Relationship Management Notes

I. Mistakes Most Guys Make a. Not being honest - Telling her you want one thing when you want something else b. Leading her on when you dont want to be serious - Seeing her too often - Buying her gifts c. Being too aloof when you do want to be serious d. Not having any other options - Makes you seem needy

II. Being Upfront a. Be upfront with what you want in the beginning and with what you want as things progress b. Tell her you a seeing other people (if you are) c. Tell her you are not looking for a relationship (if you dont want to get serious)

III. The Point System Seeing her = 6 points Talking on the phone = 4 points Texting = 2 points Email = 1 point If you dont want it to get serious then keep it under 8 points per week

IV. Lover VS Provider The Provider - Courts her - Spends a lot of money on her - Nice guy - She sees him as a potential husband and therefore holds off on sex as long as possible The Lover - Sweeps her off her feet - Doesnt try to impress her or spend a lot of money - Bad boy - Can turn her into any type of relationship

V. Types of Relationships a. Friends (no sex) b. Booty Call (just sex) c. Friends with Benefits (friends + booty call) d. Non-Exclusive Relationship (MLTR) e. Exclusive Relationship (girlfriend, wife) Note: Easy to move down the scale. Harder to move back up

VI. Friends a. No hooking up b. Can hook up with her friends c. Great for turning into your wing girl d. Get out of the friend zone by showing interest, escalating physically and verbally, and demonstrating pre-selection (jealousy)

VII. The Booty Call a. Never see her in the day light b. Tell her you dont want anything serious c. Blow her mind in bed

VIII. Friends with Benefits a. Hand out as friends but you also hook up

IX. Non-Exclusive Relationship a. Must tell her you are seeing other people b. Must be ok with her seeing other people c. Hang out approx once a week or less

X. Exclusive Relationship a. Committed to just her (DTR conversation) b. See each other more than once a week

XI. Infield Assignment a. All you have to do this week is approach. Hopefully youll have some dates as well, but whether you have a date or not I want

you to approach 10 women this week. If this seems like a lot then thats a good indicator that you havent been approaching enough. Even if you have a super busy week this week you can at least do 10 warm up approaches, (excuse me do you know where X is?) which should take about 10 20 minutes. So theres really no excuse. Get out there and approach!