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TALK TO YUVAS IN KIEV. CHRISTMAS 2012 GdK

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Good evening, I propose that we go through this thing in 3 parts. 1st I will speak a bit, then we can have questions and answers anything you want. And thirdly Id like to finish with a little meditation which is related to the subject. This is a puja of Lord Jesus Christ, as you know Shri Ganesha has become Christ at the level of the Agnya, so it is a good moment to speak about some challenges which face the yuva. In Cabella there have been some yuvas who have been misbehaving according to our principles boys slept with girls, girls slept with boys, which is not acceptable. So Im going to try to explain 1 or 2 things simply. The first thing I want you to understand is this. We all need good luck. For instance, maybe, you work for your exams but you are not sure if you are going to pass. If you start your job you do not know whether you are going to be successful. And with respect to relationships, you do not know whether the man or the woman you love is going to make you suffer. So we need some good luck. There is a trick to obtain good luck. The name of the trick is auspiciousness. But auspiciousness is the blessing of Shri Ganesha. Shri Mataji said that Freud is a rakshasa who came to destroy Christianity. Why? Because the destiny of a human being is to realize himself and Freud derailed this by providing a wrong answer and I will explain the deviation of Freud a little later. To realize oneself means to find a plenitude of satisfaction and joy. Actually I wrote the Advent for two reasons. First reason is because Shri Mataji agreed, and second is because She gave me a very powerful experience. Because when you feel very good in sahaj you feel the joy in a gaseous state. In the sixth chapter of the Gnyaneshwari Shri Gyaneshwar says that in the upper charkas, the Kundalini is felt in the gaseous state. So you feel light, you feel joyful, you feel like hugging everybody. When you get the full experience of the Kundalini, the full experience in the Sahasrara then the joy is no longer in the gaseous state. The joy becomes in the liquid state. And it is called Amrut in Sanskrit or Ambrosia in English. And the Gods and the rakshasas fought for it when they wanted it, it was then called Soma. So it is a complete shower of bliss which flows in every cell of your body. It is spiritual, but it is also a physical. And actually the notional of physical intensity for human being which is captured in English in the word orgasm is a fraction because the muladhara chakra is outside of the spine, so you just feel a little fraction of this pranava. So what Im trying to say is even if what we want is physical pleasure, through spiritual evolution we have much more physical pleasure but integrated in the purity of our sacred state.

Question: Have you experienced this? Answer: Yes, this is why I wrote the Advent. I was going to leave Shri Mataji and I felt very depressed because I felt I will not be able to maintain my self-realization. And I was sitting very close to Shri Matji, I was on a chair, She was on a chair, and She looked at me and She said: You shouldnt be sad and She moved Her hand like this. I never ever felt this after that. Because I didnt have a right to feel this by my own evolution. But She just gave it to me because She is Param-Param, She gave it to me so I know it is real. So if you behave properly - there is an incredible house of treasure in the limbic area in your brain. Some are trying to rob, going to it like thieves by taking drugs. Better we dont talk about drugs today. So let us return to sexuality. Let us return to real life. Basically the theory of Freud is that if you want to find yourself you have to find yourself through sex. And this has been influencing the western world and the world since the first half of the 20th century. But it is a very limited understanding of our potential. You are yuvas, and you are at an age where these things start to interest your curiosity. Maybe among you there are girls who have already slept with boys and boys who have slept with girls. There are some people in Sahaja Yoga who say you shouldnt be Taliban, you shouldnt be fanatic, thats all right. The problem is that leaders are not those who established standards. The standards have been established by Shri Ganesha. So if we keep within the realm of Shri Ganesha we will have auspiciousness and his blessings. If you do not live by the standard of Shri Ganesha Im not going to judge you. But Im trying to explain that you benefit from the blessings when you are on the territory of the Deity, not when you are outside of the territory of the Deity. So if you are intelligent and egoistical you do what is best for you. Even if the boy is charming, even if he wants to sleep with you you have to understand what do you give and what do you gain. You give much more then what you gain. Not a good business. Some people say: ok, maybe we shouldnt sleep, but a kiss is alright. Its like when I eat if in the morning I dont eat my breakfast Im not hungry. But if I eat a little piece of bread I want more. I dont know about the girls but the boys are like that. The thing is that if you start kissing you lower your defense system. One way I tried to help my son when he was a teenager is to put his ego on the side of dharma. Seduction is like a power play. So you need to be able to defend yourself. And for this you have to control the eyes. Because seduction is a test for eyes. Chitta-Nirodha. If you control your attention you cannot be seduced. So you have to become masters of fencing. You have sex education in school, which is one of the greatest stupidities which could ever exist. You are sahaja yogis, do you know how many times you were born before? Do you know how many times you have been married? Do you know how many hundred of thousand times you had sex? So its not so complicated. When the moment will come you will know, you do not need a Ph.D. for this, you do not need to look at movies, and you shouldnt go into pornography. All of you know that in computer you can get there in three minutes.

3 If you are the white sheet and you put ink on it putting ink is very fast, taking the ink off its a lot of time. Do you understand? Remember that about pornography. So if some of you have gone of the web and you have looked at naughty things try to understand: it weakens your attention. You see, the Devil is a cunning fellow. He is trying to ride on things which are powerful. And sex is a powerful thing. And its not a bad thing. All the great rishis were married. Only in a catholic church [removed orthodox church they could be married - editor] the priests are not married. Pornography was invented in the north of Europe, not on the South in Denmark and in Sweden because they have very repressed Lutheran religion. So the solution is not to negate sex. The best definition of sex I heard from my Guru. Shri Mataji said that fire that cook your food can burn your house. Do you want to use fire to cook your food or to burn your house? The choice is yours. You see, you can always seduce a boy, you can always seduce a girl, and you say Oh, I love her Oh, he loves me, I couldnt say No but what you give is less than what you gain. So be a good businessmen or good businesswomen. Keep your assets until you will exchange with a maximum blessing. So you married life will be blessed. You know what is a blessing when you are married? Its a very big blessing and you have no control over it its to have good children. Because you can choose with whom you have sex but as a woman and as a young mother you cannot choose who is going to come into your wound. You do not know whether it is going an angel or a rakshasa. And rakshasas have been born to human beings. So how do you do to make sure that you have good kids? Maintain a good working relationship with the one who does the traffic control. And the one who does the traffic control is Shri Ganesha. I know it is hard. One day I asked Shri Mataji: Before this universe were there other universes? She said: Yes. And I said: So before our Kali Yuga there were Kali Yugas? How is our Kali Yuga with comparison to others? She said: This one is one of the worst. You see, the West is completely destroyed because of the sin against muladhara chakra and now they are losing their wealth and they go back into poverty. You are a little bit better than in the West but the West is very much here. In Dubai you have Ukranian airline flight the door opens and beautiful women come out, they are all Ukrainians and they are all for arabs. So you are also under attack. Chastity is a very unpopular word. This is the trick of the devil of course. Because cannot touch someone who is chaste. So of course the devil is clever he will create trends with mr. Freud and others which will lead to the fact that chastity is not trendy. This was a little introduction. May I stop here? You can ask any questions you want. Question: Have you ever meet people like Frued? Answer: Yes, Ive met psychiatrists, I had friends who are gays, I know the schme. Question: What will be the right way to explain to this people that they are not right? Is it possible to change them?

4 Answer: Yes, it is possible to change. There is a woman who was a prostitute and she is now married in Sahaja Yoga and she has children and she is very happy. There are people who were gay and they are not gay anymore. That doesnt mean that you need to be a prostitute to try. You see, we do not judge. If a girl comes to me and tells me: Ive slept with a boy Im not going to judge her, Im not going to hate her as a sahaj-elder. Im sad for her because I wish that she can protect her potential for higher evolution. But even if you make a mistake and you understand its a mistake the Divine is forgiving. But if you make mistake as a yogi its a little bit dangerous because you are in the attention of the Divine. So you are in the attention of Shri Ganesha and you insult him its not very smart. Everything can be forgiven but if there is no repentance the forgiveness is wasted. But I would say even you have fallen never give up. Always come back on the back of your horse, the horse of your attention. Because it is only in the attention. Its a battle in the attention. You see, you will enjoy life so much more if you can manage to remain chaste until marriage. In Sahaja Yoga we have system A and system B. System A is when you marry in Sahaja Yoga which is not so easy for you because we need to improve the marriage system so that we could also have marriages in the Ukraine or in Russia. But the committee who does it really need to be right. Otherwhise its other problems. System A is when you married in Sahaja Yoga. In System B you choose your partner, it is permitted, but you shouldnt choose it inside Sahaja Yoga because there are two foundation of our Sahaja Yoga society. One is the brother-sister relationship, the other one is husband-wife relationship. Both are beautiful, both are powerful, and if we mix the two we create complications. Question: Whats wrong in System A? Answer: System A is alright, but Shri Mataji is no more here. So for me it was easy because Shri Mataji asked my wife: Do you want to marry Gregoire? I had no doubts that She wanted that, right? But now She is not here to do that so we have an International Marriage Committee where people look at the file and take the vibrations. And that works because Shri Mataji helps in the Nirakara form. But it has to be within the context of the collective. If a group somewhere starts organizing its own little committee I do not know whether it will be blessed. Now we have a generation of yuvas who are parents, like my kids they are parents. And they really have beautiful children. You know, the greatest beauty in this beautiful world is beautiful human beings. So why not desire the best? And behave to get the best? Question: How and when Sahaja Yoga will get established after Shri Mataji is not here anymore and what is the responsibility of yuva Shakti? Many yuvas who are born in Sahaja Yoga has left. Answer: They made a survey of yuvas the yuvas made a yuvas of yuvas. And there were questions: do you have sex, did you take drugs, do you take alcohol The most interesting response is that those who were coming from sahaj families were worse then those who were not coming from sahaj families and its logical. Because if you are young person and you come to sahaj and your papa and your mama are not in

5 sahaj you wanted to be in sahaj, you are eager to be with it. But if your papa and mama are in Sahaj and the only thing you can do is to be in sahaj, you know, its a bit boring, you want to do something else. Question: How much our parents effect our chakras and our muladhara? Answer: The major catches this psychoanalysis also found out that the major catches come from our family therefore our parents. For instance if you have an incest in your family you are cursed for 7 generations. So when we are born we take a risk, it was very brave to be born. But now when we are here we have to deal with it. So as yogis we can repair, we can self-maintain, we can repair the pipes, we can repair the channels, we can repair the chakras. One day I told Shri Mataji that I was afraid that Ive lost my innocence. She told me: Gregoire, its not easy for you to lose your innocence. That was good news. But She said that the innocence is like the sky, and the sky is clouded but the clouds eventually will go away and the sky is always there. So thats why Im telling you: even if you have difficulties, even if you have made mistake, even if your attention is not very good never give up because the sky is always there and Shri Ganesha is always there. He is ready to help us if we allow Him. Question: How much collectivity and responsibility is important? Answer: I dont want to keep you too long. We could talk about many things but then adults are going to ask why they are kept out of the room. If I start to explain to you in what moment we are now in Sahaja Yoga, if I have to talk to you about what are the challenges which the global Sangha is facing, if I have to explain the tricks of the devil, it takes too much time I open a parenthesis Shri Mataji made me the leader of the USA some time back. And She told me: Gregoire, Im making you the leader of the USA because you are the one who knows hell best. So I feel I can speak about the tricks of the devil, isnt it? But if I do all this then its not fair to keep the adults out. Question: What did Shri Mataji say about End of the world? Answer: See, its a question people discussed in 2012 in relationship with the Mayan who were the best astronomers. So it was not the end of the world, it was the end of the cycle. In both the Koran and the Bible there is a moment, which is a big catharsis. And Shri Mataji did say: Please, take Sahaja Yoga seriously, there is very little time left. What did She mean? We dont know Questions: What did Shri Mataji say about Ukraine and Ukrainians? Answer: She said they were ancient people. Question: How to develop and strengthen ShriGanesha? Answer: The answer is - dont do it! I mean, dont do mistakes. You have to help your left side with the right side. Will power and discipline is the quality coming from Shri Kartikeya. You have to use these to protect your left side. There are some people who are addicted to pornography. And this is now known in the medical profession. So avoid pressing the button that opens the gate and flood of problem. Question: How did you feel todays puja?

6 Answer: First of all I was impressed by the creativity and the sense of art and the lady, or man, who did the background,who did the backdrop did a great job; it is really wonderful. The play yesterday was extremely moving: when the children came towards the end of the play there is really something, which opened up. And I really felt that as if Shri Jesus and Shri Mataji were pleased. And the music group was very strong. So, you come across as mature collectivity. As far as puja is concern that was a workout. Because in Slavic countries you have divisions. Here also, but especially in Russia. In all these divisions are to keep you blocked at the level of the agya chakra. Because it is the last gate. So of course if we pass the last gate we are home. If the children are home then they are going to be powerful. And if Im the devil, I dont want the children to be powerful. So Shri Mataji told us: Shri Krishna said that the worst is anger but I say that the worst is jealousy because its the enemy of the vishuddi and of collectivity. So all these things need to be worked out through the vibrations. But at the end we were pushed through. Thats why you all felt the joy and we were all hopping like little rabbits. So it was a good puja. But it was hard work. Question: When Shri Mataji was in Ukraine last time 1996 She said: You have to work hard. What did She mean? How long will it take to help our country? What stage are we now? Answer: You have one room, its is Kali Yuga, you have one room it is Satya yuga. First room is the age of darkness second one is the age of Truth and the Golden Age. In between there is a corridor and we are in this corridor. It is called Krita yuga. And in Krita yuga everything is exposed. Thats why we get disgusted because everything is coming up. Every politician is corrupt. The people who should defend the benevolence of the nation are like a kleptomaniac mafia. The families are destroyed. So we are not yet in the Golden Age but we are in between. At the same time we are together the power is stronger now than in the beginning. We can go into thoughtless awareness much better now than in the beginning. So the Guru is used to say: Ask yourself a question who am I? But one day we will need to ask us another question: Who are we? We will replace the I by the WE because when we meditate together and we are in thoughtless awareness we do not know where our consciousness finishes and where the consciousness of our neighbor starts because its like the lights of two candles you do not know where the light of one stops and the light of the other begins but there is more light. So this is our future more light. Mehr Licht these are the last words of Goethe. Now we are going to have a little meditation.