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I. Story Telling a. Delivery (tonality and pausing) b. How to have good stories? Live an interesting life c. DHV (demonstrating good qualities) - Awesome Lifestyle (travel, activities, friends, etc.) - Protector of Loved Ones - Leader of Men (leader of a group) - Pre-Selection (women in your life) **Dont DHV too much because you dont want to seem bragging.
II. Routines a. Gambit, story or pattern that elicits a good reaction b. Fake VS Real (if its a story, make sure they its real!) c. Make routines to common questions that you ask and are asked to you - Asking Her Name You: Whats your name? Her: Alyssa You: Wow youre the 7th Alyssa Ive met today, is there an Alyssa convention in town lol? - She Asks for Your Name Her: Whats your name? You: Matt, Matt Damien Her: No its not! You: Of course it is! Ok ok that was just a test to see if your smart - Asking Where Shes From You: Where are you from? Her: Canada
You: Oh I cant even talk to you now, girls from Canada are trouble - She Asks Where Youre From Her: Where are you from? You: Im from your imagination, Im not even real. In fact I could do anything I want to you and it wouldnt matter. You have a pretty wild imagination - She Asks What You Do Her: What do you do for a living? You: Im an ass model, check it out. Hey no touching you perv (even if she doesnt try to touch)
III. Cold Reading a. Telling her something about herself b. Assume - I can tell youre X X=from LA, a bad girl, very independent c. Female Truisms d. Opposites - You seem like youre X, but really youre Y, I know because Im the same way
IV. NLP a. Anchor Good Emotions Back to You - Self Point - Positioning - Touch b. Embedded Commands - You know what its like when you see something in front of you (self point) and you want this so bad, me I just go for it
V. Frames a. Mindset b. The underlining meaning of the interaction c. Good Frames to Have - Crazy, wild, spontaneous, adventure - Tonight were going to have an adventure - Lets be spontaneous and go. - US VS THEM - Dancing in the street - Shes trying to seduce you (role-reversal)
VI. Jealousy a. Preselection - Shows you are in high demand - Scarcity (women want what they cannot fully have) b. Talking to other girls c. Talking about other girls in your life **Be careful with this
VII. Physical Tools a. Dancing b. High Five c. Spinning d. Kissing - PREFRAMING THE KISS - Negation: Promise me you wont kiss me tonight because if you do - Qualification: Are you a good kisser?, Would you rather have your neck sucked on or your ear nibbled on?
- Paint a picture: What do you think makes a good kiss? I think its the gentle brush of the lips when you feel like you cant resist - Almost Kiss: Weve been talking for a while so its time for an almost kiss, we get as close as we can get without actually kissing. Pinky swear that you wont kiss me! - Eskimo or Butterfly Kiss: Its time for a little kiss, no not that kinda kiss an, Eskimo/butterfly kiss (works great if youve already tried to kiss her) - MYSTERY KISS CLOSE Would you like to kiss me? - She says yes then you kiss her - She says maybe say well lets find out - She says no say I didnt say you could it just looked like you had something on your mind - ITALIAN GOODBYE Were gonna do the Italian goodbye (kiss her on both cheeks and if she doesnt pull away go for a small kiss on the lips) Mmm what is that, vanilla? (Go for another kiss). - SOFT CLOSE We may never see each other again so Im tempted to give you something to remember me by e. Dancing/spinning her f. Shots - Body shot - Slap shot g. Tests - Hug test - Body test
VIII. Flake Prevention a. Make sure you showed interest and qualified b. Ask her if shes going to flake - Whats the chance you wont show uplike 1 out of 20? c. If she calls right before
- Hey Im almost there, order me the lobster d. If she still flakes - Be unaffected and dont be angry
IX. Assignments 7 approaches this week at a bar, club, lounge, concert or on the street (preferable at night) using each of the 7 tools that you learned. (Similar to last week).