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These are the thoughts of two people who are depressed: I feel so alone, I never see my friends now, I guess they have dropped me. They probably dont like me - who would? There is no point in making any effort. It doesnt pay off ... I just hate myself. I feel like crying all the time, I am so tired and cant get interested in anything. In fact I dont even get started with jobs I should be doing, I cant even do basic things that seem so easy to other people ... You may have had similar thoughts yourself. Depression is a very common problem and many people feel low or down in the dumps at times. This is often due to life stresses such as bereavement, money or housing problems or difficulties in relationships. For some people the problem becomes much worse and gets in the way of normal life.
The caring parent who thinks they have lost interest in their children
The person who thinks that they are useless because they have lost their job.
People who are depressed typically have these thoughts and at the time they believe them to be true. When someones thoughts change like this, they also begin to experience other changes.
These are some of the signs or symptoms that you may experience if you are depressed:
Thoughts
Losing confidence in yourself Expecting the worst and having negative or gloomy thoughts Thinking that everything seems hopeless Thinking you hate yourself Poor memory or concentration
Behaviour
Having difficulty in making decisions Cant be bothered to do everyday tasks Putting things off Not doing things you used to enjoy If you have ticked many of these boxes then you may be experiencing low mood or depression. When youre depressed you may believe that youre helpless and alone in the world; you often blame yourself for all the shortcomings that you think you have. At the bottom of all this you feel negative about yourself, about the world and about the
future. So you tend to lose interest in whats going on around you and you dont get any satisfaction out of the things you used to enjoy. It can become hard to make decisions or to carry out little tasks that you once did with no problem at all.
In Summary
Research now tells us that gloomy thoughts play an important role in depression. When someone is depressed there are usually changes in the way they feel - their emotions, how their body reacts, what they think and how they behave.
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Can I recognise these gloomy thoughts? When you are feeling low the gloomy thoughts may be so familiar and happen so often to you that you just accept them as fact. Gloomy thoughts are often about you, for example: Im no good, People dont like me, Im a bad mixer, I look ugly. Do you have any gloomy thoughts about yourself? Jot them down:
These thoughts are sometimes about other things such as the world around you or the future. For example: People are unkind, the world is a horrible place, nothing will work out well. Do you have any gloomy thoughts about other things? Jot them down.
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Exaggerating the negative: This means you think things are much worse than they really are. For example you make a small mistake at work and fear that you may be dismissed because of it. In other words you jump to a gloomy conclusion and believe that it is likely to happen. You may spend a long time worrying that you have upset a friend only to find later she didnt even remember the comment.
Do you ever exaggerate the negative? Think back over the last 2 weeks and list examples:
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Over generalising: For example, if one person doesnt get on with you, you may think no one likes me. If one of your many daily tasks hasnt been finished you think Ive achieved nothing nothing has been done. In other words from one thing that has happened to you, you draw a negative conclusion which is much bigger and covers all sorts of things.
Do you ever over generalise? Think back over the last 2 weeks and list examples:
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Ignoring the positive: People who are depressed tend to focus their thinking on negative or bad events and ignore positive or good events. You might have had a game of football and missed the goal once, but played well in general. After the game you just think about that one missed shot and not the rest of the game played well. You may have many good friends who you have known for years but you concentrate and worry about one that has fallen out with you rather than remembering all the other good friendships.
Do you sometimes ignore the positive? Jot down some examples from the last 2 weeks:
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Taking things personally: Often if our mood is low we blame ourselves for anything which goes wrong, even if things have nothing to do with us in reality. For example, you go into a local shop and the assistant who knows you is off-hand, your automatic thought is she doesnt like me ... ... have I done something wrong? But the most likely reason is that shes tired or upset or has had a bad day. In this example you have taken the blame personally.
Do you sometimes take things personally when they probably have little to do with you? Give some examples from the last 2 weeks:
In Summary
When people are depressed they often have gloomy or unhelpful thoughts about themselves, the world and the future. They can also make errors in the way they think. They exaggerate the negative, over generalise bad events, ignore positives in their lives and can take things personally. It is important to uncover gloomy thoughts and errors in thinking.
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to us getting depressed. In this section we will look at practical steps to help to overcome depressive feelings and thoughts.
Positive Steps
Take Exercise
List Things to Do
Join In Activities
Relax
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List some exercise or activities that you could do. This can be as simple as a brisk walk; or doing a crossword with someone:
Try to fill in this action plan and continue with similar ones: Monday 9 - 11 am Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday
11 am 1 pm
1-3 pm
3-5 pm
5-7 pm
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Use a relaxation technique regularly Excessive worrying can lead to a disturbance in sleep pattern which in turn causes more symptoms of depression the following day. Some of the most important steps to take towards recovery are those which promote relaxation and reduce worrying. One way of doing this is through the regular use of a relaxation CD. Relaxation CDs which use guided imagery or progressive muscle relaxation can be bought online and in some bookshops. A simple and effective relaxation technique is outlined below.
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This technique is good for instant relaxation too. Just do it a few times, wherever you are, if you feel so wound up that you cant make a simple decision, or are nervous. (if you find it easier, substitute 3/5 for 7/11. The important thing is that your out-breaths last longer than your in-breaths). For more information visit www.humangivens.com or turn to the booklist at the back of this leaflet
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Most people are normally only aware of A and C. Lets look at an example. Suppose someone at work criticises you for a piece of work you have done. A. The event criticism. You may feel hurt and embarrassed. B. Your thoughts He thinks Im no good at my job, and hes right Im hopeless, I shouldnt be in this job. C. Your feelings hurt, embarrassed. But what are you thinking about? You may need to concentrate to discover this. How depressing! No wonder you feel bad! The important point about trying to become aware of these three stages A, B and C is that we can change what we think about an event and therefore we can change how we feel about it.
Balancing
A useful technique to try is called balancing. When you have a negative, critical thought, balance it out by making a more positive statement to yourself. For example: The thought: Im no good at my job, could be balanced with: my boss said how much he appreciated the piece of work I did yesterday.
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Event Example:
A neighbour ignored me
Your Example:
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In Summary
Using a daily plan, mastery and achievement notes and keeping a diary of automatic thoughts and more balanced thoughts can help you to fight depression and the gloomy thoughts that go with it. Solving difficult problems Sometimes we feel overwhelmed by the very complicated and difficult things we have to do. One thing which helps with this sort of problem is to write down each of the steps which you have to take in order to complete the job then tackle one step at a time. Problem solving can seem more difficult when you feel depressed. If you have a particular difficult problem, try and look back to times when you may have successfully solved similar problems and use the same approach. Or ask a friend what they would do in a similar situation. Be clear. Write down all your possible options. Use brainstorming where even apparently silly or impossible solutions are written down to be considered. Choose the best approach. Try this way of problem solving yourself. What is the problem? (Write it down):
List all sorts of solutions (brainstorming). Remember how you may have solved similar problems in the past. What would your friends advise?
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longstanding illness, chronic financial problems or isolation. Sometimes several of these events happen together and depression can result. In time, most people bounce back, but it may be hard to do this without help.
Further help
We hope you will use the exercises suggested in this booklet. They should help you to begin to overcome your depression and get back control over your thoughts and your life. If you feel that you are making little progress then other help is available to aid you in overcoming your problem. Your family doctor is the best person to talk to first. He may suggest a talking treatment or antidepressant tablets or both. He may suggest you see a mental health worker who can offer expert help with your problems. If you feel so depressed that thoughts of harming yourself have been in your mind then visit your doctor as soon as possible and tell him how you are feeling.
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that have helped thousands of people conquer depression, panic attacks, anxiety, anger, guilt, shame, low self-esteem, eating disorders, substance abuse, and relationship problems.
Serious depression can make the world a hostile place, full of frustration and disappointment. This internationally acclaimed book explains what is known about all kinds of depression and shows how mind and body can interact to provoke it. The book is in three sections: the first explains the causes of depression, the second provides step-by-step strategies and the third considers related issues such as shame, anger, approval, perfectionism and guilt.
This book explains depression, outlines the common and not so common signs, looks at some of the theories to explain depression and provides those affected with some useful tools to help deal with it. Important issues that relate to partners and families are also addressed.
Depression: Help yourself back to health by Netdoctor Help Yourself ISBN 0-340-78683-3
This book is part of the Net Doctor series and explains what depression is, the causes of depression and anxiety, recognising depression, pregnancy and post natal depression, suicide and deliberate self harm and treating depression.
Human Givens Approach How to lift depression ...Fast (The Human Givens Approach) by Joe Griffin and Ivan Tyrrell
HG Publishing ISBN: 1899398414
Griffin and Tyrrell are the foremost teachers of effective psychotherapy for depression in Europe. Without psychobabble, false sentiment or jargon, they make it easy to understand the causes of depression and why so many of us are so vulnerable to it. More importantly, they describe how to overcome it.
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Rlaxation CD
Complete Relaxation (Audio CD) by Glenn Harrold
Diviniti Publishing ISBN: 1901923215
This high quality hypnosis CD combines hypnotherapy techniques with state of the art digital recording technology. It features: a pleasant voice guiding the listener into a completely relaxed state of mind and body and powerful subliminal suggestions. The CD Guides the listener into a magical healing garden with a beautiful stream.
The Classic mind/body approach that has helped millions conquer the harmful effects of stress. The Relaxation Response is one of the most widely read and recommended books written on the subject of self-care and stress management. It has been reprinted thirty-eight times and has sold over four million copies worldwide. Many people have heard of the fight-or-flight response; a physical ability to react to stress. Herbert Benson suggests that the body also has a relaxation response, a physical and mental state of calm. He shows that the relaxation response can be easily achieved by following simple guidelines known as the Benson Technique.
This book will aid readers to understand their condition, and, armed with new knowledge, to break out of the vicious circle of negative self-image, learn the art of self-acceptance and alter their lives for the better. 'Well written in a way that couches sound cognitive behavioral strategies in terms that avoid technical jargon.' European Eating Disorders Review
Changing for Good by James Prochaska, John Norcross & Carlo Diclemente Morrow William & Co ISBN 038072572X
To uncover the secret to successful personal change, three acclaimed psychologists studied more than 1000 people who were able to positively and permanently alter their lives without psychotherapy. They discovered that change does not depend on luck or willpower. It is a process that can be successfully managed by anyone who understands how it works.
The Confidence Plan: Essential Steps to a New You by Sarah Litvinoff BBC Active ISBN: 0563487631
Confidence is a much sought after, but often elusive, quality. Most of us are confident in some aspects of our lives and in these areas we generally take it for granted but when we feel self doubt we start to question ourselves. In concise steps this book offers the complete guide to
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enjoying a confident life through easy to-use techniques and the most up-todate strategies.
Breaking the Bonds. Understanding Depression, Finding Freedom by Dorothy Rowe Harper-Collins ISBN 0-00637565-0
As well as discussing the meaning of depression, examining why it is hard to effect change, and describing the journey towards freedom from depression, the author also looks at other interpretations of depression, and at the way drugs are often wrongfully used. Dorothy Rowes is the calm voice of reason in an increasingly mad world SUE TOWNSEND
A Woman in Your Own Right: Assertiveness and You by Ann Dickson Quartet ISBN 0704334208
Ann Dickson defines assertiveness as the art of clear language and direct communication. An assertiveness approach builds selfesteem and strengthens our abilities to make our own choices in life by helping us to manage the anxiety and stress of communication in different situations. Instead of being governed by the need to either please or blame others, assertiveness teaches us to take responsibility for our own feelings and behaviour.
This is a readable reference source of essential information for professionals and anyone taking psychiatric drugs including detailed information about antidepressants. The major drug categories are listed and the clinical uses, modes of action and side-effects of drugs in each category are described. Specially designed to facilitate the knowledgeable exchange of information between practitioners and service-users.
Other resources
Depression Alliance support group - monthly meetings in Birmingham - call Jo for details 07879 222 374. www.depressionalliance.org Samaritans National - 08457 90 90 90 Birmingham - 666 6644 Solihull - 704 2255
Focus Line - free telephone support for anyone affected by mental health issues - 0800 027 2127 Living Life To The Full - free online CBT course www.livinglifetothefull.com MIND - information line - 0845 766 0163 and online resources www.mind.org.uk Womens Support Service (MIND in Birmingham) - regular support groups. Having difficulty coping and feel socially isolated? Call 386 5537 St Martins Centre for Health And Healing - counselling for individuals and couples - 600 6026 Carrs Lane Counselling Centre - 643 6363 Cruse Bereavement Care - support following the death of someone close - 687 8010 Day by Day Helpline - 0844 477 9400 www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk Open Door Youth Counselling - counselling for people between the ages of 12 and 26 - 454 1102 South Birmingham Primary Care Psychology Service - for individuals and families - 678 3400 Aquarius - for people affected by alcohol problems - 414 0888 Turning Point (Drugline) - counselling, drop in, telephone helpline - 632 6363 Birmingham Carers Association - information and resource service for carers - 686 4060 NHS Direct - telephone health line and authoritative health website - 0845 4647 www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk Patient Self-Management Programme - assistance for people living with long-term health conditions 325 6054
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Acknowledgements. Adapted from an original leaflet by the Department of Psychological Services and Research, Newcastle, North Tyneside & Northumberland Mental Health NHS Trust. This edition: South East Birmingham Primary Care Mental Health Team (April 2007).
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