Beruflich Dokumente
Kultur Dokumente
Jayplay takes a
behind-the-scenes
look at the guys
behind the scenes. DRIVING TIPS
taking care of your ride
BAND ROMANCE
making music together
5
BREWERIES
the art of making beer
7
ON tHe rOAD
Jayplay
10
15
JAYPLAYERS
EDITOR QUEEN OF THE CASTLE
Carolyn Tharp
ASSOCIATE EDITOR PUDDIN POP
Becka Cremer
CLERK GETS AROUND TOWN
Rene Ward
DESIGNERS MAKE IT PRETTY
Kim Wallace
Bryan Marvin
PHOTOGRAPHER MCGUYVER SHIT
Amanda Sellers
Jared Gab
Kimberly Westphall
BITE/HEALTH GOOD FOR YOU
Erika Bentson
Rikki Kite
Rachel Parker
PEOPLE KNOW EVERYONE
Katherine Loeck
Frank Tankard
OUT HIT THE TOWN
Carissa Pedigo
Caleb Regan
NOTICE TAKE NOTE OF IT
Beth Breitenstein
Jacky Carter
Bart Vandever
CONTACT HELP YOUR LOVE LIFE
Lisa Anderson
Megan Heffey
CREATIVE CONSULTANT KNOWS A LOT
Carol Holstead
WRITE TO US
jayplay06@gmail.com
JAYPLAY
The University Daily Kansan
111 Stauffer-Flint Hall
1435 Jayhawk Blvd.
Lawrence, KS 66045
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
FEATURE
the guys behind the music
HAWK TOPICS
news you can use
SPEAK
a family addition
15
13 10
OUT
a look at Lawrence brewpubs
CONTACT
dating your band mate
4
5
CALENDAR
Sugarcult and more
3
PEOPLE
opera singer with blindness
7
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JAYPLAY 09.14.2006
VOLUME 4, ISSUE 5
note.
t o c
I spent a semester in Spain during
my junior year. My study abroad
friends and I would regularly crave
things from home like peanut butter,
hip hop music and movies. Of the
27 Americans I studied with, we had
about 10 DVDs that we would shuffe
through and loan out to each other.
Of these, I watched Almost Famous
repeatedly.
I still never get tired of the movie.
The carefree adventures of rock stars
on the road, and the relationships
between band mates, groupies
and roadies appeal to my sense of
adventure and love for travel. Too bad
I cant sing.
Rikki Kites feature about roadies
gives a behind-the-scenes look at the
people who keep the band wheels
turning. Roadies do everything from
managing the band to setting up
equipment and stretching guitar
strings.
So maybe the life of a rock star
is not for me, but until I perfect my
tambourine-playing skills, Ill be
reading Kites article and watching
Almost Famous again and again.
Carolyn Tharp, Editor
COVER PHOTO/KIMBERLY WESTPHALL
NOTICE
learn about your car
Tea Time. Kansas Union, 3 p.m.,
free, www.suaevents.com.
Cute Is What We Aim For /
Hit the Lights / Paramore /
This Providence. Bottleneck,
4 p.m., all ages, $11, www.
pipelineproductions.com.
Gerontology Faculty
Colloquium by Susan Kemper:
Use it or Lose it? Or Can You
Teach an Old Dog New Tricks?
Dole Human Development
Center, 4 p.m., free.
Munly & the Lee Lewis Harlots.
The Record Bar, 21+, www.
therecordbar.com.
Lecture by author Rod Smith:
Campaign Finance Reform.
Does is Subvert American
Democracy? Dole Institute of
Politics, 7:30 p.m., free.
The New Tragedies / Carrie V
and the Speedboys. Jazzhaus,
10 p.m., 21+, $3, www.jazzhaus.
com.
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Reliant K
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Platte County Arts at Zona
Rosa. Zona Rosa, 10 a.m., all ages,
free, www.zonarosa.com.
Tunes at Noon. Kansas Union
Plaza, 12 p.m., www.suaevents.
com.
Free Play at the Replay. Replay
Lounge, 3 p.m., all ages, free,
www.replaylounge.com.
Philosophy Lecture: The
Emotional Basis of Morals
by Jesse Prinz, professor of
philosophy at the University
of North Carolina. Pine Room,
Kansas Union, 4 p.m., free.
Tool / Isis. Kemper Arena,
all ages, $35-$55, www.
kemperarenakc.com.
Muse. Uptown Theatre, 7
p.m., all ages, $30, www.
uptowntheater.com.
Pastiche. Crafton-Preyer Theatre,
7:30 p.m., all ages, $10, www.
kutheatre.com.
The 88 / Matt Costa. Bottleneck,
8 p.m., all ages, $14, www.
pipelineproductions.com.
Kaw Valley Project / The
Volunteers. Jazzhaus, 10 p.m.,
21+, $3, www.jazzhaus.com.
Cosmic Bowling. Jaybowl,
10 p.m., free with KUID, www.
suaevents.com.
Farmers Market. Eighth and
New Hampshire, 7 a.m., all ages,
free, www.downtownlawrence.
com/farmersmarket.html.
Renaissance Festival. Bonner
Springs, 10 a.m., all ages, $14.50,
www.kcrenfest.com.
Platte County Arts at Zona
Rosa. Zona Rosa, 10 a.m., all ages,
free, www.zonarosa.com.
Bulldog Breakdance Battle.
Granada. 1 p.m., www.
thegranada.com.
Nickelback / Hoobastank /
Chevelle / Hinder. Kemper
Arena, 7 p.m., all ages, $38.50-
$46.50, www.kemperarenakc.
com.
Pastiche. Crafton-Preyer Theatre,
7:30 p.m., all ages, $10, www.
kutheatre.com.
Cosmic Bowling. Jaybowl,
10 p.m., free with KUID, www.
suaevents.com.
Unwed Sailor / Were From
Japan / T.G. Cid. Jackpot
Music Hall, 10 p.m., 18+, www.
jackpotsaloon.com.
Toga Party. Boobie Trap Bar,
21 +, $3 or free with toga. Cash
prizes for sexiest and most
unique togas.
Renaissance Festival. Bonner
Springs, 10 a.m., all ages,
$14.50, www.kcrenfest.com.
Platte County Arts at Zona
Rosa. Zona Rosa, 12 p.m., all ages,
free, www.zonarosa.com.
Kenny Werner. Blue Room, 7
p.m., 21+, $55.
Sugarcult / Halifax / Maxeen /
SoTheySay / The Spill Canvas.
Liberty Hall, 8 p.m., all ages, $15,
www.libertyhall.net.
Dirty Boogie. Gaslight Tavern, 10
p.m., www.gaslighttavern.com.
Floyd the Barber. Harbour
Lights, 10 p.m., 21+, $2.
Talk Like a Pirate Day. Wescoe
Underground. www.kudining.
com.
Farmers Market. 10th and
Vermont, 4 p.m., all ages, free,
www.downtownlawrence.com/
farmersmarket.html.
Video Game Tournament:
Super Smash Bros. Oliver
Residence Hall, 7 p.m., www.
suaevents.com.
Godsmack / Rob Zombie /
Shinedown. Verizon Wireless
Amphitheater, 7:30 p.m., all ages,
$20-$42.50, www.livenation.com.
Junior Boys / The Ensemble.
The Record Bar, 21+, www.
therecordbar.com.
Comedy Showcase hosted by
Jason VanCise. Gaslight Tavern,
8 p.m., www.gaslighttavern.com.
Built to Spill / Helvetia / Prids.
Bottleneck. 9 p.m., all ages, $15,
www.pipelineproductions.com.
Psyopus / The Tony Danza
Tapdance Extravaganza / Home
Pharmacy / The Cast Pattern.
Jackpot Music Hall, 10 p.m., 18+,
www.jackpotsaloon.com.
Engineering and Computer
Science Career Fair. Kansas
Union Ballroom, 12 p.m.
Daniel Libeskind. Woodruff
Auditorium, 7:30 p.m., all ages,
free, www.suaevents.com.
Built to Spill / Helvetia / Prids.
Bottleneck. 9 p.m., all ages, $15,
www.pipelineproductions.com.
Judah Johnson / Black Tie
Dynasty. Replay Lounge, 10 p.m.,
21+, $2, www.replaylounge.com.
Bottleneck
737 New Hampshire St.
Lawrence
(785) 841-5483
Boobie Trap Bar
1417 S.W. Sixth St.,
Topeka
785-232-9008
Gaslight Tavern
317 N. Second St.
Lawrence
The Granada
1020 Massachusetts St.
Lawrence
(785) 842-1390
Harbor Lights
1031 Massachusetts St.
Lawrence
(785) 841-1960
Jackpot Music Hall
943 Massachusetts St.
Lawrence
(785) 843-2846
The Jazzhaus
926 1/2 Massachusetts St.
Lawrence
(785) 749-3320
Kemper Arena
1800 Genessee
Kansas City, Mo.
(816) 513-4000
Liberty Hall
642 Massachusetts St.
Lawrence
(785) 749-1972
The Record Bar
1020 Westport Road
Kansas City, Mo.
(816) 753-5207
Replay Lounge
946 Massachusetts St.
Lawrence
(785) 749-7676
Uptown Theater
3700 Broadway St.
Kansas City, Mo.
(816) 753-8665
Verizon Wireless
Amphitheater
633 N. 130th St.
Bonner Springs
(913) 721-3400
THURSDAY
september 14
MONDAY
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TUESDAY
september 19
SUNDAY
september 17
SATURDAY
september 16
FRIDAY
september 15
WEDNESDAY
september 20
VENUES
where?
Converge / Mastodan / The
Bronx / Horse the Band.
Granada, 7 p.m., all ages, $15,
www.thegranada.com.
Lecture by former Consul
General of Japan, Mr. Takao
Shibata: Japan-China
Relations in the 21st Century:
Reconceptualizing World War II
on The Eve of Chinas Economic
Expansion. Kansas Union, 7:30
p.m., free, www.ceas.ku.edu.
The VooDoo Organist /
The Spook Lights. Jackpot
Music Hall, 9 p.m., 18+, www.
jackpotsaloon.com.
Winfeld Afterparty.
Gaslight Tavern, 9 p.m., www.
gaslighttavern.com.
JAzz on Town
SquAre: MAx
Groove. Zona Rosa,
7 p.m., all ages, fRee,
www.zonarosa.com.
FALL FeSTivAL.
Douglas County
faiRgRounDs, 10 a.m.,
all ages, fRee, www.
visitlawrence.com.
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Chris Raine
BITCH
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Niloofar
Shahmohammadi
Please send your
questions and
concerns to
bitch@kansan.com
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It seems all my frIends have no problem fIndIng
a guy who actually takes Interest, but I never
seem to land the perfect guy, or any guy. they
all tell me Im the perfect gIrl: not too tall,
nIce and slIm, everythIng a guy could want. but
for some reason no one shows Interest. I wIll
admIt I can seem extremely shy, but I try not to
be. Is there anythIng I could do In the hopes of
havIng someone gaIn Interest?
baIley, sophomore
Chris: So your friends
tell you that youre the
perfect girl, huh? Thats
funny, thats exactly what
how my second stepmom
used to describe me at
least when she was sober.
Newsfash, hon: your
friends are lying. Youre
not perfect, neither are
they and neither were any
of my stepmothers. If you
want to attract a man, you
should set the bar lower.
Maybe aim for kind of
cute,sorta funny or, if
youre feeling ambitious,
not too annoying.You
could always take the easy
route and go for slutty, but
honestly, theres enough of
that in this town already.
And I assume youd like to
maintain at least the veneer
of integrity. Plus, youd
have to compete with your
friends, and it sounds like
they have a sizable edge
in experience on you. And
about your goal of landing
the perfect guy? Thats a
good one. See, youre being
sorta funny already.
Niloofar: Yeah, there is.
It involves a miniskirt, a
pushup bra and a lack of
dignity. But you said you can
seem extremely shy, so Im
guessing this isnt an option
for you. The truth is, Im a bit
concerned with what sounds
like desperation. Just hoping
that someone will gain
interest is not good enough.
Men are the pursuers and
women are the selectors.
Thats a powerful position
to be in, so use it. No one to
select from? Once again, that
might have a lot to do with
your shyness. While in your
head, you think youre just
coming off as a wallfower,
to men you might be
coming off as disinterested.
The men are pursuing, so
if you dont give them any
green lights, how are they
supposed to pass go? They
wont. A woman who truly
believes she is a prize isnt
afraid to firt. It shows shes
comfortable about who she
is and that she is interested.
So my assignment to you
is to be very conscious of
the types of signals youre
sending out. Work up the
courage to crack some jokes,
bat your eyelashes and be
sexy sans a pushup bra.
After having a few beers with friends while
watching a KU basketball game, Matt Sager,
Shawnee junior, decided to join his friends at Its
Brothers! on Massachusetts Street. Even though the
night is still a little blurry to Sager, he recalls running
into a guy he had gone to high school with at the
bar. The guy held a grudge against Sager and threw
him out. Sager couldnt fnd his friends and had to
walk 13 blocks back home. After recapping the night
with his friends the next day, he realized that the
guy who threw him out did not, in fact, even work
at Brothers.
Megan Heffey
(MORTIFYING MOMENT)
CATHERINE COQUILLETTE
BUSTED BOUNCER
Name: George Regan, Shawnee
junior
Major: Psychology
Favorite personal feature:
Sense of humor and ability to
make people laugh
Favorite feature in a girl: Her
smile
Hobbies: Playing golf, watching
sports, playing croquet and
hanging out with friends
Job: Grounds crew at Lawrence
Country Club, 400 Country
Club Terr.
Ideal date: Getting together
with a group of friends and
going out
Worst date hes ever had: It
was a picnic, and it was really
awkward
What he sees in his future: Id
like to get a job and settle
down with a family back in
Kansas City.
What hes got that other guys
dont: Im the best beer pong
player at the University of
Kansas.
What his friends say: Hes one
of the sweetest guys Ive ever
met and hes always there,
says Alicia Goldstein, Overland
Park junior.
Interesting fact about George:
He wasnt legally named
George until he was 4. It was
originally a nickname and
a mix-up at the emergency
room prompted his parents
to change it permanently.
Megan Heffey
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couples band
by Lisa Anderson
09.14.2006 JAYPLAY 05
contact
Music-making
romances have bad
reputations, but they
arent all fated to fail
Sonny and Cher. Ike and Tina.
Fleetwood and Mac. Couples
who once played together have
not stayed together. Although
some past musical pairs have
broken up, dating a bandmate
isnt always a recipe for disaster.
Kurt Lane and Julie Noyce,
KU alumni in Lawrences Ad
Astra Per Aspera were married
last May. The couple began
dating six years ago, before
the unpretentious rock band,
formed near the end of 2001.
Noyce, keyboardist and vocalist,
was studying in France and Italy
when the band began to take
shape, but joined when she
returned, says Lane, drummer.
The situation works to their
advantage. One person being
away for extended periods of
time is not an issue for them
and is something they take joy
in not having to worry about,
Lane says. He doesnt know if
this concept would work out for
anyone because each situation
depends on the details. However,
Lane advises anyone taking the
chance: keep things separate.You
cant let the sort of weird things
that happen in a band affect your
personal relationship,he says.
Jacki Becker, owner of Eleven
Productions, a local music
promotion company, works with
bands on a daily basis. Whether
mixing the music and the muse is
a good idea or not, nobody knows,
but Becker doesnt warn against it.
Mates of State is a prime
example, she says. It is a local
band with two married members:
Jason Hammel and Kori Gardner.
Their music met in 1997, wedding
bells rang in 2001 and they are
now expecting a child. That
Hammel and Gardner do a great
job maintaining harmony both
on and off the stage, Becker says.
Becker recognizes, though,
the conficting and classic
example of Carly Simon who
dated several fellow performers.
The singer/songwriter dated on
rocky roads, broke up on an even
rockier ones and Youre So Vain
ensued. However, if couples in
bands break up, the bands dont
necessarily diminish, Becker says.
Superchunk is a good example,
she says. Mac McCaughan and
Laura Balance were married and
broke up but stayed in the band,
and that worked, she says.
Like Superchunk, many bands
watch members date and divide
but decide to play on. Guillermo
Sexo,a Boston and self-proclaimed
dark, Latin, freakout actionband
maintained a steady band bond
even though band mates Reuben
Bettsak, guitarist/vocalist, and
Jess Barnett, keyboardist/vocalist,
dated for about a year.The couple
began dating and, four months
into their relationship, readily
formed the band.
I think the main advantage
to starting a band when he and
I were together was that we
both felt comfortable enough
with each other to share musical
ideas, and we were both very
supportive of each other,Barnett
says. We still are supportive of
each others ideas, even though
were no longer a couple.
The relationship ended about
a year ago and although it wasnt
the prettiest picture at the time,
everything eventually waorked
out. There were disagreements
initially about what should
happen with the band, but we
all ended up being able to move
on, Bettsak says.
Dont let past artists downfalls
after intra-band relationships
discourage. Greatness is possible
with on- and off-stage chemistry
and everything in between.
Blondie: Mega-foxy and
tough-as-nails, Debbie Harry
dated her guitarist, Chris
Stein.
Culture Club: Boy George
dated his drummer, Jon Moss.
They broke up and so did the
band but not as a result of the
couples split.
The Fugees: Lauryn Hill and
Wyclef Jean dated. No Fugees.
No love.
John Lennon and Yoko Ono:
The couple began dating in
1968 and were together until
Lennons death in 1980.
No Doubt: She kinda always
knew shed end up his ex-
girlfriend. Gwen Stefani dated
the bass player, Tony Kanal.
Have you ever heard that
song,Dont Speak?
Sleater-Kinney: Corin Tucker
and Carrie Brownstein started
the band and dated until 1997,
but the riot grrrl rock band
broke up this year.
Sonic Youth: Guitarist/vocalist
Thurston Moore and bassist/
vocalist Kim Gordan have
been married since 1984 and
are still together, band and all.
Stereo Total: Franoise Cactus
and her man, Brezel Gring,
met in a Berlin bakery in the
winter of 1992. They are still
together.
The White Stripes: Jack fell
in love with the girl, Meg
White, and married her in
1996. They divorced in 2000
but continued making music
together.
X: John Doe and Exene
Cervenka were married and
are now divorced. The L.A.
punk band remains.
bedMates on the bandwagon: other bands that
have tried out the couple-in-band concept
Models
Andrew
Winetroub,
Leaven-
worth
junior, and
Michelle
Gutierrez,
Albuquer-
que, N.M.,
sophomore,
make sweet
music to-
gether.
PHOTO ILLUSTRATION/KIMBERLY WESTPHALL
You cant let the
sort of weird things
that happen in a band
affect Your personal
relationship.
kurt lane,
ad astra per aspera
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Cry no more, onion Cutters. Whether youre an
experienCed Cook or just dabbling With neW reCipes,
before you diCe an onion, try soaking it in Cold Water
for 15 minutes to take aWay the burn, says joe smith,
manager and former Cook at pepperjax grill, 947 neW
hampshire st.
Erika Bentson
LittLe-Known food fact
Whether you drank too muCh or ate some questionable
food, aromatiC bitters and soda Water are a great
Cure for a queasy stomaCh.
stoCk your bar With a bottle of bitters a mix of herbs, spiCes
and alCohol. something about the herbs in the bitters helps
soothe the stomaCh, says maryk mendes, bartender at henrys on
eighth, 11 e. eighth st. also, if you Chug a glass of the mixture
it Will take aWay the hiCCups, he says. just splash a feW drops of
bitters in a glass With soda Water and enjoy the benefits.
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Girl 1: I want to put my hair up.
He likes when I wear it up.
Girl 2: Good. Can I put it up? I
can put it up, and he can watch
while I do it!
Girl 1: Um, well that would be
dumb. Ugh, maybe I will just
shave my head.
Girl 1: I hate that song... you
know the one with the anaconda
in it?
Girl 2: An anaconda? Isnt that
what killed that crocodile guy?
Girl 1: I dont know. Oh its that
song about liking big butts.
Girl 2: Oh, a sting ray killed him,
never mind.
Guy1: Hey, you know whats
crazier than crazy black dudes
in Florida?
Guy 2: Crazy white dudes?
Guy1: EXACTLY.
Guy 1: What did you guys drink
last night?
Guy 2: I drank two 40s and, like,
fve cans of Bud.
Guy 1: Oh, so if my math is
correct, you drank, like 140
ounces, I think.
Guy 2: I dont want to do
math right now. I am fucking
hungover.
Girl: My mom called me last
night and talked my ear off for
45 minutes.
Guy: I would have hung up the
damn phone.
Girl: You better not ever hang
up the phone on my mom!
Guy: I was referring to my mom.
Girl: Oh, yeah, I would totally
hang up on her ass.
Guy: Hey!
Beth Breitenstein
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dont dIP YoUR dREAdS.
The dreaded dip can occur in one of two ways. The frst is if someone lets
his dreadlock slip into his own beer. The second, and far worse occurrence,
is when the dreadlocked person walks by another bar patron, dipping their
greasy hair into the others open beer.
Michael Cuper, general manager and bartender at Buffalo Wild Wings,
1012 Massachusetts St., saw a dread drop last week.This was a guy who let
one of them dip into his own beer, but Ive seen both happen, Cuper says.
He just pulled out his dread, rung it out and went on with his business.
Caleb Regan
party foul
Chris Brower
Have you ever wondered
what would happen if you
combined Carrie with Laguna
Beach, The Crucible and Mortal
Kombat: Annihilation? Neither
have I, but throw in some bad
acting with a soundtrack lifted
from eight other movies and
youve got The Covenant.
The movie is about the
descendants of fve families that
founded the Ipswich Colony,
which was the epicenter of the
Salem witch trials. As gruesome
and interesting as witch-hunting
is, that one sentence summary of
the plot is twice as interesting as
anything that actually happens
in The Covenant.
It is impossible to tell who
the movie is for and what kind
of movie it is trying to be. Its
about kids in a New England
prep school who kill people
with special powers, so maybe
its a horror movie. But there
are a ton of action sequences,
so maybe its an action-horror
movie. But its rated PG-13 with
a gratuitous locker room scene
(for the ladies). So who knows?
The only people who should be
buying tickets to The Covenant
are eighth graders who need a
dark place to make out on their
frst date.
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I hesitantly lay on the
crowded bed for a family talk,
facing both Mom and Dad. My
mother looked away as my
father spoke. I knew that she
had been distant the last few
days. I fgured she was ill or had
morning sickness. My father told
us my new little sister wasnt
going to be just another sibling.
She was a special addition to
our family because we were all
going to help raise a child with
Down Syndrome.
We had had a family talk just
a few weeks earlier. My father
had announced that another
child would join our family in
September. I tried not to show
my disappointment, but there
were already fve of us, and I was
14 and not too keen on having
to share more of anything.
I didnt know what to tell
my friends. Adolescents can be
so ignorant when it comes to
people with disabilities unless
they have been exposed to the
disabled. I was never rude to
people with mental retardation,
but I certainly didnt give them
the time of day.
Months went by, and
I found myself studying
more, cheerleading at all the
basketball games, attending
cheerleading and gymnastics
practices, competing in
gymnastics meets and staying
after school for clubs
whatever I could get my hands
on. I stayed in denial. It was all
just a bad dream.
I wasnt the greatest older
sister when Emma entered my
life. Some of my friends werent
even aware that my mom had
been pregnant or that I had
a new baby sister with a hole
in her heart and tubes in her
ears. I kept her my little secret.
I used to walk into her room
and watch her as she slept,
wondering what type of person
shed be, how shed change
my life.
It took some time to get
used to a baby in the house
again, but I began to notice
that my little sister wasnt
much different from any other
baby. Approximately one in
every 800 babies is born with
Down Syndrome, according to
the National Association for
Down Syndrome, and these
children can grow up to live
relatively normal lives. They
can be educated, work, get
married and live on their own.
I found that Emma would
have moderate impairments
in her development, and shed
be more likely to have health
problems than other babies
would. Other than that she
would be a normal person.
My growing knowledge
about Emmas condition helped
me become closer to her, but I
still hadnt completely accepted
her disability.
One day, my mother yelled
at me for saying something was
retarded. She told me never
to use that phrase. I began to
notice it in the everyday speech
of others, and I realized how
degrading and disrespectful it
was. I was now responsible for
standing up for my little sister,
whom I was going to love and
support. About 350,000 families
in the U.S. are affected by Down
Syndrome, according to the
Down Syndrome Society. Our
family could do this. I could do
this.
To my surprise, my friends
didnt care that Emma had
Down Syndrome. Because I was
so insecure about her disability, I
was blind to see that my friends
might not be. They loved Emma.
Whenever they came over we
would ask her questions and
giggle over her funny and
adorable answers. We would
fip her and watch in awe as her
limber body jumped into the
splits.
By the time I graduated high
school, I couldnt imagine a life
without Emma. The transition
to college was easier than I
expected because of my learned
openness to different kinds of
people.
Emma changed the way I
look at everything. She forced
me to grow up faster. I view
people in a different light, but
most of all Im less judgmental.
Ive found that the best things
about people are the things
that make them different from
everyone else most of the
time their faws. Emmas faw is
only one extra chromosome in
her DNA.
Because of Emma, I get to
experience life from a different
angle. Its hard to realize what an
effect she has made on me until
I analyze how I felt the moment
I heard she was entering the
world and how I feel when Im
with her now. She is innocent,
and she has let me into her life
without a second thought.
Emma is turning 7 this
month, and I love every inch
of her from her slanted eyes
to her love for listening and
singing to music, even though
every note she belts reveals
she is obviously tone deaf.
Emma may tug at people in
the grocery store and speak
in incomplete sentences, but
I dont care; she is a healthy
child.
Emma is just like any other
kid. She wants attention and
love. There is no judgment in
her heart. She is just happy
to be here, and her love is
unconditional. That is what
everyone needs to see.
I am Emmas sIstEr
by Rachel Parker
accepting my
little sister taught
me how to accept
the world.
sPEaK
09.14.2006 JAYPLAY 19
SCOTT KASERMAN
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