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Seduction Games (Extended Version)
Super Sex Power: Seduction Games [11-30-04 Entry] The HATE/LOVE Swing Power Seduction Technique + The Seductive Equation-Reverse Strategy
I have found this to be so powerful and easy to do that it is frightening. WARNING: Unfortunately everyone will not benefit from this technique because of the nature of it. It has the potential to be perceived as wrong even though it is extremely simple to perform. As you are aware, individuals are mentally wired differently (i.e. our thought processes are unique) such that my ability to convince you that this is harmless is only as effective as the level in which you agree with my supporting statements. Two of the primary messages that I have learned to be effective in allowing you to benefit from this are often viewed as contradictory. I have limited control over this. I assure you that through great understanding this technique is not wrong as someone had suggested to me. LOL. However, if your pre-existing hard-wiring sees the two messages as conflicting, then the likelihood that you will accept this technique goes down. At any rate, the two messages that I think is very important are: (1) you must stir up her emotions AND (2) you must value her. This is essential for any man who desires to sexually inspire a woman on an advanced level. But as you already know, a woman has the ability to get incredibly turned on without feeling valued at all. So you already know that the most of the power in really getting her turned on comes from your ability to move her from various emotional states. In a fairy tale, women are attracted to the good guy. In reality, women are attracted to how good a guy is at moving her emotionally & psychologically. (In simple terms, he could be either good or bad.) Again -- and maybe you already know this -- a woman has the ability to get incredibly turned on without feeling valued at all. Some people may think this is sad, but if Angelina Jolie (if you were single) walked in your bedroom wearing just a bra and panties and expressed how badly she wanted you, would you care if she did not VALUE you?
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You will find it interesting to know that many women could care less if the guy values them once they are driven and motivated to have sex. Think about that as I tell you the true story later on that happened on October 28, 2004. You already know that if a jerk gets a woman horny she will still sleep with him even though she still thinks he is a jerk When you press her lust buttons she just wants sex and thats it (for the most part). She is no different than a guy in this regard And I dont know about you and youll have to pardon me as I take off my hat of professionalism but if a woman starts licking my balls and things are getting heated, the last thing on my mind is I wonder if she truly values me As far as I am concerned I could not be feeling any more valuable at that moment in timeSo you can bet your lucky marbles I am not concerned about my self-worth or self-identity! Let me put my hat back on. But seriously When she is horny - she is horny. This is all basic stuff, were going to really advance things as we move on (to places that hasnt ever been explored!) Lets dive in But answer this question: Have you ever wondered how a woman could ever end up sleeping with a guy she hates? Think about values. Have you ever witnessed a situation like that where some woman for some reason hated some guy with a passion, but the next you know she ended up sleeping with him?! Also, consider this if you may A friend told me a story about how this woman told him she hated him and as a bonus she revealed to him how passionate she was about this level of hatred. Then out of nowhere she called him up and told him that she wanted to come over his house strictly for sex! Does this sound unbelievable?
When my lovely fianc told me she ended up sleeping with guy that she hated, I just listened. Secretly, I had her break the story down in micro-fragments. I made many discoveries. I discovered that she hated this guy mainly because he was extremely arrogant. HER: He was the biggest asshole I ever met in my life. When my friend told me this story, this lead to an in-depth conversation that lasted for hours! After exchanging a few stories and extracting highly visible elements it appeared that if you can get a woman to hate you, you end up secretly pressing her lust buttons in a way that she is not aware of at the time! Shell want to screw you! But before you slam shut your Acrobat Reader so that you can run off and piss in her fish tank, you might want to tune in a little longer Strangely enough it is a little more to it than that. And besides I dont think I insinuated anything And if I did accidentally insinuated something, then it would be closer to the idea that there is a right way to get her to hate you Besides, something like this would have to be investigated. Because when you think about it, this would mean you could sexually inspire her with amazing ease Right? In addition to that, you would really have to consider if you would wanted to seduce her in that way regardless of how effective it was When I considered my friends stories, my stories, my fiancs stories, other mens stories and other womens stories there were some unique characteristics in each one of them They were very subtle, but potentially very powerful But before the observation the only known variables in the formula were: Hatred Energy + ??? = Sexual Energy The ??? could describe another Energy OR a type/level of Hatred. The first assumption was that the Hatred had to be strategically induced. I wasnt convinced that a guy could recover from cursing out her parents, destroying her property or physically harming her...
In fact, as you move along, it will be apparent that the recovery phase is what fuels the process So if something is classified as unforgivable, then there is no recovery phase In other words, she has to go from hating you to not hating you if you want to take advantage of the lust-generating mechanisms If you ever experienced make-up sex then this concept shouldnt be too foreign to you. Because if a random guy creates (unknowingly or knowingly) hatred in a random female (that he doesnt know) and somehow he ends up sleeping with her, doesnt the process itself parallel the energy of make-up sex between a loving couple? Could you imagine knowing the dynamics of make-up sex and then using it to press her lust buttons? CR, I dont like where you are going with this, you evil bastard!!! Ill address that in second. But when you think about life and you consider people and their personal abilities, arent we all just going through life? Dont some people have more power than others? Dont some guys have the ability to make a woman melt in seconds while some guys do not have this power? In fact, many guys do not have the power to look a woman in her eyes! The bottom line is this Oh yeah! If this doesnt apply to you (meaning you already understanding exactly what I am talking about), then you take a nap on your keyboard and Ill wake you when Im done this small speech The bottom line is that a unique analysis always leads to a unique understanding. And a unique understanding always leads to a unique skill (or power). We can all learn from each other. And one of the things that I am hoping that youll discover today is that the dynamics of sex following hatred is pretty interesting. Imagine if we took the dynamics of make-up sex and then we magnified it to the point where we had our own special version of make-up sex
And then we took this new enhanced version and reverse-engineered it so that the only thing left was a formula that describes how to actively walk through the process. What if this formula described actions that were simple as pie? I mean, so simple it was scary. Think about it, all you have to do is piss her off! Right? Before we get to the making up which is pretty much a transition in emotional states (for her), think about why and how a woman could get horny over a guy she hates? Is she really experiencing hate? I dont think it matters as much. But many women do get horny over a guy they hate. This is the simplest way to put it, but youll discover more about the inner (mental) workings as it relates to this issue as we move along The starting point of the analysis: You are simply the owner of the intensity of this emotion in her. Its not the emotion of hate itself that creates the lust in her. Its the intensity of the hate along with other things. Not only that, its the ease in which you can create the shift. The power is in the shift! and some other things. But well cover it all. Before you gain insight about the shift, think about the character that all women hate? Yeap! The Asshole! Did you know: That if you act too confident you will actually offend some people to the point where they will get pissed off! (gasp!) How mind-blowing is that?! So now its time to actually test this stuff out: (You know, the whole hate-to-horny thing) The Mission: Pretend that I am the most confident guy that ever walked the planet And if she gets offended then thats not my fault, because as a person, it is my responsibility to be confident!
And if she doesnt want a responsible man, then something is wrong with her. Ok maybe Im joking a little In order to prove this I kind of wanted to make my fianc hate me on purpose so that I could focus on her mind state the whole time. But obviously I had issues with that On the other hand, I do not have any issues with testing seduction techniques out on her in general I had some guy throw a stone of shame at me one day because of the fact that I at times will test a seduction technique on the woman I love [Lets refer to him as Guilty Guy] Here is the big bright picture, if she ends up being turned on and motivated to have sex with you, chances are she will not care about how you did it. Trust me when I say she wants you to do whatever it takes to turn her on. Some women may crave sex on some level and wish that their partners engaged them in a way that made them biologically prepared for sex In other words, she prefers to be turned on like crazy. This gets her naturally lubricated which makes sex much more enjoyable for her (and you). I told my fianc about the concerns of this guy and how he was talking about how wrong I was and she said point blank that she could care less about how I turned her on whether I was actively doing something to turn her on or not If your wife says let me try something on you and next thing you know you ended up craving sex and then the two of you end up having sex are you really going to care that it was an experiment by her? I hope not! Because that would mean you are petty and you do not see the big picture. Being petty is a very anti-seductive trait. As someone who analyzes every damn thing, I can assure you that I used to be petty in some areas and I saw the lust-killing effects that it has on women So lets move forward from there But before we do, consider this if you are feeling guilty about something you have no reason to feel guilty about then you will PROJECT IT on to her. This means she can not open up and experience true, relaxing, he just swept me away to another island sex - because she is being judged. Sweep her away do not judge and criticize her.
Never project guilt. Oh so I am suppose to piss her off and not feel guilty! Ill address that. What I want you to consider is the fantasies women have. They may not make sense to you, but the more she opens up to you the better. You could be with her for over 30 years, if she never reaches the Point of Total Sexual Expression she will not only never tell you about her deep-down sexual fantasies, but you would never believe them if you heard them. Trust me. And let me tell you this: You can learn amazing, new, and customized ways of seducing her (or any woman) if you allow her to tell you her deep-down sexual fantasies AND events in her sexual past that she might be embarrassed about (while in YOUR presence). If you never want to learn about more ways to press her lust buttons like crazy, then project guilt on to her. Walk around judging everything and getting pissed off about everything little thing because you are a know-it-all that has it all figured out If you remember I told you I know a woman (she is engaged now to a nice guy who sees her as completely innocent - poor guy - if he only knew) who loves to be thrown up against the wall (but not too hard) just before sex this turns her on I am telling you that she told me about her future husband and trust me he will never know this about her. But it turns her on. She is aware of this. She is conscious of this. Think about this: What is the difference between pressing her conscious lust buttons and her unconscious lust buttons? If your wife told you that slapping her in the face is going to turn her on what would you do? Do not try to listen to any agent of society that projects guilt. DO WHAT IT TAKES TO ALLOW HER TO REACH: THE POINT OF TOTAL SEXUAL EXPRESSION Do it for her and believe me, you will benefit from it. This could be pulling her hair or using a technique or whatever! The reality is many guys think it is wrong to have sex and do fun things with their female partners.
While watching the football game (I thought the Ravens would win, I should have listened to logic) last Sunday, I was talking to a buddy on the phone. I discovered that my fianc developed a unique way of asking me to get off (pun intended). Shortly after that, he said Tell your fianc I said Hi. I told him that She cant talk right now -- an inside-joke between me and her -not expecting him to pick up on it But he did. His response was I cant believe you got that poor girl doing that! But the truth is she was more turned on than I was! Im trying to think off a good phone/oral joke to close with, before I say lets move on Damn, I give up! Lets move on But with all of that said, I did have issues with purposely pissing her off for the sake of getting her to hate me. Guilty Guy claps and smiles. As you can probably tell so far, that is the main part of this technique or it is the main part of the understanding of the dynamics between hate and how it converts to sex. Yeah, I was trying to somehow link vibrate or speed dial, with like touch tone and umsomething like let your fingers do the walking But anyway Im thinking I want to piss her off and I want to keep doing it until it annoys the hell out of her! That was the technique. Is this mean and evil? Kinda. And I say that because I feel bad about it a little bit. If I were ever in a situation where I had to convince someone that I am truly a compassionate guy, this incident would ruin my case! Is this technique childish and immature? Kinda. Actually I think it is beyond childish and immature in many ways. In fact all prior childish strategies to cultivate lust in a woman are going to be envious of this technique.
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I am so 100% ashamed of this technique that I am holding my head in shame as I type this! But should I be? At any rate, my goal was to act as if I am the most confident guy that ever existed! (somehow it didnt feel as strange as I thought it would) Philosophical question of the day: As your confidence increases does it approach delusion or clairvoyance? Before we move any further Take a look at the following chart and youll learn the powers of why women go bonkers over the Hate-to-Love Power Shift later on. (Remember that commercial Bonkers where the big huge fruit lands on the guy after he takes a bite)
The Amazing CR James Super Duper Amazing Love/Hate Chart +10 +5 +0 -5 -10 I Love You Mode I Like You Mode Neutral Mode I Dislike You Mode I Hate You Mode
Study the chart. Its super simple, right? Here is the break-down. Lets say there is a particular day where you and she are getting along great. And its just a normal day. Well assume that when things are average, she is in I LIKE YOU mode (+5). Do you see it on the chart? But lets say you bought her flowers for example, and she converts into I LOVE YOU mode. Analyzing the chart, you will discover that that results in a PLUS 5 shift, (10 5 = 5) because she started at the +5 position and now she has elevated to the +10 position. So you have gained 5 points.
But lets say you are getting on her nerves and at the moment she is annoyed and sick of you, she is in I HATE YOU mode (-10). Youre being a complete ass and it is driving this poor woman insane! If you were to do something a little less than buying her flowers (for instance) she converts to I LIKE HIM mode (+5). Analyzing the chart, you will discover that that results in a PLUS 15 shift (5 (-10) = 15) because she started at the -10 position and now she has elevated to the +5 position. So you have gained 15 points. That is a 300% increase compared to the first example and you did not have to buy flowers (or something on that level). Not only that, but you did not have to reach the maximum level. By the way, there is nothing wrong with buying flowers. Im just trying to illustrate a point. This may actually help some guys understand why woman cant stand or get bored with nice guys If you are married to her, it may help explain why she can not possibly get horny if you are always in good graces with her I knew someone that had a girlfriend that he loved with all his heart. I got tired of hearing how wonderful she was. Every other day he bought her flowers or did something amazing for her. He spent crazy cash on her ass! - as you can imagine. Jokingly, I called him Super Boyfriend. If we used the chart to describe him, I would say that he started out at the +10 level meaning initially this made her feel warm and bubbly inside. But after awhile what do you think happened? You guessed it - the gifts lost value. Graphically he never shifted upward! Because he couldnt! More importantly he unknowingly sent lust-killing signals Its all about the perceived value of what you do in relationship to her current short-term perception of you! Here is a simple example: (because Im not even sure what the hell that means!) Toms girlfriend hates him on Monday, because he did something. Jerrys girlfriend loves him on Monday, because he bought her flowers. On Tuesday Tom buys his girlfriend 6 roses. On Tuesday Jerry buys his girlfriend 12 roses.
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The Question: Whose gift on Tuesday has more value? Hint: The number of roses does not matter. Hint: The answer is Tom. Tom went from hate to love. The difference is probably obvious. But there is much more to it By analyzing the actions of my brother a few years ago -- Oh yeah, the guy that spent crazy cash on her ass was my brother but by analyzing his actions: I discovered the formula to successfully send a woman the message that you are insecure, heavily into her, frightened by the thoughts of her leaving you, etc Do you want to how to pull it off successfully every single time: Just do something extremely special for her every single day. This is also the formula for getting a woman out of your life! This is also the formula for getting the woman that once wanted to marry you to end up taking a naked, Champaign-sipping bubble bath with a male co-worker while you enter the apartment with a surprise oversized Teddy Bear under your arm!!! (gasp!) Have you ever met a woman that was wonderful one minute and then the next minute she was an evil soul-less bitch?! Every guy has his own logic 1. He knew that women love gifts => So the more gifts, the better! 2. He also knew that women do not like to argue => So whenever they had a disagreement, he just agreed with her. 3. He also knew that women do not like to get upset => So he structured things so that he made sure that he never upset her. Unfortunately, he had no knowledge of the unconscious messages that were being sent when 1, 2 and 3 where in excess. Unfortunately, he had no knowledge that that was the formula for convincing her that he was frightened by the idea of her leaving him! SHOWERING OF GIFTS + NO ARGUMENTS (NEVER PISSING HER OFF) Unfortunately, he had no knowledge that when a woman sniffs out that you are frightened by the idea of her leaving you, she can not get horny for you.
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When a woman detects (and they are naturals at detecting) that you are scared to piss her off, or you are scared to challenge her, or you are scared of being abandoned, she makes the assumption (go figure) that you are an insecure man. She wants to feel protected. She wants to know that you value yourself. Whats wrong with a man being scared out of his mind that a woman is going to leave him? Besides that fact that it is impossible for her to get horny for him (and a bunch of other stuff), I would say nothing is wrong that. In fact if I was in that situation, I would: Pretend like hell that I didnt care about pissing her off, because I know that if I didnt do that she would discover my secret fear. Even though it wouldnt feel natural, I would probably purposely get her angry just so I could demonstrate that I dont care if she gets upset with me from time to time, because I know that would scramble up the formula. Lets move on. Always think of the bottom line. And we are about to reach the bottom-line and some other amazing stuff. This is the sacred place where all that is perceived as mean & evil is not welcome. Before we move on, understand that you should never trick her into sex. You should do things that will make her crave sex. There is a huge difference. For example: If you generate a real lust in her via a method that unconsciously moves her in a way that she is not aware of, then you actually have turned her on. You may have discovered that she has no idea what turns her on. If you have had many talks with her about her lacking sex drive, you may have discovered that there was always a different reason. It always appears as if she has provided you with the solution. But you will quickly find out that she has no idea what the problem is. Right? In other words, she has no idea what turns her on.
In other words, she has no idea what really (on a gut level) turns her on. I was talking to a female friend that told me that she is having a hard time finding a good man. She said all she wants a man that is nice and level-headed. Where are all the good men? she cried. While talking about basketball, she revealed that she has the hots for Rasheed Wallace. (An NBA basketball player who is famous for his hot-temper and cursing out referees) Do you think she knows what really (on a gut level) turns her on? One way to discover a womens unconscious lust buttons: Ask her to tell you what guys (actors, athletes, singers, celebrities, regular people, etc) turn her on. Make her feel comfortable with telling you this. Look for similarities. This is much more powerful than asking a woman what type of man does she want to marry! Earlier I told you that I had issues with purposely getting my woman to hate me for the purpose of getting her horny. But with all of what I just mentioned, it is important to understand that even if you purposely made a woman hate you for lust-cultivating purposes, you are not persuading her to agree to sex. You do not want to do that ever. You do not want to have sex with a woman that is not turned on. You do not want to have sex with a woman that is agreeing to have sex because it is not as bad as hearing you complain about not getting any sex. You do not want to have sex with a woman that is agreeing to have sex because she feels pressured for some reason. You do not want to have sex with a woman that is agreeing to have sex because she feels guilty for not having sex with you. Guess what: Remember the Guilty Guy I was telling you about earlier. I was trying to help him learn the process of turning women on and he felt guilty about the process that I provided him. It was another method. Well, through conversation I discovered that his existing infrequent methods of having sex with his girlfriend happened as a result of the guilt that he projected on to her! What a shock. It turns out the Guilty Guy (or Moral Man) actually spends more time judging and criticizing. In reality he is in a small circular rubber room (thats his world) with a bag full of stones
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You do not want to have sex with a woman that is agreeing to have sex because she would feel guilty for not having sex with you. That does nothing for your real sexual value. If you want real Sexual Magnetism, then you must realize that it is your responsibility to understand the things that really turn her on even if she is not aware of it even if you are pressing her unconscious lust buttons (Ill reveal a few methods of figuring out what her unconscious lust buttons are later, but really that is not the point of this report) One last time: You do not want to have sex with a woman that is agreeing to have sex because she would feel guilty for not having sex with you. Ask the Guilty Guy, does he think that is evil? Do not accept that kind of sex. IT WILL DESTROY YOUR SEXUAL VALUE ON SO MANY LEVELS. But you are talking about purposing pissing her off just so you have sex? I never said that. But if I did, I could at least make the case that at least she was legitimately turned on as a result (assuming that that was the end result). What kind of analogy could you create from guilt-induced sex? I could at least ask you this question: What would you do if some guy came up to you and slapped you in the face and 2 seconds later (before you had a chance to react) he gave you a brand new red Ferrari and a check for 30 million dollars? Think about it, because not everyone would have the same reaction. How forgiving are you? Really think about it. Be honest with yourself Should you forgive him? Well how hard did he slap me? Are you serious? OK. Im talking about a mean vicious slap. Spit flies out of your mouth! Im talking about a long-purple-fur-coat-wearing pimp-slap! And afterwards, he mumbles take that you little bitch! But!
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Two seconds later he says I dont know what got into me. You seem like a cool guy. My bad please forgive me and accept this 2005 red Ferrari and this check for 30 million dollars Would you forgive him? If you are still holding on to the anger, maybe you dont think its worth it. Maybe you just need time to let go of the anger and then maybe you would forgive him. Is that the case? Would it take 5 seconds to forgive the guy? Would it take 5 minutes? Would it take 5 hours? Would it take 5 days? Does the Ferrari & cash help with your rate of forgiveness? The cool thing is every one is different. Everyone has a different rate. Does material things and gifts matter to you in this regard? Do they affect your rate of forgiveness? Should they? Look captain!! No pimp is just going to walk up and slap the hell-piss out of me and expect me to accept his gifts? I dont care what he has to offer. I have pride in myself! That would make me whore if I accepted those gifts after I was pissed off at him! Great response! Do you sleep with whores? Hell no. Never in my life! Has your girlfriend ever got angry at you about something? Yeah. Whats your point? Have you ever tried to apologize and she still remained angry? Sure, you know how women are? If you bought her a bouquet of flowers or a diamond bracelet would that speed up her rate of forgiveness? Does that make her a whore for accepting your gifts?
Every woman is different. Every woman has a different rate of forgiveness. Does the size (or perceived value) of the gift affect the rate of forgiveness for your woman? Will this matter? And what I mean is: Lets say that we discover that you can actually with great ease get a woman to become horny shortly after being perceived as a hated individual. Would her rate of forgiveness matter? (if this discovery were to evolve into some type of seduction technique) If your woman develops short-term hatred for you (or she is not accepting your current behavior) and she is the type of person that holds on to anger (even in the presence of gifts) will you benefit from getting her to crave sex? With all of that said: What kind of analogy could you create from guilt-induced sex? Getting her to desire sex is about removing the self-sabotage in most cases. Its about escaping the rubber room. What would it be like if every time she was in your presence, you were calm, open and relaxed? Do you think you would PROJECT THAT on to her? How great would that be? What would that do for her? Getting her to desire sex is about understanding where she is (emotionally). You have to understand that. Remember in order for sex to be engineered, she has to be in the right state of mind. Sometimes you will be able to free her from a sex-preventing state of mind and sometimes you will not. But if you have that understanding, you are not likely to initiate sex when she is in the wrong state of mind.
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You have to understand where she is: Simple logic: You crave sex. She needs to be at Point B to crave sex. When she is at Point A, she does not crave sex. She is currently at Point A. What would you do? Understand where she is. Do not be the guy that says: Gimme Sex while she is at Point A. With all of this said: Lets discuss confidence. Remember the mission: The Mission: Pretend that I am the most confident guy that ever walked the planet And if she gets offended then thats not my fault, because as a person, it is my responsibility to be confident! And if she doesnt want a responsible man, then something is wrong with her. Ok maybe Im joking a little For some reason we live in a universe that does not allow a person to be but so confident. Once you start demonstrating more than your share of confidence, the citizens of the world will let you know that enough is enough. People who do not have confidence are allowed to look in the mirror and say I am confident and the world will applaud him. (even though he doesnt believe it, which means he is a liar) Is that mean & evil? Did you know: If a confident person mentions that he is confident, he is frown upon. He is thrown to the wolves. I often for fun will pretend that I am the amazingly super confident to observe peoples reaction. Some people love it and some people are offended. Did you know: That in many ways you are a mirror to other peoples self image. Damn, thats a lot of responsibility!
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In reality I do not think I have the power to offend anyone. A person chooses to be offended. It is the individuals decision to place a certain amount of value on another individuals comments or actions. Right? Should a person ever be offended? Who knows? If your boss came up to you are said: I hate to say it, but I think you are a loser. Would you be offended? If you would get offended wasnt it your decision to place a certain amount of value on his comments. What if a crack-head came up to you are said: I hate to say it, but I think you are a loser. Would you be offended? The level in which a person decides to be offended seems to dependent on the perceived value of the other person. Personally, I feel that we should show a crack-head the same level of compassion as we would show anyone else. But many people do not see it this way. They could are less about what a crack-head says. Would you be pissed off if you couldnt piss off your wife? Think about that for a second. Well discuss this whole I hate you thing with clinical precision. But for now think about if you tried to get her angry and she could care less and what that would mean. If you ever got in an argument with a woman and she appeared not care at all at how angry you got, then you probably felt as though she didnt value you. If from time to time your female partner gets upset with you, then that is saying something.
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LAB RESULTS: First Execution: October 28, 2004 approximately 6:00 pm Testing out this Hate Converting Into Horny thing. In reality I wasnt really going to do purposely make her hate me. So in other words, I wasnt actually prepared to act on the discoveries/theories, but somehow I said something that got her upset (which is bound to happen) and out of nowhere she yelled at me! (that normally doesnt happen) She was unusually moody that day. Then it clicked. At that moment in time she appeared to actually hate me. [light bulb floats over my head!!] Now Im really thinking Wow, what if I could get her to really really, really hate me In order to take advantage of this, youll discover that you do not (and I am not suggesting in any way) have to purposely piss her off. Just give her time and shell get pissed at you over something I flirted (and had phone-sex) with the idea of purposely getting my lovely lady to hate me and to be honest I was getting impatient. Luckily for me, she was feeling extremely moody this particular day The bottom line is I wanted to immerse myself in the temporary arena as being the Hated Guy to see if any lust generating magic existed and if so what were the reasons and the rules that governed this bizarre connection (between HATE and LUST)? So I was prepared to make her hate me (some more to increase the intensity)! Lets move on. This is how it happened: (this is the dialogue that showed how much she hated me short-term of course) And well begin the dialogue (which is pretty much word for word) immediately AFTER it was apparent that I pissed her off unintentionally. HER: I wanted to do something (sex) later on, but now Im turned off! (from something I said this is her way of teaching me a lesson) ME: (laughing) Oh really? (to myself Im thinking damn she isnt suppose to specifically mention sex in anyway. That was kind of ironic and shocking - that was not a typical response.)
HER: Yeap! ME: So you are going to make yourself suffer, just to punish me? HER: Yeap! ME: What if I told you that I know for a fact that youll end up having sex with me. And in fact when Im all done having sex with you, Im going to whisper to you: I told you daddy would get some! (Now my focus was not trying to prove to her that we would end up having sex at this point, Im just focusing on pissing her off even more (trying to get her to hate me) AND pretending to be the worlds most confident man. I wanted to display an unheard of level of confidence. I wanted to take on the character and energy of a Hated Guy. As I type this my current self is actually getting angry at my past self, so now I realize that I succeeded. Again, there is no need to actually do this its childish and its emotionally inconsiderate.) HER: Whatever. Youll see! (in a pissed off Ill show you tone) ME: (at this point, Im just amusing myself) Ive been waiting 3 years for you to say that. Now I get to use my Super Duper Seduction Technique on you that is guaranteed to work. There is nothing you can do about it, because it works every time! (I was just making that up. I do not possess the ability to forecast irony.) HER: (getting more pissed) Shut the hell the up! ME: (laughing) Watch out, this technique never fails! Throughout this conversation, she was beyond pissed. It got even worse. I dont normally press her buttons like that normally I would have backed off a long time ago. This dialogue continued for about another 15 minutes of me just pissing her off by being an asshole. [Guilty Guy defecates on PDF document!] So this was without a doubt the most pissed off I have ever seen her in a long time. She was calling me childish. She was swearing. You should have seen the looks I was getting... But by law it has to work, right? Either this is the formula for getting her hot & horny later on or this is the formula for not getting sex for about 5 months.
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Heres a section of the conversation, I remember: ME: So you must really hate me right about now? (At this point Im actually thinking about me writing about this experience in the future so I can get my quotes right.) HER: Shut the &$#@ Up!!! (without hesitation) Yikes, she rarely uses that type of language. Chances are she was offended by remarks. That was great - By the way I wish like hell I could have recorded the conversation and I might do that in the future because I want to be sure that no one thinks I am just making this up. If this conversation was recorded, trust me there would be no doubt to what I am saying. Who the hell invented the Insert button on the keyboard?! Anyway after the conversation, I knew she was thinking that she is not going to have sex with me. I know she believed this without a doubt. This is perfect. Because, if there is magic within the Hate-to-Love Swing, then she will not have the ability to control her desire. Right? If this creates an intense reaction within her, then she will not have any control over it. The problem is she has the potential to mess up the results! She is the type of female that would deny herself (if she got horny) sex just to teach me a lesson. To me that is selfish, because that could screw up my lab results! At any rate, the second phase of the mission is now to get her to LOVE ME. I wanted the soul of my Emotional Sensitivity to evolve and morph into a soft and cuddly bear. I wanted to go from -10 to +10. (on the chart) But I needed her to love me again. Without the love there is no +20 swing upwards. Without the swing, she will not experience the power from the change in emotional states.
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So I successfully got her laughing on and off for hours and about 9 PM (the same day) I knew she had forgotten about what she said (about me not getting any sex because she was angry), so I gently grabbed her hand and whispered Lets go in the bedroom. Presto! She gave me a seductive smile and said No, do you remember what I said earlier? (she was now laughing at me and was very proud to be telling me no) [When good seduction techniques go bad!] Let this be a lesson to you that when you act childish and over confident it is bound to backfire! Did you know: That acting over confident can backfire on you. Saying things like What if I told you that I know for a fact that I am getting some. And in fact when Im all done, Im going to whisper to you. I told you daddy would get some is actually being over confident. Shouldnt logic tell you that acting like an ass, and purposely getting her to hate you is a sure recipe for her not wanting to have sex with you? But wait a second. Before we roll the credits to this saga, is it possible to create a more successful ending? I think so. NOTE: The micro-dramatization of this event should not distract you from the amazing principles at work. Remember to never show that you are defeated even if you feel defeated or you will be defeated. I can not stress how important that is. If a woman rejects your request for sex, never give her predictable responses. She expects you to be upset or hurt. Remain calm. Look at this as an amazing opportunity to confuse her. Capture some Unpredictable Points. This is no different than a woman telling you that you can not have her number when you know that all you have to do is demonstrate shock by sending positive signals during this phase. (See Married Women are Easier To Seduce www.interviewingtheseductionmasters.com/married.htm) There is zero difference.
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If she truly wants to experience the pleasures of knowing that she has paid me back (because now I should be pissed) then she can only experience that if I show her the defeat. Do you see how POWER can be created from this point? She actually needs ME to get her the feelings of paying me back, because in order for her to have the satisfaction, I would have to feel as though I am punished on some level. If you are ever in a situation where she is attempting to punish you by threatening to withhold sex (some women do this), then it is up to YOU (meaning you actually have the power) to decide whether you want her to have that power. Are you aware of how easy this is to do? Here is where things get fun. If you delay or deny her of getting this power Before I continue that statement, remember her desires to feel in control is real. Her desires to be respected is real. Her desires to be taken seriously is real. And you should respect that So, if you delay or deny her of getting this power, she will still crave it. She will still strive to get it All you have to do is direct her attention elsewhere or reverse the equation. Ill explain. Lets say you get hungry and decide to go to the grocery store looking for a ham sandwich. When you get there you notice that there is no ham sandwiches left. Would you leave? If you could not get your ham sandwich anywhere on earth, are you going to allow yourself to starve or are you going to get some other type of food to satisfy your craving? Basically when you are hungry you have a craving for food. If she is craving some level of power --- like seeking to punish you with sex (a specific power) --- it is no different then if you were looking for a ham sandwich (a specific food) So when I say all you have to do is reverse the equation, I am simply suggesting that you offer her some other thing to satisfy her craving Lets remember that all of this happens in seconds! How you hold up in a quick little conversation that lasts for about 25 seconds could decide whether you get your balls licked that night!
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So where was I? Oh yeah So far it is easy to see how this craving can be created - going from hate to love (with the extreme confidence). Its not hard at all to make up with a woman. Again, the rate of forgiveness is a factor. This could determine if this technique takes you 4 hours or 4 days. But how in the hell do you reverse the equation? Hint: Its also simple. In many cases going from hate to love may be enough to push her buttons in a way where reversing the equation isnt necessary. But how in the hell do you reverse the equation? Ill tell you in a second, and it actually happened by accident. Think about this: In many cases, she will get turned on seemingly out of nowhere. Youd be surprised at what turns her on Next time she gets in the mood and it appears to come from nowhere, chances are there was a real reason behind it. You may have unknowingly seduced her. So always pay attention to whats going on when she suddenly gets aroused. (what emotions she was experiencing beforehand, what she ate, what you did, what events took place, what she was watching on TV, what song was she listening to, everything) At any rate, here is the subroutine that was developed:
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The Seductive Equation-Reverse Strategy
This is where things get fun. Think about how you can control, redirect, reverse or convert her natural human cravings into a desire for sex. Can you imagine how powerful that is? You will discover how to seduce a woman from this position successfully. And this is the position of:
HATE
ACCEPTANCE (I LOVE YOU MODE)
HER ATTEMPTS TO WIN
In reality, you can begin the process without the HATE-TO-LOVE SWING (the part in green) - By the way I have done this portion of the technique again (isolated) for the hell of it and let me tell you that it is so powerful and easy to do, it is scary. In other words, this subroutine (back-up seduction strategy) can be initiated by purposely getting her in a competitive (stubborn) mindset. The more stubborn the better! I can get a women in to playful battle mindset with ease. You probably can too. Whenever my fianc talks about her years in school, she always talks about the pleasures she got from proving people wrong. Showing them that she will win when its all over. Cool. I love competitive women! So she gets intensely motivated by proving people wrong. Even outside the presence of reversing equations, competitive energy converts easily and sometimes naturally into sexual energy. It is the reason why many of these dating shows on TV arrange for the man and woman to play some type of game against each other. The more sexual energy they get out of the couples, the more men and women they are going to have signing up. And the more men and women they get signing up, the longer the show stays on How is this for irony?
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As I am typing this, she just walked in the room and asked me if I have ever been to a website that has a link that says: This Chat Session Is Now Closed. She said: even though you are not interested in the topic at all, you somehow want to be in on it just because they are telling you that you cant enter ME: There is something about being told you cant do something that makes you want to do even more. (I was smiling for other reasons when I told that to her.) Im definitely going to keep my eye on her now! Ok, so here is what I did: As you read this, remember the upcoming formula is the process for seducing a woman who is motivated to seek some level of power (i.e. punishing you by withholding sex). Many women do this - sometimes its playful; sometimes its serious. Youll going to learn how to reverse it successfully every single time(starting at this point:) First I did not allow her to get the pleasures of me being upset by her initial rejection, so since she did not get that when she was looking for it, then I know that she is going to want it more. The fact that she was extremely close to getting it, means the craving is going to be more intense. (Ill explain why in a second) So she is going to really be motivated to not want to have sex with me. Perfect. Also she is going to strive to win. This is just a basic human drive. And I am referring to her joyfully telling me that she was not going to have sex with me that night. Even if she is craving sex herself, the feelings of knowing that she is in control, the feelings that she is fighting to be respected and the feelings that she is fighting to be valued supplies her with a feelings necessary to overcome this desire (if it is present). You already know that values mean nothing when a woman is horny. She may not be aware of that. If you are smiling or giggling right about now, then you probably noticed how I created a conflict between her unconscious and conscious mind. If you are not, do not worry everything is going to puzzle together. [Guilty Guy bulk-orders a case of razor blades!] So she will be willingly to make the trade-off unless the intensity of sexual tension is greatly increased or she forgets that she was seeking a ham sandwich (the motivation is redirected)
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It is a simple. She really is not motivated to not have sex with you (well explore this some more). She is only motivated to seek power. And the reason she seeks power is because she is motivated to feel valued and important. Everyone wants to feel valued and important. Did you know: Many women hide their desires for sex. BUT when she is really horny her pupils will be dilated (they will be larger than normal). I was over a females house and her cat was in heat and it was rubbing itself on my leg. As I was about to lock the cat in a room some where because I was offended I looked at the cats eyes and they were complete black! (fully dilated pupils). The eyes never lie. When she experiences feelings of love for you, these feelings of love appear stronger if she they take place shortly after she hated you. For instance, you give Larry the Leprechaun 4 gold coins and he already has 20 gold coins. Then you give Lex the Leprechaun, 2 gold coins but he only has 1 gold coin. It is easy to see that Lex is going to feel richer even though he was given less gold coins. You could think of love as emotional richness and hate as emotional poorness. Trust me a homeless guy is going to appreciate someone giving him a million dollars more than Bill Gates would The power is in the swing. Hate to Love. [Guilty Guy gets angry at wife for not having dilated pupils!] So before I continue with other aspects, think about other types of SWINGS (or a shift from one extreme to another). For instance: Imagine how she would feel if your precious lady isnt having a good day and she is feeling unattractive and then you come along and give her feelings that she is pretty. Or she is having a bad day and someone at her job does something that puts her in a state of feeling unappreciated and then YOU make her feel extremely appreciated (meaning you send messages that you value her) This is the SWING.
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How would this affect her state of mind? Remember the CR James Basic Seduction Equation: First Part: She needs to be in the right state of mind for sex. Second Part: She needs to perceive you as having sexual value. Third Part: And there has to be an ideal sexual environment (according to her) When you satisfy those three conditions, SEX is engineered. So this SWING has everything to do with getting her in the right state of mind. So fast-forward for a second (and we will rewind back to normal speed). IN THE FUTURE: You successfully engineer sex and it comes shortly after she is in an extreme state of feeling special (i.e. love, pretty, appreciated, etc.) THE SWING BONUS AFFECT: What do you think is going to happen if you keep doing this? What do you think (you have permission to speculate) is going to happen when she starts to experience these states on her own or at random? Are you familiar with Anchoring? Think about why a dogs unconscious mind will make his mouth water just from you opening up a cabinet door (where his food is kept) in the kitchen. All levels of existence are trained (intentionally or unintentionally) by recognizing (unconsciously or consciously) patterns. Think about what happens when you open up the lid to a fish tank. When a female pulls my pants off and gives me a seductive smile, I am going to produce an erection plain and simple. It is not like I am consciously commanding my penis to erect! For instance: I just shouted PENIS ERECT!! And nothing happened! (i.e. I didnt get an erection at all) However when a female takes my pants off and gives me a seductive smile, my unconscious mind knows that sex is about to take place. My unconscious recognizes that every time a woman has done done this in the past, sex took place shortly after. Just like a dogs mouth that waters shortly after you open up the cabinet door.
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The unconscious mind is powerful. You already know this. It drives us. So now I ask you again: BONUS AFFECT: What do you think is going to happen if you keep doing this (The Swing Technique)? What do you think is going to happen when she starts to experience these states (extreme shifts) on her own or at random and sex happens shortly after? Lets move on I mention that it is good to mix in some extreme over-confidence. If you recall this was said in the very beginning. Understand that it really isnt necessary. The purpose for pretending to be the most confident man that ever walked the earth is to ensure that your sexual value (the second part of the equation) would be enough at this time. Every time she re-thinks in her head your bizarre over confident statements she has no choice but to get the SIGNAL that you are confident of yourself (regardless of how silly she thinks it is). Increasing your self-confidence will help increase your sexual value. Thats why I happily accepted the comments that I am childish and that I an ass. She does not have to believe the actual words of my comments. She just needs to believe that I believe the actual words. BONUS QUESTION (For 500 gold coins) What is easier to do: 1. Convince someone that you can beat up 10 men at once. 2. Convince someone that you believe that you can beat up 10 men at once. Are you aware at how things are starting to fit together like a powerful seductive puzzle? Before I proceed, think about this: What would happen if you got a female to say this to herself: I wonder how this man is going to seduce me? Think about it. What if you convinced her that you believed that you were about to seduce her in this magical mysterious way?
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What would happened if one day out of the blue, you got your woman to obsess about HOW you were going to seduce her later on. Her: I wonder exactly how he is going to seduce me? She can say it sarcastically. She can say it in disbelief. She can say it happily. Either way, do you think she is unconsciously sending herself a powerful message that benefits you (and she)? Lets move and return to the main parts of this technique When the woman is in Ill punish him by not giving him sex mode they are actually in a mode where there are extremely motivated to not have sex with you. Logic tells you that this is the WORST mind frame to have her in. Right? Here is the problem. Logic is a very close friend of mine. I met him early in grade school and we have been hanging out ever since! He has helped me through exams and many of lifes problems, so I cherish and value his friendship! I actually love him like a brother. But recently we got in a heated argument actually I was the only one pissed, he just sat there with a blank emotion-less look on his face but we did get in an argument but the way, his advice on women is worthless!!! He thinks he knows everything, but many women ignore him so why listen to him about women, right? Anyway he was trying to tell me that the last thing a guy wants is to be in a room with a woman that is MOTIVATED to not have sex with you. Here is the conversation that took place on October 28, 2004 between me and my friend: [And at this point we are moving closer to learning how easy it is to reverse the equation] LOGIC: The last thing a guy wants is to be in a room with a woman that is EXTREMELY MOTIVATED to not have sex with you. ME: I disagree. I think this is one of the best frame of minds to have her in! Remember she isnt extremely motivated to not have sex with the worlds geekiest guy. Think of characters or types of people who have ZERO sexual value. Do you think she is extremely motivated to not have sex with the crack head that is downtown? Do you think she is saying to herself Im definitely not going to sleep with any crack heads today!! How often does she have that conversation with herself? Think about why a woman says: Im definitely not going to sleep him!
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Basically, the greater her intensity to not have sex with you the better! Because if you reverse the equation this intensity represents the factor in which she will be horny (or sexually inspired). Basically the equation is simple: The CR JAMES SUPER, SUPER, SUPER, DUPER HORNY EQUATION FOR THE HATE/LOVE SWING POWER SEDUCTION TECHNIQUE (as you can tell I am still in Im the most confident guy to ever walk the planet mode.
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This is important as you analyze the equation:
The Intensity to Not Have Sex With You + Your Sexual Value _______________________________________ The Level of her Horniness
Thats why it is important to be super confident while she is hating you and while she is loving you and during the whole phase. You will discover that it is not hard at all to act super confident. You will discover that suddenly acting super confident is fun. You will discover that acting super confident is beneficial in sending the message that you have sexual value. This ingredient provides you that by increasing the perception of your short term sexual value. LOGIC: Who the hell are you talking to??? And where is the $500 dollars you owe me!! [end of conversation actually this was a fictional conversation. My friend Logic is not really a person. But Im sure he has already told you that.] If you ever observe a womans face during this state of mind (not wanting to have sex with you), you will quickly discover that she is experiencing an amazing sense of power. To me, I think many women experience a great sense of power when the man is at their mercy. They love having power over a man. They often feel weak in comparison to men on many levels (some real, some not) so having power over a strong man must mean something for her. Is a humans greatest motivation, staying alive? Im not going to say that men KEEP women alive, but the reality is women feel safe in the presence of a man. How valuable are we to them? When a man is in a situation where she is controlling him meaning she has all of the power (long term power and overall power), he is a victim of an illusion! Virtual Vagina Value = Perceived Pussy Power My point is you must not fall for the illusion.
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She wants you to have the long-term power (control). She does not necessarily want to be controlled. But you need to be IN CONTROL. If she perceives you as weak or not man enough or not in control! You will not have enough (if any) sexual value to perform any seduction technique. Earlier I told you that having her extremely motivated to not have sex with you was a good thing, because all you have to do is reverse the equation Before we put everything together, think about this question: Have you ever noticed how some women have to be in a relationship at all times? Does that reveal the VALUE a guy must mean to them? What does logic tell you? Sometimes you should listen to Logic. I ignored him recently. I bet him $500 dollars that the Ravens would beat the Patriots. I lost. Heres the deal: women crave and truly value men. This is good. But if she sees you as more valuable than you believe you are, you actually have more power than you realize. What does that mean? It simply means that there is no excuse to be powerless in a relationship. There are no exceptions. There are no excuses. An observation: Women that have a history of always being in a relationship (at all times) tend to know how to quickly gain power in a relationship. Lets move on Watch how the equation gets reversed. Watch how I steal the short-term power like a thief in the night! Recap: She told me NO! She wasnt going to give me sex and then she laughed. She was celebrating the fact that she was getting me back for being an ass earlier. Recap: I already told you she has a history of craving the feelings of wanting to prove people wrong. Shes competitive. Recap: Also when she said NO, I never let her know that this phased me, so she is STILL craving her feeling.
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And since she is celebrating the fact that she is rejecting me and since it is important for her to teach people a lesson, I can conclude that: She is highly motivated to NOT have sex with me. Trust me, it was obvious. BUT she STILL needs and craves certain feelings: The feeling to prove me wrong. The feeling to seek revenge. The feeling to teach me a lesson. The feeling of winning. These feelings provide her with a sense of power (short-term) over a man (this magnifies it for her). Here is how the equation got reversed: [So far she is STILL craving the power I denied her] So what I did next was I kept requesting for her to come in the bedroom so that we could have sex. Only I did it in an arrogant I really could care less if you come back here type of mindset. I just wanted her to think: There is no way he really wants sex. Im not prepared to say women think backwards. And that they tend to do the opposite of what you want. But I do know that it would also be taboo for her to have sex with me at this point. I am the short-term version of a guy she is not allowed to sleep with. Along with denying her of the cravings (feelings) she is seeking, she is constantly telling herself that she is not going to sleep with me - on some level of consciousness. Think about what that process within itself actually does. [Guilty Guy pisses on himself] I gave her a reason WHY (very important). When she did come in the room. I pretended to be extremely hard at work. I knew that if she came back in the room and saw that I was extremely busy. She would say: That is the reason WHY he doesnt want sex. Recap: She is in competitive mode. (Thanks to yours truly) So any perceived victory for me is a perceived lost for her! Are you starting to see how the equation is getting reversed?
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[Guilty Guy yells at wife for losing the mop.] So if she thinks I am getting what I want (to be left alone, because I am allegedly busy), then she may see that as a loss of power. Remember she still has a craving of power! NORMALLY she would just leave me alone. But remember she is determined to win. By the way, do you see how the battle was easily created? Playful (or not-so-playful) Power Struggles can easily build sexual tension. Oh yeah: About three months prior, I installed a memory in her head. I thought about the affects it would have on her. I was feeling silly. I told her that I was hoping like crazy that she wouldnt want sex the previous night because I had a lot of work to do! Keep in mind, neither one of us probably wasnt even thinking of sex that night. But when I told her that she had the demeanor of someone that was just sexually rejected! [Guilty Guy signs for his package of blades] She doesnt want to lose. Women do not like to be outsmarted by guys. Women get a kick out the commercials and TV shows that portray guys as dumb husbands. At this point she is refusing to come back in the room. But Im actually sarcastically begging her to come back in the room. So now I just want to act super confident (again) while sending the message that Im not even really trying to have sex. Im just acting silly. All of this worked like a charm. My last comment was if you dont come back here right now, I will be forced to use my Super Seduction Technique that I have been waiting 3 years to use! Again, I can not foretell irony, but as soon as I said that she came in the bedroom! And she was beyond turned on! I expected this to work but not this good! At first, she looked as if she was waiting for something. And at this point I really acted like I just wanted to be left alone. I was acting like I was begging for sex in a sarcastic tone that suggested that I was either amusing myself or I was seeking to be left alone. She immediately came over to where I was and proceeded to throw me on the bed. She was so horny it was mind-blowing!
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I know for a fact that she initially wanted to prove me wrong but she could not take it anymore! The rest was history. Oh yeah and when I was done I whispered in her ear I told you daddy would get some! She just smiled. I will say with all honesty I was shocked when she came back in the room that horny! I honestly figured that she would be too stubborn to give in (even if she became turned on). With that said and hopefully you are already aware of this you must stick to the plan. Women instinctively send mix messages, so in many cases it may feel like nothing is happening. Trust me a lot is happening! The more you are aware of her unconscious lust buttons, the more you will get a sense of what is really happening. Many women love to hide their horniness. Youll notice that they tend to do enough to fire you up and then wait for you to take over, which isnt a bad thing. In theory I knew it should work, but it really didnt seem like she was going to go against her word. In other words, I had no idea that this was one of her unconscious lust buttons. All I knew was: She told me she ended up sleeping with guy that she hated. And I discovered that she hated this guy mainly because he was extremely arrogant. As a note, if you have ever done a particular thing that caused her to punish you by withholding sex thats a great place to start! Do it again, but this time amplify it. (Because in her mind, she may think she has trained you to never do that action again.) She needs to see that you are completely unfazed by her attempts to punish or gain control. Lets break it down. It is so simple its insane. (Ive done it again since then a little differently) Did you know: That this is not tricking her into sex. It is all fair game. Tricking a woman into sex involves using sex as a bargaining tool in which case she really doesnt want to have sex. And afterwards she ends up feeling used. Trust me this is a lust cultivator. You will press her lust buttons.
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So when you really start to see her getting turned on, do not feel guilty about what youve done. And always remember that she gets something out of sex, too this will allow you to realize how much value you have. If you let her maintain the illusion, she will easily convince you that she controls sex. Whether she is purposely or instinctively maintaining the illusion, you need to reverse the source of the illusion: A fun little bonus technique: Women sometimes view sex as them giving it to you. Guys easily fall for the trap. And again she may not even be doing it on purpose. Heres a little technique that reverses the source of the illusion and youll have fun doing it. Whenever you are talking to her about having sex, switch it around so that the wording suggests that you are giving her some. (Youll noticed that I didnt exactly follow this rule, but trust me its powerful) And every time you refer to sex, switch up the wording, so that her unconscious is programmed. [The unconscious mind is programmed through repetition.] For instance: INSTEAD OF SAYING: So honey, how old were you when you first had sex? SAY: So honey, how old were you when a guy first gave you sex? Do not worry if she picks up on your change in wording. Just keep doing it even if she thinks its funny.
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Requirements for: The HATE/LOVE Swing Power Seduction Technique

As you understand this formula, you will realize how simple it is. A. You must have the ability to recognize when she naturally gets pissed off at you so that you can start putting everything in motion. B. You must have the ability to cheer her up and to go into playful mode with her. Going from HATE to LOVE is your primary seductive fuel source. (The energy comes from the transition) C. You must have the ability to be comfortable enough to act extremely confident without being highly concerned with her evaluations. NEVER FORGET THIS: You will always pick up a bunch of Sexual Value Points when you have the courage to show her that you are not concerned with what she thinks about you. Element C is really about establishing sexual value. D. You must have the ability to create a seductive environment (i.e candles, music or whatever she likes). As you can tell some of these elements alone will be enough to for you to give her sex. Also remember there are many types of SWINGS (i.e. Unappreciated => Appreciated, Unattractive => Attractive, etc.) SWING is the energy created from the change/shift in extreme emotional states that will be converted into sexual energy.
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Requirements for: The Seductive Equation-Reverse Strategy

You must have the ability to get her in a challenging Im not going to let you win type of mindset. THIS IS THE DEAL SEALER! As you can probably tell, you do not need the HATE/LOVE technique to perform this. Because the second she says something that reveals she is in that mindset it is super easy to make her want to be motivated even more to not have sex with you or to punish you by not allowing you sex. You already know that women do not like to be outsmarted. You already know that she wants to battle and oppose you because this protects her from being outsmarted. This is great. With this super amazing valuable information, all you have to do is reverse the equation and shell push herself in the direction that you want her to go! In other words, it is the seductive equivalent of playing tug-o-war with her except when you let go of the rope (her perceived victory) she falls backwards on the bed propelling you forward onto the bed as well!
Did you know: That women love Make-Up sex
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Hate/Love Technique [Summary: The basics] 1. She Hates You Intensely (best if induced via Extreme Arrogance). 2. She Loves You Intensely (best if induced via playfulness). 3. Sex is initiated (best if the sexual environment is to her liking). Equation-Reverse Strategy [Summary: The basics] 1. Create a subtle competition or power struggle (best if she expects to win). 2. Get her extremely close to a victory (best if the victory provides her with feelings of power based on something that drives her existence*). 3. Message Above: Get her to think Wow for someone who should be happy about having sex, he sure is acting strange. Im getting the impression that he could care less about sex. In fact there is no way he really wants sex. Thats odd. (best if you are really prepared not to have sex**) The Combination of Hate/Love and Equation-Reverse 1. She Hates You Intensely. 2. Get her intensely motivated to not want to have sex with you (via a subtle competition or power struggle). 3. She Loves You Intensely (best if induced via playfulness). 4. Get her extremely close to a victory (best if the victory provides her with feelings of power based on something that drives her existence*). 5. Message Above: Get her to think Wow for someone who should be happy about having sex, he sure is acting strange. Im getting the impression that he could care less about sex. In fact there is no way he really wants sex. Thats odd. (best if you are really prepared not to have sex**)
* Find out what really motivates her. Ask her to tell you (or recall) real life stories. As she tells you the stories look for feelings that she craves. What did she get out of her success stories (on an emotional level, on a power level)? ** Do whatever you have to convince yourself that you really dont want sex and that you are more concerned with sending the Message Above. Really be prepared not to have sex. Unfortunately, you have no current control over your current sexual value simply meaning you can not control the past. And her craving converting into sex will depend on your current sexual value. BUT, you do have control over your future sexual value. Look at it more as a win-win situation. Because there is nothing on the planet she can do to stop you from sending that Message Above which will lead to an increase in your future sexual value. Worse case scenario, she ruins your desires by actually wanting to have sex with you. You giving her sex will depend on your current sexual value.
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Remember: The seductive fuel in the Hate/Love Technique is the transition in emotional extremes. Also Remember: The seductive fuel in the Equation-Reverse is the craving to be in control.
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Final Notes: Note: The transition does not have to take place in one day. If she has been upset with you for a few days, you may want to give her a few days of positive, loving feelings. It may be possible to do it in even shorter durations. You could end up executing this within hours or minutes - seriously. Note: The transition doesnt have to be one cycle from hate to love. It could be from hate to love to hate to love to hate to love, etc (or any two extremes). Note: It doesnt have to be you that is hated! In fact, you may see how it may be even more powerful if she is the one that is experiencing feelings that she isnt accepted. But the reason should be real. The final state would be you accepting her (return of love). Just make sure that the sex isnt guilt-induced. Note: Sexual Value is an amazing thing. And as you may already know, you can be the best looking guy on earth and still have zero sexual value. You can please her like she has never been pleased, but just the fact that in her mind she thinks she can get sex from you whenever she wants could decrease your sexual value (think of supply and demand). A guy could look like a troll but if a woman is in an environment where she sees other women screaming over him, she could end up wanting to screw his brains out, too (think of some rock stars). Note: If you want to create an intense desire in her, get her as close as possible to whatever the craving for power. It is one thing to say I was about to go to the store and buy you a chocolate cake but I changed my mind so you cant have it (desire level = 2.5). It is another more intense thing to have a slice of chocolate cake (or her favorite thing to eat) on a fork, millimeters away from entering her mouth (and under her nose), and pulling it away saying you cant have it (desire level = 9.9). Notice in the example above my fianc was milliseconds away from fulfilling her craving for power (i.e. observing me upset and defeated because she initially happily told me she wasnt going to have sex with me) but I basically said, you cant have it (the power). You can always and easily reverse the equation and convert the intense craving for power (or a battle) into sex, because her craving is intense and it never leaves until she feeds it. Note: Many women can have a conscious desire (on the surface) not to sleep with a guy (i.e he is an arrogant asshole, she hates him, etc). But deep down there is an attraction they are not aware of an unconscious attraction. The unconscious mind and conscious mind do not have to agree. Any time you observe a person that tells himself he will stop doing a particular habit (i.e drinking, smoking, over-eating) yet he continues to actually do the opposite, then that is a clear example of someone whos conscious decisions are not in alignment with his unconscious decisions.
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Note: Do not assume that all women will have a gut-level attraction for the super confident guy. One of the main messages that you should get from this is that you can affect her on a level that she may not be aware of. Final Note: Women do have a tendency to be attracted to qualities/energies that she seeks to see in herself. Since it does appear that womens emotions fluctuate more rapidly than ours and as a result even the prettiest woman can feel unattractive at times many women are attracted to a guy that is in control, sure of himself and confident. Find out the type of people, celebrities (male or female) that she admires. Take on those qualities and watch how well she responds to you - even if its a female. If your wife watches Oprah, think about the positive qualities Oprah has that your wife wants to see in herself. Whether they are male or female, think about all the people that she admires. Think about what they have in common. You could even ask her why she admires them, but just understand that she may not really know what she admires in the person meaning it could be an unconscious attraction. And always get her to tell you about her sexual fantasies, past sexual experiences, personal victories, her motivations (if she is aware of them), etc. Press her Unconscious Lust Buttons.
Warmly, Charltez James SuperHappySex.com PS: I hope you not only enjoyed it, but benefit from it. I appreciate you taking the time to read it. My hope is that I have my things clear and understandable for you which can be challenging for me at times. Take Care. If something isnt clear, just let me know. Ill do my best to clear it up for you: chawtez@yahoo.com
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