
this way when tired, for example. The many psychological responses to
cognitive dissonance are fascinating, but how do we use them?
Start by getting people to say something about who they are or what they
believe. Then fashion your "sale's pitch" in such a way that doing what you
want resolves any cognitive dissonance, or in such a way that any other
choice causes the discomfort of inconsistency. By the way, this works
whether actually selling a product, an idea, or just trying to persuade a man
to take a particular action. Is this a dirty trick? Yes. Here's how it might
work:
A man enters your stereo shop one evening and tells you a little bit about
what he is looking for. You tell him about some stereo that you'll be selling
in a couple weeks, but describe it in a way that makes him not want it. You
finish with, "But that won't be here for a couple weeks. You want something
today, right?" If he agrees, you have what you want.
The idea is to get him to say something that you can use. He will feel
uncomfortable acting in a way which contradicts what he has said. After he
says something like, "Yes, I want to bring something home tonight," you
might now say, "Well, it's getting late for more shopping, so if you really
want to get a stereo today, I think I have what you need right over here."
The phrase, "if you really want to get a stereo today," reminds him of his
words, influencing him to follow through on them.
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asking directly, you steer the conversation to the trash in the park and let
them talk about it. Then you suggest, "Us city residents should do
something about it, shouldn't we?" As soon as they agree, you ask each one
which day they can volunteer a few hours to help you. Publicly stated
beliefs and commitments are the most uncomfortable ones for a person to
contradict or back out of.
One obvious lesson here is that you might want to mention the good stuff
first when seeking a commitment. Afterwards, having agreed to something,
people feel uneasy saying no, even if the new information makes them not
want to continue.
Other research shows that any minor commitment makes people far more
likely to make a larger one. If you first agree to watch you friends dog for an
hour, for example, you're more likely to later agree to care for him for a
week (don't you hope your friend doesn't know these tricks?). This is true
even though you never said you would watch him for a week. By watching
him at all, you've created a cognition of yourself as the "helpful friend who
watches the dog," and you feel cognitive dissonance when thinking of
denying the next request. It becomes easier to say yes.
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recommending that you use these techniques, and I think there are more-
honest and rational ways to persuade others. But if these less-honest
methods are being used on you, at least you'll be able to recognize that now.
John comes up to Sally in the office and hands her a bar of her favorite
chocolate. "I just saw it and thought you might need a mid-morning snack."
She happily takes it. Later in the day John casually says to her, "Hey Sally, if
the boss comes by, could you let him know that you saw me here by nine
this morning?" She didn't see him until ten, but she finds herself saying,
"Yeah, okay."
"It's yours," he said. "I've got another." Joe tried to refuse, but Frank
insisted. After such a generous gift, Joe found it difficult not to agree to
some of the terms Frank immediately proposed in the negotiations. A $600
watch may have bought Frank tens of thousands of dollars in concessions.
I have read about car salesmen who stop heated negotiations to step out to
buy themselves and the customer a soda. They claim that they close a lot
more deals this way. It seems that a one-dollar gift may just make a person
hesitate to argue about a $300 item.
Notice that this is not a rational calculation. If it were, Joe might allow for a
$600 concession, or that car buyer might think, "Okay, I'll pay a dollar more
for the car." But what really happens is the creation of a less-conscious
sense of obligation toward the gift-giver, which he or she can use in very
profitable ways.
To understand how powerful this can be, a study was done by Cornell
University researcher Dennis Regan. He had two accomplices sell raffle
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By the way, this is exactly why many charitable organizations send you free
address labels when asking for a donation. I'm not sure that the saying "give
and ye shall receive" was meant as a subliminal influence technique, but it
works. Use it if you think it is appropriate. But be wary of it being used on
you.
There is one more important way this is used. If you want to create a sense
of obligation in a person, particularly an obligation to give you some
information, tell that person a secret. This may work even better if you first
ask, "Do you want to know a secret?" Once he says yes, and you tell him
some juicy bit of information, he will feel inclined to return the favor - when
you are ready.
Social Validation
Theaters have been known to have accomplices in the audience who clap or
laugh so that real audience members will do the same. This is the principle
of social validation. We look to what others around us are doing to validate
what is normal and acceptable.
In sales situations, this can mean mentioning other purchasers who the
prospect knows. She feel more comfortable buying if she knows others who
have done so. In a retail setting, a store could hire undercover shoppers to
congregate around things that they want to sell more of. Real shoppers will
respond by at least checking out what is being sold. Testimonials from
"ordinary people" do the same thing.
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but without really knowing if the item actually is popular. In fact, evidence
that a product is actually better doesn't seem to matter nearly as much as the
mere assertion that it is a customer favorite. In other words lying to us and
using social validation works.
Scarcity
We have all seen the signs in stores that say, "today only," or "limited
quantities." They're there because they work. We respond to scarcity,
sometimes buying things we wouldn't have bought or buying more than we
need, because this is the "last chance."
The lesson? If you want to get a man to buy your handmade banjos or agree
to a fishing trip, tell him something like, "I'm only offering this to a few
people, and only this week." If you are selling raffle tickets, always have
your "last four" (or two or six) in your hands.
Less Is More
This is a subtle technique that is based on the latest research into how
people form strong opinions. Interestingly, studies show that if people have
many reasons for believing something, they ascribe less value or weight to
each, and they often feel more strongly if they have just a couple good
reasons. In one university study, for example, students were told there
would be new exams as part of their course. Half were asked to give eight
reasons why this was a bad idea, while the other half were asked to give just
two reasons why this was a bad idea.
Those who gave just two reasons were later much more opposed to the new
plan. Other studies have confirmed this tendency to be more convinced by
fewer arguments. Researchers theorize that because it is easier to come up
with one or two good reasons, it is easier to have confidence in those
opinions.
The practical application? First of all, don't be tempted to ask a person for
"one good reason" why they disagree with your plan or idea. They'll not
only find one, but it will be convincing to him or her. Instead, when trying
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to persuade a person, ask him to tell you one or two (three at most) positive
things about your idea or product or proposal.
To train yourself in this way, find a few short things to read aloud. Try both
upwards and downward inflection at the end of sentences until you are clear
about the difference. Record yourself, and after practicing for a while,
record yourself again to see if you are improving. A confident and
trustworthy voice and good eye-contact can go a long way toward
influencing people.
Your voice also conveys meaning according to how you say certain things.
It was found that juries in California were two times as likely to convict
defendants with prior convictions and criminal records if the judge knew
about these. By law the judges can't tell the jury of these, but it's
hypothesized that judges are communicating their bias in their attitude and
tone of voice.
One last tip about voice. For some reason, people with a deeper voice are
judged to be more sincere and believable. Because of this, some speakers
drink hot tea just before a speech, to make their voices sound lower. You
may want to try that before getting in front of an audience.
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In a study, people were asked if they had headaches occasionally. Then they
were asked to estimate how often. The average was .7 headaches weekly.
Another group was asked if they had headaches frequently, and asked to
estimate how many. The average was 2.2 per week. In other words, simply
by changing one word in the initial question, researchers influenced
participants to estimate three times as many headaches.
How do you use this information? Think of the words to use that will most
likely influence the person you are talking to in the direction you desire. If a
man wants to buy a drink for a woman he doesn't know, for example, instead
of asking, "Can I buy you a drink?" he might try, "Would you like a
delicious glass of wine?"
If you want to influence a choice, you make the one you want the person to
make sound better, and the others sound worse. "Do you want to stay
trapped in your job, or would you like to make some money in a fun
business?" "Would you like the regular beer, or the cold and tasty special?"
"Are you going to stick with what you know and the results you've had, or
are you going to learn the powerful secrets found in this book and start
living better?
Just associating certain words with a person or idea can influence how
people see that person or idea. Newt Gingrich (former speaker of the house
of representatives) is said to have circulated a list of words for other
Republicans to use. If speaking about Republicans and their causes, they
were to use the words, "dream, courage, common sense, duty, fair, family,
freedom." When talking about Democrats and their causes, they were
supposed to use the words, "betray, corruption, devour, destroy, cheat,
bizarre, disgrace, crisis."
The lesson? Watch out for how others use certain words to quietly affect the
way you see things. And perhaps choose carefully the words that you use to
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Using Contrast
It has long been noted that when faced with a large request or purchase to
which a person says no, that same person is more likely to then agree to a
smaller request or purchase. It's a matter of contrast. After the salesman
shows you the $4,000 couch, the $900 one doesn't seem so expensive.
In one study, researchers asked college students to donate blood. The first
group was asked to donate their blood every two months for three years.
They almost all said no. The next day they were asked to donate just one
time, on the next day. 49% agreed. The control group was simply asked to
donate once, without the request for the three-year commitment. Only 31%
of them agreed.
How do you use this? Request much more than you need, and then make a
smaller request for what you really wanted. You can also hint at a larger
request. Suppose, for example, you want to borrow $20 from a co-worker.
You mention your bills and talk about how you're going to have to borrow a
few hundred dollars from someone to stay out of trouble. At this point,
when he is thinking you're about to ask for a big loan, you say, "Hey, I don't
have any cash on me for lunch. Could you loan me $20 until next weeks
paycheck?" Relieved that you aren't asking for hundreds of dollars, he
agrees.
This is used by smart business people all the time, by the way. If a furniture
store has two types of kitchen tables, one for $200 and the other for $900,
all they have to do to increase the sales of the second is add one for $3,000.
They may not ever sell the most expensive one, but by contrast it makes the
others look much cheaper, and more customers who would have bought the
$200 one buy the $900 one. If you have a retail business, you may want to
experiment with this technique.
Using Expectation
In general, people do as they are expected to do. There was a study in which
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girls who were told they would do poorly on math tests actually did worse
on them than those who were not told that.. In another test, adults doing
difficult mazes to solve did better when they were told they were designed
for grade school children.
You can use this phenomenon to influence people, and in good ways. For
example, if Joe works for you and you have assigned him a project with a
deadline, you can make it clear that you have confidence in him. You could
reinforce that by letting him overhear you praise him to a colleague.
Most of us have seen instances where this works in negative ways as well.
The children that teachers expect to fail are more likely to fail, regardless of
inherent ability. And we know that one's own expectations have a profound
impact on performance. Cruel people encourage this self-image-lowering
phenomenon with comments like, "You don't really think you'll succeed, do
you?"
Another form of specific expectation is praising what you want to see more
of. In one study, the students of a psychology class decided to compliment
any woman wearing red, to see what would happen. After a while, the
percentage of woman wearing red on campus doubled from 11% to 22%.
Based on research like this and our own experience, it seems reasonable that
we can influence people with healthy praise. Want someone to help you
more? Praise him for how helpful he is. Want employees to show up early
more often? Praise them when they are early. One last note: praising in
public may be even more effective than in private, because you build a
"community expectation" about the person's behavior.
Clothing
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Dressing like the person you want to influence may help, because people
tend to like those who are like them, and clothing is one of their first clues
to similarity.
On the other hand, people in jeans still expect their financial planner to wear
something more formal. We have expectations for the clothing worn by
people in certain positions. We also make assumptions based on what they
are wearing, and are more likely or less likely to follow them according to
their clothing.
Ego Stroking
You have probably met people who tell everyone what they want to hear
about themselves. If you haven't tried this kind of basic flattery, it actually
can be effective. Most of the time this isn't really subliminal ("below the
threshold of conscious perception"), because people are perfectly aware that
you're appealing to their egos. Nonetheless, they like it and want you to
continue, so they will often comply with your wishes.
There are more subliminal techniques involving ego, though. For example,
if I ask a strong chess player to evaluate my game, he won't normally notice
that his telling me I'm a decent player is actually an ego trip for him. I set
him up as the "expert" after all, and to be able to say I'm good he has to be
good enough to recognize that.
The basis of this "trick" is to find something that you can make the person
an "expert" at, and then ask for his or her opinion. Then you move toward
asking for what you really want. For example, suppose Sam wants his friend
to help him move his things into his new apartment.
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His friend loves clothes and thinks dressing well is important, so Sam says,
"Hey, maybe you can help me. I have an interview next week, and I was
thinking of wearing what I have on now. Do you think this is good
enough?" Whatever the answer, Sam asks his friend for a few more pointers.
Then he says, "By the way, there is something else I could really use your
help with. Could you help me move a few things into my new apartment?"
His friend has already been put into the "helpful mode" and has had his ego
stroked by the insinuation that he is an expert on dressing for success. This
makes a him more likely to agree to the request.
Ego Challenges
Subtle challenges to the ego can backfire, but if used properly they not only
work, but go unnoticed. We all tend to defend our egos. When specific
abilities are challenged, especially those of our profession or area of
expertise, it is a common response to "prove" those abilities.
One way this is used is with simple questions like, "Are you sure you can do
that?" It should be asked with some hesitation or doubt in the voice.
Whatever it is, if he didn't want to do it before, now he does. He wants to
prove that he can.
One of my favorite stories of using an ego challenge was from a man who
was stopped by a highway patrolman for speeding. It seemed certain that he
would get a ticket, but he knew how to both be nice and challenge the
officer at the same time. He started with, "Hi!" and a smile. "I know I was
going too fast. I don't normally speed, but I'm late for my daughter's recital.
Can you let me go with a warning? If you can't do it, I totally understand."
Notice that the line, "If you can't do it" suggests that he may not have the
authority. It is said in a nice way, but it is a subtle ego challenge which
insinuates that the officer doesn't have much power. To prove otherwise, he
has to let the man go, which he did, by the way.
Be careful how you use this. You might say something like, "I know you
probably don't have the authority, but..." This could be even more effective,
but the closer you get to making the ego challenge obvious, the more likely
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it will be seen as a direct insult. Ideally, you want the person recognize the
challenge on a deeper level, but not consciously.
- Face women directly, but take an angular stance to men. This is perceived
as less confrontational.
- Don't discuss anything while you are standing and the other person is
sitting.
- The more receptive a person is to you , the closer they move. They may
lean over the table or step closer. Moving away from you means they are
less receptive.
- On first meetings, subtly act as if you own the place, have good but
relaxed posture, and nod to people, even if you haven't met.
- Handshakes are not always a good idea. Use your judgment, but always
put out your hand once they do, and match their facial expression.
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- Have the right amount of distance between you. A rough guide: Intimate -
0 to 2 feet; Personal - 2 to 4 feet; Public - 4 feet or more. This varies greatly
from culture to culture and person to person, so follow their lead and respect
their space requirements.
- When they say "Let me see if I got this right," they are ready to decide, as
long as, upon review, everything you say is as they expect. It can also mean
they see a problem, and want you to confirm it or explain it away. Either
way, a decision is near.
- Body positions can be just a matter of comfort, but watch for changes just
after they say something, like crossing their arms defensively.
- After a statement or question, if the person's hands are palms-up, they are
cooperative and ready to agree. Palms-down means you should slow down,
and ask if they have any questions.
- If their hands are clutching their body, they have no belief or trust in you.
It is best to start over.
- If their hands are clutching the chair or table, they are defensive. Ask a few
questions to discover their true feelings.
- If their hands are on the table, with the forefinger raised, they intend to
dominate the you and/or the conversation. You may have to make the right
moves and countermoves to establish respect and rapport.
- If their hands are tightly closed in a fist, they are naturally aggressive or
you pissed them off. In this case, it is best to let them express their feelings
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before continuing.
- When their hands are clasped behind their heads, or their fingertips are
steepled in front of them, they want to dominate you or the situation.
- If their hands are grooming their hair, they are unsure if they agree.
- When their hand is rubbing their forehead, or shading the eyes, they are
usually bored, don't agree, and won't listen to you.
- If their hands are out of sight, they may be aware that hands communicate.
- Initial eye contact with someone you're meeting for the first time should be
intense but brief, less than five seconds, and broken with a sideways glance
(never downward).
- Look at a person when they start talking, break contact when they pause,
and then look back again.
- Establish eye contact when you start speaking, and glance away when
done, or toward the person if you expect a response.
- Look at a person in the area between the top of the eyes and the point of
the nose for business meetings, and between the top of the eyes and the chin
in a social setting.
- A general rule: maintain eye contact 2/3 of the time man-to-man and 1/2
the time man-to-woman.
- If their head is tilted forward, and there eyes are just under their lids,
aimed directly at you, this means they don't believe you and are ready to
fight.
- Glancing to the side can mean they are under stress. Make them
comfortable.
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- Eyes wide open and looking at you means a desire to know more.
- When parting, make it brief and smooth. Shake hands and try hard to leave
a good impression.
"The confusion technique is designed not only to obliterate the familiar but
to replace it with the weird. Although this method can be employed by a
single interrogator, it is better adapted to use by two or three. When the
subject enters the room, the first interrogator asks a doubletalk question -
one which seems straightforward but is essentially nonsensical. Whether the
interrogatee tries to answer or not, the second interrogator follows up
(interrupting any attempted response) with a wholly unrelated and equally
illogical query. Sometimes two or more questions are asked simultaneously.
Pitch, tone, and volume of the interrogators' voices are unrelated to the
import of the questions. No pattern of questions and answers is permitted to
develop, nor do the questions themselves relate logically to each other.
"In this strange atmosphere the subject finds that the pattern of speech and
thought which he has learned to consider normal have been replaced by an
eerie meaninglessness. The interrogatee may start laughing or refuse to take
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the situation seriously. But as the process continues, day after day if
necessary, the subject begins to try to make sense of the situation, which
becomes mentally intolerable. Now he is likely to make significant
admissions, or even to pour out his story, just to stop the flow of babble
which assails him. This technique may be especially effective with the
orderly, obstinate type."
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I hope you won't be too disappointed when I tell you that you'll never read
minds like Mel Gibson in "What Women Want." However, you can learn
how to get a better idea of the general state of mind and receptivity of the
person in front of you. And you can subliminally persuade the opposite sex.
Let's jump straight to one of the fun ways.
You probably know that your pupils get bigger in the dark and smaller in the
light. But light levels are not the only things that affect pupil size...
A person's pupils get larger when they are aroused, interested and/or
receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those pupils growing large
- it's looking good for you, because big pupils (unless it's just dark) often
mean a person likes what they see.
Try this experiment, and you'll understand how immediate this effect can be.
Go right now and look in the mirror at your own eyes. As you look at them,
imagine a sexy man or woman you are attracted to - in whatever way would
turn you on.
You'll see that your pupils get bigger in just seconds. Actually, if you love to
fish, they may get big just thinking about a lake you love. Anything you like
to look at can make your pupils bigger. There are two ways to use this.
1. Mind Reading
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what you have to say. And yes, shrinking pupils can mean the person is not
interested in you, but be careful to note if light in the persons eyes is
causing the shrinking pupils. If the person is facing a bright light, you may
want to suggest another table.
The great thing about this little trick is that you can easily test it and refine
your technique. Start with a friend whose interests you know already, and
watch his or her pupils as you describe various places or even ideas. See if
getting your friend to visualize, by saying something "Remember how that
car of yours looked," gets a bigger pupil response.
Note: There is one problem with this little trick. It is difficult to use on those
who have dark eyes. If the person in front of you has light blue eyes, it is
easy to see his or her pupils. If eyes are dark brown, however, it can be
tough. You might have to try to get the person into a room with more light.
That can cause pupils to shrink, of course, but you can still watch for
relative changes in size.
2. Influencing
If you haven't yet experimented with your own pupils, by watching them in
the mirror, go try it now. You'll find that you can quickly train yourself to
change your pupil size at will. Just find a mental image or two that gets
them really big, and use these as necessary. Look at a light briefly when you
want to shrink your pupils back down in a hurry.
First, you have to understand that we all use little clues like pupil size
unconsciously as we interact with people. We are affected by people's
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expressions and body language even when we haven't yet learned to identify
what it is we are picking up on. This is the basis for our intuitive feelings
about others.
In other words - the person in front of you will unconsciously pick upon
your enlarging pupils. They will unconsciously take this to mean that you
like him or her, and for many people, this will make them like you more. By
enlarging your pupils at will, you can effectively establish rapport more
quickly.
Try this the next time you want to convince someone to do something. Make
your pupils get bigger before making the request.
Listen
This is perhaps the most effective way to read minds. Just pay attention, ask
a few questions and listen to what they say about themselves. Use silence -
people want to fill that empty space, and will reveal more about themselves.
Once you are told what is in their minds, you can be fairly certain the same
things will keep circulating in there, making "mind reading" in the future
much easier.
Leaning toward you indicates that the person is interested and receptive.
Defensive moves like leaning away and crossing the arms over the chest
suggests the opposite.
When women play with their hair while talking to you, it can be (but isn't
always) a sign of receptivity. Verify this with other signals, of course.
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A tilting head, especially if it comes with a smile and eye contact, is a sign
that the person likes you.
By noticing what a person looks at, you can learn a lot. What kind of
women does a man look at? Does he pay any attention to the game on the
TV? Note whether he seems bored or interested as he looks at different
things. Does she smile when she sees certain things?
Eyes can tell us a lot about what a person is thinking because they
simultaneously show us what the person is feeling and what they are
looking at. Follow the eyes, and pay attention to the total facial expression,
and you may gain some insight into how that man or woman feels about
things. Is he fascinated by the buildings around him? Is she disgusted by the
dogs in the street?
Here is what people's minds are doing when they are thinking or asked to
remember something. This is true for most right handed people (reverse all
this for left-handed people): As you face them, and their eyes go...
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Down and to the left - They are accessing kinesthetic feelings, tastes and
smells.
You can test this on yourself in a mirror. Be aware that people who are more
ambidextrous may be less consistent in how their eye movements relate to
their thoughts.
Read Lips
Some people move their lips when deep in thought, mouthing the words
they are hearing or repeating in their minds. If you train yourself in lip
reading, you can pick up on their thoughts in this way. Undoubtedly many
lip-reading deaf people already do this.
It is even more common for people to move their lips to the words they're
reading. Many of us do this without being aware of it. If you observe people
reading books or newspapers, then, you might catch them doing this and
with practice decipher the movements of their lips to know what they're
reading. What they are reading is likely related to what they are thinking at
that moment (no big surprise there), so if you bring it up in conversation, it
might appear that you have a way into his or her mind - and you do.
There are certain key phrases, or ways of phrasing things that will get the
person you are with to focus on you and what you are saying. Use these
when you have something important to say. Use them just before you make
your point, and the person you are with should pay attention. Here are some
examples:
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"Hey, listen..."
You can notice what little snippets of language grab attention best and add
them to this list. Then just use the most appropriate one when the need
arises. If you are single, try these out in a bar or other social setting where
you interact with strangers. You'll be surprised at how effective these key
phrases can be at grabbing - and holding - attention.
Try to use a persons name as soon as it feels right. If you aren't sure when
it's right, ask him or her. "Is it all right if I call you Sue?"
Use Inflection
Remember from the previous chapter that the meaning in a sentence like "I
think you are the best dancer here," depends on the word you emphasize.
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Match the speed of your speech to that of the person you're talking to. Sit
like he is sitting. Use the same words she is using. This technique is a fast
way to build rapport. Once there is a "bond" built between the two of you,
you can start to lead the conversation and actions where you want them to
go.
Listen
Studies show that men usually form a quick visual impression in less than
20 seconds, and then make another judgment based on appearance and
personality within a couple minutes. Women usually place less immediate
emphasis on appearance, and form an "intuitive" first impression in a couple
minutes. Either way the lesson is clear: work fast.
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Get A Yes
When you end a sentence with a question, the person you are talking to will
often say yes automatically, without thinking about it much. He or she then
feels obligated to stand by the answer. For example, you might say "You'll
let me buy you another drink, right?" and she or he will likely say yes. Of
course, don't overdo this or any particular technique. You'll want to use this
one at the end of the night to set up that first date: "You can meet me for
lunch on Tuesday, can't you?"
Look deeply into the person's eyes, and ignore the people passing by. Let
your eyes wander only slightly, to look at the person's face admiringly, like a
piece of art. Most people like this kind of attention.
Dress Nicely
Dress in a way that isn't too formal or too sloppy. Ideally, you want to be
dressed just a bit better than the others in the room. For example, if the
setting is a bar full of guys in flannel shirts, a man shouldn't come in with a
suit on, but perhaps with a nice sweater. If the women are wearing jeans, a
woman should try slacks or a skirt. The idea here is that if you are over-
dressed you'll make people uncomfortable, yet you still want to stand out
from the crowd a little.
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70 Ways
You want more brainpower, but maybe you want higher IQ scores too. Some
say one's IQ can't be increased. Some psychologists and scientists used to
perpetuate this lie, claiming that a person's intelligence is determined at
birth, or at least fixed in early childhood, and couldn't increase later in life.
Fortunately, the evidence has shown otherwise in recent years, although the
public still seems to hold the old view of intelligence.
How about the myth that the number of neurons in the brain is set by early
childhood, and thereafter can only decline throughout life. True or false?
Absolutely false.
First of all, let's look at the idea that you can't get smarter. Does it even
make any sense when we consider our experience? Aren't there new tricks
we learn that make us able to use our brains more effectively? If we train
ourselves to use these tricks and techniques, we are functionally more
intelligent.
Some claim that although we think and act in better ways, the essential
power of our brain has not changed. That's a game of semantics. More
powerful is more powerful. If you learn how to gear a car engine more
efficiently, and make the car climb hills better and go faster, can you really
argue that it's not more powerful because it has the same engine?
In any case their arguments fall apart when we consider the latest research
into the brain. Contrary to what most scientists used to believe - and many
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laymen still believe - the number of neurons in the brain is not set by early
childhood. The brain continues to produce new neurons throughout our
lives. That is what the science now shows.
Also, like any other test, how well you do on an IQ test is certainly affected
by how much sleep you got, how distracted you are, whether you had your
morning coffee and many other things. In other words, you'll score
differently on different days, and better on the days when you do everything
right. In other words you CAN increase your IQ score.
Now let me ask you a question. What was Henry Fords IQ? Who cares! The
man was one of the most innovative people of the last century, and he did
what he did by surrounding himself with intelligent people. That practice
alone has to be worth more than 20 IQ points in terms of real life results.
Aim for real life results. If you want more creativity, learn creative problem
solving techniques. To concentrate better, learn techniques for that. Speed
reading can double the knowledge you gain in a given time. After you paint
your first Mona Lisa, build your first skyscraper or make your first million,
who cares what your IQ score will be!
Here is a sampling of some of the ways you can increase your brainpower.
1. Breath Deep
More air means more oxygen in the blood and the brain. Breath through
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your nose and you'll notice your diaphragm is used more, drawing air deeper
into your lungs. Several deep breaths can also help to relax you, which is
conducive to clearer thinking.
2. Meditate
A simple meditation you can do right now is just closing your eyes and
paying attention to your breath. Tensing up your muscles and then relaxing
them to start may help. When your mind wanders, bring your attention back
to your breath. Five or ten minutes of this will relax you, clear your mind,
and leave you more ready for any mental task.
3. Sit Up Straight
This supplement has been shown in clinical studies to increase lucidity and
rate of learning. It activates cell-to-cell communication, helps regulate cell
growth, improves the functioning of the special receptors found on cells,
and prepares cells for activity. In other words, it can help your brain power.
It's also thought to reverse memory decline. Phosphatidylserine has no
known adverse side effects.
5.Vinpocetine
This extract, derived from an alkaloid found in the Periwinkle plant, is used
as a cerebral vasodilator. It increases blood flow to the brain, improving its
oxygenation and thereby increasing mental alertness and acuity. Research
suggests it may also be a powerful memory enhancer.
6. Ginkgo Biloba
The leaves of this tree have been proven to increase blood flow to the brain.
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The trees are often planted in parks. My friends and I used to eat a few
leaves when we wanted a brain boost. It is also inexpensive, if you buy the
capsules or tea at any health food store.
This common weed may be growing in your yard. Its brain enhancing
qualities are less documented (studies do show its usefulness for treating
long-term depression), but many people swear by its temporary mood-
elevating effect, and our brains tend to function better when we're happy. It's
inexpensive, but I just collect it where I find it and make tea of the plant
tops. (Botanical name: Hyperacum Perforatum.)
Just use a problem solving technique for several weeks and it will become a
habit. Redesign everything you see for a while, and that will become a habit.
You can develop many good thinking habits with some effort, and then be
more resourceful effortlessly from that point on. Use the power of habit.
Learning a new language has been shown to halt the age-related decline in
brain function. It also introduces your mind to new ways of looking at
things (in English we are afraid, whereas in Spanish we have fear). It is one
of the best brain exercises.
11. Rosemary
This common herb may have an effect on the brain when the scent is
inhaled. We are waiting for the research, but some people swear that just
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Concentration and clear thinking are more or less automatic once you
remove distractions. Learn to stop and watch your busy mind. As you notice
things that are subtly bothering you, deal with them. This might mean
making a phone call you need to make, or putting things on a list so you can
forget them for now. With practice, this becomes easier, and your thinking
becomes more powerful.
13. Write
Writing is good for your mind in many ways. It's a way to tell your memory
what is important, so you'll recall things more easily in the future. It's a way
to clarify thinking. It exercises your creativity and analytical ability. Diaries,
idea-journals, poetry, note-taking and story-writing are all ways to use
writing to boost your brain power.
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These can include wheat, corn, peanuts and dairy products. Watch yourself
to see if you have a problem with any of these. They cause digestive
problems and brain fog in some people.
18. Caffeine
The research shows higher test scores for students who drink coffee before
major exams. My chess game gets better. In other studies, it has been shown
that too much caffeine leads to poorer quality decisions. Caffeine affects
individuals differently, and has some nasty long-term side effects for some
of us, but short-term - it works!
Any simple carbohydrates can give you "brain fog." Sometimes called the
"sugar blues" as well, this sluggish feeling makes it hard to think clearly. It
results from the insulin rushing into the bloodstream to counteract the sugar
rush. Avoid pasta, sugars, white bread and potato chips before any important
mental tasks.
The power of suggestion is real, and one way to use it is with hypnosis
tapes, CD's or downloads. This type of brain "programming" has more
evidence for it than subliminal audios.
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22. Exercise
Long term exercise can boost brainpower, which isn't surprising. Anything
that affects physical health in a positive way probably helps the brain too.
Recent research, though, shows that cognitive function is improved
immediately after just ten minutes of aerobic exercise. If you need a brain
recharge, you might want to walk up and down the stairs a few times.
Talking to and getting advice from characters in your mind can be a great
way to access the information in your subconscious mind. Imagine a
conversation with a person who has a lot of knowledge in the area you want
advice in.
When you decide to learn something, take notes from the start. Leave each
"learning session" with a question or two in mind, to create anticipation and
curiosity. Take short breaks, so there will be more beginnings and endings to
your studies (Things learned at the beginning or ending of a class or session
are remembered better).
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The newest brain wave entrainment products are powerful tools for altering
your brain function. Some will almost immediately relax you, while others
will put your brain waves in a pattern that is most conducive to analytical
thinking.
28. Creatine
29. Talk
Talking is only good for the brain if you are actually exercising it, of course.
Try explaining something that you don't understand very well to a friend,
though, and you'll notice that the process of explaining will help you clarify
your understanding.
This is a way to both lower stress and rev up your brain. The key is to do
something active. Watching TV doesn't count. Whether it is playing
Scrabble or building birdhouses, when you are actively engaged in an
activity that you enjoy, you worry less about things and you start to think
better.
Believe you are smarter, and you'll become smarter. Affirmations may work,
but even better is evidence. Make a note of your successes. Tell yourself,
"Hey, that was really creative," when you do something creative. When you
have a good idea, make a note of it. Gather evidence for your own
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Do math in your mind while driving. Think of a new use for everything you
see. Regular use of the brain has been shown to generate new neuronal
growth, and even halt the decline of mental function that often comes with
age.
This is another way to exercise the brain. It can also be done with little time
investment if you use books-on-tapes while driving.
34. Walk
Exercise has been shown to benefit the brain, and walking is one of the best
exercises for many. It is low impact, and the rhythmic nature of it seems to
put you in a state that is very conducive to clear thinking. In fact, carry a
tape recorder with you to take notes, and a twenty minute walk can be a
great way to solve problems.
Find others that are creative, intelligent, or very productive. Do what they
do, and think what they think. This is a key principle of neuro-linguistic
programming. Be careful about taking their advice, though. Successful
people often don't really understand why they are successful. Do what they
do, not what they say.
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38. Laugh
39. Play
40. Do Puzzles
Crossword puzzles, lateral thinking puzzles, and even good riddles are a
great way to get brain exercise. You can work on them while waiting for a
dentist appointment, or on the bus, if you are short on time.
41. Sing
When you are alone in your car, try singing about something you are
working on. This taps into and exercises your right brain. Have you ever
noticed how it is easier to rhyme when you sing than when you just speak or
write? This is because the right brain is better at pattern recognition. By
doing this brain exercise regularly you can train yourself to tap into the
power of the right brain. This will make you a more effective problem-
solver. If you doubt the distinction between the hemispheres of the brain,
look at how stutterers can stop stuttering as soon as they start singing. Try it.
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42. Nuts
University students in Brazil and other South American countries often eat
several Brazil nuts before an exam, believing they are good for their mental
power. The evidence is starting to confirm this. Other nuts that have
minerals and amino acids that are beneficial to the brain include almonds
and walnuts.
High in mono-unsaturated fat, olive oil has been shown to improve memory.
A cheaper alternative is canola oil, but this hasn't been studied much yet.
45. Fiber
It isn't just what goes in, but what comes out that is important to brain
function. Toxic build-up in the body and brain can cause "brain fog." People
often report clearer thinking as one of the benefits of curing their
constipation.
This may not seem important to brain power, but it is. When you know
yourself better, you can avoid the usual effects of ego and emotion in your
seemingly "rational" thinking. Or you can at least take it into account.
Watch yourself, especially as you explain things or argue.
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Scientists have known for a while that the less educated get Alzheimer's
more frequently. Education in any area seems to make the brain stronger.
There is evidence that the following foods can be bad for your brain:
Artificial food colorings, artificial sweeteners, colas, corn syrup, frostings,
high-sugar drinks, hydrogenated fats, sugars, white bread, and any white-
flour products.
When kids who didn't eat breakfast started to eat it, researchers found that
their math scores went up a whole grade on average.
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Antioxidants protect all your cells, including brain cells. Some of the foods
highest in antioxidants include: prunes, raisins, blueberries, blackberries,
garlic, kale, cranberries, strawberries, spinach, and raspberries. In one test,
rats had age-related mental decline reversed by eating the equivalent of a
1/2 cup of blueberries per day.
In moderation, red wine can be good for the brain, it seems. It is rich in
antioxidants, which protect brain cells. One glass per day for women and
two for men is usually considered a safe and moderate amount.
According to one study, 200 micrograms of folic acid, the amount found in
3/4 cup of cooked spinach, alleviates depression and reverses memory loss.
Other foods that may be good for your brain include: Avocados, bananas,
lean beef, brewer's yeast. broccoli, brown rice, Brussels sprouts, cantaloupe,
cheese, chicken, collard greens, eggs, flaxseed oil, legumes, oatmeal,
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60. Vitamin E
Jean Carper, in researching her book, "Your Miracle Brain," found that
many brain researchers are taking 400 I.U.s of vitamin E daily and are very
convinced of its beneficial effect. It's an antioxidant, and reduces the
clogging of blood vessels, including those going in the brain. Take the
supplements which say, "mixed tocopherols."
61. Vitamin C
62. Selenium
64. Inositol
This is a safe and natural substance that is often grouped with the B-
vitamins. It reduces stress and promotes clear thinking. It contributes to
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energy production, and so can "wake you up." Animal studies show a
measurable increase in physical activity for up to five hours after taking it.
65. Huperzine A
This is a compound extracted from the Chinese club moss. Researchers both
in Israel and the U.S. have used it to treat Alzheimer's. It improves memory
and learning an seems to be very safe.
This is a great way to keep your brain in shape. Just get in the habit of
asking questions often, even if it is only in your own mind. Why are taller
buildings better? what is the purpose of curbs? Ask anything that comes to
mind, and ponder the possible answers.
This another of the herbs that may be good for your brain. No studies yet,
but many report a brain boost from smelling basil, and it seems safe to try it.
68. Temperature
Many people have noted that they think better at certain temperatures. In
general, it seems that being slightly cool, but not uncomfortable, is most
conducive to good thinking. Try experimenting on yourself to see what
temperature works best for you.
From the time I was ten years old, 12 x 49 was always (12 x 50) - 12. It's
easier to figure in your head this way (588, by the way). I didn't get any
credit for my personal algorithms then, but they are selling these shortcuts
on late-night TV now, because they work. You can find your own easier
ways to do mental math or other mental tasks, or read a good book on them.
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many psychologists will tell you. This means that when you create your plan
for better brainpower, be sure you plan to use that new problem solving
technique, or eat those new brain foods for at least three weeks. You can use
many of the brain boosters here and get immediate results, but it is creating
new habits that will give you the most brainpower.
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Note: The following was written a few years ago, but is still relevant today, and the list of
sources has been updated.
One example:
Do you remember years ago when president Bush was announcing the war
in Iraq and he said "The British government has learned that Saddam
Hussein recently sought significant quantities of uranium from Africa." He
knew when he said it that it was bad information. In fact, the document that
was used to support the British claim was signed by an African official that
hadn't even been in office for years. It was an obvious fake.
How do I know this? Well, it was reported on the CBS Evening News on
July 10, 2003. This, of course was long after the war had started, and it was
given little time because the public didn't care at that point. CBS said:
However, I didn't learn the news from CBS. I knew the true story a week
after Bush made the statement - several months before the CBS report.
How? By reading alternative newspapers and newsletters.
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Why wasn't it on the major news outlets sooner? It is difficult to say with
any certainty. I don't believe there are as many true conspiracies to hide the
truth as there are "conspiracies of interests." In other words, it is in the
interest of CNN and FOX to present entertaining and dramatic news, and
their subsequent ignoring of other important news happens to help those
who want things left unexplored and unreported.
Whatever the reasons (and yes, there are undoubtedly some conspiracies out
there), there is much that doesn't make it to the evening news. In 1984 I read
about how hydrogenated oils, which are still used to make margarine, and
still in most packaged foods, were used to cause heart disease in mice in the
1960's. Scientists did this so they could study the disease, but failed to tell
the public that the same oils were causing heart disease in humans.
Over ten years after I learned of this, the networks finally reported the
evidence that margarine was perhaps worse for your health than butter. Even
then, they left out the gruesome truth about the experiments with the mice.
The first time I was in Ecuador, I was pleasantly surprised by the quality of
the news on CNN (the Cable News Network). It wasn't the same broadcast I
watched at home though. CNN International, in case you didn't know, is the
CNN that the rest of the world sees, and it has a lot more news from
everywhere. It is also more balanced news, in my opinion. The executives
know that most Americans won't tolerate "in-depth" and "foreign" news, so
they entertain us with the dumbed-down version.
When Saddam's statue was being pulled down in Bhagdad, and the scene
was playing over and over here on CNN all day, viewers of CNN
International were seeing something else. They were getting more complete
coverage of everything going on both in Iraq, and around the world. They
saw the statue come down, but they also saw news and scenes from around
the country, including hundreds of dead children and civilians killed by
American bombs, something that was never shown on U.S. networks.
Again, this isn't a matter of politics. Whether or not you agreed with the war,
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News programs have found a cheaper way to get news, but they don't talk
about it, because they want you to believe they are still "objective" (not that
they ever were or could be). The unfortunate result is that corporate
promotions and government messages are replacing real news.
VNRs, or Video News Releases, are now used several times per month by
about 80% of U.S. news directors according to one Nielsen Media Research
Survey. All the major television networks now use them. They will likely
become even more common as the costs of producing real news gets more
expensive (the number of foreign correspondents has already declined by
more than 50% in the last twenty years for the same reason).
What are Video News Releases? They are "planted" stories that large
companies and governments create and distribute. The networks love these
because they are free and provide interesting content. The government, for
example, puts together a "news story" on the rebuilding of schools in Iraq,
and gives it to the networks to use.
For an example of how these are made and distributed, I just went to the
web site for TVA Productions. They offer their "MediaBlitz" (registered
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Understand that they are not an advertising broker. They produce ads, but
then get them run as though they are news, so that a government or
corporate message can "Receive thousands of media placements on TV,
Airlines, Newspapers, Magazines, Radio and the Internet ... for 10% the
costs of traditional advertising."
One more quote from their Q & A page: "we also can also create or
repurpose your ads into AP style News Features for over 20,000 TV, Radio
and Print media outlets."
Much of the VNRs out there are harmless fluff. However, some of them can
alter the public perception and politics of an issue with "facts" that are
selective or just not true. In addition, they all take the place of what could be
real news.
It is as easy as being willing to look. You can just type "alternative news"
into the Google search engine, and in minutes you can find sources that will
leave you far better informed than all-day cable-news watchers. Below
you'll find a list of some places to check out, so you won't even have to
search on your own. A warning is in order though:
The networks try to hide that fact, but it is as inevitable as humans having
opinions. In fact, if CNN were an arm of the Democratic party, and FOX
News was the propaganda arm of the Republican party, it's hard to imagine
what they would do differently. This is just a result of the perspectives of the
key players in these companies.
Will their own political beliefs make them lie? Not likely, but their bias will
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determine what news reporters and editors consider worth covering. The
choices as to what is important enough to report then affects the attitudes of
the public.
This is even more true with the alternative press. The big news sources are
as much a reflection of public opinion as a creator of it, while the smaller
outfits usually come from a very definite political persuasion. This affects
the content of their news greatly.
For example, the more right-wing sources reported that private individuals
were having their legal weapons confiscated by the authorities in New
Orleans after hurricane Katrina. This left many defenseless against looters,
and may have been unconstitutional as well. They also reported that after
hurricane Andrew, the police in Florida acknowledged that patrols of private
citizen with legal guns kept things safer.
Look, they have their viewpoints, and the stories they choose to report will
often reflect those. In fact, some of the more radical newsletters will even
weave the facts into an implied conspiracy. So what?! We can see where
their politics are, and at least they aren't as hidden as those of the big
players.
The alternative sources of news regularly report many, many facts that don't
make it to the network news.
Whatever their purpose in reporting these facts, they do their research like
others, and whatever the "slant" of the stories, the facts themselves are
usually correct. You can read the right and the left and the rest, ignore the
political slant, and have better information with which to make up your own
mind.
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Don't let the fact that they are trying to sell you something turn you off.
Even CNN is out for a buck, remember. There are some good newsletters
out there, offered both by "snail mail" and now by e-mail. You can read the
freebies, and when you see their "inside" information show up on the
network news a few months later, you have some indication that they really
do know what they are talking about.
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(This information is not medical advice. Talk to your doctor on any matter relating to
your health and well-being. Those who fail to consult appropriate health professionals
assume the risk of any injuries.)
If you read the last chapter, you can see how important health news can take
years to make it to the mainstream press. Alternative treatments and
medicines most often show up on the networks when they are connected to a
death. One such case was the FDA ban of L-tryptophan, an amino acid
nutritional supplement, on March 22, 1990.
The Ban continues today. The FDA stated that L-tryptophan (commonly just
called "tryptophan") caused a rare and deadly flu-like condition
(Eosinophilia-Myalgia Syndrome - EMS). It seems that it actually was from
contaminated tryptophan, most of which was traced back to one supplier.
There was no indication that tryptophan itself is dangerous, just that one
batch was.
Then, on March 26, 1990, Newsweek's lead article praised the virtues of the
anti-depressant drug Prozac, with a colorful photo of the pill and the
headline: "Prozac: A Breakthrough Drug for Depression."
The FDA ban and the Newsweek story occurred within four days of each
other. This went unnoticed by the mainstream media and the public, but to
those who understand the properties of tryptophan and Prozac, this seems
more than coincidental. Tryptophan has the anti-depressant benefits of
Prozac, without the side effects. Prozac, a much more expensive anti-
depressant, was left without its most serious, safer and cheaper competition,
and of course soon became a very profitable drug.
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(If you want to read more about this, just type in "tryptophan+prozac" in any
search engine.)
Conspiracy?
This is one of those areas where there may be some conspiracies between
government officials and the pharmaceutical corporations. The easy
movement of top people between the boardrooms of drug companies and
positions in the FDA and other agencies is more than a little suspicious.
More often than not, though, there is just a conspiracy-of-common-interest
that prevents safe alternatives from coming to market.
For example, drug companies don't want the competition of safe alternatives
to their drugs. Meanwhile, it is politically safer for the FDA to not allow an
unproven alternative product to be marketed, because if they approve
something and it causes any problems, they get the blame. This is a
convenient coinciding of interests.
Also, natural products, like silymarin (Milk Thistle Extract), which is used
all over Europe to treat poisonings and to protect the liver, are legal here,
but not as well known as advertised drugs (fortunately there is a growing
public awareness of some of these natural alternatives). This is because, as a
natural product, there is no way to patent it. Without being able to exclude
others from selling it, no company can afford to spend the millions it would
take to get it approved as a medicine here, nor do many who sell it want to
even advertise it.
In other words, if you want to know about all the alternative medicines and
medical treatments, you have to look outside the mainstream for your
information. Below, I'll introduce you to a small sampling of alternative
remedies. More importantly, you'll find a list of sources for more
information.
As for how to know if a remedy really works, I'll tell you my own approach.
I like to see that there is actually some real research that demonstrates a
benefit. Anecdotal evidence doesn't mean much. Sick people get better all
the time, and then give credit to whatever they happened to be using at the
time. A study or two showing some real benefit then, is a good place to start.
You can often find these reported in online medical journals.
My Own Stories
There are several types of cancer that start in the skin. The most common
are basal cell cancer and squamous cell cancer... most common in places
that have been exposed to more sunlight, such as your face, neck, hands,
and arms... The most common sign of skin cancer is a change on the skin,
such as a growth or a sore that won't heal. Sometime there may be a small
lump. This lump can be smooth, shiny and waxy looking... (etc.)
Mine was on the side of my nose, a lump growing slowly, bleeding at times.
I had it for years, and the one time I asked a doctor about it, he wasn't sure if
it was actually cancerous. Then I read report in Doctor David Williams's
"Alternatives" health newsletter.
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Devil's Apple
The cream was not available in this country, unfortunately, and the British
source was temporarily shut down when I tried to contact them.
Unfortunately, there really is an effort at times to prevent access to natural
remedies. This may have been one of those cases.
Then I read somewhere that tee tree oil might work. I bought a bottle at a
health-food store for $6. I applied a drop to the lump each day, and in less
than six weeks, the lump was gone completely.
Coincidence? After having the growth for years? I don't think so. In fact, I
had another growth years later on my neck, and because I had forgotten
what I used on the first one, I lived with this one for years as well. Then I
discovered my old notes and I used tea tree oil on that growth. It was even
larger than the first one - but it too was gone in about six weeks.
Oak
Many years ago, when backpacking in Mexico, I had diarrhea. I use tea
made of Oak twigs to cure it quickly. The tannin in Oak may be hard on
your liver, by the way, so be careful with this one.
Jewelweed
One summer, a friend had a nasty poison ivy rash on her arm. Remembering
my medicinal plant studies, I applied the juice from a Jewelweed plant
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When hiking in Canada, I cut my foot. The gash was deep. I found St. John's
Wort (Hypericum perfolatum), which has been proven to have anti-bacterial,
anti-viral and anti-fungal properties. I mashed up a few leaves and bandaged
them to the cut, replacing them occasionally. I have honestly never seen a
cut heal faster.
Willow
I have used Willow for pain relief when hiking. Willow contains a
compound that is very similar to aspirin. I either make tea of the bark from
the twigs, or I eat a few leaf buds.
Here are a few remedies you probably won't hear about from your doctor.
They are ones that were recently (2008) reported on in Alternatives, and
other health newsletters. The website addresses for several of them can be
found later in this chapter.
The sting from various insects and the irritation from plants can be either
because of acidic or alkaline venom or juice. Which it is determines the best
treatment.
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The venom from ants and bees, as well as the juice from stinging nettles, is
acidic. Pain relief for these is usually accomplished by applying alkaline
substances. Baking soda, for example, works well. Just apply a paste of it
made with water. Soap is also generally alkaline enough to provide relief.
Wasp venom is alkaline, so apply something acidic for relief. Vinegar is one
good possibility. Doctor Williams, in his newsletter Alternatives, suggests
that on a picnic, pickle juice could be used as well.
After a few weeks, I noticed that I no longer lost my vision when standing
up quickly (a common sign of low blood pressure). Later, I also discovered
that my pulse was now down to 48 beats-per-minute. In fact, the effects
persisted for a couple years after I stopped the supplements. I also had no
negative side effects while taking the capsules.
I'm not a doctor, and not recommending this. It isn't clear if the lecithin and
cayenne cleaned out my arteries or just one or the other caused the effects.
Also, it seems that cleaning them out would help with high blood pressure,
and yet my problem was the opposite. Perhaps someone who has medical
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and/or nutritional training can eventually tell me what the likely explanation
is. In any case, I bring it up to show that there are natural remedies which
can be powerful and cheap and apparently safe (but talk to a doctor).
Here's one I read about years ago, and just saw an article about again.
Apparently our cells are charged negatively or positively, and an imbalance
of charges (generally too much of a positive charge) can lead to or
contribute to back and joint pain as well as headaches. According to some
doctors, electrostatic electricity can restore the balance and relieve the pain.
Here's how you can make and use your own electrostatic pain-relief device.
Buy a piece of one-and-a-half-inch PVC pipe (Home depot has it), and cut
off a piece about 25 inches long. Using a piece of fake fur or other fuzzy
material (polyester may be best), rub back and forth along the section of
pipe while holding it in your other hand.
Now pass the charged pipe over the area of pain, about an inch or less over
the skin. After a few passes, recharge it by rubbing it again, and repeat the
treatment until you feel relief. It is said that this will be anytime from a few
minutes to fifteen minutes later. I haven't tried this one yet, but I will (and I
can't imagine that waving a plastic pipe over my body is dangerous).
Gas
Betain hydrochlroride tablets may help if the above isn't enough. These are
available at health food stores. It is recommended that you take these after
your meal, so that you allow and encourage as much natural production of
hydrochloric acid as possible.
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Other remedies for intestinal gas include eating smaller meals, chewing
more thoroughly, and not mixing fruits and vegetables in the same meal.
Canker Sores
You can find this in the form of tablets online and in some health food
stores. To make your own mouthwash, crush about 200 milligrams up and
mix it into four ounces of warm water. Swish your mouth with the mix four
times daily, and don't eat or drink for a few minutes afterwards.
All of these herbs have proven benefits, but being natural doesn't make them
entirely harmless. Unfortunately, there is a double-standard in judging risks.
If a natural or alternative medical or health remedy ever causes any trouble,
it's big news, while "standard" treatments can kill hundreds without being
deemed too risky. In any case, when your doctor prescribes drugs for you,
ask about interactions with any herbs or supplements you're using.
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The Food And Drug Administration claims in its mission statement, "The
FDA is responsible for advancing the public health by helping to speed
innovations a that make medicines and foods more effective, safer, and more
affordable; and helping the public get the accurate, science-based
information they need to use medicines and foods to improve their health."
Is this what they do? Or does the cozy relationship between the drug
industry and the FDA cloud their judgment? Consider the following two
facts.
Doctor David Graham, associate director for science at the FDA's Office of
Drug Safety, testified before congress in November of 2004. He said that
Vioxx has caused 88,000 to 139,000 cases of heart attack and stroke. He
also said that the FDA intentionally covered up information about the
deadly side effects of Vioxx. So much for helping disseminate good
information about a dangerous drug. But what about information regarding
healthy foods?
On October 17, 2005, the FDA sent warning letters to companies marketing
cherry products. Many cherry growers were letting consumers know (on
their web sites) about the scientific evidence for the health benefits of
cherries. However, according to the FDA, by revealing this information,
these companies were marketing cherries as a drug. As unapproved drugs,
the cherries could be seized, and those who distributed the information
could be sent to jail.
The evidence for the health benefits of cherries was not in question. It just
wasn't legal for the cherry growers to tell people about it. The FDA is
essentially censoring scientific information - at least for cherry growers,
natural food sellers, and anyone not part of the drug industry. No small
grower can spend millions to get cherries "approved" as a drug, particularly
since they cannot patent a cherry and exclude others from profiting off their
approval process.
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Again from the FDA's mission statement: "...helping the public get the
accurate, science-based information they need to use medicines and foods to
improve their health." Yeah, right.
Oh, and by the way, here are some of the health benefits of cherries,
according to the latest research: Tart cherries have chemicals that relieve
pain, and which are potentially much stronger than aspirin and ibuprofen;
Substances in cherries may kill cancer cells and help prevent cancer;
Cherries seem to relieve arthritis pain; Cherries contain high levels of
melatonin, which helps with quality sleep and boosts the immune system.
Cherries are also fat free and have a low glycemic index, the latter making
them a great sweet treat for diabetics.
The primary difference between the new drug and plain fish oil is price. A
month of fish oil supplementation costs about $20, while a month of Lovaza
costs about $200. What's worse is that your doctor probably has to prescribe
Lovasa if you want your insurance to cover it, since fish oil is not an FDA-
approved drug.
It gets worse. The FDA has allowed Reliant Pharmaceuticals (now owned
by GlaxoSmithCline) to market Lovasa with this statement:
"Dietary supplements are not substitutes for Lovasa. Every other Omega-3
product is a dietary supplement, which means it is not approved for the
treatment of any specific disease or medical condition, like very high
triglycerides."
Notice that they don't say supplements don't work, just that they are not
approved (and never can be for the reasons given earlier). Yet they are
allowed to imply that only FDA-approved fish oil products work for
lowering triglycerides. It verges on fraud, and obfuscates the truth. A seller
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of fish oil, despite the evidence, would go to jail or at least pay heavy fines
if he tried to make similar claims.
Again from the FDA's mission statement: "...helping the public get the
accurate, science-based information they need to use medicines and foods to
improve their health." Yeah, right.
Research shows that eating less cholesterol won't necessarily help your
heart at all, because dietary sources just don't do much to blood levels. If
you eat less, your liver produces more. If you eat more, your liver produces
less. Your body needs cholesterol, and your liver works to maintain a
consistent level. While some high-cholesterol foods are unhealthy for other
reasons, this suggests that we can stop worrying so much about the
cholesterol in the things we eat.
High blood levels of cholesterol can be a problem, but the statin drugs used
to treat this have their own issues. In particular, they deplete the heart of
Coenzyme Q10 (CoQ10), a crucial nutrient. Research has shown that all
statin drugs create deficiencies which can lead to heart failure. Many
doctors are not aware of this, and Doctor Williams says you should be
taking CoQ10 supplements if you are on these medications.
recommend back surgery for this lower back pain that typically radiates
down the leg. In fact up to 300,000 people each year have the surgery in the
United States. Does it help? Yes and no.
The study found that the only real difference was that those who had the
surgery got relief from the pain sooner. After two years, there was no
difference at all between those who had surgery and those who didn't.
Sciatica typically resolves itself over time.
Furthermore, of those who delayed or never had surgery, not one had any
serious complications. A tear in the membrane covering the spinal cord, and
other complications, affected around 4% of those who had surgery. Damage
to their financial situation from the expensive surgery may have affected
many as well, but this wasn't part of the study.
Should you have surgery for sciatica? Maybe. If it is affecting your body in
other ways (loss of bladder control, for example), or if the pain is severe
enough that you don't want to wait (or can't due to work-related issues), it
may be a good choice. But if the pain is tolerable, it seems safest to wait for
it to resolve itself. Talk to a doctor - but not the one who will get paid for
the surgery. There are some non-surgical treatments too.
Like many in their forties, I had gum disease. I had been seeing blood when
I brushed my teeth for ten years or more. In 2007, I asked the dentist about
it, and he said it wasn't too serious and there wasn't much to do about it in
any case. There were no treatments that were very effective, he said.
Later that year we were in South America and I had a bout with Typhoid
(possibly - they never were sure about what got me) .I spent two days in the
hospital. Along with other drugs, I was given metronidazole (Flagyl), an
antibiotic. Weeks later, at home, I realized that I was no longer seeing blood
when brushing my teeth. I watched for a couple months to see if it would
come back. It didn't.
After ten years or more of bleeding gums, there was no more blood!
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Researching this possible cure on the internet, I found that there have been
studies done using metronidazole to resolve gum disease, with some
success. The usual dose was 500 milligrams twice daily for two weeks (I
probably had massive doses during those two days). If you have gum
disease, you may want to ask your dentist about this.
The Institute of Medicine recently reported that in the U.S. 1.5 million
patients are harmed each year because a hospital gave them the wrong
drugs. When in the hospital, check that medicine (or have a family member
do so) to be sure it is the one prescribed, and isn't one you are allergic to.
According to the Centers for Disease Control, almost two million people per
year in the U.S. get sick from hospital-related infections, and 90,000 die. To
avoid this, make sure that anyone who touches you washes their hands.
Also, since many infections come from tubes and catheters, ask again each
day if they are still necessary.
Often you can go for hours or days without being seen by an experienced
doctor. A first-year resident may be fine if your illness is simple and not
deadly, but if you are not sure about something (new doctors are more likely
to misdiagnose things, for example), try to get another doctor to see you. If
employees resist, ask to see a nurse supervisor. This is usually the highest
ranking staff member who is quickly available.
The quality of various hospitals can vary widely. For example, twice as
many people per thousand may die from a given surgery at one versus
another. For a specific operation, find the hospital with the longest track
record which does the most of that type of surgery, and with the best
survival rate. Be wary of those which won't answer these questions. Other
things to look for" A high nurse-to-patient ratio. You can also find
information comparing hospitals to national averages on web sites like
www.hospitalcompare.hhs.gov.
large proportion of the staff are new to their jobs. The result? According to
the National Bureau of Economic Research, the mortality rate rises an
average of 4% in July and August. Try to avoid going to the hospital during
this time of the year.
Doctors in U.S. hospitals are typically overworked, and the evidence shows
that this affects performance. Their hours tend to get longer at the end of the
week as their schedules back up. Try to schedule surgery early in the day
and early in the week to increase the odds that you get the doctors at their
best.
Hospitals and other health care providers make mistakes not only in care,
but in the paperwork. They don't always like to give you your records, but
you have a right to see them and have copies made to take with you. Get
copies and check them for errors. Mistakes not only can jeopardize future
care, but can cause insurance eligibility problems.
If your health insurance company has denied a claim or part of a claim that
you think is valid, don't give up. There is still a chance you can get them to
pay.
First, it has long been suspected that some insurance companies have an
unadvertised policy of routinely denying certain types of claims unless their
decision is challenged. If true, the reason is obvious: many people will
accept their decision without complaint, saving the company some money.
In these cases, almost any protest on your part may get your medical bills
paid (assuming you have a reasonable claim).
Here are some things you can do to get the insurance company to pay up.
* Read your policy handbook and materials, and note any exclusions
relevant to your denied claim. Does the exclusion fit your case well? Is there
anything about your claim that makes the exclusion not applicable?
* Gather up all denial notices, hospital bills and other relevant papers. Then
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call the insurance company. Let them know that you think your claim should
be paid, and explain why. Take notes and record the time and date of the
call, as well as the name of the person you talked to. Ask for a decision.
* If you are told your case will be investigated, ask by whom, and by what
date a decision will be made. Call back on that date.
* If at any pint you read or hear that the claim was denied for a lack of
information, go to your doctor or hospital and ask them which documents
were sent to the insurance company. See if they have other documents that
will help your case.
* Present your case in writing. Call first, and ask who has the authority to
resolve the problem in your favor. Send your letter to that person.
* Demand that the company give you a full explanation of why the claim
was denied - in writing. You may be able to use this later if they try to
change the reasons.
* Be persistent above all. Let everyone you contact know that you expect
either to have the claim paid or to have a complete written explanation of
why it was denied.
* If you are sure it should be paid, and you are willing to sue, start dropping
hints to that effect. If it may be an interesting case, you could call the press
as well, or at least suggest that possibility to the insurance company. Filing
complaints with regulatory agencies is another action to both take and
threaten to take.
* At some point do more than hint at trouble for the company. Tell them that
unless the matter is resolved within tow weeks, you'll be filing complaints
and starting a lawsuit (if you are ready to actually do this).
* Filing a lawsuit may be the thing that gets you to a resolution. Insurance
companies do not like the cost or negative publicity of a lawsuit, and may
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As a young man, I once had a hospital bill paid even though the claim was
filed well past the usual one-year deadline. I had paid the thousands of
dollars owed to the hospital before my father discovered that a couple years
earlier the insurance company had forgotten to remove me from his policy
when I turned eighteen. Since he didn't know I was on the policy, but
premiums had been paid, he argued that the claim should be paid even
though filed late. They paid it, but here's the important point: It took several
calls, letters and steps from the above list to get it paid.
Medical Tourism
Fly to India, for example, and you can have knee replacement surgery done
to the same standards as in the United States. The difference is that it will
cost $4,500 instead of the $16,000 you would pay here. Heart surgeries can
be as much as 90% cheaper.
The reasons it can be so much less overseas include less bureaucratic red
tape, lower construction costs, and lower costs for doctors and nurses. In
fact, many top doctors that are trained here in the United States are now
returning to their home countries. They may be paid less, but that money
goes farther there as well (unlike in California, a nice home in other parts of
the world doesn't cost $600,000).
There are already over 100 of these foreign hospitals that cater to "medical
tourists." They generally follow the best U.S. practices. If you consider this
option, ask if the hospital is accredited by Joint Commission International, a
subsidiary of Joint Commission, which accredits U.S. hospitals. The process
is considered as rigorous as in the United States.
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Cheaper Medicine
Drugs in larger doses are often cheaper per milligram. If they come in tablet
form, you can buy a pill-splitter at the pharmacy for a few dollars and cut
them in half to get the dose you need. For example, suppose you take 500
milligrams daily of some medicine, which costs you $22 for 30 tablets. If
the 1,000 milligram bottle of 30 tablets costs $32, have the doctor prescribe
that, and then split them. You'll save $6 per month, or $72 per year.
Drug prices can vary by as much as 25% in the same town. To see where
they are cheapest, you can call several pharmacies and ask the price. Try this
in the afternoon, when pharmacists are less busy.
You probably know that generic drugs are cheaper and usually just as
effective. But how do you know if there is a generic version available? You
can view a list of all drugs and their generic versions approved by the FDA
at: www.fda.gov/cder/ob/default.htm.
Also, in the United States it is the law that hospitals have to provide an
itemized bill daily if you request it. Ask them to bring one straight to your
bed each day. Question every item that isn't clear. A "mucus recovery
system" that costs $12 may be a simple dollar box of tissues, and if you
push the point, they should reduce the cost.
Ask about the daily charge. usually you are charged for a full day the first
day of your stay, regardless of when you checked in. But you generally are
not charged for the last day, unless you are there past a certain time (noon is
common). Hospitals may charge you anyhow, and will often remove the
charge if you ask. Also, ask to be discharged in the morning. If you can't
because of a doctor's schedule, complain that the delay is not your fault, so
you shouldn't pay for it.
Bring your own medicines as well. The hospital may charge you $5 every
time they give you a Tylenol, but you can bring your own to avoid this.
Check your anesthesia records to see how long your operation lasted.
Compare this to the time you were charged for the surgery. Hospitals often
charge for the time spent in the operating room ($20 to $90 per minute), so
watch for any overcharges.
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The following are some home remedies many people swear by. They're not
all scientifically proven, but seem safe to try (check with your doctor).
Arthritis
Staying evenly warm while in bed seems to help many who suffer from
arthritis. A sleeping bag may be the best way to accomplish this, since it
traps the heated air around you. It is also safer than either a heating pad or
an electric blanket.
Athlete's Foot
Crush six garlic cloves, and let them sit for a few minutes to allow the
compound allicin to form. Then mix them into hot water and let it steep for
thirty minutes. Now soak your feet in the warm solution for twenty minutes.
Bad Breath
Raw sunflower seeds are not only good for you, but they definitely can
diminish bad breath, at least temporarily. The roasted ones will cause bad
breath, by the way. Sunflower seed oil along with parsley is used in some
commercial bad breath remedies.
Bladder Infection
Colds
and antifungal. However, allicin forms when the raw garlic is crushed or
bruised or cut. After cutting (or crushing) the garlic, let it sit for a minute or
two before adding it to soups or other foods. Add it to chicken soup for best
results in fighting colds.
Eyesight
British pilots considered bilberry jam to be their "secret weapon" for night
flights during World War Two. Bilberry has since been proven to increase
blood flow to the capillaries of the eyes, and is being used to treat some eye
conditions. You can get capsules in health-food stores. You can also eat
blueberries, although this close relative hasn't been proven to have the same
effect (yet).
Flu
Miso soup has enzymes that may help in fighting viruses. You can find the
miso paste in heath food stores. Make the soup with garlic, cayenne, and
some fresh or frozen vegetables for best results. Tea made from the yarrow
plant may help alleviate symptoms.
Gas
Gout
Bing cherries (1/2 cup per day) provide relief for many people. Cherry juice
works if cherries are not available, as does three tablespoons daily of cherry
juice concentrate. Strawberries may help too, because they prevent the
buildup of uric acid, which is what causes gout.
Indigestion
Slice several coin-sized pieces of fresh ginger root and pour a cup of boiling
water over them. Let this steep for ten minutes or so. Drink this after a
greasy or gas-causing meal, and it will aid digestion as well as reduce the
gas.
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Insomnia
Menstruation Pain
Migraine Headache
Muscle Pain
Myself and many athletes have used DMSO for years. This by-product of
the paper industry does wonders for sore muscles, and has other uses too.
Powerful stuff. You will often have a garlicky taste in your mouth twenty
seconds after rubbing DMSO on your back. It penetrates and gets into your
system that fast.
Sore Throat
Mix apple cider vinegar (a tablespoon) in a cup of warm water. Gargle with
this, spitting most of it out. Then drink a bit as well. Repeat this process
several times over three hours.
This is just a quick sampling to let you know that there is a lot more out
there than your doctor may be aware of. There are plants that are proven to
lower bad cholesterol, simple techniques for boosting your immune system,
natural ways to boost bone density and prevent osteoporosis, many natural
ways to stop diabetes and much more. (But talk to your doctor first.)
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Below you'll find some of the sources for alternative views, news and
information on health-related issues. When you hear about some new
treatment for a medical condition, you can also use a search engine to get
more information. When you do this, try to find a site that reports on actual
research, and refers you to the original source of the published studies.
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Other Sources
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Seriously, for several reasons, many (okay, maybe not all) politicians find it
necessary to be less than truthful and to manipulate public opinion. Here are
some of the ways in which they do it. I hope you'll use this information to
better analyze what you hear, and not as a guide to becoming a politician.
The classic joke, "Have you stopped beating your wife?" is difficult to
answer without incriminating yourself, isn't it? This is a humorous use of
what is called an "implicit premise." To answer yes or no is to accept the
premise - in this case that you beat your wife.
Politicians, of course, use this technique of the implicit premise for more
than jokes. For example, if they can get everyone to argue about how to do
something, nobody questions if it should even be done. How should we
fight the "war on terrorism?" To engage in this debate, framed in this way, is
to ignore the possibility that it isn't a war, but an attempt to stop a bunch of
sometimes unrelated crimes and criminals.
The premise of "war" implies it is something that can be "won" too. Stop
terrorism? Is that realistic? Do you think if we declare a "war" on robbery
we can be rid of all theft forever?
"War" implies that this is the major threat to all Americans. It makes it easy
to forget that in an average year 100 times more Americans are killed by
common murderers than by terrorists. Even in 2001 it was five times as
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many. Is it possible that a tenth of the money spent on this "war," if spent on
law enforcement, might result in far more lives saved?
I seriously don't have an answer, by the way. I just use this as an example to
show that many questions and possible solutions aren't discussed because
politicians and the press manipulate the context of all public discussion.
Implicit premises are a powerful method of control. Get in the habit of
recognizing the premises hidden in political debate.
One more example. I got a call from an automated political survey system
the other day. The first question was "Do you consider yourself a
Republican or a Democrat?" Is that a rigged question? Is that an honest
survey? Do you know how many political parties get tens of thousands of
votes in this country in each time there is a national election? More than
two.
This premise that we only have two important parties is firmly established
in our media. In 1980, for example, Libertarians, Independents (like John
Anderson) and others got over 7 million votes, or 9% of all votes. Yet I saw
at least one network claim that Reagan got 55% of the vote, and Carter 45%.
Notice that adds up to 100%? What happened to the other votes?
Reagan had 50% of the votes, and Carter 41%, by the way. They could at
least be honest and say "Of the votes that we consider important, Reagan
got 55%, and Carter got 45% ." But this wasn't a conspiracy. This was some
poor reporter adding up only the votes for the two major parties and
dividing to get his percentages. That he would forget the other votes is
indicative of how powerful an implied premise can be.
Another way to politically manipulate the public is to control the labels used
in discussion. Social security payments don't come from actual investments,
unless you call the government lending itself money "investing." We would
call it stupid if a man thought he was investing by loaning himself all the
money from a 401K or other retirement account to pay for his lifestyle.
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"retirement fund." However, calling it that makes it seem safer and more
acceptable than what it is: welfare. What else do you call it when you take
money from current workers taxes to pay for someone else's benefits?
(Some will argue that it was promised, but if we promised people food
stamps for paying their taxes, that wouldn't make them into something other
than welfare.) Without arguing right or wrong, can you see how the words
used control the debate?
Do you think that politicians might have more than logical debate in mind
when they choose between using the term "illegal aliens" or "undocumented
workers?" If you want to get more funding for a program to help homeless
people, do you call them "people without their own housing?" No, you use
"homeless," because home and homeless have the connotations you want,
even if many legal definitions of the term "homeless " include people safe
and warm and living in a friend's house.
Words matter greatly. "Daisy cutters" are certainly more acceptable to the
public than the more accurate, "human shredder bombs," right? Control the
labels, the words, and you control the debate.
Start noticing how words are used to influence you. When listening to
anything that politicians are saying, ask yourself what hidden premises are
there, and what other words could be used instead. How do you feel about
the issue when you use other words, or other premises?
Outright Lies
Or was it closed? Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld: "I went down (to
the OSI) that next day and said fine, if you want to savage this thing fine I'll
give you the corpse. There's the name. You can have the name, but I'm
gonna keep doing every single thing that needs to be done and I have."
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He was clearly saying that the U.S. Government would just continue the
practice without the OSI. Retired U.S. Air Force Colonel Sam Gardiner, in
his book Truth from these Podia, looked at various stories and suggests that
the White House and Pentagon invented or distorted at least 50 news stories
related to the war in Iraq.
Apart from the questionable ethics of inventing news stories, and the
questionable practicality (who thought the office wouldn't be noticed, and
why would the world trust what our government says once it is caught in
enough lies?), there is another problem for those of us here in the U.S. The
idea that you can just limit the lies to other places is obviously shortsighted.
A good story in Afghanistan or Iraq is bound to be picked up by the news
wires and repeated here.
One of the easiest ways to manipulate public opinion is with the use of
statistics. The average American has no idea how to figure an average, and
three quarters of the population make up 75% of the people here. Sorry
about that last one, but you know that some of the readers of this won't get
it, which makes my point. We are largely a mathematically illiterate country.
apparent poverty rate, reduced the reported CPI inflation rate, and increased
GDP growth. After the Clinton administration, The Bush administration
continued the trend by adopting a new and lower-inflation CPI and also by
redefining the Gross Domestic Product.
Want to attack an oil company for political gain? Point out that their profits
went up 300%. Want to defend the oil company? Point out that the return on
assets went from 2% to 6%, a 300% gain, perhaps, but still a terrible rate of
return for any industry. Statistical manipulation is too easy.
The oil companies and their interests in Washington talk about the high
price for gas, and quote the number of barrels of oil likely to be extracted.
They never mention that the Energy Department's own figures show that
drilling in ANWR will likely lower the price of gas by only one cent per
gallon. That's using numbers out of context (but it isn't necessarily an
argument for or against the drilling).
A Test
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A. 97%
B. 75%
C. 50%
For this example, we are supposing that of 10,000 people, 1%, or 100
people will normally have HIV. Of these, 99 will test positive, and 1
negative (there's the 1% false-negative). Of the 9900 people who don't have
HIV, 99%, which is 9,801 people, will test negative, but 99 will test positive
(there's that 1% false-positive).
Notice that there are 198 people who test positive. 99 of those are true
positives, though, and 99 are false-positives. So for any given person in that
198 who the tests indicate has HIV, the odds are only 50% that they actually
do. And this is from a test with a 99% accuracy rate.
It's confusing, isn't it? This shows you how misleading the accuracy rates of
tests can be. You have to know the base rate to make sense of them.
Correlation does not equal causation. It is possible that those who consume
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more salt here consume more saturated fats, and that causes high blood
pressure. This confusion over correlation and causation is one of easiest
ways to manipulate people's opinions with data.
To test if the private schools are doing a better job, you would have to
choose a number of students at random, and send half to public schools and
half to private schools. I'll tell you right now that I'm not defending public
schools. I think the private schools would win this contest easily. I am
defending good science, though, and an argument from correlation to imply
causation is not only bad science, but can be very manipulative.
What are the premises that are left unstated in the information?
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Does public speaking make you nervous? What if it was easy? Imagine
standing at the podium, knowing exactly what to say to make them love
you. Wouldn't that feel great? Just apply our simple methods, and you'll
have that power. Use the form below to order right now.
Sentence #1: Does public speaking make you nervous? This gets the reader
to say yes, which is habit forming. Getting a prospect to say yes is a classic
old technique that still works. It also introduces the problem, for which the
solution is coming.
Sentence #2: What if it was easy? This suggests the possibility of a solution,
creating hope and anticipation in the reader.
Sentence #3: Imagine standing at the podium, knowing exactly what to say
to make them love you. The word "imagine," gets the reader to do just that.
Helping readers create a scene in their minds creates desire for that scene to
be reality, and good feelings too.
Sentence #4: Wouldn't that feel great? This suggests a positive emotion and
gets another yes. Questions involve a prospect more, and it is better to
suggest an emotional state (by asking) than to tell a person how to feel.
Sentence #5: Just apply our simple methods, and you'll have that power.
The "and" is used to infer cause and effect (you'll have the power because
you used our product). This is subtle way of getting the reader to accept the
benefits of a product uncritically.
Sentence #6: Use the form below to order right now. The last line directs the
reader with "Use the form below." The "order right now" is called an
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That simple paragraph uses many so-called "hypnotic sales techniques." The
idea is that by using the right words and techniques, you can put a person
into a kind of "buying trance," in which they are much more receptive to
your offer. Do these techniques work? When I first learned of them, I used
them to rewrite the subscription page for the Brainpower Newsletter. I
immediately started to get four times as many subscribers from the same
traffic.
Sales writing uses some of the same subliminal techniques that are used for
selling in person. One difference, though, is that you cannot "correct course"
when a prospect is half-way through a written sales presentation. This is
partly why long sales letters have been found to be more effective than short
ones. In a long letter, you can address the pitch to many types of
personalities. Here are some more techniques to use, or to watch out for.
Embedded Commands
Here are a couple quick examples: "If you order right now, we'll include
three bonuses." That sentence is commanding the reader to order right now.
"You'll be happy you ordered today." That one helps create a state of mind
by suggesting the reader should be happy.
Put commands in the present tense, and don't use negatives (It's better to say
"go now" than "don't wait." Here are some embedded commands that are
commonly used:
feel good
buy now
get it
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desire more
learn
buy today
order right now
see results fast
hurry
follow my lead
want this
see the value
change your life
act now
believe in this
relax
do it now
You can use these when speaking too, by the way, if you are subtle enough.
You just alter the pitch or volume of your voice when saying the key
command words or phrases.
Hypnotic Phrases
These are phrases that really involve the reader, so they are following your
every word. They can include questions, words that create curiosity, and
words that cause the reader to create a scene in their imagination. Here are
some examples:
Picture this...
Free gift...
You...
This is a way to get the reader to go along with you, but without being to
obvious. First you talk about things that are accepted as true (pacing), and
then you talk about what you want the reader to accept (leading). Below is
an example. The first two sentences are "pacing" sentences, and the next
three lead.
"You have seen personal change in your life. Some changes are more
difficult than others, of course. There is a reason for this. Once you
understand it, personal change can be quick and easy. Let us show you
how."
There are several patterns of pacing and leading you can use. Two pacing
sentences followed by two leading sentences, for example: pace, pace, lead,
lead. You could also try; pace, lead, pace, lead. Experiment for best results.
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This appeals to the logical side of the reader, without giving them something
to object to or argue about. In other words, instead of just making an
outright claim of cause and effect, you imply it subtly. Here's an example:
"Our tapes allow you to change your habits as you sleep. Since you will be
hearing the subliminal messages while in a receptive state, they'll more
deeply affect you." Just listen regularly, and you'll notice the changes
happening."
The words that imply cause and effect above, are "allow" in the first
sentence, "since" in the second, and "and" in the third. Other words you can
use include:
as
while
creates
means
demonstrates
brings to pass
constitutes
enables
leads to
provokes
implies
forces
makes
causes
"Make $1,000 Per Day!" isn't as persuasive as, "What Would You Do If You
Made $1,000 Every Day?"
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Use Testimonials
I ignorantly was deleting all the great e-mails people sent me when I first
started doing newsletters. Now, anytime someone just says "I liked the
article," I save it for possible use in the future. The better testimonials ("You
changed my life!") are like gold. Letting the reader know that other people
like what you have to offer is very persuasive.
Have you ever read a good sales letter and found yourself nodding and
agreeing? (Nod and agree.) That's the power of good questions. They
involve the reader and keep him glued to the page.
Say "Imagine"
Then paint a picture of life with your product. Other words, like "picture
this," or "see yourself," can be used. Just describing the scene works too.
"You pick an orange from the tree in your yard and watch the sun set on the
ocean. This is when you realize what zero-down real estate investing has
done to change your life."
To the fact "you'll get twenty four problem solving techniques," add "so you
can use the one that will easily give you solutions to your problems." The
fact, "powerful engine," should be followed by, "meaning you can pass
other cars more quickly and safely."
Use Lists
People like lists. Consider how tedious reading about these persuasion
techniques would be if instead of a list, the information was written out in
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Use Repetition
Tell the reader several times why they need your product, and what to do.
You may want to say it slightly differently each time.
Be The Authority
They don't want to buy from someone who knows only as much as they do.
You may want to mention what qualifies you as an authority. At the least,
you can speak (write) with the attitude of an authority.
Tell Stories
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People want a great deal, but you don't want to give the impression that your
product isn't as valuable as you say. So explain why they can get it cheaper
now: "Our warehouse is too crowded, and that's good news for you."
If you know it's something they'll hate to give up once they have it, get it in
their hands. This could mean a free trial. If it's a newsletter, you can give
them a free issue. If it's any information product, give samples. I know that
with or without my business, I couldn't go back to telephone internet service
after using cable - even if cable was ten times the cost! If it really is
something they won't want to give up, find a way to give them a test-drive.
Then they'll want to finish: "You've taken the first step by reading through
this page. Don't quit now. There are eight more lessons, and the best is yet to
come. Continue by subscribing right now."
"I was in a dingy studio apartment, staring at my unpaid bills..." Okay, you
don't need an autobiography, but let some of your personality come through
in your writing. It is easier for people to trust someone they know, or even
someone they think they know.
Then tell them why it's a great product: "You'll have to spend five hours
learning how to use this program, but it will save you that many hours every
week for years to come."
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"Others are selling the information in just one of these bonuses for more
than the cost of this whole course..." Help people convince themselves that
what you offer is a good deal.
Selling a nice sports car? Say, "Wouldn't it be exciting to drive this car to
your class reunion?" Find some way to involve a customer's emotions.
Asking them to recall an emotional event is one way to do this. Then tie that
emotion to what you are offering. For example, if you are selling custom
homes, you might ask the readers to remember the first time they moved
into their own place. That would be followed by suggesting a similar good
feeling will come from moving into one of your houses.
First make them want to buy, then let them know why it's okay, by showing
them the logic: "One missed sale would cost you more than the price of this
cell phone, right? This is one of those purchases that makes you more
money than it costs." It has been said that an appeal to emotion creates the
desire to buy, but an appeal to logic closes the sale.
"If you don't like it for any reason, return in any time in the first 90 days and
you'll get your money back - no questions asked." Make it even clearer than
that: "Just drop us a note or call the number below."
If they leave without buying, they almost never return. Don't give them the
option of "thinking about it." Use "This week only," or "Only 60 left," or
"We're testing this price and will be raising it soon," or something to create
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Create Credibility
Quote official sources, and drop names. Endorsements are great, but you can
benefit just by using the names: "These are the techniques that Robert Allen,
Charles Givens and other real estate gurus used to make millions."
Use one or the other or both. Tell them what they'll gain by using your
product, and tell them what they'll lose if they don't.
Did you know that the average sales letter gets 54% more orders when it
uses specific claims? Okay, I made that up, but it got your attention, right?
People believe in the authority of exact numbers and exact descriptions of
what will happen. Example: "Use this technique starting today, and you'll
see your sales increase by tomorrow."
Play To Hope
Examples: "Would you like to be free of your job by next spring?" or "What
if you could own that house on the lake that you have always wanted?"
Create Obligation
If you give a gift, people feel at least the obligation to listen to your sale's
pitch. Be sure it is something of real value, though, or you will lose
credibility.
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Limit Options
In one study, people were given samples and a chance to buy a fancy jam.
The group given four options bought twice as much as the group given
twenty options. Having more choices is not always better at least for the
person or business offering the choices.
Use Curiosity
A Final Thought
Before you start to get too cynical about the world of sales, remember that a
salesman's job is to sell. We need to be sold things - sometimes even things
we didn't know we needed. I wouldn't have bought some of my best
investments if it weren't for good salesmen. If it took subliminal persuasion
to get me to do what was in my best interest, I can live with that.
Their goal is to sell. Our goal is to learn how to be sold the right things. (Or
vice-versa when you are in business.)
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They often started their seminars by telling the audience that everything
they would say would be a lie, and that other teachers believed their own
lies, not realizing they were invented explanations. The difference with
Bandler and Grinder was that they understood that words are a feeble and
shifting attempt to understand things. The other difference, they claimed , is
that "Most of our lies will work out really well if you act as if they are true."
Many thousands of people will attest to the truth of this claim. So what did
they do? How do people use NLP today to change their lives?
Try This
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Now watch it again, but take the most painful moment and make a still
photo of it in your mind. Take away the color, and put it in a frame. Imagine
the frame in detail. It can be wooden, plastic - whatever you want. Imagine
taking your framed black and white photo and hanging it in a dark corner of
some room in your house. See it there from the other side of the room.
Repeat this exercise several times, and then test the results. Recall the bad
event again. For most people who try this, the memory will have lost its
emotional power. It will no longer hurt to recall that moment. If it doesn't
work, try the exercise again, then try anything else in the NLP "arsenal."
Always remember, "If what you do doesn't work, do something else."
What Is NLP?
"Neuro" has to do with the brain of course, and "linguistic" refers to things
having to do with language. Neuro-linguistic programming is about
changing the brain by speaking its "language." For example, for most
people, a memory is more vivid and emotionally strong when it is close to
them in their imagination. Recognizing this "coding" or language of the
mind, you can do something as simple as imagining a scene to be further
away, and this will diminish the emotion. Bring it closer if it is a positive
memory, and you'll feel the positive emotions more strongly.
For example, some of us are more visually oriented, and some more
auditorily oriented. It even shows in our language. People who continually
say, "I see," are processing things differently than those who more often use
"I hear what you're saying." This has to be taken into account whether you
want to influence others or your own mind.
The way we use our words, the words themselves, and even body posture
affects our experience of life, and therefore our success in life. To see (or
feel or hear) the truth in this, slouch, let your mouth hang open, stare at the
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floor, and say "everything is messed up." Then sit up straight, close your
mouth, take a deep breath through your nose, look slightly upwards and say
"What a great day!" If you do this exercise, you'll notice the difference in
how you feel during the first part versus the second. You are using the
language of the brain to change your experience.
Sub-Modalities
Visual Sub-Modalities
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Auditory Sub-Modalities
Kinesthetic Sub-Modalities
Is it light or heavy?
Are there any vibrations?
Are there changes in size?
What is the texture?
Are your feeling steady or changing?
Is it hot or cold or alternating?
Is there pressure?
Where is the pressure?
Are you tensed or relaxed?
Is you breathing normal, shallow, or stopped?
Is there movement?
Anything that triggers strong feelings?
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First you think of the situation or thing that causes you fear. Whether it is
public speaking, spiders, or whatever, get it in your mind until you feel the
fear a bit.
Now close your eyes and imagine yourself in a movie theater. See yourself
on the screen, with the film stopped at the moment before you had the
fearful response for the first time. If you can't recall the first time you had
the fear, recall the most intense time instead.
Leave your body and float into the projection booth. Look down and see
yourself watching the screen. As you watch yourself watching yourself in
the movie, let it un-pause and begin to play a black and white movie of what
actually happened in the fearful experience. See yourself going through the
experience up to the point where it ends and you are safe again.
Now stop the movie and see it as a still picture of yourself safely sitting or
standing there when the traumatic experience is over. Step into this still
picture at this point, and go through the experience, but backwards and in
color, as if time was suddenly reversed. Do this really fast - in two seconds
or so. Do it again and again.
After repeating this backwards replay ten times, get up, take a deep breath,
shake your arms and body a bit. Now recall the real-life experience again. If
you still get more than a small fearful response, repeat the whole process.
Some people have reported amazingly fast results from using this technique.
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Modeling
This means what they do physically, as well as what they are doing in their
minds. For example, when I have a computer problem, I am likely to put my
hand to my forehead, and say "Here we go again" in my mind. I then think
of the things I hate about computers. Of course, this can be a very
disempowering approach to the problem.
My brother, on the other hand, will stop for a second, and think or say
"Hmm... that's interesting. I wonder how I can solve this?" He'll also assume
there is a solution, and that he'll find it soon. Naturally, he is more
successful than me at dealing with his computer. He has a lot more
knowledge, of course, but that isn't as important as his approach.
Don't do as they say, but rather do as they do. That is the way to learn
success from the successful. A wealthy real estate investor once told me he
didn't believe in setting goals. Only later in the conversation did I realize
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that he knew just where he expected to be with his projects in six months.
That's goal-setting - he just called the process something else.
Don't stop listening to what successful people have to say - but read
between the lines. Look at their words for insight into how they think about
things, how they approach their challenges. A successful basketball player
might only advise you to practice more, but if he mentions "I saw that going
in," after a great shot, follow his lead and start visualizing your shots going
in.
At first, it may be best to just copy many of the actions, attitudes and
approaches of someone who is succeeding. As you learn, you can drop those
parts that aren't contributing, and add elements of your own. If you have
children, for example, model a successful parent, and if that works don't
worry if you don't know right away which changes were most helpful, or
why.
You may not ever understand why some things work, but you don't need to,
do you? It is better to have success than to explain it. So do what they do,
not what they say.
Motivational Styles
We each get motivated in different ways. There are two primary ways that
NLP focuses on: "away-from" and "toward." We each have both as a part of
the way we function, but often one is dominant in each of us. Those in who
the "toward" motivation dominates will be more affected by thoughts of
future rewards. Those with a primarily "away-from" motivational style, will
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Use this test to get an idea about which motivational style dominates your
personality. Read the following two descriptions of what having millions of
dollars could mean to you.
1. You are safe and secure. You never have to return to your job or do
anything you don't want to do. You have the means to eliminate most of
your problems easily. You have everything you need to be free and
comfortable.
2. You have the house of your dreams, and your favorite car too. You buy
anything you want for you and your friends, and you do what you want. You
have the means to achieve any of your goals.
If you find the first description more compelling, you primarily have an
"away-from" personality. If you are more motivated by the second
description, you have more of a "toward" personality. There are good and
bad points to both. "toward" individuals make good entrepreneurs, for
example, but often get into trouble because they don't plan well enough to
avoid problems. "Away-from" individuals manage things well and avoid
problems, but don't do as well at big goals.
How do you use this knowledge to your advantage? If you want to make
more money and you are an "toward" person, envision the things you'll buy
and do with that money, but be aware that you may be glossing over the
problems. If you are an "away-from" person, you'll might continually
remind yourself what a mess it will be if you fail. Otherwise you can lose
your motivation once you reach some level of comfort.
When you understand these two motivational styles, you can also influence
others more easily. If you wanted to sell a new car to someone, for example,
first determine if they are motivated away-from things or toward things. For
the former, you might explain how this new car will mean no more used-car
hassles, or how it will make life easier. For the latter, you would explain
how great they'll look in it, or what it can do.
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Neuro-Associative Conditioning
Let's suppose you want to stop smoking, for example. First, you'll be more
successful if you replace the habit, rather than ignore the real benefits you
are getting from it. You get pleasure, and maybe relaxation from cigarettes,
so you might replace smoking with drinking chamomile tea or chewing
gum. You should find something that is healthier and gives you the same or
similar feelings or benefits.
Then start associating smoking with pain. Maybe try smoking only while
doing things you hate to do, imagining yourself getting lung cancer, or
thinking about your yellowing teeth. Use the information on sub-modalities
above to change the way you think about smoking, and do anything that
works to associate pain with smoking. Get creative here. If you would be
painfully embarrassed by people moving away from you because you stink
of cigarettes, then see that scene over and over in your mind.
Use the same techniques to establish the new habit. See yourself enjoying
that chamomile tea, or whatever the new habit will be. Make it bigger and
more colorful in your imagination. Do anything you can to associate it with
pleasure.
Then you have to test yourself. Imagine yourself at some point in the future,
in a situation that would normally have triggered your desire to engage in
the old pattern (smoking, in this case). Do you feel certain that you can use
the new pattern instead of the old? If not, you need some more work to fully
associate the old habit with pain and the new with pleasure.
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"The secret to success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of
having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you're in control of your
life. If you don't, life controls you... What you link pain to and what you link
pleasure to shapes your destiny." - Tony Robbins
Using Words
The other day a friend was explaining some of the problems he has had to
me. I wondered at times why it seemed that he couldn't do the simple things
he needed to do in those situations. Then I realized he was saying things like
"Then that situation exploded on me!" and "It blew up in my face!" I'm not
sure I would have had the motivation necessary to deal with his problems if
I saw them that way. Perspectives matter, and words create them.
Words have power. Play with them a bit and you'll understand that it isn't
just the power to affect others, but the power to change your own life
experiences. Instead of saying "I'm depressed," try "I feel a little down."
"I'm exhausted," could be "I need to recharge." "I'm so stupid!" can be
expressed as "I'm learning a lesson right now."
To affect long-term change in your experience of life, note and list all the
words and phrases you use that are disempowering, and find better
alternatives. If you are stressing yourself out by saying, "I have to do this!"
start saying "I get to do this!" while remembering the benefits (We get
something from everything we do). Use neuro-associative conditioning to
make the new words stick. Associate pain with the old words, and pleasure
with using the new ones. This might be as simple as seeing how silly it is to
be "stupid" when you could be "learning."
Finally, really experiment with yourself. Play with words, to see what value
you can get from using them differently. I think you would find, for
example, that new real estate agents that say, "I'm going try to sell houses,"
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will have less success than those who say "I'm doing whatever it takes to
sell real estate."
1. To Change Beliefs
If you want to change beliefs in yourself or another, ask the right questions
to create doubt in the old belief. For example, if your subconscious mind
won't let go of the belief that you are unintelligent, you can ask, "Is it
possible that I am intelligent?" and "What evidence can I point to that shows
my intelligence?" and "What can I do now to demonstrate my intelligence?"
The very act of questioning cause your mind to change its focus. Now it will
be looking for all the evidence that you are in fact intelligent. It will find it,
and the old belief will be weakened.
2. To Change Attitude
Ask yourself or another person, "What is good in this situation?" and you
will start to feel better about it. You can't help but be affected by seeing the
good. Have you ever wondered why two people can go through the same
situation and yet it destroys one of them and strengthens the other? They are
looking at it differently, and asking different questions.
3. To Direct Focus
This is obvious stuff, and yet we need to be reminded. Why get frustrated
and say "Why won't this work?" when you can say "How can I get this to
work?" Ask questions that direct your focus in the most useful ways.
1. People already have the resources they need. They just need to know how
to use them.
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2. A map is not the territory. Our mental "maps" are easier to change than
the world.
4. If one person can do something, others can learn to do it. Model success.
5. People make the best choices they are aware of. Learn more to have more
choices.
7. Mind and body work as one. Posture, food, and movement affects your
mind, and what you think affects your body.
9. The meaning of your communication is the response you get. Notice how
your words and actions are received in your mind and other's, and you can
change them to get the response you really want.
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Have you ever had a hard time getting to work on something, or just getting
up in the morning? This chapter covers self motivation techniques, because
if you want to effectively use what you learn here or anywhere, you have to
be able to act. This means you have to know how to motivate yourself.
By the time I tell my wife about the newsletter I'm going to write, I'm out of
my slump and back at the keyboard. When you truly want to accomplish
something, talking about it to an interested person will usually get you
excited and motivated. The physical changes in your energy level are real.
This will be even more effective if you can connect the two in your mind. If
making money is your goal, for example, you could tell yourself, "With
more money, I can find ways to change things politically."
Seeing the rewards of your effort clearly, motivates you. A good salesman
can have you living in your imagined dream home in minutes, and you'll
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4. Use Pain
5. Be Truly Interested
If you really don't care about something, it will be almost impossible to feel
motivated. In that case you need to do something else. If however, it's just a
particular task you're having trouble with, connect it clearly in your mind to
the greater goal. I don't like typing, but when I see the finished lesson in my
mind, I'm ready to work.
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Sometimes, the biggest problem is a lack of energy. Some of the above self
motivation techniques address this issue indirectly, but here are some more
direct energy boosters:
8. Music
Different types have different effects on us, so experiment. When you find
an album that energizes you, keep it ready. You may want to start a list of
the most energizing songs, and add to it as you come across good ones.
Once you have ten or more, visit a download site online and buy them. Put
them onto your MP3 or a CD, and keep this "maximum energy" album
handy.
9. Energy Drinks
The verdict isn't in on most of them, but it's a cheap option to try (but not
too cheap for regular use). I seem to get a boost from the ones with Ginkgo
Biloba in them. Some like the ones which contain the amino acid taurine,
although when combined with caffeine this may cause anxiety and
irritability.
10. Coffee
This is the original energy drink. Caffeine can make you more tired if it's
abused, but short-term, it can work wonders. If you are sensitive to too
much caffeine, you may want to try tea instead of coffee.
We do not all need the same amount of sleep, so experiment with different
amounts. Also, as long as you get at least five or six hours of sleep, the
quality seems to be more important than the quantity.
Three slow deep breaths through your nose will help oxygenate your blood,
and especially seems to wake up the brain. Another technique that works for
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Washing the dishes, or walking around the office can boost energy levels. At
least stand up and stretch from time-to-time if you work at a desk for hours.
Here's the recipe: minute of hot water, a minute of cold, alternating for six
minutes. This isn't for those with weak hearts, but it will wake you up.
Incidentally, research shows it also revs up the immune system.
15. Outdoors
Sometimes a little sunshine and fresh air can be very energizing. Get out for
a short walk, or at least open a window.
Try several of these self motivation techniques, and make a couple of them
habitual, by using them often for several weeks. Habits are the key to
success.
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After 9/11, the polygraph failure rate went to 50% for agent applicants at the
FBI. Did liars suddenly start applying for jobs? No, the testers were
instructed to read the tests differently, even though this meant throwing out
some honest people with the few dishonest ones. Imagine what this would
do to your future. For all of their lives these mostly innocent people will
have a record of a failed FBI polygraph following them.
Most scientists now agree that polygraph "testing" is junk science. In fact,
John Larson, one of the pioneers of polygraphic lie detection, says "I'm
sorry I ever had any part in its development." The test is valued by
governments and others because it is useful for getting damaging
admissions from people, especially those who don't know that the test is a
sham.
Unfortunately, the test is actually biased against the truthful. This is because
the more honestly one answers the "control" questions, the more likely one
is to fail. Meanwhile, hardened criminals have proven they can lie
throughout the test without detection.
Polygraph 101
The basic idea is this: The polygrapher asks some simple questions in order
to get your "baseline responses." These are questions to which the operator
knows (or assumes) the truthful answer. Meanwhile the device measures
blood pressure, heart, breathing and perspiration rates.
Then you are asked "control" questions and "relevant" questions, such as,
"Are you involved in espionage?" or "Did you take John's watch?" Your
responses are compared to your control question responses, to determine if
your answer is honest or a lie.
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They will tell you that you should answer all questions honestly, but they
don't actually want this to happen. In fact, they will often ask control
questions that they assume you will answer with a lie. This could be
something like "Have you ever lied when in trouble?" They may mention
that someone who would do such a thing is suspect, thus encouraging you to
lie, so they can see your response.
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How To Beat It
Don't Take It
There is little that taking the test can do to help you, and a lot that can hurt
you. In criminal matters, just refuse. In cases of pre-employment screening,
you may have to take the test to get the job. There is one technique that has
been used to have the test waived, even for positions in the Department of
Defense. This involves letting the operator know that you understand how
the test works.
When you arrive for the test, tell the operator what you know about the test,
and show him the book to prove it. Then explain that because of this, you
are not a suitable candidate for polygraph testing. He should agree. Be
careful though, as he may angrily decide that you still should take the test,
and may even decide to fail you regardless of results.
If You Take It
If you decide to take a polygraph test, insist that your lawyer be present
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through the entire examination. Also, refuse to sign any papers, such as
those saying the results will be admissible in court, or used for other
purposes. Insist that the entire examination be videotaped, and that you get a
copy as soon as it is done. (At least have it audio taped.) Finally, refuse any
post-test interrogation.
Behavioral Countermeasures
Look and act innocent. Be polite to the examiner. He has to use his
judgment to decide how to interpret the results, as well as how hard to push
in certain questions. You want him to like you and assume you are innocent
from the start, so he doesn't try too hard to prove your guilt.
During the test he may stop to ask you why you seem to be responding
strongly to a certain question - especially a control question, if you are
applying physiological countermeasures. Have a seemingly spontaneous
answer ready. For example, hesitate, look confused and say, "I guess I
always feel guilty when I am asked about things. My mother was a very
suspicious person, and used to blame me for so many things that I felt like I
had really done them."
Physiological Countermeasures
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1. Breathing responses:
b. Hold your breath for 4 to 5 seconds, then resume normal breathing before
the next question.
c. Exhale more slowly than you inhale for 5 to 15 seconds, then resume
normal breathing before the next question.
d. Take several shallow breaths, then resume normal breathing before the
next question.
a. Quickly bite the side of your tongue hard enough to hurt a little. This will
get your heart rate to speed up. Practice this one in front of a mirror, so you
aren't obvious when you do it.
b. Use your imagination to speed up your heart. Quickly think of a car crash,
a knife going into you, or anything that will provoke a fear response.
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People are creatures of habit. Even when they are willing to give up their
names, and move far away, they rarely are willing to change who they are. A
bowler will still want to bowl. If you suspected which city he may have
moved to, you could call bowling alleys there to get information on new
league members. If I moved and changed my name, you could find me
where people gather to play chess.
Most of the time, though, people you try to find aren't really trying to hide.
At least, they aren't trying very hard. Maybe they have left town and keep
their phone number unlisted, but they probably haven't changed their name.
How do you find them quickly? Here are some techniques.
"Skip tracing" is tracking down people who have "skipped" out of town, or
otherwise disappeared. This was the part of my job that I enjoyed when I
was a bill collector years ago. It is much easier today with the use of the
internet, but the principles remain the same.
The basic things you start with are things like sending mail to any addresses
you have and calling any phone numbers you have for the person. When you
send a letter, you pay a little extra for "address correction." The post office
will return a card to you with any forwarding address they have on file for
the subject.
When you call their phone number(s), if you get an answer, you of course
want to ask for the subject. If they have moved, you want to get any
information you can from the person on the line. Use basic phone pretexts
for this.
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Phone Pretexts
These are useful stories. They can be as simple as "Hi, this is Dave. I'm an
old friend of John's. Do you know where I can find him?" Be prepared, of
course for a question or two, like. "Where do you know John from?"
More complicated pretexts might involve a temptation like, "I have a rebate
check for $50 on a car stereo here that John never claimed. Do you have his
address, so I can just drop it in the mail today?" If they refuse or claim they
don't know where he is, give them your number and ask if they could give it
to John if they talk to him.
Get any information you can while you have a person on the phone. They
may refuse to give you an address or phone number, but then mention the
city that the subject has moved to.
When I couldn't get a phone number and had no response to the collection
notices I sent, I tried something a little sneakier. This was illegal, I later
discovered, under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, but it is perfectly
legal for other purposes. Here's how it worked:
First, I tore off a scrap of paper and wrote on it "John (or whatever the
subject's name was), call me. It's important." I signed it with my alias (we
had to use these state-registered names for safety) and put our phone
number on it. I put it in a plain envelope and sent it to his last-known
address.
Even if John no longer lived at the address, these little notes usually found
their way to the subjects. Curiosity often got the best of them, and they
called. When I told them they had to pay Doctor Smith or whoever our
client was, they were disappointed, but they never hung up.
Of course, I still didn't know where they were (that has changed with caller
ID now). Interestingly, they felt as if they were "caught" and usually easily
gave their new address and phone number. You can use this technique to
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contact the subject, but you can also use it to contact others who may help
you locate the subject.
If you call the neighbors where John used to live, they may know him. Even
if they didn't know him, they will often have heard something about him,
like where he moved. To find these neighbors, start with John's address and
start to either side or across the street. If he was at 234 Third Street, type in
238 or 235 Third Street at a reverse directory site like
http://www.reversephonedirectory.com/.
Try several addresses until you get one or two results with phone numbers.
Then call and use a pretext like "Hi. I'm sorry to bother you, but my friend
John used to live across the street from you at 234 Third, and I can't seem to
locate him. Did you know him?" If they did, you could explain, "I'm sure
he's been trying to get a hold of me, but I changed my phone number. I've
been storing some of his things for him and I don't know where to send
them."
Former employers may have some information, even if it is only the name of
a friend of John. You can also try family members. If you don't know any,
just look for people with the same last name and start calling. Ask if they are
related, and have your story ready. Here is a list of people who are possible
sources of information:
Employers
Family members
Ex-spouses
Neighbors
Co-workers
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If a person has little or no information, don't hang up. See if they know of
someone who can help. A co-worker may say she knows nothing, and yet
when you ask if she knows who might know something, she remembers that
he spent every Monday at a certain bar. The bartender may say he knows
nothing, but then remember where John's brother works. You get the point.
Follow any leads.
Type a persons name into Google or another search engine, and who knows
what you'll find. You'll see my articles if you type my name in. Click
through to one, scroll to the bottom, and you'll find a link to one of my web
sites. Go to www.whois.net or another free look-up service, type in the name
of any site, and you'll usually get the name, address and phone number of
the owner.
As I said, you don't know what you might find. Maybe John wrote a letter to
the editor of a local paper where he now lives, and it's in the search engine
index. Now you know the city where he lives.
If his name is John Smith, that can be a problem, since there are a few of
those. How do you narrow it down, to find your John Smith? Use any other
information you have. For example, if you know he loves to fish type in
"john smith"+"fishing tournament." Maybe he has recently won a prize, and
the story is on the internet.
There are, of course, more sophisticated tools you can use. The truth is
though, that with these simple tools and techniques you can locate almost
anyone with a bit of persistence. Try the easiest ways first, then move on to
the longer routes. You may have to google a neighbor's name that you
learned from a friend, just to get another friends's name from that neighbor
and so on. Just keep at it. The phone and the internet may be all you need.
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Other Resources
Here are some sites that can help you get information on a variety of
subjects.
1. http://www.anywho.com
Type in a name, city or state, and hit enter. They may just have John's
address and number right there. You can pay for more detailed information
too.
2. http://people.yahoo.com
3. http://www.canada411.ca
This site will help you locate people and businesses in Canada.
4. http://www.usa-people-search.com
5. http://www.reversephonedirectory.com
You can find names and phone numbers from addresses here, for a fee.
6. http://www.google.com
If you can't find anything using their search engine, you can find other
"look-up" sites by searching "find people."
7. http://www.cia.gov/cia/publications/factbook/
This is the CIA World Fact Book online, in case you need to know who to
call in another country to locate someone.
8. http://www.whois.sc
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Another place to find out the name address and phone number of the owner
of a website.
9. http://www.epodunk.com
City information for virtually any town (including ghost towns) in the U.S.
To find a person when you suspect the town they are in and the type of job
they might have, you can look for businesses in the town to call. This site
also has information on organizations in towns.
10. http://www.unclaimed.org
This site links to the unclaimed money sites for all the states. If John moved
without forwarding his mail, his tax refund could be here, along with his last
known address. If so, call neighbors once you have an old address.
11. http://www.cyberdetectiveplus.com
Pay for access to criminal Records, social security death index, unclaimed
money information, sexual offenders list, background checks, real estate and
mortgage information, current residential address, marital status and
spouse's name, birth date, co-habitants, details of felonies, database of those
supervised by the Department of Corrections, genealogy research, DMV
records, judgments, minor convictions, child support orders, property
records, certificates of title, title liens, and foreclosure information.
Sites like the last one can get you a lot of information quickly,and may be
worth the price. Remember that they are primarily giving you access to
public information that you can get on your own, though. If you are on a
limited budget, you can find the DMV (department of motor vehicles)
online for most states now, and see what they require for you to get
information, for example.
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When you think of treasure hunting, maybe gold coins and precious stones
come to mind, but it doesn't end there. Treasure hunting can begin at home.
People regularly find famous old books and valuable antiques in their attics,
so get up there and look. One couple tore open their walls while remodeling,
and found them insulated with thousands of old and valuable movie posters,
put there by a theater owner in the thirties. The couple sold $200,000 worth
of posters, the last I heard.
Many years ago, I used to take the old telegraph pole insulators from along
train tracks, to sell for $4 each at an antique store. They were otherwise
being shot to pieces by hunters over time. The colored glass ones were
usually the more valuable ones.
Treasure hunting isn't about making money, although that's a possibility. It's
about the "thrill of the hunt", and the pleasure of using your wits and
"secret" knowledge. And it can be addicting. Below are some of the more
obscure secrets of treasure hunting.
A man in California offered to take the shag carpet when a large old theater
was being remodeled, saving the new owners the cost of disposal. The
theater had been closed for years, but during the thirties it was a place where
the wealthy went for entertainment. Of course the wealthy, like all of us,
lose things, but perhaps more valuable things.
When the old carpet was cut up and carefully shook out, it was found to
contain over $2,000 worth of precious stones, rings, and coins. Wondering
what may be caught by vacuum cleaners, the man then arranged to take the
full cleaner bags from several cleaning companies each week. It saves them
disposal costs, and he regularly finds coins and small jewelry when he digs
through the dirt.
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In California a man took the shag carpet from an a old theater being
remodeled, saving the owners the cost of disposal. During the thirties the
theater was a place where the wealthy went. Like all of us, the wealthy lose
things, but perhaps more valuable things.
When he cut up and carefully shook out the old carpet , he found over
$2,000 worth of precious stones, rings, and coins. Then, wondering what's
caught by vacuum cleaners, the man arranged to take the full cleaner bags
from several cleaning companies each week. It saves them disposal costs,
and he regularly finds coins and small jewelry when he digs through the
dirt.
Natural Treasures
My wife and I have sold sea shells we collected from Florida beaches, giant
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pine cones from California, and rocks we collected all over the country. We
sold them at flea markets and craft shows, as is, or made into something
crafty. I once met a man who sold "burls" (unusual growths on trees) for as
much as $200 each.
Both kids and criminals throw things off of bridges routinely. It's a quick
way to get rid of evidence. As a child I saw bicycles in rivers several times. I
know of at least one guy that makes a living using magnets and other tools
to retrieve guns, money, and other things of value from the bottom of murky
rivers, near bridges.
For $10 you can buy a gold pan, and start prospecting. It's easier to see the
gold in the green plastic ones. Most federal lands are open to prospectors
without a permit. I play around with prospecting at times, and have seen
gold in my pan in Canada, but people have better luck in the mountain
streams of the southeast and southwest. It's a nice way to spend an afternoon
in any case.
A man bought a piece of property with an old barn on it. He found a pile of
old dry moss that the former owner collected to sell to craft stores. When he
burned it to get rid of it, he noticed something glittering. It was gold a
couple hundred dollars worth.
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Metal detectors start under $200. I've found a few hundred coins, but none
of them have been valuable ones. When the city tore up old sidewalks, a
woman in our town used her detector to find coins . She sold one to a local
coin shop for $700. A friend tells me that her husband and her have found
many pieces of gold jewelry at the beach with their detector. It's also
common to use metal detectors to find gold nuggets in the southwest.
To find old coins and jewelry, you can try ghost towns, but these are
generally picked over. Better to find records that indicate where a picnic
grounds used to be. If it has long since been overgrown, all the better. The
coins are then more likely to be old and valuable.
Beaches are an obvious place to use your metal detector. A friend of mine
told me that her and her husband regularly found coins, rings and watches at
the beach. They also said that there were sometimes five or six people with
detectors out there at three in the morning on summer nights.
I spoke to a man who went to the big concerts to collect beer and pop cans
in the parking areas. He said he makes over $100 in a few hours (plus the
time to take them to the store). Collecting "returnables" can be an
unpleasant way to make money, but an old guy in town here tells me he pays
the rent doing this.
Sometimes you can find valuables where they tend to collect. One such
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place is in ponds and lakes when they are lowered by drought or for other
reasons. Everything that has been lost there for years becomes visible and
more accessible.
Treasure hunting is about having the right frame of mind. There are
treasures to be found everywhere. I once found a chest with foreign notes
and coins in the crawl space under our house. If you have some reason to
think a treasure is buried in an area, look for sagging asphalt. It can indicate
that the soil underneath was loosened when someone buried something.
In the thirties people threw coins in there car gas tanks to save for a rainy
day (the tanks then were easy to remove for later recovery). More than one
person has found valuable old coins by kicking old gas tanks to listen for
the rattling of coins.
Hotel owners report that visitors tuck money in the bedside bible, and forget
to take it with them. Businessmen also take off and hide their wedding rings
in hotel rooms, before they head to the bars. They sometimes forget them
when they check out. Sometimes you just have to look. Where? Here are
some more of the places people hide valuables and money.
Abandoned buildings
In wall spaces
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Under sinks
In old cars
In motel rooms
In bibles
In pump houses
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A couple years ago I knew nothing about the internet. In fact, I honestly
hadn't even heard of HTML. It took days for my wife and I to put up the
first page (it takes only minutes now). My brother's were making money
online long before I was, but they sold physical things and had houses full
of shipping boxes and inventory - not my idea of fun. That can be a great
way to make money too, but we wanted a business didn't involve shipping
things, and could be run from wherever we were.
That's exactly what we have now. In fact, when we recently visited family in
Michigan for two weeks, the business was making even more money on our
return, and we had done nothing but spend a couple minutes to check e-mail
every few days. I like that. I haven't had a job in years and perhaps I never
will have one again - I like that too.
There is some useful information here if you are just getting started, or
thinking about it, but you'll need more if you want to succeed. Later in the
chapter, I'll point you to two free resources that can help. The following is
just an outline of how to make money online, or at least how I do it.
1. Make a website.
For our web sites, I find topics of interest to me, then find related keywords
that have enough traffic each month. Our first site came from our experience
buying a beautiful house in Montana for $17,500. (we lived there for four
months and sold it for a profit). We looked around at other towns with cheap
homes, and created the site; www.HousesUnderFiftyThousand.com. I could
use our own experience, and do the rest of the research online. (If you go to
the site, that's me, my wife and parents on the front steps).
As for building the sites, all I can say is that you have to just buy one of
those page builders, start playing with it and figure it out. I have no
expertise in this area, and our sites were relatively plain looking as a result
(they are better now). I consciously spent my time learning how to make
money online, because that seemed more important to me than having fancy
sites.
You need traffic to your web site to make money. One of the ways you get
traffic is to get found in the search engines. If you want any chance at all to
get found in the search engines, you have to have the right "keywords." If I
used the word "rucksacks" on a page on my site, nobody will find it in the
search engines, because most people are searching "backpacks."
However, if there are too many good sites using that term already, I can't
compete, so instead I build pages that are optimized for "lightweight
backpacks," "light backpacks," and "ultralight backpacks."
To help you learn how to find the right keywords and optimize your pages, I
set up a page on one of my sites just for readers of this book, where you'll
find a link to each of nine lessons. Here it is:
http://www.TheMoneyMakerSite.com/lessons.html
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Somewhere along the way, in an attempt to get more traffic, I discovered the
now well-known technique of writing articles and submitting them to
"article directories." Here's an example of how that works: I write an article
about how to find an inexpensive home. I include my author's resource box
at the end of the article. It looks something like this:
Steve Gillman has invested in real estate for years. See a photo of a
beautiful house he and his wife bought for $17,500, and get a free real estate
investing course, at: http://www.HousesUnderFiftyThousand.com
At this point I submit the article to about 15 directories. This step takes me
only 20 minutes now, but you can pay a service to do this or use an
automated program. An article directory is a website where you can submit
and post your articles for others to read and to use. They have the right to
use them on their own web sites - as long as they don't change them, and
they leave the links active in the resource boxes.
By the way, it is easier than you think to write articles. If your website is on
Nascar racing, for example, you could do a simple article called "My Ten
Favorite Racers," and it would be nothing but a list, with a few words about
why he is a favorite after each name, and an invitation to visit your site in
the resource box.
When people read your article, some of them click through to your site
assuming you give them a reason to. Also, others take the article and put it
on their sites, creating new and possibly permanent streams of traffic.
Traffic can mean money. In other words, you can:
Write about things that interest you and make money doing it.
You can find my articles on thousands of web sites all over the internet.
People just take them from the directories and use them on their sites,
creating thousands of links to our web sites. This is sometimes called "viral
marketing," because the articles are spreading out there on their own now.
This simple strategy took me from making a little bit of money online to
making thousands of dollars per month.
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Update: I recently put together a course which details exactly how I use
simple articles to generate traffic and make a living online. I sell it at
www.99reports.com, but you can get the same course for free at:
http://www.999articles.com. The only "catch" is that you'll get just a lesson
per week by e-mail.
Just getting traffic isn't all you need, of course. You have to make money
with that traffic. There are many ways to do this, but the three that have
worked best for me so far, are using Google AdSense (registered trademark),
selling my own e-books, and promoting affiliate products.
With Google AdSense and other pay-per-click programs, you sign up, paste
their code on your pages, and let them display ads. They collect for every
click, and you get a share. It doesn't get any easier than that. In fact, I can't
say what I make with Google because of the terms of our agreement with
them, but I can tell you that we could live on that alone.
E-Books
It is fun (and profitable) to be able to write and sell what you write without
the need to get a manuscript accepted by a publisher. You just find out what
you know or can research that others want to read about, and start writing.
Letting a service like ClickBank (registered trademark) sell the books for
you means you don't even have to have a credit card account.
It can also be a very inexpensive business to get into. Some free word-
processing programs, like those at www.openoffice.org, even have a PDF
converter built in. A website to sell your book on can be run for less than
$10 per month, and ClickBank charges just $50 or so to set up an account to
have them sell the books.
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If you like to write, reports and PDF books can be done quickly and are not
as difficult as it might seem. A good $19, 60-page book full of truly useful
information can often be put together and be online for sale in less than a
few weeks. (Packages like this one take a bit longer, of course.) Don't worry
too much about the size or having fancy graphics. People buy e-books for
content. Have great information and they'll be happy.
I once paid $17 for ten pages about buying wholesale diamond rings online.
It wasn't even an e-book, but was simply sent to me by e-mail, where I could
read it or print it out. Was I upset? Not at all. I used the information to buy a
gold and diamond ring for my wife for $43 - one which was selling at the
local jewelry store for $153. Information can be valuable if its put to use,
and buyers of e-books want that valuable information more than great
formatting or 400-page rambling stories.
Affiliate Programs
Affiliate programs can be a pain in the butt, and yet I have to say that I love
it every time someone buys some other author's e-book off of one of our
sites and we get a $20 commission. Basically, you sign up with a program,
put links on your sites, and when people use your link to go buy their
products, you get a commission. If you click on a Backcountry.com link on
one of my backpacking sites, for example, and then buy a tent from them,
I'll get a 5% commission.
Those are three of the ways to make money online. As you can see, you
don't have to ship anything, or even be in town to be making money. To
really make this work, though, you have to continually learn more. You need
to find new ways to increase traffic, new ways to get them to click more,
buy more and return to your site more often.
For the last, this can mean getting them to subscribe to a course or
newsletter. This means you have not just one chance to make money from a
visitor, but numerous chances. If you are running a site on a topic of interest
to you, it also means once more that you get to (I like this part):
Write about things that interest you and make money doing it.
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This little money making scheme was in some e-book I bought on the
internet. It involves writing articles, so I had to try it out. One man claimed
he made $1700 with his first article using this plan. I rewrote five of my
articles and gave it a try. I'll tell you how it worked out, but first I will
explain the basic idea.
You probably know how easy it is now to sign up as an affiliate for various
products. With services like ClickBank (www.clickbank.com) it has become
even easier. There is no approval process for each individual product or
company. Once you have your ClickBank "nickname" you can send traffic
to any one of their thousands of vendors and get a commission. Some pay as
high as 70%, and 50% is probably the average.
It's simple, but some people want it to be even simpler. Building a website is
a bit of work, after all. What if you just wrote an article and had a link in the
resource box go directly to the affiliate (with your affiliate code in it), so
you could earn commissions without any website? You then submit the
article to a dozen free article directories, where people can read it, or web
site owners can use it on their sites.
This has worked for some, but most article directories won't allow affiliate
links in an article, and they do check. A better way follows.
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2. Register a domain. This will be your only expense (assuming you already
have internet access), and should cost less than $10 per year. Register a
name that has something to do with your topic or product. Most good names
are taken, but you can use numbers in the name in order to find an available
one with the word(s) you want (this is why I have the site 999articles.com).
3. Set the domain to redirect or forward to your affiliate URL. All good
registries have free forwarding for your domain. Now any time that
someone clicks through to your domain (or enters it in their browser) they
will be forwarded to the affiliate URL, where they will hopefully buy
something.
4. Write relevant articles, linking to your domain in the resource box. When
your article is read, and the reader wants to learn more, he will click through
to your domain and be redirected to your affiliate URL. Be sure your article
is relevant to what he finds there, or he isn't likely to buy anything.
How well does this money making scheme work? Others claim they do
great with this plan, but my own success was limited. I spent an afternoon
on my first attempt. I figured it was worth 4 or 5 hours to give it a try.
Using a domain I owned but which I hadn't developed into a website, I set it
up to redirect to an affiliate product that I liked - which paid a nice $42
commission. I rewrote five of my previous articles that I had written about
making money online, and I linked to my domain in each resource box. I
submitted each to about a dozen article directories.
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The results? Over the next two months, I made exactly $84 - two $42
commissions. It has been many more months now without a sale. There are
certainly ways to "tweak" this system, and do better than the $17 per hour I
made for my effort, but I have enough other things in the works. Let me
know if you try this and have more success with it.
Helpful Hints
1. You can't take back those articles once they're out there, but you can
redirect your domain to a different affiliate to experiment, or if the original
one cancels its program. Just be sure that the affiliate product or service is
relevant to the content in your articles.
Update
To make money online with no cost at all (you can even do this from a
computer at your local library, try using a free blog. Blogger.com, for
example, lets you set up free blogs (short for ""web logs"). Write about a
topic that you have an interest in, and find some affiliate products to
promote. You can promote the blog in the same way you do a website
(articles, reciprocal links, etc.).
This is a zero-investment business. One blogger I read about had built his
numerous blogs up to an income of $10,000 per month. From my
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experience, I can tell you that you should be happy if you are making any
money at all in the first few months, but it if you are diligent you should be
making some regular income eventually, and it comes in day and night.
The only downside I see is that you are not paying for the blog. This is a
plus for those who need to start on a low budget, but free services are more
likely to close your account if they feel like it for some reason someday.
Blogger.com (and others) have been around for years, but I feel that a
company which is being paid is less likely to cause you any trouble. They
want to keep their customers happy.
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This is a powerful way to boost profits without spending money to get new
customers. This is what fast-food places are doing when they ask you,
"Would you like something to drink with that?"
Again, it's usually cheaper and easier to make more money from existing
customers than to get new ones. If you have a carpet cleaning business, for
example, you could give a discount if they have the carpet cleaning
scheduled automatically for every six months.
You have to track the results of your marketing and advertising to know
this. If coupons in newspapers get you customers cheaper than your mailers,
you should probably drop the mailings and devote that money to newspaper
coupons.
Publicity can be a cheap way to get customers. If you have a fishing gear
shop, you might write a fishing column for the local newspaper, or sponsor
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If you sell a product for $20 that costs you $15, and you sell 200 per week,
your gross profit is $1,000. If you raise the price to $27, and only sell 120
per week, your gross profit is $1,440 - $440 more, on fewer sales. You only
learn these things by testing.
If you are an accountant, you could offer a free educational seminar to teach
people tax-reduction techniques. You will be the expert they think of when
they need help, of course.
If you sell new cars, for example, and the customer can't qualify for
financing, you can still make money on them. Send them to a used car lot
that finances bad credit risks. Arrange beforehand to get a commission for
each person you send that buys something.
Even my credit union does this now, putting offers from insurance
companies in with my statements. The idea is to sell or rent the list to
companies with non-competing products, of course.
I once spent six stamps and an hour to mail an invitation out to visiting high
school sports teams. I invited them to come to the fast-food restaurant I
managed, and bribed the coach with a free meal. Two bus loads came in.
The point of the low risk ways is that nine out of ten could fail, and you can
still make money for the effort.
This is something you should ask repeatedly. It's great to come up with your
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own ideas, but why not also use ideas that have already been proven to
work? This is usually the fastest way to success.
Suppose you have a snow plowing business and you hear that another
plowing business is closing down. Why wait to see if a few of their 200
customers call you? Offer to take over the route and pay the owner $20 for
each customer that stays with you for three months.
When I sold real estate, the buyers could buy a "home warrantee plan" that
covered major systems in the house. We were paid a commission by the
company selling the plans.
An ice cream shop I know of rents out their lot to Christmas tree vendors
and others during the winter months. A furniture store with extra space
could sublet to a company that sells paintings. Extra income like this, from
non-competing businesses, is almost pure profit.
These are the sales-after-the-sale. If you sell pets for example, you can offer
buyers ten percent off any supplies they buy today.
As long as you don't also reduce sales, the money you save goes 100% to
your bottom line profit. Save $500 per year on electricity for a $200
investment in fluorescent light bulbs, and you'll be making $300 more profit
every year. If you have a 25% margin on sales, you'd have to sell $1200
more to accomplish that with sales.
You have to have a way to measure the results, because sometimes a small
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This is a great way to cut the cost of advertising. If you have a pizzeria, for
example, you can hand out coupons for a video store if they will hand out
coupons for your pizza.
I had an employee at a restaurant that could replace any other two and do a
better job. If you can't pay directly for results (like with per-piece factory
pay), try to give more hours and bonuses to the more productive employees.
Maybe you would make more money selling off you equipment, leasing
instead, and using the money for a good marketing campaign. Think of your
time as a business asset too. How can you most profitably use that?
If you have a cleaning business, you might have a simple plan, like: 1.
Schedule a reminder call for the next cleaning; 2. Leave an extra card for
them to give to a friend, and; 3. Put them on your Christmas-card list.
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To get rid of your debt, you have to learn new habits, above all else. If you
don't, you'll probably end up right back in the hole no matter what you do.
Start saving up and paying cash for things. Wait a couple days before buying
something, to see if it was just a temporary desire. Do what you have to do
to change your habits (including reading the NLP chapter again, perhaps).
But if you have the debt, how do you get rid of it?
Set aside 10% or as much as you can of every paycheck to start paying
down your debt. Again, this will only work if you aren't borrowing more at
the same time. Pay your debts before you do anything else.
It may seem smart to reduce the rate on all that credit card debt to 7% by
paying it off with a home mortgage refinance loan. When your credit card
and loan payments add up to $900 every month, why not just get a loan that
will pay all of these debts off and have a nice easy payment of say, $300?
There are two reasons why this may be a bad idea.
Reason 1
Now what happens when you combine all that debt? Do you have less debt?
No. Maybe you get a lower interest rate on average, but you still owe all the
money, right? Your consolidated debt is just easier to pay, because it is in
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one lower payment stretched out over a longer period. What else becomes
easier now? Adding more debt.
This is exactly what many people do. They get their $900 of various
payments rolled into a loan with a $300 payment, and now they have excess
income. Time to buy some things on credit! Debt consolidation can be a way
to postpone reckoning with the real problem - bad financial habits.
Postponing dealing with debt makes it much worse, of course.
Reason 2
Lower interest can cost more. It may seem like you are saving money on
interest with some consolidation loans, but this isn't always true. The
problem is that you are converting short-term debt into long term debt. The
longer you take to pay off the money owed, the more you pay in interest.
An example: If you owed $6,000 on a credit card, with 18% annual interest,
it would take a payment of $176.26 per month to pay it off in four years.
You would pay a total of $2460 in interest. Suppose, in order to get the best
interest rate and easiest terms, you rolled the debt into your 30-year
mortgage on your home (many people do this). If it was a 7% loan, it would
add only $39.92 to the payment. That's easier than $176, and a much lower
interest rate, but how much total interest will you pay over the years? $8371
- that's more than the original debt!
Of course there are debt consolidation loans that are not for 30 years, but
you get the point. Even with a 15-year, 7% loan, which would costs $53.93
per month, you would pay at least 50% more in interest than with the 18%
4-year payoff. Converting short-term debt into long term debt can cost you a
lot more in interest.
Try hard to make those payments and get rid of that debt sooner. You'll be
glad you did. Of course, it may be impossible to make those payments. That
happens, but for a reason. At least work as hard on changing your habits as
you do on getting that consolidation loan. Then apply your debt-reduction
budget to prepaying the mortgage loan.
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If a lawyer or "representative" writes the letter for you, the creditors may
pay more attention. Be sure it mentions that you may be filing bankruptcy.
Of course, you won't have to if this strategy works. Below is an example of
a basic letter for this purpose.
Dear sirs,
I am facing a very bad financial situation. (briefly explain here if you lost a
job, had hours reduced at work, or had uninsured medical expanses, etc.,
and keep this to a couple sentences.) As a result it seems I will not be able to
pay my debts in full, and I will likely be filing for bankruptcy soon.
However, I would like to do my best to pay as much as possible before that
happens.
I've sold things and brought together what little money I have left. As a
result I can pay part of the total debt to those creditors who are willing to
accept this as payment in full. If all accept, I am able to pay about 50% (or
whatever you can pay). Those who refuse can certainly wait to see what is
left at the time of bankruptcy, but it may be nothing.
My Offer
I've been advised that since some will likely refuse, the money I have left
can be split fewer ways. With that in mind, I will find a way to pay 70% (or
whatever you think you can afford) of the debt that I owe you, if you will
return a copy of this letter agreeing to this as the total payment for what I
owe. An agreement can be found below.
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I can send the money by the end of the month. If I do not receive a reply
within two weeks I'll assume you do not want to be included among the
creditors I am paying prior to my probable bankruptcy filing. Thank you for
your consideration.
Sincerely,
Agreement:
Regarding the debt owed by (your name) to (company name): (details of the
debt, account number, possibly the current balance), (company name) agrees
to accept (put the dollar amount you can pay - 70% of the amount owed in
this example), as payment in full, if paid by (date - you might let them fill in
this).
Of course, you would modify this letter for personal debts or other
circumstances. A lawyer may write a more formal letter. The basic idea is to
let the creditor know that your remaining funds will be divided among those
who agree, and they will be "left out" if they don't. likely getting nothing at
bankruptcy. This type of letter has been very effective for many, sometimes
getting most creditors to accept less than 50 cents-on-the-dollar.
If you have much credit card debt, you probably want to pay it off as
quickly as you can. Before outlining how, we'll assume you have taken the
first step - you stopped creating more debt and changed your ways.
Hopefully you also understand that paying off credit card balances with a
consolidation loan or rolling it into a mortgage isn't paying it off. It may
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make things worse. You see, paying on the debt for many more years usually
means paying much more, not less.
Now it is time to learn how to be rid of that credit card debt fast. First, you
have to understand that not all debt is the same, which, of course, you know.
Some of your cards have a higher interest rate than others. How do you use
this fact, though, to pay off the total debt in the most efficient way?
Budget money to pay down those balances. Don't have it? Find it! If you
order pizza every week, for example, it may cost $60 or $80 per month. If
you’re serious about getting those debts paid, you may have to eat $4 frozen
pizzas for now. Do what you have to do, and determine how much you can
apply toward the debt each month.
For an example, let's suppose you can budget $300 per month to pay your
credit card balances. We'll also assume that you have four credit cards, and
to keep it simple we'll say the minimum payment on each is $45. Now, you
could just divide your $300 budget four ways, and pay $75 on each card
every month. This, however, is the wrong way.
You should pay the minimum payment on all the cards but one, and apply
the rest of the budget to that card. Which card? The one with the highest
interest rate, of course. $45 toward each of the other three cards leaves $165
to apply toward the one with the highest interest. Continue in this way until
this card debt is paid in full. This is how you pay the least in total interest
charges.
Once the card is paid off, do you have an extra $165 to spend every month?
Not if your serious about paying off your debts! Maintain the $300 budget
and pay the minimums on the lower interest cards, and the rest on the one
with the highest interest rate. You'll have $210 per month to pay on that one
now, so things will start to get done more quickly.
Just continue this process in the same way. In the end, you'll be paying $300
every month on your last credit card, and the balance will be paid off
quickly. If you have the opportunity to transfer balances to lower-interest
cards during this time, do it - but keep paying that $300 per month, and keep
allocating it first to the highest rate cards. This is the fastest way to pay off
that credit card debt.
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Fixing a credit report starts with seeing what's on it. You may get access to
your credit report and credit score for free online. Try a search for "free
credit report." Alternately, when you are denied credit based on a report
issued by a local credit reporting agency, you can request a free credit report
from that agency within 30 days.
A quick look and you'll have an idea why you were denied credit. Now how
do you fix what you see? What if you find incorrect information on the
report? What if you want to change information that is accurate, but unfair?
First, if there is anything you want to dispute in the report, you can write a
letter to the agency. Tell them exactly what is incorrect, and they must
investigate. Send copies of any documentation, such as canceled checks,
and send it all by certified mail.
The agency must contact the source of the disputed information. If they
receive no confirmation within 14 days, they must delete the item from their
files, and send you an updated report. You can demand that they send the
corrected report to all creditors that received your credit report in the
previous six months. This last part won't be done automatically, so be sure
to demand it.
Honestly, if the item is under $500 or is more than a year old, many
creditors don't bother to respond. Thus "fixing" a credit report is possible
even if it isn't incorrect. If you don't succeed on your first attempt, you can
dispute the item again after 30 days.
When an item can't be removed, you have the right to add a 100-word
explanation permanently to your credit report. All who receive the report
will see your explanation. For example, if you argued with your doctor over
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Fixing a credit report may take a long time if it is based on a history of late
payments and loan defaults. But even in this case, you can correct little
errors, and explain anything that isn't fair. This will make it look a little
better while you start paying bills on time and doing the other things
necessary.
Is it important to raise your credit score? Maybe. Lenders have their own
"break points" between scores that get you one interest rate or another. If
you have a score of 688, and the lender drops the mortgage rate by .5% at
690, those two points can cost you an extra $20,000 in interest on a
$170,000 loan (30 years at 6.5% instead of 6%). Is that important? What can
you do about it?
1. Check your credit reports for errors. See the section above for
information on how to correct any errors you find.
2. Pay all bills on time. You may even want to borrow money to get those
bills paid on time, if you have to. Paying on time is the thing that has the
biggest positive impact on your credit score. Paying off old delinquencies
won't immediately raise your credit score, because these will still show as
being paid late, but start paying on time now, and with time, these old late
payments are deemed less important.
3. Have the right number of cards. At least two cards is best, and having
more than five or six can actually lower your score.
4. Pay off your balances every month. This is just good for your future, as a
way to keep you out of excessive debt. It can save you a lot in interest
charges too. It also demonstrates your ability to manage your debt, and so
increases your credit score.
Note: Paying off the balance each month may be frowned on by some
lenders, which may hesitate to offer you a new credit card. They want the
interest, after all. But it shouldn't negatively affect a credit score (I pay off
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my balances every month and have good credit score), and it is a good idea
for your personal finances in any case.
5. Manage your balances. It is best for your credit score if the balance on a
given card is less than 50% of the limit on that card. Manage your use of the
cards to keep the balances below this amount. For example, if you have
three cards with limits of $2,000, $3,000 and $2,500, it is better to have a
$600 balance on each than $1800 on one.
6. Keep the right cards. If you close accounts or cancel cards, do it right.
Old accounts are better than new ones for your credit score. Keep those old
ones open, even if the balance is zero. Also, it's best to keep balances below
50% of the card limits, so you may want to cancel your lower-limit cards if
you regularly keep balances on your cards.
7. Don't apply for too many loans and cards. Too many inquiries on your
credit reports lowers your score. Don't apply for a lot of cards in a given
year.
8. Be careful whom you borrow from. Furniture stores and others help you
finance your purchases through finance companies, and this can lower your
score. It is better to borrow the money from a bank or credit union.
You may have noticed that this is almost a list of things that your lower
credit score. It really is, and you should keep that in mind. Just pay things
bills on time and don't do things that lower your score - that's the best way
to raise your credit score.
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Credit card companies are in business to make money, and they make it
primarily from the interest they collect on card balances. This means they
want to encourage you to use the card, and to not pay off the balance ever,
so they can continue to charge interest. Sometimes they get just a little bit
sneaky in the process, though. Here are some things to watch for.
Of course it makes sense that you should pay a penalty if you are late with
your payment. However, some credit card companies are changing the due
dates in order to get you to pay late, so they can generate more profits from
late fees. Don't assume that because you always had three weeks after the
statement arrived, you will this time. Check the date.
By the way, this happened to a neighbor of mine (in 2009), and his interest
rate jumped to 29.75%! He called and asked for a better due date, since the
one he had was only a day or two after his Social Security check arrived, not
giving him enough time to get the payment in. They agreed, but made the
due date retroactive, so he was immediately considered late again - and
charged another late fee.
Annual Fees
If you have good credit, you don't have to pay annual fees. Call and ask for
the fee to be removed. Years ago, when I first heard that you could do this, I
tried it immediately. On three out of four cards I called on, they dropped the
fee. For the fourth, I dropped the card. In fact, the threat of closing the
account is what got the fees dropped on the others.
The trick that these companies often play, is to offer no fee - for the first
year. Then you are hit with a fee when you aren't expecting it. You still can
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usually get this fee removed if you threaten to cancel the card.
Late Fees
Universal Default
Read the fine print. Under "universal default" rules, if you are late on one
card, your interest rate can be increased on other cards as well. In fact, if
you are late on anything which is on your credit report (like a phone bill, for
example), they can increase your interest rate. Dispute any inaccurate
reports of late payments to avoid being hit by universal default penalties.
Tricky Promotions
One month you'll receive credit card convenience checks that are "no fee"
checks. The next month, another offer from the same company will say "Use
these checks and pay zero interest for the next three months." In the small
print, where they hope you'll miss it, they mention a 3% fee.
If you are like me, and normally pay off your balances every month, that's
3% for a month. In other words, on these "zero interest" checks you would
pay 36% annual interest. Read the fine print. Sometimes there are no fees if
the checks are used to transfer debt from other cards. In that case, you might
actually have a zero-cost loan for the month.
This typically stops your payments when you are injured or unemployed. It
is one of the most over-priced insurances out there. Most of these programs
don't even eliminate the debt, but just delay it. Others just pay the minimum
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until you are employed again. In other words, you might pay $90 in a year
for this insurance, and then someday, when you are laid off for two months,
they will make the $30 minimum payment for you twice. Jut skip it.
It pays for unauthorized charges when your card is stolen. Since you are
usually only liable for the first $50 if you report the theft in any case (and
many cards already have zero liability), you'll spend far more on this
insurance than it will save you.
There are "credit protection" plans, "credit rating monitoring" services and
many other gimmicks that the credit card companies invent to take more of
your money. The usual way they sell you these is to give you a free trial for
a month or two, after which, if you're not "absolutely satisfied and thrilled
with the service," you can cancel - if you remember to. Of course if you
don't. you are billed for the year.
How could you judge the value of these types of programs in a month? If
you don't buy a bad television under an extended warrantee plan in the next
thirty days, how do you know what the plan can do for you. If you don't
have your identity stolen during the trial period of your "identity protection
plan," you have no way to know what kind of service they offer.
Obviously, the real intent of the "free trial" isn't so you can try out the
services, since 99% of the time you'll have no way to judge them. The credit
card companies intention is that you forget you signed up for something,
and you just keep paying for it. Don't think they will remind you when the
free trial is over. Your card will be billed automatically.
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In any casino, secrets and "systems" are passed from player to player. The
result? Big profits - for the casino. Most systems are really just ways to lose
slower. Some are just ways to lose differently. For example, with one system
you get many small wins followed by big losses, while with another you
make occasional big bets that are won or lost randomly.
On the other hand, there was that one man who made $80,000 over several
months on my roulette wheel, when I was working in a casino. I'll get the
details of how he did it in a moment. But first let's look at some
misconceptions about gambling.
Now if you want to test the theory, you can. Just stand by the roulette table
and wait. Bet on black, but only when red has come up four or more times in
a row. Remember, black is "due" or more likely at these times, according to
this theory. You'll have a lot of opportunities to bet during an evening, but I
can tell you right now that you probably won't like the result, so don't quit
your day job.
This theory is applied to many games, by the way. Blackjack players will bet
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more after losing several hands in a row, for example, because they feel they
are "due" to win. Many craps players, slot machine gamblers and poker
players share this superstition.
The "hot streak" theory is similar but the opposite of the "due" theory. It is
similar because it assumes that recent random results predict future results.
According to this theory, if a red number has been spun several times in a
row, red is on "hot streak" and you should bet it. Or if you win two or three
hands in a row in blackjack, you should bet more on the next hand.
To test this, just bet when either a red or black number has come in three
times in a row, and bet on that same color. Or bet the table minimum on
blackjack all night, raising your bet five-fold after every time you win two
hands in a row. This will be about as successful as the last theory.
One of the most common ideas I have seen in recent years, is that some
system of "money management" can make you a winner in a casino. One
late-night television "infomercial" was really promoting this idea for a
while. The star of the show was always in a casino demonstrating his
system. Do you think a casino would allow the cameras in if he could really
show you how to win?
Managing your bets in certain ways can slow your losses, and it certainly
can mean more winning nights. But money management doesn't change the
odds. In the long run you still lose, just in different ways.
For example, if you sit down to play blackjack, without card counting or
otherwise moving the odds in your favor, you may see your bankroll go up
and down. If your habit is to keep playing until you win really big or lose,
you'll normally go home behind. On the other hand, if you have a simple
money management system that gets you out while you are ahead, you can
go home a winner more often.
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Let's say you start with $100. Your money management "rules" say that you
leave if you lose $50 from any high-point. This is called a "trailing stop
loss" in stock trading. In other words, if your bankroll is up to $175 at some
point, the most you'll let it slip back to is $125. That's $50 lost from that
point, but you still leave $25 ahead.
The idea here is that you can still win big while controlling losses. You can
even increase the size of the "stop loss" once you get to say $300, to allow
for bigger bets. This isn't a system to change the odds, of course, but only
one to change your behavior.
You will very likely go home ahead more often with a simple system like
this. But again, you haven't changed the odds one bit. You are simply
disciplining yourself to play less and not lose too much in one night. Over
the years, you'll still lose 6% of every dollar bet, or whatever percentage the
casino's "edge" is, according to the particular rules they play by.
Slot machine players may be the most superstitious of all gamblers. They
think there are "hot" machines which they can intuitively pick out. They rub
their hands over the screen to affect the outcome. They pull the handle at the
exact "right" moment they have tuned into.
There are ways to win at slots, but they have nothing to do with the theories
of most players. There are sometimes slot machines programmed to pay out
more than 100%, for example (one major casino in Las Vegas did this for
years), in order to attract attention. There are tournaments where you win
based on beating the results of other players, for which there are workable
strategies.
As far as the rest of the nonsense, here is the simple test, which no slot
machine player wants to take: write down the amount won or lost every time
you play. Then add it all up after a few months and again after a year.
Interestingly, when I have actually suggested this to some players, they
seem almost horrified. One even suggested that doing this would interfere
with his luck. What can I say, except that when such "luck" is delusion, the
truth does seem to get in the way.
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Now I know that someone will write me and tell me that they were ahead
after a year. The odds say that will happen once in a while. I will invite such
"lucky" players to keep tracking their results and get back with me two
years down the road.
Card Counting
People want to believe there is a system they can easily use to beat the
"house." The good news is that there are ways to get the statistical edge over
the casino. Unfortunately, they are not usually easy.
Card counting, for example, really can give you the edge at blackjack. The
problem is that it is often a small advantage, and there is a lot of work and
self discipline required. From my days working at a casino, I do remember
one "regular" who I an fairly certain made money consistently at the
blackjack tables, but even he wasn't getting rich.
You see, you may only get a 1/2 percent edge over the casino. If your
average bet is just twenty dollars, and the dealer deals out sixty hands per
hour, that $1,200 laid out each hour will make you about $6 per hour in the
"long run." In the short run you will lose or win hundreds on different days.
That's with perfect play and $20 bets.
I won't get into an explanation of card counting. There are good books to
show you how to do it if you are interested. I can tell you that you'll need to
practice and follow the "rules" religiously. Although this is one of the few
things that work, I include in this collection of "dumb" ideas because of the
way most gamblers try it. Probably 95% of "card counters" won't put forth
the effort to do it right, so they make a lot of money for casinos.
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Okay, there are great books out there if you want to count cards. This,
however, is a story about roulette. One of my favorite players - who I'll call
John - used to win regularly. When I ran the table, we would talk philosophy
while he patiently made his simple bets all night. I knew he was winning,
but I never knew how much.
After I quit the job, I met him for coffee and discovered that he had made
over $80,000 in sixteen months of part-time play. That made it more
interesting. More about John in a moment.
I'll assume you have seen a roulette wheel (you can go look at one online by
searching "roulette" on a search engine). But in case you aren't familiar with
how it works, here's a brief explanation. Players bet on numbers or
combinations of numbers. The dealer or "croupier" spins the wheel in one
direction, and the ball in the other. This is to make predicting where the ball
lands almost impossible.
You get paid 35 to 1 if your number comes up, so you receive $35 for each
dollar bet, plus you keep the bet. Since there are 38 numbers, you can see
that the house has an edge (5.6 percent, to be precise), but what if certain
numbers came up more often than they should - for example, more often
than 1-in-35 spins? That's when you can make money.
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spun the wheel 60 or more times per hour, so you can see that this could be
very lucrative.
So why would that number or any other come up more often than it should?
The short answer is Who cares - just bet it! The longer explanation has to do
with the nature of the wheels. The pockets could be manufactured
imperfectly, with one or more slightly larger than the others, therefore
catching the ball more often. One or more of the dividers between the
pockets could be loose, meaning it absorbs the force of the ball instead of
bouncing the ball away. The ball would therefore tend to drop into that
pocket more often.
There are other reasons, including more temporary ones, like a drop of
sticky pop in one of the pockets, or a build-up of dust. The important point
isn't what causes a "biased" wheel, though. The important point is this:
Why would a casino let this happen? One reason is that roulette wheels are
expensive, and so they are not often replaced, unlike cards and dice, which
casinos replace daily. This means that if there is a bias, it sometimes remains
for months.
Another reason is laziness. I know for a fact that managers where I worked
were aware of their biased roulette wheel, but as long as the table made
money for the casino overall, they were too lazy to worry about one guy
making a profit on it.
John (not his real name) came in initially with two friends, as he explained
to me. They took turns "charting" the wheel. This is nothing more than the
process of writing down the number that comes up on every spin. They did
this for weeks on both roulette wheels in the casino. It is an incredibly
boring yet crucial part of the process, often amounting to nothing, since
there may not be a bias to be discovered.
You see, if the number eighteen comes up ten times in a hundred spins, it is
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meaningless, because the sample is too small. You need to know if the bias
is real, and therefore will continue, or is just a statistical fluke. Without
getting into probability theory and a discussion of standard deviations,
suffice it to say that if you want to be fairly certain the bias is "real," you
need a sample of about 5,000 spins or more.
Any less than that, and you may be betting on a false-bias. The mathematics
can be difficult, but a simple example help explain: Any ten coin tosses can
result in seven heads or tails, right? But an unbiased coin probably won't
ever come up heads 7,000 out of 10,000 tosses. Big numbers show true bias.
John's crew eventually had 15,000 spins recorded in a little notebook.
As it turned out, the number "0" was coming in 1-in-28 spins. This
surpassed the 1-in-33 threshold they had decided they needed to make it
safe and worth their while. Only John had the patience, though, to continue
sitting there night after night, placing one bet on one number, over and over.
Within a couple weeks, his friends quit. They not only didn't have the
patience required, but probably also didn't like the fact that even with the
odds in their favor, they had nights when they lost as much as $700, due to
the normal ups and downs the probabilities dictate.
So night after night John sat there discussing politics and philosophy with
me and the other dealers, placing one bet on 0 for each spin of the wheel. He
was making between $50 and $100 per hour depending on the number of
spins per hour, and assuming the bias was consistent in the long run.
Eventually, after more than a year, and $80,000 in profits for John, the
casino got a new wheel.
2. Watch 5000 spins, writing down the number the ball falls into on each
one.
3. Start betting any that came up more than 151 times (1-in-33 spins).
4. If none are coming up that often, find a new wheel and start the process
over.
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If you do notice temporary reasons for a bias, like a sticky pocket with a few
drops of someone's drink splashed in it, you may want to watch to see if
they are corrected (cleaned, in this case). Most biases remain for a while
because they are not noticed by management, or their cause is unknown, and
replacing roulette wheels is expensive. Of course, cleaning isn't.
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You should almost certainly use a real estate agent to help you sell your
house. I say this for many reasons, but I'll just sum them up by saying that
the biggest reason people try to sell on their own is to save money - and it
rarely works!
I also recommend that you get the help of a good real estate agent when you
are buying a house. However, there are some things you should know that
most agents will never tell you.
Open Houses
An open house is a prospecting tool for the agent, not a way to sell your
house. In fact, many experienced agents won't even host their own open
houses. They get a newer agent to host it. I did this many times as a new
agent. I would a good chunk of his or her commission if I sold it instead of
them. They wouldn't risk that if homes were commonly sold from open
houses (they aren't).
Why do they let dozens of people who aren't qualified to buy your home
track their muddy feet through it then? The listing agent does it so she can
appear to be doing everything she can to sell it. Since it is the norm now, an
agent might look lazy or neglectful if she doesn't at least suggest an open
house to you.
The hosting agent uses it as a prospecting tool. There may be two dozen
couples who want a new home coming right to him, and usually leaving
their names and phone numbers. Now that's an opportunity, but for the
agent, not for you. Yes, sometimes an open house can help sell your home,
but not as often as you might think. So if you are worried about the
inconvenience, possible theft and damage, just say no.
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Unless they are specifically working as buyers agents, they are working for
the seller. Many buyers don't think this matters, as long as the agent is
helpful. That's true to an extent. What buyers don't realize though, is that an
agent has a legal responsibility to and loyalty to the best interest of the
seller.
What does this mean? As an example, suppose you make an offer on a home
and mention that if the seller says no, you'll probably go $8,000 higher. The
agent has an obligation to tell the seller what you just said. A good agent,
even if he is a seller's agent, can be a great help to a buyer. Just remember
that he's a salesman, and you're not the boss. Be careful about what you say,
and be careful with what he says.
You may think that you can avoid this problem by using a buyer's agent.
This is true to an extent, but not entirely. Remember that typically the agent
still only gets paid when a sale is made. That means an agent may be more
interested in getting you to buy something quick (and expensive - if his
commission is based on the price), than in helping you get a great deal.
Have you seen the ads in the paper for homes for sale that don't have prices?
What do you do? Sometimes I may call, but there are so many homes to
look at that I often just skip over these ones. With that in mind, how did
leaving the price out help the seller? It didn't.
Again, this is a prospecting tool. For the agent, it is good to have people call
out of curiosity. When they find that the home isn't right for them, the agent
can steer them to another listing that he can make money on. Agents have
enough ways to get buyers for other properties. Personally, I insist that they
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Agents often just want to get the sale closed, and will let you believe
whatever you have to in order to do that. They'll tell you that the seller and
buyer always split the closing fee, for example. They'll tell you that they
can't change the commission after it has been set. They'll tell you that you
have to write a big check for a "good faith" deposit when you make an offer.
I have seen realtors knock $4,000 off the commission to get a sale closed at
a lower price. I have seen the buyer or the seller pay the entire closing fee.
People sometimes put less than $1000 down as a deposit with an offer, and
sometimes nothing - with the agreement to put up something when the offer
is accepted. Very little is set in stone when it comes to real estate.
The first time I made an offer on a house, the agent didn't understand what I
meant when I told him that I wanted to get a 90% first mortgage and have
the seller carry a second for 5%, so I could get in with only 5% down. Years
into his career, he still had only dealt with deals that had regular bank
mortgages.
Often agents will be very knowledgeable about a certain type of real estate,
or a certain neighborhood, but know little else. Like other professionals,
they specialize. If you really need help finding a particular type of property,
look through listings online until you find an agent that already has several
of that type listed.
Investing in real estate? Remember that while some real estate agents may
be investors too (surprisingly, most aren't), not many will still be showing
properties once they've made millions on their own account. In other words,
a real estate sales person may not be the best source for investing advice.
Talk to an agent for what they know about homes and property, but don't
forget to also talk to other investors for investment expertise.
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We didn't ask where he got the down payment, but the above scenario is
possible. It would mean he invested no money of his own. Of course, if you
do this, you have to look at whether you'll make enough in rent to cover
your monthly expenses.
In this case, with rent around $600 per month, he would be okay. In some
cases, however, that extra $135 might cause negative cash-flow. So be sure
that however you do it, the numbers work. By the way, I would have set the
payments at $350, if he had asked, because it's the price and the interest rate
that are important to me.
You should understand two things if you want to buy real estate with no
money down:
While there are sellers who are able to offer terms and low down payments
(as we did), usually you'll have to find a way to get at least 70% of the price
to them in cash. Think in terms of how to get a primary loan, then how to
raise the money for the remainder.
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Learn what the seller really needs and wants. In the above case, I wanted a
good price and interest rate. I would have been flexible in many ways if I
could get these. You also have to be clear about your own needs, so you can
find a way to solve the seller's problem and yours.
Some banks still do "no-doc" loans, meaning they don't require verification
of income, source of down payment, etc. They generally loan only 70% to
80% of the property value, but if the seller is willing to take a second
mortgage from you for the other 20% to 30%, you are in with no money
down. The seller gets 70% or 80% in cash, plus payments for years to come.
You'll have two payments, of course, so be sure the numbers work.
Equity Loans
You can borrow against your home or other property to come up with down
payment money. If you borrow for a "vacation," and leave whatever you
don't spend in your checking account for a while, you can use it without
violating bankers rules about borrowing for a down payment.
Note Buyers
Even if you live in a small town, there are usually a few "note buyers."
These are investors that buy land contracts, mortgage loans and other
"notes" at a discount. If a seller takes a purchase money mortgage from you
for $100,000, for example, a note buyer might pay him $85,000 for it. So
how does that help you or him?
and another for $50,000. You have arranged for the sale of the first
mortgage at closing for $136,000 to a note buyer. The seller gets that cash
now, plus payments from you on the second loan for $50,000. Notice that
this adds up to $186,000, which is more than he expected to get out of the
deal.
Of course you will have two payments. You also paid $210,000 for the
property. That's okay if it still shows positive cash flow when you have it
rented out. Just be sure to run the numbers. Zero-down doesn't help you if
you don't get something for your effort.
Gifting Programs
In some parts of the country, builders fund foundations that give you a
portion of the down payment, so you can get into a home with as little as 3%
down payment from your own pocket. FHA and other lenders have so far
approved of or allowed this. To make it "zero-down" you could borrow for a
vacation and forget to take it, using the loan for the down payment instead.
VA Loans
If you have been in the armed services, have a decent job, and can save two
or three paychecks, you can probably get a home with a VA loan. They get
very close to being no-money-down deals, and if you can borrow the small
down payment, they can be truly no-money-down.
Land Contract
Also called "contract for sale" and other names depending on the part of the
country you are in, this just means that you make payments to the seller
instead of a bank. It's up to you and them to negotiate down payment
amount, interest rate, and the term of the loan. If the seller needs a boat and
you have one, this could be a down payment, making the deal zero-down.
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Family Loans
It may not be out of charity that a brother or a friend lends you the money to
buy a home. A 7% return might look awfully good if their money is sitting
in the bank at 2%. Get a mortgage or have the seller finance the purchase,
and then borrow the down payment from the friend or family member to
make it a zero-down deal.
Credit Cards
This is a risky one, but if you have a low-interest credit card, you can use it
to come up with the down payment, especially if you can pay it off soon
with a coming tax refund, for example. Banks generally won't allow this, but
you can combine this with seller financing.
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More creative imagination, then, must include the ability not just to imagine
things, but to imagine original things. This means seeing things that others
don't see, and coming up with new ideas. Can you cultivate this? Yes.
Get more creative in your thinking and imagining. This can be as simple as
paying attention to your creativity, because our subconscious minds give us
more of what we pay attention to. When you ignore creative aspects of your
life, you're telling your subconscious they're unimportant, but if you notice
when you're creative, your subconscious mind will start feeding you more
creative ideas.
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Start playing games that exercise your creative imagination. One such game
uses a technique called "concept combination." Whether played alone or
with other players, you combine random concepts or things in new ways, to
see who has the best idea. A thermometer and a billboard, for example,
could generate an idea for a sign that checks the weather and adjusts the
message accordingly ("Come in out of the heat for a cold beverage," or
"Come in out of the rain and warm up with our gourmet coffee," or "Come
enjoy this beautiful sunset from our deck.").
Want the mind of a creative inventor? Start redesigning everything you see.
Imagine better cars, faster ways to serve food, or better light bulbs. If you do
this every day for three weeks, it will become a habit.
Want to be the person who always has something interesting to say? Train
yourself to look at things from other perspectives. What would the Buddha
say about this? How would a Martian view it? What's the opposite
perspective? The point isn't to ask others silly questions, but to ask yourself,
to see what interesting ideas result. Do this until it is a habit, and you'll
always have something interesting to add to a conversation.
Creative inspiration can strike at any time, but such inspiration strikes more
often when there is work instead of waiting. So if you want to come up with
creative inventions, start mentally redesigning everything you see. Imagine
a better bicycle, a faster mail service, or a better chair. Continue this for
three weeks, and it will become a habit.
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inventing things. Truly creative minds are always coming up with the
questions too, and not just the solutions. To cultivate this kind of creativity,
try these three things:
Working just to not work (to retire) might seem silly to a child. Thinking
from that child's perspective might give you ideas for how to make money
doing things you enjoy. Seeing the world as a bear sees it might give a
painter imaginative new ideas. Seeing things from a customer's perspective
is a sure way to find creative improvements for a business. Try to see
everything from several perspectives.
A flying bed may seem silly, but then it could lead to the concept of a
helium mattress. Get out of bed in the morning, and it floats up and out of
the way, to the ceiling. Ideal for small apartments. Never stifle your
creativity. Relax, let ideas come in any form, and remember that you can
always discard them later.
If you want these techniques to be a habitual part of your thinking, you have
to use them regularly. Since it usually takes several weeks to develop a
habit, consciously use them each day for 20 days or more. List a few of your
favorite creative problem solving techniques on a card, for example, and
carry it with you. Look over the list every day and apply the methods there
to anything and everything. In a few short weeks you'll have a more creative
imagination.
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Classic creative thinking games are a great way to tune up your brain. You
can use these mind games to help you increase your brain power and to get
you out of your thinking "ruts." Play them enough, and they'll habituate you
to using creative problem solving as a normal part of thinking about things.
Group thinking games are especially good for long trips in a car. Have
someone look out the window, for example, and randomly choose an object.
Everyone in the car then tries to imagine a new way to make money with it.
Common street signs become places to advertise, trees are sold with names,
and a truck becomes a traveling grocery store.
A lateral thinking puzzle you can try right now involves nine dots, laid out
three by three. Connect them all with four straight lines, without lifting the
pen or pencil from the paper. When you figure this one out you'll appreciate
the expression "thinking outside of the box."
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Many riddles are just mind games or lateral-thinking puzzles. You move
laterally in your mind, away from your usual line of thought, to solve a
riddle. For example, what did his friends do when the cannibal was late for
dinner? They gave him the cold shoulder, of course! Keeping your brain in
shape doesn't have to be a matter of serious study. Why not play some
thinking games?
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The first step to develop your intuition is to realize you have it already. If
you've ever had a hunch about something, that was intuition. Intuition is just
your mind using more than what you are consciously aware of. But can you
trust your intuition? How do you improve it?
Gary Kasparov would probably admit that a computer can calculate chess
positions many moves further ahead than he can. Yet he still beats the best
computers out there because of his intuitive grasp of the game. His
experience allows him to combine analysis with a "sense" of which move is
best. Try to find areas in your own life where you intuitively operate.
Intuition is also a warning device. Both my wife and I felt we shouldn't get
on that bus in Ecuador. This is no psychic power. Crowded busses are prime
locations for pickpockets. A drunk man was bumping into people repeatedly.
We didn't consciously pay attention, but these things registered in our
minds, warning us. We felt "something isn't right here." When we ignored
our intuition, I was robbed.
When I bought a conversion van, I saw them all over. Maybe you've had a
similar experience. Looking for and recognizing a thing trains your mind to
find more of it. The same process will happen if you watch for your
intuition - you'll start to see more of it.
Unfortunately, a strong hunch can be for irrelevant reasons too. If you were
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hit by a yellow taxi as a child, you might have "intuitive" hunches not to get
into yellow taxis for the rest of your life. So even learning to recognize your
intuition and encourage it may leave you wondering when to trust it.
Start questioning your hunches. If we had asked why we felt bad about that
bus, it may have occurred to us, "Oh yeah, crowded busses are a bad idea -
we know that." Study your strong feeling about that taxi, and you might say,
"Oh, it's just my fear of yellow taxis." Get in the habit of paying attention to
and studying your intuitive feelings.
Where does your intuition work best? If you're always right about your
intuitive stock picks, give a little credence to them. On the other hand, if
your hunches about people are usually wrong, don't follow them. Just pay
attention more, and you'll be developing intuition about your intuition.
1. Recognize your intuition and you'll have hunches and ideas more often.
3. Give it good information and you'll be repaid with good hunches and
ideas.
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If you had the power of concentration whenever you wanted it, imagine how
much more productive you could be. Good news! Not only can learn how to
concentrate better, but you can do so right now.
Concentration Is Automatic
Here it is:
As you become aware of these stressors, do something with them to let them
go for the moment. Make that phone call, or make a note about it, and your
mind will usually let go of the concern for now. Put future things that need
to be done on a list. Do whatever you can quickly do to let these "mind
irritations" go. Sometimes just telling yourself something like, "There is
nothing I can do about this problem until Friday," will stop unconscious
worrying.
Do this exercise a few times, and you'll find it becomes easier to recognize
what is just below the surface, irritating you and sapping your power of
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concentration. Set these mind irritations aside, and you will think more
clearly. This is essentially a "mindfulness” exercise, by the way.
Mindfulness meditation can help with this process and with self awareness
if you want to go deeper in this practice.
Ask Why
I have read that Stephen King writes with loud music on. What distracts
each of us, or doesn't, is obviously personal and somewhat unique. Do
something about whatever it is that takes your mind away from the task at
hand. Turn off the TV, feed your empty stomach, or turn your desk away
from the window.
When you take care of the external and the internal distractions, you'll be
able to focus your attention and brain power like a spotlight. Watch a child
building a sand castle sometime, and you'll see that the power of
concentration really is natural.
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25 - Memory Secrets
The "loci" method for remembering things is at least two thousand years
old. Loci is the plural of locus, meaning place or location. This system was
used by Greek and Roman orators to memorize speeches, and it is the origin
of the phrase "in the first place." Here's how to make it work for you:
Choose ten locations that you can memorize and recall easily. It is best if
they are in your home or town, or somewhere you are very familiar with.
For my own loci, I use the window in our kitchen, the microwave oven, the
sink, the stove, the refrigerator, the front door, the TV, the hall, the washing
machine and the dryer. These ten locations are easy to remember and use
because they are in order as I mentally walk through the house.
When you want to remember a list of things (or parts of a speech), you place
each item in one of the places in your imagination. For best results, make it
unusual in some way. I'll use a grocery list of eight items as an example.
In my mind, I see:
1. Milk splashing against the kitchen window, with wiper blades clearing it
off.
4. I put paper towels on the stove, and watch them bursting into flames.
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Later, when I am in the grocery store, I can mental walk through the house
and easily recall all eight items. If you involve your senses, and make the
images crazy, you'll remember a list like this even the next day. You can
have as many loci as you want for your system, but I recommend a
minimum of ten.
This is another way to remember a list of things. The trick is to link the
items together in an imaginative story. Let's say you want to remember the
following things: milk, soap, forks, honey, and flowers.
You create a story, and see it as vividly as you can in your imagination. For
example:
At the bathroom sink, you reach for the soap, but the soap dish is filled with
milk, so you wash your hands with that, then comb honey into your hair
with a fork, pick up a bouquet of flowers and smile at yourself in the mirror.
Repeat each item to yourself as you review this mental "movie," and you'll
remember all five things, even the next day.
There are, of course, many more complicated systems, if you want to invest
the time to learn them (most people don't). They are well worth the time if
you work in sales or other areas where a good memory for names and
information can double your income. Meanwhile, here are some simple tips
that will yield you the most improvement for the time spent learning them.
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To Remember Places
To Remember Numbers
For a neat trick that could win you a bar bet, memorize the what day of the
week it is on the first day of each month in the coming year. Then, if
someone asks you what day May 25th will be, and you know the first is a
Tuesday, you quickly move in sevens and know that the 22nd is Tuesday
(1,8,15,22), add three days, and tell them it will be a Friday. This is easy
with a little practice.
To Remember Names
- Write it down.
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Guess what the biggest problem with memory techniques is? Remembering
to use them. Seriously, there are many great methods, but if you don't have
the habit of using them, you'll forget to when you need them most. With any
technique, make a conscious effort to use it until it becomes automatic.
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26 - Secrets Of Spies
Ever wonder how people create a new identity? There are various reasons
for doing so, some ethical, some not. The following was done by someone I
know, and provides an example of how to get a driver's license in a new
name. It is what I would call a "low level identity change" because to really
adopt new identity is lot more work, and involves changing your lifestyle so
as not to leave clues for investigators. Note: The following may not work in
every state, and cannot be recommended, since it is illegal.
This man first chose a new name. He was careful not to use anything close
to his current name. He tried to think of himself using the name, to "set" it
in his mind. He also invented a "history," complete with parents names and
origins and such.
He found blank w-2 tax forms in the office where he worked. He took one
home and filled it out on a typewriter, using his new name, social security
number and a reasonable income. He filled in the space for the employers
name and address by looking through a phone book from another state in
the library, and choosing a small business there.
It was safer to choose a real business, but far way, so nobody who saw this
document would know the employer. He chose the social security number
for his w-2 form using information online about how numbers are assigned.
In this case, his started with 405, because 400 to 407 is used for Kentucky,
the state he had on his birth certificate. The number couldn't be used for
working, at least not for long, since it most likely belonged to someone else
(again, this is a "low level identity change").
Then he folded them up and carried them around in his back pocket for a
week to "age" them. he says a quick soak in tea, an hour in the cloths dryer
or a few days outside under a bush will work as well. They can't look too
new.
He went to an office supply store and bought some blank employee award
forms and evaluation forms. He filled these out using the name of the
employer he had put on the w-2 form. Extra documents like these aren't
worth much by themselves, but when used along with more "official"
documents like a birth certificate, they make the new identity more
believable.
He chose a local address to use for the next step. This was a real address in
an apartment building, miles from where he actually lived. With the
photocopy-and-correction-fluid method described above, he used some bills
and letters to create "mail" that looked as though it had been sent to him at
that address.
With this mail, his birth certificate, and w-2 form, he went to a private
mailbox rental place to rent a mailbox in his new name. The postal service
requires that these services verify identity and current address (which is
what he had the fake mail for). The first one insisted on a driver's license,
but the second one he tried just had him fill out the form, verifying nothing.
Now he had an address to use. Most of these places let you use their street
address, followed by a "department number" or "suite number" in order to
get the mail to the right box. It makes it look like it could be a residential
address. This is important, because he needed a place to have his driver's
license sent to.
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He said he was having trouble getting the number from the other state, so he
would take the written test just in case, while he was trying to get the
number.
Thirty days later he returned and took the driving test. The new driver's
license was in his new mailbox nine days later. He used that to get library
cards and other documents in case he needed more evidence of his new
identity.
This true story, as noted, is the simple way to create a limited new identity.
Much more sophisticated approaches, like the infant-death birth certificate
method, are used for a true "starting over."
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* Have any meter-readers or others spent more time than usual in your yard?
A transmitter can be placed in the outside junction box to transmit all your
telephone calls. Your house is never entered. A screwdriver is all that's
needed to open these and check for bugs.
* Has your home been broken into but valuable things left alone? Theft may
not have been the motive. Look for electronic bugs.
* Has anyone been hanging around outside your home or office? A contact
microphone for walls can pick up conversations through almost a foot of
concrete.
* Are there new vehicles, especially vans, which have been recently parked
near your home? Note when they come and go, and whether anyone ever
gets out of them.
* Have the numbers in the memory on your phone been lost? This can
happen when the phone is either tampered with or replaced.
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* Are you getting new interference on your television or radio? Note when it
started and consider whether there were any other suspicious signs.
* Have you noticed that some part of your wall or baseboard has an odd
texture? This can be from conductive paint used for hidden microphones.
* Have you seen brick or plaster dust on the floor? This can be from drilling
or from lifting wallpaper to place a microphone.
Most of us have nothing to worry about, but if there are reasons you might
be bugged, and you suspect it is happening, use the list above to investigate.
A proper visual investigation of a home or office can take hours, though,
and is not easy. You'll probably want to hire a private detective who
specializes in this area. By yourself you're not likely to detect a
sophisticated listening device, like one hidden in the wiring of a smoke
alarm.
If you do discover a bug, what do you do? It may seem that you should just
get rid of the device, but it may not be the only one, and removing it lets the
surveillers know that you are on to them. A better idea, if you have a good
idea who placed the bugs, could be to feed your surveillers false
information. Think this through carefully, and be sure you are up to the
acting job it entails.
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You are unique, both in your personality and your body. That's why diets fail
when they aren't right for you. Keep looking, though, and you'll find a way
to lose weight. It may be a plan that suits your unique personality and body,
or the result of many small changes you make - or a combination of both.
First, though, I have a question for you.
Why do you need to lose weight? Don't buy into the myth that we all need
to be thin. There is no rational basis for it. Write down the benefits you
expect from losing weight. Are they worth the effort? Being clear about this
is the best way to stay motivated if you do decide to lose weight.
A Dose Of Honesty
Just before writing this, I saw a report on the news about a review of
existing obesity studies. It showed that, contrary to the consensus of health
professionals, being a little overweight actually had no effect on longevity.
You can be overweight and live a long, healthy life.
The point of bringing this up is to dispel some silly ideas and get real about
weight loss. Will you get more dates if you lose weight? Probably, but how
many do you need? You certainly can find friends and lovers right now.
Look around and you'll see that there are many overweight or even obese
people in happy relationships.
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There's nothing wrong with you just because you're overweight. Don't
accept the idea that heavy people have some special character flaw. People
who are cruel to their kids or lie to their spouses have flaws not visible to
the public, so nobody thinks badly of them, yet aren't these far worse than
simply eating too much?
Our culture is obsessed with appearance, and with the idea of willpower. A
man can bite his nails his whole life (or drink or smoke or have a cold
heart), and he'll be accepted in polite society, weak willpower and all,
because his weakness can be hidden. Gain a little weight, though, and
people think "Look at that. Hmm...no willpower." Don't hate judgmental
people for their ignorance and hypocrisy, but don't accept their silly ideas
for a second!
Look at the list of possible benefits below. Which are important or relevant
to your desires and goals? Write them down, but in more personal terms
(example: "I'll have the energy to start that business," or "I'll be able to
climb mountains again.") Review your list regularly, so you are motivated,
and for the right reasons.
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- You'll like what you see when you look in the mirror.
Explore and address your specific needs. Maybe your weight problem is
something that requires psychological help. Maybe you just need a slightly
easier-to-follow diet, and you'll finally lose that weight. Maybe exercise is
the way for you. Find the unique combination of factors that work for you.
The list that follows is just a collection of many options, all of which have
worked for some people sometimes. If the methods which involve changing
the foods you eat and activities you engage in don't work after several tries,
you may want to focus on the methods that work to change your beliefs and
thinking. The key? Persist - you'll find the way if you do that. But persist in
the effort, not in using methods that fail you.
One more thought: If you find enough little "tricks" that help (start with the
list below), you might not need any complicated or overwhelming "weight
loss plan." Just keep adding helpful and simple routines and foods to your
life.
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Park farther from the door when you go to work or to a store or office. The
extra little bit of walking really adds up and burns more calories if you do
this regularly. It's a whole lot easier to find parking this way, too.
Stay away from people who encourage you to eat too much. If they are good
friends, tell them that you would appreciate it if they help you with your
goal instead. You may also find it useful to eat with people who have small
appetites.
Don't ever shop when you are hungry. You'll buy more, but even worse,
you'll tend to buy more snacks. Get in the habit of eating right before
grocery shopping. This can save you money as well.
Switch from sugary soft drinks to flavored water. The carbonated ones -
with nothing but natural fruit flavor and carbonated water - are delicious.
Artificially sweetened ones may be a bad idea because they can stimulate
your hunger, and especially your cravings for carbohydrates.
Start taking short walks each evening. You can start at any length, and then
make them a little longer as you get in shape. Walk with your spouse, or find
a friend to walk with.
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Look at failures honestly, and then tell yourself, "This setback is temporary -
here's what I'll do differently next time." Dwelling on negatives makes it too
easy to give up trying.
8. Concentrate On Solutions
Think in terms of solutions, not problems. "I have such a hard time resisting
temptation," becomes, "When have I resisted, and what can I learn from that
experience?" Reaching for the convenient junk food isn't a problem, but a
lesson: Don't let it be convenient.
9. Note Successes
See success, both your own and other's. Noticing even a little progress
reminds you what is possible, and it keeps you motivated. This is a powerful
way to stay on track. Little successes give the motivation for bigger ones. It
may help to keep a journal of your progress
10. Visualize
Imagine yourself how you want to be. When you see yourself how you want
to be repeatedly, this gets your subconscious mind working toward that
image. Do this often.
Yoga can promote a balanced and healthy lifestyle, and the techniques can
also be applied to removing excess weight. Some of the techniques are
difficult, but you can start with what you can do now.
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Find a pair of pants you want to fit into in the future, and leave them out
where you'll see them daily. This makes your goal visible, and reminds you
to keep working toward it. If you are an artist, you can draw yourself how
you will look once you reach your goal.
Mustard and hot sauce have been shown to rev up your metabolism. You'll
burn roughly 25% more calories for up to three hours after eating a
tablespoonful. If they don't bother your stomach, start spicing up your
meals. Jalepenos and other hot peppers seem to have the same effect.
If you find your self turning off the alarm and going back to sleep too often,
put the alarm clock on the other side of the room. You're less likely to lose
your motivation and go back to sleep if you've already gotten out of bed and
crossed the room to turn off the alarm.
Use the stairs instead of the escalator or elevator whenever you have the
choice (okay, maybe not in the Sears Tower). Every little bit of exercise
helps, and stair climbing has been shown to burn more calories than playing
tennis.
Low-carbohydrate diets work for most who can follow them, but being able
to follow a diet is the biggest problem with all of them, right? Fortunately,
there are more low carbohydrate products coming all the time, so maybe
Atkins and other low-carb diets will become easier to use with time.
This is a low-carb diet, but it is very flexible, and doesn't rely on counting
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Okay, getting rid of it completely may be too much. Keep the TV, but put
your exercise-bicycle in front of it, and make pedaling for the first twenty
minutes the price of watching it.
Make a commitment to walk your dog every day. You'll both benefit. It is
also a good way to meet other people.
This plan by Harvey Diamond involves a diet that relies heavily on "living"
foods. Living foods are uncooked vegetables, fruits, nuts and seeds. The
idea is to keep cooked foods to 50% or less of your daily intake. It may be a
tough one for some people, but others swear by it.
Put off eating that snack for twenty minutes, and you'll be less hungry an
hour later at dinner time. Wait long enough for each of those three snacks
throughout the day, and you won't have time left for the fourth. Procrastinate
a little here and there and you'll eat less over-all.
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the groceries home. Alternately, you can limit your snacks by paying for
them with a specified amount of exercise.
Snack on fresh, healthy vegetables first. You will be more likely to get the
vitamins and enzymes you need, and then when you break out the chips, you
won't eat as many. Done the other way around, you sometimes may not get
to those carrot sticks.
Does hypnosis work for weight loss? Many people swear by it. Like all
weight loss plans, it probably works well for some, and not as well for
others. If you don't want to pay for expensive sessions, you can try the
hypnosis downloads found for sale on the internet. You have little to lose if
you buy the ones which are reasonably priced and have a money-back
guarantee.
Drink a cup of herb tea or water before a meal. You won't feel as hungry,
and you won't have as much room left in your stomach. This is also a good
way to be sure you get enough liquids. Be careful about drinking too much,
though, or the liquids may interfere with proper digestion.
Of course you've heard this one (like a lot of these), but we all need to be
reminded sometimes, right? Twenty-percent smaller portions mean twenty-
percent fewer calories. But this isn't about self-denial. Most of the time you
won't notice the difference in portion size, but it affect how much we eat. In
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one study, people at a theater who were given bigger portions of popcorn ate
substantially more, seemingly without regard to whether they were hungry
or even enjoyed overloading their stomachs.
Don't eat with people that bring out your bad habits. If you have ever
noticed that you eat differently around different people, then eat with the
ones that motivate you to eat right!
Celery is easy on the stomach, and if you fill up on it, you'll get almost no
calories, and be less hungry for the less-healthy foods. The fiber in it also
good for keeping your system cleaned out.
Most people will eat less if they have fewer options in the kitchen. This has
been shown by research and by common experience. More variety may even
increase the storing of fat, according to some research.
Change your salad dressing from the creamy ones to a simple oil-and-
vinegar one, and you'll cut out more than half of the calories of your salad.
Lime juice with a bit of olive oil makes a decent dressing as well.
Slow down when you eat. You may even enjoy the food more, but the point
is that you'll eat less if your stomach can register its fullness - and that can
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take fifteen or twenty minutes. In fact, any time you're not sure if you have
had enough, wait a while to see if the hunger dissipates.
This may or may not be your thing, but it does more than just burn calories
during the exercise. When you add muscle mass, your base metabolism goes
up, meaning you'll be burning more calories all of the time.
Schedule your weight loss activities. If you put that walk on your daily list,
you're more likely to actually take it. It is often easier to add a new activity
to your routine if you do it in the mornings. Things done later in the day are
often forgotten or pushed off the schedule.
For quick weight loss, natural laxatives can be safe, if used occasionally.
Many of us have a lot of build-up of matter in our intestines. A good bowel-
cleansing with a natural laxative (something with senna and fiber, for
example) can often knock an inch off that tummy.
This is a temporary measure, but it might get you motivated to take more
long-term actions. Regular use of laxatives is almost always a bad idea,
since it tends to reduce the effectiveness of our natural elimination process.
Pick a few favorite healthy foods, and use them to reward yourself for goals
achieved. This will associate them with pleasure in your mind, and you'll
naturally start to desire these healthier foods.
Write down everything you eat for a week. You may learn something, and
the desire not to see too much on the daily list may cause you to cut down
on your snacking too.
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Find a friend to lose weight with. This is especially helpful if you don't have
the support of a doctor or group. It may also work well if you both happen
to be competitive.
Find music that energizes you, and get your exercise around the house. Play
the music while sweeping, raking leaves or doing anything that makes you
move. As you come across music that works for you, write down the titles
and download them from the internet onto your MP3 or a CD.
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A sauna helps you to sweat out toxins in your body. The weight loss from
the sweating is temporary, but removing toxins helps your body function
better, which may reduce cravings.
Eating a favorite rich food may keep you from craving it - but eat only a
small amount. If this isn't possible (if you are tempted to eat more), it is
probably better to keep the food out of the house altogether.
Watch yourself and take notes. Which foods just wake-up your hunger, and
which seem to actually satisfy it? For most people fatty carbohydrate-rich
foods will make them hungrier.
Make a chart of your progress to keep yourself motivated. Don't just put
your weight on it, but include a list of good habits you've developed or
permanent small changes you've made.
Ask people what has worked for them, but only ask those who have similar
problems, and a similar body-type. A diet that has worked well for
somebody is likely to work well for you - if you have a similar physical and
psychological make up.
There is some evidence that you can satisfy hunger with less food, if you
satisfy all the basic tastes in each meal. Experiment with eating a little of
something sweet, bitter, sour, and full of protein at mealtime.
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Recognize any progress you make, and don't take setbacks to be permanent.
Avoid "all-or-nothing" thinking. It can lead to a diet/binge cycle, which will
cause your body to become more efficient at storing fat.
Re-coding how the mind sees various foods can help you desire the
healthier choices and lose your cravings for the less-healthy ones. See the
chapter on Neuro-Linguistic Programming for more on this.
Eat foods that fill you up with less calories. Dried beans, for example, have
as many calories as bread, but you'll feel full with less. many protein-rich
foods will leave you fuller for a longer time, and with less calorie-intake.
As long as it isn't uncomfortable, keep your house cooler, and your body
will be burning more calories to heat itself. Swimming in cold water can
have the same effect, but be careful not to get hypothermia.
Eating more often, but eating smaller meals, seems to help some people lose
weight. If you try it, you may want to track your calorie intake before and
after, to see if this method causes you to eat more or less overall.
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Think of what you want to get by losing weight, and find a way to get those
things now. You can lose the weight, but there's no point waiting to dress
better, go out dancing or whatever. Get motivated by reminding yourself
with each activity that you'll enjoy it even more when you are thinner.
Most people will eat the same number of sandwiches in a day whether the
bread slices are thin (with fewer calories) or thick. Buy the thinner ones. and
see if this is true for you. You might also buy smaller bananas or cookies.
Do you still eat just one at a time?
If you can get in the habit of not eating after a certain time, you'll stop
feeling hungry at night. You'll eat less, and also give your body's systems a
longer break. If you do get hungry late, see if an apple is enough. An apple
before bed helps some people sleep better as well.
If you eat when you are stressed, try chamomile tea to lower stress. Make
that cup of tea your first response to stress, instead of food, and you may not
need that extra snack.
If it's too snowy outside, or you don't live in area that is good for walking,
take a few laps around the mall. Do it with a friend and the time will pass
quickly. This can be dangerous if you are a shopaholic, of course.
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Push your hands together, tense up your stomach, etc. There are lots of little
exercises you can do while sitting at your desk at work, or waiting at the
dentist's office. Isometric exercise use only your own body, either tensing
muscles or using them in opposition to each other. Every little bit helps.
Also, since these are muscle-building exercises, they may cause a rise in
your basal metabolism rate, so you'll burn more calories day and night.
Skip a meal every other day, replacing it with a few carrot-sticks or pieces
of celery. A big cup of herb tea or some other drink to fill your stomach
might make this easier.
Find a photograph of yourself when you were thinner, and keep it out where
you'll see it every day. Tell yourself "that's me," each time you look at it.
This helps to program your subconscious mind to help you look like that
again.
67. Do Something
Try eggs with cayenne to start the day. Cayenne and other peppers contain
capsaicin, which suppresses appetite signals in the body. It also increases
metabolism, so you burn the calories faster. The protein in the eggs make
you feel fuller as well.
Fiber can help suppress appetite signals, and make you less hungry later in
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the day. Aim for about 25 grams of fiber each morning, in the form of whole
grain cereals, whole grain breads, fruits and vegetables.
A compound in nuts slows the rate at which the stomach empties, and so
reduces appetite. Before a meal, eat a dozen almonds or other nuts.
Experiment with this a bit. Maybe a small handful of nuts can take the place
of a meal now and then.
Unlike sugary soft drinks, coffee has no calories (unless you sweeten it with
sugar and cream). The caffeine also works as an appetite suppressant, and
may stimulate a higher metabolism.
Note: Yes, number 55 did say to turn down the thermostat to burn more
calories, while number 73 says to stay warm to avoid getting hungry. What's
up? The same as always: People's bodies and personalities are different, so
what works for one may not work for another. You may have to try many
different things to see which work best for you.
You'll notice that diet pills were not on the list. This is because the ones you
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can buy without a prescription generally won't make a big difference in how
much you lose each week or how long you keep the weight off. If you do
use them, read the label carefully. Because of possible side effects, like high
blood pressure, never take more than the listed dose.
Also, be careful about taking cough or cold medicines with diet pills you
buy without a prescription. These medicines may contain the same drug
used in diet pills, or a similar drug with the same effects. If you take both
products together, you may get too much of the same type drug. This can
hurt you. Before taking a cough or cold medicine while using diet pills, ask
your pharmacist if it's OK.
Prescription diet pills may help some people. If you use them, follow the
doctor's directions carefully.
Low carb diets are difficult for most, but have worked wonders for many.
The best example is the Atkins Nutritional Approach. It's considered
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Insulin, a powerful hormone, carries glucose (blood sugar) from your blood
to your cells, for conversion into energy. You liver converts excess glucose
into glycogen, which is stored in the liver and muscles for additional energy.
The remaining glucose is then converted to fat and stored throughout your
body.
The problem here is that excess carbohydrate intake results in too much
glucose, which cause too much insulin production, and eventually
hyperinsulinism. This is a condition that makes it very hard to lose weight,
and can lead to diabetes as well.
Later, you add back foods that have more carbs, as long as they have a low
"glycemic index" number. The glycemic index is just a way of measuring
how fast various foods are converted to glucose in the body. A low number
(apple: 36, lentils:29) is better than a high one (white rice: 88, baked potato:
85).
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How many pork rinds and eggs can you eat in a day? This is the biggest
reason people fail on these diets: not enough things to eat. Low carb diets
work for most of those who can follow them, but being able to follow a diet
is the biggest problem with all of them, right? There are more low
carbohydrate products coming all the time, so maybe Atkins and other low
carb diets will become easier to use with time.
Want a low carb diet that's less strict than Atkins? Try the South Beach Diet.
Doctor Arthur Agatston started the diet as a way of lowering cholesterol and
triglycerides in his patients, and soon noticed that it lowered weight as well.
The South Beach Diet is different from Atkins in a couple important ways. It
emphasizes good fats rather than the saturated fats, for example. Saturated
fats can cause "sticky " blood, vessel constriction, and negative effects on
insulin and sugar metabolism. Good fats help prevent heart attack and
stroke and improve insulin and sugar metabolism long term. Good fats
include olive oil, canola oil, omega-3 fish oils and the oils found in most
nuts.
Unlike Atkins, the South Beach Diet doesn't count grams of carbohydrates.
It's not so strict in the first phase that it puts patients into ketosis (burning
fat as your primary energy source). Ketosis often causes excessive water
loss early. We found it is unnecessary for significant early weight loss.
Doctor Agatston found that if you consume low glycemic index
carbohydrates, you can do very well on a high carbohydrate diet.
You can eat plenty of vegetables, whole-grain breads and whole fruits. You
can use strategic snacking, to control hunger and prevent cravings. The
South Beach Diet is very flexible, and doesn't rely on counting calories,
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The Fit For Life plan involves a diet that relies heavily on "living" foods.
Living foods are uncooked vegetables, fruits, nuts and seeds. The idea is to
keep cooked foods to 50% or less of your daily intake. Apart from the loads
of vitamins and healthy enzymes you'll get eating fresh fruits and
vegetables, you also will be eating fewer calories, since these foods will fill
you up with far fewer calories.
A Fit For Life morning is for eating fresh fruit only, and drinking water.
Fruit "smoothies," made in your blender, are allowed, but without added
sweeteners. This morning routine cleans out your system, and is very easy
on your stomach.
To avoid improper mixing of different food types, you are instructed to wait
30 to 40 minutes after eating fruit to eat other foods. Fruits digests very
quickly. You have to wait three to four hours after eating starches or proteins
to eat other types of food.
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You see the word "free" all over the internet, and everywhere else for that
matter. What is it that makes someone who doesn't know you want to give
you something for free? Well, there are generous people out there, and many
people really do love to share what they have, but usually there is more than
that involved, of course.
The same is true with handing out samples of new foods at grocery stores.
You get a free taste, and you are more likely to buy.
Why not take free samples if you want them and you have no obligation to
buy? Why not subscribe to free newsletters, and download free e-books of
interest to you? I will always go ahead and accept such "freebies" when they
are offered. But to be safe, do the following:
There are many deals out there where you get the first month free, and then
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you are automatically billed after that. Even if you have the right to cancel,
will you remember to before you are charged? Probably not. That's often the
plan with these kinds of offers.
See what the purpose is and you should be safe. There is nothing wrong
with a site asking for your e-mail address when they give you a free e-book.
Giving them a chance to try to sell something is fair if the book they give
you is a good one, right? If you aren't interested, just use the unsubscribe
link that should come in the e-mail you receive.
By the way, if they ever make it difficult to take yourself off their mailing
list, complain to their server. With enough complaints they'll be shut down.
If enough sleazy operators are shut down, it will be a warning to others, and
we'll all have a more pleasant experience on the internet.
Before you take that free vacation, for example, be sure you ask how many
hours you'll have to spend with that timeshare salesman. Take notes, and
don't let them play to your guilt. You have no obligation to do more than
you agreed to.
If there is a $7 "shipping charge" for a "free CD," it isn't really free, and the
company is probably making a profit. They don't charge you a "handling
charge" for a free sample at a grocery store, and it doesn't cost $7 to send a
CD. I consider this to be dishonest, unless a true shipping charge is all they
ask (which would be $2 or less for a CD). But in any case just decide if it's
worth that much to you. In all such cases, look at the real cost to you and
forget about claims of it being "free".
Some Freebies
I was going to put a list of links here to things you can get for free. Then I
realized that I have seen other people do that in their e-books, only to have
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half the links go bad as the sites closed down or changed addresses. Instead,
below is a link to a page on my site, which will always be there, and which I
can easily update.
You'll find a list of things you can get for free, from a real estate course, to
free e-books, magic tricks, a creativity test, an IQ test, hypnosis lessons,
commercial-free online radio and more. I will add to the list as I find more
free things. Please keep this too yourself, though. I set up the page
exclusively for readers of this book. Here's the URL:
http://www.TheSecretInformationSite.com/free.html
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Is there really is such a thing as good luck? Yes. You can use all kinds of
other words to describe it. But whatever you call it, don't you agree that
some people have more good things happen in their lives than others?
Would you like to learn how to be one of those lucky people?
Actually, there are dozens of very specific techniques for generating luck in
your life, many based on important research that has been done in the last
twenty years. One of the simplest secrets of lucky people is that they just
start looking for good luck.
You have probably noticed that if you start looking to buy a car of a certain
type, they are suddenly all over. They were there before, but now you are
seeing them, because you are looking.
More specifically, this phenomenon is due to your reticular cortex. This
small organ in the brain directs incoming stimulus to your conscious or
unconscious mind. If you are looking for a type of car, it helps you out by
letting you be more consciously aware of those cars.
This "gatekeeper" of the mind works in any area you choose. If you start
looking for luck, it will help you find it. It helps you "tune into" opportunity
once you have decided that this is important. The simplest way to activate
this is to start counting the ways you are already lucky. Soon you'll have
even more luck.
There are those who will tell you that God or the universe brings luck into
your life once there's gratitude in your heart. This actually describes the
process pretty well, but here is a less spiritual explanation: When you
acknowledge the luck you have, and you start looking for more, you create a
certain frame of mind - one that helps you take advantage of opportunities
you might otherwise not recognize.
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You are instructing your reticular cortex to let information about potential
opportunities rise to a conscious level.
For example, suppose a friend mentions that a furniture store is going out of
business. Normally, you might think nothing of it. But because you have
been counting your blessings and looking for more examples of your good
luck, your mind is thinking "Hmm, how could this be an opportunity?"
Then it occurs to you that the company you work for has been considering
getting a several new desks, and that they are on sale for 60% off at this
store. You tell your boss. The company saves hundreds of dollars, the boss is
impressed by how you took the initiative, and he gives you a raise. You get
lucky.
Noticing how lucky you are, even in small ways, makes the possibility of
good luck more real to you. This gets you watching, and the watching gets
you thinking, "How is this lucky for me? Can I do something beneficial with
this situation? You'll notice that you feel better if you try this, and you'll see
results. Gratitude is good for you, and it won't be your imagination when
you start to get lucky.
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More Secrets
Sunflower oil is used, along with parsley, in at least one commercial bad
breath treatment. They also both work individually, in their natural forms.
Chewing on a sprig of parsley will freshen your breath immediately. Eating
raw sunflower seeds will freshen your breath, and the oil absorbs odors that
may emanate from your stomach as well. Roasted sunflower seeds tend to
cause bad breath, by the way, so stick to the raw ones.
Try brushing your tongue too. One experiment showed that brushing just
teeth reduced odor by 25%. Brushing the tongue reduced odor by 75%. Do
both to reduce odor by 85%.
3. Free Campgrounds
There are free campgrounds scattered across the country. Some are run by
local governments, and others by the Army Core Of Engineers and other
federal agencies. We stayed at William's Landing, on Lake Talquin, east of
Tallahassee, Florida, for more than a week for free. They even had hot
showers. Go to any large RV dealer and you can get a Woodall's
campground directory, which lists most of the campgrounds in the country,
including free ones.
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If you decide to sell your house by yourself (usually a bad idea), you can
still have realtors working for you. First find real estate agents that sell your
type of property, by watching the ads in sales magazines and newspapers.
These are the agents most likely to have buyers for a home like yours.
Photocopy a photo and description of your house and send it to these real
estate agents. Let them know that you are willing to do a "one party listing,"
if they have a buyer. This means if their customer, John Q, is looking for a
house like yours, you sign a listing agreement just for him. The agent will
show John Q the house, and you'll pay a commission if he buys it.
If not, you are on your own again. Remember, you don't have to accept any
offer (or if the agent insists on a price in the listing, just make it high
enough that you'll be happy). This is a way to let agents bring buyers to you
that may not be reading your classified ads.
Here's a fun trick for a bar bet. Hold your palm against an ice-cold beer
bottle, or a piece of ice for a few minutes. You can usually casually put out a
cigarette in your palm then, as long as you do it quickly. The cold and
moisture prevents any damage if you do it right.
Towns with high rent have a high demand for rooms. Single people share
apartments with others, and have problems splitting bills, or deciding what
to do if one is late with their share of the rent, etc. This makes a room for
rent in a nice home, with everything from local calls to cable TV included in
the rent, an attractive idea. When I lived in Traverse City, Michigan, it was
about $100/week for a room in a decent house. Two rooms rented meant
$10,400 per year, mostly profit.
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Include everything in the rent, to avoid arguments about who owes for
utilities, or who watches more cable TV. Cancel long distance, and get a
phone card for yourself. If utilities go too high, raise the rent. Don't be
tempted into "share" arrangements for anything. While others were fighting
with landlords and roommate-friends, my renters stayed for years. They had
no household bills to pay, and no money issues to argue about. They paid
weekly or biweekly, according to their paydays, so they wouldn't even have
to budget for monthly rent.
Regulations that prevent renting a room are rarely enforced, and are being
legally challenged more and more. It's tough to justify allowing parents with
ten kids to live in a house, while discriminating against a household of three
or four - just because they are unrelated.
Watch ads in the paper to determine what you can get for a room in your
area. If there are several ads, renting rooms is probably common, and you'll
get numerous calls from a two-day weekend ad. Use your intuition to
choose renters, as well as a list of questions. Take notes. Where does he/she
work? What is the phone number? What family can you call in an
emergency? Be clear about house rules to avoid any issues. I personally
won't allow pets, smoking in the house, or late-night noise. Everyone does
their own dishes, and keeps any mess in their rooms.
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any web page. See what your own pages have. Then type in your keywords
one by one, into Google or another search engine. Click through to the first
ten results.
If a couple sites have a lower page rank than your existing pages, you can
probably compete. Your new pages will have a PageRank similar to the
existing, with time because of your own internal linking. This PageRank
determines search results placement. If all of the first ten results have a page
rank of 5 or higher, and your own pages are 3 or less, you probably can't
compete (yet).
There are more sophisticated ways to do keyword research, but this is fast,
and a big improvement over using demand/supply ratios.
My wife Ana and I bought a beautiful house in a great little mountain town
in Montana back in 2002. It cost $17,500, had two bedrooms, a full
basement, garage, and hardwood floors. You can see us on the porch at our
web site http://www.HousesUnderFiftyThousand.com.
There are still nice homes there for under $50,000. Here are a few towns
where you can find them (as of 2009):
Alpena, Michigan
Altoona, Pennsylvania
Warren, Pennsylvania
Hot Springs, Arkansas
Independence, Kansas
Do you want to get documents from the government under the "Freedom Of
Information Act?" Maybe you want to request those Roswell papers? Here
is a basic outline of an FOIA request;
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(Date)
(FOIA officer)
(Name of agency)
(Address)
If you deny this request in part or whole, please give the specific legal
exemption justifying your refusal, and notify me of appeal procedures that
are available under current laws.
If you have questions about this matter, you can call me at (include your
home and business and cell phone numbers - this is also an optional
paragraph).
(Name)
(Address)
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You my not need this now, but you can hang onto it for future reference. Did
you know that the FBI has files on millions of Americans (maybe you)?
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I used to sit at the bottom of a swimming pool for over four minutes,
surprising my friends. The secret to this is three-part. First, you super-
oxygenate your blood, by breathing deeply for several minutes. If you get
dizzy, don't try this - passing out under water is bad for your health. Once
you have breathed deeply, and fairly rapidly for a few minutes, take one last
deep breath and hold it.
The second part is to reduce your use of the oxygen in your blood. When
you go under the water, use your muscles as little as possible. Use your
mind very little too. Relax as much as you can, and you'll last longer,
because you are using the oxygen at a slower rate.
The third part may or may not help, but it seems to work for me. Here it is:
Near the end of your breath-holding, let air from your lungs into your
mouth. Your cheeks should balloon out. Then pull the air back into your
lungs. My theory (unproven) is that the oxygen is used up unevenly in the
still air of your lungs. This technique mixes it up, exposing more of the
pockets of oxygen-rich air to the lung tissue.
Note: There are risks. Someone will die or maybe has already died trying
this. Of course, that is true of riding bicycles or walking too. In any case BE
CAREFUL, and have someone hold onto you while you do this.
What can you do to improve the results of a physical exam? Here are five
things. Of course these are essentially dishonest techniques if used to get a
better rate on health or life insurance, or otherwise defraud a company or
organization. But I will report the information and hope your conscience
will guide you.
1. Stop smoking.
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It is perhaps the most effective way to reduce the premiums you'll pay.
However, nicotine can be detected in a urine sample for 3 to 15 days after
you quit. The time depends on whether you are an occasional or regular
smoker. The point is to quit far enough in advance.
3. Stop eating.
Have juice only for two days and you can dramatically decrease cholesterol
in your bloodstream. Fasting can also reduce blood sugar levels for some
diabetics. It may help to first drink plenty of fluids and eat lots of fiber to
flush out your system.
4. Look good.
Alcohol will show up in urine up to 12 hours after that last drink. Marijuana
- 3 days for occasional users, 30 days for chronic users. Everything else -
four days.
You can get beautiful photos to use for your web site at no charge. One of
the better places is http://www.sxc.hu . For more sites that offer free use of
photos (they do come and go) search "free photos" in any search engine.
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The other thing you can do to feel better when you're high in the mountains,
is to breath more. Surprisingly, there doesn't seem to be a survival
mechanism that makes us breath more deeply at altitude. We tend to
continue our shallow-breathing, so consciously try to breath more deeply.
When you buy the all-you-can-eat salad bar at one restaurant chain, they
may offer you a baked potato for only 25 cents extra. It sounds like a good
deal, but is it? Their real motivation is not to give you a better deal, but to
save themselves money. You can only eat so much, and that potato will take
the place of a lot of expensive salad bar foods. In reality, they would save
money if they gave you the potato for free, but then you might catch on to
the trick.
And this isn't just about potatoes. Any food that is cheaper than the average
salad bar foods might be offered.
Look at the pay of the highest ranked employees before taking a job. This
lets you know how far you can advance and what you might make. You
might also see if you would like to have those positions, so you don't just
work your way toward something you won't enjoy.
You can fit a nickel through a hole the size of a dime. Have someone trace a
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circle around a dime, on a piece of paper. Cut out the hole. Let everyone see
that it would tear the paper if you forced a nickel through the hole. Then
fold the paper across the middle of the hole, set the nickel between the folds
onto the hole, and pull up the ends of the paper. The nickel will fall through,
without tearing the paper.
You can go and take all the articles you want to use for free. If they have
decent keywords, you can get search engine traffic for the pages you make
from them. I needed a page on buying real estate in Mexico for one of my
sites, for example, but knew nothing about the topic. I went to a directory
and picked out an article, and now I get search engine traffic for the new
page.
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Once you are actually offered a job, you are in a much stronger position to
negotiate your salary. Don't discuss salary during a first interview. Don't let
them think you are more interested in the money than the job. Once an
employer has decided on you, they don't want to start the whole
interviewing and hiring process over, and they generally won't if there is any
way they can justify paying what you are asking. Be ready to help them
(Why are you worth it?).
For a child's room, or a playhouse, or any room that isn't too formal, you can
use carpet samples for flooring. Kids love the patchwork of colors. I have
done a large bedroom with just a staple gun and a few dozen samples, for
$9. Call the carpet dealers and ask how many they have. They'll usually sell
them for about a dollar each.
Savvy landlords have given up fighting "for the principle of the thing."
They understand that eviction can be messy and expensive. Some are using
an easier, and ultimately cheaper way to get rid of problem tenants: They
pay them to leave. A couple hundred dollars is usually enough (the tenant
knows they'll be kicked out eventually anyhow). Just don't pay until the
keys are turned in.
The Hot Well Dunes Recreation Area, north of Bowie, Arizona, costs $3 per
night, has nice hot springs and plenty of wildlife. You can get an annual
permit for $30, but you're limited to two weeks per month (permits are sold
at the BLM office in Safford). Here's a secret though: Outside of the fenced
area you can stay free. You don't get the shaded picnic tables next to your
RV, but you can hike into the hot springs (some people have lived for
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Watson Wash, near Safford, Arizona, is a circular stone tub with 101 degree
water flowing out of a well casing into the pool. It has a reputation as a
party location, so be ready for weekend crowds. Because it is a few hundred
yards up a wash off the road, nudity is common. For more information on
this and other hot springs, stop in at the visitor center in Safford.
A hot spring west of Los Alamos required crossing a stream on a log and
hiking up a hill through the woods. We found two pools, with astronomers,
and cowboys for company. Many hot springs are even more difficult to find.
For information on hot springs visit http://www.hotspringsenthusiast.com.
Recreational vehicles (motor homes and trailers) are rented out all over in
places like Arizona. Although this isn't such a good idea in northern areas
due to winter, you can still make a couple thousand dollars seasonally if you
have an RV in the yard and you live in an area where rents are high. This
works best if you can arrange for the sewage tank to pump out directly into
your septic system.
You are probably aware that once your traffic ticket is in the system, your
insurance company will raise your rates. A minor ticket can cost you
hundreds in additional insurance over the years. How do you keep it out of
the system?
Overpay it. Most states won't enter your ticket into their system until the
case is closed. If you overpay by $5, they'll issue you a refund check for the
$5, and close the case once you cash it. Don't cash it, and the case will be
"still pending," meaning your record isn't updated with that ticket yet.
This is said to work in most states, at least to delay having a ticket on your
record. It is a difficult thing to verify, but it is also cheap enough to try.
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There is a lot of barter that goes on in this country that people don't know
about. I have a friend that trades carpet cleaning for radio advertising. An
even more efficient way to trade goods and services is by creating your own
currency. A pizzeria owner I know used to have his own "pizza dollars."
They were good for pizza at his restaurant, and he used them for various
promotional purposes, but that's not all.
I once saw him pay his dentist the $90 he owed him with $100 in pizza
dollars. Of course, his cost of providing the pizza was half or less of that, so
he got a deal. The dentist, meanwhile, ate pizza anyhow, and probably didn't
report the $100 or pay taxes on it. He also wasn't the only person who was
paid in pizza dollars by this guy.
Of course, both sides are supposed to report as income the value received in
a barter exchange. But even if it was all above-board, with everyone
reporting and paying taxes, it was still a way to guarantee more business.
The dentist couldn't spend the pizza dollars anywhere else, after all.
Years ago we had a neighbor, Jose, who didn't speak much English. This
could have made it tough to live in the north. Despite that, he made a profit
of $35,000 one year selling cars in front of his mobile home. He is a bit of a
mechanic, but this wasn't the key. The key was knowing the value of cars in
that market.
How do you do this? Here is a quick explanation: Look at cars for sale, or
cars just sitting idle in people's yards. If you can comfortably say how much
each can be sold for, the rest is easy. Offer at least $1000 less. Eventually
you'll buy a car, sell it for a profit, and repeat the process.
To learn the used car market, you can watch the classified ads, keeping in
mind that the asking prices are not the sales prices. Used car guides, such as
the "bluebook," show inflated retail prices. If you use them, assume you will
sell the car for the "loan value", or average wholesale price. Use them in any
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Regulations vary, but in Michigan, when Jose was doing this, you could sell
five or six cars per year before you need a dealers license. Your wife could
sell five or six more in her name, if she wanted to. Find out what the law
says where you live before trying this. Also, keep good records of every last
expense, since you are required to report the income you make and pay
taxes on it.
A friend or relative only needs you to cosign because a bank has determined
they are a bad credit risk. Banks are better than you at determining these
things. Cosign a loan, and you will have to pay if the borrower doesn't. In
fact, in many states, the law does not require creditors to notify a cosigner if
the borrower is late on payments or over the credit limit. This not only
means that you can become liable for the debt, but you can also get a black
mark on your credit report before you even know there is a problem.
1. Put the amount of the loan in an interest-bearing account and let the
borrower use it as collateral for a bank loan. You'll lose the money if they
don't make the loan payments, but your credit rating won't be affected, since
your name won't be on the loan.
2. If you can afford to lose the money (and if you can't, why are you
thinking about cosigning?) just lend the money yourself and charge a
reasonable interest rate.
3. You can also have a son, daughter or friend who needs your help cosign
on a credit card or loan in your name. That way they can still build credit,
but the monthly statements will come directly to you, so you'll know if there
is a problem.
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With shoes you mostly get what you pay for. Mostly. However, with quality
running shoes the manufacturers seem to feel the need to change styles
every few months. This is why you can find $90 running shoes for as little
as $25 at many discount sporting goods stores and in discount catalogs.
There is nothing wrong with these shoes, unless you really need the latest
color scheme.
I hesitate to mention this one, since it may encourage some to try it. Hotel
owners need to know about it though. My wife and I noticed how certain
types of motels owned by a people from a certain group were just barely
maintained. Knobs on air-conditioners would be broken, and obviously not
replaced for years. Paint would be old and peeling. A real estate agent
finally clued us in to what was going on.
These families are buying the motels for a down payment of let's say,
$40,000, and making payments to the seller on a long-term contract. The
day they close, they stop virtually all maintenance. The family does all the
work of running the place, eliminating the need for any outside employees.
The cash flow goes up initially as a result.
Of course they eventually start losing business as the condition of the place
deteriorates. However, in the first few years they have banked the excess
cash flow. We'll say that is $180,000 for this example.
Then they stop making payments. When the seller forecloses on the
property, they walk away. The seller gets back a run-down place that might
need $50,000 in deferred maintenance. Meanwhile, the family moves on
with their profit, to buy the next motel to run into the ground.
The used car buying guides you see, sometimes called "bluebooks," are
primarily a tool for car dealers. Everyone seems to be buying "below
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There are delicious things on the a la cart menu of many great restaurants.
These side dishes are cheap too. Even eating several of them is usually
cheaper than a regular meal, and often more filling. Mexican restaurants
where you get unlimited tortilla chips are a great place for this strategy. Just
order a side of guacamole when you only want a snack.
Negotiate. When they told me it would be $120 to get the receivers and dish
I wanted, I told them it was too much. I was signing up for a one-year
commitment, after all, so I should get a break. The operator told me I could
have it for $100. I said I'd try the other satellite company first, then get back
with her. She got a manager, who finally told me I could have all the
equipment for free. If you don't ask, you don't get it.
Another possibility: If you are sure that you want their system due to cost,
ask if they can reduce any setup fees or equipment fees in exchange for a
few months more on the contract.
If you want to help your teenage children to establish credit, add their names
to your credit card accounts. You do not need to give them access to the
cards to do this, or even mention to them that their names are on them. The
idea here is that they will have a credit file started and will benefit from
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your positive credit history, even if they're not the primary card holders.
This can help them in the future, when they need a loan for a first home, for
example.
You use these accounts by funding them on the internet, using any credit
card. With most, you can open an account for $20. You get a toll-free
number to call, an account number (usually your home phone number), and
a 4-digit PIN. To place a call, you dial the toll free number, then enter your
account number, PIN, and number you're calling. Many buttons to push, but
then you can call Paris, France for 3 cents per minute. That's cheap!
Recharge your account from anywhere there is internet access, and you'll
never have a phone bill, since you pay in advance.
Take random words, use one per line, and start writing. We created a game
(Deal-A-Poem) from this technique, and my wife has had poems published
that were created in this way. We put nouns on cards, adjectives and verbs
on others, then shuffle and deal. Your mind will begin to find a poetic use
for any word if you use this method often. For a complete description, visit
www.DealAPoem.com.
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If you regularly use the same aftershave, perfume or cologne, you can use it
to be sure your partner thinks of you when you are gone. Just put a drop of it
on light bulbs, when they are off, in any rooms he or she is likely to be in.
Near the bulb is better if it is 75 watts or more.
When the light is turned on, the heat will activate the scent - your scent.
Your partner may or may not notice consciously, but will undoubtedly think
of you. Science has shown that scents create strong memory responses.
When you need local currency, you'll get a better exchange rate with your
cards. Also, the cash you get from the local ATM will truly be accepted
everywhere, which isn't true of travelers checks.
A friend of mine made a life-sized cow out of plywood once. After painting
it up and putting it out in the yard, he started to get people stopping by to
see if he would sell it. He loved working with wood, and soon had a waiting
list of customers for his plywood cows. At about a fifty-dollar profit each,
he wasn't going to get rich, but isn't making money with your hobby more
fun than a job?
The real secret today, though, is that any hobby can make you money now.
Just make a web site about your favorite hobby, sign up for Google's
Adsense program, and make something every time someone clicks on an
advertisement.
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Think your doctor is giving you objective advice? Doctors get cash bonuses
and other perks from manufacturers for recommending certain drugs. Aside
from that, they also get most of their education about new drugs from the
makers of the drugs. Some doctors are also part-owners of the testing
facilities they send your blood and tissue samples to. Patients may need all
those extra tests that are ordered only because the doctor needs another boat
or car.
Don't be so sure that your doctor knows best, or that he wants what's best
for you.
A friend used to buy things at Wal-Mart that he sold for more on E-bay. He
has done this with a number of things. Not every town has a Wal-Mart, so
this is possible with many items that are not readily available everywhere.
Another person I know buys things on E-bay to resell at a higher price on E-
bay. The reason it works is that some people sell in the wrong category.
When it is in front of the right buyers, the price goes higher.
Some are still playing Google arbitrage games, although you'll be banned
from Google AdSense program if you are caught. It works like this: Make a
page on something like mesothelioma, or "asbestos lawsuits," and put
Google AdSense ads on it. Advertisers are, amazingly, paying $10 or more
per click on these terms, and you get maybe half of that, or $5 per click.
For traffic, you then advertise your site on Google's AdWords program,
paying only 10 or 20 cents per click, for less known terms like "asbestos
diseases." If enough of the people that click through to your site then click
on one of the ads, you make money. I've known people that were making
hundreds per month on one web site doing this. Once the system is in place,
you build another site.
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If you need a higher appraisal on your property to close a sale, there are a
couple things you can do. First of all, let the appraiser know of any
improvements that he might miss. Second, if you know of any homes in the
area that are similar to yours and sold for a high price recently, tell the
appraiser, and give him the details. If the appraisal comes in too low, you
can ask the bank for another - if you have a good reason. Try listing any
factors the first appraiser missed.
If you are selling an investment property, plan ahead. Income properties are
valued according to net income, so try to cut expenses and raise the rents a
year before you sell. Also look for any other ways to boost income, like
renting storage space to tenants, or installing vending machines.
Think the music in stores is for your pleasure. Well, that's only half the
reason. It is also created and tested for the purpose of getting you to buy
more. "Muzak" is perhaps the biggest player in the field of manipulative
music and audio. Here is quote from their web site (November 2006) on
what they call "Audio Architecture":
You know that the police have discretion, and they don't always give out
that ticket. So how do you get them to let you off with a warning? Try the
following procedure.
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1. As soon as you see the lights flashing, pull over and roll down your
window. Pull off far enough that the officer won't have to stand in the road
while talking to you. You want to make him or her as comfortable as
possible.
2. If it is dark, turn on the inside light in the car, so you are clearly visible.
Put your hands on the steering wheel where they can be seen. Approaching a
car is one of the most dangerous moments for officers, and you want them to
feel safe. They'll appreciate this courtesy.
3. When the officer asks you if you know how fast you were going, don't lie.
Just take responsibility. You might add something like "I just didn't realize it
until I heard your siren, but you're absolutely right. I was going too fast." Be
polite always.
4. If it still seems that a ticket is coming, ask for a break. Say something
like, "I know I was in the wrong, officer, but I don't usually speed. Can I get
by with just a warning? If you can't do it, I totally understand." The last line
is an effective but subtle challenge. It is polite, and the officer may be
motivated to "prove" his authority by showing that he can just give you a
warning.
There are a couple ways to assume a mortgage that isn't assumable. The first
is to buy "subject to the existing loan," meaning you'll just start paying on
the existing mortgage loan, and hope that the bank won't call it due. Often
they won't, as long as the payments are on time, and the interest rate is not
below the current market rates. Talk to an attorney about this.
Then there is a secret "dirty trick." Some states (ask an attorney) have laws
that say a holder of a second mortgage has the right to assume a first
mortgage without qualifying, when he forecloses on his second. These laws
are meant to protect lenders in "second position," but some investors use
this "loophole" to get property with financing already in place.
Instead of buying a property, they loan a seller enough to give him some of
his equity, with the understanding that he won't pay on this second
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The investor meanwhile gets a property with the existing mortgage in place
which reduces his closing costs and eliminates the need to find financing.
He may also get the property cheap if the seller was otherwise facing
foreclosure on the primary mortgage loan. The seller would lose everything
if that happened, after all.
You place a coin on the bar or table. As people watch, you place your hand
over it, then quickly raise your hand, close it into a fist, and the coin is in
your palm. Others will usually try it without success. The trick is to press
the ball of your hand below your third finger onto the coin when you put
your hand over it. If you press lightly, the coin should stick to your hand
long enough as you lift and close your hand. Practice before you show off.
One of the most widely used levitation tricks is the "Balducci Levitation."
Basically you stand sideways to a small audience, a short distance away.
You rise up on the toe of the foot farthest away, letting the other foot (the
visible one) stay horizontal as it rises. Angle is important, so practice with a
friend.
The effect is great if you do it right. Do it with loose, long pants, and the
audience can't see your other foot. They will be amazed as you hover a few
inches off the ground for a second and then settle back down. Acting tired,
like it took all your mental energy, helps the effect. You can type "Balducci
Levitation" into any search engine to see more about this trick.
A strobe light with adjustable speed control costs about $30, and is loads of
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fun. One of the things you can do with it is a great levitation trick. If you get
the speed right, and you cross a room in a series of jumps, lifting your legs
up behind you each time, onlookers will see you "floating" toward them
three feet off the ground. Make sure all the other lighting is off, and practice
the timing.
This is not a long term solution to weight loss, and won't take an ounce of
fat off. However, you can lose a pound or five quickly with "dieter's tea"
from a health food store. These are laxatives, and the better ones also
contain herbs that loosen compacted material in your colon. Some people
are carrying around ten pounds of extra waste material in their colons. It is
probably a good idea to clean this out at least once a year, and it will help
you fit into those pants by tomorrow.
Sometimes people write you a check, but forget to sign it. You can often still
deposit it. On the signature line, write "over." On the back, write "Lack of
signature guaranteed," along with your endorsement signature, and your
title, if it is to your company. Most banks will accept it and deposit the
funds into your account.
You are at a bar or party, and you have someone draw a card from a normal
deck. Everyone sees it, and you tell them that the "Wizard," can tell what it
is from a distance. To prove it, you call the Wizard, and hand the phone to
one of the spectators. The Wizard immediately announces what the card is,
and everyone is amazed. How is it done?
You have to have a "wizard" waiting for the call, of course. This is a friend
who will be there to answer the phone. Now, suppose the card is the nine of
diamonds. When you call, your friend answers, and you ask "Is the Wizard
there?" He immediately starts saying "clubs, hearts..." When he gets to the
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right suit (diamonds in this case), you interrupt him with "Okay." Now he
knows the suit.
The spectators assume that whoever answered the phone is getting the
Wizard for you. Your friend, meanwhile, starts saying "ace, two, three..."
and when he gets to nine you interrupt with "Hi Wizard, can you tell these
people what the card is?" He knows now that it's the nine of diamonds, and
tells the person you hand the phone to. It's an impressive trick for those who
don't have a clue to how it is done.
Many packaged foods that have a store label on them are in fact made by a
known brand name company. Look at the fine print to see if you recognize
the manufacturer. These products are generally the same as the ones under
their own label. They are simply relabeled and sold cheap for those that only
buy cheaper products.
This is a modern day technique that answers the age-old marketing problem:
How do you get people who are willing to pay more to do so while also
selling for less to others? Some people will pay $3.69 for a box of their
saltine crackers, for example. But what about the people who will only pay
$1.49? Assuming that the manufacturer can still make a profit at the lower
price, they don't want to lose those sales, but they also don't want to lose
$2.20 in profit on each sale to those who would pay more.
Sometimes the cheaper brand really is of inferior quality, though. The best
way to tell in the end is to experiment.
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For cold fingers and toes, drinking hot tea helps, as does eating spicy foods.
For staying warm outdoors for longer periods of time, eat fats. Any fatty
foods can help, but in army survival training, soldiers are taught to eat half a
stick of butter at a time in arctic situations. Fats, unlike other foods, create
heat when they are digested. This is why Eskimos stay warmer by eating
whale blubber.
If your house burns down, will you remember everything that was in it? Will
you be able to prove it all to the insurance company when you file your
claim? Here's a good way to do it. Just videotape the every room, and talk as
you do it, identifying each object and how much you paid for it. Then keep
the tape in the house of a friend or family member. You'll have the
verification you need for any claim.
The easiest way to do this now is with a digital camera. If you don't have
one, borrow one from a friend. Buy a cheap ($10) memory card for it, use it
for the video walk-through, and then put the memory card in a safe deposit
box or with a friend, as mentioned above.
Everything is recorded and tracked. Buy with a credit card, and there is a
record. Every bank account and investment leaves a paper trail. Except one.
When you buy gold and silver coins for cash, you have the ultimate in
privacy and wealth protection. These are generally not good investments,
but they are a private way to hold some of your wealth.
Even small towns usually have a coin shop or other place that buys and sells
gold and silver. Just don't buy gold in pieces larger than an ounce, and don't
buy silver in anything bigger than ten-ounce bars. That way you can cash
them in almost anywhere. In fact, if you are worried about a currency
collapse someday, you may even want to have a bag of old silver coins (pre-
1965 U.S. dimes and quarters) stashed away, so you will have a currency for
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small purchases.
Long distance rates are so low now that the savings from this trick are
almost irrelevant. Still I'm partial to cheapskate ideas, so I'll tell you what
cheap businessmen used to do more often. They would call clients and
associates during lunch, and leave a message. They only paid for a minute
that way, and the other person paid the charges when they called back.
You may think that being irreplaceable is a sure way to job security.
However, it can also be a way to get stuck in a position. More than one
person has been passed up for promotion because they did a great job that
others couldn't do. If you hope for more, you need to do your job well, find
ways to make it easier for the next guy, and even perhaps train your
replacement. Then the company can afford to lose you there to promote you
to something better.
If you're worried about the collapse of the U.S. dollar, put some of your
money in a foreign bank, or a U.S. bank that lets you open foreign currency
accounts. One such bank is EverBank, at http://www.everbank.com. If the
dollar falls 20% against the Swiss Franc, or whichever currency you choose,
you'll be that much further ahead. If it rises, of course, your account will
lose value. These accounts are FDIC insured, but this won't protect you
from currency fluctuations.
Want to figure how fast your money will multiply in an investment? Use the
"rule of 72." Divide the expected annual rate of return into 72 to get the
approximate number of years it will take for your money to multiply. This
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Rummage sales are a lot of work. Is there a better way to get rid of your
stuff and still make some money? There is if you have a flea market nearby.
It will probably cost you less than the price of a newspaper ad to set up at
the local flea market, and you'll be guaranteed a lot of traffic. You also may
find regular flea-marketers who will buy everything you have left over for
one price, hoping to sell off the individual items for a profit. That means
nothing left to pack up and carry home or to the Salvation Army store.
A good reading shortcut is to read the first and last sentences of paragraphs.
That's usually where you'll get most of the important information. Training
yourself to use any shortcuts you can find or create is a great way to make
more efficient use of your mind power.
I have taken cash advances on credit cards at low promotional rates, and
loaned the money out at higher interest. That's one way to make money with
credit cards. Investing in the expertise of others, as in the following story, is
another.
When I was a young man my buddy John showed me several car magazines
before I understood that an old fiberglass car really was a good deal at
$2,300, because I know nothing about cars. "What's a corvette?" I asked. He
eventually convinced me to put up the money. After a new transmission that
cost $900, he sold the corvette for $4,300, netting us about $1,000 after all
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costs. I took half the profit ($500) for investing the money for just two
weeks.
I've done this several times with friends that know cars but don't have cash.
By the way, you don't have to have cash to do this. If I had paid 18% interest
and a $50 cash advance fee to raise the money with a credit card, my profit
would still have been over $400, and John did all the work. This doesn't
have to be done with just cars, either. Do you have any friends who know all
about boats?
Have you ever watched a person cling to an idea just because it was their
idea? Have you been that person at times? When you're attached to an idea,
it's like it's a part of you, and it hurts to let go. New ideas and evidence get
ignored. In other words, you are limited in your thinking.
Obviously ego can get in the way of mind power, but how do you prevent
that? Try this: Listen to an idea that a friend has. Then explain that idea to
somebody else. Notice how much more interesting the idea seems when you
explain it. Watching this ego-identification process will make you more
aware of it in the future, and keep your mind more open to other
possibilities.
At a campfire in the desert one winter (years ago), my wife and I met a man
who sold stuffed animals on the side of the highway. When we saw him
again, in his van full of stuffed animals, I pressed him for details. He bought
used stuffed animals at thrift stores in bulk and then sold them alongside the
highway. Early on, he even got the stores to give him the animals, with the
agreement that he would return with the money wed or the animals the next
week.
In some small towns he could get a vendor's permit cheaply ($18/year, for
example). Otherwise he just sold them until he was chased out of the county.
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He said he hadn't been fined yet (the fines are typically minor in any case),
and he claimed he sold $4,000 worth his first month. He may have been
exaggerating, but because of him we included used stuffed animals in our
flea market stands with some success.
Learn the basic phrases that will get the native speakers to be your teachers.
Learn how to say in their language "How do you say...?" "What is the word
for that?" "How do you spell that?" "Can you write that down?" and "Please,
can you speak more slowly?"
- Learn the basic phrases to ask for help (where is a bathroom... doctor...
bank... bar).
- Start talking.
Here's a fun bar bet. bet someone that they can't fold a dollar bill in half
eight times, doubling it each time. Try it. In fact, try it even with a large
piece of paper. It can't be done. (Okay, on the program "Mythbusters" they
proved that it can be done with a huge piece of very thin paper.)
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You might want to learn a few. You can create your own. The general idea is
to find easier ways to hold the information in your head. It's easy to subtract
100, for example, so if the problem is 315 minus 96, you think 315 minus
100, and quickly get 215. Since you know that you subtracted 4 too many,
you then add it back, arriving at 219.
Diamonds are not actually very rare any longer. They are only expensive
because they are a controlled commodity. That control could be lost,
resulting in lower prices, so if you have considered investment grade
diamonds as an inflation hedge or private way to carry your wealth, you
may want to think of other alternatives. Rubies, emeralds, and sapphires are
a safer bet.
If you sell a product for $20 that costs you $15, and you sell 200 per week,
your gross profit is $1,000. If you raise the price to $27, and only sell 120
per week, your gross profit is $1,440 - $440 more, on fewer sales. You only
learn these things by testing and doing the math.
There was a store that sold cigarettes for five cents over their cost. Raise the
price a dime and they would triple the profit margin. They could sell half as
many and be farther ahead (they probably wouldn't lose even 10% of their
sales). Of course they were using the cigarettes to get people in the store,
hoping they would buy other things. Such products are called "loss leaders."
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This just shows us that business is always more complicated than a few
simple principles - but this doesn't invalidate the principles.
One of the best exercises doesn't require that you buy anything. It is also
less tedious and boring than a treadmill or other machine, because you
actually go somewhere. It is climbing stairs. Minute for minute, it actually
burns more calories than playing tennis.
Hydrogenated oils were once used to cause heart disease in laboratory mice,
about forty years ago. They needed to cause the disease in order to study it.
It would have been nice if these scientists also mentioned to the public that
it works this way in humans too. All margarine then consisted of
hydrogenated oils. Many still do.
Only a few years ago, it was finally in the news that margarine is actually
worse for you than butter. But hydrogenated oils are in so many things.
Look at the ingredients labels the next time you are in the grocery store.
Unfortunately you'll see that hydrogenated (or partially-hydrogenated) oil is
in most packaged foods.
Put your index finger and middle finger of your left hand on your right
wrist, about two inches below the crease. Sit comfortably, and apply gentle
pressure to the wrist for several minutes. Then switch, and do the same on
the other wrist. This hasn't been studied yet, as far as I know, but it can't hurt
to try this before bed tonight, if you have insomnia.
Search online before you travel. I have found that Thrifty Car Rental is
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almost always the cheapest, but this changes. Include a Saturday or Sunday
to get the cheapest rate. It is also worth looking at the various sizes of cars.
Sometimes the compacts are not the lowest cost.
Regular table salt can get rid of most dandruff. Just massage it into you
scalp before you shampoo, and repeat as necessary.
You can generally copy and use books that are officially produced by the
U.S. Government. One enterprising mail order marketer made copies of a
government study on lie detectors, and sold it as a guide to beating them.
If you have to file bankruptcy, plan ahead and you can restore your credit
quickly. The key is to pay off one of your credit cards, even if that means
transferring the balance to another. Be sure that you make all payments on
time on the card, and don't owe a penny on it the day you go to court. This is
so you don't have to declare this creditor.
Don't include this card in the list of your debts when filing. It isn't a debt if
you don't owe anything on it. And don't mention it to anyone. When the
bankruptcy is completely done, you'll use this card to start rebuilding your
credit rating.
Many stores will issue you credit if you have a major credit card. Some gas
companies may as well. See if your bank or credit union will make a small
loan to you with the credit card as collateral as well. With a Mastercard or
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Don't want to wait for the evening news? The fastest way to get the latest
news is online now. Sign up for a "My Yahoo" account (www.yahoo.com),
and you'll get the headlines updated every few minutes. Another great
source for the most recent news events is http://www.newsmeat.com.
Want to research your family history? It's getting easier. You can track your
family back over 200 years, and see the census sheets back to 1790 at:
http://www.ancestry.com.
Many communities have free "legal clinics," where you can get some help.
Attorneys volunteer for these, and you may or may not find one that handles
the specialty you need. Another way to get help is online. You can get
information, articles, free legal forms, and even ask for help in the forums at
: http://freeadvice.com.
You can read good articles and do a lot of your own research online now.
Enter "medical advice," or "free health advice," into any search engine. One
site you might find useful, is
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/hp.asp. Also search for specific
topics along with "forum" to see if there is a discussion board where you
can learn about other people's experiences with various conditions and
treatments.
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Have a stain in your living room carpet or car upholstery. There are many
good stain cleaners, and some are meant for specific types of stains.
Whichever ones you use, though, there are three basic principles that help
get the stain out. They are:
1) Dwell time. this is the amount of time that the water and/or cleaning
solution is left to loosen up the stain;
2) Heat. The more heat, the more likely the stain will come out (except for
blood stains and certain others);
If you are weak in one area, you can compensate with the others, so if you
don't have time, scrub harder or heat the water. For complete directions on
removing all types of stains (free), visit
www.HowToRemoveCarpetStains.com.
Want to fix and sell a house, but you can't get financing? Try a "hard
money" lender. They'll charge you as much as five percent up front, and
then maybe double what mortgage rates are at. Why would you want to pay
that much? To make money, of course.
Suppose you found a house for sale in rough shape. It will take $20,000 to
fix it up, at which point it should sell for $150,000. The seller wants out
fast, and has accepted your offer of $80,000 cash. A hard money lender will
loan you 70% of the ARV, or after-repair value, which is $105,000. He'll
only forward the $80,000 purchase price, and put the other $25,000 in an
account that you'll draw on specifically for repairs.
The lender will add the $5,250 origination fee onto the balance, so you
already owe $110,250. If it takes you four months to complete and sell the
house, you will have also paid $5,000 in interest (at 15%). Let's suppose the
repairs were unexpectedly $27,000. If the other expenses came to around
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Would it still bother you that the hard money lender made $10,250? You can
ask other investors in your area who the hard money lenders are. You can
also find them online now.
Want to make caramel corn like Cracker Jacks? To find secret recipes and
clone recipes of famous products, visit:
http://www.topsecretrecipes.com/home.asp.
Want to go really light when you backpack? I have gone for a week, in
comfort, in the mountains of Colorado, with never more than 17 pounds on
my back. The key is to lighten the heavy items first! Your backpack, tent and
sleeping bag are the heaviest items, so work on those before cutting the
handle off a toothbrush to save half an ounce. For more specific and detailed
advice, see web sites like www.TheUltralightBackpackingSite.com or
www.TheMountainHikingSite.com.
Yes, there really are some ways to avoid and cure a hangover. Here are a few
you may not have heard of.
There is some evidence that cabbage can also help prevent a hangover, by
"chelating," the toxins (congeners) in your system. This means that some
elements in the cabbage attach to toxins and carry them out of your body.
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A simpler cure is to drink water along with your beer or booze, and drink a
large glass before you go to sleep. In fact, if you wake up during the night,
drink more water, and take an aspirin. Many hangovers are due to
dehydration. Of course drinking the water also slows down your alcohol
consumption.
Another way to avoid the worst of a hangover is to drink early. Skip the late
nights out and have a few drinks with your afternoon barbecue instead
(careful - don't burn yourself). The point here is that worst of the negative
effects will occur while you are asleep that night. The hangover may be
gone by the tie you wake up. Be aware though, that you will generally not
have quality sleep when you drink more than a beer or two.
B-complex vitamin supplements, taken before drinking and again the next
morning may help too. Alcohol destroys many B vitamins, and the resulting
deficiencies may cause some hangover symptoms.
The high heat kills bacteria, fungus, mold, and dust mites, making it the
healthiest way to clean carpet. It doesn't leave residue (if done correctly).
Detergent residue can attract dirt, which can damage carpet. High pressure
cleans carpet more deeply. The strong vacuum these units use also cleans
carpet more deeply.
One of the most useful tools for removing carpet stains is a shop-vac. With a
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wet/dry vacuum cleaner you can quickly suck up spills, but more
importantly, you can repeatedly flush the area with water and suck it out.
This is more efficient than blotting with a cloth, and less likely to damage
the carpet.
Net Mechanic sells their services, but if you click on one of the "try it"
buttons, you can test for bad links, HTML errors, and several other things,
for free. Visit http://www.NetMechanic.com.
Every HTML document contains certain standard HTML tags. If you don't
even know what an HTML tag is, start with great tutorials here:
www.htmlgoodies.com.
If you want to see how a website created a certain effect, learn by example
about HTML, or just look for hidden messages in a web page source code,
here's how: Click on "View" on your browser bar while you are at a website.
In the menu that drops down, click on "Source," "View Source," or "Source
Code." What you'll see is the HTML source code for the page.
For example, you can see which keywords the web master is optimizing for,
listed near the top like this META NAME="KEYWORDS"
CONTENT="secrets, inside information, information". Or, if you like
something about the page (like the way some lines are highlighted), you can
see how it was coded and try to replicate it.
Sometimes people forget accounts, or they die without telling anyone about
them. For all sorts of reasons, money that is unclaimed gets turned over to
the states. Go to http://www.unclaimed.org, and follow the links to your
state web site. You'll be surprised when you type in the names of people you
know, how many unclaimed monies you'll see.
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I recently told a family member about this, and he found an insurance refund
his wife was owed, which that had been lost years earlier. It was close to
$900, and only took a few minutes of paperwork to claim.
Nutmeg, the common spice that might be in you kitchen right now, is the
drug of choice in some prisons. According to some reports Malcom X used
it in prison. It is legal, and might get you high. I felt very good for hours
when I tried a teaspoonful many years ago, but not high. Now for the bad
news: My eyes hurt (a common side effect), and I later read that a spoonful
may be enough to kill a person. Maybe you shouldn't try this one.
To hide where they are living, or where their letters are coming from, many
people use what are called "re-mailing" services. You basically put your
letters in a large envelope, send it to a re-mailer, and they send out the
letters. They are then postmarked in the city where the re-mailer is.
For example, you put your stamped, addressed letter in an envelope, then
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put that in an envelope in a larger one, with 5 euros cash or the equivalent in
any currency or by money order and mail to: Remailer, P.O. Box 2081, DK-
1013 Copenhagen K, Denmark. (I can't guarantee that the rate will remain
the same, so write and ask). Services like these do not ask any questions, or
keep any files.
To receive mail without giving away your address, you can use a mail-drop.
This is a mail forwarding service. You use the mail-drop's address to receive
mail and then have it forwarded to the address where you want to receive
mail. This may be on another continent. Any mail sent to the mail-drop is
placed into another envelope and mailed to its final destination.
This is only illegal if done to commit fraud. You may just not want to be
found by an ex-spouse, or enemies you have made. You may want an
address that gives you a greater respectability for business purposes.
A good service will never give out your address, unless under a legal order
to do so. They also won't give out any information over the phone. Ask
them, to be sure what their guidelines are. Just in case an employee is bribed
to give out information, some people have a mail-drop send the mail to
another mail-drop, and then that one sends it to a post office box near them.
This provides much more privacy.
If you have a flat or a slow leak in your tire, you may be able to get it fixed
for free. Discount Tires, one of the largest tire store chains in the country,
has been offering free repairs for years. They hope to get your business if
you need new tires, but I have had a tire repaired by them twice, for free,
and they didn't try to sell me a thing. Let's hope they continue the practice.
When added to the water that cut flowers are in, a small amount of vodka
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Drop an egg and watch it bounce. Your friends will think it is a fake egg
until you break it open and pour out the yolk. The trick is to first soak a raw
egg in vinegar for a day or two. Turn it occasionally or otherwise be sure the
egg is entirely soaked. It will feel rubbery when done, and will bounce - but
only if dropped a short distance. Drop it from too high and it will break.
If you must speed, the best lane to be in (on a multi-lane highway) is the far
right lane. The police usually have the radar gun aimed at the left or passing
lanes. Since faster traffic is usually in the passing lanes, you also just attract
less attention on the right. Also, there will often be trucks and other vehicles
between you and any police cars that are in the median. It is difficult for
them to get an accurate reading on your speed in that case, or to be sure
which car the reading was on.
Need more ideas for your web site pages or articles? As you search for
keywords for an article or web page, you'll find other good keywords too.
Write them down, along with the number of monthly searches for them.
Suppose your site is on gardening, and you searched "tomato." You choose
"growing tomatoes," as your keyword for the article or page you had in
mind, but you also see that last month 3400 people searched for "tomato
cages" (I actually just checked this).
Write it down! Later you can do an article on how to make your own tomato
cages (or how to choose the best ones, if you sell them). 3600 people
searched "tomato plant care." Another article, right? Collect those
keywords. They give you ideas for articles. Even better, you know that there
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are people waiting to read those articles - and then visit your website.
Buyers are always more afraid of unknown factors than known ones. If there
are potential problems, such as an old roof, get an estimate for repairs. This
makes an unknown into a known factor. You might then get an offer that
wouldn't otherwise be made. Also, potential buyers may want a $7,000
allowance for a new roof - until you show them your $4,000 estimate.
Anticipate all possible problems and have a solution or information ready
for buyers.
Many banks are now allowing you to take cash out at an ATM even if you
don't have enough in your account. This may sound generous of them until
you realize they are doing this to make big overdraft fees from you. Of
course, it would be easy for the bank to program the ATM to alert you if you
try to take more than you have in the account, so the intention is clear. They
want those fees, even if getting them comes from a mistake on your part. To
avoid this, check your balance before you make a withdrawal (so far there is
no fee for this).
Hopefully you don't have annual fees on your credit cards. If you do,
though, and you have been making your payments on time, getting rid of
those fees may be as simple as asking to have them removed. This worked
three out of four times back when I had cards with annual fees. It helps to
let them know you'll be canceling the card otherwise, and it helps if you
have a good credit score as well, but in any case, it can't help to ask.
Why pay retail? There are auction sites online that specialize in selling
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jewelry cheap. For example, you can often buy an engagement ring for a
third or less of what you would pay for the same ring at a local jewelry
store.
How to use this information: Check out www.gemdealz.com, where you can
click on the link for the three-minute auctions and catch an occasional great
deal. We bought a gold and diamond ring there for $43. Almost identical
ones cost $89 at one local department store and $149 at a jewelry store.
Others have used sites like this to pick up jewelry for as little as 10% of
retail, to resell for a profit through classified ads. These rings usually come
tagged with the "suggested retail price" which helps the vendors to sell
them. This price will always be greatly exaggerated (ours said $495), but
nonetheless, you can get a real deal, as our experience shows.
Many of these sites also sell watches, loose gems and gold.
Now, students might be very busy and not have time to complete the survey
in 5 or even 21 days, so you might think that with more time, eventually
more of the surveys would be turned in. As it turns out, the opposite is true.
Tallying up the totals a year later, it was found that 66% of those with the 5-
day deadline turned in their surveys, 40% with a 21-day deadline turned
them in, and only 25% of those with no deadline turned them in.
There will be many times when you can apply the lessons learned from this
research. For example, if you are hiring a handyman, set a deadline (and
withhold at least some of the payment until the job is completed). If you
want anyone to do something for you, avoid ever saying something like
"whenever you get to it is fine." Set a deadline.
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Some car dealers will have you sign a "Conflict Resolution or "Dispute
Resolution" agreement, usually after you have already negotiated all terms
and are ready to close the deal. Be careful! These agreements state that
you'll settle any disputes through arbitration rather than the courts, and they
often specify that YOU will pay for the arbiter, but the dealer will choose
him or her - and you can't appeal the decision. Just say no, and if they insist,
buy your car elsewhere. These kind of agreements are most often used by
dealers who have a lot of legal problems.
Some dealers will let you trade in your car and drive the new one home
before your loan application is approved. Then they call you up and tell you
that the loan wasn't approved, but you were approved for a loan with worse
terms, which you now have to take. Why? The contract you signed had a
"writ of recision," in the fine print. You agreed that if you failed to qualify
for the original loan, you would abide by the terms of the loan with a higher
interest rate. Avoid any loan application with a writ of recision.
Extra fees are often added after you have agreed on terms. Dealers may even
suggest that some of these are mandated by the government. Among these
are "environmental fees," "protection packages," "fabric treatment,"
"extended warranties," and even "advertising fees" - as though you should
be paying for their advertising! Refuse anything you don't want, and if they
insist, walk out.
Watch out for zero-interest deals. Often you pay nothing in interest for the
first year, but the interest is still accumulating. It isn't really zero-interest if
you have to pay it at some point. Also, lower interest rates (even 0%) often
mean a higher sale's price, so there may not be any real savings.
Suppose you own 1,000 shares of Coca Cola that you bought years ago for
$30 per share. Now it's $61 per share. You want to sell soon, but because it's
December, if you wait a month you'll put off the taxable gain of $31,000
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($31 times 1,000 shares) until next year. You think you'll be in a lower tax
bracket then, so waiting could save you thousands. But you are worried that
the stock price could drop before you sell. What do you do?
You buy a put option and sell a call option. This little secret has been used
by smart investors for many years. Prices vary widely at different times and
depending on the stock, but if an option to sell (a put) at $60, which expires
a month later, cost $1.50 per share, you would pay $1,500 total, plus about
$25 for the commission. Now, to cover all or part of that cost, you sell a call
option, which gives someone the right to buy your stocks. Let's assume you
can get $1.25 for an option that gives the holder the right to buy your stock
at $62. You get a total of $1,250, minus about $25 for the commission.
You have spent $300 more than you took in, and two scenarios are possible
now. If the stock goes down, you will be able to sell at $60 (that's what you
put option gives you the right to do). If the price goes up, you will be forced
to sell at $62. This pairing of option trades is called a "collar." The idea is to
sell a call and buy a put worth roughly the same amount, in order to protect
your gain.
What happens now? Suppose the stock price rises to $70. You'll have to sell
at $62, making $700 more for your wait ($1,000 minus the $300 the
transaction cost). And if the price goes down to $50. You can sell at $60
(that's why you bought the put option), meaning you'll make $1,300 less for
the sale than now ($1,000 and the $300 costs). If the price hovers around the
same area, the options will expire worthless, and you can sell at about $61.
Even the worst-case scenario of making $1,300 less on the sale is cheap
insurance if it guarantees saving a few thousand on taxes.
Consider insurance costs. There is a big difference between what you'll pay
to insure a sports car and a mini-van. Check out car safety ratings at
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www.iihs.org, to see if one of the cars you are considering is safer, and
therefore will mean cheaper insurance rates. See the section on insurance as
well.
Most retirees probably assume that their benefit rate is correct. But mistakes
are made, and they can affect what you receive. Your rate is based on your
35 highest-earning years. To make sure these have been reported correctly,
review the annual statement the social security administration sends you,
comparing to your w-2s for all years if you have them. If there is a mistake,
call the SSA at 1-800-772-1213. Some errors can be taken care of by phone,
but otherwise ask what you need to do to get the information corrected.
Calculation errors are less common, but do happen. If you suspect this is the
case, you can see the formula used on the SSA web site:
www.socialsecurity.gov. Other error can result from name changes due to
marriage and address changes. Call the SSA number above to see what can
be done about these.
If you can allocate debt to your business you'll get a tax deduction for the
interest. For example, suppose you have saved up $10,000 in your business
account to buy new equipment. If you have any personal debt that is not tax
deductible (credit card debt, for example), pay the business account money
out to yourself and use it to pay that debt down, and then borrow for the
new equipment.
Suppose you pay off $10,000 of your personal car loan debt that was costing
you 12% interest, and borrow that much (at about the same rate) to buy the
new business equipment. You end up with the exact same amount of debt
overall, but now all of the interest can be called a business expense,
meaning you will save hundreds at tax time. This can be done with most
small businesses, but ask your tax professional about your particular case.
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To avoid this or to pay less in taxes, do the rollover in a year of low income
(perhaps when you have business or investment losses). If your reported
income is low enough that you'll owe no taxes, even the IRA proceeds may
be entirely untaxed. This trick won't work for everyone, but it is a way to
take advantage of what may otherwise be a bad year financially.
Some bottled water is just regular tap water (if you look, it may say "from a
municipal source" on the label. In any case, when ABC News tested bottled
water and tap water, they found no difference (on average) in purity. Both
had similar levels of E. coli, for example. New York City tap water was even
rated higher for taste than Evian bottled water. To avoid chlorine, fluoride
and other chemicals added to tap water, you can buy distilled water or get a
water filter for your faucet.
Known as the "serial position effect," it has been shown that contestants
who perform later in competitions are rated better than those who perform
earlier. This seems to hold true in job interviews as well. Try to be one of
the last ones interviewed to increase your odds of getting the job.
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Why? So many people bet birthdays, that winning tickets with numbers
below 31 usually split the pot more ways, so each winner makes less. When
the winning numbers are all over 32, there will be fewer tickets with the
winning numbers, and so each one is worth more.
Viagra makes nitric oxide more available to the body, which relaxes the
smooth muscle contractions, thus boosting atrial dilation. This brings more
blood to the pelvic area, and encourages an erection. It also, unfortunately,
has some real risks.
Arginine, an amino acid you can buy in almost any health food store, works
in a similar way. The body uses it to produce nitric oxide which as noted
above, encourages an erection. 1,000 to 2,000 mg is the usual dose, and it is
best to take it between meals.
The "loyalty" cards you get at various grocery stores and supermarkets do
more than just get you a discount on some items. They also record your
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The insurance companies are using these records to determine your rates,
looking especially at your food and non-prescription drug purchases. They
also have no way of knowing if some of your purchases are for a friend or
because you loaned your card to another customer. It is assumed that you are
the end consumer for anything that shows up in your records of purchases.
Don't want to miss out on the discounts, but don't like the invasion of
privacy? Some stores (Safeway, for example) allow you enroll without your
name, using "Store Customer" or something similar instead. Alternately, you
can use only part of your name, or give false information.
Best time to get a deal on a hotel room? Right after six in the evening. The
hotels clear the no-shows from the reservations and often let these rooms go
cheap in order to fill them up. In some large cites with high-occupancy
(New York, for example) this happens after 4 in the afternoon. The only
drawback to this strategy is that it's possible the hotels will be all booked up
by the time you call.
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points, actually listen to what the other person is saying, and let him know
that you are listening. One way to do this is to occasionally recap what the
other person has said. Start with something like, "If I understand this, you're
saying..."
To comply with FDA rules, a product that is advertised as "low fat" must
have 3 grams or less of fat per serving. The FDA rules, however, do not
specify what a "serving" is. If the serving size chosen by the manufacturer
happens to be a fourth of the amount you typically eat, then you are may
actually be getting 12 grams of fat per serving. Look at the size per serving
listed on the package, and consider what amount you'll actually eat at once.
Want to avoid the worst of the germs that breed in public restrooms? Use
the toilet closest to the door. A study of public restrooms found that toilets
in the stall nearest the door consistently had the lowest bacteria levels. It is a
matter of traffic. Most people, looking for privacy, pass the first stall and
use one further in. Less use means lower bacteria counts.
Tip your housekeepers, and say hello. They probably deserve a tip anyhow,
but it also prevents burglary. A dishonest housekeeper is less likely to steal
from someone he or she has met. Also, if a criminal is in your room
pretending to be you, which is a common pretext when robbing hotel guests,
the housekeeper will know it isn't you since you have met.
The newest drugs don't have generic versions available, and they can be
very expensive. However, they are not necessarily better than the older drug
that treat the same disease or condition. Even if the older drugs don't have
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generic versions available, if they have been around for more than seven
years they can be half the cost of newer drugs.
Ask your doctor about these older drugs. If he knows of one that is just as
effective as the newer drugs, have him prescribe that one. Then shop
around. The price for the same drug can vary by 30% from one pharmacy to
another.
Just because the concierge has a hotel uniform on doesn't mean he works for
the hotel. Many hotels out-source their concierge services. Some concierges
are not even allowed to say that they don't work for the hotel. Does it
matter?
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All calories were not created equal. Calorie for calorie, some foods become
fat in your body more easily. One of the worst is high-fructose corn syrup.
Normally carbohydrates cause your body to produce insulin, which in turn
causes the carbs to be immediately used for energy or stored in muscle
tissue for later use, or if not needed, converted into fat.
What is high-fructose corn syrup found in? More and more foods. Pop,
cookies, juice mixes, crackers, soups. Even most breads and spaghetti
sauces now have it. (Apparently regular corn syrup is not as harmful.)
Here's a secret that most accountants and tax preparers don't tell their
clients: You can designate which shares you are selling when you sell part of
your investment in a mutual fund. Why would you want to do this? Because
selling shares that were acquired at a higher cost means paying less in
capital gains taxes.
For example, suppose you bought 400 shares of XYZ Fund at $10 per share,
or $4,000 total, and later invested another $4000 when the share price was
at $15. Later, you want to move $4,000 to another fund or use it for a
vacation. If you simply redeem $4,000 of your shares, you'll have to report
the profit based on your average cost.
In this case that would be $12.50. Let's say the shares are currently at $16.
That's a profit of $3.50 per share, or $875 total. You will have to pay taxes
on that profit.
However, you can write to the broker or fund company and say, "Please sell
250 of the shares of XYZ Fund that I bought on (the date of your second
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purchase at $15/share)." Since your cost for those specific shares was $15,
you only show a profit of only one dollar per share, or $250 total.
Depending on your tax rate, this could mean a couple hundred dollars less
you pay, just because you knew how to sell your mutual fund shares.
Check for generic versions regularly. Most people check for a generic
version of a drug when they first get their prescription, and if it isn't
available, they don't think about it again. But generic drugs are regularly
becoming available. In the last year, for example, the following drugs have
become available in less expensive generic versions: Zocor (cholesterol-
lowering, generic name simvastatin); Flonase (allergy spray, generic name
fluticason); and Zoloft (antidepressant, generic name sertraline).
No rooms in the Hotel? Here's a little secret: There might still be a few.
There are sometimes rooms that are out of use due to a broken table or other
non-essential problem. If you really need that room, tell the manager that
you can take any room that might be closed for minor problems. You should
even get a discount.
When buying a used car, buy the car stereo separately. If you buy a used car
from somebody for $3,000, a six percent sales tax will cost you $180. Have
him write the price up as $1,000, and buy the "extras" (stereo, seat covers)
for $2,000 cash. You'll save yourself $120, if you don't mention the extras to
the state.
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You may recall Lie #3 from the e-book 99 Lies, which is the idea that
raising taxes automatically raises revenue. A short excerpt:
If the government took 95% of your income in taxes, would you work much?
Do they get any taxes if you don't work? No. More money will actually be
collected if they take a lower percentage, right? Add to that the fact that
every dollar the government takes can't be invested into new businesses -
businesses which would create more income to be taxed - and you can see
that there is a point of diminishing returns.
Forbes magazine recently reported on a great example of this. Iceland cut its
corporate tax rate step-by-step from 45% in 1991, to 18% in 2001. What
happened? Tax revenues went up step-by-step, perfectly demonstrating the
Laffer Curve. They tripled by 2001, and tripled again in the next five years.
Lower rates meant MORE tax revenue.
Once you understand this principle, you know that an increase above the
most efficient tax rate (probably 15% to 20%) means LESS money for
education, helping the poor, or anything we might want our government to
do. A person who knows this and continues advocating higher taxes must do
so from a desire to punish success, to get votes, or for some motivation
other than to raise more revenue for anyone's benefit.
Of course, in the case of politicians - who almost certainly are familiar with
the Laffer Curve, the motivation is to get elected. They play to voters'
ignorance of how taxation really works. Even worse, they cater to envious
people's desire to make the wealthy suffer. Of course, some politicians may
simply be ignorant when it comes to this and many issues.
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How much potassium? Normally it is recommended that you get 4.7 grams a
day (more for athletes), which is less than the average American gets. The
safest way to increase one's intake of potassium is from foods. Try a couple
spoons of blackstrap molasses daily, or eat more bananas and avocados.
There are times when you need to avoid someone, whether it is for your
own self protection, to keep from hurting that person, or both. One of the
best ways to do this is to purposely mis-time your contact efforts. Call when
you know the he'll be out, for example, or invite him to a party when you
know he can't make it. You might even stop by his office when you know he
won't be there. You can avoid him in this way without hurting his feelings.
Because the cost is so low, and the protection so valuable, many investors
are now setting up a separate LLC for each property they own. In this way,
they don't risk any of the income from their other properties when one of
them has a legal problem. Any non-real estate business you own should also
be in a separate LLC or corporation from your real estate investments.
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Hotel-room thieves often take just one credit card from your wallet or purse,
and then touch nothing else. In this way, you might go a day or more
without noticing the missing card. Meanwhile they are running it up to the
limit. I once had a thief in Mexico take just half of the checks from my book
of traveler's checks. I felt the book in my jacket lining where I had hid it, so
for half a day or more I didn't know I had been robbed.
Travel with just a couple credit cards, and check on them regularly to avoid
this. It is also a bad idea to leave your purse or wallet in the hotel room.
Getting audited by the IRS? Don't bring too much information. Specifically,
don't bring other year's tax returns. This increases the risk of the auditor
finding things to look into. The secret here is that although the audit notice
may tell you to bring other years tax returns, IRS rules state that you are
only required to provide information relating to the tax year that the audit is
for.
The only information from other years that you need to provide is that
which is related to the tax return being audited. This could be items that
carry over from prior years, such as the depreciation on a real estate
investment, or investment loss carryovers. When asked for the previous
years returns, tell the auditor that it doesn't relate to the issues or the year
being examined, so you didn't bring them. This will normally end the matter.
Some professional criminals have admitted that alarm signs which identify
the alarm company are good news for them. They can buy a diagram of how
that particular system is wired, and then disable it. If you want signs as a
deterrent, use generic ones that say something like, "This Home Protected
By An Alarm System."
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Do you believe the various "experts" who say that stocks go up 9% or 10%
per year on average? Here is a little secret: It all depends on which segment
of time you measure. How about the Dow Jones Industrial Average (DJIA)
for the years 1906 to 1981? The compound annual growth rate for that
period was just 2.75%. That makes the old advice about buying and holding
for the long term seem a bit naive, doesn't it?
What if you invested in the Japanese stock market in the early 1980s? The
Nikkei Average is just now (2009) 75% below where it was then. Buy and
hold for the long term? There are times when different markets - from real
estate to stocks to bonds - do better or worse than other investments. But at
all times, those promoting a given class of investment will claim it is best to
just buy it and hold on.
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The windchill effect is measured on bare skin. In other words, when the
weather man says that the "windchill temperature" is a certain degree, it is
only relevant to the degree that the wind can get to your body. A good
windbreaker for an outer layer means that the apparent windchill
temperature doesn't fully apply to you (except of course to your face and
any other exposed skin).
What if you still like the stock? Buy it back using your IRA. There is a
"wash rule" in the tax code that says you can't sell and repurchase a stock
(within a certain amount of time) just to claim a loss. However, you and
your IRA are separate entities as far as this rule is concerned, so you can
immediately repurchase the stock in your IRA and still write off the loss.
The average kitchen dishrag or sponge has far more bacteria than a toilet
seat. A million harmful bacteria in a sponge is common. Then these get
smeared over dishes and counters. The solution? Put the sponge in the
microwave for a minute and all the bacteria should be dead.
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For a food item to use the label "reduced calorie," it must have 25% fewer
calories than the comparison product, according to FDA rules. This does not
necessarily mean that it is "low calorie." For example, if regular mixed nuts
have 165 calories per ounce, "reduced calorie" mixed nuts could still have
up to 121 calories per ounce - 10% more than pure sugar!
There are two ways to overcome motion sickness that most people have not
heard of. The first is to get outside - if you can. Many people find that being
able to see the horizon and breath fresh air while on a boat eliminates their
nausea.
The second thing you can do is take ginger root. It has been shown to be
more effective than over-the-counter medications for motion sickness and
nausea. There probably won't be enough ginger in drinks and other products
that use it for flavoring, so you should carry some ginger capsules (buy
them at a health food store), or make tea from a tablespoon of freshly sliced
ginger root (sold at most grocery stores).
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being stolen while traveling, don't have the prettiest most expensive bags
around. The uglier the better from the perspective of reducing the odds of
losing your luggage to criminals. Fortunately good bags don't have to look
expensive to be just as functional, and you can find other ways to impress
fellow travelers.
You may be aware that deleting files still leaves them on your hard drive.
For example, things you download from the internet and later delete can still
be accessed using software that is widely available. What if you want to
truly get rid of them?
There are computer programs that will erase the files from your hard drive.
Sometimes they are available free. Try www.pcworld.com/downloads and
search for "permanently erase files." You can do a similar search using a
search engine if the program is no longer available there.
If you already have the credit cards that you need, it is an unnecessary risk
to have many pre-approved offers coming in the mail. These can be stolen
and used to apply for a card in your name, with a different address. How do
you prevent this?
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Employers sometimes try to get you to say bad things about previous
employers. The interviewer might say something like, "I can understand
why you quit. I have heard they aren't the best people to work for." Don't
take the bait. Don't say anything negative about your former employers. The
interviewer is simply trying to determine if you are a complainer, and if you
are, you probably won't get the job.
Want to know a dirty secret of hotel rooms? They change the sheets every
day (the reputable ones), but even the best hotels may go months without
washing the bedspreads. You can imagine what germs and filth might be on
them.
Most hotels will bring you fresh clean bedspreads if you ask. Jut negotiate
the price of the room and get checked in first. Then you can tell them that
you are a bit sensitive to other peoples dandruff and perfumes, so could they
please bring you clean bedspreads?
Certain odors cause increased activity in the part of the brain that creates a
state of wakefulness. These are odors that stimulate the trigemial nerve,
which has receptors in the nose and eyes. Peppermint in particular seems to
give many people a burst of energy when they smell it. The scent of
strawberries works for some as well.
Curiosity Extends Life - Dr. Sonia Cavigelli, at Penn State, tested 80 rats
with tumors, and found that those which were more curious lived 25%
longer. Curiosity was measured by the rats willingness to explore their
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Need to get someone off the phone, but you don't want to be rude? Click the
receiver button, and then do it again after a few seconds (be careful not to
hang up on her). She'll hear the clicks, which sound the same as those
produced by call waiting. Then tell her that you have another call coming in.
Alternately, you can ring the doorbell so she'll hear it in the background, and
say you have a visitor.
One of the ways in which television news shows its bias is in the labels
used. Bernard Goldberg, a reporter and former self-described liberal, notes
that all the major news outlets had a liberal bias. (This may have changed
with the introduction of Fox News - now you have a conservatively biased
news broadcast as well. And all the major news sources have a bias against
any politics that are outside the conservative or liberal mainstream.) In his
book "Bias," he gives example after example, including the following,
which shows how subtle the process can be.
"Harry Smith, the co-host (at the time) of 'CBS This Morning,' introduced a
segment on sexual harassment, saying: "...has anything really changed? Just
ahead we're going to ask noted law professor Catharine MacKinnon and
conservative spokeswoman Phyllis Schlafly to talk about that."
"It sounds innocent enough, but why is it that Phyllis Schlafly was
identified as a conservative, but Catharine MacKinnon was not identified as
a radical feminist, or a far-left law professor, or even as a plain old liberal?
MacKinnon, after all, is at least as far to the left as Schlafly is to the right.
Why was she simply a "noted law professor?" The clear implication was
that Catharine MacKinnon is an objective, well respected observer and
Phyllis Schlafly is a political partisan." (MacKinnon, by the way, once
implied that all sexual intercourse is rape - a fairly radical opinion.)
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The technique is subtle but effective. If you want to favor one political
persuasion and disfavor another on the news, you introduce those with the
former using their credentials, and those with the latter with a label. The
audience will rarely even notice that you are playing with how they see each
side.
Bernard Goldberg, a reporter for the CBS News, in his book, "Bias," gives
dozens of great examples of how distorted the truth can be due to reporter's
biases. One of the most blatant cases is that of reporting on the "homeless
crisis" of the late 80s and early 90s. Several reliable sources, including the
Urban Institute and the U.S. Census Bureau, put the number of homeless
people in the U.S. at between 250,000 and 500,000. The most likely figure
was around 300,000 homeless.
In 1989, on CNN Candy Crowley reported that there were three million
homeless. Then in 1993, on NBC, Jackie Nespral reported that there were
five million homeless "and the numbers are increasing." Charles Osgood, on
CBS, announced, "It is estimated that by the year 2000, nineteen million
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Goldberg had this to say about the reporting on the homeless: "It's as if our
coverage of this very big story was being directed not by objective
journalists, but by the advocates for the homeless themselves. We took what
they said at face value even though we would never do that with advocates
for causes we did not embrace."
Beyond the regular, large distortions of facts that occur in the media, there is
also a more subtle cause of bias. It is in the simple process of selecting
stories. Every day reporters and news managers make decisions like whether
to report on the latest escapades of some celebrity or to cover the rising
national debt. Their choices certainly affect the view that we have of what is
happening in the world.
Think Drug company studies are objective? Think again. The Guardian
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Now suppose, in this case, the company decided that only the five trials
with positive results are important enough to report, and they quietly get rid
of the data from the other five. Now, a drug that has no real benefit appears
to have helped in every trial - every one that the rest of the world hears
about anyhow. This is bad science, of course, and unfortunately is just one
of the ways that pharmaceutical companies play with data.
Look hard and you might find some evidence for the effectiveness of
psychoanalysis, but perhaps the primary reason that many therapists defend
it, is that it's profitable. Cognitive therapies usually try to resolve a problem
in 10 to 20 visits - traditional psychotherapy can go on for years. In a recent
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More than half of the alarm-protected homes they rob have the alarm system
turned off when they rob them. The most common reason? People don't
bother to turn the alarms on when they are just going out for a few minutes.
Burglars watch nice homes to learn the habits of the residents. If you
regularly leave to run to the store for a few moments, they know that, and
they also know that is unlikely that you'll set the alarm. This is when they
break in. The lesson? If you are going to pay for an alarm system, why not
use it even when leaving for short trips out?
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Just the opposite is true. According to statistics from all parts of the world,
the poor are the primary beneficiaries of the opening of markets.
In fact, as globalization took off in the 1990s, over 200 million people were
lifted out of abject poverty in India and China. Both economies boomed due
to globalization. By all objective measures, opening a country to
international companies is far more beneficial to the poor than any amount
of international aid that could be given.
Many airlines post their special offers on Friday nights. This is a good time
to check for flights, but not the best. The best time may be just after
midnight on Tuesday. This is when the special offers usually expire, and the
unsold seats pour into the computer system. For the next hour or so, you
may find especially cheap flights, particularly if you use a bidding system
like that of Priceline.com. Check for the cheapest flight first, then bid
cheaper. If you don't get your price, hurry back to get the cheapest posted
price.
Look closely at those fruit spreads that claim to be just fruit. They may be
more condensed fruit syrup (essentially sugar) than fruit. For example, some
"only fruit" strawberry jams are as little as 30% strawberries. The rest is
syrup made from condensed apple juice or other cheap juices.
You may think that if the fruit is first on the label it must be mostly fruit, but
watch out! By including various forms of sweetening, manufacturers can
make hide the fact that it is mostly sugar. For example, sugary syrups from
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apple, pineapple and grape juice might make up 25%, 25% and 20% of the
spread respectively, leaving strawberries at 30%, or first on the list of
ingredients, even though the spread is essentially 70% sugary syrup.
Valerian is very effective for promoting relaxation and sleep for most
people. However, in a recent study, less than half of the supplements
containing it didn't have enough to be clinically effective. You need at least
600 mg of the extract. If the amount is not listed, note the effect and try
another brand if necessary.
Not all credit counseling companies are working for your best interests.
Some of them get paid in some way by creditors, and so are working as
much (or more) for their interests as yours. In the last couple years, the IRS
has revoked the tax-exempt status of dozens of counseling firms that
claimed to be non-profit. Ask if they get any money at all from creditors.
Bushes near the home give burglars places to hide. This is especially true if
they are high enough to cover windows where the burglar might enter. At
least trim trees and bushes so that windows are clearly visible.
A recent study from Johns Hopkins University found that 90% of men with
erectile dysfunction have one or more cardiovascular risk factors. These
include diabetes, high blood pressure, prostate enlargement, high
cholesterol, and cardiovascular disease. Erectile dysfunction may indicate
atherosclerosis, and so should be taken as a sign to see a doctor.
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Now that people are becoming aware of the dangers of hydrogenated oil,
some manufacturers are replacing it with "interesterified" oils.
Unfortunately, scientists have found that these fats seem to cause a serious
decrease in HDL or "good" cholesterol. They also cause a 20% increase in
blood sugar levels. Both of these can increase the risk of heart disease.
Watch for the words "interesterified" or "stearate-rich" on the label to avoid
these fats.
Contrary to what many believe, you can get that letter back after you drop it
in the mailbox. But you have to move fast. Go to the post office and fill out
"Sender's Application For Recall Of Mail" form. If you can get this done
before the letter is shipped out from the local post office, you may be able to
get it back.
Unless trained to do so, big dogs often don't bark when burglars enter a
property. They may even welcome criminals who feed them. Burglars, who
don't want attention, say that small "yappie" dogs, like Chihuahuas, make a
better deterrent, because they consistently make noise when strangers enter.
The passes (such as E-ZPass) that allow you to quickly bypass the normal
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toll booths do more than just speed up your trip. They also can result in a
speeding ticket or be used to track your movements. Some states are issuing
tickets if you traveled too quickly between tolls, and the information
recorded has been even been subpoenaed in civil lawsuits, including divorce
cases. If you want more privacy, you may want to have more than one pass,
and alternate their use, or occasionally just use the regular toll booths.
Stopping newspapers and mail while away from home for a vacation or
other trip can invite burglars. Professional burglars admit that they often get
tips from newspaper and postal employees, telling them that the resident is
gone from the house. It is better to have your mail and paper picked up by a
neighbor, and at various times, so there is noticeable activity at your home.
When you opt for automatic reinvestment of dividends and capital gain
distributions with your mutual fund investments, tax considerations get
complicated. You need to add up all these reinvestments and count them as
part of your "basis," or cost, when you report this on tax forms. Otherwise
you will report too low of a basis and pay more in taxes than you should
(this is unfortunately common, especially for those who do their own taxes).
You may want to have the distributions go into a money market account
instead. As this money accumulates you can periodically invest it into the
fund or any other investments.
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Get more per gallon. How is that possible? By pumping your gas when it is
cooler, like in the morning. Gasoline expands as it gets warmer. In fact,
when it is shipped, every load is temperature-compensated to be sure the
indicated gallon amount is the actual amount pumped, and a couple degrees
difference is a big deal in the business. Gas stations, however, don't
compensate for temperature, so buy cool.
Get cleaner gas. How? By pumping only when tanks are not being filled. If
you see the tanker truck filling the station tanks, drive on by. The process
stirs up sludge and dirt in the tank, which will then end up in your tank if
you fill at those times.
Pump slow. The modern vapor-recovery pumps suck fumes back into the
stations tank as you fill up. Faster filling agitates the gasoline more, creating
more vapors, which are recovered after the gasoline has been measured -
meaning less gas for you. So unless you are in a hurry, pull the trigger to
just the first of the three notches.
Fill when half-full. More air in your tank cause faster evaporation of
gasoline, especially when it is warm. You can avoid this by keeping more
gas in there instead. Gasoline storage tanks sometimes have a membrane
roof over the gas, to prevent airspace evaporation. Your solution is simpler -
just keep the tank fuller.
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Would you like to reduce the number of bothersome insects when you are
out in your yard at night? Put a yellow fluorescent light over the area you'll
be in, because bugs generally can't see a yellow light. Then put a regular
fluorescent or incandescent bulb a short distance away. The insects and bugs
will be drawn to that light - away from you.
Of course it is no secret that putting a little aside each month can add up to a
lot of money for retirement. But sometimes we forget just how little it takes,
and what our options are. For example, suppose you drink a $3 cup of
coffee each workday. If you drank water for free instead, and put that money
into an IRA that yielded a very realistic 8%, you would have almost
$300,000 in the account in 40 years.
If you are afflicted with cold sores, you can reduce their incidence by
reducing your intake of arginine-rich foods. These include beer, chocolate,
cola, peanuts and peas. Herpes Simplex, the virus that causes cold sores,
needs the arginine to become active.
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according to estimates from the CDC (Centers for Disease Control). The
good news? It's estimated that half of the deaths from infections are
preventable by following some simple guidelines.
Don't wait for the hospital to implement new procedures, though. Ask all
staff to wash their hands before touching you or the devices that will be
touching you. Have your own bottle of hand sanitizer available at all times
and use it frequently. Ask Nurses and doctors to put on fresh gloves in your
presence. Have the nurse check on your catheter if you have one, to see if it
is backed up or flowing properly (a common source of infection). Report
any itchiness or other problems with incisions.
In other words, take control of your own health. If you will be incapacitated
too much to do so, pass these guidelines on to a friend or family member
who can stay with you.
Brushing your teeth with a dry toothbrush has been shown to cut tarter by
60% over regular brushing, and to reduce bleeding of the gums by 50%. It
seems to work best to first dry-brush your teeth, and then rinse out your
mouth and brush again with toothpaste.
Think products always have higher prices when they cost more to produce?
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Not so. Often the cheaper product actually costs the manufacturer more to
produce. For example, a few years ago IBM sold their higher-priced
"LaserWriter" and their lower-priced LaserWriterE. The latter was simply
the former with a chip added to slow it down. The extra chip meant it cost
more to make, but the resulting slower printer gave customers reason to buy
the higher-priced printer.
This was apparently the most effective way for IBM to "price target" their
customers. Adding a chip to slow one version down was likely cheaper than
actually producing two entirely different models for high-end and low-end
customers. Software companies sometimes do this, making a "professional"
version of a piece of software, and then modifying it to remove some of the
functionality, to create the cheaper model.
According to the Magazine "Mother Jones," the U.S. government has lost at
least ten nuclear bombs. Whether they are really gone or just misplaced in
some government facility is anyone's guess
Before we argue too much for the unfairness of a tax system that lets the
wealthy find a few loopholes, let's look at who really pays. According to a
recent article in Forbes magazine (11/26/07) the top 1% of income earners
in the U.S. (who receive 21% of the income) pay 39% of income taxes
collected. The top 5% pay 60%, and the top 50% pay 97%.
This is misleading, however, because social security taxes are not included.
These contributions are never actually invested, and so are taxes like any
others. When a government borrows and immediately spends the money,
that's not an investment any more than if you "invested" your 401K in a loan
to yourself to take a vacation.
What's more, an employee really pays over 15% of his or her income for this
tax, since the employer half is merely passed on in the form of lower wages.
If all taxes were paid by employers, it would still be the labor of the
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employee that makes paying the taxes possible, and wages would be lower.
This is an easy to understand economic principle.
Finally, there are no loopholes for this tax, unlike almost every other tax. As
a result, a burger flipper who pays 5% of his income in other taxes and 15%
in payroll taxes is paying a total percentage of income that is higher than the
$17.3% billionaire Warren Buffet paid on his income in 2006.
Of course the wealthy pay most of our taxes. There is no other way, since
the cost of government couldn't be covered by taking even 90% of the
wages of the poor. But loopholes and biases in the system (lower taxes on
the forms of income most common in the wealthy class) mean that many
poor and middle class often pay a bigger chunk of what they make in taxes.
Politicians do what they do for reasons which rarely have much to do with
the positive motives we ascribe to some of them. More often than not,
society (and history books) creates heroes not to honor them, but at best to
honor the ideals we would have liked them to have, and at worst to generate
a patriotism that can be usefully exploited by those in power.
At the University Of Newcastle they have a lounge where you can get
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coffee. People are encouraged to pay a fair price, and there is a suggested
price list. Money is simply dropped in a box. Researchers started with the
idea that people are better-behaved when they are being watched. Some
wondered if that "watching" needed to be real or if it could be symbolic and
still have a similar effect. So they put a picture of flowers next to the price
list in the coffee-lounge, and later put a picture of two eyes looking out at
the coffee drinkers. The amount people put in the box while the eyes were
there was almost three times the amount they put in the box when the
picture of the flowers was there.
Suppose you have a rental home you bought for $50,000 many years ago,
which is now worth $150,000. If you sell it, you'll owe tax on the $100,000
gain. But if you borrow against it, the cash is yours, you owe no taxes, and
you still own the house.
You might even maintain close to the same cash flow. For example, if you
happened to borrow during a time of higher interest rates, you might be still
owe $20,000 on an original loan of $40,000 at 10% annual interest on a 15
year loan. Your payments would be $430. If you take out a new loan at 6%
for 30 years, you can borrow $75,000 for just $450 per month. That gives
you $55,000 to spend how you want, tax free, and your cash flow will only
be reduced by $20 per month. You may be able the raise the rent that much.
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The IRS recently announced (but not loudly) that major credit card
companies are helping with their program to identify those who open
foreign bank accounts in order to avoid reporting the interest earned in
them. MasterCard has turned over the records from hundreds of thousands
of accounts, and American Express has also agreed to turn over information.
Suppose you want to borrow $20,000 to buy a new car, and would like to
make the interest on it deductible. Sometimes there is a way. If you have
enough equity in your home to refinance it or get a home-equity loan,
borrow the money in that way and pay cash for the car. Assuming you
itemize on your tax return, the mortgage interest will be fully tax deductible.
If there are any special circumstances (it's a second home, you may not
itemize, you are beyond the tax deductibility limit for a home-equity loan,
etc.), ask your tax professional about your particular case.
Beware of financial advisors who charge you nothing. They have to be paid
somehow, and it is usually through commissions on the investments they put
you into. In other words, they'll have a limited view of what you should do
with your money, and even within those choices may choose according to
commission amount over what is best for your purposes. Some fee-based
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advisors may also get commissions. You may do best with a fee-only
advisor.
Interview advisors to see if they know what they're talking about and can
communicate it clearly to you. Once you choose one, ask for a written
agreement that details the fees you'll be charged (will a quick phone call be
billed?), and a list of potential conflicts of interest having to do with
product-based commissions they might receive, with an explanation of how
these will be handled. Have the agreement state that the advisor or company
is working as your "fiduciary." This means they're legally obligated to look
out for your best financial interests.
The theory is that by paying the $20 or $40 annual fee, and buying the
larger sizes, you save money at a Costco, Sam's club or similar membership
store. There are four problems with this.
First, you have to save more than your annual membership fee to be further
ahead.
Second, the price per ounce or pound is cheaper because of the larger sizes,
but you tend to have more waste with large sizes, losing what you gained.
Third, they rarely have sales, and a good supermarket sale on potato chips,
for example, can make them cheaper than any discount club price.
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"integrating losses" that causes us to pay more for things than we normally
would. A classic example is a $300 car stereo you would have thought was
too expensive the day before, but when you are buying a $21,000 car, $500
for the same stereo seems reasonable. This is why car salesmen push the
extras hard. They are easier sales when you are already spending a large
amount of money.
When making any large purchase, look at each extra and ask yourself if you
would have bought it for that price last week. If not, you probably don't
need it, so save yourself the money.
Hiding things in a freezer is a trick known to thieves, but can still be used.
Just put the valuables in a plastic bag, then put that inside a bag of frozen
peas and glue the frozen pea bag closed. A thief will not likely thaw out all
your frozen food to look for valuables. A phony electrical outlet (real, but
unconnected) that allows you access to the inside of a wall is another way to
safely hide things.
There has not been an increase in melanoma (a type of skin cancer) in the
last twenty years as widely-reported. Recent investigation of the statistics
shows that what has increased is diagnoses of melanoma, followed by
biopsies. This is largely due to an increased awareness of the disease, and in
fact, many of the cases are false diagnoses, even though they may be
counted in the statistics.
Furthermore, there has been evidence that the sun is very healthy for us, as
long as we avoid burning. Studies show that sun exposure can be used to
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Cell Phones are quickly making pay phones obsolete. Nonetheless, many
cities keep installing more of them. Why? Because the local government
gets a cut of the revenue from the advertising on them. According to the
New York Times, in 2006 the city of New York received over 13 million
dollars in advertising revenue from public phone booths.
Recent research done in the Netherlands shows that you can combat a cold
by eating a large meal at the right time. Specifically, eat a big breakfast and
eat it early. Subjects who did this were found to increase their blood levels
of gamma interferon, an anti viral agent we all produce in our bodies, by
450%. The study suggests that you should eat 1,200 calories early each
morning until the cold symptoms disappear.
You may already know that the awful odor of natural gas isn't natural at all.
It is added for safety reasons. We need to smell something to know that
there is a gas leak. What you may not know, is that noises may soon need to
be added to things as well. Blind people are protesting some hybrid cars for
being to silent, according to an article in Scientific American (February
2008). A silent two-thousand-pound vehicle can be deadly to someone who
is used to hearing their approach. One group is calling for minimum noise
standards, so they can be aware of the cars.
It may make sense to buy locally grown foods, especially if they are not too
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expensive. After all, they may be higher in vitamin content since they
haven't had to travel so far (time plus air and sun exposure reduces vitamin
content). But what about doing it for environmental reasons? Is it always
environmentally friendly to buy local, as many claim? Not necessarily.
Suppose the nearest farmer's market is five miles further away than your
grocery store. That's an extra ten miles to go there to buy your food.
Suppose your car gets 30 miles to the gallon, and you normally buy about
25 pounds of food. That means it takes you about two gallons of extra
gasoline for every 150 pounds of food you buy there. That is twice the
environmental impact as buying at the supermarket.
By the way, this also assumes that there are no transportation costs for the
vegetables at the farmer's market, but some of that food may be "locally
grown" 100 miles away. Also, remember that you pay for that extra gallon of
gas and the higher cost for the food. If you need to work more to make that
money, that too may have an additional environmental impact. These things
are never as simple as the political sound bites and slogans make them
seem.
In the May 2008 issue of Sierra Magazine there is a small piece on the
"hyper-consumptive, carbon spewing ways" of Western countries." In it you
can find the following quote: "Stephen Pacala, director of the Princeton
Environmental Institute, claims that the planets richest 700 million people -
a mere 7% of the world's population - are responsible for half of the global
greenhouse-gas emissions produced by fossil fuels." Unfortunately, they
seem to also be responsible for most of the world's bad math. Notice that if
700 million is 7% of the world's population, we suddenly have 10 billion
people in the world (The actual figure was about 6.7 billion as of 2008).
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Even better news is that one cup of normal English Black tea (Earl Grey, for
example) gives the maximum protection. an important note: adding milk
seems to negate any effect. Apparently casein, a protein in milk, binds with
many of the beneficial compounds. This makes them unusable by our
bodies. So drink it black.
If someone is close to you while you are paying for a purchase, and talking
on a cell phone, something else could be going on. One of the latest scams
is photograph a person's credit card and identification while pretending to
talk on the phone. Many phones now have good enough resolution in their
cameras that even from several feet they can pick out credit card numbers
and expirations dates - the two things needed to charge things to your
account. Be wary if it seems that a person is trying to stay too close to you
while chatting on their cell phone. Cover the card with your hand.
Want to get in to see the doctor without waiting for weeks? Call the office as
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Because they are regulated differently, money market funds are only
allowed to tell you their simple interest rates, while banks advertise their
annual percentage rate (APR) which includes the effects of daily
compounding. Money market funds compound daily as well, but as a result
of this discrepancy in how they can advertise, their rates may look lower
than they are. Be sure to compare the simple interest rate of the bank (they
often show both this and the APR) to the fund.
If you aren't sure that a person's ID is real, start with a good look at the
photo. Does it look like him or her? Is it raised from the rest of the
document (this could mean it was added or altered). Look for wear patterns.
Artificially aged documents (this is done to make them look real) will be
worn more evenly, while regular wear is more likely at the edges, or
irregular. Ask for a signature and compare it to that on the card.
You can also "test" the holder of the ID. Mention some information from the
ID, but make a mistake on purpose to see if the person agrees. For example,
if the address is 214 Ninth Street, say, "So you live at 234 Ninth Street?"
Getting a fake identification card can be easier than memorizing all the
information on it.
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The last time one of my family had a minor eye infection, or "pinkeye," we
knew what was needed; antibiotic eye drops. They cost $4. Unfortunately,
the system is rigged to require that we pay a doctor for permission to buy
them. that cost $80. There is an alternative, I discovered later.
Apparently, if you can get your tears flowing, your body can often clear up a
pinkeye infection on its own. Here's a method recommended by at least one
doctor: Start by massaging the area around the corners of your eyes, where
eyeglass pads would normally rest. Then take a clean washcloth that has
been soaked in warm water and wrung out, and place it over an eye for ten
minutes.
Do this routine several times daily with each eye, and you might open up
those tear ducts enough to see an improvement of minor infections within a
few hours. If you don't see any improvement the first day, go see a doctor to
get that prescription before the problem gets too serious.
The study looked at all available data on the drugs. This included results
which manufacturers chose not to publish at the time when certain clinical
trials were completed. This selective withholding of trial results is likely the
biggest reason that the companies have been able to claim better results than
they actually get. But in fact, when all data was analyzed, it became clear
that though patients on anti depressant drugs had improved, those on
placebos improved just as much.
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The research was based on the full set of trial data for four antidepressants,
obtained in part by using the freedom of information rules from the Food
and Drug Administration in the United States. They looked at fluoxetine
(Prozac), paroxetine (Seroxat), venlafaxine (Effexor) and nefazodone
(Serzone), and found in all cases that, "...the overall effect of new-
generation antidepressant medication is below recommended criteria for
clinical significance."
Suppose you have written checks over the last two days for $5, $10, $15,
$70, $200 and $300, for a total of $600. However, you only have $302 in
the account because of a deposit that didn't clear. If the checks are cleared in
that order, the last one will bounce, and you'll likely pay a fee of $30 or so
to the bank, as well as one to the merchant you wrote the check to.
However, many banks have adopted a policy of always clearing the largest
checks first when there are multiple checks to clear. They claim it is because
the big checks are usually more important, but when you see the results, you
understand the real motivation. In this case, the $300 check would clear, but
then all five of other checks would bounce, allowing the bank to collect 5 of
those $30 check bouncing charges (plus you get in trouble with five times as
many merchants).
If you are writing many checks in the same day or two, be sure that you
have the money in the account to cover them. Be especially careful if you
have made any recent deposits that you are counting toward that balance. By
the way, according to Frederick Lowe of ATM & Debit News, banks in the
U.S. collect about $175 billion in overdraft fees each year.
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disclosure in the mail, the wording and fine print make it unlikely that most
read these through. So what do you do if there are fees that you don't
understand and which you think are unfair? Challenge them. At the very
least, they may remove the fee the first time it occurs.
It is said that banks no longer will cancel fees like this. It's true that most
low-level employees do not have the authority to remove fees from your
account, but they can pick up the phone and call the person who does have
the authority. I have had two fees ($25 and $12) removed this way at Well's
Fargo. I simply made it clear that I did not agree to the new terms and was
going to sit there until the fee was removed. I subsequently changed to a
new account with different rules. I also very politely (it's not the employees
fault) suggested that I would be moving my accounts if this wasn't resolved
to my satisfaction.
Late payment fees are as high as $38 on some credit cards now. You can still
usually get the first late removed if you call and ask ("I've never been late
before. Could you please remove the fee this time?"). It is tough to get any
subsequent late fees removed. Also, if the representative on the phone
doesn't get rid of the fee for you, call back later and speak to a different
person. Sometimes it's just a matter of who you get and how their day is
going.
Credit rating companies generally give you a higher score for credit card
accounts that have been open for a long time. If you need to cancel some of
your credit cards, keep one or two of the oldest accounts around. Even if
you never use them, they are available and are boosting your credit score.
I hesitate to tell people how to avoid debts they legally incurred, but then
perhaps there is a valid reason for not paying at times. In any case, there are
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two important things to know about old debts. First, there are statute of
limitations on debt, which vary from state to state. In Michigan, for
example, at the time I was a debt collector, you no longer legally owed
anything on most debts over seven years old, except in the case of the
exception noted below. You can find out what the rules are in your state at
http://www.fair-debt-collection.com/SOL-by-State.html.
The second important thing to know is that generally you "restart the clock"
on the statute of limitations if you pay anything at all. This is why if a
debtor owes several thousand dollars from a six-and-a-half-year-old debt,
the collection agents try hard to get him to send in $5, perhaps telling him
that this can show he's serious about paying. If he does pay $5, they then
have another seven years to collect the balance.
So if you can make it past the statute of limitations, and if you pay nothing
at all during that time, and if there is not a judgment against you (which
have their own statute of limitations), you don't have to pay the debt.
The New York Times recently reported that between $50 million to $80
million annually is spent on the new practice of "scent marketing." The
science is relatively new, but the idea is that retailers can use special
fragrances to persuade you buy products and services you were not
intending to buy. The company ScentAir, which produces "aroma-marketing
systems," saw their business quadruple between 2005 and 2006, and now
hundreds of companies fill their retail spaces with odors.
Martin Lindstrom, author of "Brand Sense," says that by using the right
odors, "People will make quicker decisions, be willing to pay more, and
most likely be so emotionally engaged that they are removed from the
rational part of their behavior." Harald Vogt, founder of the Scent Marketing
Institute, says that since consumers are already overly assaulted with sights
and sounds, the sense of smell is the best competitive edge left. He notes
that "You cannot turn off your nose. You have to breathe."
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All you want is a question answered, so you call customer service. But you
get a series of recorded prompt that lead you nowhere, or to a long wait.
How do you get through to a real human? There are a few tricks to try.
The most common one is to keep hitting "0" regardless of what the
messages say. This will often get you an operator. The other way to is to
ignore the "appropriate" category and push the button indicated for "sales"
or "billing." Companies generally will answer the phone if it means a
chance to make money or not lose money. Once you have a real person on
the phone, if he or she can't answer your question you can then usually get
transferred to a real human in the right department.
Many people get angry but do nothing when a health insurance claim is
rejected. The assumption seems to be that nothing can be done. Fortunately
this is not always true.
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To start with, ask your doctor for help with any claim the insurance
company rejects. Many denials happen simply because a doctor or hospital
didn't submit enough documentation. Some claims are denied because of a
wrong procedural code on the paperwork submitted. Call the insurance
company and find out the exact reasons for the denial of the claim, then call
the doctor or hospital that submitted it. Talk to the person who handles
billing and ask them to resubmit the claim with any necessary corrections or
additional documentation.
An employer who provides your insurance can help too. Talk to your
benefits manager. Your employer may be able to resolve the matter with a
phone call, because insurance companies often fear losing their business.
Even if your appeal is denied, you can go further if you think your case
warrants it. Go to www.naic.org to find the contact numbers for the agency
that regulates insurance in your state. They can review the decision of the
insurance company to see if it is legally correct and meets the terms of your
policy.
Finally, a lawyer might help you settle a claim. You can find information
and often a free consultation at www.lawyers.com. Be sure to hire a lawyer
with experience in insurance disputes.
You may already know that debt collectors cannot threaten violence, use
abusive language, or harass you with repeated calls after you have told them
to stop. They also cannot tell your employer about a debt or threaten to. If
they try any of these tactics, you can file a complaint with the FTC
(www.ftc.gov), or with your state attorney general's office.
What you may not have known is that you shouldn't acknowledge the debt
when collectors call - unless you plan to pay immediately. There are statute
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of limitation that are different in each state, and if you have not
acknowledged the debt before the limit is reached, nor paid on it in that
time, it becomes legally unenforceable. Find out what the statute is in your
state.
Ask the collector for written verification of the debt, which he must send
within five days. It should include the name of the creditor, the balance due,
the original balance and due date, the account number and the options you
have - including how to dispute the debt. You generally have 30 days to do
the latter.
Surgeons don't like to talk about it, but they are not always at their best
when digging into your heart or brain or other parts. If you can, try to
schedule surgery for around nine to eleven o'clock. By this time the surgeon
will have normally done a surgery or two, and so is warmed up and more
likely to perform at his peak. The problem later in the day is simple:
tiredness.
To avoid lines and the time when the greatest number of prescription errors
are made, wait until after the first week of any month. Social security,
welfare and other checks go out at the beginning of the month, creating not
only creates lines of customers which result in more errors by rushed
pharmacists and assistants.
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