Husband must decide what he can live with

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Tuesday, February 12, 2013

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WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 13, 2013 Although the route you choose to follow in the year ahead might not be an easy one, you know that it could lead somewhere quite valuable. Success is likely if you have the courage of your convictions. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Even though youre inclined to even the score with someone who did something that you deeply resent, try to find out the motives behind this persons actions. Youll have a smarter reaction. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Every once in a while, youre far too generous to an undeserving person. This is one of those days when you might again exercise such poor judgment. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -Be extremely selective about the goals you pursue. Make sure they will bring you satisfaction once youve achieved them. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Because of a reluctance on your part to express what is really disturbing you, friends and/or associates could find you perplexing, as well as difficult to deal with. Speak out. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- It behooves you to be more selective about those with whom you choose to associate. Steer clear of companions who have a faculty for making waves and causing trouble. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- For the sake of harmony, try to view things from your mate or other house members perspective. Whats important to you might not be to him or her. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Having a bad attitude about the days duties is likely to produce bad results. Putting a smile on your face will make your job quite a bit easier. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Although you may be having difficulty getting someone who is indebted to you to settle his or her account, applying pressure wont help. Find another way. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Be extremely diplomatic when dealing with your mate or an important person in your life if you hope to maintain domestic harmony. Nothing will be gained by bringing up old, divisive issues. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -Overstepping the fine line between constructive criticism and nitpicking could produce a situation that will surprise even you. Be more sensitive about what you say and how you say it. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Should you want to make a purchase from a firm that youve never dealt with, make sure the merchandise can be returned in case you have second thoughts. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- If a person with whom youre involved isnt living up to his or her claims, youll handle it much better if youre congenial. Dont be authoritarian or harsh.
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HI AND LOIS

By Bernice Bede Osol

Dear Annie: Twenty years same ritual each day until he ago, my wife had an affair returns. with a co-worker. It ended When a loved one dies, when he moved back to his the pet has no comprehension home state 2,000 miles away. that this person is not coming At the time, I asked my wife back. When one of our dogs to go to counseling with me. has passed on, we always lovWe made it to one session be- ingly place them in an open fore she pronounced our mar- box where the remaining aniriage healed. mal can be alone with the deSixteen months ago, out of ceased for at least a half-hour. the blue, this same That seems to help guy contacted my them understand wife via email, and reach closure of and they began some kind. communicating. Why cant we I discovered they bring the animal to were planning to the funeral home or meet in Las Veother appropriate gas. I begged her setting and let the not to go, but she animal be with their was convinced she friend one last time? loved him and had Its the least we can to know if they do for our animal should be together. friends who give us The month before Annies Mailbox unconditional love her trip, I endured and companionship more pain than Ive ever ex- without asking for anything perienced. I set up counseling in return. Rocky Mount, sessions for us with separate Va. therapists, arranged a meetDear Va.: Some fuing with our pastor and lost neral homes allow dogs as 20 pounds from the stress. comfort animals for the In the end, this creep bereaved. It is likely they flaked out on their Vegas ren- would also permit an animal dezvous, probably because he to attend a viewing before the couldnt see himself leaving service. It is certainly not an his children for her. She also unreasonable request. was reluctant to leave our Dear Annie: Dont Want kids. However, the breakup a Contest feels his fiancees crushed her, and she initially 13-year-old son is jealous. refused to work on our mar- Please tell him to back off. riage. Finally, we went to a It is normal for a single mom joint counseling session, but and her son to have this sort when the therapist made ref- of closeness, and the boy will erence to her profound be- grow out of it. trayal, that was that. My husband accepted my My wife refuses to rehash close relationship with my what happened. Im worried only child. My son would that the only reason she is also sit in between us and recommitting to our mar- want to snuggle in bed, but he riage is because the other came to accept my husband man gave up on her. Things without resentment. My son just dont feel the same. She died at age 15 from cancer. insists shes done with this I never would have forgiven guy, but who really knows? myself or my husband if I Is it possible to move for- had missed out on one hug. ward without dealing with Understanding Mom the past? Torn Up in California Dear Torn: Maybe, but not if your wife is using your marriage as her rebound relationship in order to soothe her heartbreak. Thats a temporary commitment. Refusing to examine the reasons behind her vulnerability to the affair leaves open the possibility of repeating the betrayal and this is undoubtedly what most worries you. You cannot force your wife to work on this, so please get counseling for yourself, on your own. You need to learn what you can live with. Dear Annie: Nobody ever addresses how someones death affects the animals left behind. Dogs especially look forward to the return of their master each day with great anticipation. When my husband is away on vacation, our dogs wait at the door for hours and go through the

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